Empower Thyself!: Life-Changing Biblical and Academic Principles They Don’T Teach You in Freshman Seminar
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As a longtime advisor to college students, I offer advice on how to succeed during your most challenging times in college and life itself. This book presents information on the mental toughness, the physical stamina, the spiritual strength and the healthy relationships that will make your college journey successful.
You can learn why it is alright to take risks; to let some people go, and to fight injustice and discrimination on campus. You will discover what qualifies a mentor and why you need one.
As you go through college, never live by the opinions of others. Your future is in your own hands, and the life-changing biblical and academic principles that they dont teach you in freshman seminarbut that you can learn hereare all you need to Empower Thyself!
Jeffrey Sams, MEd
Jeffrey Sams, M.Ed., has worked in higher education for almost 30 years, serving as a college recruiter, instructor, advisor, counsellor and mentor to African-American males. He earned a Master of Education in Rehab Counseling and a B.S. degree in English from Coppin State University in Baltimore. He is an ordained Elder. He resides in Rosedale, Maryland with his wife, Annette, of 28 years and three sons. Look –up his freshman project, The Devil in a Choir Robe.
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Empower Thyself! - Jeffrey Sams, MEd
Copyright © 2011, 2016 by Jeffrey Sams, MEd.
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CONTENTS
Acknowledgements
Foreword
Preface
SECTION - 1 EMPOWERMENT INSIGHTS
Chapter 1 Empower Thyself
My conversation with Shakira
Chapter 2 Empowerment
On-going empowerment
Chapter 3 Self-Empowerment Not self reliance
Chapter 4 Academic Self-Empowerment
Chapter 5 Evaluate your circle of friends
Chapter 6 You will always be a student, so keep learning
Chapter 7 Less negative attitude
Chapter 8 Go beyond
Chapter 9 Set a standard for excellence
Chapter 10 Keep Discovering
Chapter 11 Get A Mentor
Chapter 12 Take Risks
Chapter 13 Mind your own business
SECTION - 2 THE STUDENT AND…
Chapter 14 The student and people, places, & things
Chapter 15 Mother and son things
Chapter 16 Doors, windows, & mirrors,
Chapter 17 The student & obstacles
Chapter 18 The student and intimate relationships
Chapter 19 The student and resilience
Chapter 20 The student and resistance
Chapter 21 The student and the body
Chapter 22 The student and the mind
Chapter 23 The student & the spirit of God
Chapter 24 The student and thanksgiving
Chapter 25 The student & the plan
Chapter 26 The student and the process
Chapter 27 The student & perseverence
Chapter 28 The student and endurance
Chapter 29 The student and the race to finish
Chapter 30 The student and preparation
SECTION - 3 SUCCESS PRINCIPLES
Chapter 31 Student success is in your hands
Chapter 32 BYOP
Chapter 33 Academics and smart living
Chapter 34 Give 7 empower someone
Chapter 35 Getting pass your past
Chapter 36 Be Yourself
Chapter 37 Dont be a hypocrite
Chapter 38 What Do You See Now?
Chapter 39 10 Commandments (+3)
Chapter 40 Elevate your mind
Chapter 41 Say, move, make
Chapter 42 Fight for what is right
Chapter 43 Who will you believe?
SECTION - 4 STOP
Chapter 44 Stop
Stop making excuses
Stop using other students as a standard for your success
Stop stumbling
Stop looking back
Stop playing college
Choose your playthings wisely
Stop trying to pass your classes the hard way
Chapter 45 The tongue Part I
The tongue Part II
Chapter 46 Poking fun
Chapter 47 Instruct to empower
SECTION - 5 A MIXED BAG OF COLLEGE AFFAIRS
Chapter 48 My two cents on retention
Chapter 49 Best practices
Chapter 50 How do i retain thee?
