How to spice up your sex life

101 TIPS
Elizabeth Theroux
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Introduction
The purpose of this publication is not only to give tips on sexual
positions but also to give handy tips on all the different ways in which
you can spice up your sex life The idea is to expand your horizons!
"a#e you try things you never even thought of and "ost i"portantly
to increase pleasure for both you and your partner
Sex can be a pleasurable! e"otional! soul shattering experience! but
this is not always the case So"eti"es a little effort is needed to spice
things up in the bedroo" $our partner will than# you for ta#ing the
ti"e to "a#e such an effort
So who is this publication for% I guess we could categorize it into three
sections&
1. Have you done it in the "issionary position in exactly the
sa"e bed for who #nows how "any years and 'uite fran#ly
you could swear you can see a dent in the bed with your
body shape "eshed into the fabric% Sex is no longer about
the passion and "ore about getting to the finish line as fast
as possible%
( )re you fine with your sexual partner but would li#e to try
so"ething different every one in a while%
3. *r are you +ust starting out% ,ondering what you could! in
the future! do in order to "aintain so"e spice in your
relationship before you find yourself needing to re-introduce
it bac# into your sex life
,hether you-re reading this for tips! prevention of a "undane sex
life or si"ply to spice things up a little for an anniversary! I stress
that every couple is different! and hence! every individual is
different $ou "ay find span#ing a great arousal booster but your
partner "ight not be so into it The point here is to find a level
playing ground where both sides of the couple can experience
pleasure whilst not co"pro"ising their "orals or co"fort levels
.ecause really! sex is all about mutual, shared pleasure and if
you-re being selfish and one sided during sex! well! then! that-s
what "asturbation is for/
I-ve included sources fro" websites that have really helped "e a lot
and they can be found at the end of the boo#
101 Tips on How To
Spice up your Sex 0ife
1. 1a#e sure you aren-t always in the "issionary position Try
getting your hands on a 2a"a Sutra boo# because whilst not
all positions are extre"ely difficult so"e can ta#e practice and
once perfected can heighten your sexual arousal levels
i""ensely 3See lin# to free 2a"a Sutra boo# at end of boo#4
2. If "issionary is your desired position try alternating the varying
levels of your 3the wo"an-s4 legs 5or exa"ple! they can be
wrapped around the guy-s waist! or lower under the buttoc#s!
or lifted up and high with calves to the side of the guy-s face *r
alternatively he can hold onto your legs by the calves and pull
the" bac# towards your face
3. The sixty6nine position is a great way for both partners to
receive pleasure at the sa"e ti"e )lthough so"e find it
difficult to give pleasure whilst receiving it! it can be highly
satisfying once you get used to all the sensations
4. 0ocation! 0ocation! 0ocation Switching locations every now and
then can really help liven things up 7o "atter how great the
sex! and no "atter how "any positions you are alternating
between! if your stuc# in the sa"e bed! night after night! things
are going to get a little "onotonous Try "ixing things up by
varying the places in which you chose to "a#e love besides the
bedroo" So"e obvious exa"ples include "a#ing love in the
shower! on the #itchen table 3followed by a thorough cleaning4!
on a dishwasher 3preferably whilst it in is "otion4! in a closest
3confined spaces are a great sexual boost and "a#e you really
wor# for it& see 894! or si"ply up against the wall
9 Try the wardrobe 7ovelty is an intense aphrodisiac and any
unusual setting! with strange sensations! s"ells and "uffled
sounds! will "a#e sex feel new! upping the excite"ent
:onfined spaces also add urgency ,ardrobes aren-t the #ind of
places you want to linger! so they-re great for a 'uic#ie
6. .ut if you do want to ta#e the love "a#ing outside! here-s a
little infor"ation for your benefit
:hoose the right place/
:o""on places where "en and wo"en have sex are& par#s!
public bathroo"s! plane bathroo"s! "ovie theatres! cars!
woods and fields! elevators! the office! depart"ent store
restroo"s! swi""ing pools! balcony-s! on the roof! telephone
booths and others
.efore you decide to have sex in public weigh all the ris#s and #eep
in "ind that in "ost states sex in public is prohibited and you
"ight get into so"e serious trouble If you consider yourself brave
enough! choose the place that has the lowest ris#s 5or exa"ple! if
you get caught having sex in the office! it "ight affect your career!
so you should decide for yourself if it is worth trying
7. 1a#ing love in the water is also a great boost! whether it be in
a big spa bath! a swi""ing pool or even the beach 3which you
should thoroughly chec# that there is positively no one about
or within seeing distance! as children fre'uent the beach often4
Here-s a little extra infor"ation&
Sex in the water is often a way to beat the bedroo" boredo" and
add so"e spice into your sex life However! not all water adventures
end up in sexual bliss for couples Sex in the bath can be tric#y
enough and you should be prepared to face certain disco"fort
Stay wet
5irst of all! in spite of the fact that you won;t have lac# of "oisture in
the bathroo"! your body will be dry in the "ost inti"ate zones In
fact! water washes away all the natural lubrication! "a#ing
penetration less co"fortable The gentle tissue of the vagina can
beco"e irritated and together with other che"icals li#e bubble bath!
soap and oils it "ay cause so"e irritation and "a#e you "ore
susceptible to thrush
So if you want to stay lubricated during water fun! it is better to use
so"e lubricant that is not water6soluble li#e silicone lubricant
8. This "ight go without saying but deciding to <+oin the "ile high
club- is "ost definitely a fantasy location worth the "iss =o
you really want to be all na#ed and sweaty where so"eone has
+ust recently done a nu"ber two% I thin# not 2eep it in your
pants during plane travel The tip here is that such a location
as plane toilets is better left on paper and in theory
9. ,hilst giving a blow +ob! re"e"ber to pay attention to the
balls Play with the"! fondle the" fre'uently )lso! be sure to
"a#e noises and "oans as this really turns guy-s on
10. )lso! whilst giving a blow +ob! "a#e sure to tell hi" to let you
#now when he will be e+aculating >ust when he tells you he is
about to e+aculate! pull his erection out of your "outh +ust
before he cu"s and allow hi" to stro#e his erection until he
s'uirts into your "outh The vision of seeing his cu" s'uirt
into your open and waiting "outh will be sure to send hi"
through the roof/
11. 0oo# into each other eyes =on-t shut your eyes during the
process of "a#ing love or you can "iss a lot of additional
sensations 1a#e sure to spend an entire love "a#ing session
"aintaining co"plete eye contact with your partner 2eep eye
contact all the way fro" the beginning during foreplay till the
hot ride at the end It allows the opportunity to bond with your
partner and allows a sense of deep inti"acy to be created in the
fact that you #now who your lover is and this is exactly where
you want to be If your partner has never initiated eye contact!
a si"ple ?0oo# at "e! 3Insert 7a"e4@ will suffice +ust fine $ou-ll
hardly feel such a burst of e"otions on your partner-s face in
other circu"stances
12. Tal#ing about how the sensations are "a#ing you feel can
enhance anyone-s ego 5or exa"ple phrases such as Your
pussy is so tight, I love the way your pussy grabs my cock, so
sweet and slick. *r for wo"en ?Youre so big, so heavy, or
You fill every inch of me, can dra"atically increase your
partner-s ego 5or wo"en using such tal#! try to use phrases
that e"phasize how ?big and heavy@ your partners coc# feels!
