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Preface
There is a saying, 9:nce bitten, twice shy;! 3y first
marriage was a gross fai"ure and the wearer a"one knows
where the shoe pinches! &n this book & wi"" guide you not to
take those wrong steps which & took, resu"ting in a tota"
catastrophe!
Peop"e "ike me know the honeymoon of rupture! &t is a""
too short and soon you dec"ine into that morass of
disi""usion and depression, which was a"" & knew of
marriage! <owe#er, when you carefu""y se"ect based on
se#era" princip"es and ha#ing know"edge of the physio"ogy
of se=, your brida" honeymoon shou"d b"ossom into the
perfect f"ower of an idea" marriage!
Yogendra Datt
Chapter 1
3arriage in Christian ci#i"isations is often a fai"ure! :n that
point there can be no manner of doubt! &t can be the gate of
an earthy 7den, but it is, in fact, often a he"" of torment!
Then shou"d we abo"ish marriage>
3any #oices ha#e c"amoured for its destruction, but
they ha#e not shown a more e=ce""ent way! 3arriage is a
scared institution! &t is &$D&)P7$)A'(7 to the socia"
order and A'):(?T7(Y necessary to the interests of
chi"dren!
&t offers the on"y 0e#en though re"ati#e1 security to the
woman;s "o#e of "o#e, and of gi#ing in "o#e! /or a"" these
reasons, and a"so the permanence of monogamous "o#e
unions, marriage needs to be in "ine with the se=ua"
e#o"ution of two indi#idua"s!
3uch is suffered in and through marriage! <owe#er,
without marriage, humanity wou"d ha#e to suffer much
more! The four cornerstones of the temp"e of "o#e and
happiness in marriage are@
11 A right choice of marriage partner
.1 A good physio"ogica" attitude of the partners, both
to the wor"d in genera" and to each other
,1 A so"ution to the prob"em of parentage which meets
the wishes of both partners
*1 A #igorous and harmonious se= "ife
3arriage is at once a concession and a demand! &f it is
to thri#e there must be a constant for the other partner! &ts
greatest peri" is boredom A "one"iness of mind and heart A in
which case the woman genera""y suffers more acute"y that
her partner! The man who condemns his wife in such a
condition causes much more pain and inBury than tyranny
and #io"ent bruta"ity!
The "ink between husband and wife is reinforced,
especia""y, when it is possib"e for her to stand shou"der to
shou"der with him in his "ife work, and to be an efficient
he"per mate! Perhaps this is the reason why we find such
comparati#e"y happy marriages among sma"" trades peop"eC
where the woman often he"ps by ser#ing in the shop or
among artisans where she often 9"ends a hand with the Bob;!
9A man shou"d make it his business to "et his wife
participate in his work, shou"d take an interest in her
difficu"ties, shou"d guide her acti#ities, reassure her
timidities and doubts!;
)e= is the foundation of marriage! Yet most married
peop"e do not know the A'Cs of se=! The a#erage husband
does not e#en know that his wife;s se=ua" sensations
de#e"op and cu"minate to a s"ower rhythm than his own! <e
does not know at a"" that he must awaken her with de"icate
consideration and adaptation! <e cannot understand why the
<indu women, used to the se=ua" assiduity and ski"" of their
own man, mock the c"umsy 7uropeans as 9#i""age cocks;!
/rom the woman;s point of #iew 9A man must be good
in bed, ha#e money, he does not necessari"y ha#e to be good
"ooking! <is occasiona" drinking is a"so acceptab"e! <e must
know how to make "o#e;! And if erotic genius does not
characterise him, the man needs e=p"icit know"edge if he is
capab"e of inspiring such desire and imparting such Boy! The
ensuing chapters may be of he"p to him here!
Chapter 2
The Look of Love
)he;s smi"ing at you so she must "ike you, right> $ot
necessari"y! )o what the he"" is she thinking> <o"d on guys!
You;re about to enter into the comp"e= "abyrinth that is the
fema"e mind!
