Dating Multiple Chicks Tips & Tricks

DATING MULTIPLE CHICKS
Dating Multiple Chicks

Secret tips & tricks of the ultimate lifestyle Michael Maxwell How to Date Chicks Copyright 2011 All Rights Reserved
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Contents
Introduction ....................................................................................................................... 4 Pickup Artist: Mike Maxwell............................................................................................... 5 Theres Nothing Wrong with Dating Around ...................................................................... 6 Why Do Men Want to Date Around? ................................................................................. 7 Social Stigma .................................................................................................................... 8 Keeping Secrets ................................................................................................................ 9 No Need to Lie ................................................................................................................ 11 Separate Social Circles ................................................................................................... 13 Dating Multiple Chicks Best Practices............................................................................. 14 Answering Tough Questions ........................................................................................... 17 Hiding Clues .................................................................................................................... 21 Protect Your Privacy ....................................................................................................... 24 Phone Etiquette............................................................................................................... 26 Time Management .......................................................................................................... 28 Shackin Bag ................................................................................................................... 29 What to do if she discovers youre dating around ........................................................... 31 Managing Your Own Reputation ..................................................................................... 33 Relationship Styles.......................................................................................................... 34 Breaking Up the Right Way ............................................................................................. 36 Conclusion ...................................................................................................................... 38
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Introduction
Im Mike Maxwell and your about to learn the secret tips & tricks of Dating Multiple Chicks. This method has been tested over and over again and it works. Im going to teach you the following: How to date around without dishonesty or deception. How to avoid creating a web of lies and the stress it creates. How to date multiple chicks without them knowing about each other. How to handle jealousy. How to avoid the common mistakes that lead to her finding clues. How to handle commitment pressure from her and society. How to answer the tough questions, like Do you love me? and Are you dating around? How to diffuse the situation if she discovers youre dating around. How to manage your own reputation, so others dont manage it for you. I'm going to teach you when to Break Up the Right Way to end relationships painlessly.
This guide will help eliminate the problems that arise when dating around, so you and your girls have fun and enjoyable relationships.
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Pickup Artist: Mike Maxwell

Pick Up Mastery
I studied pickup courses to understand the psychology of women and became very good. I mastered pickup and inner game. Ive extensively studied and practiced the teachings of Double Your Dating, Love Systems, Real Social Dynamics and many more. Ive reached a level of mastery thats led to hundreds of interactions and girlfriends.

I discovered that having the option to date multiple chicks is inevitable once you have mastered pickup. However, it came with problems. I would get caught in my own web of lies. Girls would stop by unannounced and find me with another girl. Jealous girlfriends were arguing with me and with each other. Guys would get jealous of my success with women and cause problems, too. Guys would try to start fights, or try to steal my girls attention. Jealous people would bash my reputation behind my back. It always let to nasty break ups and heartache.
I came to the conclusion that there must be a way to eliminate these problems.
The Solution
Through lots of trial and error, I developed a system to successfully Date Multiple Chicks. Its a method that effectively eliminates almost all problems that come with dating around. I shared this method with others, and they had the same success. I decided to share the Dating Multiple Chicks method with everyone.
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Theres Nothing Wrong with Dating Around

Dating Around vs. Cheating
First of all, dont feel guilty about dating around. There is a big difference between dating around and cheating. Society accepts dating around if you have not made a commitment. As soon as you call her your girlfriend or say I love you, youre in a committed relationship. You are cheating on her if you continue to date other women. As long as you dont make a commitment, you will be free to date multiple women without having to apologize.
Be Discrete
The Dating Multiple Chicks method is not about deception. Its about being discrete and knowing what information to keep confidential. Youre having sex with multiple women. Just dont rub her nose in it. Women want a man who is with several women. They just dont want everyone else to know about it, because it could damage their reputation. Alpha-males had multiple mates for millions of years. This is what every woman wants, even if they dont realize it. Society doesnt want it to be common knowledge. But if you watch female behavior, it becomes painfully obvious.
Confident Decision
Be confident in your decision to date around. You have every right to date around if you want. Maybe youre not ready for commitment. Maybe you like variety. The reason doesnt matter. You dont have to be in a committed relationship if you dont want it. Ill repeat that again You dont have to be in a committed relationship if you dont want it. Part of being a man is making life choices without external pressure or influence. Dont let people put you on the defensive. State your position and immediately turn the light back on them. Ask them if theyre happy in their committed relationship. Youll see the tone of the conversation make an abrupt change.
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Why Do Men Want to Date Around?

Mans Instinct
Quite simply were born this way. Im not debating monogamy vs. polygamy. Im not claiming one is better than the other. Im simply explaining why we are born with the drive to date around. Its important to understand ourselves anthropologically in order to have a realistic viewpoint.
We are pack animals by nature

We were very similar to lions long ago. The alpha-male would have multiple mates, like a lion pack. We did not get here by being monogamous. Social monogamy is a very recent invention. Scientists estimate it began less than 20,000 years ago. Humans have been around for millions of years. Monogamy has existed less than 0.5% of the time. Looking at the big picture, monogamy was not normal. Its not even normal today. Currently, over 50% of marriages result in divorce. Therefore, even the people that believe in monogamy have a proven track record for failure. Its certainly possible to be monogamous your entire life, but the odds are very much against it. For millions of years it was normal for the alpha-male to have multiple women. In fact, this innate behavior was key to the success of our species. Now we have to deal with our million year innate drive for multiple women in a society that deems it unacceptable. Our instinct conflicts with society.
Womans Instinct
Women are born a certain way, too. Instinctively, women are attracted to the alpha-male that has multiple mates. They pair-bond with the alpha-male and remain loyal to him. Being with an alpha-male would ensure her survival. Deep down she wants the guy that has multiple women. However, society pressures her to not accept it. Therefore, her instinct conflicts with society, too.
Commitment Kills Attraction

Women love to chase. Thats why playing hard-to-get drives them crazy. As soon as she knows she has you, she begins losing attraction. Commitment kills attraction. Ask any married couple. They may be happy for the first couple of years. But most marriages result in divorce within 7 years. Women are only happy when they have to chase you.
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The Jealousy Factor