as this is pri"arily the exact words to s#y roc#et a "an-s ego
1ostly though! try to be "ore direct when tal#ing about
delicate issues and encourage your partner to give direct
answers 5or exa"ple! instead of saying I like when you touch
me there! say I like when you touch my clit )nd for guy-s A
"any wo"en can beco"e extre"ely aroused by dirty tal#! but
so"e not so "uch :hec# with your partner before proceeding
13. If extre"e dirty tal# isn-t your thing though! being "ore vocal
in bed is as si"ple as incorporating "oans and growls 5or
wo"en! "oaning in pleasure is your best bet and using the
words <Yes/ Yes!- *r even <"arder can do the tric# for "ost
Buy-s& "oaning and growling deep at the bac# of your throat is
also great at letting your partner #now what she-s doing right
The "ost si"ple and effective word to say though is his or her
na"e Either whispered! said on a sigh of pleasure or
screa"ing it at the top of your lungs will do great for boosting
inti"acy during sex
14. =irty tal# doesn-t have to be the only way for partners to bond
during sex through audible sti"ulation ) si"ple Youre so
beautiful, and I love you, can dra"atically enhance the love
"a#ing experience provided of course that you do indeed love
your partner However! co"ple"enting your partner-s beauty is
an extre"ely intense way of connecting with your partner on a
e"otional level Buys& Try to avoid words such as ?Youre so
pretty and ?Youre cute!@ because those are the words people
often use to describe things such as ?#hose puppies are so
cute!@ and ?#hats a pretty dress@ .ut the word <beautiful- gives
out a whole new vibe! a connecting vibe! and guys should be
wise to use it )lso! calling a wo"an <se$y- is a great way to
boost her confidence and have her feeling desirable and willing
15. :o"pli"ent hi" 1a#e your partner feel as good as you do by
telling hi" what you really li#ed and how you want hi" to give
you those wonderful sensations over and over again =o not
hold your e"otions bac# Share your excite"ent with your
partner thus creating a special level of inti"acy
16. Co"ance novels are far "ore than the (1
st
century :inderella
"eets Prince :har"ing get up that they used to be ) new line
of ?Erotica@ boo#s are exactly the #ind of literal "aterial any
wo"an should be setting out to get her hands on 1ost erotica
novels are extre"ely graphic in their language and fro"
personal experienceD one can beco"e wet +ust fro" reading the
deliciously naughty phrases used in such novels Thin# verbal
porn and its best )nd trust "e! there a plenty of benefits They
are choc# full of dirty tal# and sexual ideas .uy one and leave
it around the house! "aybe your partner will find it and get
inspired
1E 0ingerie is a no brainier Try to stic# with blac#s! reds and
pin#s and of course! lots and lots of lace There is an endless
supply of lingerie in stores these days so finding the" is not a
proble" Push ups bras are a great way to boost your "ore
enhancing assets and leaving on crotch less panties during sex
can be incredibly erotic for the guy
18. Spea#ing of lingerie 0eave the bra on during sex Then as your
thrusting 3preferably on top4 pull the bra off exposing the
until6now hidden ge"s
19. )nd spea#ing of leaving things onF got a pair of six inch #iller
red heels% 0eave the" on! but everything else off/ 7ever
underesti"ate the power of stilettos/
20. ,ant another use for your #iller red heels% Bot a big
down to the #nee overcoat% =on-t live with your partner%
Perfect/ Show up at his place wearing only your coat and those
heels! enter! strip off your coatF need I say "ore%
21. Playing ga"es during foreplay can be a great! fun way to
explore new found pleasure The ?I wantF@ ga"e is one of "y
favourites The pre"ise of the ga"e is for one person to as# for
so"ething they want! in which their partner co"plies and then
vice versa 1ost ?I want-s@ are for the pleasure of yourself 5or
exa"ple if a wo"an says ?I want to suck your cock!@ this doesn-t
exactly pleasure her as "uch as it pleasure-s the guy and
therefore she "ust only use such a ?want@ if it truly is going to
pleasure her in so"e way ) better exa"ple would be for her to
say ?I want you to suck on my nipples@
Here is an exa"ple of a conversation&
Buy& ?I want you to grab my erection.
In which the wo"an proceeds to do Then she de"ands
so"ething&
,o"an& ?I want you to rub on my clit@
)nd so on and so forth
22. )nother ga"e worth a try is the ?%ay I& ga"e It entails that
either the "an or wo"an as# ?1ay I 3insert desire here4% before
proceeding to do such an act 5or exa"ple a wo"an could as#
a "an ?%ay I run my hands over your chest&@ To which the "an
will of course say yes Then ?%ay I take off your pants%@ The
1ay I-s% are supposed to start off si"ple but proceed into
naughtier territory as ti"e passes So if you start off with a
?may I stroke your nipples%@ by the ti"e you reach the end of
the ga"e "a#e sure your language is as explicit as can be eg
?%ay I suck all the cum of your cock%@ To which he will
enthusiastically say yes/ )nd the great part is that it can wor#
both ways
(G Introducing food into the bedroo" can be great fun )lthough
choosing the right foods are of great i"portance Try and steer
clear of stic#y foods li#e honey and focus on 'uic# and light
foods that you en+oy eating ,hipped crea" is a great exa"ple
as is chocolate )lthough I find sherbet powder to be the
greatest aphrodisiac ,o"en& Sprin#le a trail of powder over
your breasts! down your naval and all the way around your clit
and in the lips of your vagina If your guy doesn-t li#e giving
oral sex then powder down there is a great way to capture his
interest and have you tasting to die for
Here are so"e "ore helpful hints on using food in the bedroo"&
:ha"pagne
The sweet bubbles are a definite crowd6pleaser Try pouring it over
each other 66 not to the point of drenching your "attress! couch! office
chair! etc 66 and lic#ing every drop off If you are well6prepared! chill
the cha"pagne before your rendezvous so that when you hold the
li'uid in your "outh and tease her with your lips! she;ll feel the cool
sensation ,o"en ta#e note& Holding cha"pagne in your "outh then
ta#ing your "an;s "e"ber in your "outh could be disastrous/ The
bubbles in cha"pagne "ight give great sensation elsewhere on the
body! but you have to re"e"ber the head of the penis! particularly
the area +ust below it! is extre"ely sensitive and exposing it directly to
cha"pagne can be 'uite painful The clit however is fine See 8H(
.reath "ints
This food fantasy! "int! creates a tingly! cooling sensation that is
perfect for oral sex Suc# on a strong "int! and be sure to roll it
around in your "outh! then dive right into oral sex 5or extra6intense
pleasure! you can actually use the "int to roll across the clitoris 3or
across your nether regions if you can handle the hotIcold sensation4
.e aware that so"e "int is 'uite strong and can cause pain instead of
pleasure Tread lightly
:hocolate sauce
Ti"e to put a spin on an old classic& :hocolate sauce is always a food
fantasy favorite! but it-s been done before To change things up a bit!
dip a paintbrush in chocolate sauce and draw a "ap on your body
Have your girl follow the path! hitting each of your hot spots as she
+ourneys along )dd "ore chocolate to the areas you-d li#e her to
focus on In #eeping with tradition! feel free to add in so"e whipped
crea" and a couple of cherries
>uicy fruit
7o! not the gu"D please! no gu"/ Instead! grab a sweet! +uicy orange!
