101 Reasons Why Im Not Jealous of Others

Ugh My bag is better than yours!; I deserve to be the star in the play rather than him! These are some of the lines I always hear when Im wat hing telenovelas and sadly! even in reality" #y hearing these lines! you feel and noti e that jealousy is within it" #efore anything else! lets elaborate what $ealousy really means" %ealousy is an emotion and typi ally refers to the thoughts and feelings of insecurity! fear! and anxiety over an anti ipated loss of something that the person values! su h as a relationship, frien ship! or love &'i(ipedia)" It is one of the most dominant parts of every human being! espe ially on teenagers" It is also often mista(en by some! espe ially by the *ilipinos! to envious! whi h is bearing a grudge to someone due to oveting what that person has or en$oys" Tal(ing about both parties! $ealousy an also be positive by pursuing and ma(ing the person a hieve more! while envy will always lead you to wrong doings in order for a person to get what he want from the person he is envious to" 'e annot blame ea h of us if we feel $ealous or jelly sometimes" +ven I e,perien ed $ealousy" #ut we must fo us on the things! reasons! and the hara teristi s we have in order to ma(e us feel that you and I should not be $ealous to others" These are some of my hara teristi s and reasons that ma(e me the "no#more# jelly! person and an be onsidered as tips $ife contentment, life achievement% .ets fa e it- if you are contente &ith your life, theres no nee to get jealous% .ife ontentment will always ma(e you feel onfident in dealing with your everyday life" "'e((ie 'o&ners! are " o&ner! than you% /eep in mind! "Only the insecure strives for security%! In my life! espe ially in dealing with my high s hool friends! 0ebbie 0owners is one of my biggest problems" 'e((ie 'o&ners are people that tend to pull you down to ma(e you feel $ealous! inse ure! and even envious to others" #ut you must always remember that they ma(e others down be ause they are mu h downer and inse ure than anyone else"

)ll it ta*es is a simple comparing an contrasting% .et me site an e,ample" Imagine you are $ealous to your neighbor that has the latest gadgets and e,1uisite per(s 2 privileges" 3ou name it; i4od Tou h! 454 6777! the latest 5.8 amera! a blue onvertible! a ti (et to .as 9egas! a platinum redit ard! the latest tou h phone! and even your e,:girlfriend! #ut will you still be $ealous to your neighbor if you (new his parents are always away from wor( 2 does not spend some 1uality time with him! dont have many friends! and always alone at home; while you have your friends warm shoulders! your loving parents! and your small but omfy home; 5ee" Its $ust a matter of comparing and contrasting" +eing "jelly! is only temporary% I always sti ( into my mind that being "jelly! is not permanent" Maybe sometime you will get $ealous but when time passes by! you will reali<e that there is more to fo us your eye" ,o gave them something or someone you reason% ont have for a

"-verything has a reason!; most probably this saying is true" I always sti ( into my mind that =od didnt give me this or that for a reason" Maybe >e will give me and you a better one" Jealousy an insecurity are (est frien s% %ealousy! in basis to its negative effe t on ones mind! may lead you to inse urity" Inse urity an ma(e you a trying# har person" 3ou want to a hieve this and that; but by being a trying:hard person! you will do anything to get something or someone that will ma(e yourself feel better and to on eal your deep inse urities" ?lways remember! "Insecurity *ills%!