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CONTENTS
Judging the books of our covers
The 2013 National Jewish Book
Awards were announced this week
and were proud to say we had them
covered.
Winner of the Jewish Book of
the Year is Yossi Klein Halevis Like
Dreamers: The Story of the Israeli
Paratroopers Who Reunited Jerusa-
lem and Divided a Nation. We put
that book on the cover of our Octo-
ber 11, 2013 issue.
Winner in the biography, autobi-
ography, and memoir category is
Phyllis Chesler for her An American
Bride In Kabul: A Memoir, the sub-
ject of our October 4 cover.
Among the finalists in that cat-
egory is The Worlds of Sholem
Aleichem: The Remarkable Life and
Afterlife of the Man Who Created
Tevye by Columbia professor and
former Jewish Standard intern Jer-
emy Dauber, whom we interviewed
for our November 8 issue.
In the history category, the winner
is My Promised Land: The Triumph
and Tragedy of Israel by Ari Shavit,
which we review on page 53 of this
issue.
Rabbi Menachem Genack of
Englewood was a finalist in the an-
thologies and collections category
for Letters to President Clinton:
Biblical Lessons on Faith and Lead-
ership, which we wrote about on
November 22.
Rabbi Ephraim Karnafogel, former-
ly spiritual leader of Teanecks Con-
gregation Beth Aaron, was a finalist
in the scholarship category for The
Intellectual History and Rabbinic Cul-
ture of Medieval Ashkenaz. Passaics
Ruchama King Feuerman was a final-
ist in fiction for In the Courtyard of
the Kabbalist, which we reviewed
on September 21.
All told, awards were given in 17
categories. The full list of winners can
be found at jewishbookcouncil.org.
LARRY YUDELSON
BREAKING NEWS
Chief rabbinate:
Well trust Rabbi Avi Weiss after all
The chief rabbinate of Israel said
it will accept letters from Rabbi
Avi Weiss confirming the Judaism
of couples who wish to wed in the
country.
In a letter sent Wednesday to
Rabbi Weisss attorney in Israel, As-
saf Benmelech, the chief rabbinate
affirmed its position on the liberal
Orthodox rabbi from Riverdale, N.Y.
In October, the chief rabbin-
ate rejected a letter from Rabbi
Weiss vouching for immigrants who
wanted to marry in Israel, pend-
ing an investigation into his adher-
ence to traditional Jewish law. The
move sparked widespread outrage
at the realization that Rabbi Weiss,
a longtime synagogue leader who
had vouched for the Jewishness of
many Israeli immigrants in the past,
suddenly was having his credentials
called into question.
Naftali Bennett, Israels religious
services minister and Diaspora af-
fairs minister, has been meeting with
officials from the Orthodox Rabbini-
cal Council of America and the chief
rabbinate since November to resolve
the issue. Mr. Bennett reportedly
sees the issue as extremely impor-
tant, given the potential negative im-
pact it could have on Israel-Diaspora
relations.
Rabbi Weiss founded and until
this academic year headed the lib-
eral Orthodox rabbinical seminary
Yeshivat Chovevei Torah, and he has
pioneered a number of controversial
innovations in the Orthodox world,
most recently his decision to ordain
women as clergy through a new
seminary called Yeshivat Maharat.
I appreciate that this injustice
has been corrected and am deeply
grateful for the overwhelming sup-
port I received from all over the
world, Rabbi Weiss said in a state-
ment. I also urge the chief rabbinate
to reflect on how it can help us reach
out, respect and acknowledge all
Jews in the Diaspora. JTA WIRE SERVICE
Jerusalemites bare
their underwear
on No Pants Day
We all know that its impolite
to stare at strangers.
But nearly everyone on the
Jerusalem Light Rail did just that
on January 13, when some 50
people boarded the tramway
and proceeded to take off their
trousers.
It was the second time the No
Pants Subway Ride was staged
in Jerusalem, and organizer
Boaz Balachsan said he was very
happy with the outcome.
It was great; the number of
participants doubled from last
year, and people really got into
it, Mr. Balachsan said. People
loved it. We got a lot of posi-
tive feedback. A lot of people
laughed.
The silly global event started
en masse in New York in 2002.
The idea came about after a city
resident forgot to put on trou-
sers and boarded the subway
in his underwear on January 10,
1986. Although mortified at first,
he found that reactions were
so positive that he and some friends
copied his slipup the following year
until eventually it snowballed into an
international event.
No Pants Day, aka No Pants Subway
Ride, is now celebrated every year on
or around January 10, and again on
the first Friday of May (thanks to a
difference of opinion among organiz-
ers). Only cities with trams or subway
systems can participate.
Mr. Balachsan, a Jerusalem-based
artist, had taken part in the foolery in
European cities and was waiting for
the Jerusalem Light Rail to be finished
in order to launch an Israeli version.
His inaugural baring of legs last year
was so well received that this year
he and some friends set up a group
called Improv Israel to organize simi-
lar events.
No Pants Day is just one of the
pranks and other spontaneous
events to break the routine that we do
in Jerusalem. We do lots of events,
he says.
People are always trying to put
Jerusalem in a box of being a city
with a very religious vibe where
nothing happens. But there are tons
of students in the city center and
there are a lot of really awesome
people here. Even members of the
religious communities accept our
pranks. Were not doing something
provocative; its a joke.
Mr. Balachsan sent an invitation to
Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu
and other politicians, asking them to
join the fun. It was mostly students
taking part, and some tourists who
happened to be here, he says. Actu-
ally, we had a small group from the
Ukraine who were sad that they were
going to miss No Pants Day at home
and then were really happy to hear we
were organizing an event in Jerusa-
lem.
As for what to wear, Mr. Balachsan
says, Last year we wore underwear
with cartoon characters but this year
we just wore what there was. Next
year, well surprise you.
VIVA SARAH PRESS / ISRAEL21C.ORG
The January cold didnt stop pantsless
riders from joining the fun. AILON GLITZ
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Resurrecting Koach?
Students try to revive Conservative movements college program
JOANNE PALMER
L
ast year, the United Synagogue
of Conservative Judaism, which
represents the Conservative
movements affiliated syna-
gogues, discontinued Koach, the move-
ments main outreach program to college
students.
That move seemed exactly in tune with
the findings of the recent Pew study, which
showed a diminished, steadily shrink-
ing Conservative movement, although it
did conflict with United Synagogues own
strategic plan. That plan, which United
Synagogues board adopted in 2011, rec-
ognized that a continuing presence on
campus for Conservative Judaism is vital
to maintain the bridge between our high
school students and the young adult post-
college generation.
Many of the students who were part of
Koach, and who were enthusiastic par-
ticipants in its signature event, the annual
Koach Kallah, agreed with United Syna-
gogues ideals, if not with its actions. They
are putting together a new organization,
Masorti on Campus, and offering a Shab-
baton, based on the best of the kallah, that
they hope will help grow their organiza-
tion. (Masorti is the name the Conservative
movement uses outside North America.)
There are a significant number of stu-
dents across North America who consider
themselves to be committed Conservative
Jews, or who identity with the movement
as closest to the way they interact with
Judaism, said Eric Leiderman of Engle-
wood, a senior at the University of Hart-
ford and Masorti on Campuss director of
institutional advancement. Those students
find significance in following halacha and
have egalitarian values, he said. Those
are the people at whom the Shabbaton is
aimed.
We are trying to fill the void that was
left when Koach was shut down, he said.
Many students care about it, significant
numbers of them, and we cant just let
them be lost.
We cant let campus organizations
flail around by themselves. There has to
be some sort of network, some kind of
umbrella organization.
Even when students are drawn to the
Conservative movements particular com-
bination of tradition and egalitarianism,
Mr. Leiderman continued, they often look
for but fail to find the kind of real commu-
nity that Orthodox groups establish with
apparent ease. We are trying to work on
community building, he said.
Thats the theme of
the Shabbaton com-
munity building.
Dougl as Kandl of
Cranford, who has just
graduated from Pace
University and is about
to start a graduate pro-
gram there, is a founder
of Masorti on Campus.
He talked about how
Koach died. (United
Synagogue says that
Koach is on hiatus, but
I think that really it is
defunct, he said parenthetically.)
I was really involved with Koach in its
last year, he said. We tried to save it. We
were out at the Israel Day Parade in 2012,
getting signatures. We got about 1,000 all
together.
We presented at the United Syna-
gogues board meeting, and they renewed
Koach for a year. They gave us $100,000
and said we had to fund raise about
another $100,000. We did. Koach ran
through last year.
I was very involved at the Koach Kallah
last year, at the University of Pennsylvania.
We had 138 people; it was very successful.
But then, despite some last-minute
attempts, Koach was defunded.
What happened next was that a lot of
students reached out to me, saying that
they wanted to do a Shabbaton on cam-
pus, something like the Koach Kallah, so
we decided that it would be our starting
point, Mr. Kandl continued. We also
hope to run an Onward Israel trip through
the Jewish Agency, and we hope that we
will have a program to Israel that will com-
bine an internship and Jewish studies in
the summer of 2015.