Its important to understand how jealousy plays a role when dating around. Men and Women deal with jealousy differently. Jealousy for men instinctively drives them to kill rival males. Alternatively, jealousy for women instinctively makes them more attracted. Jealously drives her to compete with other females to get you.
Social Stigma
Were constantly bombarded with pressure to be in committed relationships. It comes from religious groups, government, television, and so on. As a single person, you cant go to a wedding without being asked, So, when are you getting married? Some societies still accept multiple wives, but ours isnt one of them.
How to Handle the Social Stigma

You cant change society, so you have to change yourself. Use the social stigma to your advantage. Date around to satisfy your need for variety. Societys pressure may seem like a hassle, but embrace it. The chance of getting caught makes sex more exciting. Its like having outdoor sex. But in order to do it successfully, you need to make sure your girls dont find out about each other. Its actually easier than you may think, and Ill explain how and why in later chapters.
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Keeping Secrets
Lie-of-Omission Bullshit
Some people claim youre lying by not telling everything. Everyone on the planet is a liar by that definition. Its impossible to share every piece of information in your brain with another. Therefore, everyone chooses what knowledge is shared and what is kept confidential. Women are no exception. How would she feel if you read her private diary? Some information is personal and should be. You have every right to choose which secrets you keep. No one has the right to pry into your personal life. If she accuses you of lies of omission, jokingly say Why dont you publish your diary on Facebook? After that, Ill be happy to tell you everything in my brain.
Tell Me Everything Trick

She will try to trick you into telling her everything. Shell use phases like: Dont you trust me? Were close, so we should share everything. Were a couple, everyone expects us to tell each other everything.
Dont fall for it. When someone tells you something in confidence, you have no right to share that info with anyone. Even people you trust. Your own confidential information is the same principle. Her prying for confidential information is a blatant violation of your privacy. Diffuse her attempts to pry you for secrets: Her: You can tell me. Dont you trust me? You: Really? You feel its ok to break confidentially under certain circumstances? Hmmm Ill have to reconsider what secrets I share with you. Her: I can be trusted to keep a secret. You: Oh good. Then youll understand and respect that I can too. This will raise her level of trust with you. Youve proven that people can tell you something in confidence, and you wont share it. She will feel comfortable sharing even more with you, including her sexual fantasies.
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Omit the facts that hurt

Dont use deception or lies to date multiple chicks. Instead, simply omit the facts that could hurt her feelings. That way, you can stay true to yourself and not be accused of lying. If youre going to date multiple women, you need to keep it a secret. Its not widely acceptable to date multiple women openly in todays society, so you have to keep them separated and keep it quiet. Its cruel to flaunt dating around in her face anyway. Even worse, dont let anyone in her social circle know, because shell be ridiculed. Fight the urge to brag. Dont tell anyone. Confide in someone outside of both her and your social circles. Talk to a friend or brother that lives out of state. Preferably, someone that has never met her. You have to protect her reputation at all costs. If her social circle perceives her as being used, all hell will rain down on you. Think about it, a wife may know her husbands cheating on her, but she doesnt go ballistic until her social circle finds out and shes humiliated. Her friends & family will pressure her into leaving him.
She Doesnt Want to Know

Its actually easy to keep the secret, because she doesnt want to know. Instinctively, she wants to be with the guy Dating Multiple Chicks. Shes not attracted to the chode that is 100% committed. Theres no shortage of nice guys desperate for her pussy. Shes surrounded by them. She finds guys that kiss her ass annoying. But shes been brainwashed by society. Shes supposed to want the loyal chode. And shell be judged if she isnt. Its the common movie story line today. The girl falls in love with nerdy Peter Parker (a.k.a. Spiderman), which doesnt happen in real life. In reality, shes happy chasing the alpha-male. When she gets the alpha-male, she doesnt want to screw it up. She may suspect youre dating others. She may test you and ask if youre dating around. Omit the truth to spare her feelings. Make a joke of it. Her: So, are you dating like 10 women? Reply with a smile: 10? Nah, youre actually number 61? But dont worry youre in the top 3. Dont lie and say shes the only one. Dont tell the truth that shes the 2rd girl this week. Make a joke of it and immediately change the subject. Shes likely to let it slide, because shed rather choose to be in the dark than know the truth. But she has to test you to know whether or not you brag about it.
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No Need to Lie
Web of Lies
Most players make the web-of-lies mistake. They feel compelled to lie about dating around in effort to keep the peace. This may come as a shock, but women are more forgiving about dating around than lying. Once you start lying, youll spin a web of lies. Youll need to invent lies to cover up lies. Maintaining a web of lies is stressful. No one can keep all their lies straight, so you will be caught in a lie.
Omission & Redirection

Stick to the truth, but omit details that could hurt her feelings. If she wants to go out one night and you have plans, tell her you have plans. Dont tell her you have another date. That would be cruel. Eliminate the need to lie using omission & redirection. Heres an example: Her: I have concert tickets for Friday. Wanna join me? You: Id love to go, but already made plans I cant break. How about Saturday? A buddy is having a party, you should come. Lets break it down. It seems like a simple interaction, but theres actually a lot going on here: 1. Id love to go Reply on a positive note. Interactions with you should always be positive and upbeat. Dont hurt her feelings by flat-out turning her down. This expresses a desire to be with her. 2. .already made plans I cant break. Omit the details of your Friday night plans. She doesnt need to know. Imply that its too late to reschedule, so its out of your hands. Stand your ground if she presses you to change plans. Shell know that you have integrity and wouldnt break plans with her if a better offer came along. Shell learn you are a man of your word. 3. How about Saturday? A buddy is having a party She wants to see you, so immediately offer a time when she can spend time with you. She wont feel rejected when you offer it. This is a perfect example of redirection. Youre immediately redirecting the conversation by offering another time. Dont give her opportunity to drill deeper for details on your Friday night plans. Shes immediately put in a position to respond to your request, instead of probing into your plans. 4. you should come. Come from a position of strength. Dont ask her on a date, tell her to come. The word come also has a sexual connotation. Notice how there are no lies here. You do want to see her. You have Friday plans. You are available to see her Saturday. No time and energy is spent maintaining a web of lies.
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If her or her friends see you out on Friday, you have no lies to defend, because she already knew you had plans.
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Separate Social Circles

