Get Him Running

Back to You
The Roadmap
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http://www.ExBackRoadmap.com

IMPORTANT:
I know you want to jump into this Roadmap right away. But youll
get so much more out of this if you watch the video I created for
you to go along with this Roadmap. It takes you through lots of
details that I couldnt fit in this PDF. You can find that video by
clicking here
http://www.gettheguy.co.uk/exback/plc3-roadmap/

What you have here is a Roadmap to get your ex back. Im handing you every step of my new
Get Him Running Back to You approach.
For the past five years Ive coached millions of women to help them get the love life of their
dreams. My relationship guide is a New York Times bestseller, my YouTube coaching videos
have helped over 19,000,000 women and Im the resident love expert on The Today Show.
Ive worked with royalties and celebrities like Christina Aguilera and Eva Longoria, and Ive
coached over 100,000 women around the world in my live seminars.

But Ive never shared my secrets for getting your ex to come running back to you beforeuntil
now.
This is a really big moment for me in my career and Im so glad you are here to share it with me.
Ive always known exactly what it takes to get to get an ex boyfriend back. But Ive held back
these secrets because I was worried that women would use them to get back a man that wasnt
right for them.
But I recently realized that many women will try to get back their ex with our without my help.
And I would rather you do it the right way, with my help, than the wrong way which will only
leave you with more heartache.
So below Im giving you my each step in my Roadmap to get your ex back fast.
Dont worry if you feel overwhelmed by any of it, in the next video Ill show you how to get
access to every single detail behind the Roadmap in one simple package that is so simple it is
practically paint-by-numbers to get him back.
Please promise me youll watch the video that goes with this Roadmap. In the video I explain the
5 Simple Steps you need to follow to get him back. As Ive said from the start, the only way to
get your man back is to have a plan. You cant wing it and you cant let your emotions rule you
during this delicate time. Otherwise you will lose him forever. And we are not going to let that
happen.
DO NOT go it alone. Let me guide you through this time and you absolutely will get him back,
or, if you decide, move on to a man who is even better for you!
To your lasting happiness,

Matthew Hussey
ExBackRoadmap.com

This is what the entire Roadmap looks like.

I know it is too small to see. Sorry about that, but it
was the only way I could fit it all on one page for you.
Dont worry though, Ive broken it down on the
following pages so you can see every detail.
-Matthew

Leaving
Use His Fears
Staying
60/40 Concept
#1: Nothing to Rebel Against
3-Legged Chair
#2: Keep Him Off Balance
Emotional Judo

No extra effort required

Pilar #1: Understand His Head and Heart

Reality not as expected
4: Secret Strategies

#3: His Lag Period

Hes hurting too

But wont last forever
Can give in

#4: Hes Winning You Back

The Attractions Forumula

Earn benefits

You MUST follow a plan to get him back

Your Strategy

All women
Youre not alone
Hes feels these too - in different ways
Valuable emotions
Not your fault
Right time, right place
Reflex Response

Pushes him further away

Use the right mode

High Value Response

Pillar #2: Dont Let Emotions Rule

This always wins

Power Move #1: Live An Amazing Life

Power Move #2: Kill Him With Kindness...And Love

6 Power Moves

Power Move #1: Use the

Goldilocks Contact Method
Power Move #4: Become a Mystery Again
Power Move #5: Humbly Admit Your Role
Power Move #6: Follow a Plan, Not Your Emotions

Reflex Response vs. High Value Response

Perceived Challenge

Visual Chemistry
Perceived Value
THE ATTRACTION FORMULA
Perceived Challenge

Laying the Foundation

Your Attraction Toolkit

Connection
Deep attraction
Lasting attraction
Timing it perfectly

Cooling Off Period

Must do

No Contact window

The formula for success

Let him miss you

Give him just enough space

Dont let him think youve moved on

Walking that fine line

Before You Connect

Pushes him further away

Reflex Response Mode

Digs you deeper into an emotional hole

Dont de-value the relationship youre trying to save

High Value Response Mode

The art of Emotional Persuasion

Facebook

No manipulation

Copy/paste posts

LR-LI Strategy
Text Messages

Copy/paste messages

Prevent His Panic

Dont be easy
Fine line
Use Nonchalant Confidence

Step #1: Re-Establish Contact With

Your Ex Again (The Right Way)

Always remember the Goldilocks Contact Method

Early Flirtation

Avoid letting him play with your emotions

Examples
Making Contact

Copy/paste

The Ultimate Social Media Rule

Nothing to Rebel Against

Control Your Personal Brand Image

Hell sell himself on having a relationship with you again!