Chapter 51 Don’t leave us
SECTION - 6 DARE TO DREAM
Chapter 52 Dream
Chapter 53 Get your dreams off the back burner
SECTION - 7 SOME INNER CITY TEACHING CHALLENGES
Chapter 54 Educational & teacher challenges
SECTION VIII A BIT OF MY PHILOSOPHY ON EDUCATION
Chapter 55 A new way to empower
Chapter 56 Sams’ hierarchy of educational needs
Chapter 57 Letter to a V.P
Chapter 58 A Heart for the soul of my students
Conclusion
Bibliography
ACKNOWLEDGEMENTS
First, to God be the glory for His great wisdom in giving me understanding and the words to help others by this literary effort. I personally thank You, heavenly Father, nothing shall come between us; I love You. To my wife, Mrs.Annette
whom I awaken in the wee hours of the morning (my writing hours), thank you for putting up with me, Love. Dr. Alicia B. Harvey Smith, my friend and shentor. Thanks to Burline Dantzler, (my spiritual mentor) who claimed me as one of her favorite authors! Special thanks to my pastor, Bishop Dr. Jerome Stokes and Lady Marsha Stokes and my family at Church of the Redeemed of the Lord. Special thanks also to Charonne Covington for your generous financial support, along with Etoy Hamlin, Kia Green, and my adopted daughter Zemetria Cupcake
Griffin for your financial support - and all those wonderful folks who support my efforts by buying my books – I love you all, and God bless you all!
FOREWORD
Alicia B. Harvey-Smith, Ph.D.
As an educator, college administrator and educational consultant, I am honored to provide the foreword for Empower Thyself, a book that I believe will make the difference in the lives of the students and educators who read it. It uniquely and simply provides a formula for enabling students to not only start but finish and achieve the goals they set. One of the key elements in this equation identified by the author is faith and its importance to achieving excellence. The relationship between faith and success is oftentimes overlooked in other educational guides and serves as the foundation for Empower Thyself.
Faith has been identified by many as the basis for success. Jeffrey Sams understands the importance of faith to true excellence and has done an excellent job in Empower Thyself in bringing the component of faith to the forefront of the success equation. The author effectively draws the correlation between believing in your ability to succeed and succeeding and leaves the reader wanting to achieve at higher levels by first believing that his success is part of a divine and master plan. It is after all in us all to succeed and this book sums up the need for faith as a launching pad for our dreams.
This book empowers students to take responsibility for their learning and brilliantly provides tools and principles to aid academic and personal success. Empower Thyself is a treasure chest of strategies which are sure to support and empower success. It is a guide to excellence and provides the added bonus of biblical and motivational underpinnings all designed to gently and thoughtfully move students in the direction of optimum success.
Empower Thyself helps you create a vision of success for not only your academic journey but for your life. If you believe, not even the sky will be your limit. Marianne Williamson reminds us that "Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us."
Empower Thyself: Things they don’t teach you in freshman seminar, reinforces this light and will help students shine and aspire to new measures of success.
This book is full of useful advice and will serve its readers well. Having read the book once, the reader will not discard it but use it repeatedly as a reference and will recommend it to others who are also bound to benefit from its wisdom. I am very proud of Jeffrey Sams and his work on Empower Thyself and it will make a believer out of its readers.
Alicia B. Harvey-Smith, Ph.D.
President, River Valley Community College, Claremont, New Hampshire
President A.B. Harvey-Smith Educational Consulting
Author of
Partnering for Success: How to Build Strong Internal Collaborations in Higher Education
The Seventh Learning College Principle: A Framework for Transformational Change
Getting Real Proven Strategies for Student Survival and Academic Success
PREFACE
It takes a lot of faith to be a student. Faith and academics go together, and what a beautiful couple they are. If you believe, without a doubt, that when you approach a chair to sit down, that the chair is going to support you. Then you should also believe when you register for a class, that the professor, who is stuffing information into your brain, really knows his subject matter. You also trust that a curriculum will get you where you desire to go. And though the professor brings the smarts
to offset your ignorance, you must bring a willing and sturdy container to receive the smarts
which you will be challenged to acquire.
The professor is part of an elite group which agrees that what they are exposing you to is required for your degree, certificate, or just to enhance your personal growth and development. It gives him mastery over you for a few months because the reason that he is standing and you are sitting is that he has been entrusted, approved and authorized to share what you need to be successful in his class. If you do well and successfully complete your requirements for the degree, the Registrar rolls up a piece of paper, ties a ribbon around it, places it in your hand and tells you to go out and make a difference.
If you have problems getting through, we roll up a bigger piece of paper and oops upside your head with it. Seriously, we will do all we can to get you to the next step. However, in all that we do, there are still many students who find it very difficult to get through the academic pipeline. For whatever reason, they seem to get stuck in fear, inconsistency, and having no real plan for their lives or careers; they waste precious time. They are sometimes tormented by the fear of failure, and are under the pressure of being first generation college students (the first in their family to attend an institution of higher learning). Some are even overcharged with personal responsibility and other cares! It does not, therefore, take much for them to close the proverbial book and say College is not for everyone.
