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    Dear Therapist: My Husband and I Don't Have Sex Anymore

    I miss the closeness we had before our baby was born.
    by Lori Gottlieb Jul 22, 2019 6 minutes
    Source: BIANCA BAGNARELLI

    Editor’s Note: Every Monday, Lori Gottlieb answers questions from readers about their problems, big and small. Have a question? Email her at dear.therapist@theatlantic.com.

    Dear Therapist,

    My husband and I have been married for three years. It was like a whirlwind of romance when we first met, and we couldn’t keep our hands off each other. We moved in together after just six months and were engaged after one year of being together. We got married two years later and I got pregnant soon after.

    Our sex was always good before I got pregnant. When our baby was born, my husband had postnatal depression and I had to keep everything together. I was finding it hard inside, but just had to act strong for the both of us. That really put a strain on our marriage.

    Our beautiful baby boy is now 15 months old and we never have sex. Our son has just started to sleep

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