Desearch from the ?ni#ersity of Phi"ade"phia has shown
that within seconds of meeting a guy, most women can te""
whether they "ike him and Budge their potentia"
compatibi"ity! 3ost of their decision is based on
information they gather within the first three seconds of
their meeting! 3eaning, once you catch a g"impse of the
woman you;re interested in, you "itera""y ha#e on"y seconds
to make some sort of mo#e!
The Eye Lock
This is that first 5uick g"ance she gets from you that
registers in her brain@ 9<e "ikes what he sees;! 7nough
cannot be said about how important it is to get it right!
)tand up ta"", puff up your chest a "itt"e, and fee" good about
yourse"f as you "ook o#er her way! Eeep your ga%e strong
but re"a=ed, and try to a#oid anything that gi#es off the
appearance of creepiness or arrogance! Eeep your eyes on
her and on"y her! 3ake her fee" "ike she;s the most beautifu"
thing you;#e e#er seen! Deep down, a"" women "o#e the
fantasy of "o#e at first sight! /eed it for a moment, e#en if
it;s Bust going to be "ust!
Initial Contact
The way you introduce yourse"f is essentia" for making a
good first impression! After your initia" meeting, offer your
hand for a so"id shake! 8o for something firmer than your
deadFfish handshake, but gent"er! Touch sets off a
tremendous unconscious physica" reaction in a woman, so
it;s important that it be appropriate and sensua"! :ften, with
friends, shaking hands wi"" seem too forma"! &nstead, tip
your head s"ight"y and go for a smi"e that says, 9You can
approach me, &;m interested in you;! 6hate#er you do,
don;t "ean in for an air kiss if she doesn;t first!
Sweet Talk
&t may seem counterintuiti#e to pu"" off especia""y if you;re
an outgoing guy, but once you;#e gone past the
introduction, it;s time to shut up! Desist the urge to interrupt
her when she;s ta"king or te""ing a story! 3ost dayFtoFday
con#ersations in#o"#e a good amount of back and forth
banter, but that;s e=act"y what you don;t want when it
comes to your first time getting to know someone! &nstead,
"isten to whate#er she has to say, and ask 5uestions that wi""
draw her out more and make her fee" that you;re rea""y
interested in what she;s saying! After a"", that is what this is
about@ her, her and <7DG )he is fascinating, you are star
struck A or at "east that;s the impression you want her to
ha#e! (augh at her Bokes! Comment on how funny, witty,
origina" and pretty you think she is! 3ake her think she is
the se=iest woman a"i#e!
Steering the Conversation
As she;s ta"king, keep these three ru"es in mind@
1! /ind common bonds
.! )tay humb"e
,! 'e kind
Courtesy and manners often rank higher on the sca"e of
what women want than good "ooks and charm! Yes, we sti""
want a set of we""Ftoned bones at the end of the day, but a
few p"eases and thank yous a"ong the way are Bust going to
make se= that much better in the end!
Cruise Control
You;#e caught her attention, didn;t get shot down with your
pickFup "ine, and ha#e carried on a con#ersation with her for
at "east fi#e minutes! &f you;#e gotten to this point, things
"ook good! A"" you ha#e to do now is not mess up! That
means not making the wrong mo#e or sticking your foot in
your mouth! )o, no g"ancing at her friend;s c"ea#age, not
ta"k of po"itics or women;s issues A in fact, no discussion of
anything contro#ersia" at a""! At this point you shou"d a"so
start "ooking for signs that she wants to take things further!
Perhaps she;s "etting you work her away from a group of
friends at the bar! :r she;s "etting you brush your knee
a"ong hers without mo#ing it away! Things "ike that are not
accidents! 6omen are a"ways keen"y aware of where their
friends are positioned in the room, and e=act"y where your
body is in re"ation to theirs!