The Shabbaton, which will be held at
the Jewish Theological Seminary in Man-
hattan, is the result of a meeting Mr. Kandl
and other students had with representa-
tives of Conservative movement groups,
including JTS, the Los Ange-
les-based Ziegler School of
Rabbinical Studies, Wom-
ens League for Conserva-
tive Judaism, the Federation
of Jewish Mens Clubs, the
National Ramah Commission, the Semi-
nario Rabinico Latinoamericano in Argen-
tina, the Conservative Yeshiva in Jerusa-
lem, Marom, and Masorti Olami. (The last
two organizations are Conservative groups
based outside North America.)
Some of them particularly Womens
League are giving us money, and some
are giving us advertising, Mr. Kandl said.
The goal is to draw 80 students; after
two weeks, 25 had registered, which puts
it firmly on track, he added.
The Shabbaton will be modeled on the
Koach Kallah, but there will be significant
differences. The kallah was more about
Jewish learning, Mr. Kandl said. We will
have Torah lishmah sessions, but it will
be more about how to bring Conservative
Judaism to your campus. We are bringing
in an organization called Present Tense,
which works with Jewish startups; the
coordinator will be Megan Goldman, a rab-
binical student who led a Shabbaton with
similar ideas last year. The chancellor
of JTS, Dr. Arnold Eisen, Marom Olamis
director, Avigail Ben Aryeh, and the direc-
tor of the Conservative Yeshiva, Rabbi Joel
Levy, all will join the group as well.
Mr. Kandl, who grew up in USY, the Con-
servative movements youth group, was
active in Jewish life on campus, including
Hillel. I think that there needs to be more
on campus for progressive Jews in general,
not just for Conservative Jews, he said.
The URJ thats the Union for Reform
Judaism doesnt have a college program
right now. The market is only Chabad,
Aish, and the Orthodox Union. We want
to fill that gap.
Chabad is very good at marketing itself.
Its good at pitching Judaism to them.
When the others advertise themselves,
they talk about Orthodox Judaism, but
Chabad says just Judaism.
We are learning from them.
Mr. Leiderman, who went to the Moriah
School in Englewood through eighth grade
and then to the Abraham Joshua Heschel
School in Manhattan for high school, is
majoring in Jewish studies and consider-
ing rabbinical school. He said that he is
unable to make sense of some of his peers
assumptions about Conservative Judaism.
There are students who for political
reasons dont identify with the move-
ment, he said. There is a growing nega-
tive feeling toward Conservative Judaism,
but it is based on a misunderstanding of
what Conservative Judaism represents.
Im not sure exactly why this is, but when
you ask college students what theyre look-
ing for, theyll say Jewish tradition and
egalitarianism.
Those are the values of Conservative
Judaism, but there is some kind of discon-
nect, where they dont actually see the
movement as committed to halacha and
egalitarianism.
Despite the Pew study, I do think the
movement has a future, he said. Right
now, I am in Jerusalem, on a two-week
How to go
to the Shabbaton
Who: Masorti on Campus
What: Presents its first Shabbaton
Where: At the Jewish Theologi-
cal Seminary, 3080 Broadway,
Manhattan
When: February 21-23
Why: To help student leaders
learn to build vibrant Jewish cam-
pus communities
How to learn more or to register:
Go to www.masorticampus.org
Conservative college students read Torah during weekday morning
services.
Eric Leiderman
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RABBI LAWRENCE S. ZIERLER
I
had the opportunity to be with
the late Prime Minister Ariel (Arik)
Sharon on two occasions.
The first was at an Israel Bonds
Rabbinic Cabinet mission to Israel in Jan-
uary 1992 and the other was as part of a
United Jewish Communities National Mis-
sion a decade later. In the first instance
he was then the Minister of Housing, and
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ment blocks. His response, in his inimi-
table way, was to immediately instruct
one of his assistants to provide all of us
with maps to better illustrate the answer
he was about to give.
This was typical Sharon. As a military
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sure according to his maps. He always
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iting delegations like ours. In the words
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by him but clearly intuited, aino domeh
shemiah lreiyah, there is no com-
paring the power of something seen to
that which is merely heard. So we went
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phy in our carry-on luggage.
On the second occasion, he was prime
minister, and addressed a special ses-
sion of the mission participants at Kiryat
Moriah, the educational compound of
the Jewish Agency in south Jerusalem.
Arriving there early, my wife, Berni, and I
managed to secure seats in the front row.
Beyond the fascination of studying the
moves and methods of his security detail,
whose minds seem to operate like mini
machines pivoting at prescribed intervals
and who switch positions every 10 min-
utes to avoid fatigue, was the hominess
and unguarded manner of speech exhib-
ited by the prime minister.
Unlike the earlier experience 10 years
before, where his physiognomy was more
than remarkable I calculated three to
four steps for the average person to his
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Sweet Tastes of Torah
Community rabbis gearing up for night of mishkan study
LOIS GOLDRICH
R
abbi David Bockman, coor-
dinator of classes for the
North Jersey Board of Rab-
bis annual Sweet Tastes
of Torah community-wide evening of
study, thinks that this years program will
be special.
While the event now going into its
fifth year always has drawn some 200
to 300 people, there are a couple of
things that are different this year, Rabbi
Bockman said.
Rabbi Bockman, the religious leader
of Congregation Beth Shalom of Pomp-
ton Lakes, said that his job as organizer
consists largely of nudging rabbis to
develop teaching ideas.
Every Sweet Taste of Torah evening
has had a theme, but in the past many
rabbis have chosen to go their own way,
he added. But this year, people have
glommed onto the theme and are excited
by it. It caught their imagination.
In fact, Rabbi Bockman said, of the 20
classes being offered at the Fair Lawn
Jewish Center on February 1, 17 are
closely connected to the topic chosen
by his committee: Building a Mishkan
Making Room for God in our Lives.
Were looking at all different aspects
of it, he said, explaining that the idea
arose from the Torah portion that will be
read the morning before the program.
Terumah is about donations for and
instructions on how to build the taberna-
cle, or mishkan, he said. When the com-
mittee came up with the idea of building
a mishkan, it gave almost everybody
an idea. It really connected with a lot of
people.
In line with this theme, rabbis will
tackle subjects ranging from Old World
Chasidic Melodies to The Ancient Ark
as a Model for Personal Integrity, Rabbi
Bockman said. His own presentation
is called From Boring Texts to Fiery
Devotion.
Other presentations will include The
Collapsed Mishkan When God Seems
Anything but Present and Moving Day
at the Mishkan, exploring why the Torah
provided so many details about taking
down and building up the tabernacle.
While several of the presentations are
planned as lectures, the majority of them
will involve discussion, Rabbi Bockman
said.
Most will include reading together,
studying, and discussing, he said. Others
will include singing, and two will involve
chanting using the image of the space
between the cherubims wings as the
focal point for meditation.
He said that participating rabbis
members of the North Jersey Board of
Rabbis look forward to the evening.
He noted that after the YJCC in Washing-
ton Township lost funding for its Jewish
Learning Project several years ago, he
suggested at a meeting of the NJBR that
local rabbis might fill the void.
I said, Weve got all these rabbis. Why
do we need to bring in expensive lectur-
ers? Theres enough talent here. The
rabbis are interested in teaching, and it
gives them a chance to teach something
theyre interested in to people outside
their congregations.
Rabbi Bockman said the treatment of
this years theme exploring the idea of
the mishkan from many different angles
really isnt new.
For a long time, people who have
studied the structure of the tabernacle
have found that it is not just a physi-
cal space but also represents some-
thing that people can project their ideas
and desires onto, he said. Because it
doesnt exist physically, it may be used
metaphorically.
The evening is important for two rea-
sons, Rabbi Bockman added.
Its not about politics, and it breaks
down any silos between synagogues and
other institutions. This is about Jewish
learning, and studying Torah is some-
thing we can all agree on.
In addition, Just being part of a larger
group doing this together is enjoyable.
Even if its just for that one night, seeing
all those people go into classes is energiz-
ing and reaffirming.
For his part, Rabbi Ben Shull presi-
dent of the NJBR and religious leader of
Temple Emanuel of the Pascack Valley
in Woodcliff Lake would like to see the
commitment to study extend beyond one
evening.
Weve tried and will continue to offer
the opportunity for people to continue
to learn after the event, he said, noting
that the ultimate hope is for learning to
extend throughout the year. He pointed
out that some regional events already
have taken place, especially in the Fair
Lawn area, but for this kind of ongoing
programming to be successful, it would
require more serious investment on the
part of the larger community.
It needs people committed to it, he
said. Rabbis have the interest but
theres an inability to take it further
Rabbi David Bockman teaches at last years Sweet Tastes of Torah.
Sweet Tastes of Torah draws a diverse group every year.
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because we need a professional to devote time to it
and for laypeople to take it more seriously.
Rabbi Shull noted that the evening is always
hosted by a shul and that this contributes to its suc-
cess. Its a warmer feeling than going to some other
institution, without a host committee to welcome
you and after a congregation hosts the event,
its members are more likely to attend the following
year. Theres something important about the syna-
gogue aspect, he said.
Rabbi Shull said the night of learning is really
a shot in the arm for rabbis, who get to join with
many others in a common venture. Even rabbis who
dont teach that evening may sit in on colleagues
classes, he said.
While it is up to rabbis to choose the style of their
presentation, some styles have proved more success-
ful than others, according to Rabbi Shull. Over the
past few years weve tried a panel discussion, but
the response wasnt what we would have liked.
For that reason, and because the committee could
not select a hot issue suitable for this format, it
decided to omit such a discussion this year.
