Think With Intention: Reprogram Your Mindset, Perspectives, and Thoughts. Control Your Fate and Unlock Your Potential.
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Whatever you think is whatever will happen. Harness your thoughts and control your mindset to achieve what you want.
We can't control other people; we can't control much of the external world. But we can control our thoughts, and that's enough to change our lives. Action follows behavior, and behavior follows thought. Start from the root and see how you can thrive.
Replace disempowering mindsets with those of action and agency.
THINK WITH INTENTION is a blueprint to a different state of mind. This book takes a deep look into how people tend to think, what exactly how they should subtly re-frame their thoughts to feel confident, powerful, happy, and in charge of their own life.
Intentional thinking is your vehicle to get from Point A to Point B - Point B is the life you want. Every chapter has actionable advice to implement today. The changes are small and simple, but they have huge implications.
Internal changes that lead to external abundance.
Peter Hollins has studied psychology and peak human performance for over a dozen years and is a bestselling author. He has worked with a multitude of individuals to unlock their potential and path towards success. His writing draws on his academic, coaching, and research experience.
Learn to reshape unhealthy thought patterns and think clearly.
•How to bravely take control and take action in your life.
•How to practice calm and see the world as it really is, not just how you want to see it.
•How to accept yourself and let go of your grievances.
•How to gain mental flexibility and perpetually progress.
•How to be appreciative and set proper expectations.
Know that every decision you make is exactly the one you want.
All it takes is a simple change of perspective to intentional thinking. Control your thoughts - and welcome to the new chapter of your life where you are able to create the reality you want. Avoid being a slave to your emotions and impulses. Think intentionally.
Peter Hollins
Pete Hollins is a bestselling author and human psychology and behavior researcher. He is a dedicated student of the human condition. He possesses a BS and MA in psychology, and has worked with dozens of people from all walks of life. After working in private practice for years, he has turned his sights to writing and applying his years of education to help people improve their lives from the inside out. He enjoys hiking with his family, drinking craft beers, and attempting to paint. He is based in Seattle, Washington. To learn more about Hollins and his work, visit PeteHollins.com.
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Think With Intention - Peter Hollins
Potential.
Think With Intention:
Reprogram Your Mindset, Perspectives, and Thoughts. Control Your Fate and Unlock Your Potential.
By Peter Hollins,
Author and Researcher at petehollins.com
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Table of Contents
Think With Intention: Reprogram Your Mindset, Perspectives, and Thoughts. Control Your Fate and Unlock Your Potential
Table of Contents
Introduction
Chapter 1. The Mindset of Accuracy and Clarity
Strong Opinions, Weakly Held
A Shift in Perspective
Chapter 2. The Mindset of Acceptance and Patience
Granting Yourself Permission
The World Keeps Rotating
Chapter 3. The Mindset of Courage and Tempting Fate
True Risks and False Prophets
How to Take a Leap
The Sweetest Suffering
Chapter 4. The Mindset of Mental Flexibility and Perpetual Growth
Curiosity Will Save You, Not Kill You
Back to the Beginnings
One Last Stab at Curiosity
Chapter 5. The Mindset of Appreciation and Expectations
A Complaint-Free World
Comparison is the Death of Well-Being
Summary Guide
Introduction
If you were seriously committed to having a strong, healthy body, you might decide that you needed a smart workout plan, a diet regimen that worked for you, a doctor’s checkup, and so on. If you really wanted to learn a complex new skill, you’d look into getting training from teachers and experts, and start putting in the hours of practice. And if you wanted to accomplish a once-in-a-lifetime style adventure, you’d absolutely invest time in planning it, finding clear, practical ways to bring the whole dream to life. Wherever there is a goal, there should be a sequence of events to lead you there.
While it seems perfectly natural to have a proactive, diligent mindset when it comes to developing certain areas of our lives, the same can’t always be said about the way we approach our mindset itself.
