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ROTIMI SOWUNMI AKA DR-
CHAMBERS
Welcome to the first issue
of Chambermaids, you will
be very enlightened. Every
magazine has given the
public something to offer
and this one will be no
exception. Our major focus
is on women’s mindset.
Body pictures do sell but
there is more to a picture
than just the body and so
women of different
occupations (and body
types) were asked
questions that no other
magazine may ask. These
questions were asked in
order to teach as well as
understand the character of
the women. Through their
responses, you get to
understand a little bit about
their personality. Most of
the women that were
interviewed are up and
coming models and they
really do look finger licking
good but I digress (lol).
Some of the responses
shocked me and even impr
taught me things that I
thought I knew but
obviously didn’t. Needlessto
say my Game has improved
(Don’t hate, don’t hate).
Yep, the whole purpose of
Chambermaids is to
improve a man’s Game and
therefore improving the
interaction between men
and women. Respect is the
essence of the Game
but in society today no
respect seems to be
exercised. We got little
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boys running around been
called men. These same
boys are the ones who
would be all up in a
woman’s face playing the
nice guy role just to get in
her pants. Before he knows
it, she takes him for all his
worth because of lack of
respect. Then on the other
end we got the little girls
running around been called
a lady. These are the ones
who were raised believing
that they are little
princesses and that they
deserve the world without
lifting a finger. They are the
drama queen bunch and it’s
hard for a man to respect
them. Men of today seem
to have lost their minds and
women are saying it. In the
name of sex, these Simps
and Squares will trick off
their money, time and
manhood, therefore making
women lose respect for
them. Many stories have
been told by women as to
how they use a guy and play
him silly. They even go so
far as to say that these men
deserve to be used because
they are not acting like
men. This is what women
are saying out there and
after hearing it too many
times, it was time to
attempt to help all brothers
out there. Enough is
enough, it is time to bring
the essence of a man back,
his strength and his
leadership. To any man
reading this the responses
in this magazine should tell
you that loving a woman is
not a bad thing but loving
her as a man is even better.
Women can love a man
without respecting him but
this is as if there is no love
at all. A man needs to seek
respect before acceptance
and through that love is a
must. The Chamber
Production (CP) brings forth
this first issue to help men
everywhere to see and
learn new information that
they can use to cater to
their Game. It is time to
open men’s eyes and to
stop the gosh damn
simping!

Email:
chambermaids08@gmail.co
m

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Ms Naughtyia.................................................................................. pg 7

Reflections...............................................................................................................pg 16

Game is all You Got, My Brotha..............................................................................pg 17

Katharina Berninger........................................................................ pg 23

Pretty Boy vs The Hungry Wolf Manner..................................................................pg 32

Top 10 Youtube List.................................................................................................pg 33

Shemar Sima.................................................................................... pg 35

15 Business Tips.......................................................................................................pg 45

Growing Taller.........................................................................................................pg 49

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Melissa Irish................................................................................... pg 52

Alternative Places To Take Your Partner.................................................................pg 59

Quotes.....................................................................................................................pg 62

Tavaughn Moore........................................................................... pg 67

Macking Books.......................................................................................................pg 79

Mack Musiq...........................................................................................................pg 81

Tiana Shaw................................................................................ pg 83

Health & Fitness..................................................................................................pg 92

Macking Movies..................................................................................................pg 94

Upgrade Your Style.............................................................................................pg 95

Nelly Elessa.............................................................................. pg 100

Behind the Scenes.............................................................................................pg 106

Beneficial Websites...........................................................................................pg 108

Macking vs Religious Commandments.............................................................pg 110

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Sophie E................................................................................. pg 114

Shetalia M............................................................................. pg 122

Billionaire Book List........................................................................................pg 133

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http://store.payloadz.com/go?id=189454 [in pounds]

http://store.payloadz.com/go?id=194612 [in dollars]

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Ms Naughtyia was born and raised in Columbus, Ohio and she is 25 years old with 2 Beautiful
daughters. She is intelligent, independent and single. She is serious about everything that she does
and enjoys modelling. For those looking to make any bookings with her she can be contacted at
www.myspace.com/CO_BeautyQueen , www.myspace.com/thecapitalcityvixens, or on Model
mayhem #247804, naughtyia2007@hotmail.com

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CP: What qualities do you think it takes for a man to be a man or a woman to be a woman?

