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in communicASIANS are those of the
Increase Pressure, Increased Stress................................................4 writers and do not necessarily represent
The A3C’s Mental Health Survey’s effect on campus the opinions of the A³C. communicASIANS
welcomes all signed letters of opinion,
The #1 Killer of Asian Sexual Health: Silence...................................5 which are subject to editing for length,
Do Asian students talk about sex? accuracy, and grammar.
10
How to avoid the Stanford supersize me horror movie
Staff
Physical Identity: Within the Looking Glass.....................................10
Blepharoplasty and what it says about body image issues Editor-in-Chief
Kelvin Vuong
News Associate Editor
Betty Pham
Saving the World One Liver at a Time......................................................11
Copy Editor
The Asian Liver Center’s new efforts to combat hepatitis B
Christie Cho
An Honor Long Overdue..........................................................................12 Layout Editor
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George Leong inducted into A3C Hall of Fame Julie Kim
The New Asian American Activities Center................................................16 Contributors
A look at the newly renovated space and programming of the A3C Yi-Ren Chen
Di Dang
Voices Lang Liu
Cindy Ng
Tommy Hotaik Sung- South Korea Meets North Korea............................13 Quynh Phan
South Korean President’s visit to North Korea lacks substance
Betty Pham
Takeo Rivera- Azia Kim: An RA’s Reflection..............................................14 Takeo Rivera
16
The aftermath of the Azia Kim incident Tommy Hotaik Sung
Kelvin Vuong
Kelvin Vuong- 6 Months and 1 T-shirt Later............................................15
What did we take away from the Azia Kim incident?
Ze Xiao
Emily Zhao
t
we’ll need to be well.
Andrew Pipathsouk
Amy Yu
Enjoy,
Major Events Coordinator
Lan Le
Kelvin Vuong Speaker Series
Editor-in-Chief Jason Jia
Jason Lee
P.S. Please e-mail me at Kelvin.Vuong@Stanford.EDU
with any comments or concerns or if you’d like to be- Webmaster
come involved. Eunice Lee
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S
tanford students are often
described as ducks on a
pond. They bob along so
peacefully above the water but
paddle fiercely underwater just
to stay afloat. It’s time to get our
feet on the ground and reassess
how healthy the Stanford lifestyle
actually is. Resources and help
are plentiful; it’s just a matter of
finding them or knowing who to
turn to when you can’t handle it
on your own.
How healthy is
Special Feature
A
feature
Campus
Resources
Asian American Activities Center
General advising and referrals to other
campus resources
http://a3c.stanford.edu
Presence
Increased
Undergraduate Residence Dean
Support and consultation for residence
hall staff and crisis intervention for stu-
dents
Increased Stress
http://rescomp.stanford.edu/resed-direc-
tory/public/subcategory2.html
A3C’s mental health survey promotes ing and Psychological Services: Ken Hsu, Associate Director, Grad-
uate Life Office, I-Chant Chiang, Ph.D. candidate in the Department
awareness of the issues affecting students of Psychology; Caroline Chang, Ph.D. candidate in the School of
by Ze Xiao Education; Janey Hong, post doctoral fellow in Psychology and Ale-
I
jandro De Los Angeles ’07. The group devised and administered a
t is no secret that the Asian American community is an increasing survey that was launched in January 2007.
presence on college campuses, but with this increased presence After analyzing the data and results of this survey, the working
comes challenges. Among the challenges is that posed by the group has been promoting awareness of the issues the survey found to
model minority myth, a stereotypical portrayal of Asian Americans be affecting the health and well being of Asian American students.
as hard-working, high achievers who are especially talented in sci- In addition, in response to the findings of the survey, the A3C,
ence and math. Being measured against this stereotype or trying to has initiated a new program, the After Dark Series, which “aims to
live up to these expectations can be a cause of increased stress for dispel misconceptions, increase awareness, and encourage dialogue
Asian American students. about health and well-being topics relevant to Asian Americans, and
Studies have shown that Asian American college students who to introduce students to resources on campus.” The first After Dark
struggle with stress and the resulting physical and mental impacts are Series event addressed issues surrounding parental pressures, and
less inclined to seek counseling, and if they do seek help, it is gener- students heard from three individuals, including two alumni and an
ally when their problems have become severe. undergraduate student, who shared their Stanford experiences and
In light of these facts, the Asian American Activities Center decid- how they coped with pressure from their parents.
ed to assess the health and well-being of Stanford’s Asian American More topics are planned for Winter and Spring quarters, including
undergraduate and graduate students in order to inform its work and sessions on how to help friends and classmates who may be strug-
services. A working group was formed that included Cindy Ng and gling. If you’d like to learn more about the resources available, visit
Shelley Tadaki from the A3C; Naomi Brown, Psychologist, Counsel- any of the websites listed above. ■
4 communicasians
photo courtesy of Ze Xiao
The #1 Killer of
Asian Sexual Health
H
ave you heard? Asian students at Stanford are asexual!
