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my bed. A slave, held captive by my negative thoughts and hopeless attitude towards life. My
love for myself, my desire to even exist, was erased and proved to elude me for quite some time.
I had to learn to love myself again. I had to regain my self-worth to ultimately recover
from this great tragedy- the loss of myself. It was a difficult and painful process, filled with
much frustration and tears. From a vulnerable stand point I had to learn to trust and love myself
from the ground up. I sought out group therapy and medication. Being around positive people,
positive affirmations and learning to love myself again helped me to get out of this rut. It took a
community, a sense of belonging again to rekindle my love for myself and regain my footing and
sense of purpose. I found this sense of community in my fragile state amongst new friends
while in a day treatment center in a group therapy process. Forming new friendships, making
jokes and getting plenty of exercise and nutritious food re-awoke me to myself once again. My
best friend Kaleigh and I bonded over our idea of which animal we would want to transform
into. When I described my symptoms to her she simply said Wow! That must be so frustrating
and very difficult. Knowing that I have a friend that I can turn to and who understands me is
worth all the therapists in the world. She later went on to summarize my experience with
depression: so you loved yourself originally, but then you had a bout of depression which deflated that,
and then you built your love back slowly? Indeed that was my journey to worthiness. It was a
slow ascent from the fogged spell I was under, but I emerged and blossomed once again. And
the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to
blossom (Anais Nin). It became more painful to stay a bud than to blossom into a flower as
Anais Nin so eloquently referred to the process of self-evolution.
The friendships with my church sisters and the community of support I have built from
doing recovery programs has helped me to grow in amazing ways. My friends are there for me
when I am frustrated, hurting or confused. They listen to me and help me sort out my feelings. I
cant believe what an immense improvement I have made in terms of my love life. My whole,
complete love life. In the words of the late and great Whitney Huston, learning to love yourself
is the greatest love of all. Graduating from college, working with the GIFT Peer Specialist
program, and getting multiple job offers combined with the love and support of good friends
have propelled me to the top. I have come a long way. However, I still have a long way to go.
Only now, I wont be alone. I am loved, I belong and I am strong!