grapefruit! strawberry! peach or even a water"elon 3in s"all pieces4
Ta#e a piece of fruit and gently rub it across her lips! nec# and
breasts 0ic#ing the sweet +uices is a treat for the libido and the taste
buds 1a#ing sure there is no stic#y residue re"aining is the best
part 66 it will re'uire harder suc#ing
Hot and cold water
Switching bac# and forth between te"peratures can really heat things
up and is a great food fantasy addition to the bedroo" =uring oral
sex! have your girl drin# hot water and then give you a little "outh
action Then switch it up to ice cubes $ou-ll love the sensation Ice
cubes around her nipples can also be an intense sensory experience
for her
Popsicles
This food fantasy is a great co"bination of fruit and ice& sweet! cold
and delicious 7ot that Popsicles should not be inserted anywhere 66
sugar in the Popsicles can cause bacteria to build up in wo"en!
leading to infections Jse the" to trace over body parts or to "a#e
your tongue nice and cold for bodily exploration
Keggies
:ucu"bers and carrots can double as sex toys! but be careful The
veggies should be washed thoroughly to get rid of pesticides 3which
can cause severe irritation4 $ou should also be aware that while very
pleasurable if used appropriately! things could go terribly wrong
Pieces of veggies can brea# off after they have been inserted into the
body Searching for LleftoversL can be aw#ward! to say the least The
last thing you need is a trip to the EC to have said food fantasy ite"s
extracted
5ood fantasy don;ts
=o not use spicy foods li#e chilli peppers or cayenne $ou could
be in for a world of hurt
=o not allow substances to get too close to the tip of your penis
or inside your gal-s vaginal opening :ertain foods! especially
those containing sugar! can cause bacteria build6up! leading to
yeast infections and other irritations .e sure to clean up
properly
=o not double dip Jse s'ueeze bottles! when available =ipping
your fingers in and out of chocolate sauce containers can be a
tad unsanitary
=o not use foods you are nor"ally allergic to It is +ust co""on
sense
=o not fall asleep with food on or inside you
(M Ice! Ice! .aby Ta#e an ice cube and run it over sensitive spots!
li#e his nipples! lower sto"ach! and inner thighs 5ollow each
stro#e with your hot breath on the area! letting your lips graze
the s#in
(9 Bot an early "eeting in the "orning and have to rush off to
wor# before your partner awa#es% ,hy not leave the" a
naughty re'uest for later on that day when you return ho"e )
si"ple note saying ?Ill meet you in our bedroom at e$actly ' pm.
(e there and be naked! will be sure to have hi" excited all day
long at the possibilities and it gives you both so"ething to loo#
forward to
(H Cole play is a great and fun way to spice things up There is an
endless a"ount of roles both you and your partner can "aster
=ressing the part 3ie wearing unifor"s! or wearing glasses if
you-re a ?naughty secretary@4 is fun! easy and extre"ely varied
He could be the doctor! she the naughty nurse *r better yet!
he the sic# patient! her the naughty! and very helpful nurse *r
he can be the teacher! she the student! or vice versa or the
boss and his naughty secretary! pilot and co6pilot Try and be
inventive with your role playing for exa"ple he could be the
"echanic and you the poor girl who doesn-t have enough
"oney to pay for it to get fixedF but wait/ $ou #now about a lot
of others way in which you could pay hi"F
(E )lso! try and expand the role playing out of the bedroo" Have
your partner go to a certain bar! sit at the counter and pay for
a drin# In you co"e to the sa"e bar! spotting your partner <for
the first ti"e-! wearing the hottest outfit you could con+ure He
is the sexiest guy in the bar and you have to have hi"/ ,altz
on up and "eet hi"! introducing yourself and flirting as if it-s
the first ti"e you-re "eeting each other Then role play your
way through a <one6night stand-
(N ,ant to ta#e role playing +ust that step further% =ressing up in
unifor"s can be a really easy way to get into the role playing
spirit 7urse unifor"s are universally "ainstrea"! and you
can-t go wrong with leather of any #ind Even a bright blonde
deep red! or sultry brunette wig can liven up the role play and
transfor" you into your alter ego 3and "a#ing up a na"e for
your alter ego is an easy way to transfor" in the "o"ent4
(O *r how about a bunny costu"e% $ou could be the new playboy
bunny in town
G0 Safe Cape 6
*ne of the "ost negative things sex can associate with is rape 7o
one denies that pleasure and sexual assault don;t "a#e a pair
with a rare exception ) lot of wo"en clai" to desire for a Lsafe
rapeL as one of the "ost arousing experience So what is Lsafe
rapeL%
To tell it "ore precisely! I would na"e it an intercourse spiced up
with ele"ents of brute force The usual scenery ta#es place
between well6#nown partners or an attractive stranger who is
Ltough but so"ewhat patronizingL and who is absolutely confident
of his actions! the "ore so he never doubts his abilities or so called
success of the "ost passionate night you both are going to have )
wo"an will certainly resists his char"s at first but soon gives in to
his vigor to experience divine pleasure of capitulation
=ue to all this a session! where "an enforces wo"an to have sex!
ta#es her without any condition or ob+ections beco"es so
appealing to "any wo"en )nticipating the possible disapproval! I
can say that no wo"an will want to go through actual rape )s
unli#e the feelings sexual assault evo#es& fear! anger! pain and
hu"iliation! the end of Lsafe rape fantasyL is always satisfaction
and bliss ,hat a wo"an needs in safe rape is to feel the real
"asculine power and sub"issiveness )ll this actually ta#es its
roots fro" the days where gender roles were pretty clear& a "an
was powerful! protective and confident! a wo"an 6 obedient! wea#
and sensitive )nd if we actually thin# it over! our instincts have
old history and haven;t changed so "uch with the ti"e&
"asculinity co"pli"ents fe"inity and sexual power strives for
wea#ness In this regard safe rape is the return to the core of our
deepest urges So if you are willing to fulfill the ulti"ate sex
fantasy of "ost wo"en and give her a treat that will "a#e her feel
a bit vulnerable! go for it
G1 Jp for so"e extre"e pleasureIpain% S P 1 is an abbreviation
for Sadist I 1asochist sex It is a ter" used to describe the sex
and its "any bits and pieces of pain associated with this type
of sex The sadist inflicts pain and asserts control over the
"asochist! with both parties en+oying their role of definition
Such results can be achieved through bondage! handcuffs!
whips! spi#es 3to an extent4! span#ing 3see 8G(4 and "any
others actions e"phasizing power and sub"ission
G( ,ithout a doubt! span#ing can be great fun ) little span# on
the buttoc#s here and there can really arouse so"e wo"en!
and whilst so"e feel asha"ed at feeling such arousal fro"
so"ething as fierce as span#ing! as long as it is done in a
playful "anner! span#ing can be a great co"bination of
pleasure and pain
GG :o""unicate Sit down! crossed leg on the bed! and spill out
your naughtiest! sexiest! raunchiest fantasies 7o barriers! +ust
tal# and wor# out ways in which you could achieve these
fantasies 0earning to co""unicate is vital in a topic that
includes as "any facets as sex does
GM 7ot afraid of needles and pain% ,hy not get a very naughty
piercing It could be as "ainstrea" as your tongue or belly
button! or delve even further and get the following sexually
arousing piercings such as nipple rings! penis head piercings!