… I think. but what has every book we’ve read in English class taught us?
Actually, that’s not quite true. Society imposes censorship, and it is our job as responsible mem-
Life lesson #1: there are no absolutes. There are plenty of Asian bers of society to combat it. The creation and use of terms such as
students with healthy sex lives at Stanford. That said, there does ad- “slut” or “ho” create dishonorable, crude associations with sex. This
mittedly appear to be a surplus of asexual Asians at Stanford. Asians makes sex even less approachable in the eyes of Asians, who have
who are more familiar with the words “dating,” “relationship,” and been taught since birth to value respect and honor. Pair this with
“sex” on an IHUM-level than a personal one. Perhaps even Asians crude, misogynistic references to sex, which draw upon and reinforce
who are missing out on “that’s what she said” jokes. sexist stereotypes while simultaneously disrespecting and reducing
What’s with the prevalence of Asian asexuality on campus? females to objects. This can certainly dissuade any talk of sex and
As the means through which we reproduce, sex is an unquestion- even create an aversion to discussion of sex. Few people like to listen
ably necessary part of our lives. Why do we insist on shying away to tasteless tales of sexual exploits. Even fewer, I am sure, would like
from the topic? For the sake of our sexual health, let us dissect this to emulate those who engage in this behavior.
matter of “Asian asexuality.” Asian parents place a huge emphasis on growing up to become
Before you think “I am not sexually active. This does not apply a respectable person. With talk like this about sex, Asian girls most
to me,” let me clarify that sexual health does not only apply to those definitely do not want to be the topic of discussion, while Asian guys
who have sex. It applies to dating, relationships, general interactions do not want to be the jerks involved in such discussions. It is talk
beyond the platonic level. Being sexually healthy means being able such as this that creates an aversion to any open discussion of sex
to make informed decisions about both sex- whether to have it, how among Asians.
to have it, whom to have it with- and relationships – an intrinsic part In overcoming asexuality and gaining a healthy sex life, the first
of sex. Imagine being unable to get into a serious relationship when thing to realize is that no one else’s opinion matters. Your life is yours
you’re an adult because you have intimacy issues which stem from an to make what you want of it.
unhealthy sex life in your youth. Sound bad? Read on. What’s there to be scared of?
Sex is an understandably awkward subject. It is not a proper topic Discuss sex with your friends and people you are comfortable
of discussion- a view which society and many Asian parents have with. Will this make you seem promiscuous? Perhaps in the eyes of
been supporting for years. close-minded, ignorant people.
The root of asexuality can first be traced to the overwhelmingly An important distinction to make: seeming promiscuous is not the
powerful force known as parents. I never had the birds and the bees same as being promiscuous. You can hold onto your self-respect and
talk with my parents. I learned about it through TV and movies. It’s become better informed about something instrumental to life – sex.
not my parents’ fault though. Our parents are also the product of an Ignoring the subject does not do anything for us but breed igno-
Asian tradition which spans many generations- avoidance of sex. It’s rance. Ignorance creates fear. Fear leads to anger. Anger leads to hate.
odd to talk about sex. It’s uncomfortable. It’s creepy. Hate leads to suffering. I know I just quoted Yoda, but there is truth
Along with food, shelter, and clothes, parents provide us with in- to the man’s words.
hibition. In their well-intentioned efforts to avoid awkwardness and/ Prolonged ignorance of our sexuality will in the long-run cause us
or keep from becoming early grandparents, Asian parents often avoid to suffer. This applies to both those sexually inactive and active. An-
the subject of sex. As a result, we remain ignorant. other important distinction to note –the simple act of having sex does
In the battle between ignorance and sexual liberation, society as a not equate to sexual health. Being able to openly and comfortably
whole takes the side of ignorance. Society tells us that sex is taboo, discuss sex is only the first step in having a healthy sex life. ■
Q Q: Q:
How have you found your experience work- It doesn’t seem like the majority of students
ing with students at Stanford? utilizes CAPS. Why is that and what moti-
vates students in the end to seek help?