Postscript
6here things start to go from here is up to you! 6hate#er
your goa"s are for the e#ening A stea"ing some kisses or Bust
asking for digits A if she;s stayed with you for this "ong,
you;re in the running tough guy, so don;t b"ow itG
Love and appiness
(ife is dominated by the urge of se"fFpreser#ation and by
the se=ua" urge! &n a woman the "onging to maternity, the
9cry for the chi"d;, can be obser#ed in most women! The
de#e"opment in men is difference! The idea" figure of the
be"o#ed 0man or woman1 is mode""ed by the thought of
imagination, as we"" as the meeting with the idea" in human
form, breathing, #isib"e, tangib"e, f"esh and b"ood! A first
shy and sto"en meeting A a word, a "ook, gi#en and returned
A the immorta" f"ame shoots upward! (o#e is born with a
sense of indescribab"e e=a"tation and Boy! And the impu"se
of approach sub"imated into "o#e, now unfo"ds itse"f more
and more frank"y and fu""y! &t thri#es and puts forth "ea#es
and buds and genera""y the "o#ers attain fu"" union and
communion! &n that moment when youth of mind are
fu"fi""ed in and by one another, the impu"se to approach and
the desire for consummation find each other and merge into
a new integrated emotion! (o#e has come of age, and is in
f"ower now! $ow, and now on"y, can it b"oom a"" right!
(o#e, which has unfo"ded both its highest potentia"ities
of Boy and of dignity and mora" #a"ue through marriage, can
permanent"y b"ess both partners! &t can do so, but how often
do the faintest fee"ings fade, the most so"emn intentions
subside> 9The spirit is wi""ing but the f"esh is weak and
sometimes e#en the spirit does not remain wi""ing for "ong!;
&ncompatibi"ity of temperament and out"ook may add up
to a "ong "ist of dangers, difficu"ties and disasters, but the
resu"t can on"y be appreciated by those who e=perience this
themse"#es!
/or the fundamenta" difficu"ty is this@ that as soon as
se=ua" attraction is e=tinguished, se=ua" repu"sion and
enmity manifests itse"f! /or there is such a thing as enmity
and repu"sion between the se=es, at "east, among human
beings! &t can become systematic hosti"ity and intense
hatred! &n marriage it is a perpetua" menace, especia""y
because in its ear"ier stage at "east it so se"dom reaches the
fu"" consciousness and re#ea"s its true nature! &n this
perpetua" combat between se=ua" attraction and e5ua""y
instincti#e se=ua" repu"sion there are on"y two ways of
preser#ing the happiness and permanence of the union! The
finest and strongest a"truistic emotion, first and foremost,
and then the prompt and constant enhancement of the
attracti#e factors, so that antipathy remains dormant and has
no opportunity to de#e"op!
Chapter !
General Human Sexual Physiology
9(o#e; means taking p"easure in seeing, touching,
percei#ing, with e#ery sense and the c"osest possib"e
contact, someone whom we find "o#e"y and who "o#es us!
"ature and Personal #dours
Persona" 5ua"ities are of great significance in the association
of se=ua" emotion with the sense of sme""! 'oth se=es deri#e
great p"easure from the #arious scent e=ha"ed by the body of
"o#e! A"so persona" emanation e=ha"ed by the hair and the
who"e skin of the be"o#ed being can be a source of p"easure!
96hat is a kiss>; said one who was e=perienced adept in
"o#e! 9&s it not a fer#ent attempt to absorb, to breathe in, a
portion of the being whom we "o#e>;
&n both men and woman there is a specific
characteristica""y se=ua" odour of the genita" organ! The
norma" genita" odours e=ercise an attraction o#er norma"
persons of the opposite se=! 'ut this form of attraction can
on"y come into p"ay when the coup"e has attained a
considerab"e se=ua" intimacy!
The genita" odour is stronger in women than in men!
6hen the who"e organism is stimu"ated and ready for
intercourse, this odour increases the "ubricating secretions
of the accessory g"ands of the #u"#a!
Perfu$es and the Se%ual I$pulse
The typica" mascu"ine scent is pro#ided by nature, in musk!
