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THE “SEX ISSUE” of Continuum magazine is intended to raise awareness and stimulate a dialog on the sensitive
issue of sexuality in the long term care setting. You will fi nd several articles discussing the subject of intimacy
and relationships within the long term care provider community. We wrestled with some provocative cover ideas
that certainly would have caught peoples’ attention, but we decided to not make light of this serious subject that is
worthy of greater attention and discussion. These issues are important now and will only increase in the coming
years with the changing consumer attitudes and expectations.
Wisconsin has a proud history of being ahead of the curve in the provision of long term care services. Recogni-
tion that sexuality is part of the human condition, with varying levels of importance, is an idea that Continuum
hopes will be yet another area in which Wisconsin’s provider community takes leadership.
We hope that you fi nd this issue informative and
provoking of thought. We encourage comments and
Sexuality issues are important input on this and future issues of Continuum. Com-
ments are welcome at continuum@whca.com.
now and will only increase
in the coming years with the Sincerely,
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Sexuality and
the Non-Decisional Resident
The Role of the Guardian or Agent
By Robyn Shapiro and Colleen O’Connor Patzer
Insuring the Future sion, the facility should seek the agree-
ment of the resident’s agent or guardian
and family members, provided that the
of our Senior Housing Clients. answer to the cornerstone question is
also “yes” for the other party involved.
All consultation, evaluation and con-
sent information should be well docu-
mented in the chart.
If the answer to the cornerstone
question is no, then it is reasonable to
conclude that the relationship is not in
the resident’s best interests and, there-
fore, may not be condoned. In these
circumstances, residents must be
protected from harm or coercion that
could result from sexual expression by
others or themselves.
It may be advisable for facilities
to develop guidelines or policies re-
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Workplace Romance
Should It Get the Kiss-Off?
By Mindy Rowland
POP QUIZ: You just found out two co- that workplace romances are proliferat-
workers are dating each other. What do ing. What is an employer to do?
you do?
a. Confront the couple and demand that 1. BAN WORKPLACE ROMANCES
they stop dating or be terminated; ALTOGETHER?
b. Contact your employment attorney Probably not. Not only is such a
and ask her to draft a love contract prohibition difficult to enforce uni-
for the couple to sign immediately; formly, but employees may see such
c. Review your handbook to ensure a ban as an affront to their privacy
your sexual harassment policy is up and out of touch with the realities of
to date; or the workplace. In addition, if you al-
d. Think to yourself, “Great! Another ready have employees dating, it will
couple to have dinner with!” be difficult to retroactively require
Most employers assume the answer those couples to end their relation-
is “a.” However, such a knee-jerk reac- ship. Moreover, your employees will
tion is probably not the right way to ad- likely ignore any such prohibition,
dress workplace dating. setting you up to make a difficult de-
Workplace romance is a concern cision as to whether to enforce the
of nearly all employers. Many fear the policy by terminating an otherwise
epitomic example of a supervisor/sub- quality employee. Some employers
ordinate relationship gone sour, where In addition, such a policy is still in-
the subordinate files a sexual harass- herently difficult to craft. How do you require dating
ment claim after the relationship ends
and the supervisor begins treating the
describe the behavior you are seeking
to forbid? Do you intend to prohibit
employees
subordinate differently from other co-
workers. Out of concern, some employ-
dating, socializing, a romantic in-
volvement or something else? An em-
to sign “love
ers have outright banned dating be-
tween employees, others have instituted
ployment attorney can certainly draft
an “anti-fraternization” policy for you,
contracts,”
workplace dating policies, and still oth- but often, the employer realizes the a contractual
er employers require dating employees futility in doing so and opts not to out-
to sign “love contracts,” a contractual right ban employee relationships. agreement
agreement between the couple and the
employer where the couple attests that 2. ENACT A NOTIFICATION POLICY? where the
the relationship is consensual.
Interestingly, a study conducted by
Probably. A notification policy re-
quires employees to notify a company
couple attests
the Society for Human Resource Man-
agement indicates that less than 4 per-
representative, often the EEO officer,
when a workplace relationship com-
that the
cent of individuals involved in a failed
office romance file a formal complaint.
mences and when it ends. A notifi -
cation policy allows the company a
relationship is
Likewise, recent studies demonstrate certain level of protection from later consensual.
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claims of sexual harassment, and also
provides the company information to
respond to any complaints by co-work-
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dating couples to sign an agree- employees sign a love contract can and whether your handbook prohibits
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is voluntary, informs the couple of view the contract as intrusive. There- displays of affection in the workplace.