A
is this something you genuinely want?” That’s a
priceless moment, when someone looks up at me
and realizes that there could be something else at
work or that there is another perspective that some-
Dr. Oliver Lin of CAPS one is actually interested in hearing that’s different
from everyone else’s.
T CommunicASIANS
he tragedy of four student deaths shocked campus last year as all wondered how
such events could have occurred, particularly in a small community that was once
heralded by The Princeton Review for its “happiest students.” In response to the talks to Dr. Oliver Lin
of CAPS about the
growing concern over campus psychological well-being, Counseling and Psychologi-
cal Services (CAPS) has been cooperating with other on-campus organizations in order
Asian American
to explore and improve the state of student mental health.
Contributing to this issue’s theme of mental health and well-being in the Asian-
perspective of
American community, CommunicASIANS spoke with Dr. Oliver Lin, a staff psycholo-
gist at CAPS and Stanford alumnus, in order to better understand CAPS’s role as a
resource at Stanford and also the unique perspectives of Asian-Americans and Stanford
students on the concept of therapy. ■ mental health
communicasians 7
ang
Eating
Healthy
in Dining Halls:
Is It Possible?
How to
by Emily Zhao pressure me to eat less or exercise more. I
D
want a holistically healthy feeling for myself,
ining halls are amazing. There are no which can sometimes mean choosing the sal-
mothers barking at you to set tables or ad without dressing over the extra dessert.
avoid the
force you to eat zucchini. As a fresh- Where do I start? One thing that I noticed
man, I find it the perfect place to mingle, about Stanford is that there are abundant
relax, and enjoy the great variety of food. resources. The onsite nutritionist at Vaden
Stanford
At home, I never tasted Italian food, unless Health Center (http://vaden.stanford.edu/
I went out to Olive Garden, nor ate Indian wellness/nutrition.html) can help with in-
food, except at a friend’s house. Instead, I dividual consultations, and workshops will
received a humble bowl of warm rice and spread the word about the importance of
Supersize
dishes dunked in soy sauce. I revel in this healthy eating. There is also a student group
diversity at Stanford/; Chinese food one day, for eating disorders, MIRROR, which pro-
Mediterranean the next, and Latin American vides training, resources, and continual sup-
styled foods any day all within a bike ride. port for concerned students and friends in the
Me horror
However, behind all these savory dishes Stanford community.
lies the deceptive question about The Fresh- However, unhealthy eating habits are
man Fifteen, and while upper classmen can more often picked up because of uncon-
laugh at us neophytes, The Fifteen is scary. scious laziness – forgetting that our bodies
movie
It also doesn’t help when you call home and need nutrition. Whether we need to gain or
your mother answers the phone by asking , lose weight, eating healthy is taking life and
“Will I still recognize you at Thanksgiving?” valuing it seriously. So, exactly what should
I mean, Stanford is a huge campus and bik- we ingest so that the intake of food is both
ing takes a lot of my energy and calories. enjoyable and well utilized by the body? The
I even go to Arrillaga sometimes, which is point is that we need to send the calories to
more than I can say for what I did at home. the right parts of the body – the balance is
However, my mother’s harping isn’t going to crucial.
Unfortunately, what and how we eat de- sary amount. Then we can add lentils, beans,
termines where it all goes. An unhealthy whole grain, and potatoes for the starch group.
meal that is eaten too quickly can cause an Of course each dining hall has its own spe-
overflow of unnecessary calories that your cialty. If you ever have any questions about
tissues cannot absorb. The love handles that the nutritional values of the foods offered, the
overflow the waists of jeans are millions of dining halls post all the information on their
tiny cells in the body gorged with fat that website (http://dining.stanford.edu).
cannot be used. As simple as the last group sounds, water
The general concept is to pick the right is one of the most important groups and often (Top far left) A healthy meal means
types of food that are digested slowly. The substituted by soft drinks. If you are like me, picking the right types of food that
are digested slowly, such as pota-
bottom line is for calories to enter the blood- you tend to go through water really quickly.