Each of us has multiple social circles. For example: Coworkers Family Neighbors Drinking buddies Married friends with children Gym or sport activity friends Travel friends
Dont introduce all your girls to all of your social circles. If you do, they will find out about each other. You can ask friends & family to be discreet about your dating around, but it wont work. One of them will accidentally post a photo of you on Facebook with a chick. Or theyll accidentally call her by the wrong name. You cant count on anyone to keep your secret for you. In fact, your buddies may intentionally let it slip that youre dating around, because theyre secretly jealous of your success with women. Introduce each girl to a single separate social circle to avoid this problem. Keep them separated.
Minimizing Risk
Sometimes overlap will happen. In theory, everyone knows everyone on the planet with only 6 degrees of separation. Overlap of social circles is going to happen. The best you can do is minimizing the risk. Spend a majority of your time with her one-on-one. Your friends will provide social proof that youre not a misfit, so you should introduce her to a single social circle. Follow these rules when brining her around your friends: Introduce her to everyone by name only (dont call her your girlfriend). Dont leave her alone with them for very long. Leave the party early. Stay for only an hour or two.
Why are these rules important? If you introduce her as your girlfriend, everyone will assume youre in a committed relationship. If shes alone with your friends for any length of time, she will drill them for personal information about you. Shell ask about past girlfriends and your dating history. She may strike up a conversation about similar interests with your friends and ask them to Facebook her. Its less likely for either of these things to happen if youre present. Minimize the amount of one-on-one time, so your friends dont get a chance to slip up and mention other women youre dating.
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Dating Multiple Chicks Best Practices

Dates that Communicate Commitment
Certain types of dates insinuate commitment. Treating her to a dinner and a movie are ok. Parties and bars are ok, too. Paying for a weeklong vacation may send the wrong message. Shell interpret that you want to be her lover & provider. Avoid notorious honeymoon locations like Niagara Falls, New York. It doesnt matter if you go dutch and each pay your share. If it has a reputation as a honeymoon vacation, shell assume you want to marry her someday. A bike ride and picnic is a very domestic date. It can send the wrong message if youre the one preparing the food and bringing all the supplies. She can treat you to a picnic, but if you treat her, shell assume youre trying to impress her. If shes a single parent, just by going to the park with her children screams I want to be your childrens daddy. Wedding dates are the ultimate I want commitment with you date. Attend weddings alone. Decline if she invites you as her wedding date. Tell her you already had plans. Dont invite women to attend a wedding as your date. A wedding date communicates that youre considering marriage with her. The topic of the two of you getting married will come up during the reception.
Inviting Multiple Girls Out at the Same Time

When mastering pickup, many gurus encourage inviting multiple chicks out at the same time. This will raise your social status and incite jealousy & attraction. However, youre Dating Multiple Chicks now. Youre at a higher level of experience. Inviting multiple chicks out at the same time will actually hurt your game at this level. Dont invite multiple girls out at the same time anymore. They will get jealous and attracted, but theyll go home heartbroken that they cant have you all to themselves. Shes sad, and youre sleeping alone. No one wins.
Attention
Be with her when youre with her. What does this mean? Treat her with respect and give her the attention she deserves. Dont let others interrupt your conversations with her. Giving her your undivided attention will show shes special. Of course, you may interrupt her if shes talking to you about a subject you dont like. Feel free to cut any conversation thread that you dont like by changing the subject. The key is that youre still providing attention to her. You may have conversations with others, but when those conversations end, return attention to her. Take your time; dont rush back to her. Shell sense if its forced.
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Competition
Guys will try to bully their way in. Sometimes theyre territorial. Sometimes theyre jealous. You will have to deal with guys in your space. They may try to interrupt your conversation. They may hit on your girl. They may even threaten you. Use this opportunity to prove that you will protect her. Shut him down quickly and then carry on as if it didnt even happen. Shell know that confrontation is no problem for you. She has an innate desire to be protected by her alpha-male. Protecting her from the advances of another man will turn her on.
Spark of Jealousy
Remember how she responds to jealousy. She wants to be with a man that other women desire. Some harmless flirting and exchange of smiles with a waitress is a good thing. Asking for another womans phone number in front of her is a bad thing. Give her just a spark of jealousy without disrespecting her. Gauging this correctly will avoid arguments and lead to hot sex. Be affectionate, but dont overdo it. She wants all the women in the room to be jealous of her. Stroking the back of her hair and a whisper in her ear may seem subtle, but less is more in this case. Push & pull is key. Attraction is built in the take-away. Women read body language. Theyre all watching using peripheral vision. Theyll pick up on this subtle affection. Subtle affection goes a long way in making her feel good about herself and driving other women wild. Shell go home feeling that all the other women were jealous.
Chode Mistakes
The chode is too affectionate. He constantly asks her if she needs anything. He doesnt use subtle affection. Hes outright clingy and overprotective. He overreacts to guys hitting on his chick. Be smooth, relaxed and laid back with your interactions & movements.
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Hand Holding
Hand holding can be used to build attraction. It can be a sign of insecurity if you do it wrong. Dont hold her hand for long periods of time. Walking hand-in-hand for long distances is bad. It communicates neediness. Attraction is built in the take-away. Hold her hand when crossing streets, and then let go once youve crossed. Hold hands when watching a movie, but not for the entire movie. Hold hands if she reaches for yours, but release after a couple minutes. You dont want to abruptly pull away and make her feel rejected. Every time you release her hand, briefly stroke her hair or briefly place your hand on the small of her back. If one of your girls happen to see you on a date, it will be less likely that shell catch you holding hands. She can assume shes just a friend. If you are holding hands, be prepared to answer some tough questions.
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Answering Tough Questions