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What if the facilities in the above sce- we may speak of “addressing” resident the positive aspects of companionship,
narios had established policies to deal needs, this is not to be construed in any intimacy, self-gratification, and yes, sex-
with these sorts of situations? What if way as providers having any obligation ual contact between residents.
staff members better understood that to “fulfill” client needs. Though a resident The emphasis on response to inappro-
older adults still need some form of may express a need for sexual contact, priate sexual behavior may have exacer-
intimacy? How different could these it is not the provider’s obligation to play bated the taboo. When focus is placed on
situations be if the facility had created match-maker or affirmatively seek out stopping certain behaviors, healthy as-
an environment where their residents’ a partner. pects of sexuality and intimacy become
sexuality was respected and treated What was once a “forbidden” subject lumped together with forbidden expres-
for what it is: an important element of is becoming a topic that requires an in- sions. Here we do a disservice to both
human nature? formed dialogue. As resident expecta- our residents and staff: the residents who
It may be hard to imagine, but for tions and attitudes change, the time is may benefit from intimacy, and staff who
many elderly, sexuality and intimacy are ripe – and it’s becoming increasingly im- are ill-prepared to address situations
still vital parts of their lives. portant – to address the complex issues that should otherwise be permitted.
Some of the more difficult and sensi- of resident sexuality. This is not to minimize the obliga-
tive situations in long term care settings tions providers have to protect elders
involve residents and sexuality. Given A FRANK DISCUSSION. within their facilities. Continued vigi-
the delicate, and for some, uncomfort- The long term care community is lance must be paid to the role of protec-
able nature of the topic, facilities and overdue for a sit-down about sex. Sexu- tion. However, through the development
staff are often challenged by residents’ ality is a basic human characteristic and of anticipatory policies, staff education
sexual needs. But it doesn’t have to be while a decline in physical abilities may and working with family members and
that way. impact performance, the need for inti- surrogates, we can ensure that elderly
Some would argue that intimacy macy does not go away simply because residents have the very best quality of
in the long term care setting should be of age. Opening a dialogue can bring life that we can give them.
addressed right along with other needs about greater understanding, create an
such as nutrition and hydration. It environment where desires and interests THE MAIN MYTH:
should be understood that sexuality is are discussed openly and provide ideas SEXUALITY DISAPPEARS WITH AGE
not limited to sexual contact, but rather about addressing sexual situations in a Based on multiple factors, the sig-
the entire range of intimacy; from emo- respectful manner. nificance of sex will vary throughout
tional connections and companionship While there has been significant at- one’s lifetime. But sexuality does not
to non-sexual touching or closeness. It tention given to inappropriate resident always go the way of taught skin and
is important to recognize and acknowl- behavior, there has been less focus on supple joints.
edge that adults, including the elderly,
maintain a level of sexual interest and
desire far into their golden years. While
“... having an established policy on
this may not be high on the list of needs
for all long term care residents, some-
resident sexuality and intimacy in place
thing does not have to impact a major-
ity of residents before it deserves atten-
can be a more comfortable method to
tion from providers. To be clear, while broach an often cringe-inducing subject.”
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“What if staff promoting respect for the sexual needs
of residents.
sexual needs; and (4) inappropriate
sexual expressions and strategies
members The development of policy guidance
must be at the basis of a proactive frame-
for response.
Incorporating education in these
better work. Policies should initiate the gath-
ering of evidence-based information,
areas has been shown to dispel miscon-
ceptions while reducing biases and anx-
understood regulatory requirements and practical ieties often based on a hazy understand-
implementation input from appropriate ing. By providing staff with educational
that older staff leaders. Suggested elements for opportunities, providers create an envi-
such policies include: (1) staff education ronment where appropriate sexual ex-
adults still on the unique expressions of sexuality in pressions are recognized and respected
differed in a setting where the facility has that clearly provides comfort and benefit Considerations Regarding the Needs of
Long-Term Care Residents for Intimate
a clearly articulated policy that antici- to Jane and Gwen. Relationships and Sexual Activity. (n.d.).
pates intimacy issues, where the staff is Jim may have been able to articu- Retrieved January 3, 2009, from www.prac-
ticalbioethics.org/FileUploads/Intimacy
trained in understanding elder sexuality late his frustration towards his lack of a percent20Guidelines percent20Updated.
and where residents are encouraged to ex- sexual partner. It could have been better Aug percent2007
Everett, B. (2008). Supporting Sexual Activity
press their needs and preferences relative understood that his viewing of pornog- in Long-Term Care. Nursing Ethics, 15(87).
to sexuality. raphy provides a private outlet. A policy Hajjar, R. R., & Kamel, H. K. (2004). Sexuality
Robert and Mary (whose tryst was of acceptance and exploration of this in the nursing home, part 1: Attitudes and
barriers to sexual expression. Journal of
interrupted) may feel comfortable dis- subject might have identified a more pri- the American Medical Directors Associa-
cussing with staff their desires for vate opportunity for such an outlet and tion, 5(2 Supplemental), S42-S47.