toes, vegetables, and nuts. (Above
stream slowly and enter the active tissues However, I discovered the wonders of going left) The dining halls, such as the
quickly so that there is none left over for the back for seconds, which also includes water one at Wilbur Residence Hall, pro-
fat cells. However, cutting down on nutrients in my Nalgene. vide many health options. (Above
is not a healthy way to go. Instead, the diet Who knew that eating is such a complex right) Picking from the salad bar
should fill the basic food groups: proteins, task? It takes forethought, guidance, and will- is an easy way to fill your daily nu-
produce, fats, starch, and water. power to consciously work towards a healthy tritional needs. (Above) Stanford
At our dining halls on campus, filling body. With all the other busy activities on our Dining’s website provides detailed
those food groups should be a cinch. Take mind, this is probably one of last bullets on information on the nutritional val-
ues of the foods offered.
Florence Moore Dining, for instance. To fill our to-do lists, which is why we are lucky to
the protein group, we could eat tofu, eggs, or have our very own nutritionist at Vaden and
milk, and there are always tons of lean meat MIRROR. However, instead of thinking of it
sautéed in vegetables. We have plenty of sal- as a task, think of it as a way of life. Instead
ads and fruits to fill the produce group. As of going through a Stanford Supersize Me
for the unsaturated fats group, we can acces- horror movie, you can easily breeze through
sorize our salads with seeds, nuts, or olives. the year by eating healthy. Tofu and lentils
The purpose is to go for a limited but neces- anyone? ■
communicasians 9
Physical Identity
T
formed on Asian Americans, and it’s an is-
he night before prom, my best friend sue generating far more controversy than the
spent three hours crying in
“
front of the mirror. Nothing
was wrong. She had the perfect
dress and the perfect date; she cried
so that the next day her eyes would
They’re also accused of trying
to mute their ethnic identity in
“
be just puffy enough so that she order to be more ‘Westernized.’
would have the double eyelid fold.
Now older though not neces-
sarily wiser, she no longer cries before any usual criticisms against plastic surgery. In the
big events, for she has had blepharoplasty- same way that skin-lightening in the African
eyelid plastic surgery - and now the double American community makes some critics
fold is permanently hers. This procedure uncomfortable, people undergoing the pro-
cedure are challenged for trying to change
more than their eyelids. They’re also accused
of trying to mute their ethnic identity in order
to be more “Westernized.”
Opponents of this view find it to be far too
extreme and unrealistic. To them the issue
has nothing to do with changing identities or
erasing one’s Asianness, but is simply a mat-
ter of aesthetics. How can anyone oppose an
individual’s personal beauty preference?
While these critics rightly critique the ex-
tremism of this view - none of the people I’ve
met who have had blepharoplasty would say
that they were trying to be more “white” - it
is important to remember that even beauty
does not escape history or politics. Standards
of beauty are specific to a particular culture
within a particular period of time. Does the
preference for big eyes and a double fold in
fact reflect a desire for Western versus Asian
beauty? Who are the ones that uphold this
standard - Americans or Asian Americans or
Asians? Critics argue that the lack of promi-
nent Asian Americans in the media prevents
Asian modes of beauty from being appreci-
ated, but where do we draw the line between
societal pressure and individual responsibili-
ties?
Too much time and energy is spent on
criticizing the actions of the individuals re-
ceiving blepharoplasty. Instead, we each
need to take a more critical look at the norms
and recognize the assumptions of what is
beautiful that we as a larger society are all
operating under. Can we accept them as they
are? If we continue to just criticize without
thinking about the deeper implications about
why we are even bothering to criticize, we
benefit no one. Everyone is beautiful- on the
inside and outside.■
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photo courtesy of http://www.flickr.com/photos/sigman/
A
nal birth transmission.