Women set the tone of relationships by asking questions. Its a very subtle tactic but very effective. Many guys let women set the tone because theyre unaware its even happening. The good news is that you direct the relationship with your answers. You can keep it fun and casual or you let it grow into something serious. As the man, its your job to choose the direction of the relationship not her. Why are women attracted to decisive guys? Women instinctively look to the man for leadership and strength. Thats why they always fall for alpha-males.
Casual vs. Throttled Responses

You can keep the relationship fun and casual by answering serious questions with a joke. She will pressure you by asking Why cant you ever be serious? Simply reply, Lifes too short to take everything so seriously. Its better to have fun. Or you can allow the relationship to grow, but control the pace. When she asks a serious question, throttle it back to the pace youre comfortable with. Dont let her push you further down the path of a serious relationship if youre not ready for it. In some of the following examples, well demonstrate casual vs. throttled responses.
I love you. Do you love me?

Women interpret I love you as commitment. Appreciate the seriousness of the L word. Its a delicate situation that has to be handled correctly. It can be very awkward when she says I love you before youre ready. Shes putting herself out there. Dont leave her feeling rejected on any level. Her: I love you. You - Casual: With a smile say, Thats because youre in a dick-trance. Now snap out of it and take your clothes off. You Throttled: Im crazy about you, babe. Follow it up with a passionate kiss & hug. The casual response will get a laugh and keep it fun. The throttled response is a middle ground that communicates you like her, but arent ready for the next level. Its important to re-enforce it with body language. Body language is about 75% of communication. Its more important than the Im crazy about you, babe phrase, but the combination of both this phrase and kiss will reassure her.
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Where is this relationship going?

Women typically like forward movement in a relationship. Theyre being pressured by their girlfriends to escalate it. Her: Where is this relationship going? You - Casual: With a smile say, To a nudist resort with your hot girlfriends. Tell them to wear sun block on all their pink parts. You Throttled: Where do you want this relationship to go? Answer all her questions with questions. Again, the casual response will get a laugh and let her know youre just for fun. The throttled response will keep her guessing. Finish the conversation with I understand. Im not sure Im in the exact same place as you yet, but I really enjoy spending time with you. Let me take some time to think about it. And then immediately use redirection to change the subject. Dont allow her to press the issue. And then, just dont get back to her on this topic. Repeat this delay tactic of answering questions with questions until she presses the issue and gives an ultimatum. You have 3 options at that point: You decide to take the relationship to the next level and commit to her. Break Up the Right Way with the other women, so they dont cause any problems for you and your new girlfriend. Call her bluff and use the break up to frame the relationship to your advantage. See Getting Back On Track in Breaking Up the Right Way to get her back with little effort, and she will be even more attracted to you. Or end the relationship with her. Check out the Breaking Up the Right Way audio course to learn how to break up painlessly.
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Are you dating anyone else?

Her: Are you dating other women? You - Casual: With a smile say, Im dating all the Buccaneer cheerleaders, but dont say anything because I think some of them are married. You Throttled: Are you asking to be exclusive? Put her in a position to make a case for a committed relationship. For the throttled response, keep answering her questions with questions. For example: What are you looking for in a relationship? and Do you feel weve been seeing each other long enough for a committed relationship? It will help you better understand where shes coming from and what she wants. Finish the conversation with, I understand. Im not sure Im in the exact same place as you yet, but I really enjoy spending time with you. Let me take some time to think about it. Change the subject, and just dont bring it up again until youre ready.
Is this your girlfriend?

Be careful how you introduce your girls to others. Dont introduce her as your girlfriend. If you do, everyone including her will assume the two of you are exclusive. Simply introduce her by name and immediately talk about another subject. If someone asks, Is this your girlfriend? Reply with, Were dating. Shes a really cool. This is a response you can use even if shes present, and she wont be offended or read too much into it.
Are you a player?

Smile and thank her for the compliment. And then change the subject.
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Are you looking for a girlfriend?

Set her expectations up front. By doing so, youll avoid misunderstandings in the future. Make it clear youre not looking for anything serious right now. Her: Are you looking for a girlfriend? You: I just broke up with my girlfriend, so Im not looking for anything serious. I just want to hang out with friends and have fun. Lets break down this response and explain why it works so well: 1. I just broke up with my girlfriend demonstrates social proof, because you had a girlfriend. You broke up with her, which indicates you had higher value. You broke up recently, so theres small window of opportunity for her to date you before youre in another relationship. 2. Im not looking for anything serious. Its stated clearly that youre not looking for a serious monogamous relationship right now. She wont have the expectation of dating you exclusively. 3. I just want to hang out with friends shows that you are secure. You dont need a woman to complete you. Hot chicks have had points in their life when they want to take a break from dating. This statement indicates that you are sought after by women, like hot chicks are sought after by guys. 4. have fun. A positive attitude is attractive. Everyone likes to hang out with friends and have fun. This statement eliminates dating pressure. This leaves it open for the two of you to hang out together, and if it leads to something more then great! Dont worry about turning her off if shes looking for something serious. If she likes you, she may start dating you in hopes of changing your mind later. Or, she may call you if shes in the mood for a fling.
Choose the Right Path

You can always go from casual to throttled, but you cant go from throttled responses to jokes. Its recommended to always go with the casual responses at first until you're sure you want something serious with her.
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Hiding Clues
Remember, its important to be discrete, so be careful to hide all the dating-around clues.
Clean Your Place

