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Table Of Contents
Hey, what’s up? ........................................................ 5 Preamble ................................................................10
Part 1: The Bigger Picture ..........................13
My story .................................................................13 What do I want out of this? .......................................17 Right and Wrong ......................................................18 Men v Women .........................................................23 Emotional Trigger Buttons .........................................25
Part 2: The Fundamentals About Attracting Women .........................................28
The Magnificent 7.....................................................28 Personality Traits That Attract Women ........................32 Why Women Bitch ....................................................38 Nice Guys Always Finish last ......................................40 The First Impression.................................................43 21st Century Women.................................................46 Just Be a Man ..........................................................48 Players Playing the Game ..........................................53 The Rich and Famous ...............................................54
Part3: Looking Through The LookingGlass The Other Way ....................................56
Everything Has a Reason...........................................56 Respect Yourself ......................................................56 How You View Yourself..............................................58 The Attitude ............................................................59 Changing your approach ...........................................62 Being Different From Everyone Else ............................64
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It’s All About Skill.....................................................65 Positive Thinking ......................................................66 Take Yourself to Your Happy Place..............................69 Attributes You DON’T Need........................................70
Part 4: The Techniques and Methods that Attract Women ......................................73
Hot Women Have Heard It Before...............................73 The Timeline ...........................................................75 Lead The Way..........................................................77 Women Test Men .....................................................79 Be a Man ................................................................82 Teasing Women .......................................................82 How to be Funny......................................................85 A Crash Course in Comedy ........................................86 “Let’s Just Be Friends” ..............................................88 More Tips................................................................90 Read My Body Language ...........................................92 What is Good Body Language? ...................................93 Reading Her Body Language ......................................95 Crash Course in Comebacks.......................................96 Don’t Be Predictable .................................................98 Be Persistent .........................................................100 Better Test Answers ...............................................100 Where to Find Women ............................................102 Predict Her Moves ..................................................105 An extra edge........................................................106
Part 5: Solving the Puzzle ........................108
Bringing It All Together ...........................................108 A Step-By-Step Plan To Approaching Women .............108 How To Get Her Number .........................................115 The Call ................................................................119 The First Date........................................................125 Where To Take Your Date........................................125
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...........................................................................4 -- ................................131 The Kiss....136 The End of the Beginning ........................130 Let Her Chase You........................................................................................................................................................When You Meet Up .......134 Sex or Friends ................132 How To Take Her Home .................137 -..129 Don’t Be Boring On a Date ...........
dating and relationships. But what should I do? I didn’t know where to look or what to do to get better with women. Many years ago I was a real loser when it came to girls. Hey. One day I just couldn’t take it anymore and I had to do something about it. That really sucked! But fact is I wasn’t alone.5 -- . but I wouldn’t sleep with him”. in the real world. women like that”. I would always have many “female friends”. every book about that topic out there just tells you basic stuff like “be funny” or “take charge. I couldn’t simply walk into a library and pick up a book about becoming more successful with women because … well to be honest. attracting and dating women.Hey. -. my name is Nick and I think I can teach you one thing or two about attracting women. There are millions of men out there who just don’t get it when it comes to meeting. go out and have immediate success with women. but was always the guy who women referred to as “oh him? Yeah he’s nice. I was one of them. like getting a phone-number. get a date or a kiss. something that I can use RIGHT NOW. Most of the lines or techniques that all these dating experts were teaching just seemed a little bit “off” and didn’t really work out there. what’s up? Hi. There wasn’t really anything available in terms of bestpractice.
But I desperately wanted … no. Now I believe that everything can be explained if someone just sets his mind to it. … and I did! It took me many years to figure all this out. but what about the guys that are? What do they do? This got me thinking… There are some men out there who seem to get most of the women that are around. and I wasn’t particularly talented. So I was thinking … I’m really not the only guy isn’t as successful with the whole women and dating thing.What I wanted was something that actually HELPS me getting better. then it’s going to be a lonely trip to the grave. NEEDED to find out what it really was women want in a man and what makes them attracted. I wanted to kiss those girls. there will always be a solution … you just have to find it. If there is a problem. have long-term relationships with beautiful women and basically just KNOW how I can make almost any woman attracted to me. because if I don’t help myself here.6 -- . smart or gifted … I’m just a regular guy like you. Now I wasn’t really keen on being “just another friend” or a “nice guy”. while most men seem to get hardly anything or are just “friends” with women. not leaving me even more clueless. But what was it? -.
would I have the same success? The funny thing was that I expected every man who was really successful with women to be very good-looking or have a handsome baby-face. these guys seemed to have it all figured out. have good model-like looks and wear an expensive watch or something. What if I was to do exactly the same as they did. But you know what? Nobody was! Every guy I met who was really successful with women wasn’t tall. So when it comes to courting a woman. drive a nice car and sort of wealthy. didn’t buy drinks and never invited anyone to dinner or to the movies. -. But they did something different from me and all the other guys who always ended up getting rejected by women. None of these men had those traits. They were not nice.7 -- . That was really weird let me tell you. be tall. They KNEW how to act and behave around women. be at least over 6 foot tall. I really expected the real Playboys and Ladies-men to have a masculine body. rich or handsome … he was just a regular guy like you and me. they didn’t pay lots of compliments to women and they didn’t bring flowers. the ones that always had at least 3 or 4 women on the go at the same time.What if I was to model the very successful men out there.
While every guy out there was trying to be very nice, polite and friendly to a woman he was trying to court in hopes that eventually she will like him too … it never happened. He always ended up as being rejected with “well you know, let’s rather be friends, you’re such a nice guy” or “you are just too good for me, you will find somebody else”. … but really, I’m not too good for you, I like you and want you!! … that’s what I’m saying, I don’t deserve you. But you can still be my friend. Cya! Ever heard this one? :) There is something invisible out there that all these successful Playboys and Ladies-Men do to get the women they want. It is really hard to spot if nobody ever tells you what it is or you never did GET IT in the first place. So what is it? What is it that those lucky guys do to get all the women? It certainly isn’t good-looks, height or money … it is something else, something that is difficult to see if you don’t know what to look for. I did figure it out and I can fairly say that I have become even MORE successful than the guys I modeled and analyzed when I first started out. I know what works, what doesn’t work at all and how to improve almost every single aspect of this dating game so YOU can have the same success as me! But I don’t want to tell you right now what that secret thing is that seems to attract almost any woman … I am going to LEAD you to the answer throughout this book.
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This way, you will feel much more like you deserve it and you will also be able to look through the looking glass the other way. What you are about to read took me a lot of years of analyzing, testing and summarizing so YOU can enjoy the secrets of the dating game, become successful and finally get the woman (or women) you always wanted. There is no bullshit, no hype … simply what works! Welcome to StreetSmartDating!
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The idea of this book is to prepare you for attracting the kind of women you want and desire. I will show you all the fundamental methods, lines and techniques to be successful with the woman of the 21st century … because most of the stuff that is out there right now is either too old and doesn’t work anymore, or doesn’t really help you because most tips are crap. What I want to do is to get you up to speed within 24 hours so you can go out tonight, and see results INSTANTLY! No, I’m really not kidding. After you are done reading this dating manual, you will see the code of the matrix and have all the core essentials down to meet and attract women on a daily basis. This is why I want to give you something you can use and that will help you right now. Not in a months time, not next week … TODAY! Most other books about dating don’t have that edge and only tell you what works in general. I will go deeper and show you some of the biggest kept secrets of the dating underground. After you are done reading the StreetSmartDating guide, you should be able to have a good understanding of what women want and have a good idea of how to pick up women. That’s why this book only covers what you really need to know. It is almost like a crash-course or dating women in
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Some of you might lap this up like milk and have taken on all the challenges instantly. you will need to understand its predecessors if you want to get the most out of it. but take your time. whilst others will need to spend time thinking. how to say it and so on.11 -- . what to say to them. but trust me. I know its tempting to skip forward to a section that you really are intrigued by. If you want to know more about how to attract women.a nutshell. this isn’t the only book available. just don’t think that you will get less out of it because you don’t like talking to people or you are very intimidated by girls. Use this book as a journey. But first you will need to make sure you understand the principles outlined in this book … otherwise the advanced programs won’t mean anything to you. Of course. I’ve tried to put everything into the right order. you will understand each section and then progress to the next. Hopefully. like I said this is the raw basics. practicing and then progressing. -. There is nothing in here that can’t be done even by the most socially challenged people. It’s ideal for someone who doesn’t really know where they are with attracting women and wants to know where they should start. You will get far more out of it if you successfully complete this course. It shouldn’t take you very long to read through this book. then I suggest you get my killer program called Advanced Dating Series or study my other programs available from my website. It doesn’t mean that you can’t achieve it. This is the perfect place. because there are a lot of ideas and principles in here that you need to understand if you want to become irresistible to women.
then I’m sorry. it just means you will get more satisfaction at the end of it. you will be a master in no time! -. but I can’t help you.Most importantly. If you find something hard to grasp. If you are too negative and too skeptical not to even give things a solid try. Things are hard work at times. you need to make sure you are willing to succeed. So get reading. but that doesn’t mean they can’t be done. If you think something is not worth trying then you are guaranteed never to understand the concepts or gain new skills.12 -- .
I acted nice and polite when around girls. I always ended up getting rejected. I’m still far away as we speak. Was I getting anywhere? No! So you see. at first I went for being the nice guy and using my personality to show I was attentive and caring. It -.13 -- . I always thought that by being nice. just like most guys out there who don’t get it. generally … the other person is nice to you as well.Part 1: The Bigger Picture My story One thing that everybody asks me at some point is where and how I learned to approach women. I couldn’t have been more wrong. I would get women attracted to me because if you are nice to somebody. But I really believed that you either had to be tall and handsome … or have a lot of money to get a girl. Since I wasn’t that handsome and wasn’t rich (like most men out there). I didn’t really “learn” it. I tried what probably ever other man had in mind as well. But when it came to women and dating. I guess after a lot of trial and error I just realized what worked and didn’t work with women. But I had to work for my success … I had to work very hard to get there! I never was the handsome type of guy and I wasn’t rich … heck. or would hang around girls as a “friend”.
otherwise they wouldn’t go out and sleep with them. always look what she does and what really happens. I would treat her so much better than him”. he says to himself: “gosh what a jerk. They always seemed to fall for the jerk or asshole that treated them like dirt. Every guy who gets jealous when some arrogant schmuck dates the women he would like to be with.14 -- . Here. So … if I acted just like a jerk or an asshole towards women. they would get attracted to me?! But I didn’t want to become an arrogant jerk. there is something else out there. we have a beautiful woman going out with a jerk that treats her like shit. act like perfect gentlemen and are really nice to them. Otherwise they would date the guys who treat them well. -. because shouldn’t women be with a man that treats them well? Yes they should! … but in reality. That was very weird. she should go out with me.didn’t take long before I realized that women found nice guys boring. It’s a bad idea asking a woman what she wants. while she ignores all the other guys who would treat her like a princess. But what was it? Certainly no women loves being treated like shit. 99% of men don’t get that. I figured out that there must be something women find attractive in assholes and arrogant jerks. they are not! That got me thinking. that just seemed kinda wrong.
Women didn’t like being treated like a princess. There was no need to buy presents.I realized that I had to start looking at everything from a different perspective and pay attention to more detail. So I figured that I had to turn it around. flowers. I had the privilege of being myself because I already did what got women attracted. I had to work very hard at figuring all this out. So pay attention to every detail I am revealing here because it can take up most of someone’s life just to get -. but ONLY because I did what most other men didn’t do. I knew I was on my way… Women liked me being bad and joking around with them. If you were to “just be yourself” around women and didn’t get it yet … she would dump you or tell you to “let’s rather be friends”. They didn’t like someone “easy” or “nice … someone that acts like a wuss. you will just be another failure. I was different. They didn’t like a guy who they can just get. They always liked me for who I was. compliment her all the time. In fact. and that made me special. Everything takes time and usually the harder it is. but it paid off. One thing I always kept in mind when I was still working women out was this: To be good at something you have to get yourself over the hill. unless you really stick it out. offer to do everything for her or even take a girl out a lot. What I mean is.15 -- . the more rewarding. they will walk all over you if you act like that.
but to get really good and make your success with women shoot through the roof you just need to stick at it.16 -- . I can teach you step-by-step what really works when you want a woman to think you are so sexy she will literally ask YOU for your phone-number.the basics down. I have the core stuff together that can make anybody successful with women. Fortunately. After several years of trying almost EVERYTHING I could think of. believe me when I tell you I know what doesn’t work. It’s not looks and it’s not money … it’s something completely else and I will show you exactly what it is. piano. And I will bet they gave up because they didn’t make the same kind of progress that they did when they started. I’ve been there and I’ve basically rewritten the nono rules that get you rejected. But those who stuck it out probably became pretty darn good at it. Once you have read this manual you will be so much better than before. But on the other hand. you don’t have to because I have done all the hard work for you already. ballet or whatever? How many of them gave up after just a few months? A lot I’ll bet. -. you will need to put in some effort as well and learn and apply it. The only reason why I got so good at attracting and seducing a lot of beautiful and intelligent women is because I tripped over my dick more times than all of you guys reading this manual together! Hey. I think I nailed it! Right now. But to get the most out of this. Think of all the people you have known who did martial arts.
But what I am going to give you is choice! In my opinion. Are you looking to improve you sex-life? Do you want a girlfriend? Do you want to become a Player? Are you looking to meet your soul mate and get married? • All of the above? I am not going to tell you that you should sleep with at least 10 different women a month or that you should get one woman and stay with her for the rest of your life. that’s why I want to give you only the core fundamentals and concentrate on results. I want you to read through this book and be able to go out and get 4 phone numbers the very same day! Now let me tell you this: It is very simple! Being successful with women isn’t difficult … IF you know what really works! But if I got good at it. If you can choose what you want to do and actually be able • • • • -.I really do know what works and what doesn’t. this is the most powerful tool to have. What do I want out of this? This is a very important question and a good place to start. so will you! So let’s get started.17 -- .
The question is: does it work? -.to do it. especially when it comes to women and dating … so appreciate it because many men don’t have it. Maybe you want to sleep with a woman within an hour of meeting her.18 -- . If you don’t like having 23 women on the go. then you don’t need to. If you just want a girlfriend. If you have been married already and would rather have a meaningful long-term relationship instead … do that instead. I am going to show you how you will be able to do all of the above. whether you will decide to let one or 20 women be part of your life: The power of choice is something not many people have. So regard reading my material as a privilege … because I don’t teach them to just anyone! Right and Wrong You probably already have a rough idea of how someone in general “should” behave around women and how to treat them. Perhaps you want to get to know them before you sleep with them or maybe take each stage very slowly. What you will do with my techniques is entirely up to you … but once thing I can tell you right now. then weed out all the women you don’t want to be with and keep the one you like. It really is entirely up to you but nevertheless. this my friend is like having a personal remotecontrol for your life! Maybe you want to sleep with a woman within a day of meeting her.
Now I’m an not an arrogant jerk towards women (ok maybe sometimes ☺) but you need to realize that there is a huuuuuuuge difference between what works when it comes to attracting women. you would get a laugh out of the entire class. but also because you just don’t do that. -. If you just won a sports tournament or a competition and you feel and act like the champ. parents. they got told “you can’t do that? Why? … because you just don’t”. teachers. Remember those words: Because you just don’t do that. Need a couple examples? • Being cocky or cheeky to somebody • Acting arrogant because you are better at something • Breaking certain rules If you make a cheeky or cocky comment towards your teacher. their boss and society in general that if they stepped out of line or did something a little bit different than anybody else. people would tell you to take it easy and come back down to earth. Not only because it is illegal. a lot of stuff that gets women attracted.19 -- . You see. I know so many guys who had to listen to their friends. but you would get detention. and what is generally perceived as good social behavior. is something that many people regard as immoral and wrong. Now you can’t just walk into a bank and shoot everybody just to get some cash.
kiss her and get physical with her. What can a regular guy do? -. But what should you do to actually GET HER! You know. • Always say thank you • Be a good. nice and polite towards others • Do what you have been told But what about when you wanted to date that special girl you had a crush on? How were you going to achieve that? Should you act like you always did around your friends? Should you do something different? You aren’t rich. • Do you just walk over to her and pay her a compliment? • Do you ask her if she wants to have a drink with you sometimes? • Do you invite her to the cinema? • Do you ask her if she just wants to “hang out?” • Do you tell her that you really like her and if she wanted go on a date with you? • Do you ask her for her phone-number? • Do you play it cool? • Do you wait until she looks at you? See. Basically.20 -- . you have been taught good ethics. you brake ‘em but would get into trouble for doing so. there are so many questions that pop up in someone’s mind when he is attracted to a woman. good manners and the right-behavior from when you were a little kid. have a date.If you didn’t see the point of certain rules. you aren’t particularly model-type handsome … you are just a regular guy. get her phone-number.