s the group hiked up the shallow cliff onto a dusty road, they To address this issue, the Asian Liver Center initiated the Hepatitis
could see the rolling grasslands surrounded by smooth gray B Prevention Program on September 5, 2006 to educate and vacci-
mountains. Herds of sheep trotted across the landscape, fol- nate villages in China. Currently, China shoulders the greatest burden
lowed by women in crimson Tibetan robes. Their destination was of hepatitis B and liver cancer in the world. One-third of the 350-400
a remote school in Qinghai Province, China, where they were help- million people in the world with chronic hepatitis B live in China, and
ing with a Hepatitis B Prevention Program jointly sponsored by the approximately 500,000 Chinese die of liver cancer or failure caused
Asian Liver Center and the Chinese Center for Disease Control. The by hepatitis B each year. The most recent program took place in the
program planned to vaccinate and educate over 57,000 children at Hainan Tibetan Autonomous Prefecture in Qinghai province, where
331 schools. Founded in 1996 by Dr. Samuel So, the Asian Liver 18% of the population are chronic carriers. Healthcare officials and
Center uses a three-pronged approach towards fighting hepatitis B: volunteers went from school to school, educating the local officials,
outreach, education, and research. teachers, and parents, and providing free vaccinations. The Center es-
Hepatitis B is one of the most serious health problems the world timates a 95% vaccine complete rate and an 80% increase in hepatitis
faces today. It is caused by infection with the hepatitis B virus (HBV), B prevention education knowledge levels.
often inducing liver cirrhosis, liver failure, and cancer. Over 80% of From implementing hepatitis B strategies through government in
the liver cancer worldwide is caused by chronic hepatitis B, and liver the Philippines to Youth Leadership Health Conferences in the Unites
cancer is one of the leading causes of death in many countries. In the States, the Asian Liver Center is making a significant impact and do-
United States, 0.1% of white Americans have chronic hepatitis B, ing its part to reduce health disparities. ■
compared to 10% of Asian and Pacific Islanders. In some Pacific Rim
countries, as many as 10-20% of the population are hepatitis B carri- *Statistical information taken from the Asian Liver Center at Stan-
ers. Fortunately, hepatitis B is completely preventable with a vaccine ford University and the World Health Organization. Pictures copy-
that has been available since 1982. Yet vaccination rates remain low right Stanford Asian Liver Center.
An Honor
Long Overdue photo by Julie Kim
O
n October 12, 2007, on the occasion of Re-
union Homecoming Weekend, George Le-
ong, ’46, MA ’47, Ph.D. ’52 was inducted
into the Asian American Activities Center (A3C)
Alumni Hall of Fame. The Hall of Fame honors
Stanford’s most accomplished alumni for their
outstanding achievements and contributions.
Leong came to Stanford in 1943 through a
special program to recruit high school students
to begin their college careers before their se-
nior year. He was one of just sixty students from
across the nation who were identified as able
to handle the rigors of a Stanford education.
At the time, there were also far fewer students
Vice Provost Greg Boardman and Hall of Fame honoree George Leong joined the A3C Direc-
who looked like Leong. The small number of Asian
tor Cindy Ng and Assistant Director Shelley Tadaki at the Clubhouse Ballroom dedication
American students was reduced further as a result of ceremony during Alumni Homecoming. Pictured with Leong are fellow alumni who joined
President Franklin Roosevelt’s wartime Executive him in donating funds for the Ballroom renovation: Ada S.Y. Tom (Fay S. Tom ‘46, MS ‘47),
Order 9066, which declared all Japanese Americans Doris S. Lee (Ted Lee), Beatrice Lowe ‘45 (J.S. Lee), Helen Leong ‘48, MA ‘49, and Betty C.
as enemy aliens. The Order resulted in the forced Wo (Robert C. Wo ‘46).
evacuation of Stanford’s JapaneseAmerican students
to various internment camps around the country.
Under these circumstances, Leong understood the need first advocates for academic, economic, and social inclusion.
to build a strong community. He embraced his role as a pio- Upon graduation, Leong continued to be a pioneer, paving the
neer and became a leading member of the Chinese Students way for those who would follow in his footsteps. In 1969, he be-
Club* where he worked to bring cultural understanding to cam- came the highest-ranking Asian American in the civil service sys-
pus. He and his fellow club members organized social gather- tem when he was appointed Special Assistant to the Assistant
ings, conferences and educational activities. They served as the Secretary for Health and Scientific Affairs in the Department of
Health, Education, and Welfare. He went on to become the Acting
Director of the Food and Drug Administration’s Office of Scientific
Evaluation, Bureau of Drugs, and directed the review, evaluation
and approval of all drug applications under the aegis of the FDA.
Leong continues to be involved in the Stanford commu-
nity as an alumnus. Viewing the A3C as the successor to the Chi-
nese Students Club, he has supported the center with fundrais-
ing, resources, and advice. In 2006, Leong organized fellow
Chinese Students Club members to raise money for the Club-
house Ballroom renovation. The Ballroom was dedicated dur-
ing Homecoming in the presence of many of the alumni donors.