MN: The qualities I think that it takes for a man to be a man are simple really, I think that a man
should always go for his goals instead of giving up meaning he should commit to everything in life
and see it through, honestly a real man is always honest (there is not a lot of those out here) it’s not
true when they say what you don’t know won’t hurt you, it will. Let's cut this short to be a real man
you need to handle your business, listen, be honest, trust yourself and always listen to your first
instinct its always the right one.....I am not a chick that thinks that a man should take care of me so
therefore a man should take care of his woman but not to the point where she is dependent on him
she should have her own just as he should, it works better when you are a team.

CP: In your own words, define what swagger means?

MN: Swagger to me well let’s see, in my situation swagger means that I take care of business in
every aspect of the word, I am an independent woman who has her own and waits on no one to do
things for me I can do it myself, I take care of my 2 beautiful daughters, I have a good job, I model, I
promote, I am a good business person, I have my own car and my own house that I pay all my own
bills on, I depend on no one but the Lord, I care for my family and did I say I have my own money.
That’s what Swagger means to me, a person out here doing there thang for no one else but
themselves and their family and they depend on no one.

CP: When a man starts to approach you what are you thinking?

What type of game is he about to try to come up with what I have heard so many times before.

CP: When a man starts communicating with you after he approaches you, what do you look at
mostly?

MN: His eyes, the way he carries himself, and the way he presents himself while talking to me. Is
every other word a cuss word or something I would smack him for or is he coming at me in a
intelligent manner?

CP: What is the most important thing that you look for in a man?

MN: Honesty and Intelligence.

CP: What is the best thing a man can say or do to you to sweep you off your feet?

MN: Mean what he says, Do what he says. Basically if you are telling me you are going to do
something do it, don't be trying to blow smoke cause from the gate everything you say to me is a lie
therefore you need to prove that you are not lying to me believe I don’t depend on a man to tell the
truth.

CP: In a man's dressing what is the most important thing you look at?

MN: That he is neat, like I mean not wrinkled, not looking dingy and dirty.

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CP: What do you think of the interaction between men and women today?

MN: I think it is insane some women let men say anything to them, and the men do the same thing
its crazy, I don’t understand but once again the women are switching roles these days.

CP: If you had to teach a man anything that would be instilled for life, what would it be?

MN: To always be honest, my daddy use to tell me you get more bee's with honey than you do with
vinegar, therefore to be honest and not to give up on yourself it is not always as bad as you think so
you should always have something going for yourself, if you fall get up and try again.

CP: Why do you think the divorce rates are so high?

MN: Well.....People get married too young or before they even know what they want in life,
remember to take your time.

CP: What do you think are the roles of men and women?

MN: The Role of a Man: Is to Support the woman no matter what she is going through not in a
financial sense because I believe women should be independent and have their own but in every
other way emotionally, physically and mentally. And it is the same thing for the role of the woman, I
think she is the supporter hold the house together, take care of business, if she has a man support
him if not support herself and her children. The roles are really no different.

CP: Tell us what you do and what your plans are.

MN: Currently I am employee at Chase, I model and take care of my kids, my plans are to go as far in
Chase as possible, I also plan to take up nursing, and as far as modelling goes I plan on taking it as far
as I can. I would like to do more magazines and promotions maybe do some videos and leave my
mark, you know being the name that rings bells. I would also like to continue taking care of my kids
and raising them as best as I can.

CP: Let’s say you have a son, how would you teach him to behave around women?

MN: I would teach him to behave as a gentleman not to say rude things and to be very intelligent in
his conversation.

CP: Let’s say you had a daughter, how would you position her to be approached?

MN: As a lady any male that approaches my daughters will know that they cannot come at her on no
type of games or in a rude manner.

CP: Why do you think many black men and women are dating outside their race?

MN: Not for sure, but really it’s just they are not getting what they want out of their own race and
sometimes the other race is raised different and may treat their men or women different and better.
It’s their choice....So what can I say.

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CP: Describe your best features.