Rabbi Shull said the Sweet Tastes of Torah pro-
gram is particularly important to the community
since theres no other opportunity for the whole
community to get together to mingle and talk Torah
together. Participants get to benefit from hearing a
variety of rabbis and approaches and to get to know
members of other congregations.
The challenge, he said, is to attract different pop-
ulations, noting that the program tends to attract
older adults. While the committee has tried to devise
ways to attract teens, we havent come up with a
formula to attract them. Still, he said, the NJBR has
put some thought into working with Limmud, using
the approach and resources of the international Jew-
ish learning program.
Wed like to expand, and will have that conversa-
tion, but weve stuck with a formula that has brought
us some success, he said.
It brings the community together in a really great
way, said Nickie Falk, the programs longtime coor-
dinator and a consultant to the Synagogue Leader-
ship Initiative of the Jewish Federation of Northern
Jew Jersey.
Rabbis get to share their love of Torah, and
attendees get excited and want to come again.
Its a real event.
What: The Sweet Tastes of Torah
Building a Mishkan Making Room for God
in Our Lives.
When: Saturday evening, February 1.
Registration is at 6:15 p.m.; Havdalah at
6:50 p.m.; classes at 7:20 p.m. and 8:30
p.m., followed by dessert.
Where: Fair Lawn Jewish Center/
Congregation Bnai Israel, 10-10 Norma
Ave., Fair Lawn.
Cost: $18 per person preregistered by
January 29; $23 at the door.
For more information: Preview the program
and presenters at www.sweettastesoftorah.
weebly.com. Register by mail by sending a
check payable to the North Jersey Board
of Rabbis, 32 Franklin Place, Glen Rock, NJ
07452.
For even more information: call
Nickie Falk at (201) 652-1687 or email
sweettastesoftorah@gmail.com
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FIRST PERSON
An Indian Jewish identity
Local professor reflects on his trip to the Bnei Menashe
MEYLEKH VISWANATH
I
f there are two defining characteris-
tics of my identity, its the fact that I
am Indian and that I am Jewish.
For the last several years, in an
effort to better understand my Indianness
and my Jewishness, I have spent a fair part
of each summer traveling in India and
spending time with Indian Jews in Kerala,
in and around Bombay, in Calcutta, in
Israel, and elsewhere.
In the summer of 2012, I decided to
travel to India to explore a part of India
thats a mystery to most Indians, and at
the same time to visit a people who claim
Jewish antecedents. The Bnei Menashe, a
group of about 7,000 souls in the north-
east Indian state of Mizoram, claim to be
Jews who came to India via China. They
actually are part of a larger group of peo-
ple called Mizo, who number more than
one million.
About 60 years ago, one of the Mizo
leaders received a vision that he inter-
preted as a directive to bring his people
back to their ancient religion. An organiza-
tion called Amishav took up their case and
worked to convert the group to Orthodox
Judaism. More recently, another group,
Shavei Israel, has worked to prepare the
Bnei Menashe for conversion and emigra-
tion to Israel.
About 1,700 Bnei Menashe made aliyah
over the decade, but further emigration
had been held up for various reasons. In
November 2012, the Israeli government
finally gave permission for the rest of the
community to make aliyah.
Since then, small groups of Bnei
Menashe have made their way to Israel;
late last year, Israels interior ministry
allowed 889 Mizos from Mizoram and
another Indian state, Manipur, to under-
take the journey back to Zion.
The northeastern part of India is unlike
any of the countrys other regions. The
people belong to tribes that are very dif-
ferent from the rest of India physically,
culturally, and in the languages that they
speak.
I flew out from Calcutta to a place called
Agartala, the capital of the state of Tripura.
After spending some time with a friend in
a small town a four hours drive from Tri-
pura, I started off for Aizawl, the capital of
Mizoram, where a group of Bnei Menashe
lives. The first part of my journey was a
10-hour bus ride to Shillong in the state of
Meghalaya. Then I took another bus from
Shillong on a Thursday evening, at about
6. I was headed to Aizawl.
This was the beginning of many exciting
experiences.
At about midnight we arrived
at the border of Mizoram state.
I then discovered that because
of the political instability in that
part of India I needed a special
pass to enter Mizoram. I didnt
have one. I worried about being
sent back after traveling all
this way, and, moreover, being stuck for
Shabbat.
Fortunately, nobody actually checked
for permits, and after an agonizing 10 min-
utes at the checkpoint we were allowed
to leave. But at about 11 in the morning,
when we were still about three hours from
Aizawl, the bus came to a complete halt.
We found ourselves at the back of a long
line of buses and trucks. Apparently there
had been a landslide, which would have
to be cleared before we could proceed. It
wouldnt be until Saturday morning that
we would reach Aizawl.
Fortunately, one of my fellow travelers
found a taxi that would take us to Aizawl
by an alternate route. I got there at about
3 p.m., in time for Shabbat.
One of my contacts in Aizawl, a Mizo
Presbyterian woman by the name of Zaii,
welcomed me at my hotel and showed me
how to get to the Bnei Menashe commu-
nity center, a seven-story building perched
on a hillside on a winding street. About 40
or 50 men and an equal number of women
had gathered for Shabbat prayers.
The mishna in Berakhot 4:4 cautions us
that our prayers should not be said as a
matter of rote. Praying together with this
large community of almost-Jews, I could
feel the outpouring of heartfelt supplica-
tion around me. Especially after several
days of a physically gruel-
ing journey through dusty
roads in bone-racking
vehicles, I found it rather
moving. The commu-
nity was very welcoming
toward me, and the chaz-
zan, Meir, who was effec-
tively the rabbi, asked me
to give a dvar Torah. I thought I would be
able to speak in Hindi or English; I have
used both languages in Jewish communi-
ties elsewhere in India. In Mizoram, how-
ever, hardly anybody spoke Hindi. After an
initial attempt in Hebrew and an unsuc-
cessful translation, I switched to English;
the English translator was more comfort-
able with my language.
After the service, Meir invited me to
make kiddush with his family. Since there
was no kosher wine, he offered me some
bread that his wife had made, using only
flour and water and salt, in an oven used
Meylekh Viswanath of Teaneck is an Indian Jew who teaches finance at Pace University. As
part of his research, he investigates economic issues in the Talmud. In addition to believing
that the God of the Jews is God of all the world and has a special relationship with every
human being, he also believes strongly in the importance of the Diaspora and of Diaspora
communities for the continued strength of the Jewish people and the Jewish nation.
After an initial attempt
in Hebrew and an
unsuccessful translation,
I switched to English.
Meylekh Viswanath at the Bara Imambara mosque in Lucknow, India, last year.
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for nothing else. I used this very tasty
bread to make kiddush.
The morning service was as interesting
as the evening service. A high point was
the reading of the Torah. A sefer Torah
was brought out and laid on a table, but
the actual reading was done from a
printed Bible. The quality of the reading
was pretty good, though not following the
traditional system of cantillation.
I was asked to speak once again. On Fri-
day night I had spoken about the Torah
portion, but this time I decided to talk to
the congregation on a more personal level
about the similarities in our backgrounds;
while many Ashkenazi Jews had visited
Aizawl before, this may have been the first
time that they were meeting an Indian Jew.
Of course, I had no idea how much they
understood what I was saying, but I felt
pretty passionate as an Indian Jew speak-
ing to a group of Indians who were about
to become Jews.
After the service, the Torah reader,
Harel, invited me for kiddush. While I was
not able to eat anything at his house, I did
get to meet his family, as well as another
young Mizo man, Elyashiv. Meir and Harel
both were married and had children, but
Elyashiv was not married yet. He had
been brought up Christian, but after read-
ing the Old and New Testaments, he had
decided that Judaism made much more
sense. Elyashiv spoke quite good English
and some Hebrew, as well.
While I was in Aizawl, two women
from Shavei Israel arrived to conduct
some classes on Judaism and Hebrew lan-
guage for the community. Their trip was
in preparation for the voyage a group of
Bnei Menashe was planning to take to
Israel next summer, to undergo formal
conversion.
I wondered what would happen to
this very close-knit community once
they moved to Israel. The younger Bnei
Menashe will speak better Hebrew, they
will be more sophisticated, they will have
better jobs, they will earn more money.
What will this do to the traditional Bnei
Menashe society? In Mizoram, everybody
is religious, Christians as well as Jews;
everybody belongs to a church or syna-
gogue. What will happen in Israel when a
third possibility opens up of being nei-
ther Christian nor Jewish, of being secular,
of not believing in God?
Should the Bnei Menashe community
work these issues out before they reach
Israel? Should they try to learn from other
communities like the Ethiopian Jews or
the Bnei Israel, or even the other smaller
communities of already emigrated Bnei
Menashe?
These are not easy questions. Mean-
while, as I got ready for my return flight
back to Calcutta, I was happy that I had
come to visit this far-flung part of my coun-
try and this exotic group of Jews-to-be. I
felt that I was a more complete Indian and
a more complete Jew for meeting these
people, who were so different from me
and who nevertheless had so much in
common with me.
Tallitot and tefillin bags in the mens section of the prayer room on Sunday morning.
The town of Aizawl as seen from a neighboring hill. ALL PHOTOS COURTESY MEYLEKH VISWANATH
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Combining forces
Glen Rock rabbi, pastor share strengths in interfaith class
LOIS GOLDRICH
I
nterfaith study programs work for all
kinds of reasons, according to Rabbi
Neil Tow.