Through his efforts, Dr. Leong and his wife, Helen, continue to
improve the experience of current and future generations of Stanford
students. ■
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T
hough seemingly successful, the Sec- benefit that each additional sum-
ond Inter-Korean Summit was not mit is reduced in value and thus less
only unconvincing but thoroughly of- likely to meet the growing expecta-
fensive in its deliberate avoidance of impor- tions of his people. Coupled with the
tant issues that riddle the Korean peninsula. transparent negotiation process, it
hand-
Even the timing of the summit left much seems reasonable to surmise that a
to be desired. President Roh Moo-Hyun’s major gift was presented to the Dear
excursion to North Korea was conveniently Leader in return for his cooperation.
three months before the next presidential
election. With popularity ratings for the
Yet, these doubts could have been
overlooked if the summit had inspired shakes &
smiles
presidential candidates in Roh’s party hov- worthwhile changes in the peninsula.
ering around the single digits, the summit A positive end achieved by the wrong
could certainly be construed, or even mis- motives is, in effect, still positive, al-
though it would present both sides in photo courtesy of donga.com
construed, as a desperate act of diplomatic
exploitation. Additionally, it was suspi- an unfavorable light. Not surprising-
cious that Kim Jong-il would heed to the ly, however, the eight point agreement insti- of this boundary by North Korean ships, both
meeting request of Roh, who is effectively tuted during the summit was only before and after the summit, suggests that a
a lame duck. Because Kim understands the full of pleasant rhetoric and be- discourse on this important dispute was con-
negative effects of inflation, it was to his reft of any concrete discus- sciously avoided.
sion in building a sustain- It is not surprising then that the summit
able and peaceful regime. also chose not to address controversial is-
Take the Mount Baekdu sues such as the humanitarian crisis and
tourism project for example, one the nuclear debate in the Hermit Kingdom.
of the new projects established on the These subjects undoubtedly would have been
basis of economic cooperation. This deemed too unsavory for the hand-shak-
venture takes advantage of the moun- ing, photo-op extravaganza in Pyongyang.
tain’s significant symbolism in Korean In place, symbolic images of reciprocity
culture to suggest progress toward harmony and goodwill flooded the media: Roh’s cross-
and reunification in the peninsula. Though ing of the 38th parallel, Kim’s gift of million-
the goal is positive, it is reminiscent of the dollar songi mushrooms to the south; and
debacle involving the all-too-similar Mount Roh’s enthusiastic reception of the “Arirang”
Kumgang project: a new tourist route in mass games in all of its tragically bizarre and
a fenced, indigenously sterile region fails perhaps allegorical glory
to establish any meaningful economic or The reality is decidedly more negative;
peaceful cooperation between the Koreas. the summit, despite all of its promises and
The summit also circumvented issues of exhibition, remains strictly a political strata-
practical concern. For one, there was a lack gem. This bleak truth is perhaps most el-
of discussion regarding the Northern Line egantly put in the form of a colorful tableau:
Limit, which determines the maritime border the image of mountebank Roh and scoundrel
“
between the nations. Frequent encroachment Kim playacting in a glittery masquerade. ■
”
ric and bereft of any concrete discussion in
building a sustainable and peaceful regime.
communicasians 13
AZIA KIM: AN R A by Takeo Rivera for her ride to arrive. She cried to me, told me a life story that I knew
F
wasn’t true, but I didn’t care. In that moment, I was doing my job as
rom the third floor of Okada, you can an RA. I was listening. I wasn’t demonizing. I wasn’t scandalizing.
hear a lot. Sometimes it’s some drunk I wasn’t making fun of her or hyperbolizing her issues. I was listen-
frosh roving along Bowdoin that I pray ing. I even held her and had the gall to try to make her feel better.
aren’t mine; other Still, I blamed myself.
times, you get How could I not when the
“
happy phone rest of the campus seemed
calls, arguments,
reconciliations.
