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- Creating co nditions for sleeping for going to bed - Controlling your thinkin g - Pink eleph ant syndrom e - Meditation and relaxati on - Preparing
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Sleep
Sleep is a basic human necessity and lack of sleep or a poor sleep pattern can significantly affect your mood and behaviour.
In general there are 3 types of sleep problem...
Poor qu a sleeping lity sleep; too waking lightly, often, frequen t distur bance
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Statistics show that 40% of the population report sleeping problems at some time in their lives. Are you sluggish, constantly tired, irritable and tearful? You could be suffering from sleep deprivation. By using your Experts for Life Toolkit for a good nights sleep you will soon start to feel calmer, able to cope and back in control of your life.
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* Circadian rhythm - the 24 hour cycle of day (light) and night (dark) which influences all living things in their sleep/wake pattern. Your guide to having a better nights sleep.
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Listen to soft music through If you can afford it install double or headphones or an audio book secondary glazing which can reduce choose something that will not noise considerably. over stimulate your brain.
* Researchers have discovered that White Noise can mask any sudden sounds by creating a constant background noise. White Noise can be achieved by setting your radio to a mid-channel frequency which gives a gentle hissing sound; at first it might be slightly irritating, but after a few minutes you will disregard it. The ideal is to start with the volume set very low and it is gradually increased to a comfortable level that suits you. There are machines made specifically for aiding sleep through the use of White Noise.
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Many people go to sleep with the aid of a TV or radio, but then wake at 2 or 3am by the very thing that helped them to sleep. If you can only get sleep this way ensure you have the sleep button set to 30 minutes or at most 60 (by which time you should be in deep sleep).
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Take a warm bath before bed. Try scented oils in the water, especially ones with relaxing qualities such as lavender. Select colours for your bedroom that you find pleasant and restful. Change your bedding regularly; clean sheets and pillowcases can help your comfort and enjoyment of being in bed. ncrease your light exposure I throughout the day. Spend as much time as possible out of doors. During the day keep all of your blinds and curtains open. Move your desk nearer to the window if possible. Only wear sunglasses when necessary. Decrease light exposure during the night. Make sure your bedroom is as dark as possible by using heavy blinds and/or curtains. Cover any electrical displays such as clocks. Turn off your television and computer. Use low wattage light bulbs. Try an eye mask.
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Drink plenty of water during the day but reduce the amount of all liquids you drink in the evening. Take no fluids in the two hours prior to going to bed.
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Thought Control
Troublesome problems and worries about health, relationships, work or finances can often fill your mind for much of the day. They can cause forgetfulness and lack of concentration, irritability, tearfulness, mood swings, withdrawal It is not surprising then that the same issues and problems will fill your mind at night when you are in bed trying to get off to sleep.
Intrusive, disturbing thoughts can Keep a notebook by the side of your wake you in the early morning, remain bed to write down any ideas you may prominent in your mind and prevent have that you do not wish to forget you from getting back off to sleep. overnight. Write down the things that Often this is repeated night after night, are worrying you and leave them in leaving you feeling exhausted and the book, safe, until tomorrow when vulnerable. you can actually do something about them. Be aware of your thoughts. Remember, you cant control the things that Hand your unwanted thoughts over enter into your head but you can do to an imagined thought police. They something about them once they are will lock them away in a psychological there. filing cabinet where only they have the key. Your problems will remain safe By controlling your thoughts and there until you decide to ask for the clearing your mind of these negative key and unlock the cabinet at a time thoughts you will leave space for some of your choosing. calm and peace. Train your brain to think of positive things; memories, futures fantasies, rather than negative stressful issues.
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Pink Elephants
Pink Elephant Syndrome. Never heard of it? It is a phenomenon we recognised and named almost twenty years ago when patients were coming to the surgery complaining of their lack of sleep.
When fears and worries were haunting them and not allowing them to get to sleep we noticed that there were common features present. Here is what we found:
When your human mind wants to switch off from problem thoughts you usually say to yourself, I do not want to think about this. The problem is you already have! Try this little experiment with me; I do not want you to think about a pink elephant. Under no circumstances have a picture of a pink elephant in your mind. Do you have a pink elephant in your head? Exactly. Of course you do! This is just the same as the problems that you told yourself you were not going to think about.
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Pink Elephants
The way to overcome this is to make an agreement with yourself that you will choose to think about your problem or difficult issues at a more appropriate time, for example, ten oclock tomorrow morning. You may choose to think about them right now but if you do, give yourself a time limit two seconds, two minutes, twenty minutes. Then, make a firm decision to think about something different. Always replace the difficult thoughts with ones that are more pleasurable. Dont be tempted to think about something else that will cause you anxiety. Banish negative thoughts for now you are going on a holiday. A holiday in your mind. Perhaps this is a beach or a country lane. You choose. It is wherever you will find peace and tranquillity. The idea is to have five or six different places in your head ready for you to visit. This process is called meditation and is very simple.