Rabbi Tow has participated in such
an initiative for the last seven years. Moti-
vated by the experience of his own mentor
Rabbi Leonard Cahan, rabbi emeritus of
Congregation Har Shalom in Potomac, Mary-
land Rabbi Tow, religious leader of the
Glen Rock Jewish Center, posed the idea for
such a class to Pastor Roger Spencer of the
towns Good Shepherd Lutheran Church.
When I was relatively new [to Glen
Rock], I asked Pastor Spencer, one of the
senior ministers in town, if he had ever done
an interfaith study program, Rabbi Tow
said. He said no. I mentioned to him that
Rabbi Cahan has been part of a very success-
ful program for a decade or more, also with
a Lutheran pastor. Theyve done classes and
even taken a trip to Israel together.
I said, Wouldnt it be great to bring our
communities together to study material we
both consider to be holy and important to
us. He was very open. Were now into our
seventh year of partnership, and its become
something we look forward to.
Rabbi Tow said that over the years,
the class generally ranging from five to
10 students has attracted an interest-
ing mix of folks from a variety of Christian
denominations and from my synagogue and
other Jewish communities in the area. There
has always been a group of people open to
these kinds of discussions and interested in
engaging in this material.
Some years its bigger, some smaller, he
added.
The group meets once a month, generally
between January and June, to avoid both the
High Holy Days and Christmas. Attendees
are fairly evenly split between church and
synagogue members.
Course offerings have focused mainly on
biblical writings including studies on Gen-
esis, the life of Moses, prophets and proph-
ecy, and King David but this year the group
tackled lifecycle symbols and ceremonies in
both traditions.
We covered birth through marriage,
death, burial, baptism, and elements of
religious thinking, Rabbi Tow said. This
year well be going back to the Bible, doing
Psalms: Poetry of the Soul. Classes switch
locations from month to month, he said; the
next class, set for January 30, will be held at
Good Shepherd.
The Book of Psalms is particularly appro-
priate, Rabbi Tow said, because both reli-
gions share it as holy, and it is an often-used
text. And since most psalms happen to be
shorter, it will allow for us to really get into it.
Because they are so common in both lit-
urgies, people can really connect with it.
Rabbi Tow said that
part of the blessing of
this interfaith venture is
the chance to sit together
with the pastor and pre-
pare material for their
classes. As satisfying and
uplifting as the actual
teaching of the class is,
having some face time
together to look at the text
and talk about issues is
equally valuable, he said.
Pastor Spencer clearly agrees, not-
ing that while he and his members have
learned much from the class, most often
my learning has come when the rabbi and
I sit down to plan out a session.
He and I get to go deeper in sharing.
It has been a blessing and a joy to learn
and teach with Rabbi Tow. And that goes
across the board in our working together
in many areas in our town.
Rabbi Tow noted that since the church
vicar, or intern, often sits in on planning
sessions and joins the discussion, the two
religious leaders feel that theyre paying
it forward, introducing the idea of inter-
faith study to the next generation.
If Im fortunate enough to bring an
intern here to the synagogue, I hope to
involve that person as well, he said.
Rabbi Tow said that he and Pastor
Spencer each bring some-
thing different to the table.
Pastor Spencer is well-
seasoned and thought-
ful, a great reader of text
for moral messages and
relevance. I can root the
discussion in the origi-
nal Hebrew l anguage
and bring out things that
English translations can-
not. We hand it off to one
another.
Response from attendees has been posi-
tive, he said, noting that members of the
class often suggest future topics.
Citing the value of the class, Pastor
Spencer said that while it has introduced
both synagogue and church members to
different perspectives, it has not been so
much [about] seeing things in a different
way as deepening our appreciation of one
anothers traditions.
Programs such as this are always a
benefit, valuable to the individual faith
communities and to the town as a whole
even for those who are not directly partici-
pating. It not only teaches but also makes
a statement to the wider community about
interfaith relationships.
We share learning and time together
because we accept and respect one
another as people and as faiths.
Rabbi Neil Tow
winter break program. Not all of the
20 of us on the program identify them-
selves as Conservative Jews, but we all
identify with intellectual Judaism. Hold-
ing to traditional halacha is important
and relevant, but so is not being afraid
to question, to discuss openly. Pluralism
holding different opinions as valid is
important.
Conservative Judaism embodies intel-
lectual Judaism.
He takes issue with the Pew report. It
is seen by us by college students as
not making sense, as not representative
of what we see as reality.
We dont think that the Conservative
movement is dying. It will look different,
but its going to continue. Its not going
away.
We love this type of Judaism. Its how
we express ourselves.
Marc Gary is the Jewish Theological
Seminarys executive vice chancellor
and chief operating officer; he repre-
sented the seminary at the discussions
that gave birth to the Shabbaton. He said
that the seminary, like most of the rest
of the movement, is working to keep col-
lege students connected. It is a mistake
to infer from the decision of one organi-
zation to discontinue a particular college
program that there is a lack of commit-
ment among the leaders of Conserva-
tive Judaism to our college students, he
wrote in an email.
In a later phone conversation, Mr. Gary
cited as examples of new initiatives the
Nishma program, begun last summer,
which provided 15 students with intensive
Torah study at JTS. We will have maybe
20 students this year, maybe more,
he said. It has a stellar facility, and we
already have more than 15 applications.
He also talked about Reshet Ramah, a
new program aimed at graduates of the
highly successful network of summer
sleepaway and day camps that span the
country. A significant number of Ramah
staff already are on college campuses,
he said. And we have had some alumni
events where we partner with Reshet
Ramah here, and it attracts college and
graduate students. It is a strong recogni-
tion on the part of Ramah and JTS that
we already have thousands of present
and former campers and staff on college
campuses already.
And, of course, there is the Masorti on
Campus Shabbaton.
One of the great strengths is that it
is a student-led organization, without a
top-down structure, Mr. Gary said. The
programs goal is to train leaders, who
will go back to their campuses and gal-
vanize students there. It is a different con-
cept, that students will be most effective
in galvanizing their own communities.
Resurrecting
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Tougher Iran sanctions gain
majority backing in Senate
But still not enough to override veto
RON KAMPEAS
WASHINGTON More than half the United States Sen-
ate has signed on to a bill that would intensify sanctions
against Iran.
But in a sign of the so-far successful effort by the White
House to keep the bill from reaching a veto-busting 67
supporters, only 16 Democrats are on board.
The number of senators co-sponsoring the bill, intro-
duced by senators Mark Kirk (R-Ill.) and Robert Menen-
dez (D-N.J.), reached 59 this week, up from just 33 before
the Christmas holiday break.
Notably only one of the 25 who signed up in recent
days Senator Michael Bennet (D-Colo.) is a Democrat,
a sign of intense White House lobbying among Democrats
to oppose the bill.
Backers of the bill say it would strengthen the U.S.
hand at the negotiations. But President Obama has said
he would veto the bill because it could upend talks now
under way between the major powers and Iran aimed
at keeping the Islamic Republic from obtaining a nuclear
bomb. A similar bill passed this summer by the U.S.
House of Representatives had a veto-proof majority.
On Thursday, the White House said backers of the bill
should be upfront about the fact that it puts the United
States on the path to war.
If certain members of Congress want the United States
to take military action, they should be upfront with the
American public and say so, Bernadette Meehan, the
National Security Council spokeswoman, said in a state-
ment posted by the Huffington Post. Otherwise, its not
clear why any member of Congress would support a bill
that possibly closes the door on diplomacy and makes
it more likely that the United States will have to choose
between military options or allowing Irans nuclear pro-
gram to proceed.
A number of pro-Israel groups, led by the American
Israel Public Affairs Committee, are leading a full-court
press for the bills passage, with prominent Jewish lead-
ers in a number of states making calls and writing letters
to holdouts. Dovish Jewish groups such as J Street and
Americans for Peace Now oppose the bill.
The bill would expand sanctions in part by broadening
existing definitions targeting energy and banking sectors
to all strategic sectors, including engineering, mining
and construction. It also would tighten the definition
of entities eligible for exceptions and broaden the defi-
nition of targeted individuals who assist Iran in evading
sanctions.
The National Jewish Democratic Council, in an effort to
back a Democratic president while not expressly oppos-
ing intensified sanctions, issued a mixed verdict on the
bill, saying it does not support its passage at present
though the option of intensified sanctions should remain
open down the road if the president seeks it.
We encourage Congress to support the Presidents
foreign policy initiative by making stronger measures
available should they be required, the statement said.
Final action on the legislation should be dependent upon
Irans full compliance with its obligations.
Rabbi Jack Moline, the NJDCs executive director,
accused AIPAC and the American Jewish Committee of
strong-arm tactics, essentially threatening people that
if they dont vote a particular way, that somehow that
makes them anti-Israel or means the abandonment of the
Jewish community.
David Harris, the AJCs executive director, said he was
shocked by Molines allegations.
We support the Iran sanctions bill, as do a bipartisan
majority of U.S. senators, he said. Can a group differ
with him on a critically important issue like Iran, where
potentially existential issues are at stake, without being
maligned or misrepresented, or is that the price were
supposed to pay for honest disagreement?
A spokesman for AIPAC declined to comment. Moline
subsequently apologized to the AJC, telling JTA that his
understanding now is that the pressure had been exerted
in the organizations name, but not by its employees.