The substance is secreted on"y by the adu"t ma"e musk deer,
in specia" g"ands in c"ose pro=imity of the genita"s! 3usk is
used more e=tensi#e"y in perfumers than it is genera""y
supposed to be! &t is one of the most strong"y odourous
substances known to us, and shou"d be used in strong
di"ution and combination with other scents! (a#ender is an
e=ce""ent deodoriser for women! &t neutra"ises a too
pronounced specific odour of the fema"e genita" organs!
After se#era" years in the research "ab, a new fema"e
aphrodisiac is to be a#ai"ab"e soon! 'i""ed as the woman;s
#ersion of Hiagra, &ntrinsa re"eases testosterone through a
patch on the fema"e stomach or bottom, stimu"ating the
desire for se=! 6omen who underwent tria"s with the drug
reported ha#ing 9saucy thoughts;!
&ision
6ith #ery few e=ceptions, it is the sense of sight that gi#es
the first impression between the se=es! :f this we can be
decisi#e and conc"usi#e! 9'eauty "ies in the eyes of the
beho"der!;
7#eryone knows the importance of making a good first
impression! :ur first impressions are formed within the first
two seconds of an encounter but resu"t from the e#a"uation
of numerous c"ues!
Positi#e factors inc"ude maintaining eye contract,
smi"ing and showing appreciation of others and maintaining
f"uency in con#ersation!
<ow we e#a"uate these 9impressions; can #ary! )ome
psycho"ogists be"ie#e that it;s neither first nor "ast
impressions but weighted a#eraging that countsC we
assimi"ate a"" the information we ha#e about a person, and
then produce an a#erage! $egati#e information is gi#en
s"ight"y more weight than positi#e information and a
negati#e first impression is s"ight"y more difficu"t to change
than a positi#e one!
/ashions in fema"e beauty come and go, but the
desirabi"ity of a s"im waist remains a constant! Dosebud "ips
and mi"k comp"e=ions ha#e had their days as idea"s of
beauty, whi"e the high cheekbones pri%ed in women today
were considered ug"y in the Hictorian era!
P"umpness was a sought after attribute in the 17th and
18th centuries, but the s"immer figure has since come to
fore! Discernib"e waists, howe#er, are the one feature of the
fema"e form that has a"ways been in demand! 6aist"ines,
they said, were an easi"y recognised sign of ferti"ity and
hea"th, and men e#o"#ed to associate narrowness with
desirabi"ity!
'reasts
A man is particu"ar"y attracted by a woman;s fu"" and fine"y
formed breasts and a woman by a man;s ta"" stature and
powerfu" bui"d!
'reasts throughout time ha#e been regarded as the
feature most connected with romance, or perhaps eroticism,
but there was a "ack of unanimity about what shape they
shou"d take! )ome said sma"", others said big, whi"e most
defined them best as rounded!
"ipples
The se=ua" sensibi"ity of the mammary g"ands, especia""y
the nipp"es, is of particu"ar intensity and importance! 8ent"e
kneading, rubbing and s5uee%ing of these g"ands with the
pa"m of the hand is sufficient in most women to arouse
se=ua" e=citement! &f the nipp"e is further stimu"ated, either
by manipu"ation with the fingers, or e#en more with suction
by the "ips and tongue, it causes the who"e breasts to swe""!
Thus we conc"ude that the sense of touch is the most
important of a"" the senses in se=ua" matters!
Chapter (
Female Genital Organ
The fema"e genita" organs are di#ided into interna" and
e=terna"! The e=terna" genita"s are #isib"e if the woman "ies
on her back and her "egs and outer "ips of #agina are
separated 0see diagram1! The thick and f"eshy outer "ips are
surrounded with hairs and genera""y touch each other in
women who ha#e not borne chi"dren!
The Clitoris
This is the foremost organ contained in the pubic c"eft and
is furnished with a g"and or tip which protrudes s"ight"y and
is situated between the upper edges of the outer "ips of the
#agina! The c"itoris is an organ of #o"uptuous sensation
e=c"usi#e"y! 7#en the s"ightest contact and more especia""y
a "ight and gent"e contact, here arouses acute sensations of
p"easure! 7#en in #irgins the c"itoris can become en"arged
and acti#e, if they themse"#es are practicing masturbation!
