Social Circle Mastery I. Why Build a Social Circle? a. Most people date within their social circles b.

Social proof c. Preselection d. Its fun!

II. Social Circle VS Cold Approach a. Social Circle Game - Not a place to practice new lines - Delicate in the beginning, then you can get away with murder - Takes time to build / Long term reward b. Cold Approach - Practice! Practice! Practice! - Blow me or blow me out attitude - Can get a date instantly / Short term reward

III. Types of Social Circles a. Friends (similar interests) b. Colleagues c. Classmates d. PUA

IV. Basics of Befriending a. Befriend the leader the rest will follow b. Add value (instead of taking value)

- Interested VS Interesting c. First impression counts - style, body language d. Eye Contact e. Smiling f. Body language and vocal projection g. Be positive and polite h. Compliment (genuine) i. Carry out your actions j. Be honest (true to yourself and others) k. Dont force the friendship (mirror)

V. What to Avoid a. Having an agenda b. Playing value games - Trying to be alpha c. Bragging d. Kissing ass (agenda)

VI. Building a Circle of Friend a. Common interests - Sports, working out, picking up girls, yoga, etc. b. Plan activities - Parties, bars, classes, trips c. Regular communication

d. Connecting others - The more social you are the more value youll bring others - Know everyones name, contact info, and what they do, etc. - Matchmaking - Merge social circles

VII. Where to Start a. Do things youre interested in (be active) - Take classes, join meetup groups, etc. b. Do things with your new friends in other situations c. Create your own event - Party, club host, meetup group, etc. d. Join other circles - Cold approach, befriend girls, warm introduction

VIII. Gaming Girls Within the Circle a. How most guys meet women b. Easy because you already have value, comfort c. Dangerous - Ruin friendship - Loose entire circle if you sleep around - Note: In some circles its OK to sleep around **Why eat the bait when you can catch the fish?

IX. Finally a. Respect VS Popularity b. Boundaries - Unspoken and subtle - Preframe: Talk about what you wouldnt stand for before it happens

c. Bros before hoes - Abundance mentality

X. Assignments a. Infield Exercises: 10 approaches, 5 of which you are just being friendly and social and have no agenda. Make friends with them if they seem like quality people. b. Rule: Approach 1 mixed group (group with girls and girls) before approaching an all girl group. c. Make a list of 5-10 social boundaries you have with men and women. d. Bonus: Join some sort of social organization Examples: cooking class, dance class, toastmasters, yoga, female psychology class at local community college, etc.