Despite its majority, the law faces significant Senate
opposition. Ten committee chairmen in the Democratic-
led Senate have pushed back against new legislation in
a letter to Sen. Harry Reid (D-Nev.), the Senate majority
leader. One of the committee chairman, Senator Tim
Johnson (D-S.D.) of the banking committee, has the par-
liamentary power to hold the bill.
Among the other committee chairs opposed to advanc-
ing the bill now are four Jewish senators: Dianne Fein-
stein (D-Calif.), the chairwoman of the Intelligence Com-
mittee; Carl Levin (D-Mich.), the chairman of the Armed
Services Committee; Barbara Boxer (D-Calif.), the chair-
woman of the Environment Committee, and Ron Wyden
(D-Ore.), the chairman of the Energy Committee.
JTA WIRE SERVICE
Senator Robert Menendez, addressing the AIPAC
conference in 2013, has led the charge for an
intensified Iran sanctions bill that now has the sup-
port of 59 senators. MARK WILSON/GETTY IMAGES
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When Stosh Cotler takes over as CEO of Bend
the Arc, a Jewish group that fights for immi-
gration reform, workers rights, and other
domestic liberal causes, she will be one of the
few women leading a national Jewish group
of its size.
But Cotlers gender is not the only thing that
sets her apart.
Its not just that she only connected with
Judaism as an adult, or that her appearance
during an interview in her Manhattan office
all-black clothes, dark red lipstick, pale blue
fingernail polish, and a visible tattoo on her
arm is less corporate than Goth. How many
Jewish communal CEOs have a black belt
in kung fu, trained women in self-defense,
danced at a sex club, or protested Israels
treatment of Palestinians during the second
intifada?
The 45-year-old Olympia, Wash., native
declined to discuss her past or present views
on Israel, which she said are not relevant to
Cotler new Bend the Arc head
First woman leader has black belt, radical streak
her work at Bend the Arc. But
she describes her unconven-
tional background as an advan-
tage in reaching out to Jews on
the margins of the community.
If we are successful in
reaching more Jews who have
little or no or an ambivalent
connection to being Jewish,
if they come to us, we will be
transformed because of that
infusion of very different per-
spectives, Cotler said.
Bend the Arc was formed from
the 2011 merger of the New York-
based Jewish Funds for Justice
and the West Coast-based Pro-
gressive Jewish Alliance. It has
billed itself as the nations leading pro-
gressive Jewish voice solely dedicated to
mobilizing Jewish Americans to advocate
for the nations most vulnerable. In addi-
tion to its policy advocacy, Bend the Arc
collects funds for community investing
in disadvantaged areas, makes grants to
grassroots activist groups, and conducts
leadership training. The organization had
a budget of $5.7 million last year.
Cotler has been with the organization
since 2005, for the last three years as its
executive vice president. She is replacing
Alan van Capelle, who spent two years
at Bend the Arcs helm and is leaving to
become CEO of the Educational Alliance,
a venerable Jewish institution on New
Yorks Lower East Side.
Cotlers colleagues at Bend the Arc and
liberal Jewish groups give her high marks
for her strategic planning skills and col-
laborative approach. She has led Bend the
Arcs Selah Leadership Program, which
has trained more than 300 Jewish activ-
ists working for a mix of Jewish and secu-
lar organizations.
Cotler said that she was drawn to Jewish
communal work by her growing aware-
ness of American Jewish power.
We have responsibility to leverage our
financial resources, intellectual heft, cul-
tural capital, to leverage our deep organi-
zation, to leverage the positions of influ-
ence and power that Jews have attained in
politics, business, finance and education
to assist other communities that are still
facing discrimination, that are still disen-
franchised, who are not experiencing the
kinds of opportunities Jews experience on
a daily basis, she said.
Before she began her Jewish communal
career in New York, Cotler who used
to go by the name Staci; Stosh was her
familys nickname for her was an activ-
ist in Portland, Ore. She founded Open
Hand, a local organization that trained
women in self-defense and provided vio-
lence prevention and girls empowerment
programming in local schools.
In her mid-20s, Cotler had what she
describes as a spiritual crisis, but since
none of her friends or family were active
in Jewish life, it did not occur to her that
Judaism could be a resource. A few years
later, however, she had a transformative
experience that she wrote about in the
Love & Justice in Times of War Hagga-
dah. In her essay for the 2003 zine-style
activist Haggadah, Cotler, who identifies
as queer, recounted how a lesbian couple
invited her to their Passover seder after
she did a table dance for them at what she
refers to as a sex club.
Cotler declined to comment on her
work at the club beyond saying that she
was a dancer for a period in her 20s to
make ends meet. But she said going to
that seder, her first in many years, set her
on a Jewish path.
I realized I have a place in this tra-
dition, that I am not alone, that other
people like me found ways to connect,
that this tradition has wisdom to teach,
Cotler said.
Soon after, Cotler said, she met a rabbi
who literally took me under her wing
and said, Please come to synagogue, you
can sit next to me. At age 30, after a few
years as a weekday minyan regular, Cotler
celebrated a bat mitzvah.
In Portland, Cotler was involved in
activist groups like the Jewish Radical
Action Project and Jews for Global Jus-
tice, and she demonstrated against Israeli
policies. In 2001, she protested a Portland
appearance by former Israeli Prime Minis-
ter Ehud Barak. The next year, Portlands
Willamette Week described her staging a
mock Israeli checkpoint in a downtown
intersection.
You are now at an Israeli check-
point. If you protest, you will be killed.
Expect to be blindfolded and beaten,
she shouted through a megaphone,
according to the paper.
Stosh Cotler is taking over as CEO of Bend
the Arc from Alan van Capelle. Here, the two
stand outside the White House.
COURTESY OF BEND THE ARC
SEE COTLER PAGE 32
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RON KAMPEAS
WASHINGTON Bernie Sanders, the indepen-
dent senator from Vermont and the only self-
described socialist in Congress, long has been
an outspoken voice in Washington on issues of
economic inequality.
But with the vanishing middle class figuring
prominently in the campaign for mayor of the
countrys largest city, and President Obama last
month calling the gap between rich and poor
the defining issue of our time, Sanders pet
political cause has moved to the forefront of the
national discussion.
There has been an understanding in the Dem-
ocratic Party that now is the time to focus on
protecting the collapsing middle class and the
needs of moderate- to low-income Americans,
Sanders said. When the middle class is shrink-
ing and the wealthiest people are doing phe-
nomenally well, we do need revenue to come
from the wealthiest people in the country.
Sanders, 72, who long has caucused with the Demo-
crats, is one of 10 Jewish members in the U.S. Senate.
A Brooklyn native, he is the son of Polish immigrants;
his fathers family was wiped out in the Holocaust,
according to a 2007 New York Times profile.
After graduating from the University of Chicago,
Sanders spent time on an Israeli kibbutz around 1963
notably, it was before the 1967 Six-Day War, when it
was not common for American youngsters to spend
time in Israel.
But Sanders is hesitant to draw a connection
between his Jewish background and his priorities as
a senator. With a series of observations about the Jew-
ish history of rootlessness and oppression, Sanders
begins to describe the role of his lower-middle-class
upbringing in forging him into the Congress only self-
described socialist. Then he catches himself.
This isnt a profile, he declared, interrupting him-
self. There are very important issues that need to be
discussed the collapse of the middle class, very high
unemployment rates, the crisis of climate change, the
widening income gap.
With a bespectacled face framed by a wild mop of
white hair and a lingering tendency to bark in Brook-
lyn intonations even after 45 years in Vermont, Sand-
ers is one of the more identifiably Jewish senators.
As everyone in this room knows, I am a Jew, an old
Jew, the actor Fred Armisen, portraying Sanders,
announced in an unaired Saturday Night Live sketch
last year to knowing guffaws from the other members
of the Senate Armed Services Committee.
Now with income inequality becoming a defining
issue in the 2014 midterm elections, Sanders is gain-
ing a different kind of attention. He has become a go-to
talking head on the subject on cable news networks,
Economic issue in spotlight for Senates lone socialist
including the conservative Fox News.
You have the Walton family of Walmart owning more
wealth than the bottom 40 percent, Sanders said. While
at the same time weve had a huge growth in the number of
millionaires and billionaires.
Sanders focus on issues of income inequality are true to
his socialist reputation one he continues to embrace as
fiercely as he did in 1980, when he was the surprise win-
ner of a mayoral election in Burlington, Vt. In 1990, he was
elected to the U.S. House of Representatives, and in 2006
he won his first Senate election.
Sanders acknowledges a certain stigma attached to the
label socialist, but believes Americans would be likelier to
embrace the term if they were better informed about the
benefits of socialism.
The ideas do resonate, but there is a
stigma regarding the word, he said. We
went through a McCarthyite period, a
Cold War with the Soviet Union. There is a
misperception of what democratic social-
ism is.
That might be changing. Where Sanders
once was prone to excoriate fellow Demo-
crats for their solicitousness of corporate
interests or their failure to oppose cuts to
entitlement programs, he now is likelier to
praise them for embracing the battles he
has waged for years.
Sanders notes Bill de Blasios success-
ful run for New York mayor on a platform
focused in large part on income inequal-
ity. Congress, too, has come along, he
says. Entitlement reform formerly was a
watchword among Republicans, and even
among the president and some Democrats.