11 (ine of groin! .1 Pubis 0Mons veneris1! ,1 (ine of thigh! *1 /oreskin of the
c"itoris 0Praeputium clitoridis1! 41 )haft and tip of c"itoris 0Corpus and glans
clitoridis1! +1 The Frenulum clitoridis which connects the tip and the prepuce,
enc"osed in the preputia" sack! 71 Dim and inner surface of the outer "ips or labia
majora 0doub"e1! 81 :rifice of the fema"e urethra 0Ostium urethrae1! 1 :rifice of
the sma""er or minor #estibu"ar g"and, otherwise )kene;s g"and 0doub"e1! 1-1 Dim
and inner surface of the inner "ips or labia minora 0doub"e1! 111 Hestibu"e or
vestibulum vaginae, that is the entire space between the two inner "ips! 1.1
Anterior wa"" of the front passage or #agina, protruding into the orifice! 1,1
7ntrance to the #agina 0Introitus vaginae1! 1*1 :rifice of the "arger or maBor
#estibu"ar g"and, or 'artho"in;s g"and 0doub"e1! 141 Anterior rim and outer surface
of the hymen or maidenhead, #ertica""y "ined! 1+1 Posterior wa"" of the front
passage, or #agina 0on"y #isib"e after the destruction of the hymen1! 171 Frenulum
labiorum, which connects the inner "ips! 181 Perineum, between the outer "ips and
the anus! 11 anus! .-1 Posterior perineum! .11 Tip of spine 0Coccyx or Os
coccyges1! ..1 'uttocks of nates!
Chapter )
natomy o! Male Sexual Organ
Penis A the penis; foremost portion is between and 1- cm
"ong and proBects or rather hangs "oose"y! The main portion
of the penis is composed of ho""ow or ca#ernous tissue, that
is, a spongy network of b"ood #esse"s, which become
stretched and tense when congested!
Erection
6hen the stimu"ation proceeds from the centra" ner#ous
system 0brain1 the erection begins through the increased
f"ow of b"ood into the #eins! The process of erection
transforms the soft, sma"", drooping penis 0which in a
passi#e state cou"d not possib"y perform the se=ua" act1 into
a stiff, firm, yet e"astic instrument! &t is perfect"y adopted
for pouring out its semina" "i5uid into the furthest recesses
of the fema"e parts! 3oreo#er, in norma" cases, the "ength
and circumference of the erect ma"e member wi""
comp"ete"y fi"" the #agina if penetration is not 5uite up to
the 9height or root;! The "ength of the #isib"e shaft of the
penis in erection is between 1* and 1+ cm! &ts
circumference is, on a#erage, 1. cm! 6hen the erection has
attained its height due to stimu"i, it wi"" re"a= and the b"ood
f"ow wi"" dec"ine! As e=tra b"ood "ea#es the penis a great
fee"ing of refreshment is "eft through the se=ua" union! This
strengthens the woman in other ways as we"" by increasing
the amount of interna" secretions and through psychic
channe"s!
9<e who maintains that he "o#es without desire is
incapab"e of an erection;!
11 Abdomina" wa""! .1 Peritoneum! ,1 6a"" of b"adder! *1 Ca#ity of b"adder! 41
Pubic bone of symphysis! +0 )eed reser#oir 0dup"e= or bi"atera"1! 71 $eck of
b"adder with constrictor musc"e! 81 "esicula seminalis 0semina" #estic"e bi"atera"1!
