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    6 Principles to Completely Transform Your Marriage into Extraordinary
    6 Principles to Completely Transform Your Marriage into Extraordinary
    6 Principles to Completely Transform Your Marriage into Extraordinary
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    6 Principles to Completely Transform Your Marriage into Extraordinary

    By Peta Jane Kayes

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    Transform your relationship with these 6 simple but powerful rpinciples
    Set your relationship on a solid footing by applying these six simple principles. Relationships take work but the results are well worth it. Wake up to the relationship you desire, and set it up to succeed by doing what too many fail to do - work at their relationship. Use these six principles as a guide to transforming your relationship.
    Discover:
    • What it takes from you to get your relationship to where you want it.
    • Why many relationships experience failure after starting out well.
    • The importance of self-awareness in your relationship.
    • The importance of cultivating in your relationship what is good about you.
    • The importance of being true to who you are in your relationship.
    • The importance of showing and displaying appreciation in your relationship.
    • How actions and attitudes outside and inside the bedroom affect your relationship.
    Download and start enjoying a more satisfying relationship in no time.

    LanguageEnglish
    PublisherPeta Jane Kayes
    Release dateJan 22, 2017
    ISBN9781370590032
    6 Principles to Completely Transform Your Marriage into Extraordinary
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    Peta Jane Kayes

    Relationship and spirituality aficionado. MBA - Human Resource Management.

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      6 Principles to Completely Transform Your Marriage into Extraordinary - Peta Jane Kayes

      6 Principles To Completely Transform Your Marriage Into Extraordinary

      Book 2 of

      the bikini Relationship Rescue

      Series

      Relationship Books For Extraordinary Relationships

      By: Peta Jane Kayes

      Copyright

      First Original Edition, January 2015

      Copyright © 2015, by Peta Jane Kayes, All rights reserved.

      No part of this publication may be reproduced, distributed, or transmitted in any form or by any means, including photocopying, recording, or other electronic or mechanical methods, or by any information storage and retrieval system without the prior written permission of the publisher, except in the case of very brief quotations embodied in critical reviews and certain other noncommercial uses permitted by copyright law.

      Disclaimer

      I have tried to the best of my ability, to recreate events, places and conversations from my memories of them. In order to maintain anonymity in some instances I have changed the names of individuals and places; I may have changed some identifying characteristics and details such as physical properties, occupations and places of residence.

      Some of the stories used in this book are for illustrative purposes and any resemblance to any particular situation or person is purely coincidental.

      This book should not be seen as an attempt to dispense professional advice as I am not a professional counselor. The reader is encouraged to seek the services of a professional where such help is deemed appropriate. The information contained in this book is a reflection of my own personal experiences and should be viewed only as such.

      Smashwords Edition

      About The Bikini Relationship Rescue Series – Book 2

      How would you describe your relationship today –troubled, mundane, ordinary, or extraordinary?

      Have you fallen for the conventional wisdom stuff about relationships that are making your relationship experience troubling, mundane or just ordinary?

      Intimate relationships are supposed to be nothing but extraordinary and exceptional and if yours is not, you should want more, and much more. By the end of this book, not only will your relationship start to experience the extraordinary, you will know that you can indeed have the best relationship you are capable of.

      The Bikini Relationship Rescue book series is one woman's story of how she transformed her own marriage from mundane to extraordinary. Frustrated with the humdrum nature of her marriage, driven by her own heart-felt aspirations and taking inspiration from a chance encounter on a South Florida beach with a beautiful bikini-clad young lady, the author moved her own marriage from mediocre to extraordinary.

      Filled with unconventional insights, personal stories, amusing anecdotes, and compelling illustrations, each book of the series covers different aspects of an intimate relationship and demonstrates transformative strategies.

      Book 2 in the series outlines the six (6) principles that the author used to completely transform her marriage. It starts with the intriguing story of a chance encounter on a South Florida beach with a beautiful bikini-clad young lady, followed by a compelling description of how this encounter was pivotal in the transformation process.

      This book is a fly-on-the wall view of what it took to move a marriage from the mundane to the extraordinary.

      The principles outlined in this book will not only motivate you to have your best relationship ever, but provide you with insights to start the transformation process starting right now.

      If you have not received the free tool to help in applying the principles outlined in this book to your relationship, please visit www.petajanekayes.com and download the free e-book – IN-TRO-SPECT . This tool should make the transformation process more meaningful.

      Dedication

      This book is dedicated to all of you who are looking for the extraordinary intimate relationship; who refuse to tolerate mediocrity in your relationship, married or not.

      As my appreciation for downloading this book, I am offering you a free gift:

      A simple tool I used to help transform my own marriage.

      To receive your free gift just visit to http://petajanekayes.com/

      and download the free e-book – IN-TRO-SPECT.

      Come connect with me on Facebook at:

      http://www.facebook.com/PetaJaneKayes

      Other books in the Bikini Relationship Rescue series by Peta Jane Kayes

      The Bikini Relationship Rescue – Book 1

      What’s Behind Your Relationship Problems & Relationship Issues?

