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In all cases on this website the words slave training mean consensual
slave training in adherence to generally accepted bdsm lifestyle
practices.
If there is no consent or mutual agreement, before you start, then there is abuse. I
recommend having the slave read every page of this or whatever training plan you use
so she fully understands and agrees to your training style and methods. Of all things,
in slave training, communication is the most important.
Do you want to train a slave to serve, obey and please you? Then I believe you have
come to the right place to learn slave training. In addition to guiding her in her
desires, you learn the BDSM lifestyle, hypnosis, bondage and many other skills
needed. I would also recommend that you not limit your learning about consensual
BDSM to this site. If fact, there are 1000s of sites devoted to BDSM and Id suggest
both of you spend time exploring. There are no two households alike, in any
dynamic, it takes time to develop your style. Just always keep it safe, sane and by all
mean consensual.
I discuss these four cornerstones of B.E.S.T. and general practices and theories of
slave training. Study each of the four training cornerstones.
would suggest that you always error on the side of safety both emotionally and
physically. Spending additional time to discuss issues in never a problem. You have
to trust each other to move alone this patch together.
Not everyone is suited for the bdsm lifestyle or wants it. That is why communication
is important. Both parties must know what is involved and agree to proceed. There
is usually no single step from the vanilla world (without bdsm) to a master/slave
relationship. It is a gradual journey you take together with mutual understanding,
communication, agreement and growth. Take the time to let trust grow.
I get many emails from submissives that want their partner to be dominant and in the
lifestyle and from dominants that want their partner to be a submissive in the
lifestyle. My advice is always the same. Not everyone wants this lifestyle. For the
relationship to work both parties have to understand it and want it.
If you started the relationship vanilla (without bdsm) then it may remain that way
because you cant change the parters mind or make that decision for them. Yes, you
can discuss it with them and see if they are willing to try it but you cant force it on
them. This is a lifestyle of personal choice not force. Many, many times the answer
is no the partner does not want to live a bdsm lifestyle. In that case, you have to
honor the partners wishes and remain vanilla or find a new partner. It is that simple.
Even if your partner has a dominant personality that does not mean he wants to by
your bdsm lifestyle dominant. Even if her basic personality is that of a submissive
that does not mean she wants the bdsm lifestyle. It takes both personality and a
desire to be in the bdsm lifestyle. The term informed consent is often used in the
lifestyle. Both parties know what is expected and agree before starting.
A slave begins her path into slavery by giving up choices. Often a slave contract
clearly states both parties requirements. A slave needs to go into this with her eyes
wide open. The purpose of this guideline is to train her to the point she is worthy of
being a collared slave girl.
A master should design her training to mold her into the type of slave you desire. If
you wish a sex slave, then teach her those skills. If you require domestic, then train in
those skills. A Master trains a slave to fit his needs. She can be trained to have many
skills if required.
A new dominant in the lifestyle, first must learn to Master a slave girl and conduct
safe training and BDSM play. Get help if needed.
Many in the lifestyle follow the Goren ways. This came from a series of books written
by John Norman about life on the mythical planet of Gor. It is not necessary to follow
this brand of the lifestyle. Masters have been training slaves long before the books. I,
like many relish the books, but prefer my own style of training.A new slave will find
the lifestyle crammed with slave positions, protocols, speech restrictions, rituals and
rules. It is not an absolute, to have all these, but most new slave girls respond well to
them.
understand all the diversities of the lifestyle. Set your limits for training and expect
them to be followed. Even after you meet to start the training, continue to have a
safe call set up for a while. I know you are eager but your safety comes first.
If you are in a relationship and he wants to change to to a dominant submissive one,
it is your right to refuse. This is done by mutual agreement.
If you sense there is a red flag problem, then there probably is and you need to use
caution.
Risk and Consent: RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink) is a concept you need to
research if you plan on including intense or unusual BDSM play into your lifestyle.
The concept of RACK puts the responsibility squarely on the shoulders of the
individuals conducting BDSM play to be aware of the risk in the kink play they want
to engage in. It also says that the risk must be understood and consensual. RACK
still includes all parties to consent to the kink, or scene play. However for the
purposes of this website SSC is the focus not RACK. SSC generally holds that only
activities that are considered safe, sane, and consensual (SSC) are permitted. These
can be seen at any public dungeon in the U.S. Local training is also available in most
areas. SSC
Thank you for your support for this slave training guide since the site began in 2002. I
hope we continue together exploring the Master/slave dynamics for years and years
through this general bdsm lifestyle and slave training guide.