Now, Sanders says, Most Democrats understand that
Americans dont want cuts in Social Security and Medicaid
and Medicare. The Democratic Party is becoming more vig-
orous in trying to extend unemployment benefits, in raising
the minimum wage. I see that as a step forward in under-
standing that the American people do not want to see more
attacks on the children, the elderly and the poor.
There has been speculation that Sanders may run for
president as a means of keeping Democrats on the true path.
He wont count it out, but insists, again, that his personal
ambitions are not the point. Income inequality is.
I dont wake up every morning thinking about whether I
should be president of the United States, Sanders said. But
those issues have to be discussed. And if nobody else is, I
will discuss them. JTA WIRE SERVICE
Senator Bernie Sanders addressing a rally on Capitol Hill in 2013.
There is a
misperception of
what democratic
socialism is.
SENATOR BERNIE SANDERS
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Cotler refused to discuss her participation
in Israel-related activism, saying that Israel
does not factor into Bend the Arcs work.
Its fully outside of our mission, she
said. We have a principled approach that
we just do not make any commentary on
that issue at all.
We feel like by being so clear in this
way what we create is a big tent, what we
create is an organization where Jews who
have a range of opinions feel like they
can find a home at Bend the Arc to focus
their activist energy on a very progressive
domestic agenda.
Howard Welinsky, a member of Bend
the Arcs executive board who is also active
in the American Israel Public Affairs Com-
mittee and chairs Democrats for Israel, Los
Angeles, said that Cotlers views on Israel
are not relevant to her work at Bend the Arc.
Im personally passionately pro-Israel
and have been very aggressive in those
activities, but when Im on a [Bend the Arc]
call its about the domestic programs of our
country and the progressive Jewish agenda
we focus on, Welinsky said. All the other
things we leave at the door. I have never had
a conversation with [Cotler] about Israel.
Ruth Messinger, president of the Ameri-
can Jewish World Service, which partici-
pates with Bend the Arc in the Jewish Social
Justice Roundtable, praised Cotler for being
a responsive, out-of-the box thinker and a
real team player. Like several other high-
ranking Jewish women professionals inter-
viewed for the article, Messinger praised
Bend the Arc not only for hiring a female
CEO but for recognizing talent within an
organization rather than looking outside.
Rabbi Jill Jacobs, executive director of
Truah, formerly the American branch
of Rabbis for Human Rights, said that as
recently as five or 10 years ago, the Jewish
social justice world was surprisingly male,
and now its really shifting.
Jacobs, who worked with Cotler at Jew-
ish Funds for Justice, said that Bend the
Arcs newly tapped leader is known for
being a strong presence who is attuned
to human dynamics and interpersonal
issues. Cotler, Jacobs said, is not some-
one out there tooting her own horn, but
everyone whos ever worked with her is
impressed by her. JTA WIRE SERVICE
Cotler
FROM PAGE 30
BRIEFS
Silt tablet offers glimpse of biblical times
Ever wonder how the people in bibli-
cal times arranged their schedules? The
answer may lie with a 4,000-year-old silt
tablet recently discovered in the ruins of
Larsa, an ancient Sumer city located in
modern-day southern Iraq.
Larsas neighboring city was Ur Kas-
dim, mentioned in the book of Genesis
as the birthplace of Abraham.
The tablet, currently on display at the
Bible Lands Museum in Jerusalem, lists a
schedule for one of the temples in Larsa
that corresponds with eight days in the
Hebrew month of Shevat and includes a
to-do list for a festival on the eighth day.
The schedule is written in Akkadian.
This silt tablet, which dates back
to the time of biblical Abraham, is the
only Mesopotamian text we know of to
describe temple rituals stretching eight
days. It also illustrates the similarities
between our calendar and its Babylo-
nian origins, museum director Amanda
Weiss said. JNS.ORG
Scarletts spritz for Israels SodaStream
SodaStream, the popular Israeli carbon-
ated drinks company, has announced
that Jewish-American actress Scarlett
Johansson will be its global brand
ambassador in a new multiyear
contract.
Johansson, 28, who was named
Esquire magazines Sexiest Woman
Alive in 2013, will kick off the new part-
nership by appearing in SodaStreams
upcoming $4 million Super Bowl ad.
We are thrilled to welcome the
remarkably talented Scarlett Johansson
into the SodaStream family, CEO Daniel
Birnbaum said in a statement.
Headquartered near Tel Aviv, SodaS-
tream offers devices that allow consum-
ers to use regular tap water to create
homemade carbonated beverages. Last
year, the company generated more than
$436 million in revenue.
JNS.ORG
Golden Globes features Jewish winners
and spurs Woody Allen controversy
Among this years Jewish winners at the
2014 Golden Globes, which took place
Sunday, actor Michael Douglas won
the award for Best Actor in a Miniseries
or TV Movie for his role as Liberace in
Behind the Candelabra, and Andy
Samberg won the award for Best Actor
in a TV Series Comedy for his role on
Brooklyn Nine-Nine.
While Jewish filmmaker Woody Allen
was honored with the Cecil B. DeMille
Award for lifetime achievement, Allens
estranged partner and her son, Mia
Farrow and Ronan Farrow, criticized
the tribute. Allen and Mia Farrow were
together for 12 years until Farrow dis-
covered the director was having an
affair with her adopted daughter, Soon-
Yi Previn. Previn is now Allens wife.
Farrow sued Allen for allegedly molest-
ing her then 7-year-old daughter, but
the charge was eventually dropped.
A woman has publicly detailed
Woody Allens molestation of her at age
7. Golden Globe tribute showed con-
tempt for her & all abuse survivors,
Mia Farrow tweeted.
JNS.ORG
Go ahead and try to look it up
in first Hebrew/Judeo-Yemeni dictionary
The first Hebrew/Judeo-Yemeni Arabic
dictionary was recently introduced by its
editor, Rabbi Dr. Aharon Ben-David. The
lexicon aims to offer the Hebrew equiva-
lent for a popular North Yemeni dialect,
once common in the Jewish communi-
ties of Hidan, Najran, and Higra.
The Yar Yair Dictionary, compiled
by the late Assaf Yair Madar-Halevy
over more than 50 years, comprises
more than 500 pages. Madar-Halevy
died in 1991 and did not live to see his
lifes work published.
I will never forget coming to Israel
in 1951, at the age of nine, Ben-David
told Israel Hayom. A few years later,
I watched Roots [a miniseries based
on Alex Haleys 1976 novel of the same
name] and I decided that I wanted to
find my own roots. Since that day, I
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rom the inception of the Jewish
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tary has been anything but a male-
dominated institution.
On May 26, 1948, Prime Minister David
Ben-Gurion established the Israel Defense
Forces. Less than three months later, the
Knesset instituted mandatory conscription
for all women without children. Today 57
percent of all officers in the Israeli army are
women, according to the IDF.
The IDF recently highlighted the stories
of a group of those women on its blog, in a
list titled 8 Female Soldiers Who Shattered
Barriers in 2013. The article, which featured
women in a variety of military roles and from
diverse backgrounds, said that in recent
years women have taken increasingly high-
level positions in the IDF.
The female soldiers included in the
list challenge stereotypes, wrote the IDF.
Among those listed are two soldiers originally
from the United States: Cpl. Dylan Ostrin,
who is from Houston and made aliyah when
she was 7 years old, and Sgt. Sarit Petersen,
who is from Maryland and is now in the pro-
cess of making aliyah.
Petersen, who recently completed her IDF
term, served as a shooting instructor in the
Nahal Infantry Brigade. Her job was to teach
reconnaissance brigade soldiers Special
Forces to use their weapons. Speaking
from her parents home in Baltimore, Peter-
son was modest about being chosen for the
IDF blog entry.
There are awesome people doing awe-
some things in the army all the time, she
said.
A 2010 graduate of the Yeshiva of Greater
Washington, Petersen said that she was sur-
prised at her selection, though she was one
of the first to hold her position in the IDF.
Petersen trained soldiers slated for elite army
units, who already had completed at least
eight months of basic training and often had
several additional months of more intense
training. She said that she and her colleagues
would sit for hours and hours planning and
analyzing how they were going to take these
men from regular soldiers to Special Forces
to even better.
We would spend hours and hours on an
exercise list. We would look at their old ones,
see what they had done and figure out how
to make it harder and faster, how they could
run more. Then we would go to the shooting
range and make them do all of these [exer-
cises] we had set up for them and they would
do it, she said. We would do it first, to test it
out, and then they would do it.
Is Petersen good with a gun?
Yeah, she said. I am a pretty good shot.
Petersen said she shot her first gun as a
14-year-old, on a vacation with a friend in
Nevada; they shot cans in the desert.
I thought, Wow! I am really good at this
and it is really fun, she said, noting that she
could never have dreamed then of her time
in the IDF.
Other female soldiers on the list have vastly
different roles. Take Pvt. Or Meidan, who
moved to a southern Israeli kibbutz from
Uganda. In November 2012, her town was a
regular target of Hamas rockets. Today, she is
an Iron Dome missile defense system opera-
tor. Also listed is First Sgt. Monaliza Abdo, an
Arab-Israeli combat soldier. While most Arab-
Israelis dont even take part in army service,
Abdo rose through the ranks to become a
commander, teaching soldiers how to com-
bat terrorism and other threats. In December,
she completed three years of service one
more than the required number for Israeli
women.
