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Transparency is a difficult thing for a lot of people. Many pastors I know have an especially hard time with it. But openness with others can have a profound effect on you. Transparency with God when you pray puts you on His agenda instead of your own. And it also releases other believers to pray for you strategically and specifically. Prayer Killer #5: Unforgiveness You may remember the Scripture passage in which Peter asked Jesus about forgiveness. He asked, Lord, how many times shall I forgive my brother when he sins against me? Up to seven times? (Matt. 18:21). Hebrew law required a person to forgive a person three times for an offense. Peter, by suggesting seven, thought he was being very lenient and forgiving. He was probably shocked when he heard Jesus answer: Not seven times, but seventy-seven times (Matt. 18:22). Jesus was trying to teach Peter that forgiveness is not a matter of mathematics. Nor is it a choice of words. It is an attitude of the heart, and it is the Holy Spirit who empowers us to forgive. Why is forgiveness so important? The answer is found in Matthew 6:1415, For if you forgive men when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you do not forgive men their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins.
PRAYER REFLECTION
O God, we thank you for this earth, our home; for the wide sky and the blessed sun, for the salt sea and the hills and the never-resting winds, for trees and the common grass underfoot. We thank you for our senses by which we hear the songs of birds, and see the splendors of the summer fields, and taste of the autumn fruits, and rejoice in the feel of the snow, and the smell of the breath of spring. Grant us a heart wide open to all the beauty; and save our souls from being so blind that we pass unseeing when even the common thornbush is aflame with your glory, O God our creator, who lives and reigns for ever and ever. Walter Rauschenbusch, 18611918 Prayer Killer #6: Wrong Motive God makes no mistakes about our motives. When theyre not right, our prayers have no power. James 4:3 says, When you ask, you do not receive, because you ask with wrong motives. Sometimes even knowing our own motives can be difficult. In my experience, Ive observed two things that quickly expose wrong motives: 1. A project greater than ourselves: Big projectsones that put us in way over our headsforce us to examine why we are doing them. And that process exposes our motives. 2. Prayer: When we pray, God speaks to us and shows us our motives. If we are acting out of pride, fear, possessiveness, self-satisfaction, convenience, etc., God will show it to us, if only we are willing to listen. And if we are willing, He will change those motives. Prayer Killer #7: Idols In Our Lives Ezekiel 14:3 clearly shows the negative effect of anything that comes between a person and God. It says, Son of man, these men have set up idols in their hearts and put wicked stumbling blocks before their faces. Should I let them inquire of me at all? The distaste that
God has for idols should be clear from this passage. He doesnt even want an idol worshiper to talk to Him. On the other hand, when we remove idols from our lives, we become ripe for a personal revival. Take a look at your own life. Is there anything that youre putting ahead of God? Sometimes its hard to tell. One of the ways to know that something in your life is an idol is to ask yourself, Would I be willing to give this thing up if God asked me to? Look honestly at your attitude toward your career, possessions, and family. If there are things you wouldnt release to God, then theyre blocking your access to Him. Prayer Killer #8: Disregard For Others Psalm 33:13 says, From heaven the Lord looks down and sees all mankind. Gods perspective is expansive. He loves everyone, and His desire is that we care for others in the same way. When we disregard others, it grieves Him. Scripture is full of verses supporting Gods desire for unity among all believersbetween Christian brothers and sisters, husbands and wives, laypeople and pastors. For example, in John 13:34, Jesus said, A new command I give you: Love one another.As I have loved you, so you must love one another. First Peter 3:7 exhorts husbands and wives to be considerate to one other. Otherwise, it says, their prayers will be hindered. And 1 Peter 2:13 says, Submit yourselves for the Lords sake to every authority instituted among men. One of the added benefits of prayer is that it helps you learn to love others. Its impossible for a person to hate or criticize someone theyre praying for. Prayer breeds compassion, not competition. Prayer Killer #9: Disregard For Gods Sovereignty I believe very strongly in the sovereignty of God. I think thats one of the things that has helped me remain positive during difficult times over the years. I know that God knows me completely and knows whats best for me. Jeremiah 1:5 says, Before I formed you in the womb I knew you, before you were born I set you apart. When Jesus showed the disciples how to pray, the first thing He did was teach them to honor God for who He is, Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name, your kingdom come, your will be done on earth as it is in heaven (Matt. 6:910). That is a clear acknowledgment that God is in charge, that He is sovereign. And it establishes our relationship to Him: that of a child under the authority of his Father. Any time we disregard the divine order of things, were out-of-bounds, and we hinder our relationship with our heavenly Father. Prayer Killer #10: Unsurrendered Will The ultimate purpose of prayer is not to get what we want, but to learn to want what God gives. But that will never happen if we dont surrender our will and put ourselves on Gods agenda instead of our own. There are great benefits to surrendering your will to God. One is that God promises to answer your prayers and grant your requests. Another is that we get to receive the power of Christ through the Holy Spirit. Just as with the vine and the branches, He flows through us, gives us power, and produces fruit.
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Effective prayers are Gods promises breathed out of human hearts. Charles Spurgeon Developing an effective prayer life depends on keeping your relationship with God strong and uncluttered by sin and disobedience. First Peter 3:12 says, The eyes of the Lord are on the righteous and his ears are attentive to their prayer, but the face of the Lord is against those
who do evil. If we strive for righteousness and confess our errors, we can remain close to God. But maintaining our relationship with Him is an ongoing process. A Christian cant simply pray once through a list like these ten prayer killers and expect to be done with it. Every day we need to go to God and ask Him to reveal anything that may be hindering our progress.10 from Partners in Prayer
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Wilhoit, Jim: Nelson's Personal Handbook on Prayer. Nashville, Tenn. : Thomas Nelson, 2002 (Nelson's Personal Handbook Series), S. 55