Why? Because if I show you how to beat the system. my stuff works like a charm. how to seduce them and basically that you can get almost any woman’s phone-number under 3 minutes. Maybe even you might some of my techniques not really “clean” or “honest” or “not how you should do things”.Now look: Most of the stuff that really works with women is NOT what you think it is. -. I’m talking about the moral majority of this country. I’m not talking about lying into someone’s face to get an advantage and I’m not talking about screwing people over here. I’m talking about becoming a man … a real man! And a lot of folk don’t like me teaching you this stuff.21 -- . In fact. somebody will lose power. But. Especially don’t tell your female friends that you know how a woman’s brain works. So just to get the record straight … you shouldn’t tell the wrong kind of people that you know this stuff. feminists and even deeply religious folk. most of the stuff that women LOVE and get ATTRACTED to is morally wrong. ultimately. Why? Because they think what you are doing is morally wrong! Does it work though? Hell yes! But some people might not like it as much as you do.
she will see you as a friend. Will you change YOUR goals or morals from reading my book? It all depends what you want personally. Remember. she might start to see you as a partner. Maybe it’s time to change and become more of a man.It is highly advanced cutting edge material that I believe is the best in the world. But if you try to be a man. If you try to be like her. she will look for that in a friend. Perhaps that you are starting to realize that being nice and thoughtful won’t get you what you really want. The real question is. or do you want to leave things as they were? But as I said before: I will give you the power of choice by teaching you what really works with women. are you going to change your outlook on life because of what you’ve just read. HOW you are going to use my knowledge is entirely up to you. -.22 -- . Most people will tell you that having the same types of interests and being gentle and caring will attract you to a woman.
beer (getting wasted). shopping and clothes (appearance). let’s very quickly go over the obvious differences: Your average guy will be interested in. styles). Women might seem very complicated. but it really isn’t. Your average female will be interested in: drama (emotion). If you fail to GET the how’s and why’s of female psychology. let’s get this party started then… Men and women are two completely different human beings (well. obviously. you just need to get the fundamentals right.Men v Women Allright. her looks (attention). d’oh ☺). then no wonder you are getting rejected all the time. But most men can’t understand women at all. titties (sex) and hanging out with his buddies. sex & relationships (romance) Now I have generalized this to the max! I know there’s loads of other stuff but to get my point across. They don’t know how the female psyche works and how to effectively handle a woman. Let me ask you one simple question: Why the difference? • Why are we men not interested in a movie about romance than women? -. cars (performance. sports (competition). talking to girlfriends (gossip). it will do.23 -- . Ok.
creates a need that most men don’t have! We men love the adrenaline and competing against each other to see who is better at something. That’s why talking about sports stats. the alpha male. porn-magazines and car engines don’t really make you look sexy for women: They don’t really care! Why? Because if you put all the pieces together. you are dead on the money. Women like to compete between other women in terms of who gets more attention. I think that’s obvious … but why? I tell you why: Because drama for instance. We men just kick each other’s ass to determine who is stronger or better. you will see that women are emotional creatures! They need to be stimulated emotionally to do something with you.• Why are women not as interested in a cars performance as guys? • Why we guys not as interested in gossip as girls? Just because we are men and they are women you say? Well. it’s all about driving her emotions nuts until they go wild. This is the key! -. It all goes back to the animal kingdom. We compete to determine who is the dominant one. who “looks” better because that is how they compete.24 -- . But long story short: Women and men have different needs! If you can press those buttons to GIVE her what she craves in a man. Cold facts don’t work here.
No point talking about what car you drive. So let me ask you this: If I just gave you lots of lines that work … at some point you will run out of material. how much money you got or how big your biceps is…you have to be able to press her emotional trigger buttons that create attraction! Get it? So let’s talk about that for a second. There is also the date. what do I say and how do I get her number?” Now look. etc. Then what? Wouldn’t it be much more effective if I showed you how to create your own? Yes I do have some killer lines but I want you to grasp the CONCEPT of why women get attracted to whatever I say. how and when to kiss her. you need to understand that to be successful in the dating game. Emotional Trigger Buttons Where are they? How do you press them? What’s it all about? Allright then … The biggest question you probably have right now is: “How do I approach a woman. you need to look beyond the phonenumber.25 -- . Why does it work? -. how to get her to your place.
you will press her sexual trigger button. I am the greatest” … then she would just make a “who’s that weirdo?” face at you. smile and tell you how full of yourself you are but they just got attracted to you! -. but we have to get the fundamentals right first. So how do you press a woman’s emotional trigger button? How do you get her ATTRACTED to you within seconds? Simple… You have to be just a little bit too arrogant. For instance. they will giggle. There’s no chemistry going on here. if you said • “Hey baby. How does that look like? Let’s use the example from above. she gets attracted to you and thinks you are sexy. funny and a “hot-guy”. It’s too arrogant and too dry. here’s the killer secret: If you don’t take yourself too seriously. add some humor to it and make it sound cheeky. In other words. I know WHERE her emotional trigger buttons are.26 -- . But.Because I figured out how the code looks like. and add some humor: • “Hey! You know I don’t wanna brag but … [pause] … I just am the greatest” *smile* Get it? Women LOVE that shit! In fact. but make a joke out of it. the ones that make any woman attracted to you within seconds! There is shitloads more to be successful in the dating game.
she will think you are hot and sexy. giggle and get shiny eyes.27 -- . that you have such a huge ego or that you are so full of yourself…just look at how she reacts to it. Keep doing what works! Allright. It doesn’t matter if she calls you mean. If she laughs. hits you on the arm and calls you a bad boy with a huge ego … she absolutely loves what you are doing so don’t stop it. hit you on the arm but she will smile. Always pay attention to her behavior and not what she actually says. she plays her cards right. But you can SEE if she likes you or not. If you pull this off right. I know this sounds weird but that’s how a woman gets attracted to a guy. They never tell you that they like you when you are still dating her.Remember that women never go for the nice guy. she will tell you that this is “harsh”. now let’s get deeper into this. Nice guys always finish last! Pay attention to what she does (such as dating a jerk or asshole) and not what she says (such as “I want a man who treats me like a princess”). lets you kiss her. Don’t think just because she hasn’t told you anything yet that she isn’t attracted to you. This is key here! Everytime you create attraction or press her emotional trigger buttons. -. that you are so “mean” and “bad”.
Women wouldn’t mind having a partner who has lots of money because he would be the perfect provider. it doesn’t mean jack. Anyhow. Same goes for -. you couldn’t be more off here. They also are attracted to the idea of never having to work or worry about money anymore. But this need is purely a survival strategy and hasn’t changed over centuries. Does that mean you can’t get a beautiful woman if you are poor? Dude. which is the last one. women will get attracted to you instantly. If you look like a Brad Pitt or Johnny Depp. but even if you DO have money. 1) Wealth Meaning how much money you have and how much you earn. provide a better lifestyle. The most common reason why women (or gold-diggers) like a wealthy man is pretty obvious: Because they can buy lots of stuff like hundreds of shoes.Part 2: The Fundamentals About Attracting Women The Magnificent 7 There are seven basic things that attract women.28 -- . 2) Looks Most women say they want a guy that is cute and tall. Women do prefer rich guys over poor guys. Now the problem here is that looks alone give you a lot of attention and is NOT really a crucial factor in how successful you are. clothes and jewelry … or generally speaking. All but one are truly important. here are the seven basic things that attract most women on this planet.
Nevertheless. Why? Because it’s sexy. women are attracted to guys who are famous. some of them I am close friends dress like shit and don’t even shower before going out. You really need to come off this trip that looks will give you a huge edge in this dating game because it’s just not true! 3) Power Power is a form of dominance and shows your leadership qualities…and women ALWAYS go for the leader of the pack. To be honest. If you have status then people will assume that you are somehow better than somebody who -. This is almost like the complete package of power and fame. 5) Status Men who have status have influence and power and usually money. not tall and don’t have model-looks. People think that if you are famous. 4) Fame Okay. Why do you think most of the guys that are really successful Playboys or Ladies-Men are not rich. 99. brings respect and shows you are not at the bottom of the food-chain. then people will recognize you on the street because they already know you.9% of men are not famous and can’t capitalize on this attractive trait. If you are famous. You don’t need to be a senator or a powerful business-man to qualify for this department. you are better than the average citizen. the alpha-male.29 -- . Unfortunately. Of course this is complete bullshit (look at Paris Hilton) but this is just the way it works in this world. But fact is that women find themselves naturally attracted to a guy who has lots of power. this is a bit of a bummer.height: You don’t need to be tall to become a ladies-man.
you are being regarded as someone “special” which makes you unique and different.doesn’t have status. Having a special talent is a great turn on and automatically makes you stand out from the crowd… if you are GOOD at what you do and are enthusiastic about it.30 -- . then you must be sexy for every woman. Here’s another slick trick: If women see other women eyeballing you or trying to get your attention. If it wasn’t for your personality. then all the men out there who enjoy great success with women wouldn’t be where they are right now. your status rises instantly in the eyes of ALL women. It also means that if you have talent. I mean you won’t get rich overnight and you certainly won’t grow two more inches if you are an adult. 7) Personality This is more important than any of the above. Get it? 6) Talent Men who have talent are seen as attractive because women feel they can provide for her. I will show you how you can hone your personality into an irresistible powerhouse! … I’m not kidding. -. This is because women tend to follow. But your personality is the KEY when it comes to meeting and dating beautiful women. and if they see other women being interested in you. Your personality is the ONLY thing that you can tweak and improve in a short amount of time. Your personality is your greatest weapon and tool when it comes to success in the dating game.
Look. intrigued and get that gut feeling called attracted. you will get ultimate success with women. But once they have seen how incredible my techniques are. excited. it’s pretty much on auto-pilot right now ☺ -. None of the others can do that as intense as your personality. We are not rich. not tall and certainly don’t have modellooks. I have lots of player friends and I am good buddies with some of the best seducers and womanizers the world has never seen … fortunately.31 -- .Your personality decides whether or not a woman will ultimately want to be with you and love you. To be honest. I know you don’t really believe me here that just by tweaking someone’s personality. but we are the living proof that this stuff works. the eyes open in astonishment and all they can say is “WOW!” Now listen. The reason … in fact the ONLY reason why I am so successful at what I do is because I have perfected my personality to naturally attract women everywhere I go. I don’t even have a car as I type this. I have put a lot of effort in this and it nothing works better than my personality when I want to get a woman’s phone-number and get a date with her. It is your personality that makes a woman feel turned on. happy. Most guys don’t believe me when I tell them. the jaw suddenly drops. We have kept everything pretty quiet and underground.
but strangely enough the most important of all your characteristics you can change. I am going to list the specific personality traits that give women that gut feeling called emotional attraction. Some of them are best on their own. whilst others can work well when you combine them.-) Personality Traits That Attract Women In this chapter. the best thing about your personality is that you can change it for the better if you work on it. It’s difficult to change the way you look. Here are the fundamental tools you can use to attract a woman. -.But I was a struggling nice guy like many of you guys reading this. and all I could do at this point was to fix and enhance my personality that it would attract women in the near future … and it worked! I’m not richer. Yu will need to learn and ultimately acquire most of these traits so they become a part of you. Women have a pretty good idea of what a man should have and be like in order for them to consider you as boyfriend or lover material. but my personality is absolute killer! It’s the reason why I am such a chick-magnet right now.32 -- . I guess … this time. So you see. for once … we really got lucky! . and I am going to show you how YOU can become the same. not taller and not more handsome than I was before. difficult to change your status and difficult to get richer.
So make sure you use what works and get that big ego! • Be cheeky – Now this is one of the most powerful tools you will ever learn. But don’t take yourself too seriously and play it down a notch. Be a little mysterious. balls and some inner strength. Women are the weak ones. you will have a problem! • Confidence – What you need is cohones. It will also make you an interesting and fun person to hang out with. walk up to her and do all the “dirty work”. Women naturally follow so if you don’t lead. giggle and laugh. they always end up with the slightly arrogant jerk who is full of himself. it will bypass their bitch-shield. where to go and what to do now on a date). • Dominance – Women love a man who takes charge and leads. I know this sounds very arrogant but even though women SAY they want a nice guy. If you can make women smile. keep her on her toes and make keep her -.• Humor – Make a woman laugh and she will eat out of your hand. but she will love it when you take control of situations and make the decisions (i. you are being cheeky…and every woman will want to be around you because you they feel that gut-level emotion that magically attracts them to you.33 -- . They can’t give you attitude either because you lowered their guard since they are laughing. • Be spontaneous and unpredictable – Don’t signal your intentions to her just like that. By being slightly arrogant AND funny. This doesn’t mean she wants to be locked up. so they need a strong counterpart…you! You have to make the decisions. • Have a big ego – Make sure you are in love with yourself and have a big ego.e.
All this will make you so much more interesting. otherwise women will lose interest if they can get you without putting in some effort or having to chase and fight to actually get you. Don’t do everything for her whenever she wants to. you instantly come off as different and special. making you seem a hot and interesting man in a woman’s eyes.guessing. you will have to play your own thing here. But by any means. • Be hard to get – You have to be a challenge. Every woman kinda knows how men behave or how her past dates went … so you have to show her that you are NOT like them. By being spontaneous.34 -- . DO NOT be all cuddly and become a wimp by writing her poems. and not the other way around. unpredictable and a little mysterious. giving her gifts. flowers of take her out to a candle-light dinner. And this is done by playing a little hard to get and by being busy sometimes. don’t respond text messages right away and make her know that just because she is beautiful doesn’t mean you will want to date her. If you can acquire that strong JamesBond charm that can sweep women off their feet. Say things she wouldn’t expect . Play hard to get. Have a charming personality. you are dead on the money. don’t call her all the time. You need to turn up the heat by creating attraction. but DON’T try to be romantic early on. make spontaneous decisions and don’t reveal everything about yourself early on. It doesn’t work like that. • Be charming – This isn’t an easy one. and being romantic kills everything early on! Most guys make this mistake so back off here! -. It doesn’t mean you should be all romantic and a goody-goody two shoes. Make her chase YOU.
another woman wants a piece of me so let’s see what she’s got. so have an attitude like this: Cool. so why should she want to go out with you? The reason why her past dates didn’t go any further was simply because every man wasn’t special. Rules are here to be broken…and which woman doesn’t love a wild. rebellious and adventurous guy? She will try to tame you. unique or different from one another. • Be original and different – Don’t do the same things like everyone else. • Be cool – This is a hard one to explain.35 -- .• Be rebellious – If you follow all the rules. Dating women shouldn’t be a big deal for you. you ARE like every other guy she has dated before. but if you can show to a woman that you do have some brains she will find that very attractive. Don’t say the same things like every other guy and don’t dress like every other guy. Maybe I kiss her. they want the rebels. the bad boys of the jungle! • Clever – Women tend to be attracted to a sharp and bright mind…as long as you are NOT a nerd or a geek. If you do. That’s why my attraction techniques works so perfectly here: it will make you stand out. maybe I let her hang out with me if she is interesting … we’ll see. and that’s half the fun right there for every woman on this planet. but here’s my take on it: You just have to take it easy. They don’t like the nicey-nice guys who they KNOW they can get anytime. So many guys take this dating game -. Being clever and street-smart are both huge turn-ons for women so make sure people don’t perceive you as a dumb cracker-jack. you are boring and predictable. make you different from the rest and therefore you come off as the sexy and interesting guy every woman wants to date. Women won’t be interested in facts and statistics.
The strongest one is if you can come off as slightly arrogant but still funny…called being cheeky! I haven’t found a beautiful woman who was not attracted to me when I was cheeky to her. The only type of women that WON’T respond to you that well if you have all those personality traits above are ugly women.waaayyy to seriously. A better. and if you have an amazing personality that naturally attracts women. But if you can acquire most of the personality traits that I just mentioned above. Now look. Why? Because they know that most men don’t find them attractive. You will come off so much more confident. obviously every woman is different.36 -- . play it by your own rules and do what YOU want. more beautiful woman can just come along and be instantly attracted to you as well. so she gets jealous and won’t respond that positively towards you. most women will not be able to resist you. But that will be the least of you problems because what you want is an intelligent. No need! Just relax. Those personality traits are what makes about 99% of women feel that gut level emotion called attraction towards you. sexy and as a challenge. she knows that she doesn’t stand a chance. cute and beautiful girl right? So why settle for what the unattractive guys go for? I just gave you CHOICE! -.
good-looking. you and probably every other guy wants to be with has NEVER dated a guy like that. the type of women me. If you are the perfect boyfriend. polite or treated her like a princess.37 -- . Does she get what she wants? Does she go out with the guy she originally wanted? No! She goes out with the guy that makes her feel sexually attracted! And all those guys have at least half of the personality traits I mentioned above! -. Every man she’s been out with wasn’t nice. Get it? But you now know how attraction works so never listen to what a woman says she wants … pay attention to what is happening for real. obviously ☺) and plays the role of the perfect boyfriend. But in reality. treats them well (like a princess.You can now make almost EVERY woman get sexually attracted to you. so I want you to go for the type of woman you always wanted! Another thing I want to mention here is that most women SAY they want a man who is nice. Being perfect in general is just plain boring…small differences and imperfections are exactly what makes someone or something interesting. then you become boring.
they just won’t get it if you are reasonable and try to explain it with pure logic. you need to realize that women are emotional creatures. “Yeah. BUT…” -.38 -- . and WHAT to do about it to effectively handle the situation. So let’s continue… Why Women Bitch Women will give you some attitude and behave like a brat sometimes. Buy why? Most men just don’t know what to do when your date or girlfriend acts like a complete bitch. First of all.That’s one of the many secrets of this dating game! I’m glad I taught you this just in time. That’s exactly why most guys can’t counter an argument with pure logic because it doesn’t sink into a woman’s brain.. Do you know what’s going to happen? She will say. Or in other word’s. I’m going to teach you WHY they do it. driven by emotions! …and the love drama! Their decisions are not based on pure logic but rather how they feel at that given moment.
