ADAB KELUAR RUMAH DENGAN BERJILBAB

َّ ‫بُيُوْ تِ ُك‬
Saudariku muslimah…Telah termaktub dlm Al Qur’an ayat yg berbunyi : ‫ن‬ ‫ “ َوقَرْ نَ فِي‬Dan
tetaplah kalian tinggal di rumah-rumah kalian.”Perintah utk berdiam di dlm rumah ini datang
dari Dzat Yang Maha Memiliki Hikmah Dzat yg lbh tahu tentang perkara yg memberikan
maslahat bagi hamba-hamba-Nya. Ketika Dia menetapkan wanita harus berdiam dan tinggal di
rumah Dia sama sekali tdk berbuat zalim kepada wanita bahkan ketetapan-Nya itu sebagai tanda
akan kasih sayang-Nya kepada hamba-Nya.

Saudariku muslimah…Walaupun syariat menetapkan engkau harus tinggal di rumahmu namun

bila ada kepentingan darurat dibolehkan bagimu keluar rumah dgn memperhatikan adab-adab
berikut ini:- Kenakanlah hijabmu yg syar’i.Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala berfirman:

َ‫ك َوبَنَاتِكَ َونِ َسا ِء ْال ُم ْؤ ِمنِ ْينَ يُ ْدنِ ْينَ َعلَ ْي ِه َّن ِم ْن َجالَبِ ْيبِ ِه َّن َذلِكَ أَ ْدنَى أَ ْن يُ ْع َر ْفن‬ ِ ‫يَاأَيُّهَا النَّبِ ُّي قُلْ ألَ ْز َو‬
َ ‫اج‬
َ‫فَالَ ي ُْؤ َذ ْين‬

“Wahai Nabi katakanlah kepada istri-istrimu dan putri-putrimu serta wanita-wanita kaum
mukminin: Hendaklah mereka mengulurkan jilbab-jilbab mereka di atas tubuh mereka. Yang
demikian itu lbh pantas bagi mereka utk dikenali sehingga mereka tdk diganggu…”- Hindari
memakai wangi-wangian krn Rasulullah Shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam bersabda:

ِ ِ‫َّت بِ ْال َمجْ ل‬

‫س فَ ِه َي َك َذا َو َك َذا‬ ْ ‫ َو ْال َمرْ أَةُ إِ َذا ا ْستَ ْعطَ َر‬.ٌ‫ُكلُّ َع ْي ٍن زَانِيَة‬
ْ ‫ت فَ َمر‬

“Setiap mata itu berzina. Bila seorang wanita memakai wewangian kemudian ia melewati
majelis laki2 mk wanita itu begini dan begitu.”
Dalam riwayat Ahmad :

ٌ‫هي َ زَانِيَة‬ ْ ‫“أَيُّ َما ا ْم َرأَ ٍة ا ْستَ ْعطَ َر‬

ْ ‫ت فَ َمر‬
ِ َ‫َّت بِقَوْ ٍم لِيَ ِج ُدوْ ا ِر ْي َحهَا ف‬

Wanita mana saja yg memakai wangi-wangian kemudian ia melewati satu kaum agar mereka
mencium wangi mk wanita itu pezina.”
Ketika berjalan janganlah menggesek-gesekkan sandal/sepatumu dgn sengaja dan jangan pula
menghentak-hentakkan kakimu agar terdengar suara gelang kaki yg engkau kenakan krn Allah
Subhanahu wa Ta’ala

berfirman:

‫َوالَ يَضْ ِر ْبنَ بِأَرْ ُجلِ ِه َّن لِيُ ْعلَ َم َما ي ُْخفِ ْينَ ِم ْن ِز ْينَتِ ِه َّن‬
“Dan janganlah mereka memukulkan kaki-kaki mereka ketika berjalan agar diketahui apa yg
disembunyikan dari perhiasan mereka.”
- Jangan pula engkau berlenggak lenggok ketika berjalan sehingga mengundang pandangan
lelaki sementara Rasulmu Shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam yg mulia telah mengabarkan:
 ْ ‫ْال َمرْ أَةُ عَوْ َرةٌ فَإ َذا خَ َر َج‬
ُ َ‫ت اِ ْستَ ْش َرفَهَا ال َّش ْيط‬
‫ان‬

“Wanita itu aurat mk bila ia keluar rumah syaitan menyambutnya.”

Setan menjadikan pandangan lelaki tertuju kepada si wanita menghias-hiasi dan mempercantik
dlm pandangan lelaki sehingga mereka terfitnah dgn wanita tersebut.

