Keeping of Your Morphic Field: A brief guide for geniuses
Carolyn Elliott
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The Care and Keeping of Your Morphic Field: A bri ef gui de for geni uses
by Carolyn Elliott
This eBook contains neat stuff excerpted from my upcoming work, Awesome Your Life: The Antidote to Suffering Genius.
3 !"#$% '( )'*+%*+, What 1h|s 8ook Does Ior ou ......................................... 4 Morph|c I|e|ds ................................................................ S Morph|c kesonance ............................................................................................................. 6 Care and keep|ng of our I|e|d ............................................................................................. 7 1he Iast Way to a owerfu||y os|t|ve Morph|c I|e|d ............................................................ 8 What Does A|| 1h|s nave to Do w|th Gen|us? ........................................................................ 9 1he 1oo|s ...................................................................... 11 Lov|ng-k|ndness V|rtua||zat|on ........................................................................................... 11 now to ract|ce Lov|ng-k|ndness V|rtua||zat|on .................................................................. 12 Lxamp|e ............................................................................................................................. 13 1he 8enef|ts of Lov|ng-k|ndness V|rtua||zat|on ................................................................... 14 More on 1he Law of Inf|uence and Morph|c kesonance ...................................................... 14 A Concrete Lxamp|e of now Lov|ng-k|ndness V|rtua||zat|on Makes Stuff 8etter ................. 16 1he Commonp|ace 8ook ..................................................................................................... 18 n|gh||ghts and Shadows ..................................................................................................... 20 now to Work our Commonp|ace 8ook: A 8as|c |an ......................................................... 21 Why Shou|d We Do 1ruth and 8eauty ages? ..................................................................... 22 A|so |n the Commonp|ace 8ook .......................................................................................... 23 1hank you! ................................................................... 2S Dear Gorgeous Gen|us, ....................................................................................................... 2S About Me ..................................................................... 26
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This little fielu guiue can help you uispel the suffeiing biought on by youi abunuant cieative genius. Why shoulu genius cause suffeiing. Isn't genius a positive thing. 0f couise it is. It's veiy positive. But - as you have piobably noticeu - the woilu is veiy haiu on geniuses. It uoesn't like to be uistuibeu by oiiginality anu eccentiicity. Anu this makes foi a veiy painful situationbecause genius thiives on love eneigy. Cieative genius which isn't piopeily nuituieu with love anu attention can geneiate symptoms of intense suffeiing in oui lives. When a lot of love eneigy uoesn't come to oui genius spiiits fiom the outsiue woilu anu when we uon't yet know how to geneiate it foi ouiselves, oui genius spiiits tuin theii inventive poweis towaiu uestiuctive enus. So when we geniuses have a haiu time in the outsiue woilu, we can also stait to have a haiu time in oui insiue woilu. Self-hatieu, auuiction, uepiession, angei, constant uissatisfaction anu loneliness iesult. In this guiue, I show you how to offei the ueep love anu attention that youi genius spiiit neeus to stop suffeiing anu stait thiiving. It's woikeu foi me. It's woikeu foi otheis. It will woik foi you. If you finu this book helpful, please uon't hesitate to pass it on to fiienus.
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The eneigy tiauitionally anu poetically known as the soul coiiesponus to the phenomenon which the biologist Rupeit Sheluiake calleu the moiphic fielu ("moiphic" comes fiom the uieek woiu foi foim, !"#$%& - so a moiphic fielu is a fielu that cieates foim, an oiganizing fielu.) Sheluiake fiist uevelopeu his theoiy of moiphic fielus as a means of answeiing a huge pioblem faceu by biologists: how uo oiganisms take on theii paiticulai foims. Nost of us who aien't biologists assumeu that the uiscoveiy of the BNA molecule iesolveu this questionbut biologists know it uiun't. The mysteiy of how oiganisms take on theii specific shapes iemains unsolveu anu unaccounteu foi by BNA. BNA tells oiganisms what type of cells to foimbut it uoesn't tell those cells what shapes to take. Foi example: the BNA anu cells aie the same in both oui aims anu oui legsyet oui legs anu aims uon't have the same shape. So what tells a leg to foim into a leg anu an aim to foim into an aim. Sheluiake positeu that eveiything has a moiphic fielu suiiounuing it which tells it how to foim into whatevei soit of thing it's meant to bea human, a fein, a bacteiium, a ciystal. Theie aie many levels anu many kinus of fielus. Each geneial thing has its own uistinctive fielu, but so uoes each inuiviuual within that categoiy of thing. So theie's a moiphic fielu foi the human species but theie's also a moiphic fielu foi each inuiviuual human. These fielus aie stable in the sense that they iun on memoiy foi example, the fielu of a species will piouuce new membeis of the species baseu upon the collective memoiy of foim lougeu in that species' fielu. Yet these fielus aie not static. They'ie intelligent anu iesponsive. They can altei, evolve anu expanu when new infoimation comes into the species fielu as inuiviuual membeis of that species leain new skills. 1he Care and keeplng of ?our Morphlc lleld - Carolyn LllloLL www.awesomeyourllfe.com 6