I know women like to bitch sometimes but seriously…stop behaving like a brat” You need to be able to hold your ground when you deal with a real hottie because she WILL give you some attitude to see if you are up to the challenge. -. what do you do when your woman or date is being all emotional. acts like a bitch and gives you a little attitude? You will have to let her know that she can do that with every other guy. Get it? Another thing is. So. I’m supposed to follow”. And if you have needs to fulfill. “Look. but not you.39 -- . that’s what keeps them alive. It’s just like when women get annoyed at you when you ASK a woman on a date “where do you want to go?” or “what do you want to do?”. YOU make the decisions. but you will have to know how to handle a woman when she gets emotional. that women NEED emotions. then she will get annoyed because you LET her do it. If you can’t handle the situation and let her act like a brat. Don’t ask me. but how a man reacts to it.The problem here isn’t really the bitching itself. then you need something that feeds them right? In other words…DRAMA! Men don’t really have that need. correctly translated to “Why are you asking me? You are the man. Women will just say “I don’t know”. I’m the woman.
And they do it all the time! You have to make sure that you let her know what your rules are. they really do. can share all -. then she will accept it and respect your decision. their lives have taken a complete turn for the better. You know. I want you to think a bit as well here. there is a pretty big chance that you might have been what women call a “nice guy” as well. Now. It’s all about respect anyway: if you let her know. so behave like a man! Nice Guys Always Finish last Allright. and how far she can go and what you tolerate and what not. I want to dig a bit further down the spine and explain WHY exactly being nice to women is a very. she will walk all over you because you LET HER DO IT! Women don’t have any respect for nice guys that act like wimps. Fortunately.They test you. But if you don’t. the type of man women like to hang out with. About 90% of guys who read my books and other programs have been “just friends” with women and were being labeled as “nice guys” by women in their pasts. it’s sayonara son! If you don’t put your foot down. VERY bad idea.40 -- .
You wouldn’t mind to kiss or sleep with her … even if it was just to go on a real date with her but she just doesn’t feel the same way. Or the most common response: why do you want to ruin our relationship we have? If you try to kiss her. Then you started her buying drinks. You thought that by being nice and polite to women.41 -- . if you want to go on a date with her. she will be nice to you as well and like you in the end. picking her up when she needed a lift and even talk to her for hours on the phone. The big question I always get is: How can I get her and what have I done wrong? The answer is actually pretty simple if you paid attention in my newsletters. Or maybe you even did. …and you were still waiting for the right moment to kiss her and tell her how you really feel about her. So why did this happen? Why does she think of you as just a friend? -. and she just said that she needs some more space and needs to think about this. she will NOT treat it as a date but like a get-together with one of her girlfriends where you chat about girlie stuff over a cup of coffee. she will turn her head.their problems with (mostly relationships and men) and basically consider you as her personal girlfriend.
then she will let you be friends with her. you are a nice guy. It’s also a nice way of saying “I’m not really attracted to you but you are so sweet. So let’s summarize once and for all: Women will NEVER sleep with a clingy and wimpy niceguy! They will ALWAYS date the bad boy.It all leads back to when you first met her because that’s when you lay out the ground rules and the foundation of the emotional connection between the two of you. women don’t get attracted to nice. NOT sexual mating indicators. “You know. clingy. the guy that our society likes to call a menace. Now. … and you go like “but I don’t want to be friends. but they just don’t feel sexually attracted to you. but I just got out of a relationship … but we can still be friends”. I want to date you” in your head. I can’t possibly give you a rude rejection because you are so nice”. needy and wimpy behavior … that’s a fact! If you were unable to press her emotional trigger buttons that make her feel that gut level emotion called attraction towards you. then something else will happen. But it’s too late now. She has made up her mind about you already. But because women don’t tell you to fuck off if you didn’t behave like a complete jerk. a bad influence and a jerk! -. They will look at you and see that you are a “nice” guy indeed.42 -- . You will send I WANT TO BE FRIENDS signals to her.
But just to get this over one last time: Please. StreetSmartDating doesn’t teach you to be a mean bastard or to become a jerk. think about this for a moment: Why is a good first impression so important? Simple: Because you can’t change it after a certain amount of time. I get so many emails from guys saying… -. ditch everything what nice guys do and add the rest from StreetSmartDating … and you are made! See. I just give you all the stuff that really works out there … the true secrets of womanizing and attracting women. Allright. Once a woman has made up her mind about you. PLEASE don’t fall for the oldest trick in the book and believe that you should be NICE to women to become successful … in reality and on the street. it just doesn’t work! The First Impression Ok look… Everybody keeps talking about first impressions at shit right? But what’s really going on here? Why is a first impression so important? I want to reveal the real secrets right now and that will give you an incredible advantage. you are literally screwed! See.Does that mean you have to become a jerk to get women? Hell no! You just need to take what works for jerks.43 -- .
I even tried to kiss her but she always turned her face away. What can I do to win her over?” The answer is very cruel but it’s the truth: There is NOTHING you can do to win her over! If you blew it by being nice. And if you do have amazing skills. being cheeky. I met this woman and I think I blew it by being nice and clingy and she said she only wanted to be friends.“Hey Nick. I have tried winning a woman over with some form of jealousy and I’m not even going to lie here … it does work! But the only way you can win a woman over AFTER you screwed up. you will have to move on. you won’t screw up like this in the first place. You will have to start dating other women and get your skills up to speed. -.44 -- . NEXT! … that’s all you can say here. there is nothing you can do about it because she has made up her mind. I hope you can understand that argument. It will only work if you displayed to a woman in the first few minutes of talking to her that you are different. But if you fuck up. etc … see above for more examples). is if you have top-notch game. dominant. rebellious. This is why most mistakes either happen within the first 30 seconds to 3 minutes … or at the date when you are trying to kiss her or get her to come to your place. wimpy and needy. NOT a wimpy nice-guy and have some of the qualities women are looking for in a guy (like humor.
Doesn’t happen like that. She doesn’t say “wow. But on the other hand. then she will keep her options open. If she sees you as a guy who is sweet but only girlfriend material … it will stay that way. you instantly get attracted and want to meet her. -. they will keep the option open and see what will happen next. I am sooo going to sleep with him”. as in you display to her that you have the qualities women are looking for . They don’t say to themselves: “he is so sexy. if she make a good first impression. Rather. she will get attracted to you just like that. It happens instantly! Let me say it again: Attraction happens instantly! You see a beautiful woman walking down the street. he is funny. cute and kinda sexy … I think it’s time to get attracted to him”. and she will now keep her options open and will decide if you are boyfriend or lover material. If she gets attracted to you and sees you as a potential lover or boyfriend..45 -- . you have passed the “nice-guy” test as I call it (she sees you are not a nice guy). If she gets attracted. you can’t change it. There is no choice here either.That’s why you will have to make sure you get it right from now on … and from the start! Once she has this image of you planted in her head.
she can’t follow and will therefore leave. To tell you the truth … NOTHING has changed! Women are attracted to the exact same things like they used to get attracted to 50 years ago … and their dislikes of men who behave a certain way haven’t changed either. -. like it was YOUR fault for letting her sleep with you because she wanted to see what is going to happen. and that the man has to show her that he is a good provider. • If you act needy and clingy.46 -- . That’s women for ya ☺ 21st Century Women A lot has changed in the past 50 years in the female mind and to women in our society. Women got their first taste of emancipation and they liked it. • If you are trying to be nice to her. • If you don’t lead. they only say no or “I wanna see more…” … and in 99% of the cases. Everybody thinks that women have become more demanding.They don’t really say yes. she will sleep with you and tell her girlfriends “we had sex last night … but it just happened”. she will NOT be nice to you. you won’t get it. she will get annoyed and reject you. • If you are hungry for sex. You know.
You don’t have to be aggressive or -. But you can pay me back with an ice-cream ok?” The key of course is NOT to appear mean.Can you see where I am getting at here? Women don’t want to be in control as feminism and emancipation has suggested. Here’s a great example. If she wants some money from you and all you can say is “yeah sure … here’s some extra”. and then ask her what she will do for you in return. I’m not just going to give you money to spend. then she will think “oh that was easy … he’s not a wimp is he?” Sometimes it really is just a test for her to see what she can get away with and to check your rules.47 -- . Not only do women like to hear a man taking control. Be light hearted about it. There is just as fine a difference between mean and in control as there is between jerks and real ladies-men. Make a small joke about her trying to bleed you dry. Let’s say she asks you for some money to … I dunno … buy some make-up or hand cream. In fact. This is just another way in which women subconsciously test men. She would really like to hear him stand up for himself and say: “Look. they also want to feel like he’s not tip toeing around her and telling her what she wants to hear just incase she leaves him. If you let a woman push you around in a relationship it will simply end badly. most women literally pity men who can’t stand up for themselves.
Most guys try the nice and caring approach because they think that she will leave them and they couldn’t cope with that. taking control of a woman shows you are different from the other men she has dated and never had a relationship with. If you show that you don’t follow the same patterns as the rest of the male population then she will see that you are sexy and different. Seriously … Women just want a man! That’s it.48 -- . That’s why women get so frustrated.angry with her if she constantly asks you to do things for her. Above all. The women of today aren’t really more demanding or harder to handle. But how come so many guys have problems with women and dating? They are men for sure (I sure hope so lol). But on the other hand. So what’s the problem? -. The reason why most women complain that there aren’t any real men out there who are single is simply because 9 out of 10 men are wimps. Just Be a Man The most important underlying principle and driver of success with women and dating is to be a man. just laugh about it and be cool. there is almost zero competition for you out there once you know all the secret know-how about how to attract and date women.
Do you now how to do that? So.Simple: They are not REAL MEN! Women don’t just want any type of guy.49 -- . masculine and so stereotypical in their role as men anymore. unless you find the right woman”. for instance: Don’t act needy or clingy because that’s your death-wish right there. she might even think you are gay if you act all nicey-nice at the same time. if you see a beautiful woman you get attracted and wouldn’t mind kiss or sleep with her … so don’t deny it! Be a man! They know that we think about sex all the time. C’mon dude. they want a real man. I think sex before marriage is wrong. Guys aren’t allowed to be macho. they know that men can be dirty pigs … BUT … if you try to be all nice and DENY that you are not like all the other guys out there. A man that has most of the attractive qualities women are looking for to brand you as sexy. It’s not the same like it used to be. you are a man so act like one. wimps and nice-guys but so few real men out there these days is simply because our society has changed. she will wonder why? Heck. But don’t deny what you are either: You do have to show her that you are not hungry for sex and not just say “well. Society has -. You know. The real reason why there are way too many wussbags. You will have to SHOW her that you are not like all the others.
Over time. write nice cards and literally “court” a woman to get her. strong arms to hug them and a man that is sure of himself and knows where he is going in life. Blame movies.50 -- . most guys believe that crap! They forgot what women really want! They don’t want another friend. etc). somebody who listens to all her problems they have with men and They want a shoulder to lean on. And guess what. magazines and even your mom who told you that you need to be “nice” to a woman because they need to be treated like princesses. ethics. our society has changed and made everyone believe that men aren’t allowed to act as real men anymore (because of equal rights. -. TV. emancipation. And the bad boy jerk and macho will ALWAYS lose to the girl because it’s the nice. it just doesn’t work! This is one of the key factor or drivers of failure in the dating game: society has been conditioning men to THINK that in order to be a chick-magnet. But even though it should be the nice and moral thing to do.changed and created a lot of men that aren’t attractive to women because of their new-age behavior. you will need to bring flowers. polite and feminine guy that deserves to get the woman because he really does care about her and listens to all her problems. morals. religion.
then there wouldn’t be so many guys out there who still don’t get it and always fail with women. it is NOT what the society has been telling you. It’s attraction that counts! This is why it is so important for you to go back to the roots of being a man! Okay… I want to give yourself another perspective here to get the “just be a man” ideology across so you are able to look through the looking glass the other way. That’s why most people don’t think being a classical or stereotypical man is wrong or unattractive. it makes no sense at all because you have already been conditioned.51 -- . And in most cases. But to speak from an evolutionary point of view: Men are designed to pick and choose which women they find suitable to mother their offspring. the boss and leader of the pack. He will have several different families and father many different children.But women really WANT a real man. The other -. If it was. that’s why they hang out with the guys they shouldn’t really be with. Men simply aren’t designed to stick to the first woman they have sex with. and what is really EFFECTIVE when it comes to women and dating. there will be the Alpha-Male. You really have to differentiate here between what is being PERCEIVED as the right way. It isn’t natural. In the animal kingdom. When you think about it.
males will all have to wait in line behind him and the females will all fight to ensure he fathers their offspring. and the rest don’t get anywhere. there really isn’t much difference between that scenario and human life today. but ultimately it all goes back to being the man you should be. lie -. the factor of being successful as a male in the animal kingdom is simply force and strength. Now. women are more demanding than simply going for the strongest guy. Although we are now civilized. there are a few men out there who get all the women. Attraction has become more complex. He’d have more than one girlfriend at a time. But this isn’t really the most important point here. We may all at some point in our lives decide to stick to one woman.52 -- . Women like a man who doesn’t cling to one woman for instance. But one of the reasons for so many marriages breaking down is from people marrying too young before they’ve made up their mind. If you want to be happy it’s far better to at least test the water before committing yourself to marriage. Survival of the fittest remember? But today. You see. Thinking back to nice guys and jerks. just like in the animal kingdom. who gets more women? Jerks right? And what is far better than being a jerk? A real man! A jerk will literally treat a woman like dirt when it comes to sex.
The creep might get told to get lost within 20 seconds of talking to a girl. that is. sexy bodylanguage and voice. persistence. Let’s set aside the creepy overweight old men and focus on the average nice guy. A real man. politeness etc like you have been told by society) … here they are again in a short version: • Strength: confidence. being a badboy • Interesting: being different. the nice guy might talk to her for 10-20 minutes and then instead of her telling him where to go. sure of himself. aggressiveness • Attractive: humor. cheekyness. leading The most important part that you will have to implement in your daily approach and confrontations with women is to not only ACT like the man women want … but to ultimately BECOME the man women want. arrogance. money. The woman of today wants a real man with certain qualities to feel attracted to (remember. stories to tell. Like the wise man said: Fake it till you make it! Players Playing the Game You may wonder why women complain about certain guys trying to attract them. it isn’t just strength like in the animal kingdom or good-looks.53 -- . wit • Charming: calmness.about where he was and generally treat her mean. On the other hand. ego. she just says: -.
The Rich and Famous It is a general misconception that women find money and fame attractive. and by now you should be aware that whatever TV and the internet tells you about attraction is wrong. but I’m seeing someone. she uses the opportunity to show that she is attractive to other guys. feel slightly insecure and get jealous when most guys pass her by. anyone. that men have been after them and its so hard to get them to leave her alone. It is almost like an ego boosting exercise. So instead of grasping the opportunity to be seen with a guy that she doesn’t find that attractive. This is compensation for the fact that the nice looking guy preferred the slim. The truth is they’re not COMPLAINING.” You may have wondered why most women complain about nice guys talking to them. pretty faced girl across the bar and she was stuck with the nerd who didn’t know his fly was undone. Remember that women love to play social games like bitch queen? Well that’s exactly how women play it with meeting men.54 -- . They want to tell their friends. guys they like. Women play games when it comes to dating so they can get a kick out of it. they’re PLAYING. this is something that society has told us is true.“Awww that’s so sweet of you to say so. You can learn how to change this around so you will be playing games with her. -. You’re a really nice guy you’ll meet someone who’s perfect for you soon. Again. A girl may not have the greatest looks.
This is completely untrue. Generally speaking. You can get women to flock to you as well. For women. It will take her a lot of disappointment for her to realize that this is not true and the reason it will take her so long is because it has been embedded in her sub conscious so deeply. these ideas stick strongly in her mind and start to form pictures of her perfect man.The reason for this is pretty obvious. Because of Disney and all the other false influences in her life. healthy. TV. They are not interested in the wealth or fame that comes from wealthy men. interesting and generous. untrustworthy. evil. funny. And yet they seem to get all the interesting women. books and all the rest tell you that rich people are good and poor people are bad. Poor people are portrayed as scruffy. rich people are portrayed as attractive. cool rich people do you know? In my experience money makes you boring and difficult to socialize with. well mannered. aggressive and cold hearted. This is the image we have been given from a very young age. Films. good natured. You may be thinking that this means that women will always go for rich and powerful men. unhealthy. How many attractive. as long as you make them FEEL the way they thought a rich and powerful man would. she assumes that rich men can fulfill her desires. they are interested in the experiences and emotions that he will offer. Most of my best buddies are broke or very nearly broke.55 -- . -.
