What Women Wish Men Knew About Seducing Women!

So many men struggle with trying to figure out how to seduce women and find themselves
running around in frustrating circles. The problem is that women won't tell men what they want
-- or may be they tell them but being men they just dont get it.
Ill tell you the things women want as theyve been telling me for over 10 years. Some of the
things that have held them captivated and wildly attracted to the men who made them laugh
and cry and FEEL, as the intense attraction built very, very slowly.
Think of this whole progressive involvement as emotional and physical foreplay -- and even if
you are the one causing all these chain reactions, shes doing more of the self-seducing.
1. Tease me, you devil. Intrigue me. Get me to forget my stress and worries even if only for a
moment."
Women want men who can step outside of their boxes and are daring enough to take them on.
They want men who can take them in, tease, intrigue, entice and make them experience new
thoughts and feelings theyd never experienced before or thought theyd ever experience.
The purpose of teasing and enticing her is to, well, to compel her to action using titillation.
There's an enormous difference between teasing for titillation's sake and a slow seduction of the
senses, both emotional and physical. A touch of teasing that involves all of a womans senses
dispels her nervousness and can make an awkward moment less awkward. However, keep your
teasers short and sweet. Some examples of sweet and short teasers include: Don't be absurd",
You cant do that!" or a whispered endearment, "you're my weakness" or "you're strumming
my heartstrings" etc.
Teasing as away of seducing can also heighten the sexual tension unbelievably and build
anticipation when used to hint at an action without having to directly describe the action. For
example: I can take you down the boat later and show you!''
Pique her curiosity, tantalize her imagination, tap into her primal emotions she can no longer
deny her attraction to you. It is a fact that when things are going well, a womans temperature
goes up.
2. Tell me what you're up to. What is this really all about?"
When it gets to this stage most men go ahead and undo everything theyve worked hard to
achieve up to this point by thinking Shes having fun with me, so she must be digging me. Its
time to seal the deal". Pull-ease!

Rushing things is the worst thing a man can ever do. Moving with fast or speed seduction
reveals just how inexperienced, incapable and less self-confident you are. Whatever you think in
your mind a woman means whenever she says she wants things to go slower, take what you
think is slower and multiply it by 10.
Now that you have the speed thing right, go back to the emotions. Its always the emotions. Use
words for the greatest emotional impact. For example: Instead of saying, "I enjoy photography,"
talk about the thrill you get when you capture that really great picture. If the conversation has
crossed to the sexual", instead of saying "Oh, I love sex," talk about how you feel when you are
in the moment. Paint a clear emotional picture that allows her to put herself in the centre of it.
Make her see what you see, hear what you hear, smell what you smell, and feel what you feel.
You must convey all these thoughts and feelings and impressions to her with your word choices.
Dont be sleazy though, it gets kind of yucky". It is all too easy to fall into the trap of using very
graphic language with the emphasis on physical reaction rather than emotional reaction.
Take the time to breathe life into your words through the use of strong emotion verbs with a sort
of spiritual" or heavenly" element to them. Words like: amazing, marvelous, mind--blowing,
wonderful, incredible, extraordinary, unbelievable, fantastic, phenomenal, feel it in my spirit -touch women so deeply and holistically (mind, body, emotions, and spirit).
If you can get her heartbeat accelerating, her stomach fluttering and her mind thinking "This
couldn't possibly get any better, could it?" or Now you want me!" you are half way there!
3. Oh yeah? Prove that what you've just said is true. Show me."
Women want to be seduced but only so long as you deliver. By the time you progress to this
level of seduction, most women have a good sense of what youre up to and can see it coming,
but at least they won't feel cheated.
Unfortunately this is the area most men miserably fall short. They make huge promises, but do
not actually deliver. Its just plain wrong, and insulting to raise someones expectations so high
only to give miserable tokens as the reward for their wait.
Respect a womens intelligence and theyll respect you for it. If you make them wait and they
find out that you are not delivering the payoff alluded to in the tease, theyll resent you for it.
Nothing pisses off a woman more than a man who doesn't deliver what he promised. Even if
she doesn't say there's something missing, shes thinking it. That's the thing about everything
that touches on sexual emotions, even when it's great, there's still room for improvement--if not
for you, then, just possibly, for her.
4. Help me remember you and this moment. Nail it into my memory."

If you create a strong beginning with strong feelings, and a strong middle with layers of
emotional depth, it only makes sense that the end be equally strong, right?
If you want the experience to stick out so that she doesnt ever forget you, then do something
thatll burn into her memory. The most effective way to create a memory that will facilitate the
consolidation of the attraction is to end from where you began. Seduce, entice, tease, make her
experience new thoughts and feelings shed never experienced before or thought shed ever
experience. Who knows, you may even be able to start a whole new session -- if you know what
I mean.
Foreplay or afterplay -- to women -- the difference is a matter of semantics. And the sooner men
get this, the better for everyone.