Women often leave jewelry, hair berets, panties, and shoes behind so they have an excuse to see you again. She also does it to mark her territory. Classic example is leaving high heels by your front door. It lets every woman know as soon as they step into your place that another woman has been there. She hopes that your other girls will see it and break up with you. Make sure you sweep your place for all items and put them out of site. Dont put them in the top drawer of your desk. She might open it looking for a pen. Dont put them in the nightstand drawer. She might open it looking for sex toys.
Bathroom
If a woman is interested in you, shell excuse herself to your bathroom. Typically within the first 5 minutes. Shes most likely not using the bathroom; shes investigating it like a CSI agent. So check your medicine chest. Sometimes women leave a toothbrush in the medicine chest. She may leave a pink razor in the shower. She may write Had a great time XOXO with her finger on your shower mirror when it was steamed. This wont show until the next shower. So wipe the mirror of any messages. Check the trash can. Push any tampons or condoms to the bottom of the trash can.
Condoms
Dont leave condom wrappers on the floor. Check under the bed for them. Sometimes they get under the bed, and yes, she checks there. Dont leave them visible in the trash can. Wrap the condom & wrapper in toilet paper and shove it to the bottom of the trash can. If shes the type to dig to the bottom of the trash can, then shes the type to find clues no matter what.
Change the Sheets

There could be sex stains. There could be a wet spot from lube. There could be the scent of another womans perfume on the pillow cases. Always change the sheets between dates.
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Clean Your Car

Look for items left on the back seat or on the floor under the seats. Check if she left anything in the trunk. Check for lipstick in the door pockets and glove box. If youre car is parked in a garage, leave the windows rolled down to air out any perfume scent.
When in doubt, throw it away

You may start growing a collection of belongings. Typically, they wont leave anything of great value behind, because they know theres a chance you wont see them again. If its obviously something cheap like a hair beret or cheap panties, just throw it away. You cant chance her finding a collection of jewelry in a drawer someday. You cant chance returning an item to the wrong owner. If she asks about something youve thrown away, just reply I dont know where that is. Which is true, it may be in a garbage truck or trash pile somewhere. Who knows where it is by now.
Pre-emptive Damage Control

Inform her that friends & family stay at your place often. If you have introduced her to married friends, couples, or your sister, mention that they stay the night at your place sometimes. Shes less likely to freak out about womens shampoo in your shower, if she knows that friends stay at your place. Let her know friends leaving things behind is common. If she says you should know who left what behind, respond like shes crazy. Are you joking? I wasnt put here to keep track of others belongings. Theyre adults. They can keep track of it themselves.
Picture Tags
Facebook, also known as FaceStalk to guys that date around. Facebook is your enemy when it comes to dating around. Youre at a party and someone snaps a picture of you and a beautiful girl kissing. Its tagged on Facebook the next day for everyone to see. All your other girls see it, and theyre humiliated. They dont mind so much that youre kissing another girl. She is actually turned on by the jealousy. Its the embarrassment of her social circle giving her a hard time about it. Avoid the situation. Lay low when the cameras come out. Avoid make out sessions when the cameras are flashing. Bring your own camera for taking pictures. These pics you have complete control over. Un-tag yourself from Facebook pics the following day. Or better yet, delete your Facebook account. Youre Dating Multiple Chicks now, so you dont need Facebook to meet women anymore. The same goes for MySpace, also known as SpySpace.
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Cant Eliminate All Risks & Clues

No matter how good you become at eliminating the clues, if she wants to know, she will find out. She just needs to camp in front of your place one evening. Shell see the women coming & going. She could hire a private investigator. She can Facebook your friends. Even by deleting your Facebook profile, she can keep tabs through your friends. Youll still appear in your friends FaceBook photos. If she wants to know, you cannot stop it. The real objective is to be discrete. She doesnt want to worry about you embarrassing her within the social circle. She needs to know you wont brag about dating around. She needs to know she can trust you to be discrete.
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Protect Your Privacy

What you do with other women is none of her business. You have to protect your privacy and the privacy of others. Some of this advice may sound paranoid, but its better to be safe than sorry.
Snooping
She will snoop thru your place. Women are nosey by nature. She will go thru all your drawers if left alone. Its not recommended to give her a key to your place. If she asks for a key, just respond Why would you need to be here when Im not? If she presses the issue, tell her youll give it some thought, and then just dont get around to it.
Lock Box
Buy a lock box or safe. If you have any old love letters or homemade porn, keep them locked up. Make sure the key isnt anywhere she may find it, because she will search for it. She will find anything that isnt locked up. You cant risk violating the trust of the girl that let you video record her. Dont risk her video getting out to the public.
Protect Your Computer

Keep your computer password locked when its not in your site. Most women this day & age know how to view your website history. If you have visited any dating or porn sites, she will see it. Create a guest account on your computer, so she doesnt have access to your files or browser history. Put any private pictures in a hidden directory. Or put them on disc and lock it up. The less direct contact women have with each other in your social circle the better. When sending group emails, put your own email in the TO field, put everyone elses in the BCC field. This protects the privacy of your friends who may not want their email address shared without permission. It also keeps female friends from getting each others direct email addresses. Beware of keylogger. Keystroke logging is hidden software that track all computer keystrokes without your knowledge. Keylogger will provide her access to all of your passwords and email. Its all over the news how people use keylogger to catch cheating spouses. Dont give her an opportunity to install keylogger on your computer.
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Protect Your Phone

Always set your phone to passcode lock. A person can find out more intimate details about you in your phone than a diary. There will be hassles if she sees flirty messages from other girls. Dont risk her getting other girls names & phone numbers. Set your phone to auto-lock after 5-15 minutes of sitting idle. If you set it to lock immediately, it can be annoying. You will have to constantly re-key your passcode. If she sees that too often, shell learn your passcode. So set the passcode lock on delay. Beware of her looking over your shoulder to get your passcode. Phone spyware was developed by law enforcement to monitor criminals. Now its publically available for about $40. Prevent her from being able to install spyware with a passcode. It takes only 5 minutes to install phone spyware. Spyware sends a copy of every message sent to your phone to her phone. She can listen to all your calls. She can access your phones microphone to listen in to your conversations, even when your phone is not in use. Spyware is almost impossible to detect & remove. If spyware is installed on your phone, the only guaranteed method of removal is to get a new phone.
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Phone Etiquette
A common mistake is allowing your phone to tip her off that youre dating around. Avoid the appearance women are constantly calling you. Some simple phone practices will help manage your image.
Voicemail
Throw out your answering machine. I hope you dont still have this old technology. Answering machines broadcast everything on speaker. You cannot screen calls or playback messages with her nearby. Join the 21st century and get voicemail. Turn down phone volume when playing back voicemail. Dont risk her being close enough to overhear a womans voice on your phone. She doesnt need to understand the conversation to get jealous; she just needs to hear a womans voice.
Ignore Your Phone