56 -- . This might seem difficult to beat at first. Men on the other hand want many different partners and don’t want to be tied to any particular woman. Women want sex from the same man who can be faithful and loyal to her. but you simply have to work on giving them what they want rather than what you think they want. Respect Yourself Appearance isn’t as important as your charm. Take time to analyze your appearance. It may seem pretty hard trying to attracting someone that wants something different from yourself. In all these tests and games both men and women are looking for the same thing.Part3: Looking Through The Looking-Glass The Other Way Everything Has a Reason Just as you learned why women shoot men down. But it can give you a head start and it can improve you’re game. Its not just for the sake of it. they all have a motive and a reason for doing so. bitch about each other and test you. What do you want to change about your body? There’s no point in saying -. not by a long way. Sex.
Now to your style: This is important. but to show you have your own style and you look good in it. You are 5’ 4”. You weigh 250Ibs and all of it is fat. Not only are they cheaper but you can make yourself look more stylish. For example. Sort out your hair. Not to look fashionable as such. The reason you want to make sure that you don’t dress too smart is so that you show a woman you’re not trying too hard. What about all that extra body weight? Lose it. One of the worst things you can do is dress like everyone else. not only is it bad for your health.you want to change it all and look like Johnny Depp. Of course if you have a few extra pounds then this shouldn’t pose any real problem. Start by exercising everyday and reducing what and the amount you eat gradually. But there are things you can change. think hard about each factor of your body. Get some new shoes. Dressing differently shows you have originality -. Wear clothes that compliment your body. Keep it short and wash it at least once every 2 days. You wear tracksuits and sneakers all the time. Wash every day. Keep away from baggy clothes and try to steer clear of clothing that makes you look as though you’re trying to hard. you are letting women slip through your fingers.57 -- . Try and get clothes online. Your hair is a mess. you are in the worst case scenario. but being obese will. What do you need to change? Well you wont suddenly grow to 6 foot and then shed off all that extra weight. If you weigh that much. Get rid of the grubby sweatpants. Make sure you buy clothes that are slightly different from everyone else.
58 -- . This can also be stopped with mouthwash. Keep the fragrance low so that she can only smell it when she is a few inches away from you Remember that these image enhancers wont get you a woman. they just assist you. Long nails not only scratch but they make men look feminine. Use antiperspirant to get rid of sweat patches. What gives you great charm and confidence when you walk up to a woman and start talking to her. Keep your toenails short and your fingernails shorter. Nothing is worse than something that smells too strong. The real magic comes from the charm. Get a subtle and mild smelling aftershave. it also shows a woman that you are trying far too hard to impress her. Not a good look. Clean your teeth at least twice a day. Not only is it choking. If you don’t like antiperspirant then use a roll on or spray deodorant. Brush your tongue to get rid of bacteria that causes bad breath. what makes a woman immediately interested in you from the first thing you say -. How You View Yourself This will be the foundations for your success.and women will assume you’re different and more interesting that everyone else simply because you dress differently. Keep the scent down to a minimum. If they’re not very white make sure u brush three times a day and use baking soda with your toothpaste to help bring out those pearly whites.
If there was one part of the book that had more importance than any other.59 -- . You don’t have a relaxed. I bet you think these kind of things: • What if she has a boyfriend and he gets really angry that I’m talking to her? • What if she thinks I’m a loser and tells me to get lost? • What if she turns around and tries to ignore me? -. You try to say to her that her dress looks like the lower half is missing. Imagine you feel very nervous and worried as you approach a woman. laid-back tone that shows her your just kidding around so it sounds insulting and above all you sound too nervous.to her and what prevents you from feeling to down if you get rejected is self-image. That comes with experience and you get experience from persistence. that’s just way too scary. There really is no stopping someone who has a good selfimage. This was all caused because you just didn’t think or believe in yourself. You don’t say it with a smile. Your confidence is your foundation. it would be this. make sure you work on it. but it comes out all wrong. The Attitude So how do you fake that initial confidence so you can jump start your progress to becoming a professional player with women? You don’t want to just walk up to a woman and start talking.
The chances are you will meet at least 5 who will be interested in you. So what happens if a woman is cold towards you. I’ll see you around or something” and walk away. Lets say you talk to 10 women. -.• What if she says something and I cant think of an answer? • What if people see me talking to her and think I’m desperate? • What if she laughs at me and then goes and tells her friends that some loser tried to talk to her? I have thought similar things when I was starting to try to meet women. If this is a magical average place you’re in. They may joke around ant talk to you and say it was really nice to meet you. And I doubt they will ever happen to you. then: • • • • • 1 1 1 1 5 of of of of of them them them them them will will will will will be married have a boyfriend be a lesbian be nervous and shy be wanting to meet someone The trick is. Don’t worry about the ones that aren’t. That is what a player can do. Even if you do come across women who are married/engaged/lesbians/unsociable it doesn’t always mean they will scream at you or insult you for speaking to them. say something like “Okay girl. to speak to as many women as possible. If you are worried about any of the situations above then simply talk to 10 women. None of those things have ever happened.60 -- . doesn’t really say much or worse tells you she doesn’t want anything to do with you? You laugh.
If you stay relaxed and light hearted. This will show her that you’re a player. you can make her see that she has just turned down a hot payer. but its not like guys walking up to them in the street and talking to them is anything they haven’t experienced before. What happens if you get a really harsh response? The one of your worst nightmares. Its far worse than being ignored or being told she has a boyfriend. by just keeping your relaxed and chilled attitude. First. Far too many people do this and its counter productive. You need to show that you’re not some chump that gets all emotional just because some girl isn’t interested in you. You are just like my little bratty sister … you have about the same eye color” Don’t be confrontational about it.Never take it personally. I don’t talk to losers” Hit back with this: “Aw you’re so cute.61 -- . You will probably get an apology as she realizes you’re not to be messed around: -. Second. which will make her very frustrated. Don’t worry that she will be terrified of you. You can leave this situation feeling more confident. she will react well to it even if you don’t leave with her number. Even if you do feel slightly insulted. this situation has shown you that its not all that bad and your worst thoughts never even came close. Laugh at any insults you get and be relaxed. she says something like: “Look. Women might get a little annoyed when a nervous nice guy or a drunk approaches them.
its not what you find attractive. Don’t worry about women like this. You can stretch the story out and give everyone a really good laugh. just stick with a style you’re comfortable with. but what SHE finds attractive. In the short time you meet them you might not be able to convince them that you are the man of their dreams as they may assume because you dress a certain way. you can gradually begin to understand what attracts women. Think about women’s love for bitching. By persevering with what works. You might know her well. You might even tell it to a girlfriend or on a date that this bitch insulted you and then you hit back with a sharp comeback. have seen her around or just heard about her. Tell your friends and other people that you meet about the bad experiences if there are any. Try to think what she would find attractive.“Look I’m sorry I didn’t mean to snap at you. I’ve had a hard day and some jerk was bugging me in the mall earlier” etc etc. Attracting this girl might not make any logical sense and that is why you have to grasp this new approach to attracting her. Keep doing what works and ditch what doesn’t work. If you have the opportunity to speak to them over a longer period of time you will probably be able to prove them wrong. Changing your approach Perhaps you know a woman that you really like. Remember.62 -- . Try to think about the things that don’t really make any sense. -. Don’t change your style or image for the woman. you’re not their type. There are some women who are very picky and set in their ways.
Giving her a rehearsed line that has been used by every chump in the country is not going to show her you’re different. Yes. the rejection happens in lots of different forms. there are many more ways in which we can communicate. Joking around with her and teasing her are the best ways to get her attention. Why do you think the attractive girls get all the attention and the fat ugly ones spend all their time on the shelf? Because as in nature. but at the same time you’re good fun and not arrogant. These are the root of all evil. but funny and light hearted. display bright colors and sound a strong mating call. depending on how angry you make her.Going back to the male way of thinking. Men choose women and women reject the ones they don’t want. so will females in human society. Try something that is not only original. Try to think in your mind when you see a nice girl: -.63 -- . Because we are very different to animals. males will want to mate with the best looking females. This is also true of females. of course the male will initiate mating in the animal kingdom. but you might get a fake number or she may tell you she has a boyfriend. but the female will also decline any unsuitable males. a male will decide what kind of woman he wants. In the same way that in nature a female will grow attractive feathers. You must have seen those natures programs where they fight off ugly males? The same is true in our society today. you need to show her you are different from other guys. You might not get scratching or biting. To attract a woman with words. For decades people have wasted the power of words and come up with things like “chat up lines”. Of course. You want to show her you’re confident.
These are like attributes but -. INTERESTING. Being Different From Everyone Else Marketing is very similar to attracting women. You promote yourself towards a particular type of woman and you sell yourself to her. the woman you’re trying to pick up will automatically assume that you are just a regular guy. Many people don’t realize just how important branding is. People wont want to buy something that they think is similar to what they already have or similar to something that they have decided they don’t want. This is really all branding is. walk. Branding is a very important part of marketing. To help you gain confidence and experience you must always stick to what works and ditch what doesn’t. EXCITING in a woman’s eyes? Of course not! I’m going to show you now what women find attractive in men.What does everybody else say to her? What is would she find interesting/funny that she least expects right now? To successfully change your approach you have to look at yourself from a female perspective. If you dress. with your new understanding of women.64 -- . Does that make you SPECIAL. Farmers used to brand their cattle with a hot iron to mark and distinguish them from other cattle. What she is attracted to by a higher power and cant do anything to change it. Showing that whatever you are trying to sell is different from everyone else. act and dance just like every other average guy out there. talk.
Some might only be attractive to 30%. You don’t have to start thinking that there is something wrong with you and you need to get yourself some new -. You choose what attributes you want to display to a woman to attract her. That could be because you don’t have the same kind of attraction when you speak on the phone and that is a skill that you need. It was because you didn’t have the right charm or game. these are more like tools. Maybe when you text or call her she looses interest quickly and doesn’t reply or speak to you. This is just the same as learning skills with women Perhaps you are good at walking up to a woman and getting her number within just a few minutes of talking to her.because different women are attracted to different attributes.65 -- . It’s All About Skill People automatically assume that when things don’t work out with a woman it was because they have something that’s just not right with them. If you can use these tools effectively and in the right combination. your game is just a set of skills that you have and use when you meet women. Final Fantasy or even World of Warcraft. You must have played or heard of a game like Pokemon. In these games your character has a basic set of spells or whatever. This isn’t true. As you play and take part in challenges you earn more spells and moves that help you defeat different players. then you will be able to attract almost any woman. To put it another way. Some of these attributes will attract 90% of women.
then you need to gain a new skill. To give you an example I will talk briefly about a friend of mine who had recently split up with her boyfriend. then that is a sign that you need to learn a new skill. After breaking up with him she went online simply because she didn’t have the confidence to meet people face to face. It built up until it was a problem and her boyfriend genuinely didn’t find her attractive anymore. You never get out of it because you always think about what could go wrong or something catastrophic that might happen to them if they try something to sort themselves out. If you find yourself being challenged. I don’t have time to go into great detail but basic positive thinking has immeasurable benefits. Negative thinking is like a rut. This had a snowballing effect.66 -- . If at any point in talking to a woman you struggle with interesting or funny things to say.clothes to impress her or gain 20lbs by working out in the gym. Most people will dismiss positive thinking because they think its another way to kid yourself and you will never succeed until you have genuine confidence. you just have to learn a new skill. dull and generally a poor girlfriend. Despite what all -. I disagree with this. Obviously it was frustrating for her boyfriend who frequently told her otherwise and she was less attractive because of her low self-esteem. Positive Thinking There are ways of creating a positive image about yourself to help you get new skills and improve your game. Throughout this relationship she thought that she was unattractive.
You may have fantasized about these kind of things. Not only do they not give themselves enough confidence to succeed.67 -- . There are so many factors that are involved in success and positive thinking. Whatever the factors are. People that do realize the power of positive thinking do succeed. There are many ways you can use positive thinking. So don’t ignore positive thinking. People you think negatively throughout their lives are guaranteed to fail. -.her friends told her she insisted that things would never work out for her and trying would only result in failure. Nothing that bad will happen. It might be because you appear relaxed and confident that women believe in the image you give to them of yourself. I ask myself some questions about it but most importantly I will make sure that the answers are also things that I want. Have you ever actually taken time to really think hard about what successes you could have and how you could achieve them? I doubt it. they think of the most unrealistic consequences. close my eyes and picture myself as a success. simply because you didn’t want to tempt fate and seem arrogant. Well. It might be that because you think positively you use the “higher energy” to your advantage. but it wont work if you keep focusing on those things. but I’m going to stick to just the one that I use. but you probably didn’t want to think that these things would really happen. has thinking about something negatively all the time got you what you wanted? No. The reality is if you think of all the negative things that will happen to you. I relax. then you will forget to think of the positive successes you can have from sticking through something. they work. That kind of thinking is almost impossible to break.
68 -- . noone can. negative people are never happy or relaxed because they keep thinking about all the bad things and what might happen. Stop reading this book and just give up on life. -. Try applying the scene you picture in your head to a situation with a woman. What will her expression be like? How will she laugh? Remember these are all positive things that will happen. I cant help you if you want to be negative and try nothing positive. Maybe it’s a girl you pass sometimes in the street and you want to think what it would be like to go and talk to her. If you don’t want to try any of this and you think that its far better to be negative there is something you can do. then she is head over heels for you as successfully turn things around. Even if by some chance you get what you want.• • • • • • • • • What clothes will I be wearing? What will I be doing? What job will I have? Will I be smiling? What will my posture be? How will I talk? Who am I with? Where am I? What is the weather like? You are almost trying to picture a postcard style image or a snapshot of the life and success you want. Look at really cheesy adverts for holiday homes and even alcoholic drinks. Look at all the fine details they have and picture what kind of details would be in your life when you have what you want. You could even picture a short movie as you go and talk to her and maybe at first she is cold towards you. There’s no point in life if all you want to do is be negative.
What are some of the happiest memories you have? Everyone must have some happy memories. These are basically called “triggers” and they are just what you need when you want to feel good instantly. This is about using your happy experiences to promote positive thinking. Maybe there was a song you heard for the first time. Find the piece of music that brings those feelings back and play it to yourself in the morning with your eyes closed. out with a friend or maybe watching something funny on TV. had your first kiss. then you can use it as a trigger to bring back those feelings you had. maybe when you passed your driving test.Take Yourself to Your Happy Place No this has nothing to do with being high. If you find the song that gave you that feeling at that time. You might have the best memories when you were at school. If you can think of them then you can “load” the feeling of your choice. went on a good holiday. These are usually subtle things that where happening at the time or in the background that your memory has used to “file” these experiences under. What was the last really happy memory you had? You might have been at the beach. What was the feeling like? If you don’t really remember it. Maybe the best holiday you’ve been on there was a song that was number one that summer in every country and you heard it all the time. try and think of things that would bring back the memory. no matter how bad your life has been.69 -- . Let the song form pictures and images -.
That brings back a great feeling for me.of the first time you heard it. -. Worse are people who don’t like meeting real people and prefer to stick to dating websites. These characteristics are VERY destructive. Try to stop hanging around people who think negatively. And lets face it. Attributes You DON’T Need Some characteristics are very unattractive to almost every woman on the planet. Don’t be insecure. Just one of them can turn a woman right off. savor it and listen to it before you get on the bus to work so you feel good about approaching a woman.70 -- . Perhaps the air freshener in the examiners car when you passed your driving test. nerds and social outcasts aren’t much fun anyway. If you find a song that makes you feel upbeat. Maybe it was a scent that you associate with a good experience. Then use that positive feeling to walk up to women with confidence. If you stick with people who are confident and sociable then women will assume that you are like your friends. These people are too shy for you. I can remember the smell of wax crayons from when I passed my driving test. When you find the things that made you feel good. look for others. Insecurity shows that you aren’t confident with yourself. Women want a man who knows who is. likes himself and doesn’t constantly worry about what other people think about him. Sadly. most guys have one or all of these characteristics.
Tell her you are both going to X tonight because they’ve got a great atmosphere there and she’ll like the place. • Don’t try to change someone’s opinion on something. Show that you are relaxed and laid back by only making occasional light contact with her. Don’t go on about your outstanding performances or greatest moments. avoid saying anything negative about women and their faithfulness unless it is meant in a light hearted and fun way. • Don’t do or say things to get attention. Holding her hand all the time when you’re walking. Saying your past relationships have all been disastrous and women treat you like dirt. If you argue with someone about their opinion it will -. Don’t ask her if she is okay with this that and the other all the time. like you cant say to a woman that you’re confident and sexy. • Not taking control and making decisions. A woman wont want a man who worships the ground she walks on and has to have her with him or talking to him all the time. Always asking a woman where she wants to go and what she wants to do shows you have no control and wont excite her. It shows you are insecure and looking for attention. showing her that you are needy and weak happens in certain ways. Of course. Equally. • Talking negatively about things. Don’t talk about how much money you make or how difficult your job is. Touching her too much in the early stages of a relationship.Don’t show her that you’re needy. Here are the most common: • Crowding a woman.71 -- . This is frustrating and unattractive.