It becomes easy for them to take the little milestones that got them there and toss them away like a used paper plate, and get lost in the crowd of ignorance. How easy is it to walk away? It only takes a made-up mind either way – to stay and get it, or to leave and lose it.
Many students do not know that they are built for success, and with all the resources available to them, they have to really work hard at failing. We can teach them to be self-empowered by motivating them to be a part of a moving and powerful culture that looks to seize every opportunity for advancement –they are the self-empowered; they grow in wisdom in their relationships with others, and they take personal responsibility for the decisions that they make. Being good at college is more than being good with a book and a pen.
SECTION I
EMPOWERMENT INSIGHTS
CHAPTER 1
MY CONVERSATION WITH SHAKIRA
You’re not a bad student,
I said to Shakira, You just have not identified your passion. What is your passion? What is your dream? Because when your passion is recognized it will put you in hot pursuit of your dream. What is it that you want out of life?
I want to be successful; I want to have nice things like anyone else
she responded.
Then let me pose another question, how badly do you want it? I asked.
Because you have to keep your eyes on what your dreams and move intelligently toward them." Shakira looked up at me as if a light turned on in her head, and I continued.
Young people of this generation have not had to work hard for anything. Will you all even work hard for yourselves?
‘O Lord, here we go" she mumbled.
"I know you don’t want to hear this. I have only been in higher education for 24 years. And I know it is impossible for me, as far as you are concerned, to know what I am talking about. But please, hear me out. As I was saying, parents try to get their children whatever they want and it has spoiled them into thinking that the world is going to do the same thing. So, when they attend college and/or get out on their own, they experience a rude awakening. They find that success does not fall from the sky; good grades do not jump into the teacher’s book under their names, and no one hands them a paycheck based on how they look unless they are models. Shakira, you have to start with a plan; line up your objectives and work toward your goals. You have to network, volunteer, and remember that every internship is not a paid one. Sometimes you are paid in experience only.
When we were growing up (my generation) we did not have the world at our fingertips. We had a rotary phone that we had to sit down beside in order to use it. In fact, my parents despised technology so much that I was a freshman in college before they even allowed a phone in the house. I got it installed with my father’s permission and I paid the bill. We could not walk around the house and talk on the phone because there was no such thing as a cordless phone. And Lord knows we never even thought about a computer; we hardly knew what that was. You guys e-mail, text, and IM (Instant message) from miles away. All we had were stamps and envelopes; it’s called snail mail now; by the time a resume would get to an employer somebody else could have gotten the job. You all can hit a button and send 10 resumes to 10 different companies at one time. All this fancy technology we have today is good if it is used with discipline.
We had big, chunks of television,
I continued with about 4 or 5 channels and we were the remote controls. When the knobs broke we kept a set of pliers nearby. So we did not have all the distractions that you guys have today. I know technology makes life easier, but it can also make it very challenging; you have to set guidelines and schedules for social media just like anything else.
Shakira crossed her legs and began to stare at me with a why are you telling me all this kind of look. But I pressed on further. You have to be in control of your space and not let technological advances dictate to you when and how long you use them – you are in control! If you mess up with your education while it is free and available, tell me what your alternative will be? If you struggle while it is easy, what will you do when things get difficult? Don’t let everything consume you; stay focused! In my day, we knew how to study. We knew what walking to the library was about. We knew how to get our hands dirty and filled with paper cuts while we flipped the pages of those encyclopedias. Now, you guys bring the library and all its volumes right to your lap, and you are spoiled to thinking that everything good for you is going to drop in your lap the same way – not so!
Shakira became really quiet. I noticed that her eyes begin to tear up.
Shakira, I want to stir up your mind so that you can change the way that you are thinking. If your mind does not change, neither will your behavior. Now go back to your instructors; find out where you stand in each course and see if you can make up the work that you lost. Determine in your mind that from this day forward excellence is going to be a life-long prerequisite – across the board! And if you need help in anything, I am here for you. When you go home and before you sleep tonight, pray and ask God to help you become a better student and person overall. Ask Him to help you to be temperate in all things, and watch how your life begins to change.
There are study skills workshops, note-taking and time management resources of which you can take advantage. Make certain that you take some time to invest in yourself! Your education is a partnership with you and the institution – you have to do your part!
To my surprise, Shakira arose and gave me a big hug and said: Thank you.