MN: LOL...My best features I would have to say my smile I have dimples, my personality I am a fun
loving big hearted person and of course the men’s favourite my back and you know what I mean at
42 inches the men go nuts......

CP: If you had the power to change the interaction between men and women, what would it be?

MN: The way they speak to each other.

CP: Is money really the root of all evil?

MN: No, some people are just greedy and don’t realize they already have what they need if they just
look around.

CP: How would you approach yourself if you were a man? Give us an opening line....

MN: Hi, How are you doing my name is Shaun, and what is your name and then conversate from
there.

CP: Do you think career gets in the way of women's roles?

MN: Yes sometime.

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CP: How comes women can’t hardly cook anymore?(Gone are the days of Soulfood)

MN: Well like me I wasn’t in the kitchen a lot I was a busy body you know school, work, drill team, I
tried to learn it didn’t stick, I can cook a little but it’s their lifestyle how they were raised and what
was going on at the time. I was very spoiled so till this day I still don’t cook on the holidays.

CP: Describe your ideal man

MN: Sincere, Honest, Reliable, Wants to Commit, Listens, Understandable, Trustworthy, Loves to
have fun, Loves Holidays and Birthdays, Likes to Explore and see new and different things as well as
different people, has a plan and is going for it with all he has got and he is a good backbone he is
going to be there. And most of all he has got to love me with all he has got and show it.

CP: What is it about you that you think men want to approach?

MN: I don’t come off as a stuck up type, I have a smile that can light up a room and of course my
body and personality.

CP: Why oh why, do some women come with so much attitude?

MN: Not for sure cause it ain’t me but maybe because they have been hurt so much in the past they
trust no one so the attitude is natural because of that brick wall they have built to keep people out.

CP: Where are the best places to go on a date?

MN: The movies, Out to eat, for real I like quiet walks in the park or just to get away for a sec from
people and all the craziness in the world somewhere it can just be us.

CP: Do you believe in Love? If so describe it, if not, why not?

MN: Yes, Why well I have been hurt and I believe in Love because no matter how many times you
have been hurt by one person if you love that person you will still have their back and if you have
ever loved someone or been in love no matter what you guys went through they are still there as a
friend at least that has been my experience.

CP: How do you know when to give a man a chance?

MN: Wow.........That’s hard when he shows he is trustworthy when everything he says to you comes
to reality and he is honest and you know he is being honest then you know you can give him a
chance.

CP: They say that it is the women hollering 'I'm Independent' that can't keep a man, what are your
views on that?

MN: My saying is simple you lose money chasing after men, you never lose men going for the
money, and I am going to tell you it doesn’t keep men away most men are looking for a independent
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female there are so many gold digging females out there that don’t want to do nothing for
themselves. They are going broke, were in a recession, men don’t have time for that they want a
woman that can handle her own and then he is going to do something for her and she didn’t ask for
it.

CP: Would you ever approach a man?

MN: No, For what?

CP: Why do women think they are the ones choosing a man when they hardly ever approach?....lol

MN: LOL, I don’t know....The look gets them sometime.....

CP: What would make you lose respect for a man?

MN: If he can’t take care of himself or he hits a woman or he doesn’t care about the people around
him, if he is putting people down instead of trying to help them up.

CP: Would you ever hook up a man with your friend and how should a man ask you to hook him
up?

MN: No....Hook yourself up.

CP: What have you got to say to the kids?

MN: Man a lot....Take it slow, what you are seeing out there is not a game yeah you hear in these
songs this that and the third and you think it’s a reality, please that is not reality open your eyes and
realize that it is real out here and you are not promised tomorrow. Your life can be taken in a
second. Believe me whatever you are going through finish school, go to college, get a job, live life
but be careful, make sure that you put yourself first don’t worry about who is talking about you or
who got this or who got that it’s not that serious believe me people out here getting killed over
nothing, babies having babies and their life is over just because they thought that they loved him, or
because their friend did it so not cute, get out here, take care of your business, be careful and live
life with no regrets, and remember that it is real out here and you aren’t getting any younger you
have to think about your future and if you keep going down that road where is it going to lead you
to, what is going to be at the end of that road, and if no one has told you I love you and I want you to
be the best you can be. Don’t be out here making silly mistakes that could possibly get you hurt or
land you in jail. Do something to better yourself it’s not getting any easier and you are not getting
any younger. Remember that!!!!