      – The Answers

      Actionable Relationship Advice For Couples With Relationship Issues

      The Bikini Relationship Rescue – Book 3

      Trust Building In Relationships & Resolving Trust Issues – Your Morals And Character Are Not Enough

      Building Trust To Completely Remove Doubt And Anxiety

      The Bikini Relationship Rescue – Book 4

      Relationship Quiz:

      The 33 Relationship Questions

      Fun And Naughty Quiz To Unmask Your Relationship

      The Bikini Relationship Rescue – Book 5

      Rescue Your Relationship

      Emotional Intimacy Issues and Emotional Intimacy in Marriage

      Building Emotional Intimacy

      And Overcoming The Fear of Intimacy

      To Receive Free Updates on all of the above including free chapters, visit:

      PetaJaneKayes.com

      My Other Books

      Radically Rebuilding Trust After Infidelity

      Because Cheating Is a Fork in The Road

      Table of Contents

      Introduction

      Prologue

      Chapter 1: That Teeny-Weenie Bikini

      Chapter 2: Sunday Morning – Taking Charge

      Chapter 3: Why Most Relationships Are Destined To Fail

      Chapter 4: The Transformation Mindset

      The 6 Principles

      Chapter 5: Principle # 1 - Know What You Are Revealing

      Chapter 6: Principle # 2 - Cultivate Your Redeeming Qualities

      Chapter 7: Principle # 3 - Be Clear About Your Truths

      Chapter 8: Principle # 4 - Take Me For Granted, And Appreciate Me

      Chapter 9: Principle # 5 - Your Bedroom Has No Walls

      Chapter 10: Principle # 6 - Know Where Your Beauty Lies

      Re-Writing Your Relationship

      Conclusion

      Last Words

      About The Author

      Your Free Healthy Relationship Worksheets

      INTRODUCTION

      Thank you so much for purchasing my book. I cannot tell you how eager I am to share with you one of the most amazing experiences that I have ever had; an experience that I used to completely reorient my relationship and rescue it from the edge of mediocrity to a place of real joy and continuous intrigue.

      My fervent hope is that by being able to relate to this experience and the lessons learned from it, you too will benefit from its transformative effects and eventually this will lead to more joy in your own relationship. Even if you are not now involved in an intimate relationship, I can absolutely promise you that after reading this book you will be better prepared to have the type of relationship that brings joy to your heart. Because, no one, no one should share at such an intimate level with the result being anything other than joyous.

      I fervently believe this and it was this belief that laid the foundation for my own relationship transformation.

      In this, Book 2 of ‘The Bikini Relationship Rescue’ series, I describe exactly what happened - how the whole thing got started, what inspired me to really start paying more attention to the aspirations I had for my marriage, and the amazing results that followed.

      If you are at a place in your relationship where you just feel stuck, where your heartfelt aspirations are out of whack with your daily realities, where too many interactions with your partner become distractions for both of you, where being naughty means having silly arguments over silly issues, then you are at a place where I have been.

      While none of this is even consideration for separation - some relationships do get over these hurdles eventually - it is not a happy place to be. Living in quiet misery cannot be the logical result of being in love with someone. Something has to be radically wrong with that equation, an equation that I was determined to fix in my own life.

      So what does this all have to do with a bikini? Quite a bit and you will understand when you read the story. No, this is not about you rushing out to get a bikini and start modeling around the house for your partner. It is about modeling your relationship from a completely different perspective from how you have been conditioned to doing it. It is about you taking charge of your relationship – what goes into it, and what comes out of it back to you.

      The bikini just happened to be my point of reference. For you, it may and is likely to be something completely different. However if all the good relationship advice have failed you, this is where you have to take charge and get what you want from your relationship. For if you can’t, who will do it for you?

      The inspiration for me to finally start doing this in my own marriage came from seeing a beautiful young lady, clad in the teeniest bikini strutting on the beach in a manner that conveyed so much joy, so much confidence, so much child-like innocence, in such an appealingly tasteful manner that she completely captured the attention of the six or seven people who were on the beach around her, including me.

      It is not an experience that I will ever be able to adequately describe because on its face it seemed so simple, so seemingly lacking in impact that it can be very hard to wrap your mind around it being so much of a transformative moment for me.

      So try this – imagine being in a large room with twenty or so others, and suddenly a beautiful young lady walks in, wearing a beautiful body-hugging outfit, with all the confidence in the world, carrying a pleasant child-like aura; she says nothing to anyone in that room but just continue walking in that same manner, and everyone in that room cannot help but stare at her. Then picture yourself as the only one in that room aspiring to have these same characteristics in some aspect of your life. It could be in your career, or your relationship, it doesn't matter. What matters is that this imagery hits a nerve within you.

      Now imagine that same scenario playing out on a beach with the only difference being everyone is in beach appropriate attire and this beautiful young lady, with the same attitude, the same aura, clothed in the skimpiest of bikinis holding the complete attention of everyone within sight of her. Even that may not be enough to answer the question ‘what is up with this bikini thing?’ It is definitely not only about that girl clad in that teeny-weeny bikini - it is a bit more than that.

      There is an old Buddhist proverb – ‘When the student is ready, the teacher will appear’, that I think is so applicable here. Because I believe that all the work I had done in an effort to find answers to my relationship issues - the books I read, the CDs I listened to, all of that information created some sort of cellular memory and cellular aspiration of how I wanted my relationship to look and feel. That vision and that aspiration were awakened by the experience on that beach that afternoon and awoken to the point where I could not help but start paying them the attention they demanded.

      Yes, I wanted my marriage to be filled with confidence, to be joyous, to be intriguing, to command the attention of me and my husband every day, to be unapologetic about our needs and aspirations, to have a child-like innocence about it that allows us to be unashamedly open with each other. I wanted my marriage to reflect back to me what I saw coming from that bikini-clad young lady on the beach that Saturday afternoon. I just felt at that moment something stirring in me that

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