vaginal piercings etc
G9 ,o"en& ,ant to experience the <two at a ti"e- pleasure but
don-t li#e the idea of another "an getting his hands on you% 7o
proble"/ Jsing Kibrators and =ildos can be great substitutes
for the real thing Bet your partner to ease a dildo into one
hole! whilst he fills the other one =ouble hole pleasure can be
indescribable but overwhel"ing at first so "a#e sure you are
"ore than ready and wet beforehand
GH *r if a threeso"e with another "an is your idea of having fun
by all "eans introduce another into your bedroo" for the
night 1Qnage R trois are still regarded as great taboos within
society but if your willing! don-t let such tal# stop you fro"
receiving such pleasures Two girls and a guy wor#s li#e a treat
too
GE Strategically placing "irrors around the bedroo" so that you
"ay watch yourself while your partner "a#es love to you can
be incredibly arousing )s "irrors are extre"ely difficult to
place on the roof! try buying portable standing "irrors to place
behind the bed! to the sides or even use the "irrors in the
bathroo" Kiewing yourself whilst having sex can be incredibly
erotic and you "ight +ust be in for a surprise as to how
naughty you "ay feel at watching such a thing
GN Here are so"e "ore options as far as "irrors are concerned
$ou could be on the bathroo" sin#! watching yourself over
your partners shoulder and you thrust into her *r you could
strategically place portable "irrors around the roo" allowing
co"plete angle access *r even a si"ple full length "irror
3preferably the ones incorporated as closet "irror sliding doors4
where if she is on all fours and the "an is penetrating fro"
behind! you can both watch the action which can prove to be
exceptionally erotic
GO Hold onto the thought of that full length "irror/ 1en& Stand
behind your wo"an with her bac# to your chest .oth of you
should be co"pletely na#ed Ceach one hand around her body
to play with her clit while the other hand plays with her
breasts The point of the "irror is so that either you both watch
your "ove"ents over her vagina! or you loc# eyes in the
"irror
M0 *r ta#e it a step further and video tape yourselves having sex
However! this type of thing is a very touchy sub+ect in today-s
society 0ife isn-t perfect and relationships do turn ugly "ore
often than not If you-re truly willing to "a#e a sex tape with
your partner! either ta#e steps towards securing the tape so
that it "ay never be lea#ed online! or at least understand the
repercussions if the relationship goes sour and it ends up
online Having said that though! video taping yourself and
watching the play bac# with your partner can be incredibly
arousing *r "ore positively! you could even learn what you
"ay be doing wrong! or right/
M1 *n the topic of watching yourselfF have your "an lean up off
the bed as he is thrusting into you! while you are straddling his
lap! lay your foreheads together and loo# down .oth watch as
he enters you and then pulls out! watch how wet his coc# gets
with your +uices Thrust slowly! so that every bit can be seen
entering! retreating! entering etc It can be highly erotic to
watch so"ething li#e that
M( ,hen one is without sight! every touch! every sensation is
heightened $our sense of everything around you is heightened
to co"pensate for your lac# of sight Try blindfolding your
partner 3"a#e sure they aren-t pea#ing4 and have your way
with the" 5or the one being blindfolded! it can be incredibly
arousing not #nowing what-s co"ing next! what they will do or
how they will pleasure you
MG .ondage is also a great way to spice things up $ou can si"ply
tie both hands above their head! or you can do all fours 3both
hands and feet4 1a#e sure bonds aren-t too tight! and of
course A always have a safe word 3<stop- see"s li#e the "ost
preferable and relevant of the lot4 .ondage allows the other
person to be in co"plete control over there partner to do as
they please! how they please 5or "any this sub"ission on one
side and co"plete control on the other side can be unbelievably
thrilling
MM Spea#ing of control and sub"ission! such roles can be played
out without the use of bondage Si"ply decide who is in control
and who "ust sub"it to the others every desire Ta#ing control
and de"anding can be truly arousing and is worth a try at
least once 3This is a "ilder version of S P 14
M9 :a"ping trip% >ust you and your partner! alone! in a tent! in
the "iddle of nowhere% Try "a#ing love within the confines of
the sleeping bag It increases the inti"acy to heightened levels
and can really give a sense of connection and bonding
MH )nd what could be better than "a#ing love under the stars% )
great idea is to ta#e that sleeping bag out under the stars! to
loo# up and see your partner-s face surrounded by thousands
of stars whilst "a#ing love can be incredibly e"otional
ME 1any wo"en prefer a fully waxed pubic area .ut a new trend
that ca"e about in the (1
st
century is specialised waxing It is a
specific type of waxing that allows certain letters! sy"bols!
words of hair to be waxed so that the hair reveals such i"ages
) great way to "a#e your guy go wild is to have the first letter
of his na"e waxed into your public region )n arrow pointing
towards your clit is also a great idea! or for your wedding night
A a love heart is 'uite a ro"antic gesture
MN )nd spea#ing of ro"ance A as far as wo"en are concerned A
there can never be enough ro"ance in the world )nd such
ro"antic gestures are sure to create a heightened sense of
connection whilst "a#ing love 1en rely on visual sti"uli for
arousal! where as wo"en rely on the e"otional connection! as
well ) great way to achieve such connections is through
ro"ance )nd what better way to show ro"ance than by good
old fashion gestures .uy your wo"an flowers or chocolates!
give her a nec# "assage or fill a bath with scented soaps! rose
petals and light a few candles here and there Co"ance "ay be
old fashioned but it is a sure fire way to get any wo"en in the
"ood
MO ) great 3if so"ewhat challenging4 way to spice up ones sex life
is to abstain fro" having sex for a certain a"ount of ti"e The
saying <)bsence "a#es the heart grow fonder- couldn-t be "ore
true in this case ,hether you abstain for a wee#! two! or even
three A hell "aybe even a "onth A the end result could be a
soul shattering cli"ax of pent up sexual frustration )s a rule
of thu"b! the "ore ti"e you abstain fro" sex! the higher your
sexual tension rises! thus leading to "ore frenzied and
ulti"ately satisfying and poignant sex
90 Having a sexual partner typically "eans that "asturbation is
no longer a re'uire"ent However! if you want to send your guy
wild A "asturbate in front of hi"! touch yourself everywhere!
your breasts! your clit A but follow one very i"portant rule A he
"ustn-t under any circu"stances touch He can loo# all he
wants 3pant all he wants4 but he "ust refrain fro" touching
you as you pleasure yourself :o"bine the touching with loud
"oans and groans! breath heavy and bring yourself to a cli"ax
within "inutes Buaranteed to sexually arouse any "an
91 5eeling really dirty% Porn isn-t as "uch a taboo as it used to be
In this day and age of the internet A porn is half the reason for
internet alone Pornhubco" has a great variety of free "inute
to hour long videos that are a great source of inspiration for
sexually frustrated couples ,atch so"e with your partner!