Young girls are so hooked on their own popularity; they cant fight the urge to answer every call, text message & Facebook notification. Dont be like a 21 year old blonde answering your phone every time it beeps. In fact, set phone on vibrate when on a date. Dont check it as soon as someone calls or messages you. Dont carry your phone in a belt holster that displays the screen outwardly. Shell see it light up and read the names of girls calling you. If youre constantly on the phone shell suspect other women. Shes attracted to you, so she assumes all other women are too.
Returning Messages
If youre on a date, excuse yourself to restroom or wait until she goes to the restroom. And then check and/or return messages. Never call women during a date. You dont want her to catch you mid-conversation with a chick. Women can tell by your voice if youre talking to a girl. Reply with a text message instead of calling back. You dont want your current date to hear you talking to another girl, so you cant call back, but you can text back. Its quick and you can finish before your date returns. The woman calling may ask, Why dont you answer your phone? You just sent me a text, so I know youre there. Reply by text, Its too noisy here. I wont be able to hear you. Have to call you back later. Dont commit to a time that youll call back. You dont know for sure when your date will end. Feel free to state where you are if its a place thats typically noisy. Like a restaurant, airport, ball game, party, etc. Or wait until your date is over to return calls.
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Feel free to call guys back in front of her. Make it very clear if youre talking to a guy. Start the call with Whats up, bro or finish with Talk to ya later, dude. Leave no doubt that you were talking to a buddy - not a chick.
Text Messages
Disable the text message preview. For example, the iPhone displays text messages even without a passcode when preview is enabled. Disable it in message settings, so your girlfriend doesnt read messages from other girls when your phones sitting on the table. Some phones display all names when you send text messages to multiple people. Disable group messaging. You dont want her to learn about your other women in a group text message. Get into the habit of setting your phone face down when its not in your pocket. No one can spy on your messages if its set to vibrate & face down. She wont be aware that you even received a voicemail or text message. You can check your phone periodically for any urgent messages. Store womens numbers in your phone using nicknames or initials. Stick to cute nicknames, not sexual ones. If she does happen to see a message pop-up, at least she wont know the true identity.
Leave It Behind
This is a tough one for most people, but leave your phone behind sometimes. Set a precedence that you dont always carry your phone. Leave it behind when you go to the movies with her, and let her know you did. Leave it at home when you go to the gym, jogging or bike rides. You want her to get used to the fact youre not always accessible. Because when youre on a date with her, you shouldnt return phone calls right away. When she asks, Why didnt you get back to yesterday evening? You can reply, I was out and left my phone at home. So whats up? If shes already witnessed you leaving it at home, she wont question it. Remember to immediately ask her what she wanted. This is a redirection tactic to keep her from harping on why you didnt return her call right away. Its important to change the subject.
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Time Management
Being organized will prevent stress.
Keep a Calendar
A calendar on your mobile device works best. You can check it on the go. Use a single calendar. Having a separate work vs. personal calendar will only cause confusion. Put all your dates on the calendar. Only use initials for dates, in case someone sees your calendar. You dont want anyone know how many women youre dating. Nor do you want them to know when, where & with whom. Always check your calendar before committing to any plans. Dont risk double-booking. Double-booking leads to cancellations. Cancellations lead to suspicion. If she requests a date when you already have plans, simply state you have plans and pick another date.
Juggling Multiple Women

Dont juggle more women than you can handle. Sometimes women come in waves. There may not be enough time to see them all. Saying no can be hurtful. Instead, space the communication out. Reply using text instead of phone calls, and take a few days to return messages. Inform her that youre swamped with work. It will probably just increase attraction.
Dont Split the Day

Never see 2 girls on the same day. First date may run late which screws up the second. It doesnt allow enough time to hide clues in between dates. Allow yourself enough time to sweep your place for clues. You dont want to rush clean up of your place and miss something. First date may feel rushed and suspect you have a second date. If she suspects you have another date, she may purposely drag her feet in hopes of meeting the other girl. Or shell take so long; you have to cancel the second date. Second date wont be happy if you stand her up. Dont split the day with 2 girls. Its not worth the stress & risk.
Canceling a Date
Be respectful of others. Never stand anyone up (except for hot young blondes, this will actually intensify attraction). If you have to cancel, do it as far in advance as possible. Same goes for running late. Otherwise, you risk her standing you up as payback.
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Shackin Bag
Always be prepared for an unexpected hook up. Theres nothing worse than a missed opportunity. Keep a gym bag in the trunk of your car with these essential items: Gym Clothes: T-shirt, shorts, underwear & socks Toiletry Bag: Toothbrush, toothpaste, deodorant, hair gel, gum/mints Party Clothes: Nice shirt, jeans, socks & dress shoes Towel & Swimsuit Condoms
Shackin Up
Women dont want to be perceived as easy. If you have an overnight bag packed, shell assume you thought she was a sure thing. That could be a deal breaker. However, that doesnt happen with a gym bag. You can say, I planned to hit the gym tomorrow. Shell think you just happened to have it. Thats why its important to pack gym clothes. Whether or not you use the gym clothes is irrelevant. Make sure it looks like a gym bag, not an overnight bag. Not having condoms could be a deal breaker, too. Make sure you have 5-6 of them. Too many may give the impression youre a man-whore. Not enough could be a problem if she wants to do the deed multiple times.
Hygene
Gum or mints will keep your breath fresh for that make-out session. Bad breath can kill the interaction, so take care of it. Having a toothbrush takes care of that dreaded morning breath the next day. Deodorant is handy in case youve been in the club sweating and theres no time for a shower. If the overnight hook up turns into a fun weekend, you wont have to worry about body odor or bad breath. Keep them all in your toiletry bag, so its easy to carry them back and forth to the bathroom.
Prepared for Adventure