So what did I do? I fought. to be under the impression
that all of Okada staff was
And then there are the times you get acts I decided to stand, if only to irresponsible? And sud-
of intolerance. denly there were three frats
They started off with shouts of “F--- show that this was one Asian shouting anti-Asian slurs at
Okada” and “Azia Kim” in mock Asian
accents. That was one frat. Another frat
held a “banzai bash” sake party that used
who wasn’t going to be pas-
sive and polite
“ our community. Suddenly
there were jokes on the on-
line comment section of the
Azia Kim as a recurring theme, asking Stanford Daily disparaging
one of my residents if she was Azia Kim Asian women. All the little
because she was an Asian American fe- intangibles that made for an
male. When yet another frat came by to amazing and life-changing
shout racialized slurs at the dorm, I ran out in flip-flops with my RCC year seemed all for naught. People weren’t going to remember that
and demanded to know who they were. The last straw came when the my staff and I got into a physical confrontation to save a freshman’s
third frat arrived to piss on our lawn with yet another “F--- Okada” life, that we pulled all-nighters in the waiting room of the ER wait-
shout. So much for the spirit of the Fundamental Standard. So much ing for our residents to
for this campus’ embrace of diversity. get better, or the count-
That was the untold story: the aftermath of Azia Kim. I doubt the less times we laughed,
wave of anti-Okada and anti-Asian verbal abuse would have hap- cried, lost sleep, drank
pened if Azia was white. And of course, did I have anywhere to caffeine, watched mov-
turn to? Not to the general student body. The Stanford Daily had ies and shared life sto-
concluded that the staff and I were incompetent. Online comments ries. No. You heard
demanded that we be fired. Every day for two weeks, my staff, my “Okada” and you
residents and I had to answer questions from everyone: students, thought Azia Kim. I
professors, TV cameras. I was interviewed by the San Francisco don’t know if I’ve ever
Chronicle and the New Yorker and declined a CNN appearance. On felt so simultaneously
top of that, my residents were repeatedly told that they should be despaired and furious
ashamed to live where they were. in my life.
Did I blame myself? Yes. You see, I was the one who facilitated So what did I do?
her move-in. In order for her to succeed, she had to lie to me on sev- I fought. I decided to
eral counts. My crime is that I trusted her word. In Okada, we grew stand, if only to show
accustomed to trusting each other. At our Crossing the Line we had that this was one Asian
a nearly unanimous “feel-like-a-part-of-the-community” response— who wasn’t going to
the best I had ever seen in any dorm. I was consistently running be passive and polite.
on two to five hours of sleep every night, with time spent planning My role as a commu-
events, counseling residents and placing my RA job before all other nity builder promptly
commitments, including my academics. The Okada Staff and I were became that of a com-
intensely proud of the work we did; we collectively took our work munity defender. I de-
so seriously that some of us even developed health issues from being veloped strength and
so committed. I wasn’t a police officer. I wasn’t in the business of resolve from forcing
shaking down someone’s falsified records. So it happened... under myself to stop caring
my watch. about what the rest of
Then again, so did the eviction. After the three of us RAs moved the campus thought of
her out, I sat on the step until two in the morning with her, waiting us, focusing more on
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voices
What really
6 Months T-Shir
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combating the bigotry that
affected everyone. I filed
an Act of Intolerance re-
port and, with Thom Massey, happened at and La er
confronted one of the perpe-
Okada?
by Kelvin Vuong
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trating frats.
Am I over it? Not completely.
But here’s what I do know: two thirds ne Big Game t-shirt.
of our staff have returned. For the first time One offense too many.
in years, we have Okada frosh returning as sophomores, One firestorm to follow.
as well as a large contingent of upperclassmen. The Okada spirit In late October, Stanford Student Enterprises began advertising
somehow managed to survive and thrive in the Spring Quarter of Big Game Cal Sucks shirts sold by The Stanford Store. One shirt
2007. And I’m returning, exhausted though I may be. There’s some- had a slogan that I was shocked to think that SSE would print: “It
thing about the job that keeps you hooked, however many nationally- was either a full ride at Cal or sneaking into Stanford[.] -Azia.” I
publicized scandals and bigoted screams there may be. Maybe it’s was appalled that this shirt was being sold by SSE, the financial
the impact I can make, the co-staffers whom I love, the sense of home division of the Associate Stanford Students Union, and thus had
made from my own sweat and tears. Or maybe it’s because I want to the backing of the student body. I for one did not agree, and I was
see the confused, embarrassed faces of the arriving freshmen when I sure I was not alone.
shout their names for the first time. All over again. ■ From my first e-mail sent to those with the power to remove
the shirt and the Stanford community at large, the complaint was
Takeo Rivera is a Senior majoring in CSRE. This year, he is both an lodged. There were several heated debates on many e-mail lists
Okada Residence Assistant and the Asian American Activities Cen- as the e-mail was circulated. E-mails flew back and forth from
ter’s Community Building Coordinator. my computer as people voiced their concerns; most were in ac-
cordance. A second e-mail was sent after the first e-mail went un-
heeded. More e-mails were circulated and more debate followed.