72 -- .show a woman that you are insecure about your own opinions and you’re not at ease with other people having different views than your own. -.
confident and hold back on any kind of compliment. try approaching her by being funny. Rather than telling her how good she looks.Part 4: The Techniques and Methods that Attract Women Hot Women Have Heard It Before Attractive women have been approached many times before. Women might like compliments. They also know that when a man compliments them. she’s pretty darn sick of it. had their ass pinched and told they look beautiful perhaps a hundred times in their life. they don’t only think “This guy is a wimp” they also think “He’s trying to sleep with me”. or maybe just that month. Even if the compliment comes from a nice guy. there are new skills that you need to learn. In her head she fantasizes about her perfect partner just as much as -. To attract a rich bitch or sleep with a famous and beautiful woman. they know and expect it from some men. its because they’re after something. How does this work? Well as I’ve already said she isn’t just used to being complimented.73 -- . They have probably been whistled at. how nice her hair is and how great you think she is. They have probably heard every single cheesy pick up line. but hot women have had more compliments than they have had ass grabs. they have probably been through every embarrassing attempt there is when it comes to trying to pick up a woman so you need to think differently.
perfume or shoes. don’t backhand her across the face and tell her to shut up. Set the scene.everyone else does. “This kid doesn’t get the attention they want and that is why they misbehave”. This is just as true about spoiled little rich girls. If you have ever watched anything like nanny 911 or driving mum and dad mad. you’ll notice what the psychological coach will say to the parents. This wont work. tease her about being such a little bitch and toy with her about it. and a way to also show that you are light hearted and funny is to tease her about herself. If you approach her and the first thing she says to you is a request. Sadly for her. If you meet a girl who looks like a spoilt and beautiful rich kid. they want a man to take control of her and say “NO. You are walking past a restaurant on a sunny day and seated outside at a table is a beautiful girl with one of her friends. A far more effective way. You go and say hi to her and she says something like: “Can you pass me that pepper shaker?” You reply: “And what’s wrong with your arms? Are they tired from buying all that stuff you don’t really need?” -. She dresses well. Spoiled kids are exactly the same. Her real wish is to meet someone that will take control of her.74 -- . I’m not going to be pushed around. put their foot down when they ask for something they want. looks rich and has loads of shopping with her. she gets far less of what she really wants in a partner than everyone else. They don’t want more money. I can keep you under control and there’s nothing you can do about it”. it’s probably a test.
75 -- . I love their little tantrums when they don’t get what they want! I bet you look so cute when you’re angry”. These are out with their control. Women basically have a set of dislikes and likes programmed into them long before birth. They are subconscious. If you were to tell her to give you her number and you still haven’t had a chance to work your magic. not men who chase after them. women like to toy with men but they don’t toy with the ones they are attracted to incase they lose them. She will probably open her mouth and gasp and then laugh. The Timeline Women go with men who attract them. As long as you show you’re not phased by her tests or surprised with her responses then she will see that you are the type of guy she’s been looking for. which means she likes what you said.Be relaxed and funny about it. you’re not trying to insult her or make her angry just tease her. she might say something like this: “I’m hardly in your league” Respond with: “Quite the opposite. That’s why if you know what they are you can use them to your advantage. Because of these factors they are very powerful and impossible for her to control. I love spoiled little rich girls. Most men try to be nice guys by assuming that a woman will want a man who is openly faithful and ready to -. Yes.
They are 5 rough categories that a woman will put men into. Too many guys make this mistake when they try to attract a woman. Sexually Interested: Wants sex as soon as possible but possibly a long-term relationship. The reason most men who are good looking or fun to be around just go into the “Long Term” category is because -. A guy cant go from being a friend in a girl’s eyes to being someone she is sexually interested in. WRONG. Its important to understand that these aren’t stages or phases that you pass through when getting to know a woman.76 -- . She will put you into this category and it is unlikely you will move. Women put men into categories of like and dislike. Dislike: No chance of any kind of relationship. Interested in Long-Term: Would like a relationship but will wait for the right time for sex.commit. Not interested: Nothing other than a civil relationship. Let’s be Friends: Interested in friendship but nothing more.
Maybe they didn’t show they were confident enough.” Taking a woman to dinner. Women don’t want long-term relationships. They assume that acting like they are around for the long haul will show a woman they are the right kind of guy for them. I don’t meet a lot of guys like him. they want an attractive guy IN a long-term relationship. but when it comes to romance. Women will have a long-term relationship with someone their sleeping with. Attract her to you by showing that you’re sexy. dating and sex she wants you to be in control. but they wont always sleep with a man who shows he wants a long-term relationship. Maybe they aren’t funny or cheeky enough. This is why some very attractive men don’t ever get anywhere other than friendship. but you must make sure that most of the things you do for a woman are initiated by yourself. Whatever it is it makes a woman think: “This guy is pretty attractive. Don’t do -.77 -- . This doesn’t mean that you focus everything towards yourself. To put a stop to all this is very simple. Don’t show a woman that you are trying to get her into a long-term relationship by courting her.they don’t push the right buttons to turn a woman on. confident and funny. Lead The Way Women like to be controlled and they also like to have some control themselves. buying her fancy gifts and flowers are just some of the things that men do when they are trying to pick up women. Maybe if I stick with him I might find him sexually attractive.
what games you’ll play with her. She might of course try things like saying she has to look over things for work tomorrow or go shopping because she hasn’t got anything to eat. she wouldn’t be any fun anyway. c’mon go play hairstylist and I’ll meet you at my place in an hour”. for example. it’s the oldest excuse in the book. its much easier to manage. don’t expect her to rush over to your place. Now you can see that just as -. A man wants an attractive woman but there are very few. women wash their hair all the time. don’t tell her that its okay and you can do something another night. say “Haha. If a woman tries to test you or play games with you. Spot all the little tricks she tries to pull. you know you almost had me for a minute. She could wash her hair anytime. don’t go along with it. This is not just more attractive. If she has to rush to hospital. what to eat. when to have sex. These are tests and you need to show they haven’t worked on you. If you know what you’re going to do on a date. Make sure that you decide where to go. A woman wants a man who takes control but very few men do that.78 -- . then it will be 100 times easier than follow all hers. her father has just died or she has glandular fever. then its easier to understand. just like with a spoilt and bitchy woman don’t let her push you around by giving her all the things she asks and hints for. surprise her and turn it around. Men settle for less attractive women and women settle for boring men. If you think about taking control for women as looks and fitness are for men. Take control of the situation. If she says that she’s washing her hair. what tricks you’ll pull. so don’t let her make you think its something you have to give way to. Don’t ask or give in to all her demands.everything that a woman asks.
But of course.much as you want an attractive woman. These women will have had male attention from a young age. Some of them aren’t even aware that they’re doing it. Being funny and confident and not playing up to a woman will frustrate her and make her think about you all the time. And they want a man who is in control. They realize that men will try various different things to attract them and sleep with them. but they are still women with needs. They might not get very many guys they are attracted to in their lives. Most of them learn at some point to use this to their advantage.79 -- . Women Test Men All women test men at least once or twice. the woman you are trying to attract wants a confident in control man. Not just able to control her and her “give me what I want because I’m beautiful” attitude. the situation and even himself. but also in control of his emotions. But almost all hot women test men at various stages of a relationship. But if you were a hot girl and you wanted to find out if this man is going to be able to control you and stop you -. Hot women go through an experience in their lives that makes them think differently about men. which is why they test and manipulate men. perhaps as young as 13 or 14. This is why they have seen and heard pretty much every pick up line there is. these hot women are women all the same. She will find you funny and smart and eventually even the bitchiest and most cold hearted of women will open up and tell you how much they like you.
Spot the times when she is actually asking for something and teasingly say no. Don’t tell her randomly at some point that you would never put up with tantrums or moods when she tries to get what she wants. however. They want the truth. This will have lost all the respect she had for you. Don’t use them too often either. It is important. If she wants a new pair of shoes. Wait for a woman to actually test you.80 -- .from throwing tantrums. Most men will panic and screw up when a woman throws a tantrum because she cant get what she wants. how would you go about it? Would you ask him directly? Of course you wouldn’t. or they will just become meaningless. not what you tell them. -. then they give her a compromise and apologize another 100 times. laugh and tell her there’s no way. You would make sure you were as subtle as possible so that you could make sure you got a valid answer. Call her up another time and tell her you’re taking her out. This way she will actually believe you that you wont put up with her moods. If she says she wants to go out that night tell her you cant at such short notice because your busy. to be nice to a woman. This doesn’t mean that you give her what she wants. This is the same when women test you. get her a different pair of shoes as a surprise. They will apologize and tell her that they are really sorry. It isn’t a fair trial if you ask a criminal “Did you steal this car?” and then accept their answer. If they cant give in to what she demands. You must make sure you use your skills at the right time. but you give and do nice things for her in your own way. But if its her birthday.
-. not right now. Be unpredictable and don’t kiss her every time she comes close to you. 3. 2. If a woman says she dislikes something about you. If she tells you that she wants you to have sex with her. If she wants you to go to her house tell her you’ll be over later because you’re busy right now. don’t come across as arrogant and unhappy. I like doing that.If a hot girl tries to kiss you first. tease her about it and then shortly afterwards you go to kiss her. say “Hey. jokingly let her know that you wont stop doing it.81 -- . As soon as you do that they will either marry you or ditch you. Mix things up. That is why you have to challenge them more than other women because they are so used to getting anything their bratty heart desires. tell her you need to keep making out for a while longer before you’re ready. Instead of just saying “I’m sorry I wont do that again” say to her “Well. Never say just “YES” to a woman. Remember that very hot women can get anything they want. You are allowed to just say “NO”. so you better start moving if you want to avoid it”. Women will always try to get you to obey them and do whatever they want. you’ve got something in your teeth” Being smooth is vital here. Never give a hot woman what she wants right away. Here are some basic rules you can follow: 1. 4.
but why do you think so many women prefer guys like Colin Farrell than guys like Bill Gates? Bill Gates wears boring clothes. he’s rough. You don’t want to show that you’re so masculine you would slap a woman and then demand she sleeps with you.Be a Man Don’t let anyone tell you that women like kind. If you at any point show you’re shy or timid then a woman will start to see you as feminine. stick your chest out and above all stay relaxed. You can walk like a man and just end up looking like a prick. he doesn’t like thrills. Whilst they might like to be treated well and have fun with a man women always prefer masculine men over feminine men. daring and even if he was poor women would much rather sleep with him than poor old Bill. relaxed around women and above all you have a good sense of humor. A woman wants a masculine guy that doesn’t take himself too seriously and believe it or not. he sits in an office all day. emotional and caring men. Think of all the badboys and real men out there.82 -- . You need to make sure that you walk tall. Colin Farrell stars in action movies. you can communicate that in a walk. he doesn’t get physical. Teasing Women Teasing is the best way to show you are confident. but it is far better to be masculine than feminine. -. Why do they get so many women? If they are rich and famous that is usually a side issue. he doesn’t get dirty. sensitive.
I like it” You have obviously just teased her by telling her that she’s weird. Tell her that you think she’s cute when she tries to test you out. that wouldn’t be fair! I really like this guy!” -.83 -- .” This implies she was the one that started holding your hand as you were walking and she was the one that was being to forward. I mean we go out and we kiss and I really like him. This way she will be really stuck. then take it away and tell her: “You cant hold my hand just yet! I don’t know you well enough. this guy likes me. weirder. Basically. I dunno. you’re a little different. but you have also confused her and given her a panic attack by telling her you think of her as a friend. do it. This totally messes with a girls ideas about you and she will find it pretty funny. kiss her good night and then tell her: “You know you’re not like all my other friends. For example. you’re giving the message that you know all her little games and you wont fall for them. But now he just said I was his friend? What does this mean? Don’t tell me that he’s not interested in me.Here is a way you might tease a girl on a date. When you are walking take her hand for a few minutes. If you ever get the chance to let her think she’s now just a friend. Trying to work out a woman very early on is a good way you can tease her. because she hasn’t got any moves left! Messing up a woman’s mind is another good way of teasing her. In her head she will think: “Wait a minute here.
Of course she will know that you like her deep down but the doubt will toy with her mind so you can tease her constantly with this method and not have to actually be there. Try and go for a woman’s insecurities. As always, you want to be light hearted about it because you don’t want to end up insulting her. Maybe when you go out and she always gets a light drink or doesn’t have dessert. Tease her about her weight. Try tickling her belly at some point and say: “So, you’re trying to get rid of your little friend then? Is he ticklish?” This is most likely just another test if a woman ever asks what you think about her weight. She expects you to say that she looks wonderful and even if she did put on weight, she would still look beautiful. Please, don’t tell me at this stage of reading you’d still try something like that. When it comes to fat, less is more. Small, toned and flexible people make for much better sex. Don’t let anyone on Jerry Springer or any other daytime show tell you they are happy with being overweight or that fat people are attractive. To 99% of the world’s population, fat women are ugly. She knows this damn well so there’s no point in lying to her. On a final note about fat, what do you do if she asks you if you would still love her if she was fat? “Heck no! I’d leave you like a shot. Actually, I would sell or you’re clothes and then leave you.”
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How to be Funny
This is the biggest and most powerful tool of attraction. It will always beat fame, money, power etc and you can change your humor unlike the others. It doesn’t matter what you look like, if you’re a man and you can talk, then you will be able to make a woman laugh. The idea is to make her feel happy and good by making her laugh. It doesn’t always have to be belly shaking laughter like you’re the funniest person she’s ever met, she might even give you an unimpressed look but have a grin on her face like she’s trying not to laugh. The main thing is laughter makes her feel good and shows that you are clever. In adult life, we laugh only about 10% compared to when we were infants. She has probably had a difficult day with boring people that cant even be mildly interesting. Having a guy making her laugh will certainly draw her attention to you. The key to being funny has very little to do with what jokes you use. It’s the whole persona that you have when talking to a woman. Just as picking up women is about your personality and confidence rather than giving her words and phrases to attract her, the same can be said for humor. Don’t say humor, BE humor. Women want the funny personality. If you want to see someone that has a funny personality think of Jim Carey. He might be goofy but he is a good example of what a funny personality is. You don’t want to be like him of course, you want to be smart and confident, but it’s a good example because he uses a personality and doesn’t just copy routines or say funny phrases.
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Men who try to say funny things without having a humorous personality will just come across as jerks. TV personalities are notorious for doing this. Think of award ceremonies and the like, where celebrities like Madonna, Paris Hilton, Mick Jagger and the rest, will all have jokes written for them that they reel out. How often have you felt like telling them to just shut the hell up? Now compare that with people like Eddie Murphy, Billy Connolly and so on. They are funny because they know how to actually BE funny, not just say jokes. Learn to develop a plan for when you meet a girl that you like. If she likes what you do initially and seems to be into you think how you will develop that. You can try: • • • • • • Teasing her at every opportunity Make fun of her Show her you wont be pushed around Get her interested in you sexually Accuse her of coming on too strong Reject her kisses and then go back for more
If you don’t have a plan, the chances are you will slip into the same old routine. You might keep the funny act up for a while but you will let her down when it really counts and she will lose interest quickly.
A Crash Course in Comedy
Anyone can become a funny person. You just have to make sure you can deliver, engage and get into the groove of being quick witted. One of the best ways of doing this is to watch comedy shows and stand up routines. My best advice is to keep away from sitcoms like Friends, The Simpsons and so on and go for more intellectual quick-witted humor. Some of the best to watch are stand up comedians like Peter Kaye, Eddy
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For example. if she said she has to go to Toys r Us try to make out that she is a bit old to be buying toys for herself. We should do it sometime. For example. try and make out that you were responsible and then back track: “Oh that bank robbery was nothing. Try watching sitcoms that have been written by comedians and cult comedy series.87 -- . The first is to pick up on things that she says have a double meaning. don’t just agree with her. If a woman says “Yeah. For example. For example. Try saying “Aww do the nasty people keep pushing in front of you because you’re too small and cute?” • Try to make it look like you are digging yourself out of a difficult situation and that you said something embarrassing. The Office and Extras by Ricky Gervais are two of the funniest shows on the planet. I like that. Here are some tips for making good humor: • Tease a woman when she shows she has strong views about something. even if you know she is buying a present for a nephew etc. if a woman says to you that she doesn’t like people who cut in line. if she mentions something about a bank robbery for instance. I mean when I rob banks I aim for at least… er yeah you’re right it was terrible”. Friends is just a little too feminine to be good humor and everyone watches The Simpsons so you need something original. There are two ways you can do this. Look a little confused and say: -.Murphy and Chris Rock. tease her. The second way is to put words out of context. • Deliberately misread what a woman is saying.
