How to Meet Women on Facebook by DThomas

Introduction
With the digital revolution and the rise of the internet, the world is more connected than it has ever been. Consequently, there has been a huge flux of social networking websites such as Facebook that allow people to communicate with one another with the simple touch of a mouse. And with communication there is always the ability to create attraction. In this E-book I discuss a step by step strategy for meeting women on Facebook. After extensive trial and error, this strategy has come to together as the most effective way to meet women from this particular demographic. Of course with any type of interactive process, this strategy is not infallible. Every women is different and every interaction generates at least some unique quality. But thats the beauty of this game First things first If you dont have a Facebook account, go to Facebook.com and set one up. Its free and takes no longer than 5 minutes to set up. Secondly This system makes usage of cold approaches where you have no prior relationship with the girl you are gaming. This doesnt imply that you cant game girls on Facebook that you have met before. You can and you should but this book wont cover that.

Step 1:Create an attractive profile

Because a women cannot actually see you in the flesh, a great deal of a womens initial judgment of you is going to come from your profile page. For an attractive women to even consider communicating with you online, you must display some sort of value. You need to show that you are a cool guy. You can do this by creating a profile that screams you are high value male who get what he wants and has all the women he wants. To get a women believing you are high value guy she has to see you in action, so to speak. More specifically your profile needs pictures. Particularly ones that show you are fun, cool guy. Basic evolutionary theory assumes men and women are driven by very old and very primitive drives that have a central goal of surviving and keeping the genes alive. As a result, women are drawn towards men (even if they arent aware of it) who actively display they are the leader of men, socially aligned, wealthy (or at least can provide a good life), humorous, and live an active lifestyle. Fortunately, you can display all of these qualities in your photos. This includes pictures of you with women (the more attractive, the better). It can include pictures of you with friends. It can include pictures of you traveling (worldliness can be substituted for experience). It can include pictures taken in exclusive places with exclusive people. The more pictures you have, the better. If you go to a persons profile and see they appear in 1000 photos, you dont need to see all of them to know that this person is a actor in life and not a spectator. In reality, you dont necessarily have to be a superstar. You just want to appear that way. (Side note: If you are lacking in this department, go out and buy yourself a small digital

camera. I think you can get them for as cheap as $125. Take it everywhere you go. In time, you will build up a good amount of photos you can post on your page. You can also hop into pictures from other peoples cameras. A good majority of the pictures on my profile are in fact photos someone else took but tagged me in. In terms of the photos where Im not looking so hot, I might untag them. Put your best foot forward and always have more attractive photos than unattractive photos, period! If you dont know how to judge your looks, create a hotornot.com account and submit photos. People will let you know within a week or two which pictures are your best.) If you have some extra coin and youre an over achiever, theres another way to appear like youre a somebody. You can hire a professional photographer and do a photo shoot. If you want to take it step further, you can also hire models to be in the photos with you. It is by no means a necessity and if not done right can be a bit excessive and silly. But if done tactful it can make you appear pre selected by beautiful women. Filling in your personal information For areas that require you to fill in personal information you want to display you are a high value, fun, chill guy. The easiest way to do this is to include fun, interesting details about yourself in your profile. In your personal section its fine to list your actual interests and activities but avoid interests showing dependency, lack of social life and Star trek. These are unattractive qualities and will not score you points in the eyes of an attractive women. If you want to come off like an attractive person, you need to appear intriguing and interesting. A good way to do this is to string together an eclectic list of interests. For example I might write something like: Interests: Europe, hiking, running the Biz, chocolate, silk sheets, deep conversations, glasses of Pinot in the hot tub, guitar, pull ups, Stunna Shades, random unplanned roadtrips, Red Lights, Trees, popcorn, green tea, Audis, interpretive dancing, Jack Kerouac, long boarding in the wee hours, pita chips and hummus. Heres an example of a BAD interest section: (poor) INTERESTS: books, Halo 3, Second Life, programming, Star Trek, McDonalds, fishing, bowling. DONT DO THIS..KEEP IT INTERESTING!!! I have never found it helpful to put sexual themes in my personal section. A lot of guys do. It tends to give off the Im trying to be a player! attitude and knowing how skeptical women are already regarding strangers online, this is a first impression that I dont want her to have of me. Also cater to the type of women you wish to attract. If you are simply looking for a short term relationship, you should communicate you live an independent, free spirited, non committal lifestyle. Likewise if you are interested in a long term girlfriend you will want to display qualities that a committed boyfriend would have. Talking about things like smoking weed, chillin with homies, mackin bitches, and drinking till the sun comes up