1 Prostrate g"and! 1-1 ?rethra" crest, Bunction of semina" ducts! 111 #rethraC here
is the point of Bunction between anterior and posterior urethra! 1.1 Cowper;s g"and,
with its duck 0dup"e= or bi"atera"1! 1,1 'u"b of the urethra 0$ulbus urethra1! 1*1
Musculus bulbocavernousdus% which takes main part in eBacu"ation! 141 "as
de!erens &duplex'! 1+1 Corpus cavernosum urethrea! 171 <ead of the epididymis
0dup"e=1! 181 (estis 0dup"e= or bi"atera"1! 11 )kin of the back of the penis! .-1
Corpus cavernosum penis! .11 7n"argement of urethra Bust behind its orifice! ..1
Appendage or tai" of the epididymis where it Boins semina" duct! .,1 Scrotum,
containing the testic"es! .*1 Dim of the foreskin, Frenulum proeputisC on"y #isib"e
if the foreskin is drawn back! .41 :rifice of the urethra, or Ostium urethra! .+1 Tip
of Glans penis! .71 Preputia" sac! .81 /oreskin or prepuce!
Chapter *
Sexual Intercourse
Comp"ete se=ua" intercourse comprises the touching and
kissing, the "o#e p"ay, the se=ua" union and the after p"ay!
At the conc"usion of se=ua" union or intercourse begins the
afterg"ow, which may be comp"ete"y neg"ected by coup"es
who do not tru"y understand or fee" "o#e for one another! &n
such cases ha#ing attained satisfaction, both man and
woman turn away from each other, if on"y for a time! 6hen
a"i#e in both intense"y passionate such that after p"ay
becomes a #ery important part of se=ua" "ife! The most
important instrument used to begin se=ua" intercourse is
con#ersation, or the e=change of impressions and ideas
usua""y fo""owed by an erotic kiss! The greatest penetration
in kissing comes from the tongue, which is indispensab"e in
erotic kisses! &t is most capti#ating when the tip of the
tongue #ery "ight"y and gent"y titi""ates the be"o#ed;s tongue
and "ips! )uch kisses can further mo#e on to mouth and
breast and especia""y erogenous areas, from forehead and
temp"e downwards! :#er the cheeks and throatC from
fingertips a"ong the pa"m and armsC from the ank"es up to
the thighs steadi"y increasing as the genita" organs are
approached! The breasts are erotica""y and conspicuous"y
attracti#e! The mere touch to this portion of a woman;s
body increases desire! 6omen desire their breasts to be
admired and fond"ed! 6hen the "o#ers ha#e not become
5uite accustomed and attuned to one another a considerab"e
amount of time shou"d be gi#en to kisses, touches and
s5uee%es to breasts and nipp"es! This shou"d be done before
genita"s are touched! &t can resu"t in a fai"ure of erection if
you try to rush to intercourse!
/or satisfying intercourse, stroking and c"asping of the
accessory organs is necessary, the hand shou"d "ight"y and
timid"y brush the abdomen, the inner thighs and the hips!
:n"y by cautious approach push the penis into the #agina!
At this point begins the stage in the "o#e drama known
as "oca" stimu"ation! The charm of reciprocity is important!
A satisfying intercourse shou"d be "ike a piston mo#ing
backward and forward with an e5ua" effort on the part of the
wife! The man shou"d ha#e "ightning response to her cries!
&n genera" women re5uire "onger time and a wider range
of stimu"i than men do, in order to attain cu"mination of
p"easure or orgasm! Pro"onged stimu"ation during the
intercourse cyc"e can resu"t in orgasm for the woman and
eBacu"ation of semina" f"uid at the height of p"easure!
+enital Sti$ulation or +enital ,iss
3uch marita" unhappiness is attributed to the apparent
se=ua" frigidity of the wife! This cou"d be a#oided or
pre#ented by genita" stimu"ation or a genita" kiss! 8enita"
kiss is considered ug"y for the coup"e who ha#e ne#er tried
before! 8enita" kissing, with up and down motion of the "ips
inside the #agina 0"ike "icking1 arouses immense p"easure as
a resu"t of natura" moisture in the #agina and by the sa"i#ary
g"ands! &t is said that e#en the most frigid woman who has
ne#er had se=ua" intercourse becomes #ery acti#e in this
kind of union! 8enita" kissing and "icking the c"itoris and
the woman ho"ding the penis sucking into her mouth with
up and down motion is "ike getting a rocket ready to be
fired! )omeone has compared the #agina of a woman to a
furnace where biscuits and bread are baked! You cannot Bust
put your biscuits into the furnace whene#er you p"ease!