Lt. Amit Danon, a former Israeli national
champion in rhythmic gymnastics, became
a combat officer in the mixed-gender Caracal
Battalion. She also is on the IDFs list.
She was one of the first women to become
an officer in a combat unit, Risa Kelemer, a
commander who also serves in Carcal, said.
Kelemer, who is from Baltimore, said Cara-
cal is the only coed combat unit in the world.
Boys and girls play the same roles, she
said, noting that despite this she has felt lit-
tle tension from the men she works with. I
encounter more difficulty when I am in civil-
ian life. I meet someone who says, You are a
combat soldier? Girls arent combat soldiers!
Kelemer does not pretend to be as strong
as her male counterparts, though she said
she is able to hold her own. When it comes to
an operation, however, she said each person
has a role. Kelemer, for example, is a trained
grenade launcher. Another female comrade
is a sharpshooter. Another is a medic.
Combat is not just running with 50 pounds
on your back, though we also do that, Kele-
mer said.
Katja Edelman, originally from Kansas
and now a student at Columbia Univer-
sity, recently completed her service as a
combat infantry soldier in the IDFs canine
unit. In that role, she worked with dogs
in the field and trained them back at the
base. She said that the IDF has a lot to be
proud of regarding integration of women.
I felt like I had amazing opportunities in
my service and was able to do many of the
same things men do. It was always impor-
tant to me to demonstrate professionalism
and capability to set the right precedent
for a continued and hopefully expanded
role for women in the IDF.
Edelman said she did feel pressure to
prove herself in the IDF, and she went to
extra lengths not to show signs of fatigue
even if the boys were openly exhausted.
I feel that most women in male-dominated
workplaces can relate, she said.
Kelemers mother, Amian Frost-Kelemer,
said she is incredibly impressed with
and proud of her daughter. But she is also
petrified.
She believes she can do whatever the guys
can do, Frost-Kelemer said. She is really
fast. But the weight they have to carry is not
great for a womans body.
Mentally, there is no issue. Physically, the
reality is that as strong as she is, it is about
heart she is there for the heart.
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Dr. Carole Miller: Helping clients navigate through stress
JUNE GLAZER
Starting out as a special education teacher, after earning
three masters degrees she went to work as a counseling
psychologist at Bnai Brith Career and Counseling Cen-
ter in Union. There, she was given the job of counseling a
growing number of mature women who wanted to enter
the workforce, the result of the then-new phenomenon
known as the Womens Movement.
She was living in Morris County then and after a couple
of years at Bnai Brith people in her community asked
her to open a practice nearby. She did, founding The
Humanex Group, an innovative human resource and
career development counseling and consulting company
that she ran for 27 years. The practice grew rapidly, soon
attracting clients from other areas, particularly Bergen
County and New York City. In 1985, she opened a second
office in Teaneck, where she remained until she closed
her practice in 2005.
A turning point in Dr. Millers career came when she
began working with a large number of men who came
to her complaining of cardiac, hypertensive, and other
major health issues as a result of work pressures. They
were all in competitive jobs and, after their bypass surger-
ies and other treatments, they wanted to find jobs that
would not damage their health, she said.
Most of these men were in their late 40s to mid-50s and
Dr. Miller saw a growing number of these clients in her
practice. Wanting more information to help them, she
began consulting with cardiologists and internists to fig-
ure out what was making them ill. Not getting answers, in
1980 she enrolled in doctoral studies at Rutgers University.
These clients were the focus of articles she wrote that
caught the attention of a team from the School of Allied
Health at SUNY Buffalo conducting a major study that
dovetailed with the work she was doing, and she was
invited to join it. The study, today recognized as land-
mark, followed a group of some 2,000 subjects, monitor-
ing the effects of work pressuresthe word stress had
not yet become a buzzwordon their health.
The study had several facets. One was to determine
individual stress triggers that caused a physiological
change in an individual that, over time, contributed to
health impairment, as well as to determine the types of
triggers that were most frequent and common. Another
facet was to identify measures that could moderate or
reduce the health damage to these individuals, she
explained.
The only clinician on the six member team, Dr. Miller
developed a paper-pencil test to determine whether the
study subjects could identify the factors that were stress-
ful in the lives. Test results were then correlated with the
results of the ambulatory blood pressure monitors they
wore, and showed that some 90 percent were unable to
correctly identify the factors that led to the physiological
Change is part of lifea lot of it predictable and normal, a lot
of it beyond our control, says Dr. Carole Miller, who has helped
thousands of people overcome issues related to transition and
change during her 40-year career as a counseling psychologist
and most recently as a transition coach.
All normal, healthy human beings have issues that come up
at different times in their lives that are difficult to deal with. Relo-
cating for a job, kids who move and go to new schools, situations
related to divorce, or the death of a spousethese are some of
the things people go through during the course of a lifetime,
says Dr. Miller, a Bergen County resident whose own career has
been filled with change.
All normal, healthy
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internal changes that would eventually
damage their health.
In light of this finding, helping the sub-
jects and my clients to be aware of triggers
was one of the things I built into my work.
This was important in order to help them
develop strategies to reduce the effect of
triggers and thus reduce or moderate the
damage, she said.
Another of her contributions to the study
was devising measures to lower blood
pressure. She employed deep breath-
ing techniques, problem solving, attitude
change, and exercise, innovative methods
then that are today common knowledge.
After the study concluded, Dr. Miller con-
tinued to employ the measures she came
up with, refining them as she used them
in her practice. She sometimes used those
same techniques when working with major
corporations and government entities that
had begun hiring her to consult on stress
control.
With her reputation growing, Dr. Miller
started speaking around the country and
teaching at colleges and universities in the
New York area, and began working as an
expert witness in court cases related to
employability in New York, New Jersey,
and Pennsylvania, appeared on cable and
educational TV and radio talk shows, took
up leadership roles in state and national
organizations, and spoke at private organi-
zation events.
All of these activities, combined with the
demands of a busy practice, took a toll on
her. Dr. Miller found herself working up to
60 hours a week, and as a solo practitioner
with a support staff and large overhead, she
could not limit her hours or take extended
vacations. After long deliberation, in 2005
she closed her practice.
Embarking on a new phase of her life,
Dr. Miller became involved with volunteer
work and consulting. But in 2013, with her
lifelong passion of helping people lead bet-
ter lives still burning, she decided to open a
new practice, this time as a transition coach
someone who functions as a teacher,
trainer, and coach with focus on the issue
of change. She set up shop in Englewood
Cliffs.
Change and transition can be difficult
for people. It is an issue I have helped cli-
ents with throughout my entire work life.
In my new practice, I help individuals
improve their lives by overcoming diffi-
culties in dealing with problems that stem
from such things as divorce, unemploy-
ment, career discontentment, retirement
planning, leisure-time activities, adjust-
ment to different stages in life, and adjust-
ment to life as a widow or widower, to
name a few, she says.
One of the ways in which she helps cli-
ents is to advise them to set a goal and make
a concrete plan. I tell them to be specific
and to plan their actions. For example,
wanting to lose 20 pounds is a wish. But,
wanting to lose 20 pounds by Memorial
Day, joining a gym, marking gym visits
on the calendar, and starting a diet is a
commitment.
I advise clients to set goals that are real-
istic and achievable. Finding a new job
within six months with the proper tools
and a plan is realistic. Becoming the senior
vice president of a Fortune 500 company
within five years of graduating from college
is not.
She then assists them to clarify their plan
to clearly define the change they wish
to make and to think it through in con-
cise terms. She helps them establish ways
to measure their progress and refine their
plan as they proceed.
Dr. Miller acknowledges being unconven-
tional in her approach in that she doesnt
follow the medical model traditionally used
by most of her colleagues. That model dic-
tates that the therapist diagnose a pathol-
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My approach has always been based
on a belief that normal people experience
particular issues and problems that dont
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in adjusting their attitude toward different
realities. My job is to give them the tools
they need to feel increased self-confidence
and self-esteem so they can go on and be
comfortable in dealing with the issues in
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Hackensack Medical Group suggests comprehensive approach
You can make a difference in your own health in 2014
by taking a few simple steps. We asked local physicians
from Hackensack University Medical Group | Primary
Care to give us their most effective actions for staying
healthy this year.
Start your day with more than coffee. Your body needs
real nutrition to get going. Beware of fatty or sugary fast
foods at any time of day. If you are 50+, you should have
a colonoscopy. Colo-rectal cancer is very treatable when
discovered early.
David Goldstein, M.D., Board-certified
in Internal Medicine and Gastroenterology
Learn your personal risk factors for heart disease,
stroke, and diabetes so you can make a serious effort
to avoid them. As you get older, its important to stay
active and control any chronic conditions. If youve
been prescribed any medicines, take them consistently
as directed.
Evan Kushner, M.D., Board-certified in Geriatrics
Arthritis and other joint diseases can slow you down. Inac-
tivity leads to serious health problems including obesity,
osteoporosis, and circulatory issues. Its important to get
some effective exercise every day. When pain interferes,
speak with your health care provider. There are many
treatment options to help get you moving again.
Steven Rosner, M.D., Board-certified
in Internal Medicine and Rheumatology
At all stages of life, women can benefit from an annual
well-woman exam that includes a general health
checkup, a breast exam, a pelvic exam, and testing
such as a mammogram or PAP test as appropriate.
Breast cancer and cervical cancer are best treated
when found in their early stages.