wont have your future wife falling head over heals when she takes a gander at your bio. Some DONTs in the realm of filling in your personal Facebook Bios are DONT have misspelled words or incorrect grammar. You dont need to sound like Shakespeare just make sure you arent coming off as uneducated. You want to control every single variable that you can. If double check what you write you should be fine. DONT brag. It reflects insecurity more than anything else. Its fine to demonstrate you are person of value but there is a huge difference between showing you are a cool guy and overtly telling everyone how great you are. For example if you were to say I have so much money! you would come off as bragging. However, if you were to say I enjoy taking the yacht out to the coast you wouldnt be bragging but rather letting people know about an activity you enjoy and consequently that activity costs a lot of money. Also, when creating a profile it is fine to stretch the truth a tiny bit. If you say you are a sailing enjoy sailing even if youve only been once it wont make much difference in the relationship and how she feels about you. If you do stretch the truth and she bring it up, you can tell her that that was an inside joke between you and a friend. No harm, no foul! On the other side, you dont want a profile that is comprised solely of falsehoods. If she detects you are trying to be someone you are not, this will instantly raise her suspicion of you, which will make it much harder to create a connection with her. In setting my relationship status rarely do I check the box single. It is less threatening to the women if she sees you are In a relationship or Its complicated. Likewise it is better to say you are single than to say you are engaged or in an open relationship. Engagement is often perceived as literal online. If you do check you are engaged be willing to explain yourself because she will ask about it. The reason I dont like checking In an Open relationship is that it signals you are a player or at least trying to be a player. You want to keep her skepticism to a minimum. You can do this by not going this route. Setting your relationship status is not a make or break thing, but that doesnt mean you cant work it towards your advantage. Be Social Youve got to appear as social as possible. Add as many friends as you can. Acquaintances in real life should always be friends on Facebook no matter how long youve known each other. Ideally, you want your social network to be as large as possible. So add as many friends as you can. The exception to this rule is girls that you actually want to game. Dont add them. Adding them as friends implies you are interested in them. The same goes for poking. Attractive girls wont buy it so avoid doing it at all costs. The Wall An interesting fact about Facebook is that when you send someone a message they will send you a message back. If you write on their comment wall, they will write on your comment wall. Expect people to use identical mediums to communicate. The great thing

about wall comments is that they are viewable to anyone. If someone sees you have a 1000 people who have written on your wall, it shows you are social aligned and connected to a lot of people. As a result, your value goes up in their eyes. I love writing on peoples walls because I know they will write on mine. I make a point to write on all of my friends and distant friends walls partly because of this reason. Note: I also enjoy talking to my friends and being social. Im not just in it for self serving purposes. Nonetheless, write on peoples walls as often as possible and watch as the number of your wall comments increase. Joining Networks Unlike the many spammers or phishers on Myspace, Facebook prides itself on being Spam free. This is good in regards to the security of your account but bad in regards to meeting new people. For those of you who are unfamiliar with this idea, let me clue you in. As of right now, you can only view profiles that are within your social network/s. You can only be in two networks at any given time: your college/school network that is dictated by your primary email address(you need this to access your account) and your city network which you may join. You cannot view profiles of people who are outside your network/s. You are however, able to change city networks despite there being some restrictions for changing back. Just be aware of this. The good news is, unless a person has privatized their profile (a small amount of girls do) you can check out hundreds of thousands of girls profiles within your network and see what their all about. TRICK: If you want to view profiles within a network you are not a part of (universities, etc) find a good friend who is a part of that network. Get his account information so you can get into his account. Of course let him know why you are doing this and reassure him you wont do anything other than what is described next. In another window, access your account so that you have two Facebook accounts open. And what you will do is browse profiles using your friends account and message the girls from your account. Rarely do girls ever realize that you were outside of their network yet were able to see their profile. Its that easy! Selecting a Target To get started, if you look to the top left of your Facebook page you should see an ICON that says SEARCH. Click on that. It will bring you to a page with a series of options. CLICK on the ICON Browse. This will bring you to a page where you can modify your search. You should modify your search by checking the FEMALE sex preference. In terms of checking relationship status-you will get the best results when you only check the boxes-Single, In an Open relationship, or Its Complicated. Trying to spark something with Engaged, Married, or in a relationship is much harder and requires a tremendous amount of extra work. That doesnt mean it isnt possible. But if you are going invest time into this, why not make it as easy as possible. For the most part, you will need to see a girls profile before you send her a message. Often times, her default picture is not a strong enough indicator of what she looks like and what she is all about. Her bio will give you a glimpse of this. If you click the view photos of her name you will get a more balanced perspective on what she looks like and what kinds things she enjoys doing. The more information she has available, the easier it will be to game her. Be careful here though. Profiles can be deceiving and the

