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life for the last 25 years was not worth living. I could not help much as I was getting more
apprehensive and that may have bleed into my voice. On the up side I think I am getting better
at reading moods based on vocal properties.
3/10/15
I had some realizations. While spending time with my girlfriend I noticed that she is very
different when with me as opposed to her family. With her family she seems more defensive,
almost seems like she is trying to maintain distance with more defensive postures. While with
me she has a very open posture and talks a lot more. It seems she is more comfortable with me
rather than her own family
3/14/15
This one is a little odd. I was eating dinner with my girlfriends family I could almost
sense that something was wrong. I think it was the little things that tipped me off. They were
trying to display kindness and tried to engage me with conversations but it seemed forced. What
really stands out is you could almost feel the tension in the air as they coldly ate when they
thought I wasnt looking. They are not happy and their body language shows it.
3/16/15
Ahh, this was a good day. I was out with my girlfriend today, I was trying to focus on her
body language as we were talking I noticed that she was edging a little closer and had a very
open body language. This lead me to realize that she seems to be more comfortable with me
rather than her own family. This is something that I am okay with.
3/27/15
Today I have had the biggest communication failure in some time, while spending time
with my girlfriend her aunt started to get antsy about her curfew and began messaging her
nearly constantly. While attempting to figure out her aunts attitude from the metamessages. I
took this to be an aggressive stance. This was not her stance and when I called her out on it
everyone grow more upset and only made the situation worse.
After working for several weeks I have made some progress in both reading peoples voices and
body language. There have been some ups and downs. Now at the end of these few weeks I
cannot call it a success or a failure just yet. At this moment it is safe to say that more practice is
needed. This still can still work with some more practice so I shall continue to work on these
skills.