CP: What type of tests do you do on a man to see if he likes you? (or still loves you?)

MN: None.....It will come to you, you will know and if you don’t well there is a problem.

CP: How important do you think marriage is? (and why?)

MN: I don’t think that it is important because if you get married and wake up one morning and then
you say wait I made a mistake the only way out is a messy divorce. Not thinking about that right
now.
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CP: All men want to know, gosh dammit, what do women really want?

MN: A real man, an honest and true man, a man that has something going for himself, a man that
has her back through thick and thin....

CP: What do you think of a man who is not leading in his relationship?

MN: That’s on him, cause I don’t let men lead in my relationships either...it is what it is if you don’t
like it do something about it.

CP: Give your definition of a nice guy.

MN: Someone you can talk to, someone who understands, someone who will cry with you and let
you know they are there, and go 3 hours shopping with you knowing they have it but they didn’t
want you to be alone.

CP: If a man says no to you sometimes, what are you thinking, do you feel to leave him?

MN: If he says no to me....hmmmm I am a little spoiled and I want things to go my way I believe it
depends on what he is saying no about, and I would not immediately leave.

CP: What do you think of a man that argues with you?

MN: He crazy what are you arguing with me for its not going to change my mind, my mind is made
up...just give me sometime don’t nobody want to hear that I like trying to live stress free.

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CP: What do you think of a man that does anything you want?

MN: Why? Why are you doing anything I want? Is what I think.

CP: What would make you gain the ultimate respect for a man?

MN: Like I said before Honesty.

CP: How often should a man say I love you?

MN: Everyday is possible you should always say it you never know what may happen and when your
last time or their last time hearing it may be.

CP: How important is sex in a relationship?

MN: Ummm...about 75%.

CP: How long should people wait to get married?

MN: 5 years.

CP: What do you think of couples talking on the phone everyday?

MN: I think that is good you have to keep the lines of communication open.

CP: What is the best way for a man to prove that he loves you?

MN: By making his actions speak louder than his words....SHOW ME.

CP: Would you leave a man or your husband if the sex wasn't good?

MN: No we would work on it.....

CP: Would you leave a man if he had small genitals?

MN: LOL....Maybe depends on our relationship.

CP: What would make you go the extra mile for your man?

MN: That he is there for me so I am going to do what I need to do for him.

CP: In a relationship how often should both partners call?

MN: Everyday matter fact everytime you get a chance.

CP: In a relationship, how long should both partners be on the phone?

MN: However long they choose depending on the relationship.

CP: What do you think of a man that doesn't argue?

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MN: I like that.....keep me stress free daddy we can talk it out.

CP: If you had to say something to all single parents out there, what would it be?

MN: Stay strong, you can do it, it could have been worse but you made it this far, things will get
better in time keep doing what you are doing and keep praying it’s okay you love your children and
that is all that matters you handle that, you will be blessed at the end of the day.

CP: It is said that black women are the ones with the most attitude, what are your thoughts on
this?

MN: Hey we are, I mean we have reasons behind that....So it is what it is.

CP: When a woman says that she needs space, does she mean that she actually want to break up?

MN: No just give her some me time that is all she wants just a little room to breathe, clear her head.

CP: How would you feel if a man looked at another woman while he was with you?

MN: Oh well he is going home with me, don’t do more than that though we might have a problem.

CP: What is the ultimate act of appreciation that a man can show you?

MN: His support and maybe a day at the spa a day of relaxation cater to me for once.

CP: Can you express your views on men and women interaction today?

MN: Crazy, I don’t understand they talk to each other any kind of way not all but some, I want
someone to straighten that out it ain’t suppose to be like that.

“I don’t think that it is important because if you get married and wake up one
morning and then you say wait I made a mistake the only way out is a messy
divorce. Not thinking about that right now.”

