Why We Fail?

Lack of persistence
More people fail not because they lack knowledge or talent but because they quit. The total secret of success lies in two words Persistence & Resistance . Persist in what must be done and resist what ought not be done.

When Problem seem insurmountable, quitting seems to be the easiest way out

Winners are struck but not destroyed. We all have had Setbacks in life. Failing does not mean we are failure.

2.Lack of conviction
People who lack conviction take the middle of the road; and guess what happens in the middle of the road? you get run over

People without conviction do not take a stand. they go along to

get along because they lack of confidence and courage

They conform in order to get accepted even when they known that what they are doing is wrong. They behave like part of a herd

3.Rationalizing
Winners may analyze but never rationalize. That is a losers game losers always have a book full of excuses to tell you why they could not

We hear Excuses like.

 Im unlucky Im born under the wrong stars Im not good looking I dont have contacts I dont have enough money The economy is bad If only i hade the opportunity If only I didnt have a family The list can go on and on ..

4.Not Learning from Past Mistake

Some people live and learn, and some only live. Wise people learn from their mistakes.

People who do not learn lessons from history are doomed. Failure is a teacher if we have right attitude. Failure is a detour, not a dead end. It is a delay, not a defeat. Experience is the name we give to our mistake.

5.Lack of Discipline Anyone who has accomplished anything worthwhile has never done so without discipline.

Discipline takes selfcontrol, sacrifice, and avoiding distractions and temptation. It means staying focused. steam does not move the engine unless it is confined. Niagara falls would not generate power unless it were harnessed

Poor Self-esteem is a lack of selfrespect and self-worth. it leads to abuse of ones self and others.

6.Poor self Esteem

People with low self-esteem are constantly looking for identity. they are trying to find themselves. one's self is not to be found but to be created

Idleness and laziness are consequences of poor selfesteem and so is making excuses

Idleness is like rust that eats into the most brilliant metal.

7.Fatalistic Attitude

A fatalistic attitude prevents people from accepting responsibility for their position in life. They attribute success and failure to luck. They resign themselves to their fate.

They believe and accept the predestined future written in their horoscopes or stars, that regardless of their effort whatever has to happen will happen

Hence they never put in any effort and complacency becomes a way of life. They wait for things to happen rather than make them happen

Source Reference :Shiv Khera, you can win , New dawn press

Thanks & Regards Madhan.K.G