ASK HER ANYTHING
—ERIC, New Haven, CT
Did you binge in quarantine? You don’t need to visit a sex dungeon to explore your submissive side; start by venturing into “power play” with just your imagination. Try role-playing in which you’re the servant to your partner’s king or queen. Simply asking for permission to touch them (or yourself) puts the reins in your partner’s hands. If they’re into it,