- Apabila engkau berjalan bersama saudaramu ataupun temanmu sesama wanita sementara di
sana ada lelaki mk tahanlah utk berbicara bukan krn suara wanita itu aurat namun krn
kekhawatiran lelaki akan terfitnah ketika mendengar suara wanita. Bila terpaksa berbicara dgn
lelaki berbicaralah dgn wajar tanpa mendayu-dayu dan melembut-lembutkan suaramu.
Demikianlah yg Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala perintahkan dlm firman-Nya:

ْ َ‫ض ْعنَ بِ ْالقَوْ ِل فَي‬

‫ط َم َع الَّ ِذي فِي قَ ْلبِ ِه َم َرضٌ َوقُ ْلنَ قَوْ الً َم ْعرُوْ فًا‬ َ ‫فَالَ ت َْخ‬
“Maka janganlah kalian melembut-lembutkan suara3 ketika berbicara sehingga berkeinginan
jeleklah orang yg ada penyakit dlm hati dan ucapkanlah perkataan yg baik.”

- Apabila engkau telah menikah minta izinlah kepada suamimu ketika keluar rumah sampaipun
engkau hendak keluar utk shalat di masjid sebagaimana diisyaratkan permintaan izin ini dlm
sabda Nabi Shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam:

ِ َ‫إِ َذا ا ْستَأْ َذن‬

‫ت ا ْم َرأَةُ أَ َح ِد ُك ْم إِلَى ْال َم ْس ِج ِد فَالَ يَ ْمنَ ْعهَا‬

“Apabila istri salah seorang dari kalian minta izin ke masjid mk janganlah ia melarangnya.”
- Bila jarak perjalanan yg ditempuh adl jarak safar mk engkau harus didampingi mahrammu krn
Rasulullah Shallallahu ‘alaihi wa sallam bersabda:

‫َوالَ تُ َسافِ ِر ْال َمرْ أَةُ إِالَّ َم َع ِذيْ َمحْ َر ٍم‬

“Tidak boleh seorang wanita safar kecuali bersama mahramnya.”

- Hindarilah dari berdesak-desakan dgn lelaki
- Berhiaslah dgn rasa malu
- Tundukkanlah pandangan matamu jangan melemparkan ke kiri dan ke kanan kecuali bila ada
kebutuhan krn Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala berfirman:

‫ار ِه َّن‬
ِ ‫ص‬َ ‫ت يَ ْغضُضْ نَ ِم ْن أَ ْب‬
ِ ‫َوقُلْ لِ ْل ُم ْؤ ِمنَا‬

“Dan katakanlah kepada wanita-wanita mukminat: Hendaklah mereka menundukkan pandangan-

pandangan mereka…”

Saudariku muslimah…
Demikianlah beberapa adab Islami yg sepatut engkau pegangi saat keluar dari rumahmu sungguh
kemuliaan kan kau raih bila senantiasa berpegang dgn adab yg diajarkan agamamu. Sebalik
kehinaan kan kau terima ketika ajaran agamamu engkau tinggalkan jauh di belakang
punggungmu. Semoga Allah memberi taufik kepada kita utk selalu mengikuti kebenaran dan
berpegang teguh dengan sampai tiba saat pertemuan dgn Allah. Amin..
Wallahu a’lam bish-shawab.
 Adab OUT HOUSE WITH veiled

َّ ‫بُيُوْ تِ ُك‬
Muslim Sister ... It has been enshrined in the Koran verse which reads: ‫ن‬ ‫" َوقَرْ نَ فِي‬And
still you stay in your homes." Command to dwell in this house comes from the Essence The
Essence of the Lord of Wisdom to know more about the case give serious benefits for His
servants. When she set a women should be silent and stay at home She did not do evil to women
and even his determination as a sign of His love to His servant.
Muslim Sister ... Although Shari'a set you have to stay at your house but if there is an emergency
interest is permissible for you out of the house with regard adab - the following manners: - Wear
a syar'i your hijab. Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala says:

َ‫ك َوبَنَاتِكَ َونِ َسا ِء ْال ُم ْؤ ِمنِ ْينَ يُ ْدنِ ْينَ َعلَ ْي ِه َّن ِم ْن َجالَبِ ْيبِ ِه َّن َذلِكَ أَ ْدنَى أَ ْن يُ ْع َر ْفن‬ ِ ‫يَاأَيُّهَا النَّبِ ُّي قُلْ ألَ ْز َو‬
َ ‫اج‬
َ‫فَالَ ي ُْؤ َذ ْين‬