Spiking His Attention From Afar

Without investing in love
Use Loving Behaviour
Kill him with kindness
Humility
The 3 Qualities to Guide Every Communication

Strength
Resillience

Stoke His #1 Fear

YOU getting over HIM

Critical
Choosing the right place to meet

Only let him see your best side

High Value approach

Puts you in control

Create An Aura Of Positivity

Keep Him Off Balance

Draw him into you again

Erase past negative ideas he may have

Leverage The Art Of The Unfamiliar

Be the girl he doesnt recognize anymore

Hangover Model

Step #2: Make Your Life Irresistible To Him

Pick the Right Recovery Model

Athlete Model
Maximize Your Time Apart

It is a gift to increase your impact on him forever

Use His Lag Period to Your Advantage

The Moving Train Mindset

Let him know the cars are leaving the station

Gets him chasing after you

Ignites that first time excitement

Create a SECOND First Impression
Better than before
Why it works
Scent - Your Secret Weapon
How to do it
Body Language of Attraction

Evidence of growth
Defying Expectations

Your 5 Step Plan to

Win Him Back

Turn his world upside down

Step #3: Blow Him Away With Your

NEW First Impression

Show Dont Tell Method

Scramble his brain

Show yourself in an amazing new light

Daniel Mustos celebrity secrets

Be The Sexiest You Hes Ever Seen
Effortless beauty

Touch Calibrated

Jealousy

Hit the sweet spot

Make him feel enticed without feeling

like youre trying to get him back

Dont give in

Humbly Admit Your Faults

How to answer his hidden landmine questions
Maintain Your High Value Response
What to do if he has seen other women

What you trigger in him

The Next Level of Flirting

No flirtation that wuldnt be OK on a first date

Exact ways to do it
Drive him crazy for you

Uncertainty
Create Excitement and Challenge
Unpredictability

It will backfire at this stage

Dont Use Love at This Stage
Trigger the right emotion at the right time

Permission
Turning Up His Desire 10x

Use subtle techniques

Spontaneous moments

What to say
If hes seeing other women
How to remain High Value

Stand out all other women

Scarcity
Rebound Relationships

Step #4: Create Uncontrollable Desire In Him

Independence
Use his imagination to your advantage

Raise your value

Storytelling

Surprise him
Challenge his prior beliefs

Create an even better relationship this time

Avoid past destructive patterns
Use your clean slate

The rules to live by

Never Engage in Emotional Time Travel
Dont rehash the past

Secrets of Attraction

Keeping him Off Balance

The Affection Equation

Timing
Kissing Dos and Donts
Test His Intentions

Spark of desire

What hes thinking

When he wants to sleep with you
How to respond for long-term attraction

Limit Intimacy

Wanting more
Leave on a High Note
Pique his interest

Timing

What to say

Copy/paste messages

After Your First Date

Not about technique
The Tightrope Walk

Step #5: Let Him Win You Again (And Stay Forever)
Keep Him Interested

But dont move too fast

Follow Your Plan, Not Your Emotions

Retain Some Key Boundaries
Maintain Your Values When He Tests Your Standards

Avoid the Temptation to Move to Quick

Re-Ignite the Honeymoon Phase

Use the Butterfly Metaphor

Trigger His Dopamine Response

Overly romanticizing?

Can you
Forgiveness

Should you
Uncover hidden issues

Forgiveness
If you caused the breakup

3 Reconcillation Steps

Gut Check

Communicate it wont happen again

Make him feel like your #1 priority

Keep your thinking clear

Stay Out of Emotional Black Holes
Ill never find another him
Making excuses
The wrong reasons
Overlooking too much

Should you make changes?

The only rule you need

Recovering from a mistake

Be Prepared for Anything

Want vs. Need Paradigm

Why you cant lose

Crucial for desire

Win-win

It benefits you!

Family
Self-esteem
Friends
Protection Mode

Your body
View of men
Optimism
Emotional energy
Disarray
Halt your progress

Survival Mode

Destructive behaviours

Reflex Response
Including

Emotion led

Impulse led
Distraction Hunting

#1 Transform Self-Loathing Into Self-Love

Be your own best friend

Filling the void

#2 Dont Force Your Feelings

Rebuilding Your
Emotional Armor

Your Emotional Immune System

#3Letting Your Emotional Wound Heal

How to heal it

Dont accidentally make it worse

Avoid the bogus cures
Kindred Spirits

#4 Surrounding Yourself With Love

3 types that are essential to your recovery

Sage Counsel
Who to avoid at all costs

7 Methods to Feel Better Fast

#5 Regaining Responsibility

#6 Feeling Desirable

Surprising value of dedlines

Restoring emotional balance

Withdrawal stage
Flirting to boost your emotional recovery
Reconnect
Inspiration

#7 Becoming Invincible

Fun-Lovers

RISE UP Model

Self-Esteem
Energy
Unattach
Purpose

Recovering smart

See past his excuses

Mindsets That Guarantee

Youll Lose Him

The Excuse Minefield

Understand true meaning

Use your 4 Secret Strategies

Show him you are
the right woman

Hes afraid of commitment

No man fears
commitment with
the right woman

Hes Too Focused on Career

Men ca always make

time for what they decide
is important

Hes Moved On

Youve won his

heart before, easy to do
again

Hell beg
you to commit!

60/40 rule

High Value
approach eliminates
jealousy
Reignite the spark

He grew bored with the relationship

Eternal
Honeymoon
Period

Hell forget
about work

Deep connection

Live an Amazing Life

I was/am too jealous

Make your
relationship important