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 Reflections

Consume, consume , consume. It is bad enough that we are given that idea by the current socio-
political system but it is even worse that we depend on the same burning port for a baseline
mentality for the rest of the world. Human nature does not seem to be as mysterious as people
make it out. Human inquiry, however, is another subject. We have been fooled to believe that our
own individual habits, beliefs, worldview, and personality can never change because we are those.
Well, as I have learned via experience, we are the observers of those things. The latter makes more
sense since the things aforementioned can change, humans do as well, but for us to function we
need to constantly change our responses based on our goals and what we receive as feedback from
the internal and external environment. Anyway, we can choose to stay where we are because it is
comfortable (i.e. the pathway is being used in our brain) or we can move somewhere else for the
sake of challenge, growth and change (i.e. start establishing a new pathway).

As such, I am not here to lecture you about the capabilities of human existence and all of that
existential stuff. I recently finished a 21 day psychological/ self-image program (holler at Maxwell
Maltz if you are confused, if not, keep reading) and I was surprised by the results. If you are anything
like me, you have a highly active imagination. In modern society our imaginations are constantly
under siege from the media, various companies, and that woman with the bad attitude but tight ass
jeans that just BEG for attention. Our imaginations are being attacked because they are very
powerful tools for development in many areas. If you think about it, you use your imagination more
often than you think. You probably only consider it consciously when you are playing a video game
or watching football, but the truth is anytime you recall an event or think of a goal you are using it.
Some would say that it was just “memory” but I disagree, if you get that fuzzy warmth in your gut
(and it’s not diarrhoea) that tells you that it was a true victory, you are reimagining that victory with
emotion. Now, I am not here to debate with you about the nature of the imagination, I will just sum
up this and say that there is a lot of bullshit out here designed to manipulate and distract us as
humans. People from the “conspiracy theory” crowd to Esther Vilar have written at length about the
various activities. It is up to you to recognize and better your situation.

M.P PRINCE

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Game Is All You Got, my brotha
I'm so sick and tired of the shit men are coming with these days. I walk right pass them when they
are trying to sweet talk their way into my life.
Give them the evil eye and they have the nerve to give me the evil eye back. I don't want to be
disturbed. Spare me the heartache more like!
I'm young and still sane...so please let me keep my mental health in a good position while I’m young
and alive.

You have really changed. All of a sudden you've gone from bad to worse. They say you shouldn't
judge all men but hey...that is exactly what I’m gonna do until I’ve met the one who can prove me
wrong. What makes the whole thing so interesting and does it really do you any good?
Think about it carefully...?

"-shiet, I’m the man!!"

Really..?! And for that you need 325 piece of ass to confirm? For who, me?! PLEASE! You're not
much of a man if everything you're about is built and confirmed by a woman’s special part. I mean
since when did the confidence come from the approval of others or things or should I say The Pussy.

A man is the one who suppose to be stronger and more confident. A black man to me represent
more than a hundred years of fight for himself and his woman. That's why I and some other woman
like myself look up to you sometimes. You have all the chances in the world to become so much
more than what is expected from you now. Considering where we've been and where we are right
now...who knows what we can accomplish next.

Everyone knows more or less about the history behind and some of you are still living it.
Still you have the nerve to be so fuckin disrespectful, not only to yourself but to us as well, when you
know that no other women than us can understand your history better.

"-I luv mi black gyal n everything they come wit. There’s nothing like a strong black woman."

Hm...Is that so?! So what happened to the respect you want mankind to show you. Start off with
being honest to yourself and others...OK. Cause just like you...I want to know who I’m dealing with.
To cheat on you is to humiliate you but when it is the other way around you just want me to accept
it.

Do you understand how stupid you make yourself look...my brotha'...walking around left to right
thinking you are the man, just because you've conquered another pussy. Like you own the shit or
something...PLEASE! Analyze what the game has brought you, to your life. Male prostitution
would've brought you some cash but that's another story...but a very thin line.

Instead you embarrass us for 15 min of satisfaction that does not take you anywhere. It is a damn
shame. You really doing a great job by justifying the picture people already have of you. Baby mamas
here and there and the risk to catch a disease is pretty high when it comes to you.

This is no hit for the smart girl, because you are the easy type...Loose! We all have learned from a
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young age, males as well as females, easy people, we don't take home to mommy. So...Once again
what has the game brought to your life??