last thing you want is a psycho who wont leave you alone. Let your intuition guide you and you should be okay. In terms of the actual interaction at hand, Facebook game follows a similar structure of real life game -Open -Create Attraction -Qualification -Comfort /Rapport -Close

Step 2: Opening
The goal of opening is to get a response from her. If she doesnt message you back, you have been unsuccessful in opening her. If she does, you have successfully opened her. Its that black and white! When learning how to open, it would be wise to first go over the Do NOTs. Never show any interest right off the bat. As I mentioned already, this can include poking her or adding her to your friends list. You will also want to avoid opening by writing on her comment wall space where everyone can see. The exception to the rule is if you are already acquainted with her and have had some past interaction with her. If that is the case by all means comment on her photos and wall. Youve got nothing to lose in that arena. Your opening message should always be short. A long message may seem like it would be good because you can say a whole lot. But more than likely, the only thing she will see is how much time and effort you put into talking to her-a girl who you dont know. In her eyes, this puts up a red flag screaming CREEPER! More is not better. Keep it short and you reduce the chances of this happening. A sentence or two is optimal. To open, you should send her a message that is nondirect, and has no hints that you are even remotely interested in her. Like I said before, the purpose here is merely to get a response (neutral or positive). You arent trying to get her hot and bothered. You arent trying to make her your girlfriend. yet. The basic ingredients for a good Facebook opener consist of the following- observation, non-interest, and intrigue. Before you send her a message find something on her profile to comment on. More specifically, find something unique and even marginally uncool. For simplicity purposes well simply call this uncoolness an Indicator Of Disinterest or IOD(credit: Mystery). There are two functions of an IOD 1)It separates you from the average guy who compliments a girl at the first chance he gets and 2) It will let her know you are not trying to hit on her. Note: this does not mean you should be mean, rude, or disrespectful. Doing this will immediately raise the alarm bells and cause her to put your message in the trash. I like to think of an IOD as a tease or a means to poke fun of her in a playful way. Some excellent words to call girls that convey this are nerdy, goofy, goofball, goon squad, dorky, etc. Words such as these have relatively neutral