Many people instinctively know that the worthwhile things in life require conscious effort and focus, yet somehow we forget that the mindset one inhabits is as dynamic and changeable as our physical bodies, our skills, our dreams. Scratch that—our perspective is more dynamic and changeable, and even more important to achieving the life that we want. We would never expect our dream physique or ultimate vacation to materialize overnight just because we had good intentions. Yet so many of us relinquish responsibility when it comes to our own mindsets, perhaps assuming that how we think will simply work itself out!
What does it really mean to be intentional in your thinking?
In this book, we’ll be focusing on the art of consciously choosing your thoughts, your perspective, your attitude and your entire worldview. Why? Because thoughts inform behavior, and behavior informs reality. In a way, every shift you make in your life is first a mental one. Nobody ever achieved a goal, overcame a weakness or learnt something new without a genuine change in mindset first.
When you are a person who takes conscious, responsible control over your thoughts, you put yourself in the driver’s seat and take ownership of your reality. You are no longer reactive and at the mercy of forces outside your understanding. Instead you are at the center of your experience, the elements of your conscious mind serving you, rather than being a slave to distraction, addiction, negativity, apathy, and anxiety. The world looks scary if you feel that you’re subject to the whims of your emotions and thoughts. Now imagine what it would feel like to change your self-narrative at the flip of a switch. No, it’s not easy and it’s certainly not something that comes naturally to us, but it’s quite possible.
If two unfortunate souls get into a serious car accident, their mindsets, thoughts, and beliefs surrounding recovery and coping with trauma and injury will certainly determine how their lives go from that moment on. Some people excel and thrive despite adversity, while others wilt and fall into depression. Intentional thinking is the reason behind that distinction.
In the chapters that follow, we’ll see that thinking—and thus living—better is simple, but not necessarily easy. Many self-help books offer you a narrow, predictable perspective on the problems of life, but few take a broader look at the perspective itself, and how to work on that level. In the chapters that follow we’ll be zooming out and thinking about how we think. This meta approach is not about deciding which life philosophy is better, but rather about mastering the skill of discerning which approach will work best, in which situation, and to which end. Indeed, the first step is to even become aware that there are different approaches to the problems in your life.
Intentional thinking (and indeed all the mindsets we’ll consider in this book) rests ultimately on one very important premise: we are not our thoughts.
Thoughts are also not necessarily representative of reality. In the same way, a momentary lapse or emotional outburst does not change who you are. We can lose sight of the fact that we are thinking, dreaming beings who obsessively tell ourselves stories day in and day out. We can start to wholly believe the stories we tell ourselves, so much that we forget that any of it was a story in the first place. We start to mistake our images of reality, our thoughts and feelings, for reality itself.
When you are living an unconscious, unintentional life, the flow of thought traffic runs unchecked and unobserved. You go with the flow and take the path of least resistance, never even really aware that it’s a path at all. For instance, when someone disagrees with you, you become angry and tell yourself a story about what they did and why, react to your own anger, and speak out to attack that person. You become further and further embroiled in a tumble of thoughts and feelings without ever considering that you are, indeed, having thoughts and feelings, and that your experience would be entirely different had you given yourself the opportunity to choose something different. And of course, thoughts are unconscious, instant, and often detrimental.
We are not our thoughts. We are also not our feelings. Both of them are transient and ever-changing. They emerge, and fall away again. Much of the time, they come unbidden, like the weather. The question of who you are if not your thoughts and emotions is a deep one, and we won’t delve into questions of philosophy here. But perhaps in beginning to explore the range of conscious agency that’s possible when you become intentional in your living, you can start to feel more like the being behind the thoughts and emotions. The one watching them come and go. The director of the play, the master conductor who can zoom out, not identifying with any one instrument in the moment, but seeing the music as a whole.
When you forget yourself and identify with the fleeting sensations of your experience as it unfolds, it’s as though you momentarily forget that you’re watching a movie that is not real, and will end. Automatic thinking runs on its own, powered by the momentum from your interactions with others