some privacy together if such issues are could have trained staff to reserve their Lindau, S., Schumm, P., Laumann, E., Levinson,
W., O’Muircheartaigh, C., & Waite, L. (2007).
brought up early in their admission and judgment towards individual needs. With A Study of Sexuality and Health among Old-
assessment process. Asked in a profes- a policy that serves as the basis for an er Adults in the United States. N Engl J Med,
357(8), 762-774.
sional manner about the importance of initial discussion tool, staff could more
(2003). Sex and Sexuality in Long Term Care:
their respective sexuality by an educat- comfortably discuss this situation with A training program for staff. Washington
ed and responsive staff, Bob and Mary Jim’s son, who assists the facility by pro- DC: American Health Care Association.
(2008). Sexuality in Nursing Homes, Educa-
could have addressed their interest in viding adult magazines containing pic- tional module to Promote Excellent Alter-
some alone time. Staff members could tures and articles of interest to Jim. natives in Kansas Nursing Homes (PEAK).
Kansas State University Center on Aging.
discuss options and barriers, make sure These scenarios only scratch the sur-
.
that both parties understand risks and face of current and future situations that
a convenient and private space could be providers face in responding to sexuality Brian Purtell, WiCAL
arranged for them. The staff may further in the long term care population. Devel- Executive Director
and WHCA Director of
appreciate the importance of respect- opment of policies that anticipate these
Legal Services, is also a
ing these adults’ privacy and refrain types of situations, along with staff edu- partner at DeWitt Ross
from gossiping. cation, will allow providers to better ad- & Stevens S.C.
For Jane and Gwen, proactive edu- dress common issues and prepare for the He can be reached at
cation would provide staff with an un- unique and diverse manners in which in- bpurtell@wical.org, brian@whca.com, or
brp@dewittross.com
derstanding that it is not uncommon for dividuals express their sexuality.
NO NEWS IS good news. We’ve all CONVEY WHY YOU’VE “GOT IT GOING
heard that saying, but public relations ON.”
professionals everywhere resounding- You need a hook, or a reason, for
ly disagree. media coverage. Are you celebrating
In public relations, no news means an anniversary? Are you expanding or
that the public isn’t hearing anything remodeling and offering new, improved
about you, and you’re not doing much services as a result? Are you imple-
– if anything – to build up name recog- menting a culture change? Recognizing
nition with consumers or elected offi- residents or staff for accomplishments?
cials. That’s where “earning media,” or Are you celebrating or recognizing a
publicizing good news, comes in. holiday or special day in a unique way?
But what is news? If so, make sure to give your local me-
According to former executive edi- dia – either via e-mail or a quick phone
tor of The New York Times, Turner call – the 5-Ws: who, what, when, where,
Catledge, “News is anything you didn’t and why. Especially in smaller media
know yesterday.” More particularly, markets where reporters and editors
news is anything of interest – an event, are often desperate for news, few an-
new idea, or new information – to nouncements or events are too small
your community. to publicize.
Easy enough, right? Now for the
Take a long- hard part: How do you even begin to go
about letting people know what your
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Take a long-term approach to generat-
ing coverage; the best PR plan is a series
to generating Below are some easy-to-follow steps of small steps with occasional bursts of
to garner increased news coverage for exciting news. Plan ahead, keep your fa-
coverage; the good things you’re already doing at cility information and announcements
your facilities. in front of reporters, and the stories will
best PR plan happen over time.
BE AVAILABLE.
Once you’ve pitched a reporter on
an event, make available a contact per-
son to fi ll in any information before,
during, and after. There is nothing that
frustrates a reporter more – and noth-
ing that will ensure the story ends up
in the trash folder faster – than not be-
ing able to get information to complete
a piece. Let the reporter know when
and where they can reach the contact
person to answer any and all questions.
And always ask a reporter’s deadline so
you can work within that timeframe.
With these few simple steps, your
facility could be well on its way to mak-
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can get from your elected officials and
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LEGISLATIVE LEADERS OFTEN re- tant that providers take steps to com-
mind audiences that, from a legislative municate to their legislators to make
standpoint, if representatives receive sure that they are aware of the issues
as few as four letters from constituents and impacts on the profession.
on a particular issue, they will recog- They need to be made aware of the
nize this to be an issue of significance. affect that legislative decisions will
With the state legislature in the midst have on your ability to provide the
of negotiating a biennial budget and at- highest level of care and services to
tempting to address the $5 billion-plus the residents you are proud to serve.
budget deficit, it is all the more impor- Moreover, it is imperative that the
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