Social, Civil, and Savvy: Training and Socializing Puppies to Become the Best Possible Dogs: Behavior & Training
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You want a dog who is confident and happy, able to immediately distinguish between friend and threat, capable of intense focus on her work, and able to relax and play with you when you need some puppy love. But these attributes are not born in our puppies; they are created through proper socialization.
So much can be done in a puppy's first few months of life to equip her for our human world and expectations. A well-socialized puppy is not only a happier puppy for her own sake but is also a better-mannered and more reliable pet. Learn how to raise a puppy to be:
- More comfortable and confident
- Upbeat and bold from family life to excursions to vet clinics
- Less reactive and excitable
- A better learner with better memory
- A more creative thinker and better training partner
This practical approach to socialization, with plenty of detail and easy-to-follow steps, will help you to prepare your puppy for her best approach to life and social success. Material is included for the older dog as well!
Laura VanArendonk Baugh
Laura was born at a very early age and never looked back. She overcame childhood deficiencies of having been born without teeth or developed motor skills, and by the time she matured into a recognizable adult she had become a behavior analyst, an internationally-recognized and award-winning animal trainer, a popular costumer/cosplayer, a chocolate addict, and of course a writer. Find her at www.LauraVanArendonkBaugh.com
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Social, Civil, and Savvy - Laura VanArendonk Baugh
Social, Civil, and Savvy
Training & Socializing Puppies to Become the Best Possible Dogs
Laura VanArendonk Baugh
image-placeholderÆclipse Press
Copyright 2017 Laura VanArendonk Baugh
Revised 2023
Cover design by Laura VanArendonk Baugh and Alena Van Arendonk
Illustrations by ZJ Bickel
Author photo by Elemental Photography
Interior photos page 128 by Alena Van Arendonk
Interior photos page 147 by Nancy VanArendonk
Cover photos and interior photos pages 1, 13, 21, 37, 49, 67, 81, 103, 111, 121, 133, 139 by DepositPhotos
Interior photos page 40 by Fotolia
Interior photos pages 26, 95 by Laura VanArendonk Baugh
Technical review by Casey Lomonaco
ISBN 978-1-63165-006-2
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Although every effort has been made to ensure the information in this book was correct and best practice at press time, the author and publisher do not assume and hereby disclaim any liability to any party for any loss, damage, or disruption caused by errors or omissions, whether such errors or omissions result from negligence, accident, or any other cause. Especially with aggression or anxiety, please consult a qualified professional.
Contents
1. About this book
2. Socialization is important—whatever it is.
3. Socialization Periods
4. Basics
5. Meeting Humans
6. Meeting Others
7. Building Confidence
8. Field Trip!
9. Physical Considerations
10. It’s All In How You Raise Them
11. Preventing Resource Guarding
12. Often Overlooked
13. Taking Care
14. Acquiring a Puppy
15. It’s Cool
Appendix
Glossary
About the Author
Chapter 1
About this book
Whatever else my faults, I raise fearless puppies.
I realized this first when I was walking my guide-dog-in-training around Gen Con, one of the world’s largest geeky conventions. The event at that time drew about 65,000 attendees and quarters are always crowded, participants often brushing shoulder to shoulder. Amidst the crowd we passed a dancing Big Bird, a man on stilts, a mobile and conversing Dalek, and a fairly good recreation of Captain Davy Jones from the Pirates of the Caribbean film franchise, complete with an enormous and realistically tentacled squid face. My adolescent dog barely gave any of them a glance. (If you want a service dog prepared for anything, I maintain, have them raised by costumers and cosplayers.)
Last year, I brought home a fourteen-foot Velociraptor puppet. Cupcake (yes, she goes by Cupcake) is a realistic dinosaur, with blinking eyes, articulated movement, and a catalog of recorded roars, barks, grunts, and chirps. Undómiel, my adolescent Doberman, walked boldly up to this new arrival and sniffed her briefly on the nose before deciding she’d rather chew on an old bone while we worked. Penny, the above-mentioned guide candidate, did not even bother to sniff Cupcake—she simply walked up and flopped next to her, using her as shade.
It’s not that Cupcake isn’t a scary beast. She’s startled quite a few people, and once while puppeteering her at a fundraising event I heard a terrified alarm bark and froze, knowing someone’s service dog had just been horribly disrupted. To be fair, even the most thorough service dog training program may not prepare a dog for encounters with long-extinct enormous beasts.
But to prepare our dogs, we don’t have to cover everything. We just have to teach them how to approach novelty. And my dogs had seen enough to adapt on the fly to even extreme novelty.
I think that a mindful and assessing approach to new situations, or what my colleague Casey Lomonaco calls curiosity as a life skill,
can be taught, and it’s hugely beneficial.
The amount of positive feedback I’ve received on my previous training book Fired Up, Frantic, and Freaked Out has just been astounding to me. People have reported great successes working with their pets, and a few confessed to adapting
the same management techniques for use on themselves to stay calm and focused in uncomfortable situations (because good training techniques apply to all species). I couldn’t be more pleased and grateful.
But as a trainer, I know we cannot be satisfied with merely fixing problems. Problem-solving is great, sure—but preventing problems is more efficient, and that should always be Plan A. Like our dogs, we should be proactive rather than reactive. So that is where this book comes in.
Most of us know that socialization is critical in a young dog’s life, both to equip them to live safely and happily in a human-centric world and to prepare them for training, whether that be for pet manners, a competition career, or more serious work, perhaps as a service or detection dog. While word has certainly gotten around that socialization is important, there’s still a popular disconnect over what it is exactly and how best to go about it.
I used to get a lot of calls from potential clients wanting a group training class, because they heard socialization was important and that seemed the best way to go about it. When I would explain that an hour-long class a week was not really going to address their socialization needs, there was a lot of confusion. Wasn’t that the whole point of a puppy class?
Many of the most egregious mistakes are made by those with the best of intentions who were given bad advice. It’s both heart-breaking and all too common for a trainer to be called to work with a fearful or aggressive dog and to discover that the problem was inadvertently created by a well-intentioned owner trying to do the right thing but acting upon poor advice. This is unfair to both dog and owner, and it can be prevented through making good information available and accessible.
This is not a puppy training book, not in the sense of teaching manners and basic exercises. This book focuses on preparing puppies to live and to thrive in the human world. My goal in this book is not to offer a comprehensive view of the science of socialization, but to provide a practical guide to those who want to give their dogs—whether chosen as working dogs or pets—the best start at understanding our world and how to function happily and productively in it.
There are some fantastic puppy programs now available which focus on socialization, with lots of field trips and assigned homework. While it would be ideal for every new puppy owner to have a Puppy Start Right ¹ course around the corner, that‘s unfortunately not the case (yet!), and most of us have to work on our own. This book is intended to fill the gap where a stellar socialization program isn’t readily available as a package, allowing you to create and customize your own.
Happy training!
1. www.PuppyStartRight.com
Chapter 2
Socialization is important—whatever it is.
How could this cute face grow up to be trouble?How could this cute face grow up to be trouble?
Socialization is important.
Ask any new puppy owner, trainer, or veterinarian, and you’ll hear exactly that. Socialization is important.
But when you ask what socialization is, you’ll get a variety of different answers.
Socialization is meeting different people and dogs.
Socialization is getting used to things.
Socialization is attending a puppy class.
Socialization is meeting kids.
Socialization is learning how to get along in a human world.
While none of these is technically incorrect as far as they go, they also do not offer pet owners a working definition of what socialization actually is. They’re all paths toward socialization, but they are not socialization. And if we want to use socialization as a defense against a whole array of behavior problems in the future—as we should—we should probably know what it is, how to