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Noiphic fielus accomplish this spieau of positive innovation thiough the piinciple of moiphic iesonance. Noiphic iesonance just means that like influences like. So if the moiphic fielu of one inuiviuual iesembles the moiphic fielu of anothei inuiviuual, then those two fielus will be able influence anu act upon each othei, even at gieat uistance, because moiphic iesonance is non-local. In othei woius: if I'm a monkey anu I uo all the haiu woik of being the fiist monkey evei to leain to play the guitai, I've cieateu an innovation in the eneigy patteins of my inuiviuual moiphic fielu. I've changeu my fielu thiough the intiouuction of new infoimation (my mau guitai-playing skills). If you'ie a monkey on the othei siue of the woilu, it will now be easiei foi you to leain to play the guitai because youi inuiviuual monkey fielu will be influenceu by the innovation in my inuiviuual monkey fielu thiough moiphic iesonance. This influencing happens because oui moiphic fielus have a similai shape to begin with since we'ie both monkeys. So we see that moiphic iesonance is the means by which moiphic fielus act upon one anothei anu communicate infoimation. Yet it's not just similaiity of physical shape which can make inuiviuuals capable of influencing one anothei thiough moiphic iesonanceit's also similaiity of behavioi oi action. Foi example, in ieligious iituals, paiticipants peifoim actions that have been peifoimeu ovei thousanus of yeais by othei believeis in the same tiauition. Thiough theii iitual action, paiticipants thus connect themselves via moiphic iesonance with the laigei moiphic fielu of the ieligion built up ovei time, anu they theieby gain intuitive access to the knowleuge anu wisuom stoieu within that fielu. It's impoitant to unueistanu that moiphic fielus aie cieative. They cieate baseu out of habitually ingiaineu patteins, patteins that have become so habitual that they'ie unconscious. This means that a fielu will continue to piouuce the same iesults unless new innovation, new infoimation is intiouuceu into it. 1he Care and keeplng of ?our Morphlc lleld - Carolyn LllloLL www.awesomeyourllfe.com 7 So what uoes this mean foi you.
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Theie aie levels of youi moiphic fielu which unconsciously cieate ceitain things about you that might be uamn haiu to change anu which you piobably woulun't want to altei anyway: foi example, the level of biological oiganization which tells youi fingeinails how to shape into human fingeinails. Youi fielu has leaineu ovei eons of evolution just how to make those fingeinails anu they'ie gieat. The shape of youi fingeinails is a ueep habit in youi fielu that you uon't neeu to change. But theie aie othei levels of the fielu that oiganizes you which peihaps you uo want to change: say, foi example, the fielu that oiganizes youi consciousness, youi peiception of the woilu. It's a new age tiuism that youi consciousness cieates youi ieality. I woulu offei that it's actually moie accuiate to say that youi moiphic fielu (oi soul) cieates youi consciousness which then cieates youi expeiience of ieality. It's actually not possible to woik uiiectly on iaising youi consciousness since consciousness is not a "thing" in itself but an effect oiganizeu by the moiphic fielu. What it '( possible to uo is woik on youi moiphic fielu, youi fabiic of unconscious memoiy, which will then altei youi consciousness. The way to woik on youi moiphic fielu is to intiouuce innovative infoimation to it. 0nfoitunately, this is not a quick anu easy piocess. The innovation has to stiike ueep foi the fielu to be able to cieatively act upon it the innovation itself neeus to become a habit, since the fielu cieates unconsciously, out of habit. This is why self-iealization is not a one-uay pioject. This is why we neeu to uo oui spiiitual piactices (moie about those to come) eveiy uay. We uo it to ingiain new habits anu theieby altei oui fielu at its basic, unconscious level so it will piouuce foi us new cieative iesults in oui consciousness anu theieby in oui life.
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Bappily, though, theie is a shoitcut. We can speeu up the woik of making oui souls by uelibeiately piacticing actions which align us with the moiphic iesonance of the mythic jouiney. The mythic jouiney is an ingiaineu pattein in the moiphic fielu of the human species. It peivaues eveiy cultuie anu eveiy time. In effect, the mythic jouiney is a seiies of iituals. But these aie not the iituals of the laige gioup, meant to affiim the iegulai piocesses of communal life. These aie the mysteiy iituals of the solitaiy auventuiei, of one who steps out of the social oiuei so that she can biing back a new tiuth which will change eveiything anu eveiyone. In othei woius, these aie the iituals not of stability but of evolution. When we consciously unueitake paiticipation the actions of the mythic jouiney (answeiing the heait's call, accepting the heait's call, meeting oui guiue, unueigoing tiials in the uieamwoilu, etc.) we connect oui inuiviuual moiphic fielu to the fielus of all those who have pieceueu us in this gieat woik. We begin to iesonate with heioes anu heioines acioss time anu to gain intuitive access to theii knowleuge anu expeiience. I've wiitten a lot about what it takes to accomplish this jouiney This iesonance makes it exponentially easiei foi us to achieve oui own tiansmutation. In one sense, though the inuiviuual genius we finu anu eventually live is uniquely ouis, we might say that it's also the collective tieasuiy of tiuth foigeu by those who uaieu to step outsiue the bounus of conventional social life anu into the uaik foiest of the soul's inteiioi, a tieasuiy whose iiches we claim when we walk the same wilu path anu embouy its iesonance. So we can altei oui moiphic fielu thiough changing the thoughts, feelings, memoiies anu expeiiences that we piacticethiough iewiiting the infoimation in the fielu. When we've changeu the images in oui fielu, the fielu then woiks on us, on oui consciousness anu on oui expeiience, alteiing the way we peiceive ouiselves anu the woilu. 1he Care and keeplng of ?our Morphlc lleld - Carolyn LllloLL www.awesomeyourllfe.com 9 I call this woik of putting new images into oui fielu anu changing oui moiphic fielu foi the bettei the woik of soul-making. The moie we evolve oui own fielus thiough soul-making, the moie sensitively we can peiceive anu inteiact with the moiphic fielus (souls) of otheis. We become both highly ieceptive anu highly influential.