Lets experiment
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As part of the experiment let us first select a few places to visit and have ready in your mind. These are just examples; you can of course create your own personal list.
At each location you should picture you being alone and safe. 1. To start close your eyes and breathe very slowly and very gently.
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Explore the feeling of relaxation. Keep saying to yourself that you are feeling relaxed. When 2. Count for four with each breath in and then you have achieved a relaxed state in one place go to your next location. Repeat the breathe out for a count of four. same steps again. Go to all five places. 3. Continue with this for five or six times. Many patients find they never get to their 4. Allow your mind to go to your special fifth place because they go off to sleep so chosen place of peace and tranquillity. quickly.
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Seek professional help if you are worrying about your financial issues. Some of these services are free and readily available. onsider counselling or therapy. It may be that problems and worries are causing stress and anxiety C which are affecting your sleep. Talking through your problems with a trained and experienced professional, who is not going to judge or criticise you, could be just what is required. - There are many different schools of counselling and therapy each offering a different approach to the way you are helped to deal with your problems and get back in control of your life.
If legal problems are the cause of your sleep disturbance why not try asking for some advice from a professional. This could save you many hours of sleeplessness and anxiety.
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Stop smoking, gradually remove caffeine from your diet, reduce the amount of alcohol you take and eat more healthily. All of these things can contribute to a more calm and relaxed you. Increase relaxing activities. Invest more time in yourself. Find time to do the things which give you pleasure; - Reading. - Listening to music. - Painting. - Photography. - Treat yourself to a massage or facial. - Spend more quality time with the people you love. - Seek out those who make you feel happy and who make you laugh.
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Foreword
Experts for Life is based on the long experience, study and research conducted by Dr. Kevin and Kate Buchanan-Dunne, who have jointly run bdma the leading specialist occupational counselling service in the UK. The company provides counsellors to a large cross section of organisations wishing to offer support to their employees. The bdma team encounter people who are undergoing great difficulties in their lives. These include bereavement and family problems, panic attacks, bullying at work and addictions to alcohol and drugs. They have observed over many years that people seeking therapy initially are not looking for causes, facts or information about their problem. They are looking for something to help them to fix, solve and cope with things. Help me to stop this panic attack. Once they start to feel better and back in control they will then start to search for explanations. From this experience Kevin and Kate devised a range of solutions that anyone can use and get relief from their dilemma in a very short time. Based on this work they have created a range of E-Books utilising this research and practice. Each book is split into two parts; Part 1 is The Cure and provides lots of solutions in a quick, easy to understand and practical way to overcome your problem. Part 2 is The Facts and provides the information about your problem, answers your questions about what it is, its cause and where to find out more about your problem. The techniques used in the cure are based on iCBT or Integrated Cognitive Behaviour Therapy which was developed by the bdma team and is unique to the company. In contrast to traditional CBT Your guide to having a better nights sleep.
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As one of the directors of Experts for Life, Kate has been at the forefront in developing the range of E-Books to help people across the globe who have the same problems her patients have had over the last 30 years. Kate believes in the methodology of helping to get people better, resolve their problems and then offer the data that may be required. One area Kate will be highlighting, which is not a problem and is very much seen by those who have it as a gift, is Synaesthesia. This is a cross wiring of the senses in the brain. Synaesthetes experience the world differently; most have Coloured hearing and hear letters, numbers and words in colour. In others a scent will trigger not only smell but colour, and sounds and tastes can also evoke colours and shapes. Researchers in Cambridge, England, believe that 1 in 20,000 had Synaesthesia, but Kates research leads her to believe it is nearer to 1 in 20. If the interest is out there amongst Synaesthetes she will write an E-Book and certainly open a forum. During the coming twelve months Experts for Life will be launching a range of E-books to cover everyday problems in the same easy-to- read format. There will be additional add-ons of pod casts and videos, a newssheet to keep you informed of new developments and a forum for each problem area.
mission is to offer you, your family, Our your friends and colleagues the tools to
obtain a happy life by providing you with excellent health and wellbeing skills and information. We look to help you to meet your lifes challenges with fun, humour and the strength of mind necessary.
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Have a very good sleep and dont forget the other fantastic eBooks in the Experts for Life range, simply visit our online store at www.expertsforlife.com
This guide is for your information only and not a substitute for professional diagnosis or treatment. The Experts for Life have used all reasonable care in compiling this information from a variety of sources but make no warranty for its accuracy Copyright. The Experts for Life 2012