In order to be spontaneous, you have to be prepared. Everything in your Shackin Bag should cover the basics for most adventures. She may want to go hot-tubbing or invite you to a pool party, so pack a swimsuit & towel. Party clothes are a must. You may have just come from a pool party, and her girlfriends want you to join them for dinner and drinks. Someone may have spilled wine on your clothes, so have at least one set of party clothes as backup to maintain your image and keep the fun going.
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Nothing Left Behind

Last but not least, its easy to leave with everything you came with if you have a Shackin Bag. Without it, you chance leaving an expensive watch, belt, or favorite necklace behind. Make sure you put everything in the bag as you take them off. If things get awkward, you dont waste any time hunting for your stuff just grab your bag and go. Otherwise, you may find yourself making that awkward phone call the next day, Hi, I realize things didnt work out between us, but could I get my watch back? Get yourself a Shackin Bag unless you enjoy buying your stuff over and over again.
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What to do if she discovers youre dating around

Theres a difference between dating around vs. cheating. If you havent committed to her, then you dont need to lie your way out of it. Surprisingly, women can get over you sleeping around easier than getting over lies. Remember the jealousy factor. It increases her attraction. Getting caught with another woman is only a big deal if you let it become a big deal. If she confronts you about dating another woman, admit it like its no big deal and state it matter-of-factly. You havent made a commitment to her, so you dont have to defend dating around. If you made a commitment and have been caught cheating, you need to handle it differently.
Things to Avoid
Dont go into any details. If she asks about the other woman or her name, reply Its not important. Protect the identity of the other woman. Avoid phrases that paint pictures of you with another woman. Dont say things like, Shes an ex-girlfriend that stopped by and one thing led to another. Shell have images of the two of you screwing. Dont try to shift blame on her. This is the most obvious tactic that shell easily deflect. Women have been using this tactic forever, so they see right through it. Dont change the subject. Just admit it and move on. Often, women feel inadequate if youre with other women. Shell try to get you to confess her faults. Asking what she did wrong, and why she isnt good enough. Assure her she did nothing wrong. Dont reject her or point out her flaws when shes in this vulnerable state.
Caught Cheating
Have you lied or misled her into believing youre exclusive? What angers women most are the lies. Breaking trust is the real issue, not that you slept with another woman. If you told her shes the only one, this is best damage control: Her: I cant believe youve been cheating on me. You: Im sorry. I screwed up. It just happened. I regret it. I know youre hurting. I feel horrible that Ive hurt you. You have every right to be angry. Take some time and decide if you want to give me another chance. I'm disappointed in myself. You have to fall on your sword and admit it. Denying it only aggravates the situation. Imagine leaving your 13 year old nephew in your place for a few minutes. When you return theres a broken lamp on the floor. Is there any lie he can say to escape blame? Of course not. Shes caught you. The only thing to do is admit it. By sincerely
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apologizing, she can save face with her social circle. She can tell her girlfriends that you owned up to it. Dont have this conversation face-to-face. Youve hurt her and she wants to punish you. Shell keep you as long as possible to scold you. Have the conversation by phone and keep it short. Allowing her to berate you for an hour will only emasculate you and kill attraction.
Outcome
Dont be surprised when she still wants to see you afterwards. Shes hard-wired by instinct to want the guy with multiple chicks. She may even be more attracted to you. She may get past it sooner than you expect. She may try to put you on a short leash. It may cramp your lifestyle if shes monitoring your every move. Therefore, you have to choose between dating her or Break Up the Right Way.
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Managing Your Own Reputation

You have to manage your own reputation. If you dont, others will manage it for you.
Female Haters
Breaking Up the Right Way will eliminate angry ex-girlfriends. If you Break Up the Right Way, then you wont have to worry about them dragging your reputation through the mud. In fact, they will have nothing but nice things to say about you. Beware of women you dont date. These are the women that will really bash your reputation. Much more than angry ex-girlfriends. Imagine the 16 year old flirty cheerleader - everyone likes her. Imagine the hot model that ignores you - shes a bitch. The same goes for your image. If women find you attractive, and you show no interest, she will think youre an egotistical bastard. Flirt a little with all women to avoid having haters that bash you behind your back. Otherwise, they will ruin your reputation.
Male Haters
A certain percentage of the male population will resent you when youre successful. It stems from insecurity issues. They will automatically feel jealous. Dont let it anger you. Its a form of flattery. As much as it will stroke your own ego, you need to be humble. Put these guys at ease by catering to their ego. It is very hard to feel jealous and negative emotions towards someone that genuinely shows interest. Point out positive characteristics about these individuals to befriend them.
Humble & Strong

Downplay your ability to seduce women. Ask guys for dating advice. This will make them feel less intimidated by your success with women. This is the one time it is ok to selfdeprecate yourself in order to put others at ease. If that doesnt work, stand your ground and make it known that there will be consequences for messing with you. Some people are hell-bent on butting into your life and the only way to deal with them is to be assertive and scare them off. Realize that every jealous person is paying you the utmost compliment by showing you just how great you are at this game. In fact, you are so much better at it, they feel the only way to win is to go behind your back and backstab.
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Relationship Styles
Understanding relationship styles is necessary when Dating Multiple Chicks.
Co-Dependent Relationship
This is the I need you to need me relationship. Couples in co-dependent relationships feel they cannot function or survive without the other. Its based on feeding each others insecurities. Its a common relationship among adolescents because its an immature relationship style. Many women believe a co-dependent relationship is normal. Maybe they never outgrew it. Its a very clingy relationship that has the following characteristics: Checking in with each other daily, sometimes multiple times a day. Not being able to make a decision without asking permission of your partner. Spending excessive time with each other. No respect for boundaries or personal space. Insisting on detailed count of events whenever spending time apart. Not respecting your partners need to spend time with others without you.
Chicks that like co-dependent relationships have girlfriends in co-dependent relationships. Therefore, when she goes to her girlfriends for advice, theyll reassure her behavior is normal. Men are absolutely miserable in a co-dependent relationship, because its smothering. Its common among married couples. It drives men into their man-caves to escape it.
Inter-Dependent Relationship
This is the I want you to want me relationship. Couples in an inter-dependent relationship are self-reliant and share a mutual intimate bond. Its a common relationship among successful independent adults, because its a mature relationship style. Its based on a mutual respect for each other. You dont weaken each other by catering to each others insecurities. Its a strong relationship that has the following characteristics: The partners share intimacy, ideas, bonding and common interests when together. They are independent and autonomous when apart. Consult their partner to make decisions that affect both partners. One partner can make decisions that only affect himself/herself without asking permission of the other. They give each other the gift of missing each other by spending time apart. Respecting your partners need to spend time with others without you.
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Chicks that like inter-dependent relationships have very few girlfriends. Theyre not insecure, so they dont need a support group of co-dependent girlfriends. Co-dependent girlfriends typically provide bad relationship advice, so an inter-dependent woman wont seek their advice. Men & women are happiest in inter-dependent relationships.
Relationship Style for Dating Around