connotations and wont overly offend her yet will still demonstrate you arent just another horny guy. You can also start messages off by saying things like Ohh No!, Not again! , Not another! Etc) An IOD I often start off with may go something like this: Ohhh NO, A Harry potter lover! Thats so nerdy! Pairing IOIs with IODs If you want a consistent response from the girl, an IOD wont stand alone. It would not make sense for you to message someone to tell them how much you are not interested them. They would see through it instantly and assume that you were in fact trying to hit on them but doing it in a sneaky way. To get women to consistently respond to your opener you must pair a compliment or Indicator of Interest (IOI) with your Indicator of Disinterest. In other words, you must balance out your message and give a reason for why you actually messaged her. It doesnt have to be profound. In fact, it shouldnt be. You could say something as simple as I love it! thats awesome thats rad! you rock! etc If you take the previous example and add an IOI you will get this opener Ohhh NO, A Harry Potter lover. Thats so nerdy! I love it When you put the two statements together, it comes off as almost a linguistic contradiction. How can you hate something and love it at the same time? However, in online game, it really doesnt matter. Attractive women are rarely ever told how goofy, nerdy, or dorky they are. Instead they are told how beautiful, stunning, hot, funny, and sexy they are. When you message an attractive girl and the first thing you say is something that adheres to a side of her that isnt attractive, you will instantly have her attention. And when you compliment her unattractiveness it will only intrigue her more. CAUTION: Never tease a girl on something she shouldnt be teased for. For example, if you were to say Ohh wow, you like Rihanna. Thats so dorky. I love it! she would mostly likely be suspicious purely because liking Rihanna is not the least bit nerdy or dorky. Occasionally there will be little information available on her profile for you to make an IOD. If you face this dilemma, the next best bet is to comment on her hometown, or residence. It works much better if she is originally from a smaller town but occasionally it will still work if she is from larger areas . Ex. You could say ohh NO, not another (Podunkville) girl. Haha I love it! I encourage you to come up with your own openers based on this system. In time you will be able to generate original openers that work just as well as the ones I provide. First Moves Seeing as you are a high value guy (or at least acting as one), you really are too busy to fret around wondering if the person you messaged has messaged you back yet. This means even if you choose to check your inbox 6 times a day, there is no purpose in

messaging her back the second that you see inbox(1). In fact, a general guideline for messaging should consist of no more than one exchange a day on your part. This means that no matter how many times she sends you messages during the day, you only send her one. If you are sending her multiple messages a day, it reflects how much time you have on your hands and how little you are actually doing. As you become more acquainted with this type of game, youll find that extremely attractive, high quality girls wont message more than once a day. Generally a girls first message will be brief. This is especially the case with the more desirable girl who gets messages constantly from guys. Knowing this, dont expect to get a monologue that ends in her confessing her love to you. More often than not, she will still be a little suspicious of your intent. Here are some common responses you will get from girls hell ya (your initial IOI) rocks. Blah blah yea I love (your initial IOI. Blah blah who are you? --my least favorite response The more she reveals to you, the more information you will have to work with and incorporate into dialogue with her. Dont expect her to carry the conversation at any point in the interaction. In Facebook game, you are always leading and controlling the direction and outcome.

Step 3: Responding Message

Although the content of every single message you send is crucial, your first response message is the maker or breaker. And consequently, this is where most guys get it wrong. They key to your first response message is based purely on her first message. When creating your first response message you must ask yourself these questions: Could she still think Im trying to hit on her? What could I use to further capture her attention in a non- threatening way? How can I start shifting this conversation to a topic she is passionate about? More often than not, your first message will have disqualified you enough to get a response but not enough to keep it going. For this reason, unless she has displayed overt interest in the first message, you should throw a second IOD-IOI pair in your response message. Again, It should be authentic/playful and not too insulting. The first response message as well as every following message should end with you asking a question. Keep reading and you will find out how you can do this effectively.

Step 4: Creating Attraction

One of the biggest keys to getting Attraction on Facebook is getting her to reveal things about herself to you. Every little tidbit of information is useful and will help you generate an appropriate, attractive response. To get her to open up, you need to ask the right questions at the right times. Your initial questions should always be fun, playful, and not