Your furnace needs to be at the perfect fiery temperature for
your biscuits to rise!
& continue to stress the use of genita" kissing and "icking
to ha#e the best orgasm resu"t! This type of stimu"ation has
many ad#antages! /irst of a"", "ack of "oca" secretion ceases
to be a drawback and e#en becomes an ad#antage!
)econd"y, the acuteness of the p"easure it e=cites and the
#ariety of tacti"e sensation it pro#ides is immeasurab"e! That
se=ua" e=citement and desire reach such a point that e#en by
these means a"one mind and bodi"y readiness hera"d the
commencement of se=ua" intercourse! &t is successfu" and
satisfying for both partners! &t is a pity that because of "ack
of know"edge most young married coup"es ha#e ne#er
e=perienced this #o"uptuous p"easure!
Chapter -
$eginning and )nding o! Intercourse
)e=ua" intercourse is the third act in the "o#e drama! &t
begins with the insertion of the ma"e penis, the erect and
acti#e organ, into the fema"e #agina! &t reaches cu"mination
in the eBacu"ation of semen into the #agina, and in the
appro=imate"y simu"taneous orgasm or peak of enBoyment
in both partners! &t ends when the penis is remo#ed from
#agina! &n order to reach the acme of p"easure, a succession
of stroking or thrusting mo#ements takes p"ace! As the
penis is rubbed and pressed against the fo"ds and pads of the
#agina" wa""s, the ner#es of the ma"e organ and especia""y of
its tip the organ becomes so stimu"ated that tension is
fina""y re"ie#ed in the spina" ref"e= discharge of eBacu"ation!
6hen eBacu"ation occurs, the p"easurab"e sensation
continues in the form of satisfied re"a=ation and re"ief!
. point of attention@ &f the wife is sti"" ine=perienced it
may take rather "ong before a woman who has neither a
strong se=ua" temperament nor pre#ious e=perience to be
educated to a fu"" erotic efficiency! The ma"e and fema"e
organs both dispense and recei#e further stimu"ation
through mutua" friction, as they are mo#ed to and fro by his
coita" mo#ements and occasiona""y by hers a"so! These
stimu"i are reciproca"! &t may a"so specia""y e=cite the
c"itoris as it brushes against the penis during intercourse!
The impact of the first Bet of f"uid against the urethra" wa""s
may gi#e the signa" for orgasm! The stimu"i the man
recei#es are heightened by the responsi#e mo#ements of the
woman!
Then the force of the semina" Bet sudden"y drops, owing
to the diminished supp"y of f"uid! The ref"e= dec"ines in
force and the ecstatic p"easure fades s"ow"y at first then
rapid"y ti"" both are at an end!
/eproduction0 Child1earing and Child1irth
The mechanisms of reproductionC process of conception,
chi"dbearing, and chi"dbirth are particu"ar"y important to the
wife and usua""y of e5ua" importance to the husband who is
concerned for the good hea"th of mother and chi"d!
&aginal Inse$ination
The ma"e eBacu"ated his semina" f"uid into the #agina or
near the entrance of the uterus and within a few minutes the
spermato%oa 0sperm1 enter the uterine cana"! 6hen the
semina" f"uid is first eBacu"ated it is ge"atinous in character
and it takes se#era" minutes before it "i5uefies! :nce it
becomes "i5uid the sperm ce"" begins to mo#e rapid"y and
soon enters the uterus! )perms can tra#e" about an eighth of
an inch in a minute in about se#en to eight minutes! A
6oman shou"d continue to "ie on the bed for 1- minutes
after intercourse for the sperm to reach the egg!
Conception
The sperms enter the tubes on each side and mo#e on or are
carried a"ong toward the tubu"e passages! &f an egg is
present in the tube at this time, some form of biochemica"
attraction is set up which causes the spermato%oa to swarm
around the egg unti" one of them enters the egg ce""! This
union of the sperm and egg is ca""ed ferti"isation and marks
the moments of conception!