Keeping multiple women happy when dating around can seem like a daunting task, but its not as difficult as you may think. The man sets the relationship style - not the woman. You must be an alpha-male leader and set relationship tone & boundaries early. You have to build an inter-dependent relationship with all of your women. Dating each girl just a couple of times per week is a good balance. This allows enough time and space to date others. Contact her just a few times in between dates not daily. Give her the gift of missing you. Remember attraction is built in the take-away. You both will look forward to seeing each other, because you miss each other. She will value the time she spends with you, so petty arguments are less likely. You may notice that couples that smother each other bicker constantly.
Handling Co-Dependent Women

Beware of controlling women that push for a co-dependent relationship. You have to set firm boundaries early. Head off her demands immediately. Here are some examples. Her: Why did it take 4 hours to return my call? You: Im very busy, so Im not always easy to get a hold of. Her: Youre going out with your friends Friday instead of spending time with me? Are your friends more important than me? You: I dont choose friends over girlfriends or vice versa. Im loyal to everyone special in my life. Her: When were together its great. But when were apart, I feel so disconnected. You: I wish I could see you more, but Im very busy. I look forward to seeing you soon. She doesnt realize it, but she is miserable in co-dependent relationship. You have to save her from herself in this case. Its counter-intuitive that she would push so hard for a relationship style that will make her unhappy, but you have to keep her from derailing inter-dependence. Maintaining an inter-dependent relationship is in the best interest of both of you.
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Breaking Up the Right Way

Expect commitment pressure. Typically 3 months into the relationship, shell push to take it to the next level. Shes been socially programmed to do so. Women always seem to want to advance it forward. While guys want to keep it as is. This will often come in the form of an ultimatum. She wont see you anymore unless youre exclusive. Shell threaten to break up with you if you dont stop dating around. Or she may ask to move in with you. At this point you have 3 options: 1. Agree to be in a committed relationship with her. If you agree to this, then youll have to Break Up the Right Way with the other women youre dating. Breaking Up the Right Way will get rid of the other girls hassle-free without pain and suffering. Otherwise, if you dont Break Up the Right Way with the other girls, it could create problems for you and your new girlfriend. 2. Call her bluff. She doesnt really want to break up with you. After all, shes trying to get you to commit to her. Therefore, shes crazy about you. Tell her youre not ready for a committed relationship, but still want to see her. If she goes through with it and breaks up with you, follow Getting Back On Track in Breaking Up the Right Way to use it to your advantage. This method will get her back with little effort, and she will be even more attracted to you. 3. Break up with her. Break Up the Right Way and continue dating other women. Make sure you Break Up the Right Way instead of following mainstream break up advice. Mainstream break up advice always leads to blow-back after you dump her.
Blow-back
If you follow mainstream break up advice, then youve probably experienced blow-back. Blow-back is the fall out after youve dumped her. Youve made her feel like a fool, so shes going to make you pay. She will tear you down to make herself look good. Shell wreck your reputation to ruin your chances of dating others within your social circle. If she can't have you, she'll do what she can to stop other chicks from wanting you. She will invent lies to paint you in the worse possible light. She may even try to sabotage your job and friendships. She may stalk you. Even worse, she may stalk your new girlfriend. Its a bad situation. Have you ever run into your ex-girlfriend after a bad break up? Its incredibly awkward. She's a ticking time-bomb about to make an embarrassing scene. You cant wait to get away from her. Without knowing how to Break Up the Right Way, you are vulnerable to blow-back which may potentially ruin your life long-term.
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Breaking Up the Right Way

Breaking Up the Right Way is a fool proof system to break up painlessly. In this course you will learn: How to avoid all the common break up mistakes. How to convert girlfriends into friends. How to remain friends with everyone in her social circle. How to move onto new girlfriends without hurting her. How to leave the door open to hook up with ex-girlfriends. How women break up with you without you knowing about it. Mastering pickup is only half the game. What do you do when you're no longer attracted to her? There are plenty of courses that teach pickup, but Breaking Up the Right Way is the first to teach break up. As you become more successful at pickup, you will experience more break ups. Don't start a relationship knowing only half the game. Learn the best exit strategy that women use. That's right; this is a well guarded secret in the female community. Breaking Up the Right Way is how they end relationships, and you are about to learn it. Take the first step towards living free of break up pain. Start living a life full of friends instead of angry ex-girlfriends. Learn how to Break Up the Right Way.
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Conclusion
Following the Dating Multiple Chicks secret tips & tricks should accomplish the following: o o o o o o Satisfy your need to date multiple women. Maintain integrity without lying or deception. Provide women a fulfilling relationship. Date multiple chicks without upsetting their social circles. Date multiple chicks in a stress-free lifestyle. Know when to end relationships painlessly by Breaking Up the Right Way.
Both you and the women in your life will benefit from this dating method.
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