too deep. Keep it informal and avoid coming off as an employer interviewing a potential employee. Thats what every other guy does and guess what? Its boring. Its uninteresting. And its unattractive. Not to mention, asking too heavy or irrelevant questions too early on could set off her creeper alarm. Here are some questions that are fun, playful and intriguing If you could go anywhere in the world right now, where would you go? If you had the power of invisibility, what would you do and where would go? If you were given a million dollars but only had 2 days to spend it, what would you do? Whats your super secret power? (credit: Mehow) Where is the craziest place youve ever been? If you could be any celebrity who would you be? Whats the craziest concert youve ever been to? And Im sure you can come up with a ton more The goal here is to get her more invested into you and the interaction. A lot of times, you can take her response and use it to create a little mini future projection, which is where you talk about something fun/funny the two of you will do together in the future. For example: if you ask her whats your super secret power? and she responds Id have the power of flight(most girls say this) you can say Yes and well fly across the ocean and ride elephants and kangaroos! Dont use this alone though! Keep reading! Demonstrating Value in Your Messages As I mentioned before, the last thing you want to do is brag about how awesome you are. You can and should however slip in little tidbits of information that allude to your awesomeness. And by awesomeness I am referring to the underlying qualities that women are drawn to- status, wealth, humor, worldliness, sophistication, non-neediness, social alignment, leader of men, etc. How do you convey these things? You make it appear accidental. To let a her know you are wealthy say something like Yea, remind me never to stay at the Four Seasons Hotel again. At least the ones where you find a hair in the room service food. Yuck! Let her know youre cultured: Yea I wish I could go back to Switzerland. The people are so friendly there. And the food is amazing. Yumm Let her know youre socially aligned: Yea last week was crazy. My buddies band was performing at Coachella and decided

to fly us all in to come watch. Good friends are priceless! As you can see, you want to hint at being a high value guy rather than just saying it. I will also occasionally tell a girl she is blowing her chances with me. I stole that line from David DeAngelo who uses it in face to face game. Its just as effective in Facebook game. It lets her know you are choosey when it comes to women-an attractive quality. Another thing you can do is leave holes in your stories and details about yourself. You want her wanting to know more and that will prompt her to ask you questions. How to tell if she is becoming attracted to you? Your number one indicator that she is becoming attracted to you comes in the form of her asking questions. If she starts asking you questions, she is becoming attracted to you. Another indicator that is a bit more passive but still an indicator. is when you see her messages becoming longer and more detailed. This means she is taking the time and care to talk to you.

Step 5: Qualification
While you are creating attraction, it is important make a girl qualify herself to you. It answers the question why does he like me? If she qualifies herself, she will know exactly why you are drawn towards her. To get a girl to qualify herself, you must prompt her to do so with questions. Ive already touched on asking questions a little bit and if you are wondering what the difference is between asking a qualifying question and asking one that will create attraction the answer is: they are basically the same. The only difference is that qualifying questions can be a bit more catered to who she is as a person and not just what her super secret power would be However, as long as she is answering questions you ask, she will be for the most part, qualifying herself. To get responses to questions consistently there is a little trick you can use Precede the question with a compliment related to the question you are asking. Ex. You seem like a spontaneous person. Whats the craziest place youve ever visited By giving her a compliment, it makes her feel good about herself. If you make her feel good, she will want to keep feeling good and as a result will continue to jump through your hoops and prove herself. This is the same way when dealing with any person in real life. God Bless human psychology. Especially when it applies to meeting women.

Step 6: Creating Comfort

More often than not, the line between you building attraction and developing rapport wont be clearly marked out. Much of the time they will happen simultaneously. But for simplicities sake, you should make an effort to build attraction before you build comfort. The key to creating comfort/rapport with a girl on Facebook lies within the two of you relating to one another. In essence, you want to find as much in common as possible.

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You also want to eliminate any lingering thoughts she may have about you being another internet creeper. This is the part when you can have a normal, genuine conversation and talk about the things you are passionate about. For me its friends, family, music, love, soccer, guitar, hiking etc -basically all of the intimate details that make me who I am. Family is huge and nearly all women resonate with that particular concept. I almost always talk about family to create some rapport and show her Im a good guy. Ex. Yea, Its my parents anniversary next week so Im thinking of flying them somewhere warm. Any ideas? Note that you should intermittently reward girls for qualifying themselves. This reward will come in the form of a compliment. Dont do this all the time or you will look like a tryhard. But when she reveals a deeper, more interesting part of herself, let her know. Thats so awesome you like X Thats so cool. Its rare to find a girl who likes X Or something along those lines If you are feeling sneaky you can take notice of emotional words or phrases she uses frequently and feed them back to her in your messages. This will strengthen the emotional connection between the two of you. Another trick you can utilize to build comfort is to plant her name in a message. If done not too often it can be effective in making her subconsciously believe the both of you have known each other for longer than you have. I generally wont do this more than once or twice in a thread. A couple examples are I dont know about you Sara! Erica, youre nuts!