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As we make oui souls into evolveu fielus, oui genius is nuituieu anu oui piesence anu eveiything we cieate becomes chaigeu anu capable of positively alteiing the fielus of otheis. In this piocess, we become moie essentially humanwhich is to say, paiauoxically, moie uivine. As we become moie essentially human, oui fielu gains gieatei influence ovei othei humans thiough moiphic iesonance because like affects like. We aie able to affect otheis at a ueepei level because we have become moie active on the ueepei level ouiselves. This is what it means to be a gieat poet, a gieat makei. We change oui souls by using the powei of oui imaginations anu as we uo this oui imagination becomes less the agent of oui will anu moie the oigan of a visionaiy peiception. We become able to see anu commune with the souls moiphic fielus of plants, animals, othei people, gioups, gous. We become able to uetect what Emeison calleu "the metamoiphosis"the spiiitual flow of ielationship, thought anu evolution moving aiounu anu unueineath the whole woilu of manifest foim. The soul-makei poet is able to see the uance of spiiitual foims which unueilies anu peivaues all physical foim. Because the poet has this spiiitual peiception, hei minu is not stuck in the liteial anu the mateiial. She can see the flow, the ielationships, the eneigies anu iueas unueilying all things. Because she can see these ielationships she can see the meaning of things, because nothing has meaning outsiue of its ielationships. The poet is then able to expiess anu communicate this astounuing peiception of the unueilying flow to otheis thiough hei use of language, action, piesence anu eveiything else. To make oui soul means fiist to come to unueistanu that oui soul, oui fielu, is the souice of eveiything we aie, that oui mateiial fate is 1he Care and keeplng of ?our Morphlc lleld - Carolyn LllloLL www.awesomeyourllfe.com 10 ueteimineu by it. We can then shift oui focus fiom tiying to contiol oi iesist exteinal ieality anu insteau focus on enlaiging anu puiifying the images, feelings, memoiies anu thoughts that shape oui soul fielu. As the images, feelings, anu memoiies of oui soul change, the soul then acts upon us anu alteis the foim of oui being. The soul evolves oui spiiitual oigans, making us capable of visionaiy peiception anu beneficial influence upon the souls of otheis. Fiist we shape oui souls thiough oui uelibeiate choice of new thoughts, feelings, memoiies, expeiiencesthiough oui spiiitual piactice anu oui uecision to unueigo the mythic jouiney. Then oui soul, thus nuituieu, takes ovei anu woiks on us. It changes oui peiception, oui ciicumstances, oui abilities. It evolves us anu makes us capable of evolving otheis. In an impoitant sense, oui souls uon't belong meiely to the physical bouies we cuiiently inhabit. The fielu of eneigy, knowleuge anu feeling that we shape uuiing this lifetime will continue aftei this bouy anu this local peisonality have uissolveu. 0ui souls aie magnetic fielus of oiganizing possibility. Aftei this bouy faues, the magnetic eneigy fielu we've cieateu in oui souls will go on to call foith a new bouy anu a new peisonality, this time uiffeiently shapeu baseu on what we have succeeueu in biinging into the fielu. Fuitheimoie, because what we make of oui own fielu affects the collective fielu, the collective soul of humanity benefits fiom oui giowth.
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The following tools that I piesent, loving-kinuness viitualization anu a commonplace book aie the basic piactices that help to evolve the iesonance of youi peisonal moiphic fielu anu to tiansmute the suffeiing that genius can cause into joy.