There are loads of different jokes you can make about current affairs and you can even steal jokes from political shows and news quizzes. at least until we are alone. If it’s the Olympics that summer try and make a joke about her winning the gold medal for shopping and spending money. If she wants to know how your day was say that it was awful and you had to speak to a million customers today.“Right here? You know kids might see us if we do. If she asks you how much money you make say $8bn a month.88 -- . • Use current events and culture in your humor. “Let’s Just Be Friends” As a man you never want to hear the phrase “I think we should just be friends”. it just makes you seem arrogant.” • Try to make out that she uses too much innuendo and she has a one track sex mind. If you try and make out your serious about ridiculous things it makes them seem even funnier. It has nothing to do with a -. If gas prices are rising tell her that you had to sell your car to pay for gas. • Don’t laugh at your own jokes. why cant we take things a little slower?” • Over exaggerate things every now and then. If she says that she something about wanting to go to bed it back with: “You want to go to bed with me right now? You know I don’t like this being too forward thing. I think we should wait a while.
But to make sure that you completely avoid ending up as her friend. confident.89 -- . Of course. For example. This wont just help you avoid ending up as her friend but it will also help you if she is your girlfriend already. so toy with -. There is nothing more frustrating for both of you than an uncertainty about where the relationship is going. They already have a good idea that you’re attracted to them. If you have made sure that you have been funny. If she thinks that you just want to be friends she will be unsure how to act if you both become physical. Telling her she is beautiful and anything like that will just undo the all the hard work you’ve been putting in. you may also need to do something else. try saying: “You know I didn’t realize it. I just thought you were sexy and simple” NOTE: Don’t try this with VERY hot women who you need to break down gradually. Let her know that you intend to be involved with her sexually. this doesn’t mean that you can have negative attention. To avoid the “let’s be friends” situation you need to make sure that you have her attention. daring and exciting then she will probably like you. if you are on a date with this girl and you have finished toying with her about whether or not you like her. try and say something cheeky that will be related to sex and attraction. but you’re pretty funny. Instead. It means she just doesn’t want anything to do with you.woman actually wanting to be your friend. you need her to be thinking about you in a positive way. but a woman isn’t going to tell you that straight.
” This might sound as though she will be hurt and angry that you don’t want to see her. He isn’t going to come across all wussy and needy. She will see that he is the one with all the control and as you know. Call me tomorrow and we can fix something up for another day. but in fact women love it when men do this to them.them a lot more and avoid giving any signals that you find them attractive. More Tips Make sure that you end phone and text conversations first. A woman will read two things from a guy that ends a conversation first. It lets her see that you want to be a challenge and she is a lot more interested in him than he is her. but I have to go now. 1. She wont have to worry about being constantly harassed with messages and calls and she wont feel like she’s being stalked. Even if things seem to be going really well. -. 2.90 -- . It says that this guy is not the clingy type. She will wonder why this guy doesn’t want to talk to her right in the middle of having so much fun. If a woman tries to accuse you of not liking her. you know I like you and we’re having a good time. guessing and fantasizing about what you really think of her. simply tell her that: “Yeah. It leaves them thinking. women really like that.
If she tries teasing you. Her hair might have been done so tell her it looks sexy. What about getting her neat looking plectrum if she plays the guitar? What about if she likes rabbits getting her a small cuddly rabbit? This will only work if you get her gifts rarely.91 -- . I have already said this briefly but its very important. Instead.“I really like him. So it doesn’t matter if she wonders if you like her or not. She might have a new bracelet so say something about it that shows you like it. Women like it when you act confident and funny. He has gone for material things that are vague and probably have little value to her. If you are aggressive and funny then she will find that attractive. This means you pick up on very small details that she has gone to a lot of trouble for. they will lose meaning very quickly. Don’t give her something every time or every second time you see her. we seem to get on really well. because she likes you and the way you don’t seem to want to let her know. get her something that she likes that would make her laugh or show that you know what she likes. then you could say: -. a man that buys a woman a necklace or a diamond ring or a bunch of flowers isn’t going to win her over. then why isn’t he calling me all the time and wanting to spend a lot of time with me?” Women like it when a man is in control. Give a woman gifts sparingly. A gift says a lot about you and what you think of her. This is one of the reasons women like confident and funny men. Try to do things that contradict each other. anyway. Confidence shows that you are proud of yourself but being funny means you don’t take yourself too seriously. For example. Do things that show you have paid attention to a woman.
and so they invent the other 95% of the person they imagine and fill in for themselves. I’m talking about tickling you.“If you don’t give me what you want. She likes the fact you can be strong and authoritative. Here is how you do it. I mean really hurt you. Psychologists and analysts all agree. The other 95% will communicate far more effectively. them I’m going to have to hurt you. you cant say that you are confident and sexy to a woman. What I tell them is that no lines or words can really be used on their own to attract women. -. Why do you think people fall in love on line? They never see or hear the person face to face. In other words.92 -- . its not what you say. but how you say it. The actual words maybe only make up around 25% of what will attract a woman. And anyway. And I don’t mean just rough you up or be rough. The other 75% is all about how you deliver those words. but you’re not a brute and you like to be playful. only around 5% of communication is actually verbal. you have to show it. Read My Body Language People always ask me what lines and trick phrases win women over.” If you act all tough and serious when you say this a woman will love it.
Posture Keep your back up and straight so that your head is up. Hand Movements Keep hand movements smooth and simple. don’t stand too far apart so that you look like you have back pain. Walk with good posture and a woman will be able to see you are confident. Facial Expression -. Don’t tap your feet or raise your heels.93 -- . If you have large shoulders. The things you should focus on most are: 1. 3. Don’t bring your arms or hands above your head or start flailing them around. 4. this is a sign of nervousness. This will also help you to walk tall and it makes you appear taller. Feet Don’t stand with your feet too close together.What is Good Body Language? Ask a female friend of yours how someone is feeling by looking at their body language. 2. Show off your masculine and firm pecks. Many people stoop and slouch which makes them look shy and afraid. Allow them to be just less than shoulder width apart. This is helped by having a good posture and in turn also helps you to have good posture. This is another way to hit something or someone and look like a complete moron. 5. Chest Put your chest out slightly. You will be amazed at just how much a woman can tell you about someone from just their stance and posture. Women are very perceptive to body language and can pick up on small details.
you will never find him laughing or goofing around. This doesn’t only tie in with the idea of being cool and sexy. not the killing. Does he roar his head off with a geeky laugh when someone says something clever? No. This will make you look open and relaxed. 6. Lean back slightly when you talk and draw her in.Look happy and relaxed. Folded arms usually means someone is feeling threatened. you cant do it. The body language and the sex. That’s why nonverbal communication is so powerful. You cant decide or choose who you are attracted to. As with your hands keep movement to a minimum and make any movement slow. we don’t realize we are communicating. If you watch every James Bond film ever made. small and subtle. Its because of these small details that women become so strongly attracted to men. If someone tries to convince you to be attracted to them. Give gentle and cheeky grins when you say funny and rude things to her to show her you’re not arrogant. -. Leaning forward can make you seem needy or too desperate. You have to pay very close attention to small details.94 -- . Try to be like James Bond. don’t look too excited or amazed. He is the epitome of suave and cool. Personal Space Don’t invade her own personal space. Pause and take whatever you are saying slowly. That is good body language. he grins and nods his head. 7. Look at any masculine hero from the movies or fantasy world. Try to keep your facial expression cool and calm. it will also make the woman more interested if you take time and add a sense of mystery to what you are saying. Arms Keep your arms unfolded.
though women will lick their lips as a reaction to the swelling as this can be very difficult to spot.95 -- . just look for a few seconds into her pupils. I have looked for all these -. Is she licking her lips? We usually associate this with food. No matter what she says. If a woman plays with her hair it’s a sign that she finds you attractive. Don’t try to stare her out or interrogate her. or just wants sex. Have you ever thought why women wear lipstick? Its to show that they are ready for sex. If she twirls the ends of her hair round her fingers its usually a way of saying she is aroused and in turn she is try to arouse you. her body will help you to understand what she’s really meaning. this is a sign that she really likes you. But watch if she moves herself and her chest and pushes it towards you. Look into a woman’s eyes when you are talking to her at some point. Of course. Obviously if she is facing you this doesn’t always count.Reading Her Body Language If a woman is interested she wont be able to hid her body language from you. but it’s similar to the way you can tell if she finds you sexually attractive. these things don’t always work. Do you see them get slightly bigger? If you do it’s a sign she is becoming aroused shown by her dilated pupils. If a woman starts to lean her chest towards you then this is a sign. By that I mean if you don’t see those signs it doesn’t always mean that she is not attracted to you. If they start to swell this is a sign. If you find she is in your personal space and thrusting her breasts at you.
If a woman is making out with you at her place then take her to the bedroom. get her number as soon as possible.signs in several women and when I didn’t see them I was pretty disappointed.96 -- . I think I better just give you some examples of conversations where women try to catch men out. Are you worried I might try and steal them from you? You: That’s a nice dress. So here we go: You: Hey. The chances are if she is acting friendly towards you. Keep smiling and grinning if you ever get hit with a tricky put down. you’re razor sharp. take it up a level. then she probably likes you. If a woman is laughing and enjoying your company. But then I quickly found out that they were in fact VERY. If a woman is having a good time with you on a date. You: Aww. I’m just waiting for my friends to get back from the bar. You just have to show that if a woman tries to phase you or catch you out. hows it going? Her: (A little moody) Look. You get the idea? Don’t wait for her to do it. if its going well. then kiss her. VERY attracted to me. Crash Course in Comebacks Comebacks with women have nothing to do with insults. You don’t want to insult someone you are trying to attract you just want to tease them. where’s the rest of it? -. Unfortunately most men don’t understand that this means that you should move up a gear and progress on to the next stage. A great comeback doesn’t have to be that funny.
Her: What’s wrong with it? You: Nothing. You: Girl. Her: Do you often see a girl as beautiful as me? You: And who said modesty is out of fashion?! You: Hey. Her: Yeah sure. I have a boyfriend okay. you can help me with my homework Her: You’re crazy. that is a crazy dress you have there. you would make a good politician. I love it. I’m not interested. I think its crazy! Where did you get it? Her: Actually why don’t you give me your number instead? You: Haha. here you go. I’ve never said that to any girl. I was just kidding. How old are you really? You: What do you do for a living? Her: I’m studying pharmacology. What do you think I am? A nerd? See ya around. And I’ve seen some REALLY short skirts. if you like me why don’t you just talk to me? -. You: I didn’t ask you that.Her: (Shocked and trying not to laugh) Do you say that to every girl you meet? You: Nope. Her: Wait.97 -- . how you doing? Her: Look. Her: And how old are you? You: I’m 17. You: No really. You: You mean you’re a drug dealer?! Her: Why do you keep staring at me?! You: Me?! You were staring at me! Look. You know.
not insane. You can always be too unpredictable just like you can be too confident.And there are many more that you can probably come up with. tease her about it and accuse her of having a one track mind. don’t always hug her when she wants to be hugged. They are safe. Don’t always kiss her when you’re saying goodbye. You want to show you are unpredictable. Just have lots of fun. Make sure that you show you’re not embarrassed by it as well as teasing her about it.98 -- . but also a sign that she enjoys talking about sex. She will find this funny especially if you already know her and the conversation is naturally heading towards sex. fun or excitement out of it but at least they know they are safe. If a woman ever brings up anything about sex. They might not get much pleasure. tease her about it no end. keep her guessing what and when you will do something. If she says anything that carries any kind of innuendo. secure and very boring. -. Don’t Be Predictable Women want to marry predictable men. Try telling her that you are not the type of guy that just sleeps with anyone and joke about her trying to get you into bed. Don’t scare a woman by driving down the wrong way of a highway or kidnapping her. This is usually just another test. And anyway who needs that when you have alcohol and a dryer for pleasure? Hit a woman with something unexpected when she least expects it.
You just have to make sure that you speak slowly and deeply. but it is also predictable. An ideal voice is: • • • • Low Slow Calm Distinct Make sure that you finish every word your saying. especially when you’re getting to know her. Mix it up and use your skills sparingly. Being unpredictable is a lot like being mysterious. if -. Women love to wonder about things like “does this guy like me?” and so on.99 -- . Talking quickly and at a high pitch will just make her think that you are feminine and weak. Even if your voice is high and naturally fast. Anybody can improve their voice. Don’t try to skip words and skip the annunciation of others.Needy is bad. you can work on slowing it down. Don’t keep touch her all the time. She will start thinking: “I wonder if he will text me today” “Will he kiss me when I next see him?” “What will he say to me?” “What is he going to do?” It’s All in the Voice Making a woman think you are confident and sexy comes from the tone and speed of your voice. An attractive girl will expect this from most men so surprise her. If you are unpredictable then you will keep her guessing.
because you just heard me say I didn’t want it. then you will sound like you’re nervous and that is bad when talking to a woman. Just a few minutes later she was asking me to make love to her. Then get practicing! Be Persistent When you are kissing a woman and she says “Look.100 -- . “I want sex and I want good sex right now.” I have had this happen to me on several occasions. What will it be?” The key is simple. you can attract women with the power of your voice. Simply by practicing saying words and making sure you sound sure of yourself. I just said that was okay and kept kissing her. There are loads of voice training books and manuals out there so go and read some of them. It’s also a way for her to say subtly: “Its now up to you if you want to have sex. Better Test Answers When a woman tests you it doesn’t mean that you have to just say no. I don’t want sex tonight” it actually means. so the ball is in your court. ask through your actions. just keep persisting and she will soon say yes.you do. There are many ways that you can tease her. Tease me and tempt me until I beg you for it. Just don’t keep ASKING. No does not mean “No” it just means “Not right now”. Don’t give up when She says “No”. -.
Have you had a lot of girlfriends? Just a few. but that doesn’t mean you couldn’t lose a few pounds. I dream about it. Her: Have you ever been in love? You: Other than with myself you mean? Her: What did you get up to yesterday? You: Well I thought about you for a while and then I decided to hire some hot strippers because you didn’t call me. Her: Would you like me better if I had bigger breasts? You: I can always feel other people’s if you don’t think yours are big enough? -. We’re not counting supermodels and strippers are we? Her: Are you seeing another woman? You: No. Her: Do you want children? You: As long as I don’t have to pay for them or see them.101 -- . why not? Her: Do you ever think about getting married? You: Yeah. I think its called a nightmare. Another man. Her: So you think I’ve put on weight? You: No.
102 -- . -. intelligent yet feminine women? Here are the best hot-spots: • Go to your gym and talk to the women filling up their water bottles or whilst you’re in the steam room.Her: Do you look at other women? You: Only when you cant see me. Women love to shop at the weekends. This may look like a very easy one to answer since women can be found everywhere. Some of them might be busy so pick the ones that look like they’re taking their time and relaxing. They are full of women. Try going to the Yoga class where there’s more women than guys. Where to Find Women Okay… Let’s go through the best places to find women. • Check out the mall. heck they shop anytime. If it’s a nice day try going early afternoon and catch girls sitting outside having lunch. • Cafes and sandwich bars. but I know that you are looking for a certain type of woman…right? So where do you find beautiful. cute. You get the idea.
Most guys really don’t know about this one. You will do one or the other. You now have a choice. this should be easy. If you are into classy and smart women.103 -- . you will be surprised. This is why you need to understand what women like. But what kind of women will you meet there? • DECIDE what kind of woman you want to meet • LEARN how to become attractive to women • VISIT the places you are most likely to find those kinds of women • APPROACH them and attract them People who fail with women don’t always decide to do what they are told. You can decide at this point you don’t want to approach women because its all too new to your or you can grasp the challenge and become a player. Competition from other guys will be almost zero! You could probably have thought of these places yourself. you might just find one in a library that also has the brains to hold a stimulating conversation without mentioning the words pink and shopping every second. These are probably the easiest places to meet women. -. This is what you have been building up to. despite the fact they have failed on many previous occasions.• Bars and clubs. They assume that their techniques are better. so give it a shot. what women want and how to act around women. Women that go out with girlfriends are generally speaking. I guarantee it. • The library: Don’t assume that only geeks and bookworms visit libraries. If you can approach a woman on the street. single and looking for a guy.
