Domestic Discipline Contract

The Rules fall within The 5 DD Categories:

The categories are:
1) Dishonesty
2) Disobedience
3) Disrespect
4) Safety
5) Health

Rule

Warning

Warning with
threat of action

Action

Extreme

Never go to bed angry.

Be honest 100% of the
time.
Be polite at all times.
Have a good attitude
about yourself and others
Keep in touch.

X
-

X
-

Early Bedtime
Spanking

Sleep naked
Soap in mouth

Time-Out

Spanking

Be respectful at all times.

Spanking

No Cussing. No violence.
No drugs. No alcohol. No
sexual activity with
others.
Maintain good health &
hygiene, & appearance

Spanking

Sentence
writing/Groundin
g
Grounded from
kik/omegle
Soap in
mouth/Grounding
Depends on the
severity of the
insubordination.

Grounding/Bedro
om Time

TimeOut/Sentence
Writing
Sentence writing

Double
consequences

Depends on the
severity of the
disruption.

No self-harm, or continued
self-harm
Never interfere with,
negotiate, or obstruct the
disciplinary process in any
way once the final
decision has been made.

Grounding

Maintenance spankings are used to ensure continuation of appropriate behavior and to

keep sub stress-free and respectful. Maintenance spankings will consist of ten or more
swats to sub's bare bottom with the HOH's bare hand for the warm up. After the warm up
the maintenance spanking will commence in the form of ten or more swats to the sub's

bare bottom with the paddle. Total number of spankings for warm up and maintenance are
at the sole discretion of the HOH. This will be done once a week, after a calm discussion of
how to stay on track followed by a comforting period with affirming words from the HOH.
CONSEQUENCES
Consequences are used to correct behavior that is not acceptable. Severity of any
consequences will depend on the offense, reason for committing the offense, how often the
offense is committed, and attitude. A verbal or nonverbal warning may or may not be used
at the discretion of the HOH.
The following list contains all agreed upon punishment methods:
1. Spanking-Spanking will be the most commonly used form of punishment. Spanking will
consist of ten or more swats to sub's bare bottom with the HOH's bare hand for warm up.
After the warm up, the punishment spanking will commence in the form of ten or more
swats to the sub's bare bottom with the paddle, in addition to the original spanking
punishment determined by the HOH. Sub is not to touch or rub bottom under any
circumstances.
2. Time Out-Time Out will consist of thirty or more minutes of standing in the designated
time out corner. Hands must be at sub's sides. Sub must face the corner with nose in close
proximity to the corner. Sub is to remain silent while in the time out corner, reflecting on

behavior, choices, and prevention of such actions in the future. Duration to be spent in the
time out corner by sun is to be solely determined by the HOH without exception. Resisting a
time out will result in a spanking, in addition to the original time out punishment
determined by the HOH.
3. Sentence Writing-Sentence writing will consist of hand-writing a set number of sentences
to be determined by the HOH. Lines must be neatly written. HOH will assign a reasonable
due date for assignment to be completed. Sloppy writing and/or not completing the
assignment by due date will result in a spanking. Resisting sentence writing will result in a
spanking.
4. Grounding-Grounding will consist of the loss of all privileges for a certain amount of time
to be determined by HOH. During this time no entertainment is to be used at any time, for
any reason. This includes, but is not limited to: TV, radio, being outside, and seeing friends.
During this time, a combination of spanking, time out, and sentence writing may be used at
discretion of HOH. Resisting grounding will result in a spanking, in addition to the original
grounding punishment determined by the HOH.
5. Bedroom Time-Bedroom time will consist of sitting on the bed in the master bedroom for
a certain amount of time to be determined by HOH. Sub must sit on the bed, facing the wall
during this time. No distractions will be allowed in the bedroom during this time. All books,
pictures, phones, computers, and any other form of entertainment will be removed from the
bedroom before this punishment commences. Sub is to remain silent while in the bedroom,

reflecting on behavior, choices, and prevention of such actions in the future. Duration to be
spent in the bedroom by sub is to be solely determined by HOH without exception.
Resisting bedroom time will result in a spanking in addition to the original bedroom time
punishment determined by the HOH.