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Torn Asunder Workbook: Recovering From an Extramarital Affair
By David Carder
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Based on the principles in the bestselling Torn Asunder—a book that has helped thousands of people survive infidelity—this revised and expanded workbook offers five crucial services for hurting couples:
- Stabilizes the marriage in the initial crisis
- Provides structure for the emotionally volatile environment
- Brings closure to the "old" marriage—the marriage prior to the affair
- Establishes skills necessary for the "new" marriage pattern
- Answers the questions: How could you do this to me? Why did you do it?
The Torn Asunder workbook is built around daily twenty-minute homework exercises, initiated by each spouse on alternating days for ten to fifteen weeks. Working with your spouse might be the last thing you want to do right now, but it’s essential to your long-term recovery, whether or not your marriage survives.
Healing won’t be easy. But the Torn Asunder workbook provides hope, encouragement, and practical advice for the journey. Take the first step today.
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David Carder
Dave Carder es actualmente el pastor responsable de los Ministerios de Consejería y Matrimonio en la Primera Iglesia Evangélica Libre de Fullerton. Supervisa el amplio programa de consejería laica que tiene la iglesia. Tiene diplomas de Literatura Bíblica y licencias para terapia matrimonial y familiar en Michigan y California. Es miembro clínico de la Asociación de Terapeutas de Matrimonio y Familia de California y consultor de diversos grupos de apoyo, entre ellos el llamado COMI (Caregivers of the Mentally Ill) y el llamado Family to Family (el programa de entrenamiento familiar de la NAMI). Ayudó a organizar The Gift Shop, un servicio de ubicación de ministerios voluntarios. Carder también forma parte de las juntas del Centro para Terapia Individual y Familiar, y el Centro de Retiros Marble, en Colorado. Entre sus obras publicadas se encuentran Promesas para comenzar bien el día de los Proverbios, Divididos: La recuperación de una aventura extramatrimonial, Secrets of Your Family Tree, el Torn Asunder Workbook, Steps To A New Beginning (ganador del Premio Medalla de Oro en Evangelismo Personal para el año 1993), y Close Calls: What Adulterers Want You to Know About Protecting Your Marriage.
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