By the end of the weekend, the shirt was pulled from The Stanford
Store and a replacement was offered. Success at last...but was it?
Two days later, The Stanford Daily ran a piece about the inci-
dent. That’s when the firestorm began. The Daily message board
suggested that I was alone, that I was silly to have voiced my con-
cern, that the joke was justified. Talks began among students about
making the shirt themselves. A Facebook group formed bashing
Azia Kim and me. But I did not take offense. I expected most of
this. What I found offensive was what I did not expect.
I did not expect that students would feel that the joke was justi-
fied. Azia Kim has been a running joke on campus ever since the
story broke 6 months ago. No one could utter her name without
a chuckle. It is time that the joke was laid to rest. By continuing
this joke, we ignore the serious implications of the incident. What
drove Kim to do what she did for so long? What really happened
afterwards? Why was the incident racialized?
I did not expect that other students would be afraid to voice
their opinions. People feared the ridicule that would follow if they
decided to voice their opinion like I did. At an institution with as
high a caliber as Stanford, free thought should be encouraged.
So what did we really take away from the incident last school
year? Did we even stop to think about what this incident implied
about mental health or race? Or were we too concerned with the
‘offense’ that had taken place? Have we ever stopped to think
about it? I think not. With what has happened with this t-shirt, I’m
happy that we are finally starting to take a second look. ■
photo courtesy of ASSU Draw Guide
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conference room may only be reserved by to-find
he Asian American Activities Center registered Voluntary Student Organizations. news-
(A3C) is a department of Stanford Uni- The ballroom can be used for mixers, papers
versity with a large variety of resources dinners, dances, performances, and other a n d
to serve the needs of the Asian American large events. Besides the sleek hardwood j o u r-
community. floors, the stage and stage lighting can set nals
During this past summer, the A3C moved the tone and mood of your events. If need- n o t
back into the newly renovated Old Union ed, tables and seating for 140 are available avail-
Clubhouse. The center covers the first and through the A3C. able
second floors of the Old Union Clubhouse, Directly above the ballroom, the A3C at the
a big change from the portables where it was couchroom houses comfortable couches that main li-
previously located during construction. Cin- serve as seating for meet- brary.
dy Ng, A3C Director and Assistant Dean of ings, events, and In addition
Student Affairs, and Shelley Tadaki, working stu- to the physical space of
Assistant Director, lead a team of dents. The the A3C, many programs are prepared by the
24 student staff members to de- couch- staff for all students. The weekly Speaker Se-
velop programming geared room ries deals with issues about adjusting to col-
towards the Asian American is a lege, Asian American identity, and preparing
community at Stanford. place for the post-college life. The new After Dark
The A3C space includes for Series explores taboo topics such as dealing
a beautiful wrap-around stu- with parental pressures and mental health is-
balcony, an expanded ball- sues. Quarterly leadership retreats bring the
room, spacious couchroom, Asian American community together to ex-
conference room, and com- plore how to better reach out to and serve the
puter cluster that are open to dents Asian American community at Stanford.
all students. Student groups t o To learn more about what the A3C has to
may reserve space for one- come offer, visit the website or swing by the sec-
time events or weekly meeting and relax ond floor of the Old Union Clubhouse. ■
reservations through an online or do work.
form located under the “Facility In- Oftentimes, a
formation” section on the A3C website basket of goodies
(located at http://a3c.stanford.edu, or type is conveniently placed
‘A3C’ in your browser next to the couches, a tantalizing reason to
from a Stanford drop by the A3C space. For those student
groups looking for a movie or kara-
oke night, the couchroom also has a
TV, VCR, DVD player, and stereo
for use. The couchroom includes
a small side room with a wall-
length whiteboard, large confer-
ence table, and chairs that can be
sectioned off by a divider.
The Mac computer cluster
occupies the same room as the
A3C’s library. All students are
welcome to both. The library
photos by Betty Pham
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