Women go to the city so they can meet the man of their dreams. then you might want to think about moving. but think about it. so do you. -. and driving to the nearest city on a regular basis is too far. At university I know people who live in towns about an hours train ride from here. As she learns to dance. What if you like women who know how to dance? Head down to dance classes. Do you like attractive little rich girls? Then go to an expensive bar or sandwich shop. I live just a few minutes walk from the city and there’s always loads of young women shopping late night on weekdays or in the afternoon at the weekend.So where can you find these hot women? Slow down. Do you like attractive. Do you like women who are into sport and keeping in shape? Get a gym membership and hang around there a few days each week. you might meet a woman who is also a beginner. cute and straightforward women with no real interests? Go to a coffee shop or an average bar where they hang out. Its just like with nature. even in the suburbs. Tennis players. so they decided to live here. there a 1000 times more people in the city. first you need to think what type of women you want to meet. If you are a beginner at dancing. swimmers even bowlers. You might like where you live. Apply this to almost anything you like about women.104 -- . Go out into your local mall or head into town and start looking around for what type of women hang around in different areas. women in their mid 20’s head to places where there are lots of rich men. If you live in the back of beyond. You have something in common and by the end of it you both should be able to dance. animals head to certain breeding grounds.
and women love that remember. -. New York.105 -- . then you will be able to make the right finish touches so you can control what will happen. This is all about taking control. • Make sure your room is tidy and has a clean bed. Showing a woman you are a better host than she is will impress her as women love these kinds of things. This is why keeping neat and tidy will impress her. Even if you don’t live near a huge city like London. think about a large town with a population of around 50. Women love tidy and clean. though a lot of women. • Have a selection of drinks and neat things to offer guests when they come round. and then ends up having sex. Predict Her Moves If you can guess roughly what will happen when you meet on a date with a woman. Keep your bedroom looking presentable so she will want to spend as much time as possible there. I do know women who think a house that is slightly messy is a good excuse for her to say she’s coming over to tidy. or she is coming over to your house. • Make sure your house is tidy. I’ve been to loads of places like these and there’s always a good few nice looking women around.simply so they could stay in town till 4am and not have to worry about paying a months salary for a taxi home. have an untidy home themselves.000 population. Los Angeles. Women wont get into something that looks like another woman has been there before her. On the other hand. especially young women.
she won’t have anything she can really ask you about. Get some interesting and original paintings in your house.106 -- . If a trend has already set in go for something similar but slightly different to show you are ahead of fashion. If you fill your home with the same fragrances. Is there anything that might put her off slightly or that might prevent you from sleeping with her? Pay attention to small details. You can pick some original oil paintings up for next to nothing at antiques stores and yard sales. Is it clean? Will it get you both home without breaking down? An extra edge Women will be drawn to certain things in your home. This is why making your own original style is so important. You might not notice things yourself. then she will not only assume you are like everybody else. pictures and furniture as everyone else.• Make sure you always have at least two condoms in the house that HAVENT been used. I have ripped one on one occasion. so now I always make sure I have a backup. Make sure that your house is ready to have a woman over. Even focus down to details such as the condition of your car. -. because you are so used to your own home. One thing I noticed was that a lot of new homes in my area have the same kind of square plates and square bowls. but she will. Don’t decorate your house in the typical modern style.
Don’t have romance novels and books about macroeconomics. I’m so great. annoying and unattractive than listening to someone bragging about their achievements and how great they are. This can be an absolute bore for younger women listening to music they don’t really like. almost hanging on your every word. If you haven’t been anywhere interesting. There is nothing more boring. Whilst she is watching the trick she will be wondering what will happen next. just like you would hold back on mentioning your achievements when you meet a girl. tell me I’m great!” Not comfortable for the lady.107 -- . then she will really be interested. Keep them tucked away.Get interesting books on your bookshelf. then go! Even just a photograph of a famous landmark you have visited or maybe a picture of somewhere you would like to go. Magic tricks are again all about delivery. get something interesting. -. Have some souvenirs of places you have been. Really you are saying “Wow. clap. Presenting a magic trick to a woman can show her you are interesting and can hold her suspense. what would you do if a woman started playing music or singing? Would you dance. Why not have a book on how to be a great lover or something dark and masculine like The Football Factory. If she sees your photo of you receiving your award for salesman of the year. Try to learn some magic tricks. Go and find some simple card tricks on the internet. or maybe something you can do with a stuffed rabbit. simply because you never mentioned it. Keep all your sports trophies and awards out of sight in a glass cabinet. Think about it. Avoid playing musical instruments. say you thought it was great? It’s a really awkward and unpleasant situation to be in. Put something up there that will intrigue her and make her ask lots of questions.
It will be as easy as ABC … and I’m not kidding. I have narrowed it down to the core essentials so you will only be equipped with what you really need to get a woman to like you and be attracted to you so she gives you her phone-number. If I am honest … this is true to some extent. it will take you another 24hrs to absorb all the knowledge properly and you may even have to re-read certain chapters of this book.108 -- . In fact. It will only have one purpose: To give you a ready-to-use tool so you can get an unlimited amount of phone-numbers from almost any woman you want to meet and date. -. I want to focus entirely on bringing all the various puzzle-pieces together and form them into an action plan. So let’s break it down… A Step-By-Step Plan To Approaching Women Most people think there is some magical line you can just say to a woman and she will fall head over heels for you.Part 5: Solving the Puzzle Bringing It All Together You have learnt a lot today. In the next part of the StreetSmartDating book.
can you help me. Attraction isn’t a choice here remember? She will get attracted to you instantly if you do it right.But it’s not one single line … one line just gets her hooked. What’s your name? • Hey. and …ehm … I noticed you were on your own. The key point to remember here is that you should not “hit” on women like every other guy does like “Hey baby. the more effective they are. The simpler. If you string more of them same kind together though.109 -- . but rather suck her into a stimulating conversation that is spiked with sentences that create attraction. so there really is no choice. This means you need to approach her differently. And as you already know the most important attraction is your personality. So let’s talk about the initial approach: The best approaches and ice breakers are structured very simple. why don’t you give me your number. THEN the magic happens: she gets attracted. so is it okay if I was to like talk to you? • Hey there … can I offer you a drink or something? • Hi. Have you ever tried or seen this kind of approach: • Hey. talk to her differently and even leave her differently than every other man does. I was just hanging around. do you know what time it is? Oh ok … so how are you? -. you are really pretty.
If she’s still cold and unsociable after that. you are as lame as your line sounds like: AWFUL! The best way of breaking the ice without looking like you are hitting on her is to ask for her female opinion about something. ready made conversation openers and so on. it doesn’t matter what -. accuse her of approaching you and saying indecent things. Can you tell me why it’s impossible for women to put eyeliner on without opening their mouths? Her: (laughing) Yeah. Look at ways that you can turn the conversation around and tease the girl you are trying to pick up. For example. I was on the subway the other day heading to a lecture. Me: I bet you’re one of those girls that are spending hours in front of the mirror. forget her. As long as you avoid chat up lines. Her: Tehehe. … it was on like Donkey Kong! What you need to learn is how to make interesting conversation about everyday dull things. I’ve never really thought about that. If she is a little cold and withdrawn at first and accuses you of trying to pick her up. There was a cute girl next to me. It’s been used a thousand times.110 -- . If you are going to ask a woman for help or offering them drinks.These are all terrible lines. maybe. so I approached her: Me: Hey … what’s up? Listen I need a female perspective on this.
Don’t act nervous and start with anything formal or serious. relax it passes. But I still had a quick chat with her just to get that bit extra experience. nobody cares and you probably wont ever see them again. Since it was late I just said: “How can you be so happy at 1am?!” She smiled and said she enjoyed this time of night and couldn’t sleep anyway. I was nervous when I started approaching women. I was doing some late night shopping in the supermarket at 1 am. I can guess how you will feel. You will start feeling REALLY nervous. slow and distinct. Interesting men are literally one in a thousand. unless she had a personality bypass. -. The girl at the till was about 10-15 years older than me and just average looks. even if you’re not attracted to her. just start talking to every woman you meet. The key is to just do it. that she wont want to at least talk to you. Say it with a little grin. Make sure that you either have a serious and relaxed approach or if you are being confident and cheeky you are relaxed and funny about it. Look calm and sexy. No ear to ear smiles like you are trying to sell her something. All I had to do was make a couple of comments while she was putting my card in the pin machine and in just a few seconds of chat I’d boosted my confidence and improved my skill. If you cant talk to women you find attractive in the street. just how you say it. Don’t worry about being nervous when you approach women. so don’t think she wont be keen to at least chat.you say. It doesn’t matter if you get one or two who ignore you or just aren’t interested. Be clear. When you do it and do it right there’s no way. it was all a matter of experience.111 -- . Remember your voice tone.
Now. I’ve found the ones that don’t. aren’t very interesting. The only way you will ever become good at it and become instantly attractive is if you keep practicing. If you feel just a little nervous. If you are on the train and there’s a guy across from you. you see a very attractive woman just a couple yards away from you that you really want to meet. you have to get your butt over there and start with a line.Keep talking to everyone. The worst that will happen is a few girls might not respond very well to you. What do you do? Yes. The first step now is to go to places that are crowded with women which shouldn’t be too hard. Okay. -.112 -- . forget them and move on. then work on everybody else. You see a senior citizen at the bus stop talk to them. find out if he’s got a personality. then by all means. Most people who have friends like to make new ones. The problem here is that once a guy spots a beautiful woman and is about to walk over … he stalls. even if you think it will. nothing terrible is going to happen to you. And remember. just go right on in there and talk to attractive women. If you talk to people it will help you prepare for the jump of moving from just seeing women and then actually approaching them to talk. let’s put everything you have learned so far into a system you can use right off the bat. All those puzzle pieces I have revealed for you are about to come together. If you are too nervous to approach women.
His feet just don’t want to move. It’s because you don’t know what will happen! You just don’t have a clue how she will react. You will also avoid the boring “Yes” or “No” answers and suck her into a stimulating conversation. So in other words. Okay… So here’s what I want you to do when you see a beautiful woman: -. A default line is. This way you are just talking and it doesn’t look like you are hitting on her. use a default line. in most cases asking for her opinion about something. that shitty feeling in your stomach will go away! So here’s what I want you to do: Whenever you see a woman and you can’t think of nothing cheeky to say to create attraction. he gets nervous and just stands there until the opportunity is gone. don’t know what to say or that you are afraid you will get rejected and make a fool out of yourself. If you have used one line at least 10 times with women already and KNOW how a woman will respond once you say it.113 -- . His stomach starts to tense. Why do you get nervous? The real reason isn’t because you aren’t confident. you do not have the experience to calmly walk over there and say a line that you have used in the past with great success.
Say: Listen … I’ve heard. wait for 2 seconds. so you can use it today and get 9 out of 10 women hooked right away.1. Say “HEY” to make her turn around and to get your attention. The mascara line is one of the most effective ones I ever came up with. So what about you? Are you a real girlie girl and you spend what … how many hours in front of the mirror? 7. there is nothing that can stop you. Now she is hooked but wait for her response and heat up the attraction immediately with… 6. (don’t tap her on the shoulder. Wait for her to look you in the eyes. 4. Just keep teasing. Walk over and plant yourself next to her 2. Here are two more examples of killer default lines I use almost every time: -. You see.114 -- . [pause] Is that true? *cheeky smile* 5. say “Hi…” …wait another 1-2 seconds to let your bodylanguage do some magic here (using pauses in sentences helps big time). and once you see that it works so incredibly well. ever!) 3. by giving you a killer line like this that I have tested already and is guaranteed to work for almost anybody to break the ice. I know it works. busting her balls and create attraction until she asks for your name. that woman can only put on mascara … when their mouth is open. I will take away all your fear of approaching.
How To Get Her Number Ah. she will be ready to give you her number. Then after only 2-3 minutes. busting her balls and generally just creating more attraction. Then you cut the conversation short and tell her you need to run. but we should continue this conversation. tell ya what … let’s swap number …” -.• Hey. Example: “Hey listen. Here. making her laugh etc. I need your opinion about something … does moisturizing as a man make gay or just metrosexual? After you broke the ice.115 -- . See… [pause] would you ever get some guys name tattooed on your body? Get this … my little sister met this dude who is like 30 years older than her … • Hey. listen … I need your opinion about something. What is the best way to get a woman’s phone number? I’ll show you: What you need to do first is pushed her Emotional Trigger Buttons for about 3-5 minutes (rough estimate with mediocre-good skills) by creating attraction. all you need to do is keep pressing her emotional trigger buttons. teasing her. the phone-number. accusing her of whatever. I really need to run and get this sorted out before the mall closes.
that’s a man’s job. -.116 -- .Then you hand her your cell-phone and let her type in her number. The key here is to not let her answer or take charge. Nice guys will always fail this one and hand out their phone number without taking hers. but to just TAKE her phone number without asking for it. It is the most common test women pull right before they give you their phone number. Women know that. Don’t wait for her to agree or say something when you say “swapping numbers” … just do it! She will know what to do anyway. But watch out here: If she says “Why don’t you give me YOUR number and I call you?” your spidey-sense should be tingling and the alarm bells ringing! This is a test! Don’t fall for it. Women never ever call a guy the first time. she will follow. And this is one fine example of what happens when you lead: She will take your phone and type in her number right away. and they also know that they will NEVER call if a guy gives out his phone number without getting hers. They need to see if you are the real deal or just another nice guy who will eventually waste their time if she goes on a date with you. but most of all you need to lead! If you do.
no! -. don’t hug her or say “you’re really nice. I hope we can go on a date”. okay? Cya then” and just leave. Don’t kiss her. LEAVE! Don’t stick around.. Another way of getting a number real quick is to make the transition to the date immediately. or simply can’t remember hers correctly and made a mistake (it can happen.” This is a better way if you want to smoothen out the transition process from the call to setting up the date. get the hell out of there. But once you have her number in your cell. you already lead her towards the initial date which will make it easier for you when you eventually call her. Sometimes she will give you a fake one to get rid of you (meaning you made a mistake in the beginning or didn’t create enough attraction). No. seriously! Say “it was nice meeting you . I give ya a call and then we can sort something out. such as “Hey. Here. I can’t remember my number either *lol*). just hit the road. But from experience please double-check if the number she gave you is the right one by calling her cell. or only take hers..117 -- . type in your number and we’ll sort something out.Always make sure that you either trade them. By making an indication towards get together in the very near future. no. whatchya doing tomorrow? I need to go to town/the mall/whatever … you can keep me company if you’re nice.
smiles. but if you are talking and she seems interested. She will not only gladly give it to you if she’s attracted to you (giggles.” -. break the conversation up in the middle of things going well. laughing. just like with a phone conversation with a girl you’ve been out with: “Look. This is a step up from approaching a woman. I would have given him my number”. Also. She does want to. just take it. I gotta go and finish off this essay/work (whatever). then go ahead and just TAKE her number. type in your number and I’ll sort something out. but it is you who needs to make the move. she will think “hmm. hits you on the arm). here is some more general knowledge about getting the phone number and background information you should know. Before I forget. if its going well just press for her phone number. How we continue this conversation tomorrow or something. Don’t ask. Don’t just beat about the bush. maybe he just wanted to chat…what a pitty. ask for it! Maybe you were asking her about eyeliner and you can drop this into the question.Just get outta there before you mess something up. she will think you don’t have the guts and confidence to just ask or go for it. In fact. If you don’t go for it. she is probably just waiting for you to ask for it. she WANTS you to ask her for her number so she can give it to you. Here.118 -- . The longer you hang around and try to tip toe around the number. Whatever the conversation is about.
If she gives you her landline number … don’t bother. Another point I would like to make here is that it is also possible to hand her a piece of paper and a pen … but this is soooo out of date. If she says she just moved house … same deal. If you do this. This is the 21st century and everybody has a cell-phone these days. The most important rule you have to remember when calling a woman is keep it short! I know it is very seductive to let her emotions go and just keep talking for over 15 minutes. call her the next day. If she says she doesn’t have a phone … call her on it. But if you are new to this. I would give it 1 day in between before you call … just to let her know that you are hard to get and not a needy wimp. Just hand her your cell and let her type in her digits from her cell-phone. ring it once to confirm and you got yourself a date! The Call Once you got her number.Just be straight and forward about it and she is bound to give you her number. -. you enter danger-zone! The purpose is not to talk to her on the phone for hours and create some more attraction there … it’s to get her to meet you again. It’s a test.119 -- . This isn’t Hollywood where the woman hands you her phone number on a small napkin written in lipstick.
So you give her a quick call, make her laugh a little bit, fluff for 2-3 minutes and then CUT the conversation short again just like you did when you got her number. Tell her that you need to go do X in town and that she should meet you at 2pm or whatever. Don’t say: Do you want to go have a drink sometime • Do you want to…like…hang out? • Do you want to have dinner with me? You have to stick to what works here: Create some small attraction, just by small talk. Ask her how she has been and what she has been doing. Don’t go into a lot of detail, just pick up on the important things she says and make a cheeky or funny comment about them. Finish the conversation by saying that you have to go and do something, even if you want to talk to her. This will help her to see that you are not needy or obsessed with her. This way you will come off as a challenge and as hard to get. Avoid pauses and hesitation and repeating yourself. If at any point you don’t know what to say, or you run out of ideas, move on to the next item on the list. If that has run out then just be concise and end the call. But keep the conversation short and to a maximum of 15 minutes. You should aim for about 5-7minutes to hit the sweet spot. Here’s an example of a good telephone call, the way I make them all the time … and they work every single time and have a huge success rate, meaning I get almost all of
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the women to see me again. Don’t copy anything directly here but rather use them as a guideline to help you work out what you should say in your own situation so you can structure your own. Her: Hi You: Hey, it’s [your name]. What’s up? Her: Hi You: Soooo … have you been behaving? Her: Yeah, I’m always nice. You: Oh really? … is that why you always wear a Gucci handbag? You might want to polish your halo a little. Her: *tehehe* Naw I was working really hard today. You: Aww poor you, did you have to actually do some work today? I bet you were stealing some drinks from the bar were ya? Her: Hey! MY job is really tough! You: Uh huh (sounding unconvinced) Her: Well, what job do you do? You: I’m … Employee of the month at Burger King. Her: LOL. Seriously! I want to know what job you have! You: I work in a bank … and launder money for some mobsters, anyway… I’ll tell you later my boss isn’t listening in so I can give my honest opinion without being fired.