"O Prophet, say to your wives and daughters-daughter and the women of the believers:" Let them
reach their hijab-jilbab over their bodies. That is more proper for them to be recognized so that
they will not be disturbed ... "- Avoid wearing perfume because the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa
sallam said:

ِ ِ‫َّت بِ ْال َمجْ ل‬

‫س فَ ِه َي َك َذا َو َك َذا‬ ْ ‫ َو ْال َمرْ أَةُ إِ َذا ا ْستَ ْعطَ َر‬.ٌ‫ُكلُّ َع ْي ٍن زَانِيَة‬
ْ ‫ت فَ َمر‬

"Every eye is adulterous. When a woman wearing perfume and then he passed the assembly of
men, the women were so and so. "
In the history of Ahmad:

ٌ‫هي َ زَانِيَة‬ ْ ‫“أَيُّ َما ا ْم َرأَ ٍة ا ْستَ ْعطَ َر‬

ْ ‫ت فَ َمر‬
ِ َ‫َّت بِقَوْ ٍم لِيَ ِج ُدوْ ا ِر ْي َحهَا ف‬

Women everywhere who wear perfume and then he passed one of them to smell the fragrance of
the woman adulterer. "
 When walking do not swipe-grit sandals / shoes on purpose and do not stomping - jerking your
feet for a voice which you are wearing ankle bracelet because Allaah
said :

 ‫َوالَ يَضْ ِر ْبنَ بِأَرْ ُجلِ ِه َّن لِيُ ْعلَ َم َما ي ُْخفِ ْينَ ِم ْن ِز ْينَتِ ِه َّن‬
"And let them not strike their feet when walking to know what is hidden from their jewelry."
- Do not also twist sway when you walk so invite the views of men while Your’s Prophet
sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam Noble has told us:

ْ ‫ْال َمرْ أَةُ عَوْ َرةٌ فَإ َذا خَ َر َج‬

ُ َ‫ت اِ ْستَ ْش َرفَهَا ال َّش ْيط‬
‫ان‬

"The woman aurat then when he came out to greet the devil's house."
Satan makes his views turned to the woman decorating-decorate and beautify the view of men so
that they too slander with the woman.
- If you walk with your brother or your friend any other women while there were men then resist
to speak not because her voice male genitals, but because of concerns will become libel when he
heard a woman's voice. When forced to talk to him speak with reasonable without lilting and
tender-soften your voice. So which Allaah commanded in His Word:
ْ َ‫ض ْعنَ بِ ْالقَوْ ِل فَي‬
‫ط َم َع الَّ ِذي فِي قَ ْلبِ ِه َم َرضٌ َوقُ ْلنَ قَوْ الً َم ْعرُوْ فًا‬ َ ‫فَالَ ت َْخ‬

"So you do not soften, soften the sound when speaking so that kind of person who wished bad
there is disease in the liver and say good words."
- If you are married to your husband's permission when it is out of the house until you were
about to come out for prayers at the mosque, as implied request this permission in the words of
the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam:

ِ َ‫إِ َذا ا ْستَأْ َذن‬

‫ت ا ْم َرأَةُ أَ َح ِد ُك ْم إِلَى ْال َم ْس ِج ِد فَالَ يَ ْمنَ ْعهَا‬

"If the wife of one of you asked for permission to the mosque then he must not forbid it."
- If the trip distance traveled is the distance traveling then you should be accompanied by your
muhram because the Prophet sallallaahu 'alaihi wa sallam said:

‫َوالَ تُ َسافِ ِر ْال َمرْ أَةُ إِالَّ َم َع ِذيْ َمحْ َر ٍم‬

"It should not be a woman traveling except with her mahram."

- Stay away from crowded with men
- decorate her with shame
- bow was your eyes do not throw to the left and right except when there is a need because
Allaah says:

‫ار ِه َّن‬
ِ ‫ص‬َ ‫ت يَ ْغضُضْ نَ ِم ْن أَ ْب‬
ِ ‫َوقُلْ لِ ْل ُم ْؤ ِمنَا‬

"And say to the believing women women: Let them beat their views ..."
Muslim Sister ...
Thus some Islamic adab se Hold time you should get out of your house really the glory of his
achievements if you always stick with the manners taught by your religion. Instead of his
humiliation you receive when you leave the teachings of your religion far behind your back. May
Allah give us taufik to always follow the truth and sticking with until arriving at the meeting
with Allah. Amen ..
And Allaah knows best-bish shawab.