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AMARRIAGEMADEINHEAVEN

Introduction A. HolyHeadlockorHolyWedlock?(Islovethewineoflifeandmarriage thehangover?) B. Amarriagemadeinheaven(notperfect,buthighlysatisfactory)ISpossible! 1. Ittakestwototangothreetomarry 2. WhatGODjoinstogetherMatt19:6 3. GODinventedmarriage.ItstheonlypartofParadiseleft! C. KEY:Returntothebeginning(source,blueprint) D. TheGardenofEdenprovides4MUSTS(pillars)forasuccessfulmarriage 1. Whenbuilding,concentrateonYOURSELF,notyourspouse! 2. Marriageisnotsomuchfindingtherightpersonasbeingtherightperson. The4PILLARSFORASUCCESSFULMARRIAGE #1 SEVERANCE a. Leave&cleavebreakingtheparent/childbondisESSENTIAL! b. Weddingsaresimultaneouslysadandbeautifulthereisaloss! c. Whenthereisnoseverance,thereistrouble. 1. Adam&Everepresenttheperfectfamily(noproblems) 2. Adamhadnomotherinlaw!(noparent/childconflicts) d. Ifonecantleave,oneshouldntmarry! Illus.:ThesongBillyBoyshowsthatifthegirlisayoungthingand cannotleavehermother,itsagoodreasontonottakeherforawife. e. AmanSHALLleaveisstronglystated.Itsnotmightormay. #2 PERMANENCE a. Cleavemeanstoclingto,tograborholdwithfirmness b. Itsnotdriftingfromthedockandtyingupsomewhereelse! c. ITISFORLIFE!(Notmaskingtape,butsuperglue!) d. KEY:Neverconsiderdivorceanoption! e. WhatGODhasjoinedtogetherMatt19:6 1. Dontprematurelysevermarriagebydivorce,butonlybydeath. 2. Embalming&divorce:2thingsnottobedonebeforetheirtime!

f. Wemustlearntolivewithandjustacceptsomethingslikeourbodies, thedayofourdeath,andthepeoplewehavechosentomarry. g. Chooseyourloveandloveyourchoice!

#3 UNITY a. ShallbecomeoneItsaPROCESSdesignedperfectlybyGODforus. b. Marriageistwobecomingoneandthewholetimeyouaretryingtofigureout whichoneyouarebecoming! c. Thisisagrowthprocessyouworktoward. 1. Itsnotjustlikingthesamethings(thoughthathelps)! 2. Itsmorethanjustuniformity. d. Theremustbesurrender,oritbecomesuniformity,notunity! Illus.Picturetwocatswithtailstiedtogetherthrownoverafenceis thisunionorunity??? e. Unityinvolvesthewillingnesstoblendwills,YOURSwithyourMATEs! 1. KEY:Lookformutualgoals. 2.Loveisnotsomuchlookingintoeachotherseyes,butlookinginthe samedirection! 3. Onlythenwillyoubecomeone! THEGOAL:TogrowclosertoeachotherbymoldingeachoneswilltoGODs!

#4 INTIMACY a. b. c. Theywerebothnakedandnotashamed. 1. Thisisliteral,butbroaderthanphysical. 2. Itmeansnoemotionalbarriersnocoveringup. 3. Beemotionallynakedandopenbeforeeachothernotafraid! Itstragicwhenonecantsharehis/herlifewiththeother. 1. KEY:Meaningfulselfdisclosure! 2. ThisrequiressomeT.V.TransparentVulnerability! Beingtotallyopenwitheachothersfaults,knowingyouarestillloved anyway,andtrustingthisinformationwillnotbemisused,then youwilltrulydiscoveraMARRIAGEMADEINHEAVEN!

CONCLUSION: THESEAREGODsPRINCIPLESTHEYWILLWORKTOBLESSUS

IF WE WILL WORK TO USE THEM!!!

Unity
Mansatisfiesthewoman; Womansatisfiestheman; GODblessestheunion. Manplantstheseed; Womanbearsthechild; GODgivesthespirit. Mansetsthedisciplinestandards; Womansetsthelovestandards; GODbalancedisciplinewithlove. Manisthebreadwinner; Womanisthebreadwarmer; GODisthebreadprovider. Maniswomanshero; Womanismanscheerleader; GODisthecoach. Manleadsasthewomanshead; Womanfollowsasthemansbody; GODmakesthembecomeoneflesh. ManpresentsapictureofChrist; Womanpresentsapictureofthechurch; GODmakesthemjointheirs.

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