wor# out so"e "oves or roles to play! or even have it playing in
the bac#ground and let the dirty porn stars words bea"
through the spea#ers as you have sex *r better yet A i"itate
the"
9( Ta#ing a wo"en-s virginity is always going to be a tric#y
situation Try easing her into it by beginning with a heavy
round of foreplay Tend to her clit first! "a#e sure she is plenty
wet 3or for good "easure! as she "ay be 'uite nervous for her
first ti"e and is unable to relax A buy so"e lubrication4 Try to
"a#e her co"e first through clitoral sti"ulation so that she is
nice and wet and willing .efore entering her with your erection
though! first ease one finger inside and let her ad+ust to the feel
and width of it Then ease a second finger! then a third If you
thin# she isn-t as ready as she could be! try giving her a g6spot
orgas" 3see tip 8 NN4 so that she will be "ore than wet by the
ti"e you finally decide to enter There are two approaches to
ta#ing a girls virginity )nd yes! it is always bound to hurt the
first ti"e There are two "ethods of approach here A in which
you should discuss with her beforehand on what she would
prefer $ou can either enter her slowly! inch by inch! stretching
her as you go and letting her ad+ust to the pain *r you can
enter to full hilt! in all force! stretching her in one 3painful4
thrust It is truly up to the fe"ale and the first "ethod does
see" a lot "ore preferable
Here-s a little light reading about ?5irst Ti"e-s@&
Having sex for the first ti"e is really an experience that influences our
further sex life to a greater or lesser extent However "any nu"erous
affairs and experiences you go through your life! this first aw#ward
and so"ewhat inti"idating one is li#e a bright spot in a boo# that
"a#es all the other encounters connected with your first intercourse
.ut the thing is that "ost often our first ti"e sex ta#es place in the
age where libido urges are pretty insistent and go ahead of our LbrainL
and our e"otional "aturity )t "ost 1E61N years old your #now6how
is rather narrow in ter"s of real relationships )s I said! you are "ore
physical than e"otional at this age )nd considering that developing
sex into a #ind of great thing does re'uire so"e s#ills! which are not
only techni'ues and the stuff but your ability to find understanding
with your partner on a "utual level! your first ti"e sex beco"es
so"ehow a clu"sy trial )nd that is not considering a lot of other
reasons li#e curiosity and a desire to feel "ature
)nd I thin# that the start really has its after effects on your future
experience! especially if it was an LunsuccessfulL one *f course with
ti"e you learn a lot and you beco"e so to say an expert in so"e
things! but if your first ti"e happened with the wrong partner! on a
wrong ti"e and as often with a hot te"per and head! the
disappoint"ent beco"es a usual thing )nd you need 'uite a ti"e
before you overco"e that first ti"e blunder and learn to see sex as a
way to give and achieve ulti"ate pleasure
9G ,o"en& hate going down on your partner% )nd don-t li#e the
idea of spraying whipped crea" down there every ti"e he
wants so"e head% If you don-t li#e the idea of using food <down
there- then flavored condo"s are a great idea It "a#es giving
head that whole lot "ore fun and won-t leave you gagging for
so"e toothpaste Tell your partner that if he wants fellatio!
then this is all your gonna give They co"e in all different
flavours these days and it is al"ost as if you really are suc#ing
on a lollipopF
9M )lso! one of the "ain reasons wo"en hate going down is
because of the <nasty- taste of se"enIpre6cu" There is salt in
sper" so for so"e it can be 'uite pleasurable! others not so
"uch 1en& "a#e sure you drin# lots of water/ ) "an-s diet
has a great deal of influence over the taste of the sper" It has
been said that if a "an consu"es pineapple +uice on a regular
basis! his sper" will have a sweeter taste *n the opposite end
of the spectru"! if he s"o#es a pac# of cigarettes every day
and drin#s a pin# of whis#ey with dinner! well then the sper"
"ay end up tasting li#e gasoline/ 1a#e sure you watch your
diet
5or better tasting sper" try& Brapes! "elons! "angos! apples!
parsley! celery! cinna"on! pepper"int and le"on
5or horrible tasting sper"& :auliflower! broccoli! asparagus! garlic!
onions! sodas! alcohol and nicotine
99 *r a very si"ple and easy way! add so"e taste to oral sex by
rubbing his penis with a "int6flavored lube
9H ,hile you-re down there next! pull his pants down to "id thigh!
+ust above the #nees It li"its the "ove"ent of his legs and
"a#es hi" feel li#e a captive at your "ercy
9E 0ove bites 3or alternatively #nown as <hic#eys-4 are a great way
to pay attention to your lover They are te"porary bruises or
"ar#s caused by #issing! suc#ing or biting the s#in forcefully
enough to burst blood vessels beneath the s#in 0ove .ites can
be so"ewhat re"iniscent of your teenage years 3as it is
typically pro"inent a"ong teenagers4 and can bring bac# so"e
pleasant "e"ories Try and contain the love bites to places not
visible to others 3as "uch as at the ti"e of giving so"eone one
on the nec# see"s pleasurable A by "orning its "ore of an
e"barrassing inconvenience4 5or wo"en a great place to give
the" a hic#ey is +ust above the breast A it-s in an erotic spot
and isn-t visible to others 5or guys +ust below the belly button
and +ust above the penis
9N It goes without saying that one should be sun s"art when
frolic#ing on the beach or anywhere out in the sunshine
*ffering to rub sunscreen all over your partner is a great way to
stay sun s"art as well as cop a feel on a crowded beach .ut
"a#e sure your hands stay within all safe boundaries when in
public! unless the beach is deserted that isF
9O Boing to dinnerIa weddingIsocial function and wearing a #iller
dress% =on-t wear any panties underneath and then +ust before
you leave for the night out tell your guy that you-re not wearing
any panties It-s bound to have hi" hot all night #nowing that
you-re co"pletely bare underneath and only he #nows
H0 1assaging your partner can be a great way to increase inti"acy
in the relationship and give you a chance to "a#e your partner
feel good si"ply with your touch 1assaging with oils are a
great idea and the best places to "assage are on the nec# and
the entire bac# 5or the best access to a full bac# "assage is to
place your partner facing down on their sto"ach with you
straddling their buttoc#s giving you co"plete access )nd bear
in "ind! there is no need to "aster the art of erotic "assage in
order to please your partner ,hat you really need is so"e
i"agination and a playful "ood $ou can stro#e his body with
your hair! or your breasts! you "ay tic#lishly run your
eyelashes along his body Ta#e ti"e with the "assage! and use
it as a for" of foreplay =on;t rush to his penis or testes 3once
you turn hi" over4 this you "ay leave as a dessert Explore
every inch of his body until you see hi" urging for your sweet
touch down there
H1 ) strip tease is a great way to spice up your sex life )nd it goes
both ways& "an to wo"an! wo"an to "an 1usic is optional
5or wo"en a great song is ?Slave for you@! by .ritney Spears
and ?.aby .oy@ and ?7aughty Birl@ by .eyonce 5or guys! any
of that corny strip "usic will be great for a laugh and can be
'uite effective if you #now what you-re doing
H( 0ap =ances are an effective and si"ple way to arouse your
partner Sit hi" on a chair! straddle hi"! do your thing )nd
for an extra added a"ount of zing A blind fold hi" and "a#e
sure he stays put in the chair 0ap dancing can be 'uite easy to
do as "ost of the focus is to do solely with the lap area creating
friction on the "an-s penis and giving hi" a great shot of your
breasts as you "ove up and down on his lap
Here-s a "ore in depth loo# at 0ap =ances&
If you want to give a real surprise to your lover! the best way to do so
is to ta#e hi" abac# with a lap dance
0ap dances are an erotic dance that is usually perfor"ed when your
partner is seated The observer should #eep to the rule of not
touching you during a lap dance 3which "a#es it extre"ely arousing4
and you are trying to virtually seduce your lover with your
perfor"ance Though you "ight not be a professional! so"e basic
techni'ues are easy to learn
How to start
Set the "ood
The "ost i"portant thing for perfor"ing lap dance is to feel sexy
and attractive for your beloved one If you start criticizing yourself!