The Art of Teasing Women

Teasing can be a highly effective form of flirting when wielded
skillfully. A great technique for using teasing (for the sake of flirting)
can be had by intentionally misinterpreting what your date/pickup
has done or said in a way which is playful, funny or challenging.
tease (tz) v. teased, teasing, teases 1. To vex. 2. To make fun of;
mock playfully. 3. To arouse hope, desire, or curiosity in without
affording satisfaction.
A technique that I like to use, that comes up often and easily, is to
misinterpret her personality and frame it in a way which is
silly, humorous or even mock-embarrassing. Make her want to
punch you in the arm (while she is giggle of course).
Be witty. Don't be insulting. Be a bit of a smart ass. Be sure that you
have a good read on your target & always be sure to deliver a tease
with a playful tone in your voice and a smile. The difference
between saying something that will offend her and saying
something that will make her giggle, is nearly entirely in how you
say it.
Teasing a girl can increase her attraction towards you. It can help to
create a fun, emotionally stimulating and challenging interaction
while at the same time as it will demonstrates that you are a
confident man of high status with a good sense of humor (men of
low status wouldn't dare to make fun of a girl, they would be too

afraid of offending her - which would mean rejection - high status

men don't care about rejection).
Guys, remember, teasing is light, fun, playful and good-natured. The
girl who you are teasing should be enjoying herself. She should be
enjoying the emotions that you are provoking within her. If you are
teasing her too harshly and making her feel bad or lowering her self
esteem, then be warned, that she may soon turn against you and
view you as a jerk instead of a flirtatious interaction.
You can also use teasing to break rapport and spice up a dull
conversation. In the early stages of an interaction there are few
things which are more dull then two people exchanging resumes
(asking the usual generic questions of each-other, what do you do
for a living, what are your hobbies). While this is fine later on into
the interaction, the early stages of an approach/date should be
geared around flirting and building attraction levels. You have
forever to learn about each-other, but you only have a small window
to attract her.
I personally like to toggle between comfort and attraction. You can't
tease her on and on without reprieve or even good natured teasing
will eventually make her wonder if you even like her at all. You must
pepper your teasing routines whilst getting to know her and whilst
running qualification and giving her compliments when
deserved. When I start building comfort and rapport with a girl, I like
to play the role of the coquette, and I will frequently tease and
challenge a girl even when after I have already built a good amount
of attraction. My goal is rarely if ever sex, so I prefer to play with her
like dangling a string in-front of a cat. My greatest satisfaction
comes from when she starts chasing after me, but you don't need to
tease her after you have already built up a good amount of
attraction, you can transition to comfort and rapport, and seduction
if you wish.

Examples of Teasing
Here are some example lines that you can use or incorporate into
your own personal flirting style. These are examples of how to tease
a girl.

Call her dude.Call her dude, when you're making a point and
she's arguing with you. Say, Dude... listen, (and then your point). I
like this one a lot because it challenges her self appointed
feminine prowess (over you and all males) and drops her in
smack in the neighborhood of just one of the guys (the goal is to
make her wonder if she has failed to attract you, or just using an
expression, this creates tension). She should wonder: does he
really just see me as one of the guys, or is that just how he talks?
Generally I have found that calling a girl dude annoys her a little but in a cute way that you can tease her about. This is a sneaky
way to take her down a notch without actually insulting at all
(directly). You're basically tell her; that her feminine powers are
useless against you, and that she's going to have to work with her
personality to capture your interest. This also helps you to convey
a high status.

Tell her she's is complicated.When she starts talking about

herself and tries explaining something about herself that she has
trouble expressing, or that contradicts something which she
previously said (and she realizes it) basically whenever she trips
over her own words or puts her foot in her mouth, just tell her (in
a mock-reassuring way); "That's OK, I get it...
you're complicated" This line is great because as the conversation
progresses and she steps on her own feet again, you can repeat
this tease by saying something like, "Uh-huh, as I
said; complicated". It's a great way to tease her and believe me,
she will be enjoying the extra attention that you are paying to her
personality quirks.

Accuse her of using girl logic.Girls are primarily motivated by

what feels emotionally correct. Men are guided by what makes
sense rationally. By logic. When she says something which defies
conventional logic (but makes sense to her and she is convinced
that she's right about it) - tell her, "Yep, that sounds like girl
logic to me".

Use double negatives. This is a good way of telling her that you
like her, without giving too much approval all at once, or giving
her a compliment, without boosting her ego so much that it
breaks the flirty tension. You can say something like; I don't hate
you at all. or I missed you a tiny little bit. Combine with an

understated compliment like, of all the girls in the world, you're

certainly not the un-smartest girl that I have ever met.
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