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Her: LOL. Okay. You: I tell you what, why don’t you meet in town on Tuesday? I have to go and get some new shirts, you can keep me company if your nice. I can meet you at, 2pm at Starbucks downtown Her: Okay! Well I can’t make 2 because I’m still working, but what about 4pm? You: Yeah ok, I’ll get some stuff done and I can get you there, okay? Don’t be late! Her: I won’t, cya there. You: Cya. Don’t try to get to know her on the phone (what job you do or what kinda hobbies you have) … just a little small talk is fine but keep the real conversation for your date. Keep her on her toes and be a little bit interesting and mysterious so she really does want to meet you again and find out more. The conversations above was just an example, don’t follow them to the letter. Use them to work out how you will plan the conversation, but remember the simple procedure of CAATH: she laughs, finds you funny, you ask the question, confirm the arrangements and then hang up. If she happens to give you some kind of excuse like “I can’t meet you then because I’m working (or anything else)” BUT counteroffers like “but I can meet you later that day or on Saturday, is that ok for you?” then you know she really does want to see you again but just
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As a final warning. Some of them still apply and have different variations in other situations of dating. scratch those plans and come see me … I’m far more interesting than X (whatever it is she has to do)”. No biggie. Do not reply instantly to a message. Be cocky. it will make u look desperate and pathetic or too forward and sleazy. Only text when you need to 2. Always get to the point 6. cheeky and playful to create attraction 4. But if she is just trying to test you ( meaning she doesn’t counteroffer right away).123 -- . leave about 15min Those simple rules apply only to arranging the date. Keep it to as few messages as possible 3. Try to limit the abbreviations that you use as well. just say “I tell ya what. stick to those rules. 1. really. don’t put any kisses at the end of the message. You can use smiley-faces 5. There are a few basic rules you must stick to when texting rather than calling her. Texting her is pretty much the same as calling her. but the conversation will be one way. Works all the time. -.happens to work that time you asked her out. but for the first meeting. Always make a funny comment and tease her about something. this will also help you to keep the message as brief and to the point as possible as well as sending her a message that she can understand without decoding it.
Then you confirm the date like “ok. wanna keep me company? Nick” Just like the phone-call.124 -- . Most times girls are late too so you can start busting her balls for that right away. you behaving? … Yeah right. like I’m going to believe you ☺ What’s up? Nick” • “Hey you. Stop thinking about my sexy body. Nick” and then show up for the date because she will. try to keep it short (here: as few messages as possible). I got feelings too you know? . Here are some examples: • “Hey you wannabe angel. The second one is serious and straight to the point as in “why don’t you come and meet me tomorrow etc”. cya there at 7pm. spark up the attraction first and THEN ask her to meet or join you (remember. and the third one is to confirm the date.Now listen up: You only need 3 messages to arrange a date with a woman. The first one asks how she is and gets the attraction going. you are going somewhere or have to do something anyway. it ain’t 4 sale. so she can join you if she wants … that way you evade the classic dating courtship which is boring). -.-P I'm going to town tomorrow/on Thursday.
Where To Take Your Date This is very simple. don’t make it too serious or let her think you are really into her. don’t use it as the beginning of a relationship.125 -- . use it as an opportunity to decide if you really want to see this girl or not. Whatever you do. Go for a walk with her in the park after you have been to the gym. “Why isn’t he all over me like other guys?” Don’t dare take a woman OUT on a first date. Meet up with her during your lunch break or something. she will start to let her mind run wild with questions like. Try to make her realize that she is there not because you want to spend time with her.The First Date If you get a girls number and set up a first date. The date is almost like an interview to see if you like her and this shows you are not hooked on her. She will enjoy the fact you are being mysterious and again. So let me get this straight: -. Many guys make the mistake of trying to impress a woman by planning a romantic date with all sorts of fancy crap you don’t need. Women can also realize that you’re not taking this seriously and you haven’t fallen for her spell like every other guy around. but that you want to get to know her better.
In fact. this is the WORST idea for a first date. • Don’t just go for “let’s have a drink sometime” and then head straight for the next bar in the evening. but don’t even try it.126 -- . This might have worked in high school and may be an “ok” possibility for a fourth date. invite her to keep you company and then do something that is FREE! Now.• You don’t need to take her out to dinner. • You should not get cinema tickets and invite her to go see a movie with you. Remember that she wants to meet you and see if you are an interesting and sexy person she would like to meet again. It just doesn’t work and isn’t a good idea. you can even go window shopping for crying out loud. having a candle light dinner or going to the movies … how different are you? -. This is done by talking to her and doing certain things together. The very best way of accomplishing both is a) b) c) Shopping in town or in a mall Chill in the park Have a coffee You don’t need to buy stuff. You see. the key here is to do something that you had to do anyway. If you do exactly what everybody else has done before such as going for a beer in a bar. the idea of a date is to spend time with her and get to know her.
interesting and sexy in a woman’s eyes. make sure you tease her. Forget all that formal dating stuff with flowers. not needy for sex and don’t see this as a classic date but rather as a get together.But you also need to make it look like you are a challenge (hard to get). -. The tips and techniques from this book though have been tested many many times and work every single time! Why? Because if you pull this off it will make you look different.127 -- . Here’s what happens if you take her on a classical date like every other nice guy and wimp has done before her: She gets bored immediately. But on that date. bust her balls and treat her like your little sister. Then you REALLY need to be different. This is why she “can keep you company because you need to do X in town anyway”. This works especially well when you are dealing with very attractive women … you know the type that get hit on at least 49 times a day. It won’t work. dinner dates etc. This way it will seem like you have spend more hours together than you actually have by changing the venue. But to make this easy for you: Go window shopping in town and then have a coffee. This is a very slick trick but it works extremely well for her to trust you.
• Take her to places that allow for easy conversation and where there are a lot of conversation starters. You might even meet some mad people around town. There will be a different kind of atmosphere there than the usual classy department stores.Let’s have a deeper look at why every guy seems to think it is a good idea for a date. No. It sounds so damn boring and simple. You may think a good date is taking her to the theatre. rather than a chance to attract her. Take her to a market that sells funny junk stuff. It may be simple but it sure isn’t boring. that will give you loads to laugh about. I mean actually have fun when you go out and have a great time together. In park on a nice day you can enjoy the sun. Some factors that ensure you have a good time: • Treat the date as an opportunity for you to see if you like her and want a relationship. But how can you work your magical charming skills in a theatre or eating a plate full of pasta that you can’t pronounce the name of? The key is to make sure you end up somewhere you can do fun things with a woman.128 -- . You can make clever remarks about what is on sale. -. Go to the park. You can take her handbag or cigarettes and tease her with them. don’t just date her. not those kinds of things. Try just walking about or browsing in shops with crazy items. Or you can go in for the kill and find out how ticklish she is. buying her a rose and then going to a fancy restaurant.
This will send out more mixed messages to her. • Build up a good friendship during the date and then start to tease her • Don’t make too much contact at first. especially if she is a hot girl. Let her get into you and then make occasional contact after that. When You Meet Up If she arrives early or late. or going for a walk in the park.• Show her that you are not going to just be a friend by avoiding buying her gifts and taking her to expensive places early on. • On the first date don’t cling to her wherever she walks. so denying it and ignoring how she looks for a bit will send her mind wandering again. Don’t compliment her. She will already think she’s hot.129 -- . So for the first 10 minutes or so act like friends. sparks will fly. Then start teasing her and flirting with her. Initially. be prepared to go. I hate the -. you want to make it appear that you are just intending to be friends. You want to give her the impression that you are not so much interested in her. Leaving out the touching creates more energy between you and when you do touch her. but you are interested in getting something to eat. Don’t let her think that because you are on a date that you are more than friends yet. If she says “Oh. Give her space and walk around her. As the date progresses you can start to tease her more and look for little insecurities. Keep touching and physical contact to a minimum.
-. Give her an opportunity to talk uninterrupted. don’t try to fall back into your old ways and bore the pants off her. Talk about reality TV and make jokes about it.way the back of my hair looks” make a joke about it and tease her for worrying. If you don’t. Say a statement or something funny that she can expand on. so let her talk loads and then you can make fun of her for being a motor mouth as well as get her point across. Go for something interesting and new. or heard that she doesn’t really have an interest in? The chances are. Women like drama. like the latest celebrity scandal. What has she probably talked about to death already.130 -- . Don’t Be Boring On a Date Just as you wouldn’t try to talk about boring things when you first meet a girl. probably most of those dumb questions above. change the conversation to something else dramatic. People love to talk about themselves. You might even try mocking her about her boring TV viewing but at the same time you show you have an opinion and knowledge about her shows. Avoid questions and conversations like: “Do you come here often?” “Do you have any brothers or sisters?” “What do you do at work?” “What school did you go to?” “What do you think about the recent crisis in the middleeast?” Basically. avoid talking about anything mundane and everyday.
I mean he is a footballer and she is just famous for losing too much weight. Don’t show too much interest in her. Always keep her guessing as to how much you really like her.” “Pete Doherty and Kate Moss. Hold yourself back from ever telling a woman that you think she looks beautiful.131 -- . wander off sometimes and don’t be clingy. That means you certainly don’t say it but you also keep yourself calm and reserved. I think that Nikki maybe lied about her age. I can’t believe that Big Brother show. Steal from comedy shows and so on if you struggle with making your own jokes and conversation starters. It makes her mind go crazy again.” You get the idea. “What.“Man. I think she was the only person to take her own weight in cocaine. take it up another level and start teasing her and acting disinterested. What a relationship that was. You throw tantrums like her?” “What is David Beckham doing with Victoria. If you ever see a woman and you think she is far too into herself to respond to your casual charm. Let Her Chase You Never directly show a woman when you first meet her that you are having a great time. You will be amazed at how well it works. but joke around and don’t be serious about it. he doesn’t like me? Does he think I’m not that attractive?” -. Maybe drop a hint or a word in that she’s cute. I think she’s just a 9 year old with fake titties.
she already feels enough attraction that she wants you to kiss her. Second. yet so many men just can’t get this to work for them. If she is attracted to you. it is possible to kiss her. If she meets you again. I can answer the first one right away: You can have a woman ready for a hot kissing session within around 3 minutes of meeting her the very first time. Forget all the mumbo-jumbo about psychology and “she needs to be ready first” yadda yadda crap. -. you will need to MOVE IN and kiss her gently. If she goes on a date with you. So let’s make this one easy for you. This is even BEFORE you have gotten her number. There are two key factors involved here: First. The real problem isn’t that guys are lacking initial “kissing” skills … it’s being able to make a smooth transition from talking to kissing her. You just need to know HOW to do it. she WANTS to kiss you.The Kiss Being able to kiss a woman is one of the easiest things in the world. you need to know WHEN she is ready to be kissed.132 -- . The key is attraction. So let’s get this one fixed right now.
133 -- . playing and teasing to touching your lips with hers right? All you need to do is STOP TALKING. Now. You need to be smooth here. as in having a good time. Now. to kiss her you need to make a smooth transition from talking. touch the back of her beck with your hand … and if you can see her eyes glowing (like when she gets attracted to you) and smile … just move in for the kiss. But the trick here is. enjoying yourself. that she WANTS you to kiss her … and by signaling her what is coming. This is exactly where you want her. what you have to do is talk to her for at least 20 – 30 minutes and spend some time with her. look into her eyes for 5 seconds.The only way you can kill this attraction is if you go back to being a nicey-nice guy and bring her flowers on the date. I know this sounds cheesy and corny but I’m not stupid … I know what I’m doing here. This way you will press her emotional trigger buttons enough times that she will wonder “when is he going to kiss me?”. she will not pull her head back. So stop talking. You see. -. tease her and turn up the heat. women have seen all those movies as well and they KNOW what’s coming. All they want is that you don’t storm the doors like an inexperienced kid who has never kissed a woman. Don’t say a word for about 5 seconds and look into her eyes.
-. This is key! Another factor that is involved her is that she needs to trust you as well. Now you want to see her naked and take her clothes off. You will have much more control and less obstacles (like friends etc) to deal with if you go to yours.This really is so freakin’ easy. First of all. she wants to be kissed. otherwise she will think you are a wimp for not even trying. There are two ways of getting a woman to your place: Set up the second date directly at your place or go to your place on the first date after you are finished with the coffee and shopping. How To Take Her Home So you have spent some time with her and had great fun on your first date or get together. But how do you get her to come to your place without seeming pushy or hungry for sex? Women KNOW what will happen when they go to your place. So just go for it because if she comes on a date with you. Just don’t make the mistake and wait with the kiss after 1 or 2 hours into the date. It’s time to go to your place. but again it is up to you to make a smooth transition. really. otherwise she won’t feel comfortable going to your house. you should have kissed her already before you decide to go to your house. As a sidenote: never try to go to her place if you can avoid it.134 -- .
cuddle and then slowly let things escalate until she gets so horny she doesn’t want you to stop.The best technique to get a woman to your place is to rent a DVD or buy some food and cook dinner at your house. no love! So always use a condom. All you have to do is spend around 2-3 hours with her on a date. -. Or. you can set up the second date at your house and tell her to bring the chicken and you will get the pasta sauce. The rest is a piece of cake. You have to be cool about it and kind of act like you don’t really care if she comes or not. this is much simpler than it looks like. then get her home where you can relax. Today. The key here is simply to get her to your place without looking needy. pushy or desperate. You see. kiss her.135 -- . But don’t forget: No glove. She has to know and feel that this is a completely normal and natural thing for you to do. Now really. she will gladly follow you home where you can escalate things on your couch. get physical with her and sleep with her. you need a different angle … I mean this IS the 21st century. get a DVD and tell her to buy the popcorn. Then. That’s it. years ago guys used the now infamous line “wanna see my stamp collection” and it worked. So.
If you end up buying her gifts. speaking to her just to hear her voice and doing anything she asks of you. you can look back and analyze what she has said and you don’t have to be under so much pressure to impress her when you talk. but it doesn’t happen in real life. she will sleep with them eventually. calling her all the time. you can fall out of that category if you don’t stay alert. The sexually interested category is far easier and more rewarding.136 -- . Unless she is desperate (which does happen even if there is slight attraction. you will struggle to get out of there. although beware. You can have time to think about what you want to say. Most guys have a warped idea that if they just keep dating a woman. she won’t sleep with you unless she feels that gut level emotion called attraction. The whole dating thing isn’t enough to convince a woman that you will be more than just a friend. she will lose interest instantly. let me tell you).Sex or Friends Women will decide pretty early on if you are going to be a friend or a sexual partner. Then you are back to being a “friend”. And I mean struggle. A sexual partner is someone who they will become more and more attracted to and eventually want a long term relationship with. Sometimes sending a text message can be a lot better than actually talking on the phone. This is -. A friend just means you are ok. This might sound like it makes sense from a logical point of view. but there is absolutely no attraction. When you get stuck in the friendship rut. You can of course completely ruin things even after she has decided that you are the right kind of person to sleep with her.
into a real ladies-man and better person. That my friend. women will respond to you completely different than they used to: They start to giggle when you talk to them. But if you have had sex with her. is when you know you are truly getting it! The End of the Beginning This isn’t the end. From now on. and they now see you as boyfriend and lover material…IF you pull it off the right way. This StreetSmartDating book was intended to teach you the fundamentals and most important key areas when it comes to women and dating. you will be able to attract women naturally without even thinking about it. I have prepared you to step up to the big table. otherwise she will think you have just used her for sex. make sure you give her a text the next day.also a good way of attracting her at the beginning of a relationship. it’s only the beginning. But don’t fall back to being a needy wimp and nice guy. they start to get those shiny eyes when you make them feel that gut level emotion called attraction.137 -- . -. to transform yourself from the wimpy nice guy that most men are. Keep the attraction up and never forget what you have learnt! Your new persona has to become a part of you … and once it IS.
To find out more. go here: http://www.138 -- . For now. To speed up your learning curve drastically.streetsmartdating. Once you got the fundamentals down. Get familiar with the basic fundamentals and core essentials of the dating game so you won’t make the biggest and most crucial mistakes anymore. drop me an e-mail and let me know how you are getting on. Then you have to start using and practicing the key techniques. I will teach you my most powerful techniques that I have taught to a select few ONLY…and I might never teach them anymore. especially the ones that make women feel that magical emotion called attraction.There’s still lots to learn.com/advancedseries BUT the only way you will get the most out of it is if you have understood and worked on the material from this book. just talk. So here’s what I want you to do now: Re-read the important parts of this book again and take some notes. -. I also recommend that you check out my advanced dating techniques. you don’t have to take it any further. I recommend that you get yourself out there and start to practice on what you know. But go and practice a bit first before you make the next step. Remember. Then come back. then this is a must. so send me some success stories. If you want to learn some more techniques and more lines. I really want to know how you are doing.
com -.139 -- . www.StreetSmartDating.Wishing you success Your buddy Nick Street Smart Dating. Inc.
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