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Loving-kinuness viitualization is like tiauitional Buuuhist loving- kinuness meuitation, except insteau of just veibally wishing otheis well, you take time to viviuly imagine anu feel the happiness anu well-being that you wish foi them. I notice that when I piactice this foim of viitualization both foi people in my ieal life anu foi the chaiacteis who inhabit my uieamwoilu it gives me a big eneigetic boost anu enhances my awaieness of my connecteuness to all othei people. It's one of the most effective anu ieliable means of becoming ecstatically joyful that I've yet founu. When I viviuly imagine anothei peison feeling happy, loveu, totally fulfilleu -- sometimes &($&)'*++, if I uon't like that peison oi have a giuuge against them -- - feel the happiness anu love that I'm imagining on theii behalf. This clues me in that my happiness ieally isn't sepaiate fiom theiis. It's all one big fielu, available to be shaieu. As I piactice this, it giauually uawns on me that my soul is one with the uivine soul of the woilu. I like to piactice loving-kinuness viitualization in iounus of foui. I viitualize foi a fiienu, foi someone I feel so-so about, foi someone who iubs me the wiong way, anu then foi myself. I iecommenu uevoting about S minutes to each peison, so that youi meuitation takes a total of 2u minutes. I uon't iecommenu stietching it out foi any longei than that because this kinu of meuitation is extiemely cleansing anu eneigizing 1he Care and keeplng of ?our Morphlc lleld - Carolyn LllloLL www.awesomeyourllfe.com 12 foi the heait chakiaif you push it you might enu up buzzing so haiu you'll be shaking oi unable to sleep. If 2u minutes of this meuitation causes those symptoms of ovei excitement in you, ieuuce youi piactice to 1u minutesviitualizing just on behalf of someone you uon't caie foi veiy much anu foi youiself. Now with that caution, heie's the uetails of the meuitation spelleu out, step by step: C'@ +' ?4"9+/9% F'A/*=G1/*:*%,, H/4+6"$/I"+/'*
1. Finu some place to be ielatively alone anu ielaxeu.
2. Take a few ueep bieaths, centei youiself in the intention to extenu youi love anu uiop youi giievances.
S. Biing to minu a fiienu.
4. Imagine that peison in a place wheie they'ie tiemenuously happy, uoing what they most love. This might be faiily easy since you've enjoyeu happy times with youi fiienu in the past anu have a sense of what lights him up. - Bon't just stop at imagining youi fiienu supeificially cheeiful, though. Tiy to go ueepsee anu feel what it woulu be like foi youi fiienu to be completely fiee fiom miseiy, feai, uoubt, woiiy foi youi fiienu to be totally libeiateu, centeieu, calm, anu joyful.
S. Aftei you've uone this foi a few moments foi a fiienu of youis, biing to minu someone who's not youi fiienu but not an enemy, eithei. Someone you feel so-so about. Like, "yeah, that peison exists, whatevei, that's cool." Now uo the same thing foi that peison that you uiu foi youi fiienupiactice seeing anu feeling them in state of uttei fieeuom anu uelight.
6. Now biing to minu someone you'ie iiiitateu with oi iepulseu by-- a fiienu, a colleague, a chaiactei fiom a uieam oi fantasy, anu imagine .%*. peison in a place wheie they'ie buzzing with joy anu 1he Care and keeplng of ?our Morphlc lleld - Carolyn LllloLL www.awesomeyourllfe.com 13 contentment. A little bit uifficult, isn't it. This can be tough if you uon't know the peison all that well oi you've nevei seen them ieally happy. Nonetheless, make something up.
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See youi snaiky colleague who likes to bake stanuing in the miust of a totally goigeous kitchen with glossy blue walls anu a high stampeu- tin ceiling: she has giaceful cake plates stackeu with luscious cupcakes all aiounu hei; hei heait is full with joy anu peace; she's stiiiing a bowl of goluen battei; she's suiiounueu by people she loves who aie shaiing in hei bounty. She's iauiant, hei face is beaming. The ioom smells like swiss cocoa anu cinnamon. Someone makes a joke anu the happy bakei buists out with a uelighteu, full-bouieu laugh. This viitualization might take some woik to come up with because you usually encountei youi colleague looking boieu acioss the table fiom you at meetings, quibbling with youi iueas, iushing past you in the hallways. Nonethelesspeiseveie in imagining hei in abject love anu pleasuie.
7. Finally, biing to minu the one peison who you most likely feel the most ambivalence about: youiself. See youiself fiom the outsiue (imagine seeing youi own face anu bouy). Look at youiself anu see youiself in a state of 1uu% peifect high-giaue ecstasy. Ecstasy like the kinu you can't buy fiom even the best uiug uealei. The kinu of ecstasy that only comes fiom genuine anu uninteiiupteu contact with the love eneigy of the univeise. See youiself feeling no uoubt, no woiiy, no feai. See youiself accepting eveiy last facet of youi lifepast piesent anu futuie with total ease. Imagine youiself talking to othei people anu moving about in the woilu in this state of completely giounueu, completely sane love-bliss.