you si"ply cannot deliver the erotic "essage to your lover
Ta#e off the clothes and loo# at yourself in the "irror 6 you should
ad"ire your own body 2eep in "ind that he loves you in spite of
all the "inor i"perfections
$ou can also do so"e rehearsal& close your eyes! sway your hips
in tune with "usic! i"agine yourself as a #itten to "a#e your
"ove"ents s"oother
=ress to be undressed
It is "ore essential what;s underneath your clothes ,ear
so"ething special li#e sexy stoc#ings! lacey lingerie! but "a#e sure
you feel co"fortable in your outfit *n the outside it can be
so"ething very si"ple! li#e his shirt or so"ething +ust as sexy as
your lingerie
Set the scene
Turn on the soft relaxing "usic Sit hi" down to the chair and
position yourself in front of hi" Start swaying your hips slowly in
tune with "usic! getting closer to hi" )nd away you goF
HG This should go without saying but the wo"an-s body is a place
to be explored and one of the "ost co""only overloo#ed places
on the fe"ale body by "en! surprisingly enough! is the breasts
Ta#e ti"e to twea# the nipple of one breast between your
fingers while you suc# on the other one Ta#e ti"e to perfect
the perfect suc# and twea# rhyth" "a#ing sure to switch
between breasts It is verifiably possible for a wo"an to co"e
through breast sti"ulation alone so don-t be one of those "en
who s'ueeze the area and "ove on satisfied/ There is a whole
playing field right there on her chest that will send her wild/
HM )nd did you #now a guy-s nipples are +ust as sensitive as the
wo"an-s% Bet to it ladies/
65. .low .ubbles Ta#e a swig of cha"pagne before you go down!
#eep it in your "outh by creating a seal with your lips! then
use the tongue to swirl the bubbles around her clitoris 7erve
endings react to the bubbles! heightening sensation
66. Treat her clitoris gently Probably the "ost co""on "ista#e
"en do when sti"ulating wo"en;s clitoris with their fingers is
when they i"itate their penis sti"ulation ,hen it co"es to her
clitoris! any harsh sti"ulation can spoil her pleasure 5irst of
all! explore her genitals! finding her clitoris! her labia and the
opening of vagina =o not start right with clitoral sti"ulationD
give her so"e ti"e to build up the arousal .esides! rubbing
her in the wrong place can be 'uite annoying and ineffective
Cun the tips of your fingers over her inner thighs! play with her
pubic hair! gently touch her labia to "a#e her anticipate
pleasure Tease her until she will hint you by spreading her
legs wider or pushing her thighs forward
HE Have your "an lean against the headboard of your bed
Straddle hi" and place your vagina lightly over his penis Ta#e
the penis in your hand and rub the end against your clitoris as
if it were a finger Slide it up and down the outside lips of your
vagina! teasing your clitoris and all the way up to your belly
button 2eep doing this until either you co"e! or he co"es on
your belly
HN Toys are a great addition to spice up anyone-s sex life .esides
dildos and vibrators! a great addition is a <.utt Plug- They are
designed to be inserted in the anus for sexual pleasure They
are what they are described to be A plugs! that plug your anal
hole whilst the other hole is being filled by your partner The
difference between this and a dildo is that it plugs right where
it should be and there is no roo" for any fall out while your
roc#ing around in pleasure .e "indful though that you are
heavily lubricated before inserting one of these
HO *r alternatively! get your hands on an inflatable butt plug
These are exactly the sa"e as butt plugs except they inflate
over ti"e So you basically +ust stic# it in! and it slowly inflates
to a "axi"u" size! increasing the hole of your anus It helps if
preparing for anal with a "an of very big proportions
E0 Sleeping na#ed after sex is often a given for "ost couples .ut
try to 3unless the cli"ate does not per"it4 sleep na#ed every
night The unclothed body to body contact will increase
inti"acy levels greatly It-s a si"ple act with great results and
by the "orningF well you-re pretty "uch ready to get at it/
E1 Pole dancing is a great way to not only get in shape but sex up
your confidence Even if your partner never gets to see you pole
dance! for "any guys! +ust #nowing that their partner is pole
dancing sheds the" in a whole new sensual light )nd hey if
you-re luc#y and find yourself and your partner on a deserted
street with a la"p postF
E( ,or#ing out is not only a great way to loose weight! but is
widely #nown to release endorphins that "a#e you happy and
give you so"e "uch needed energy for your sex life Every once
in a while! "a#e sure to go on a run with your partner! by the
ti"e you get ho"e you-ll be undeniably all sweaty! and what
better way to cool down than so"e heated shower sex *r
watch your partner wor# out The flexing of the "uscles! or the
up down +ig of the breasts and the sweaty "us# s"ell you only
get fro" hard wor# can be a great aphrodisiac for so"e
EG HeIShe-s half way across the world and your sexual frustration
is flaring out of control% Phone sex can be a great way to
connect with a partner while they are away This however! does
rely solely on words! so dirty tal# is a "ust .e prepared to be
as nasty as possible with your words Such words that should
be used to reach a cli"ax over the phone loosely include& ?cock,
pussy, thrust, wet, clit!@ and every other explicit word
i"aginable 0ots of "oans are re'uired and of course A the
touching is ever so i"portant )nd the results can be off the
charts if the right words are used/
EM Strip po#er can bring a lot of fun into the bedroo" The rules
are si"ple $ou loseF you lose a piece of clothing along with
itF until you-re left withF wellF nothing on
E9 1en& Have your partner sit down on your na#ed lap! her bac#
to your chest! your erection placed between her buttoc#s
chee#s Have her spread her legs out and instruct her not to
"ove a "uscle .ring your hand around and play with her clit
The friction of her buttoc#s writing against your erection and
her co"plete sub"ission to let you have your way is sure to
have her cli"axing in no ti"e Hint& 1a#e sure she doesn-t
"ove until you instruct her toF she will cli"ax as soon as she
does start to thrust against your fingers
EH Text your "an racy one6word "essages that! when strung
together! hint at what you want hi" to do to you that night! or
rather! what you are going to do to hi"/
EE In the "iddle of intercourse! dig your nails into his butt and
pull hi" closer
EN :reate a buffet of sensual pleasure by blindfolding your "an
Then alternate using a cash"ere glove! sil# panties! and a
piece of leather to stro#e his s#in 7ext! it-s your turn/
EO To help you orgas" during "issionary! slip a s"all vibrator
over your clitoris while he-s on top He-ll also reap the benefits
fro" that extra bit of buzzing on his nerve endings
N0 In girl6on6top! as you are sliding up his penis! contract your
vaginal "uscles! s'ueezing your way up his "e"ber Then
release and slide bac# down his penis The clenching of the
"uscles will help you reach orgas" and give hi" a tight fit 5or
"ore infor"ation on P: "uscles see 8 O04
N1 Panties on a wo"an during oral can increase the sexual
frustration to heightened erotic levels 5or exa"ple! finger her
under her panties The barrier of clothes can "a#e the act
see" all that "ore exclusive and naughty )nd for guys! leave
your +eans on and have her suc# your coc# through the zipper
N( Kacation sex is a great way to spice things up )nd choosing a
ro"antic spot such as the .aha"as or the Bree# Islands can
"ost certainly do wonders Treat it as your second honey"oon!