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One of the most important things people can do to
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The new year is always a good time to take action to
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Beatrice Barbieri
Beatrice Verp Barbieri, 96, of Wayne, formerly of
Totowa, died on January 13.
She worked at her familys business, Verps Bakery,
for over 50 years.
Predeceased by her husband, Pacifico, and a sister,
Sylvia Verp Davis, she is survived by a brother, Frank
Verp, and nieces and nephews and their families.
Shiva will be observed at the home of Harriet Davis in
Hackensack. Arrangements were by Robert Schoems
Menorah Chapel, Paramus.
Harriet Collins
Harriet Collins of Englewood, 78, died on January 8
at home.
She is survived by her husband of 62 years, Her-
bert, children, Lance, Rhonda Sarner (Dr. David),
and Ellen Richmond (Mark); a brother, Arnold Green-
field; five grandchildren, and one great-grandchild.
Arrangements were by Robert Schoems Menorah
Chapel, Paramus.
Tillie Falkenstein
Tillie Falkenstein, ne Blumenthal, 92, of Washington
Heights, New York City, died on January 9.
Born in Mhlhausen, Germany, she was prede-
ceased by her husband, Felix, and is survived by her
children, Barbara Green (Steven) of Woodcliff Lake,
and Stanley of Marina del Rey, Calif.; a sister, Elsie
Zeilberger (the late Fred) of Fort Lee; four grandchil-
dren, and four great-grandchildren.
Contributions can be sent to the Center for Adults
Living Well, YM-YMHA of Washington Heights, New
York. Arrangements were by Gutterman and Musi-
cant Jewish Funeral Directors, Hackensack.
Lenore Krigsman
Lenore Krigsman, ne Leibowitz, of Hackensack, for-
merly of Bergenfield and Brooklyn, died on January 3.
Before retiring, she worked in accounts receivable
for the Borough of Tenafly.
She is survived by her husband, Harry, children,
Craig of Boston, and Tammy Chesney (William) of
Ramsey; a brother, Stan Leibowitz (Roberta) of Coral
Springs, Fla.; two grandchildren, and a niece.
Donations can be sent to Memorial Sloan-Kettering
Cancer Center, Gastric Cancer Research, New York,
or Temple Emeth, Teaneck. Arrangements were by
Gutterman and Musicant Jewish Funeral Directors,
Hackensack.
Shirley Porte
Shirley Newman Porte of Jersey City, 95, died on
January 8.
Born in Cleveland, she and her husband owned
Creative Printing and Advertising in Jersey City. She
was a longtime member of Temple Beth-El in Jersey
City, a former Jersey Journal Woman of Achievement,
and was a supporter of many charities during her
life. She was a past president of the Jersey City Par-
ents Council, Womens American ORT, and Jewish
Family & Counseling Services.
Predeceased by her husband Elliott in 2011, she is
survived by daughters Leslie Porte (Stan Hutkin) of
West Orange and Bonita Porte Heyman ( Jay) of New
York City; a sister, Phyllis Newman Green of Manhat-
tan, and two grandchildren, Rachel and Sage Heyman.
Arrangements were by Eden Memorial Chapels,
Inc., Fort Lee.
Adele Posnansky
Adele Doris Posnansky, ne Mendelsohn, 77, of
Tamarac, Fla., formerly of Paramus, died on January
11 after a five-year battle with ALS.
She attended Indiana University, and graduated
from Seton Hall University. She was an elementary
school teacher and later worked in jewelry sales.
Predeceased by her husband, William, she is
survived by her children, Laurie H. Martin of West
Milford, Jay Martin (Kathy) of Lawrenceville, Ga., and
Sharee Martin of Buford, Ga.; a sister, Marlene Silver-
man of Lansdowne, Va.; three grandchildren, and
two nieces.
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mal Shelter or Friends of Wayne Animals. Arrange-
ments were by Robert Schoems Menorah Chapel,
Paramus.
Ernie Pressburger
Ernie Pressburger, 79, of Wayne died on January 14
after a battle with multiple myeloma.
He worked until recently as an electrical engineer
and college professor. He was an active member of
the Wayne Adult Community Center and Temple
Beth Tikvah.
Predeceased by his first wife, Minnie, he is sur-
vived by his wife, Joan, daughters, Sherri Federico
(Lou) and Patti Edelstein (Adam); stepdaughters,
Susan Fox (Carter), and Lisa Brandwein (Michael);
and eight grandchildren.
Donations can be sent to the Multiple Myeloma
Research Foundation. Arrangements were by Robert
Schoems Menorah Chapel, Paramus.
Leo Raven
Leo Raven, 96, of Cedar Crest Village in Pompton
Plains, formerly of Pompton Lakes, died on January 9.
Born in Leipzig, Germany, he was a Holocaust sur-
vivor and a member of Congregation Beth Sholom in
Pompton Lakes.
Predeceased by his wife, Rita, he is survived by a
sister, Margot Reich, nieces, nephews, grandnieces,
and grandnephews.
Donations can be made to the Jewish National
Fund. Arrangements were by Louis Suburban Cha-
pel, Fair Lawn.
Marion Saltzman
Marion Saltzman, 93, of Tenafly died on January 9.
Arrangements were by Louis Suburban Chapel,
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Libby Wahl
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Born in Jersey City, she and her husband were among
the founders of Congregation Shomrei Torah The
Orthodox Congregation of Fair Lawn.
She is survived by her husband, Harold, children, Dr.
Steven of Roseland and Barbara Halenar of Ridgewood;
a sister, Naomi Piekarski; three grandchildren, and one
great-grandchild.
Arrangements were by Eden Memorial Chapels, Inc.,
Fort Lee.
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ENGLEWOOD
240 VAN NOSTRAND AVE $699,000
ENGLEWOOD
Quaint Colonial. Expansion possibilities. $758 K
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GREENWICH VILLAGE
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The Crown of Jerusalem comes to New York
The King Davids Crown, a luxury development in the
heart of Jerusalem, has announced the grand opening
of its New York office. Located within The Five Towns
Design Center in Cedarhurst, the new sales office will offer
potential buyers a chance to learn about the magnificent
property.
In conjunction with Jeffrey Mark of J. Mark Interiors,
the King Davids Crown office is the most recent addition
to the newly completed Five Towns Design Center. The
Design Center also houses Brookville Cabinet & Design,
Cedar Carpets, Leiberts Royal Green Appliance, and
NY Custom Closets. Visitors to the new King Davids
Crown office are met with a breathtaking mural of the
regal property and the surrounding Jerusalem hills.
King Davids Crown offers an exclusive combination
of innovation and history and is located at the very
heart of Jerusalem. The King Davids Crown is situated
in the shadow of the King David Hotel and is adjacent
to the sophisticated sports complex of the YMCA. The
property also lies a short distance from the Old City
and the Western Wall, the Great Synagogue, David Cita-
del Hotel, and the Jerusalem Theater. The King Davids
Crown is a short walk from the entertainment, busi-
ness and commerce sites of one of the most outstand-
ing cities in the world.
J. Mark Interiors at The Five Towns Design Center is
located at 461 Central Ave. in Cedarhurst. Stop by to
learn more about these unique residences and take a
virtual tour, or visit www.king-david-crown.com.
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Jeff@MironProperties.com www.MironProperties.com
Ruth@MironProperties.com www.MironProperties.com/NJ
Each Miron Properties office is independently owned and operated.
Contact us today for your complimentary consultation!
ENGLEWOOD
240 VAN NOSTRAND AVE $699,000
ENGLEWOOD
Quaint Colonial. Expansion possibilities. $758 K
ENGLEWOOD
401 DOUGLAS ST $1,345,000
ENGLEWOOD
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TENAFLY
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TENAFLY
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Spacious ex 1 BR. Chelsea gem.
GREENWICH VILLAGE
Quintessential pre-war full-service co-op.
GREENPOINT
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UPPER EAST SIDE
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WILLIAMSBURG
Stylish building. Heart of Bklyn.
UNION SQUARE
1 BR/1.5 BTH duplex w/loft. $699,000
SUNNYSIDE
Large L-shaped studio. Great location.
CHELSEA
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Miron Properties NY
Ruth Miron-Schleider
Broker/Owner
Miron Properties NJ
Remarkable Service. Exceptional Results.
NJ: T: 201.266.8555 M: 201.906.6024
NY: T: 212.888.6250 M: 917.576.0776
to the newly completed Five Towns Design Center. The
Design Center also houses Brookville Cabinet & Design,
Cedar Carpets, Leiberts Royal Green Appliance, and
NY Custom Closets. Visitors to the new King Davids
Crown office are met with a breathtaking mural of the
regal property and the surrounding Jerusalem hills.
King Davids Crown offers an exclusive combination
of innovation and history and is located at the very
heart of Jerusalem. The King Davids Crown is situated
in the shadow of the King David Hotel and is adjacent
to the sophisticated sports complex of the YMCA. The
property also lies a short distance from the Old City
and the Western Wall, the Great Synagogue, David Cita-
del Hotel, and the Jerusalem Theater. The King Davids
Crown is a short walk from the entertainment, busi-
ness and commerce sites of one of the most outstand-
ing cities in the world.
J. Mark Interiors at The Five Towns Design Center is
located at 461 Central Ave. in Cedarhurst. Stop by to
learn more about these unique residences and take a
virtual tour, or visit www.king-david-crown.com.
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