Perception is how we grasp something based on our way of thinking. Each person has different perceptions.

It depends on what his/her profession is and how much experience that he/she has involving what the perception is about. In communication process, we cannot only accentuate our own opinions and just ignore others. Therefore, different views of each person can interrupt the communication process. One way to minimize this problem in our communication process is by communicating with other people more intensely and elaborating our insight about others perception to become an adaptable person when communicating with others. It does not mean that we must follow others way of thinking, but just at that spur of time, we can make ourselves and others feel convenient and can be more connected in the communication process. I have an experience of how my perception about the way of communicating with others change. Until before I proceeded to senior high school, I have always thought that life is a competition at all areas. At that time, my perception about communication is In any communication process, do not let yourself be influenced by others opinion. I have never listened to others opinions, which did not coincide with my way of thinking even though it is only a simple problem in daily life. With this kind of perception, I was unable to make a lot of friends during my elementary school and junior high school years. In senior high school, at first it was so hard to make a new friend due to my rooted perception. I have tried to communicate with all of my classmates, but it had always ended with a conflict and hostility. One day, I had a big conflict with my classmates because of different perception in doing a group task, and he punched me at my face until my nose bled. I did not know what to do at that moment; I was appalled and glued to my chair. After a while, the class chairman sat next to me and told me what actually all of my classmates opinions about me

were. From their point of view, I was so selfish and did not care about others perception. From that moment, I realize that I could not force someone to follow my perception about anything and I started to change my perception about the way of communicating with others and become an adaptable person. I also have learnt that respect to others perception is very important. Although it is different with our perception, we can take it as our future reference yet develop our own point of view to conduct a better communication process.