You lower yourself my brotha! It is weak for a man to bow down over some pussy. You are
practically revealing your weakness and that is kind of stupid considering your issues. We know
better and so it is written. Do Not Tell Me I Don't Understand...I DO! It is hard for us if not even
harder because we live in a man’s world right?
So step up brotha...to disrespect yourself is to disrespect your people.

Have we really come this far to mess it all up for ourselves? If so then it's a shame. All that time and
life gone to waste. If you insist my brotha and still wish not to understand than I’m gonna keep on
walking right pass you. If you're not willing to cooperate you have nothing to offer my life or yours!

Game Is All You Got, my brotha!

By Chris Jewels and Angelique Abezonyonde

Response to Game Is All You Got, my brotha

Alright it is time to address this because it is now clear that women don't check themselves and they
are quick to point the finger.
This is yet another lash at men just for liking women, just for exercising our nature of being a Man.
Men like women and act on it, women like men but pretend.....typical.

Men try to sweet talk themselves into a woman's life and naturally so, it is not about forcing
ourselves in a woman's life but it is about showing a woman that we are not a threat and that it
would be nice to know each other. Even if a man came straight up honest with his intentions saying
that he just wants to fool around, he is considered rude (women forget that he was been honest, the
very thing that they always put on the list) and ignorant. So what does a man do, he strategise, he
uses game.

Game recognises Game but not everybody has it. Women are good at recognising it because they
are the biggest players of the game themselves. A woman will test and her biggest aim is to mould
and manipulate a man until she finds no more use for him after she has gotten all that she wants out
of him.

Women more than men put themselves on such a high pedestal it’s hard not to play them
ridiculously so that they can be bought back to reality. Women do not even have the confidence or
courage to approach a man, all they do is walk pass or sit there like a statute waiting for a
conversation or a guy with the flyest gear to come their way. They hardly EVER make the first move
or even meet a man half way and when asked why, their response is “I’m shy” or “it is the man that
is suppose to make the first move”. They forget that the whole transaction takes two.

A man can be shy as well, a man can get nervous as well, sometimes we end up been disrespectful
because of it and sometimes we are disrespectful on purpose, after all women claim they like bad
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guys, so when a man comes bad, we are been rude .
All men are after one thing they say but a woman automatically thinks that a hello will force her to
open her legs. If this was so, then most of the rant would be justified. Knowing is different from
doing, just because you know men are after one thing doesn’t mean it is going to end up that way. A
conversation will not kill you or make you pregnant, sheeese!

Women don’t know how to start a conversation but they can maintain one but when a guy does
make a move and tries to start up a conversation he is been intrusive, I have yet to find any other
way of turning strangers into friends, yet women pretend, fronting like a man would literally strip
them down on the street to have sex right there and then.

Women must really think that their consent don’t matter to think that way.
There is nothing wrong with been friendly, no need to cut an evil eye just because a man is
appreciating what he sees. The biggest joke of it all is that if a woman was not looked at or
approached (whether they walk pass or not) they feel more make up, more fake hair and even
surgery is the solution. All this they do just to seek attention then they have the audacity to rant. It is
always laughable!

All Players, Macks and Pimps out there know that having 325 women is all about having options. If
one woman doesn’t cooperate, she can leave, 324 women is still a lot, her leaving is nothing to be
fazed about. Men out there need to know that it is better to let a woman know that you got options
than to allow one woman to be your world while she tries to turn you into a slave and a puppet (she
will lose respect for you, you would have made yourself undesirable).

Ma brothers you need to let the Disney and ‘love dovey’ mentality go, these women are not damsels
in distress, they are not weak they are just weaker men, they do not need rescuing, they know
exactly what they are doing!

History tells us that when the women’s movement for equality occurred, NO MAN retaliated, to this
day I will never know why. It could be because men want to please and they see women as weak,
they made no movement of their own against the women’s movement and now today we got a
bunch of sissified men crying and seeking validation from a woman just to feel like a man and get
into her pants. So gosh damn sad! Sometimes a woman has every right to play on a brother (you
stupid mada suckas make it easy).

Ma brothers, know this, men and women are equal but NOT THE SAME. Don’t be bought into all the
jacked up mentality that the government advertises because truth be told the government is a
woman’s biggest Pimp.