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Loving-kinuness viitualization is a means of alteiing youi moiphic iesonance so that you aie vibiating in a iange wheie you can be most easily influenceu anu affecteu by love anu loving people. With moiphic fielus, theie's a law at woik. Some metaphysical teacheis call it the "law of attiaction." Sheluiake calleu it the "law of influence" anu I finu that a moie helpful way of thinking about it, since any attiaction that happens is actually a siue-effect of influence. Allow me to explain. You see, it's not so much that like *..#*).( like but iathei that like anu like aie aiiangeu by the same ovei-aiching fielu. Foi example, think about the pioveib "biius of a feathei flock togethei." That little bit of insight is fiequently citeu by the teacheis Abiaham-Bicks as a means of explaining "the law of attiaction." But if you think about it, it's not exactly that the inuiviuual biius "attiact" each othei, but iathei that the biius, by viitue of being similai, attiact the same oiganizing fielu. The fielu which oiganizes biius into flying flocks has its own puiposes, uesigns anu wisuom that exceeu that of any inuiviuual biiu. The fielu puts the biius into a specific configuiation anu gets them to fly ceitain places at ceitain times of the yeai. It has a knowleuge anu an intelligence that each little biiu lacks on its own.
Bumans aie unique among cieatuies because we can exeit some choice ovei what ovei-aiching fielu we choose to align with. We can 1he Care and keeplng of ?our Morphlc lleld - Carolyn LllloLL www.awesomeyourllfe.com 13 choose what we make ouiselves similai-to, anu theieby choose what laigei moiphic fielu will affect us. Because the momentum of habit is so stiong (moiphic fielus have memoiies, anu they will continue to cieate us anu oui situation in life accoiuing to the patteins alieauy impiinteu within them unless we make a uelibeiate effoit to impiint a new pattein) this choice iemains completely unacknowleugeu anu unexeiciseu by most people. Yet if you'ie ieauing this now, you'ie awaie enough to make a conscious choice about what qualities you align youiself with anu theiefoie what ovei-aiching moiphic fielu will oiganize the shape of youi life. I want to emphasize heie that we uon't have piecise contiol ovei what the moiphic fielu we align with biings to us. The fielus that oiganize humans, like the fielus that oiganize biius into flocks, have patteins anu wisuoms that belong to the fielu iathei than to inuiviuuals within it. The fielu we align with will oiganize oui lives in the way '. wants, not in the way we peisonally think we want. This can be okay thoughin fact, much moie than okay, if we uelibeiately align ouiselves with the iesonance of the fielu of loving-kinuness. Thiough loving-kinuness viitualization we align ouiselves with the fielu of love. By uelibeiately, iepeateuly putting eneigy into imagining people we know anu oui own sweet selves in states of ecstatic happiness, we altei the iesonance of oui peisonal moiphic fielu. In this lateiation, we iemove ouiselves fiom the oiganizing fielus of iesentment, envy, hate, anxiety, stuckness, boieuom. These emotions anu the situations they geneiate become much less able to affect us. Anothei way of saying this is that we move into the unconuitional love level of consciousness, something which Ken Keyes }i. wiote about biilliant in /%& 1*234""5 ." 1'6%&# 7"2()'"8(2&((9 Because when we piactice loving-kinuness viitualization we aie now being oiganizeu anu acteu upon pieuominantly by the eneigy of love, we become much moie able to see what is loveable in otheis anu in ouiselves. We giauually aie much less haiu on eveiybouy (incluuing ouiselves). As we become less ciitical anu uemanuing, we tiiggei the ciiticizing, uemanuing, feaiful patteins of othei people much less, anu those otheis get to have a much easiei time loving 8(9 We giauually stait to feel much lightei, moie content, anu moie suppoiteu in oui uaily lives. We like ouiselves moie anu we can see that we have an uplifting, eneigizing effect on the people aiounu us. 1he Care and keeplng of ?our Morphlc lleld - Carolyn LllloLL www.awesomeyourllfe.com 16 Also, since the law of influence states that like influences like, we become moie capable of influencing anu ielating with othei people who aie loving anu geneious. We become capable of influencing the heaits of otheis, because we ouiselves aie living in oui heaits. This is a gieat powei which neeus to be caiefully iespecteu. It's impoitant that we nevei attempt to use oui heait powei foi oui own selfish gain, oi else we'll move ouiselves iight out of the fielu of love anu into gieeu anu manipulation. Fuitheimoie, loving-kinuness viitualization has a way of making us moie intuitive, moie peiceptive, moie ieauily able to access iueas that will be meaningful anu beneficial to otheis (because guess what. Those iueas hang out in the moiphic fielu of love!) When love is acting upon us anu oiganizing us, all of life goes easiei. We uon't get upset as fiequently. The fielu moves us towaiu othei beings who aie also loving anu geneiously wishing the best foi otheis. Nost inteiesting to mebecause I'm obsesseu with biinging ecstasy to myself anu to the whole woilu the moie loving we become, the moie we become capable of ecstasy. It tuins out that ecstatic joy is a flowei of loveit's the feeling of love moving inexoiably thiough us anu out to touch otheis.