or if you-re not "arried! +ust "a#e sure that the ti"e is spent
with each other! learning things about each other and exploring
each other sexually Kacation is a perfect ti"e to relax and it
gives you hours on end to "a#e ti"e to "a#e love
NG 0ight the fireplace The glow of the e"bers can cast both you
and your partner in a "ore appealing light 3literally4 Pull up a
rug! "a#e so"e hot chocolate and sprawl out in front of the
fire 7o TK! no radio! +ust the two of you tal#ing and watching
the fire If you want to do ro"ance and increase inti"acy
during sex 3hopefully sex on the rug after the hot chocolate4
then this will be a great start
NM This tip "ight be a little silly to so"e! and so"e "ay say
irrelevant! but dancing is a great way to spice things up This is
because it basically entails that you "ust touch without
touching! being so close and yet so far The inti"acy of a
dance! and being so close together and yet not touching the
way you want can be a great aphrodisiac as it increases your
sexual tension i""ensely
N9 In sexual context <edging- refers to the process of bringing
yourself or a partner right up to the point of orgas" and then
pulling bac# before release! and then repeating the process
Edging can be lots of fun and it-s also a great way to deepen
your connection to your own! or so"eone else-s sexual
response The whole point of edging is to prolong and postpone
orgas"! so edging can ta#e any length of ti"e! but the results
are always worth it
NH Here-s a techni'ue called <The Slide- Bet her to #neel on the
end of the bed with her upper chest touching the "attress!
while you stand behind her This creates a steep angle for her
bac# and elongates the vaginal barrel It "a#es her feel tighter!
you get a fantastic view and she-ll en+oy having her nipples
gently sti"ulated by rubbing on the "attress Everyone-s a
winner
NE B Spot and B spot positions&
The B6spot& so"e thin# it-s a "ythD others are convinced that it-s
not only real! but it-s also highly effective in triggering "ind6
blowing fe"ale orgas"s ,hile the scientific co""unity "ay still
be divided on the B6spot-s existence! as# any wo"an who has had
a B6spot orgas"! and she-ll tell you that it-s definitely there! and
she wants you to sti"ulate it
0ocating the B6spot can be an epic 'uest It can be re"ar#ably
easy to find in so"e wo"en! while in others it-s al"ost i"possible
If you put your finger insider her vagina with your pal" up while
she-s on her bac# and then bring your fingers up in a ?co"e hither@
"otion! you should be so"ewhere close to the B6spot 1anual
sti"ulation of the B6spot "ay be the easiest way to explore its
possibilities! but you can also incorporate it into intercourse If you
choose the right positions! you-ll have a greater chance of hitting
her B6spot
)rom behind
Cear6entry positions are so"e of the "ost reliable when it co"es to
sti"ulating the B6spot during intercourse $ou can try it doggy
style or in the spooning position 3both of you lying on your sides!
facing the sa"e way as you enter her fro" behind4 for a "ore
relaxed option In order to have the greatest chance of success with
a rear6entry position! the penis should rub against the front wall of
the vagina ,hen she-s on all fours! she should arch her bac#
slightly and not put her head down on the bed $ou can try lifting
her hips a little and thrusting in a downward "otion to perfect this
B6spot position
*hes on top
1any wo"en prefer positions in which they are on top This
probably has a lot to do with the fact that when she-s on top! she-s
in control ,o"an6on6top positions! li#e cowgirl and its variations!
are great for hitting the B6spot because the wo"an can angle her
hips +ust right! allowing her to find the arrange"ent that feels best
to her She can try leaning forward or bac# while ad+usting the
speed and pressure applied to the B6spot
#he right rotation
Cotated ,o"an is a tantric sex position that is excellent for
sti"ulating the B6spot Start by lying flat on your bac# with her
straddling you! facing away Then she should carefully lean down
until she can grab your an#les and is lying on top of you *nce in
position! she can "ove up and down or circle her hips in a figure6N
pattern The angle "a#es her vagina tighten up! so the rubbing of
the penis provides intense B6spot pleasure She "ay also get so"e
clitoral sti"ulation in this position! so she can have the best of
both worlds
"eels over head
Positions in which her feet are on your chest or shoulders are also
great B6spot positions In tantra! this position is referred to as The
5lower Press Start off li#e you would if you were using the
"issionary position! then once you have penetrated her! she
should lift her legs up and bac# until they are pressed against your
chest or over your shoulders $ou can lean against her thighs for
support while she grabs your hips and brings you closer for
"axi"u" penetration This B6spot position wor#s because of the
angle of the penis as it enters and the depth it can reach
)usion
To get into the fusion position! sit up with your legs stretched out
in front of you and your ar"s behind you for support $our partner
should straddle you in the cowgirl position and then lean bac#!
putting her weight on her ar"s behind her body She then can
roc# bac# and forth This B6spot position is difficult to "aintain for
a long ti"e since it will tire her ar"s 'uite 'uic#ly! but trying it out
is worth it since the angle and "otion are great for hitting the B6
spot
NN =o not overeat =uring arousal and intercourse! the blood flows
to your penis! and excessive food will not contribute to a better
erection It;s better to include vegetables! li#e celery and
to"atoes! nuts! seafood! olive oil and other healthy foods in
your diet! especially if you plan a hot evening 5ast6food and
alcohol will "a#e you sluggish in bed that won;t loo# sexy for
your partner
NO )void "onotony There is no need to focus all your attention on
her clitoris )t so"e point she "ay want your fingers inside her
vagina and then again on her clitoris6 be receptive to s"all
clues she gives you If your techni'ue beco"es predictable! it
"ay sooner no longer bring her that pleasure she once
experienced )lso stic#ing your fingers inside her vagina right
fro" the start is not a good idea If she is not fully aroused!
