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OF THE BIBLE
At the heart of the biblical teaching on the family is the head of the family, the Father, who is
the final authority, the one who takes responsibility for the rest of the household. For this
reason we begin our study of the family with a study of the Fatherhood of God. The apostle
Paul, who knew God as Father, makes this unusual claim that “every family in heaven and on
earth is named after him”.
Our image of a father is coloured by our own fathers. If you had a father who beat you and
was unfaithful, who got drunk and left the home, you may not have a good impression of God
as your Father. It is important therefore to know that God the Father is good, kind, strict in
the best sense, with the best interests at heart for His children. We hope you had that kind of
an earthly father. It will help you to understand the qualities of God.
The title father is given to God only a few times in the Old Testament.
The prophet Malachi calls God the Father of the nation because He has created them. See
Malachi 2:10. If God is their Father, how should they behave?
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Isaiah also calls his Father. What qualities of fatherhood does Isaiah see in God? See Isaiah
63:15-16 and 64:6 ?
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• How did Adam (man) see the relationship between Eve (woman) and himself? (verse
23) _________________________________________________________________
• This is the basic pattern for marriage ever since creation. What is it? (verse 24)
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There is no word for the ‘family’ in the Old Testament. Three terms are used in the Hebrew
language, each to describe a different level of related loyalty.
1. Shebet describes the tribe, such as the tribes of Israel (Genesis 49:28)
2. Mishpachah is more like a clan or small tribe. This is the word used of the 600
Danites in Judges 18:11, though normally of a smaller number.
3. Bayith means a ‘house’ or ‘household’, as in 1 Chronicles 13:14 – the household of
Obededom.
Jesus seems to have come from quite a small ‘family’. How many members do we know
about from his household? See Mark 6:3 ______________________________________
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Remember to include Jacob (or Heli), Joseph’s father (Matthew 1:16 and Luke 3:23). No
doubt Mary had relatives also. The words ‘brother’ and ‘sister’ in the Bible can also mean
cousins or other relatives.
It is clear from the beginnings of marriage in Genesis that God’s ideal marriage is between
one man and one woman. The word ‘husband’ and ‘wife’ appear already in Genesis 3.
However very soon men began to take more than one wife and this became normal practice
throughout much of the Old Testament period. The Old Testament is proof that multiple
marriages bring endless trouble. Note the problems in just two Scriptures:
New Testament practice and teaching clearly instructs us to have only one wife. This is clear
from the following Scriptures. Write down their meaning:
The New Testament gives several insights into the values of closed-knit and happy family
relationships. Think of some of the families that are pictured in Scripture. As you read these
passages, answer the questions about each family. What were the strengths, weaknesses and
struggles of each family pictured here?
2 John 1-4
We know very little about this lady, but what do these verses tell about her family?
2 Timothy 1:5
What gave this family its strength?
The New Testament pictures marriage between one man and one woman as the ideal
relationship at the heart of the family and society. Today marriage is constantly threatened by
the temptations of our secular society. But it is still at the heart of the Christian community
and witness.
Read Ephesians 5:21 – 6:4. This passage contains one of the fullest explanations of the
importance and the beauty of the marriage and family relationship.
Scripture clearly forbids divorce except for distinct reasons. Note what those reasons are:
Scripture clearly forbids extra-marital and homosexual relationships. Explain the following:
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25-35 What reasons does Paul give for remaining unmarried?
It is often said that marriage is the social ideal. We have shown that this is not entirely true
for the Christian. In some cases and for good reasons, some Christian believers may prefer to
remain single and free. The ideal for the Christian is not marriage. It is the family.
• For those who are single (who would like to be married), consider how you can find
your contentment in the household.
• For those who are married and maybe wish they were more free, consider the reasons
why marriage is such a valuable part of life.
Note the biblical image of the institution of marriage. What do these verses tell us?
1. Do you have good memories of your childhood? Did you have a good father, who has
given you a good impression of fatherhood? If so, thank God for your father. What
qualities did your father have that remind you of God, your heavenly Father? If you had a
bad father, do you have a bad impression of the fatherhood of God? Can you forgive your
earthly father? Give thanks that you have a good Father in heaven.
2. How large is your family? Do you have a good relationship with your family? Is there
anyone you find specially hard to love, about whom you should pray? Or for whose
salvation you should pray? Spend some time in prayer for your wider family.
3. Are you married? Is it a good marriage? What can you do to improve your relationship
with your wife/husband and children (if you have them)? If you are single, have you
prayed about marriage or remaining single? What is God’s will for you?
Father in heaven, we thank you for our families, that have brought us into the world,
protected us, cared for us and provided for us. We pray that we will have the grace
and power to play our full role in making Christ the centre of our household, and in
modelling our family on the Word of God.
1. Share together about your families – how large? How many members are believers? What
you appreciate about your family members? How you can pray for your families? Spend
some time in prayer for your families.
2. Look together at Ephesians 5:21. Discuss the biblical role of the wife. Is it different from
the culturally accepted role often given to wives? The do the same for the role of the
husband. Is there any clash between Scripture and culture?
3. Talk together about the qualities of a perfect Christian family. What are the obstacles in
the way of family harmony and peace? What causes adultery, unfaithfulness, disharmony
and break-up of marriages? Share together the qualities that keep families together.