They are always in support of a woman and never willing to hear or understand the male side of the
story and so the man has to cough up money which benefits the woman and the government (her
pimp). The saddest thing of all is that the government is mostly made of men which women have
sissified by their movement *shaking head*.

Nevertheless it is not about being too hard on the sistas because in today’s society we got a lot of
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little boys running around been called men. These punk suckas, treat women like prostitutes by
trying to buy their affection through gifts, dates and begging. Their life is spent chasing and invested
in nothing.

Get it together! A lot of brothers today need reprogramming and actually educate themselves on
what manhood really is, not what mama (A WOMAN) taught them but on what true manhood is all
about.

To all my sistas out there, get angry, sad, frustrated, or however way you see fit when you don’t get
your way. You will merely be exercising the very nature that you have, emotional. You talk of respect
but on a whole do you deserve it? Your ways are to manipulate and to take a brother’s manhood,
you will spend his money instead of help him invest it, you will claim you are bored instead of
treating the man once in a while, women are selfish they think all relationships are one sided. When
the man starts been ‘selfish’ after realising he is been manipulated, he is being abusive.

Women are so funny, yes a brother needs to have game so that he doesn’t get played, it is that
simple. If Game is all a brotha got, then very good for him!

AkinTunde from London

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This sophisticated lady comes out to tell it as it is. With a humble persona, it was interesting to know
just how down to earth she really is. Katharina can be contacted at,
katharina.berninger@hotmail.com

CP: What qualities do you think it takes for a man to be a man or a woman to be a woman?

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KB: A woman has to have class. Knows how to represent herself, be a lady in every situation. A man
has to show strength but at the same time not hide his weakness.

CP: In your own words, define what swagger means?

KB: Swagger is a unique style that makes you stick out. Something that makes everybody be like
"woah". The art to impress with little/no actions.

CP: When a man starts to approach you what are you thinking?

KB: Oh no, not another whack one lol.

CP: When a man starts communicating with you after he approaches you, what do you look at
mostly?

KB: His teeth, his eyes (is he checking out other women) and his body language.

CP: What is the most important thing that you look for in a man?

KB: Humour, honesty, Intelligence, has to be affectionate and emotional, but not too much.

CP: What is the best thing a man can say or do to you to sweep you off your feet?

KB: Simply by telling the truth.

CP: In a man's dressing what is the most important thing you look at?

KB: Clean and nice shoes!

CP: What do you think of the interaction between men and women today?

KB: It's ridiculous, people don't appreciate old values anymore and it's just a matter of who is
f***ing whom first.

CP: If you had to teach a man anything that would be instilled for life, what would it be?

KB: How to understand women!

CP: Why do you think the divorce rates are so high?

KB: Temptation and people not knowing how to resist.

CP: What do you think are the roles of men and women?

KB: Women have to cater to their man and make them feel like a man. Men have to support their
women and show them how valuable they are.

CP: Tell us what you do and what your plans are.

KB: I work as a Sales Assistant at a car dealership and I want to continue being happy in life.
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CP: Let’s say you have a son, how would you teach him to behave around women?

KB: I would make sure he has a baby sister that he has to take care of. ;)

CP: Let’s say you had a daughter, how would you position her to be approached?

KB: A man has to approach her with the most respect possible and not come at her with some lame
lines.

CP: Why do you think many black men and women are dating outside their race?

KB: Because race shouldn't be a matter anymore nowadays. We're all human; it's the heart and
personality that counts!

CP: Describe your best features.

KB: My kind heart and my goofiness. Great combo. ;)

CP: If you had the power to change the interaction between men and women, what would it be?

KB: Finally start treating each other with respect and love each other like we were taught to do.

CP: Is money really the root of all evil?

KB: Definitely! Money gives people power, and love to abuse power.

CP: How would you approach yourself if you were a man? Give us an opening line....

KB: Hey, you caught my eye so I wanted to take the chance and talk to you...anything real simple but
honest.

CP: Do you think career gets in the way of women's roles?

KB: NO, a woman shouldn't depend on a man anymore.

“Women have to cater to their man and make them feel like a man.
Men have to support their women and show them how valuable they are.”

CP: How comes women can't hardly cook anymore? (Gone are the days of Soulfood)

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