your fingers "ay beco"e useless It is better to use your fingers
playfully! touching her outside and inside and #eep up with her
needs
O0 5or wo"en! P: "uscle 3the "uscles of your vagina4 exercising
not only strengthens her vaginal "uscles but also intensifies
her sensations $ou can s'ueeze your P: "uscles around your
own fingers! sex toys or around your "an-s penis It is very
si"ple to do Ce"e"ber bac# to a ti"e when you needed to pee
so badly but weren-t within reach of a bathroo" ,ell! you held
it in by clenching the "uscles of your vagina together! right%
,ell! that-s all you need to do )nd you can do it sitting down
at your des#! right now in fact >ust clench in and out Koila/
O1 Here are 10 foreplay tric#s she will love&
+issing
Bive her gentle #isses all over her body to find her sensitive spots
$ou "ay be surprised to discover new hidden zones on the bac# of
her nec# or inner thighs Jse your lips only while #issing! slowly
gliding the" along her s#in wa#ing her body with every touch of
your lips
,icking
$our tongue is a best tool when you explore her body S#illful
lovers #now that the tongue can be even "ore artful in bringing
wo"en to orgas" 5or war"ing up you can start fro" her nec#
and ears wor#ing down to her navel and belly! continuing your way
up her bac# and buttoc#s 2eep it wet and your tongue flat and
relaxed while fluttering along her body
#ouching
Her s#in is very receptive to touch so use your hands to awa#en
her body Spontaneous "oves are highly appreciated by ladies so
do not ignore s"all signs of attention outside the bedroo" Place
your hand on her #nee or on her thighs when she is not expecting
it She will feel a nice tingle that will attune her for so"ething "ore
spicy 1assage her erogenous zones using gliding stro#es of your
hands 6 this is effective techni'ue that is both relaxing and
arousing
*cratching
0ightly scratch her bac# and buttoc#s or draw lines with your
fingers This can "a#e her purr with pleasure .e gentle not to
leave "ar#s on her s#in or she "ight not en+oy your initiative
-inching
Jse your fingers to softly pinch her "oan zones 6 "any wo"en li#e
sensations that are slightly painful The "ost i"portant thing here
is to #eep to a happy "ediu" =o not pinch too hard as it can
actually be a turn6off She "ight li#e if you pinch her nipples or
buttoc#s 6 it sti"ulates her nerve centers and "a#e her feel an
a"azing "ix of sensations
*panking
,ar" her up! stro#ing her butt with your pal"s and then span#
her Span#ing is a source of sexual pleasure for "any wo"en who
en+oy feeling li#e a Lbad girlL while you Lpunish herL Her buttoc#s
are full of nerve endings and that gives intense sensations 2eep to
a happy "ediu" while perfor"ing span#ing 6 do it light and soft so
as not to hurt her! stro#ing her butt fro" ti"e to ti"e
.ibrating
) nice buzz of vibrator on her hot spots can beco"e an
unforgettable experience for her Jsing a vibrator for "assaging
her erogenous zones can bring unforgettable sensations to her
especially when perfor"ed by you Kibrations are "ore than
welco"e if you use the" on her "ost inti"ate zones Though be
careful as she "ight reach orgas" faster than intercourse starts
(iting
Bive her 'uic# light bites on her ears! nec#! inner thighs! breasts
or butt These are "ost receptive zones for sensual biting .e
careful not to bite too intense or you can cross her pain threshold
The #ey to pleasant biting is her feedbac#6 if she "oans and
wriggles 6 go on to set your wild passion free
(lowing
.low on her nec#! her ears and her clitoris for delicate sti"ulation
.reathing war" air on her sensitive zones is a good non6touch
techni'ue for teasing $ou can add "ore sensual treat to your play
stro#ing her erogenous zones with a sil# scarf or a feather while
blowing
/ooling
Ta#e an ice cube in your "outh and run it between her shoulder
blades or her belly This can "a#e her wriggle with pleasure but
don;t expose her to cold touch too long 1a#e sure to war" her
sensitive zones rubbing her s#in with your hands after cooling
O( Bive oral sex while your partner is asleep 7othing is better
than wa#ing up to oral stro#es fro" your lover $our partner
will thin# heIshe is +ust having a wonderfully erotic! sensual
drea" and then they-ll wa#e up and realise it-s you who is
physically pleasuring the"
OG Taste your partner-s sper" If you-re a guy fingering a girl! once
she cli"axes and co"es all over your fingers pull the" out and
suc# all the +uices off your fingers It-s so carnal it-s bound to
"a#e her all hot with erotic thoughts *r better yet! send your
guy wild by pulling his penis out of your vagina during sex and
lic#ing your +uices off his penis Enough saidF his tongue will
be wagging
OM ,o"en& Cight before he is about to cli"ax! spread your legs
really wide 3as wide as you possibly can4 It allows hi" to
plunge really deep as he explodes with pleasure
O9 )s he is waiting for you to co"e into the bedroo"! put on a
white t6shirt and co"pletely drench it with water $our na#ed
breasts will be clearly visible underneath and your nipples will
be hardened pea#s through the fabric fro" the cold of the
water ,al# out and watch as his +aw drops/
OH 0istening to "usic during sex can be a great booster and can
ta#e care of any aw#ward silences you "ay have during sex
Ever seen those scenes in the "ovies where the actors are
going at it li#e rabbits with heavy roc# "usic blaring in the
bac#ground% ,ell! when opting for so"e pounding hardcore
sex go for so"e straight out Heavy 1etal li#e %etallica *r if
you-re in the "ood for so"e serious! slow love "a#ing! go for
so"e soulful Cn. "usic li#e 0sher Stic# to whatever gets you
in the "ood though! and be "indful that every genre of "usic
can be used for different types of sex
OE Probably the "ost si"ple of all tips is this one Birls& Ce"ove
the condo" for hi" It is the si"plest way of showing that you
care about hi"! al"ost li#e a than# you for the great orgas"
he "ay have +ust given you
ON Three lines Teenage fantasy )bandoned road .ac# Seat
OO .efore he gets ho"e fro" wor# ta#e a photo of yourself fully
clothed in your "ost desirable outfit Place it +ust outside the
front door The next photo should reveal you again! but with
one ite" of clothing ta#en off your body Put that photo a few
feet away fro" the first :ontinue to place the photos in a trail
leading towards the bedroo"! with each ti"e in the photo
revealing "ore and "ore of your clothes being shed ,hen he
gets ho"e! he can follow the photos all the way to the bedroo"
where you will be waiting! star# na#ed Bet hi" to ta#e the
final photo
100,o"an on top& How to ride a "an
,o"an on top sex positions can be not only very gratifying for a
wo"an but also one of the "ost favorite guy;s position The reason
is si"ple& being the receiver in the process of love"a#ing! he can
si"ply en+oy the ride while watching the beautiful curves of the
fe"ale body However! being on top doesn;t only "ean you sit there
and "ove In order to derive "ost pleasure fro" this on top sex
position! wo"en and "en need to find the best co"fortable and
en+oyable angle to "ove
There are a lot of variations to wo"an on top sex position $ou can
choose so"e of these&
1 1an lies on his bac#! wo"an leans forward towards "an;s
face! resting on her hands
( 1an lies on his bac#! wo"an faces away fro" "an
G 1an is sitting with his legs wide open! wo"an e"braces hi"
sitting on top and facing hi"
M 1an is sitting! wo"an is sitting on hi" facing away
9 1an lies on his bac#! wo"an is lying on hi" with her legs
along his body
H 1an is sitting with his legs wide open! wo"an lies on her
bac# !facing the "an! resting on her elbows and her legs
around "an;s waist
Throughout all these variations though! it is "ost i"portant that
you both feel co"fortable 5or a wo"an! finding the right angle can
be crucial to increasing her pleasure as well as his
101Try to! at least every once in a while! control your orgas" and
wor# together so that you can both orgas" at the sa"e ti"e
That way no one is left behind and the co"bined feeling of both
of your releases is a spectacular "ust try It "ight be hard
wor# for so"e but it will be "ost definitely be worth it in the
end
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