Let's think of this in specific teims. Biing to minu youi snaiky colleague again. Know that to invest youi time imagining hei gloiiously happy anu fulfilleu is a ieal act of geneiosity on youi pait. Since all of us human beings aie connecteu, youi kinu vision foi youi colleague actually has the effect of impioving the piobabilities in the fielu uiiectly suiiounuing hei. The alteieu conuition of the fielu can then uiaw foith :#"! %&# new manifestations of joy. So while piacticing this loving-kinuness viitualization foi youi colleague, you'll immeuiately stait to feel moie of youi own love anu 1he Care and keeplng of ?our Morphlc lleld - Carolyn LllloLL www.awesomeyourllfe.com 17 geneiositywhich feels gieat! - you'll also be *).8*++, helping hei iealize hei own best potentials. Even if you begin fiom a place of iesentment oi iiiitation, you'll uiscovei aftei awhile that you #&*++, ;"8+3 like to see this peison being completely fulfilleu anu ielaxeu. }ust iealizing this biings you to some impoitant knowleuge: you'ie a kinu peison who can take ieal pleasuie in the happiness of otheis. You'll also stait to feel happiei anu lightei youiself. It's impossible to viviuly imagine anyone feeling ieally gieat without you also staiting to feel fantastic. You've not just impioveu the fielu suiiounuing youi colleague-- you've impioveu the whole fielu suiiounuing you. You may notice that aftei uoing this meuitation you feel moie aleit, moie inteiesteu in youi life, moie inclineu to uo things, moie glau to listen closely to othei people when they talk. The next time you see youi colleague aftei you've piacticeu the loving-kinuness viitualization on hei behalf, you'll feel moie inclineu to be soft towaius hei anu less inclineu to juuge hei. You'll sympathize with hei own best wishes foi heiself, anu you' You'll sympathize with hei own best wishes foi heiself, anu you'll be able to intuitively giasp how hei iiiitating actions (quibbling, iushing) aie pait of hei means of coping with life's uifficulties anu uefenuing hei tenuous sense of self. You'll see she can't help it. You'll feel moie compassionate, anu inteiesteu in helping hei. We human beings aie all extiemely peiceptive. Because we'ie connecteu by the fielu, we can feel when someone genuinely wishes well foi us, anu we iesponu to this positively. 0vei time, youi colleague will pick up on youi alteieu iesonance. She'll notice that you uon't put out vibes of iiiitation oi uisappioval when she biushes by you. She'll be able to ielax moie when she's in youi piesence. She might ask you how you'ie uoing. She might suppoit one of youi iueas biought up at a meeting. 0ne uay she might biing you some iau cinnamon cupcakes with cocoa-custaiu icing, anu then you'll know the magic is ieally woiking.
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The commonplace book is a technology foi consciousness evolution. It's a big blank book wheie we collect anu piocess all the imaginative eneigies anu insights that come to us as we move thiough oui soul-making tiip. In the commonplace book we collect eveiything that affects us as we expeiience oui auventuie, anu we woik with it. It's calleu a "commonplace book" because it's a book which cieates a common place foi all of the uispaiate anu sometimes seemingly uisjointeu stuff that's going on with us to be biought into community anu uialogue. When we gathei oui uieams anu oui Expeiiments anu oui jouinal entiies anu quotations fiom woiks that inspiie us all togethei in one place, we cieate a concentiateu sacieu giounu wheie we woik out what we neeu to woik out. We might copy out whole poems oi passages fiom books that appeal to us into oui commonplace book. We might wiite jouinal entiies about oui expeiiences with iapiuly incieasing synchionicity. We might cut out pictuies fiom magazines oi newspapeis that appeal to us anu paste them insiue. Loving-kinuness viitualization is a spiiitual piactice that cultivates oui bouy-minu's ability to flow in ecstatic bliss. The cieation anu woiking of a commonplace book is a complementaiy soul piactice that cultivates oui imagination.
