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    You're the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don't Give
    You're the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don't Give
    You're the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don't Give
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    You're the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don't Give

    By Tonja Wicks

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    It’s time that women take responsibility for their part in the failing of their relationships. Don’t get mad at us for telling the truth the men tell us... Get empowered to turn your relationship around and thus your life. The power to change your relationship lies with you.

    By picking up this book you’ve taken the first step to having a better relationship- full of love, respect and great sex. In the book, we give you proven methods-- we call them the “the 3 Fs” --to keep your mate from cheating or, if you believe he has already started, to get him to stop and cheat back with you. If you make a few changes to yourself and the way you talk and touch your mate, you will NOT be the reason your man cheats.

    The characters and scenarios in the book are real. You’ll probably find that you identify with at least one character. You will laugh, shout and enjoy the journey toward happiness and joy in your relationship.

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherTonja Wicks
    Release dateDec 11, 2012
    ISBN9781301195411
    You're the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don't Give
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    Tonja Wicks

    With decades of experience providing coaching in the areas of relationships, career development, and spiritual evolvement, these authors are now sharing their expertise in written form for all to enjoy. The key to happiness is love.

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      Pure garbage. Just another pick me dancing victim blaming book aimed at feeding off of desparate insecure women that will do everything and anything to keep the cheating loser they picked instead of putting him on the curb with the rest of the trash.

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    You're the Reason Your Man Cheats - Tonja Wicks

    You’re The Reason Your Man Cheats:

    What Men Need and Women Don’t Give

    Constance Turner and Tonja Wicks

    Copyright 2014 Constance Turner and Tonja Wicks

    Smashwords Edition

    This ebook is licensed for your personal enjoyment only. This ebook may not be re-sold or given away to other people. If you would like to share this ebook with another person, please purchase an additional copy for each recipient. If you’re reading this ebook and did not purchase it, or it was not purchased for your use only, then please purchase your own copy. Thank you for respecting the hard work of this author.

    Table of Contents

    Foreword

    Introduction

    Chapter 1 Disclaimers: Are We Talking About Your Man?

    Chapter 2 You Believed The Fairytale

    Chapter 3 The Facts Are The Facts

    Chapter 4 Remember What You Did To Catch Him

    Chapter 5 What’s Your Excuse? Take The Love Exercise

    Chapter 6 These Are Not The Rules—Just The 4 Realities

    Chapter 7 Do You Blame Him For Trying To Get Away?

    Chapter 8 When You Find Out He’s Cheating

    Chapter 9 Stop Him From Cheating

    Chapter 10 Get Your Man To Cheat With You: Implement The 3 Fs Of The Love Strategy

    Chapter 11 When It’s Over It’s Over

    Chapter 12 The Choice Is Yours: A Gal Named Nikki

    Foreword

    The title was meant to evoke reaction, grab your attention and begin a discussion many women neglect to have with themselves, other women, and importantly, their man. You can have the love of your life and relationship of your dreams if you're willing to reach for it.

    But, first, you must know what men are thinking. Secondly, you must know what men want. And thirdly, and most importantly, you must know what you want. In the book, You're the Reason Your Man Cheats: What Men Want and Women Don't Give, we provide answers to each question. We provide proven strategies that will help you attract, get and keep the man of your dreams. We call them the 3Fs of the Love Strategy. We bring both the male and female perspective in a single read.

    Are women blaming other women for men cheating? The simple answer is YES. But not so fast! Don't get mad at us for telling the truth the men are telling us. The four men we feature in the book tell their stories of why they cheat or don’t cheat. If you listen to the men, take our quick Love Exercise and implement the 3Fs of our Love Strategy, you won't be the reason your man cheats...

    You are NOT the reason but you are the solution to finding a loving, lasting and fulfilling relationship.

    This book is just what the doctor ordered but without the leather couch and high-priced hourly fee. This is a quick and easy read for both sexes. We all have so many demands on our time. You don’t have to read a voluminous book to get the message, which is why we wrote a book that can fit in your purse or trouser pocket, read on the subway or at lunch, or together with your mate in bed. And yes, this book is for men as well as women. Don't let the title fool you.

    We were created by the Creator to love one another, be loved by one another, and experience love with another. Men and women just want to be loved, feel love, and give love. If these statements are self-evident and true then why are the vehicles for showing love, i.e. marriage and relationships, falling apart? Somewhere in between those absolutes lies old hurts, feelings of inadequacy, societal pressures and demands. We must learn to recognize what is stopping us from having that healthy, happy relationship we all innately desire as human beings. It all starts with us; it starts with you.

    This is why we wrote the book and devoted our energy to helping others restore their relationships, find lasting and happy relationships and single-handedly do our part to lower the divorce rate in America and around the world. This book is as much about the authors as it is about you. Aren’t you tired of men telling us what we should do? While there is immense value in knowing what a man is thinking and feeling, there is a difference in how women receive information and process information. We provide the female perspective as well as the male perspective in a single read.

    There will come a time when everyone has to look in the mirror. The only person you can change is you. And it's not so hard once you get started. It can actually be quite fun and exciting. But first you have to ask yourself are you married to Dick? You'll understand just what we’re asking as you read Chapter 8. The men and their stories are real. If you find yourself in one of these situations now—don't worry. While we do identify the signs and problems, we also offer you strategies for change.

    Be ready for a good laugh, a good cry and a life full of love and great sex.

    Introduction

    If you’re looking for a remake of the book, The Rules or He’s Just Not That In to You, you’ve picked up the wrong book. While we believe those books were appropriate for their time, it is now time to stop sugar-coating the issues and letting women off the hook. So many books have been written to soften the blow for women and make them feel better about themselves while vilifying the men. STOP IT!! This has got to stop if we want to repair our relationships, restore our marriages and develop lasting, loving unions. Women need to take full responsibility for the problems they face. Yes, it is you. You are the reason your man cheats…. We’ll say it again—you’re the reason your man cheats.

    We’re not going to hold your hand through this book. This book is like a literary boot camp for the relationship overweight in relationship hell. We are here to whip your butt into relationship shape and help you understand the part you play in the dysfunction of your relationship. We know you’re tired of being tired, tired of complaining about him, and complaining to him, so much so, that it is weighing you down. As long as you continue to focus on the symptoms of your failed relationship and not address the root causes of the dysfunction, you can’t restore, repair and enjoy a fulfilling relationship with the man you picked. This is the reason he cheats. But the good news is that you’re also the solution to stopping him from cheating or never starting. The decision whether to restore your relationship back to its former days of happiness and bliss or stay stuck in your dysfunction is yours.

    Now don’t get mad at us for telling you the truth that you already know. Let’s take a little test. Most of us celebrate the universal day of love—Valentine’s day. On that day we are given a free pass to tell and show the one that we love

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