I felt that she was now determined to go forward and to put things in motion that would lead to her success. Sometimes students just want to know that we care.
I realize that Shakira is like a lot of other students who have been spoiled by the success of their parents and the availability of technology. As educators and parents, it is our responsibility to help our student-children not be consumed and out of control with the rapidly advancing and changing world around them, but to keep them focused on their dreams with the assistance of technology.
If we do not help them and steer them properly, our students can be up till the wee hours of the morning replacing study time with social media and other electronic gadgetry. In the end, we will have a society of people who know how to navigate technology but knows very little about establishing, maintaining and working a career to fulfillment through education. Even if they decide on occasion to change careers, they will at least have the foundational knowledge to do so. We must empower our young people to see today’s world differently, and to take advantage of everything that it has to offer.
CHAPTER 2
EMPOWERMENT
The beginning of a personal journey
I embarked upon my college journey years ago. I had to overcome a lot of emotional, family, and financial issues to get there. The neighborhood was not the best either. Fights often broke out; people were seriously injured on a regular basis, and there was constant bullying. At one point in my high school years, I thought that I would never get beyond the troubles that I lived with daily. We seemed to be constantly pushed into a confrontation by surrounding families and there was also conflict within our own family. I did not think that I could escape the verbal abuse and whippings from my father. It seemed as if I lived under the pressures and strife from inside, and my peers pressing me outside to get involved in the wrong things.
Those two things weighed heavily upon me. Many of my friends were having sex, and I was teased because they knew I had never been with a young lady. Nevertheless, through all of the pain and pressure, I kept saying to myself that there had to be more to life than what I was seeing every day.
In the process of time, I made it to my senior year in high school and began to look at going college. Meanwhile, many of my peers were either being carted off to a detention center, were getting high, or had dropped out of school. I remember seeing one of them in a thrift store begging for money. He looked as if he was a substance abuser. Others had given up and were street sweepers and still others had died violent deaths. On the other hand, some of us were doing really well in pursuing our dreams. I knew I had to press on. There was always something inside me telling me to keep going. I knew there was more that life had to offer, and I knew an education would get me there. I could have been overtaken by my environment, and let my hopes and dreams crumble to the streets, but I refused to do so. I found that I loved learning and I loved people.
GOING TO COLLEGE
I heard about Coppin State College. So one day I walked about thirty-five blocks to get there. I had no bus fare but I did have a dream. Folks at the college began reaching out to help me, offering advice and finances. Once I enrolled, I began meeting other students that were going places and doing things. I placed myself in an ambitious, thriving and motivated learning environment. I got involved with the college choir. We traveled; we won awards singing all over the city and sometimes out of state. I became a member of the Phi Beta Sigma fraternity. I was moving forward and loving it! I graduated from undergrad with a B.S. degree in English and a Master’s of Education in Rehabilitation Counseling. I can still hear my very first pastor say Master in something!
He constantly drilled it into the minds of the youths in the church, and I knew I had to.
I did not realize at the time that I was being empowered and simultaneously empowering myself. I had to pause and take a serious look at surrounding conditions and make a conscious effort to be a part of something better. I had to see myself at a better place and wanting more than what was being offered. I, therefore, talked to myself and encouraged myself. With God’s help, I am where I am today.
At this point in my life, I am very humbled by God’s grace. As I leave empowerment up to me by the direction of the Spirit of God, I am going to achieve more and live this life to the fullest. I can empower myself if no one else is there to give me what I need. I simply must have a determination, a dream, a relentless pursuit, and God on my side.
ON-GOING EMPOWERMENT
There is so much that we hear about empowering people to do or to become, but do we really hear enough about their being continually empowered? A retreat, a workshop, and all the hype are good, but on average they usually last about 60 minutes after the presentation is concluded. That is why self- empowerment is much more important. If I depend on others to empower me, what happens when they are not around? Or when we have differences and they hold back in their ability to empower me? Providing instruction alone of how to achieve is good, but how do we make students/people feel good enough about themselves and what they believe in so that empowerment is an on-going process in their lives?