Step 7: Seeding
There will come a time, maybe 7-12 messages deep where the conversation will peak and there wont be much more for the both of you to talk about. It could come down to where if you send her another message, it will seem as if you are trying to keep the interaction alive. This conveys neediness. Likewise, if you dont message her, the interaction dies then and there. This is why it so important to seed and close before it gets to this. A good clue that the interaction is about to peak is when she stops asking you questions. When this happens, you know it is time to seed and close. Seeding the interaction is slipping in a future event into normal conversation. A good amount of the time, you should start seeding at about 5 -6 messages in (depending on the interaction of course). I always seed the interaction with something that I plan on doing. It may be that Im

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throwing a party. It may be Im going to some fun event. Initially, I wont invite her. Ill just talk about it -maybe when Im talking about my friends or something. But as I start to see the interaction peak, Ill bring it back up and tell her she should come by. Note: the more you hype the event, the more interested she will be. Another note: You can do this even if you dont have an event or party to go to. If it becomes an issue later, you can say it was cancelled.

Step 8: Closing
Closing on Facebook is nearly always going to take the form of getting her phone number. Rarely is there ever enough comfort for a 1 on 1 meet up unless she is a psycho or extremely desperate. A number close allows you to transition to a mode of communication that enables you to build more comfort and eventually meet face to face. And if youre thinking, wait dont some girls already have their phone numbers on their profile? The answer is yes, but never the girls you would want to call. And even if you did call them, you would need some initial comfort for them to answer/talk to you. You are much better off getting a girls number off her personally. A recap here!! So Lets say youve done everything right up to this point. Youve opened. Youve built some attraction. Shes qualified herself to you. You two have a ton in common. She feels comfortable you are a good guy. You seed a future event and invite her by saying something like Yea you should totally come by! From this point in the interaction you will often get one of two responses 1. She will say YES and inquire about further details or 2. She will ask for more details regarding the event. Either case allows for a perfect opportunity to number close. You can say something like Yea I think its at X spot at X time but it might be subject to change. Ill tell you what Ill send you a text in the next day or two when I have all the details worked out. Whats your number? I love this close because it almost seems as if you are doing her a favor by taking her number. And even if you plan on calling her (which you should, always say text because its less obliging compared to a phone call. In fact, it actually requires the same amount of commitment as messaging on Facebook. Also, you are never asking if I can have her number. You are commanding What is your number? If youve done everything right up to this point, you will almost always get her number. If you get to this point and she denies giving you her phone number, you more than likely did something wrong earlier on and did not create enough comfort with her. Nonetheless, if she does this you can poke fun of her, offer her your number and ask for hers again. If that doesnt work send her another message giving a date and time where you will be somewhere and tell her to bring some friends and come by.

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Post Close After you get her number, you should still send her another message. You dont want her thinking you were just trying to get her number and thats it. Its the same in face to face game. A single fluff message will suffice. BELOW is a full thread from beginning to end of an interaction I had a few weeks back. Its not perfect, but it is a great example of this system being applied. For privacy purposes I changed the girls name and the location. Everything else is exactly verbatim from the thread. Enjoy!

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Ohhhh No, A Pooley girl. Haha I love it! Whats wrong with a poolley girl? Nothing at all.. I just know how to get down! :) -Jessica yah you guys get down with the cow tippin! but I must say you do have a good taste in Music (Dave rocks live!). what's the craziest concert you've ever been to? Not so much cow tippin but alot of huntin and fishin :) But speaking of Dave Im going to watch him and Tim Reynolds play in April, Im so stoked!! But I would have to say that the craziest concert I have been to was Tool in Seattle, and then U2 and Pearl Jam in Honolulu.. They were both amazing!! So are you from x-ville?? What? Seriously? Thats awesome. So youve completely redeemed yourself!!! One of the coolest concerts I went to was Pepper in Seattle. Not a huge venue but soo good. Have you ever heard of them? And yes I was born and raised herre. I just graduated tho, so Ill soon be off to grad school wherever that may be. What about you? What's you life story? Pepper! Are you kiddin me, OF CORSE! They are one of my favorites! I have seen them 2 times, The Gorge, and in Hawaii. I used to live there right out of high school then moved back to WA now im here in x-ville. I use to party up here all the time back in the day.. But thats all really.. Just slavin away and goin to school.. But let the good times roll!!!!!