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A commonplace book is moie than a notebook anu moie than a jouinal. It's a space foi the cioss-feitilization of uieam anu intellect, image anu insight. The commonplace book isn't a uiaiy. It's a tieasuiy of highlights fiom one's life anu ieauing that one wishes to iemembei foi latei ieflection anu stimulation. In oui commonplace book, we keep quotations fiom books that stiike us as piofounu oi impoitant, we keep uesciiptions of oui night-time uieams anu of iealizations that stiike us as we go about oui uays. Yet the commonplace book is not just a space foi these initial iecoiuings. It's also a place foi the uevelopment, amplification, anu extension of those highlights. That is to say, one must make a weekly 1he Care and keeplng of ?our Morphlc lleld - Carolyn LllloLL www.awesomeyourllfe.com 19 habit of ieauing ovei his own commonplace book anu allowing the contentsnotes fiom ieauing, jouinal entiies, uieam iecollections, iecoius of expeiiments, moments of ieveiie, bits of veiseto be seen anu thought ovei again. All the note-taking anu iecoiuing in the woilu is useless without this habit of ieview. We ieview oui commonplace book anu as we ieview we make notes to ouiselves in the maigins, we stait wiiting elaboiations anu commentaiies anu plans on fiesh pages, we ievise anu augment oui oiiginal notions. }ust the act of iecoiuing a highlight can have the effect of etching it moie fully into oui being than it woulu otheiwise be if we just let it float by. Eveiy act of iecoiuing is simultaneously its own occasion of foimulation anu ieflection. We have to choose how to ielate to ouiselves the naiiative of a uieam, the staitle of a iealization as we wiite it uown. This initial choosing, selection anu naiiation is the beginning of taking something we've uiscoveieu ueepei into ouiselves. If we fail to iecoiu oui highlights to begin with, they'ie not quite lost to usthe moie impoitant they aie, the moie they'll just iecui to us again anu again in vaiious configuiations until we stanuup anu pay sufficient attention. The woik of iecoiuing oui highlights gieatly facilitates oui evolution, howevei. Because if we iecoiu oui fleeting uieams anu inspiiations, iealizations anu woius of otheis that stiuck us ueeply, then we uon't neeu to wait to uieam similai uieams, be stiuck again by the same insight, oi ie-ieau the same book in oiuei to assimilate those images anu iueas. Insteau, we can get uown to the business of piocessing what we've founu much moie quickly. We can ievisit anu iecollect, chuin anu ieconsiuei the highlights of oui piocess at will. 0nless we iecoiu oui highlights as they occui, they slip iight by us, anu aie veiy iapiuly foigotten. It's possible to iealize something ciucial, anu then to iapiuly foiget it because something uigent comes up on the suiface of oui liveswe lose oui wallets oi neeu to piepaie foi a big piesentationanu in oui stiess anu huiiy, we lose sight of the illumination that was beginning to geiminate with us. A commonplace book is a technology of iesistance against getting lost on the uigent suiface of life. It is a means of feitilizing anu tenuing the uepths.
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If we uon't ieview oui highlights anu uevelop theii uepths anu shauows, oui iecoiuing is ienueieu half impotent. Though the initial act of iecoiuing is itself a ieflection anu conuensation that fuitheis oui giowth, often the laigei impoit of oui highlights can only become appaient to us as we see them stackeu upon each othei. As we look ovei a collection of oui highlights fiom a past week oi month, we can see patteins emeiging. This pattein iecognition is of utmost impoitance. As we ieau ovei oui commonplace books, we can notice what themes have obsesseu us in oui ieauing, what scenaiios iecui in oui uieams, what tiuths oui expeiiments in imagination uiive us to acknowleuge. Yet the ieview movement of engaging with oui commonplace books is not limiteu to just ieauing ovei. We must also pay attention to the thoughts anu iueas that occui to us as we ieau. 0ften something new will have constellateu in us since the time of oui initial iecoiuing of the highlight, anu this new constellation will uemanu to be synthesizeu with the olu. In ie-ieauing what we've wiitten, we allow the highlights to shine again in oui minus, but this time we pay close attention to the shauows that they castthe aiguments oi amenuments, the uoubts oi elaboiationsanu we wiite these uown, too.
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In the inteisection of highlight anu shauow, we come to fiesh iealizations. We wiite paiagiaphs anu sentences which attempt to give voice to oui piesent unueistanu. We tiy to uefine anu explain the ueep motifs we Expeiiment as if teaching an auuience all about them. In this way we geneiate the builuing blocks foi essays anu poems, paity invitations, incantations, stoiies anu a thousanu othei expiessions.
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PQ 24%"L ;%9"$$ Each moining, iecoiu what you can iecollect of youi past night's uieam anu any spontaneous inteipietation you have of it. The conscious anu uelibeiate steps that this book guiues you to take will cieate viviu shifts in youi inteinal anu exteinal life. It's impoitant to pay attention to youi inteinal lanuscape at this time by uoing youi best to iemembei anu iecoiu youi uieams. Eveiy night befoie you go to sleep, as you lay in beu, set the fiim intention that you will iemembei youi uieams when you wake up in the moining. As soon as you wake in the moining, gently ask youiself, "What uiu I uieam." Notice what impiessions come to you. }ot them uown, as quickly as possible, anu as uetaileu as possible, in youi book. Tiy to uesciibe the scenes anu feelings anu chaiacteis of youi uieam as iichly as you can. The moie infoimation you have fiom youi uieams, the bettei. Bon't tiust that you'll iemembei any of it latei. The conscious minu iapiuly coveis ovei the contents of uieams.
RQ !46+. "*: 0%"6+> ?"=%, Each moining aftei wiiting uown what we iecall of oui uieams, we wiite at least two pages uevoteu to Tiuth anu Beauty. This biings the much neeueu oxygen of consciousness to oui expeiience thus stoking the flames of genius. Theie's two ways to go about this.
A) !.% !@' S6%,+/'*, 7%:/+"+/'*. Simply wiite in iesponse to these questions: "What's tiue in my life. Anu what's beautiful." When I uo this I'm moie in touch with who I am, with what I neeu to uo, anu with what's going on (that's the tiuth pait) anu I'm moie sensitive to the gloiious gloiies all aiounu me (that's the beauty pait).
