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Feeling unhappy, depressed, lonely? Are you missing someone, feeling dejected or
nursing a broken heart? Pull yourself up and get your act together for no one can solve
your depression but you.
Forget about alcohol, cigarettes and other artificial anti-depressants. They will just leave
you more depressed when their temporary effects lose their efficacy on you. The thing to
do is analyze and find the root of your unhappiness so that you can deal with it in a more
direct and rational way. And stop feeling like a victim. Take heart because as Dr. Robert
Anthony says, "The only people without problems are in cemeteries."
So what do you do when you are unhappy? Snap out of it, that's what!
1. Keep Busy.
An idle mind is the devil's playground. Keep your mind busy - lose yourself in an
interesting book or an engaging movie. Keep your body busy - take a brisk walk,
workout at the gym or enroll in a dance class. Moving the body increases the flow of
your endorphins giving you an energizing natural high. And consider fighting for a cause
- it will provide you a strong rallying point and a profound reason for being.
8. Meditate.
Forget everything momentarily and just concentrate on your breath. Gently close your
eyes and let your mind float on the soft blackness that you see. Breathe in and out slowly
and regularly and focus on the life-giving movement and sound of the air as you inhale
and exhale. After a while in this induced semi-alpha state, empty your mind of all
negativities and thoughts. Meditate on the wonder of having nothing in your mind - just
the awe-inspiring miracle of your being alive.
12. Pray.
Praying is a very potent antidote for problems, loneliness and inner pain. To be effective,
prayers must be heartfelt and repetitive because the subconscious mind works through
repetition. That's why most established praying (like the rosary and mantra chanting)
are almost hypnotically repetitious. It is the mental and spiritual imprinting (radicals
call it brainwashing) that makes a prayer powerful. With it, you gain great emotional
and spiritual strength and establish that much-needed connection to your soul.