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Wait you lived in Hawaii and then decided to move back to the xville? Wow Jessica, your slippin! J/p! It would be nice to live in the sun for a change tho. Why did you move? I think if I could live anywhere though Id go back to Spain and live in Seville. Its beautiful there. And they seriously party until 7 am on the weekends. Ive never seen anything like it! Have you ever been to Europe? Yea it wasn't that I wanted to come back.. It was this whole roommate situation, it was dumb. I wasn't ready to move yet.. But oh well, everything happens for a reason right.. But anyways Europe uh? You lived there? Thats so awesome! I haven't been yet, but Ive been saving up money to travel for a couple years and Europe is first on my list. I hope to start with in a year, and I want to see everything! The way I see it is that your only young one time and I plan on doin my best to live it to the fullest! So do u have any big plans before your start grad school? And what are you going for by the way? Thats awesome! I totally feel the same way about living life to the fullest. Its the only way to live! My plans right now I work with adults with disabilities. They are so fun( and kinda funny :p). I love it. Im going for clinical psych by the wayAnd yea Id love to do more spontaneous traveling before I go back to hitting the books. Like maybe Thailand or Panama!! There is really nothing more fulfilling than just throwing yourself in a completely foreign environment and just living in the moment. Are you a spontaneous girl? Other than that, Ive been chillin with amazing friends and family, playing soccer, whoopin booty in beer pong and just livin the good life! But yea.. Youre a free spirited girl. What are your big plans and ambitions?

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Aw thats great that your help people like that.. Its the best feeling i bet! Speaking of Panama, I never really put much thought into going there until recently when I started watching this show Prison Break. You ever watched it? Anyways part of it take place there and is now on my list of places to see. And yes i am a spontaneous girl, sometimes too much.. It can get me into trouble :) but I never have any regrets in the long run, only good memories. But in the mean time I have been pretty much been doin the same as you.. Friends, Beer, Soccer, Music, Dirtbikes, Snowboarding, hiking, campfires on the beach and waitin for summer! I cannot wait!!! Sunny days on the lake wakeboarding! Hotdog roasts! Im so stoked! Anyways besides that I just getting ready to finish up my Business Degree and go from there.. Let the wind take me where ever yes I love Prison Breakexcept theyve already broken out and gone back right? They should just change the name to Prison Breaks! Lost is the same way. Good show 2 tho. YOU play soccer? Are you serious? Thats rad. Outdoor Co-ed starts in two weeks. Im so stoked. In fact, we are havin a little pre season party this Weekend. You should def come by. Its going to be sick! Co-ed outdoor uh?? Thats awesome! Ive only played indoor Coed, I perfer outdoor anyways.. Where and when are you havin the party? Yea we are having it our house off State St. It's going to be on Saturday. I'm not sure what time yet. I'll send you a text later on thurs or Fri when I know all the details. What's ur number? my number is X6X X10-0X4X. I dont normally answer numbers I dont know so just send me a text.. yea. Im the same way with unknown numbers. Ill send u text prolly tomorrow after I get off work and we get all the details worked out. Laterz yea just hit me up, I have to work on Saturday i just dont know what time yet.. So Ill be talkin to ya :)

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So there it is, Dthomas Facebook game. I hope it brings you success in meeting women off of Facebook. As I mentioned before, this system is not infallible but I am hoping it will be a building block that can be used and improved upon. To contribute ideas on the subject of Facebook Game contact me at DThomas@Attractology.com Cheers, Dthomas Attractology.com

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