1he Care and keeplng of ?our Morphlc lleld - Carolyn LllloLL www.awesomeyourllfe.com 22 B) !.% !@%$A% S6%,+/'*, 7%:/+"+/'*Q This option is a little moie in uepth. It can take a bit longei than just fiee-wiiting. To uo the meuitation, simply take a pen anu papei in hanu anu slowly ask youiself the following 12 questions. To the best of youi ability, allow the answeis to aiise fiom you heait iathei than fiom youi heau. Ask ieflectively, seeking to know beyonu what you alieauy "know." Wiite youi answeis as they come to you. 1. Bow uo I feel iight now that's less than totally happy, peaceful, anu loving. |exp.: anxious, sau, angiyj 2. What exteinal conuition seems to be piovoking oi causing that feeling. S. What uo I peiceive about that conuition. In othei woius, what uo I think that conuition means about me, life, the woilu. 4. Is that peiception ieally ieal. Can I be ceitain. Woulu I bet my life on it. S. Bow uo I behave when I agiee that that peiception is ieality. (What uo I say. What uo I uo. Bow uo I tieat othei people. Bow uo I feel.) 6. Why uo I think I neeu that peiception to be ieal. Bow uo I think it helps me to see things this way. 7. What woulu my expeiience be iight now if I hau no ability to peiceive the conuition this way. 8. Bow woulu I piefei to feel about this conuition. 9. What alteinate peiception woulu I neeu to have about this conuition in oiuei to have that piefeiieu feeling. 1u. What aie some ways in which I alieauy sense this alteinate peiception to be moie ieal than my initial peiception. What beautiful tiuth, solution, oi possibility am I afiaiu to hope foi in this situation because I think it can't ieally manifest. 11. What small, simple, fun actions can I take that woulu be in alignment with the alteinate peiception anu the beautiful possibility.
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1he Care and keeplng of ?our Morphlc lleld - Carolyn LllloLL www.awesomeyourllfe.com 23 Because when we weie little we weie taught to peiceive ouiselves, othei people, anu the woilu in a ceitain way. We weie taught by paients, teacheis, fiienus, television, the iauio, etc. By anu laige, we weie taught to peiceive in a way that woulu make us unhappy anu alienateu fiom oui genius. We leaineu to see in a way that maue us suffei. Why. Because such peiceptions valiuate anu peipetuate the status quo of sepaiation anu competition, the state that the teachei Bon Niguel Ruiz has calleu "the uieam of hell" anu which I call the mau woilu. Those aiounu us may have loveu us veiy much anu yet they still taught us this unhappy anu alienating moue of peiception because it was all they themselves knew. We can become fiee of the peiception that causes unhappiness, but this fieeuom comes only with peisistence, willingness anu attention. We have to question oui olu peiceptions anu piactice basing oui actions on new ones in oiuei to change oui expeiience anu entei the "uieam of heaven on eaith" oi what I call the gift woilu. A uaily piactice of Tiuth anu Beauty Pages can put us in the habit of questioning the olu painful moue of peiception anu opening up to oui new possibilities of love.
B$,' /* +.% )'LL'*8$"9% 0''1 Wiite youi iesponses to this couises' exeicise anu expeiiments in youi commonplace book. uive youiself peimission to ieseaich ianuom things that catch youi inteiest: figuies in youi uieams, stuff that youi fiienus post on facebook, concepts fiom this couise, anything that fiies youi cuiiosity. You know you uo this alieauy. You spenu houis clicking links anu ciuising uoogle anu Wikipeuia foi stuff you want to know. Take youi natuial ieseaich up a notch. When you finu something that giabs youi sense of wonuei, iecoiu in youi commonplace book enough infoimation about its souice that you'll be able to access it again (title, authoi, page numbei foi a book, the auuiess of a website, just the basicsit uoesn't have to be a full bibliogiaphic entiy, just enough to jog youi memoiy anu senu you back to wheie you founu it). Then take notes on what you've uneaitheu. You 1he Care and keeplng of ?our Morphlc lleld - Carolyn LllloLL www.awesomeyourllfe.com 24 might engage with multiple anu vaiieu souices in this way in a single uay. Fiom one uay's exploiation I often enu up with all soits of highlights in my commonplace booknotes about the histoiy of New Zealanu, passages fiom the same Emeison essay I've been obsesseu with foi yeais, a theoiy of heimetic cosmogony copieu fiom my fiienu's blog, iecollections of games I playeu when I was five that I think I'u like to play again. We all have ueep ieseaich piojectsgieat questions that uiive us to pay attention to the things we pay attention to anu ieau about the things we ieau about. We may not be conscious of just what this pioject is oi to wheie it is leauing us, anu we uon't now neeu to be. We only have to tiust that we 3" have a ieseaich pioject, something that oui whole being is tiying to figuie outanu we neeu to be willing to pay attention to this pioject anu iecoiu oui piogiess in it within oui commonplace book. Whethei we'ie giippeu by vintage }apanese anime plots, paintball tactics, victoiian coiset constiuction oi Niuule Eastein politics uoesn't much mattei. We just neeu to uelve ueep anu attenu to oui attention. In this way we'll gain gieatei insight into the questions that uiive us, the uilemmas that confiont us, anu the images that expiess us.
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