How do we get students to come to the realization that empowerment begins as a seed inside an individual? If it is watered and cared for and nurtured, it will flourish, but if neglected it will die. How do we get students to believe in what they expect or to get them to see that they can accomplish what they might find hard to believe? How do they know that they can and should desire what is best for them? How can we get a student to believe that he can be a great student when his past matriculation as a student tells him that he is average and mediocre? Empowerment works when people understand that they can have and achieve more than and as much as the next person. It starts with helping a person believe that he has the capacity to accomplish what he sets in his mind. It is unlocking faith that lies within a person, and nurturing it to the point that it does not need much help in development. Empowerment for an individual does not work until he is made to understand that God designed him uniquely, and what He ordained him to do in life can be done by no other the way that he would do it. This concept comes under the heading of designer’s original! He must be made to understand that there is something inside him, put there by God, which will take him to the top spiritually and naturally.
When students discover what that something
is, little external empowerment is needed! Empowerment is the process of enhancing the capacity of individuals or groups to make choices and to transform those choices into desired actions and outcomes. Empowerment is not a one-shot deal. It involves empowering people until they learn to empower themselves—which is true empowerment! In the appearance of empowerment, an individual looks like he has caught on and believes that he can conquer anything while the empowerer is present. But what happens when the empowerer has moved on and the empoweree faces other challenges?
Jesus taught the disciples to access the power of God through His name. They were very good at it when Jesus was with them. But on one occasion when He was not there, the disciples could not do what they had seen Jesus do. In Matthew chapter 17:20 when they asked why, Jesus responded, Because of your unbelief.
The power to do it was there, but they did not understand that they were empowered to do it by simply using the authority of the name, and believing in the power that came with it.
Your unbelief locks up your self-empowerment. Believe from within and unlock self-empowerment under God’s power. I am a preacher – did you think I would say anything different? Let’s look at it again from another angle; teaching a man to fish is just as important as teaching him why he ought to fish. When he understands why he ought to fish he will fish to save himself and those in his care, even when conditions are unfavorable in his life. He is now empowered although the lesson is over and the teacher is gone. Sure, he could fish and eat for life as the proverb states, but he could also rob other fishermen for his life sustenance. His primary goal is to eat! He must be empowered to fish well and to make an honest living. He must be taught to ignore negative feelings and conditions and continue in his pursuit of success without harming others.
One of the key principles of empowerment is the word enhance- enhancing the capacity.
Enhance means to intensify or increase in quality, value, power, etc; improve; augment. One thing that I truly know about empowerment is that you cannot increase anything in anyone unless they mutually agree with what you are proposing to do. As we look at students, and especially those in the inner city, this enhancement is more about how.
How can we do this? How can we make students want to increase in quality and desire enhancement of their lives? Well, we need to show them what they perhaps had not seen while growing up: Black history? Not exclusively. But the history of any color of peoples coming up through hard times, persevering and being self and externally-empowered to become great contributors to society.
When my brother took me to Coppin State’s campus as a youngster, I knew I had to attend. It was the 80’s; I saw the beautiful campus, and very soon after, I was a student. I grew up in the hood but it had a different meaning at that time. It was plagued with liquor stores, lottery machines, drunks, fighting neighbors and family feuds (much like today), etc., but I was blessed to see Coppin when I did. It made me know that there was something better than what I lived every day growing up; I could believe! And self-empowerment could begin. Quality and self-enhancement were inevitable.
CHAPTER 3
SELF-EMPOWERMENT NOT SELF RELIANCE
Trust in the LORD with all thine heart, and lean not unto thine own understanding.
In all thy ways acknowledge him, and he shall direct thy paths. Proverbs 3:5-6
We live in an age that teaches us to be armies of one, to trust and rely upon no one except ourselves, and to believe that we have the power to chart our own destinies. Some abide by a doctrine of self-centeredness and believe that they are ultimately in control, having to answer to no one about their personal decisions. Allow me to pose a few questions to you. Have you ever trusted yourself to give up a habit, to develop one, or to remember not to forget something? Have you ever told a friend that you would be there to help him and did not show up, for circumstances perhaps beyond your control? These questions present a small portion of the frailty of humanity. Surely you can develop good habits and break old, undesirable ones, but the flesh is still very unreliable – yes, even yours. …For the spirit is indeed willing but the flesh is weak
Matthew 26:41.
The aforementioned examples remind us that we cannot be trusted all the time although it may be in our hearts to be trustworthy. There are times that we are let down and there are times in which we let others down. When I talk about self-empowerment, I mean positioning and equipping oneself with the proper tools and attitude to accomplish, but not independent of God. I understand that some might believe that everything they accomplish can be attributed to their hard work, discipline and ability to stay away from things that counter their plans. While all of that may be true, it only takes a physiological mishap in one’s brain