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Rabbana dhalamna anfusana wa-illam
taghfirlana watarhamna lanakoonanna
min al-khasireen
"Our Lord, we have wronged ourselves,
and if You do not forgive us and have
mercy upon us, we will surely be among
the losers."
Based on The Stories of the Prophets by Ibn-Kathir
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Lead Change,
As A Muslim
By: Dureya Syed
The prophet (s) was the
best of mankind. A man that held the
morals that today's society greatly
lacks. On his walk to the mosque he
would stop and remove harmful things
from the road. When a funeral proces-
sion would pass he would stand, when
the companions asked why he stood
for a non-Muslim, he said "is it not a
soul". When he saw someone doing
wrong, he would speak to them kindly
and teach them the correct way. As a
leader he treated everybody as equals,
he himself was not above anyone. If
today we could take these qualities
and apply them to today's society, how
much could we change? How much of
a difference could we make? We are all
in positions capable of applying these
qualities. Whether we realize it or not,
we're either an older sibling or an
older cousin, a parent, an aunt, an
uncle, a teacher. We all have the abil-
ity to make a difference because peo-
ple are always watching.
He (s) was a leader, a role
model for us all. Today, a leader is a
politician, who constantly lies, to get
his job done. Leaders may be the
celebrities that society looks towards
and follows. Today, leaders are people
with money and no morals or ethics. A
leader may be a military officer in
charge of machines and people, killing
thousands of innocent men, women
and children are caught in crossfire
every day. Today, anyone can be a
leader.
However, a true leader is
someone who helps people, under-
stands others, listens to others, tries
their best, has integrity and respects
others in every facet. In fact, as Mus-
lims, we already have these qualities
instilled within the teachings of our
religion. If we look to the prophet (s),
he was the best of leaders and was the
best among us. Today, a lot of deroga-
tory comments float around about us.
Things that you and I know are not
true. As Muslims this should bother us
or at the least upset us because no one
likes to be judged. For us to be judged
so unjustly, isn't right. We should fix
it. We hear stories of people going
across the country to help during
natural disasters, about people send-
ing money over, about people that
volunteer in every place imaginable.
They're all helping people.
You say to yourself they're
making a difference. But as Muslims,
even a smile is an act of charity, with
simply that we can change a lot of
views about Islam. We've all heard the
saying go big or go home. Well,
that's not always the case. If we all
start standing up and screaming that
our religion isn't what people make it
out to be, how many people will we
affect? None. They'll think we're
crazy, more fanatic Muslims. Howev-
er, we can focus on who we are and try
to improve ourselves. So that when
people see who we really are, we will
defy their initial judgments.
We can better our actions,
listen more, respect more, judge less.
Try it, people will love you for it. I'm
not saying everyone will be accepting
if we're good Muslims and overall
good person thats just not going to
happen. But at least we can all start
somewhere. If enough people try this,
then maybe one day we can change the
misconceptions about our religion.
Anybody reading this article probably
knows that Muslims arent all bad
because being good to others is basic
in Islam. Having respect, integrity, not
judging others for looks, ethnicity or
religion are tenets of Islam.
Knowing that we ourselves
are judged should make us less judg-
mental towards others, even our
fellow Muslims. So let's all take a step
back to look at ourselves, see what we
need to change about ourselves, so we
can go out to make a difference
through our character, through our
actions. With that, I'm going to leave
you with a quote.
"When I was a young man I
wanted to change the world. I found it was
difficult to change the world so I tried to
change my nation. When I found I couldn't
change my nation, I began to focus on my
town. I couldn't change the town, and now
as an older man, I tried to change my
family. Now as an old man I realize the
only thing I can change is myself. And
suddenly I realized that if long ago I had
changed myself, I could have made an
impact on my family. My family and I
could have made an impact on our town.
Their impact would have changed the
nation, and I indeed could have changed
the world." ----unknown
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A Drop of Time
By: Danyal Syed
How quickly does time fly?
About the time for a drop of water to turn dry?
Where does all this time go?
Second after second does anyone know?
Each and every millisecond gone,
It is your choice whether you are an individual or just another
pawn
Who are you? Who am I?
Are you as valuable as the ocean or just another water drop turn-
ing dry?
Stand Firm
By: Danyal Syed
The only fear is fear from within
overcoming such is when you win
Lurking in the dark what you can't see
Your option is to encounter or to flee
Stand firm and never lose your grip
Cuz you sure as hell don't wanna slip
Take the shot, go for the win!
Overcome that fear from within!
Amend
By: Danyal Syed
Chasing your dreams both high and low,
But ignorantly only round and around you go
Stop for a moment and think
have a sip of life in a drink!
Are your dreams worth the merry-go-round into
infinity of complete nothing,
Or are you willing to turn around and rectify your
shortcoming?
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Beautifully Preserved
By Fatema Elias
So, Id like to take a min. just standing right here
To voice some misconceptions that we, as Muslims, just fear
We arent oppressed, let down or even weak
Knowing full well that the knowledge we seek
Is untouched perfected transcendent and divine
Our only duty would be to embrace empower and align
With the brothers and sisters around us so eager to learn
Alongside us with the same goal, same purpose, same concern
With all the mis-readings from the media via propaganda
The misconceptions, misinformation, all of the misunderstandings
We dont need anyone to tell us who we are
For we know who we are, what we believe in and how we should act
From the day we embraced religion and took the shahada
Ashadu an la ilaha illAllah washadu anna Muhammadan rasulullah
Its sad to say that in times like these our own people
Our own people that once lived peacefully now live in fear of what could be
The fear of not knowing the consequence behind the things we should be
The fear of discovering the talent, the creativity, the status that we can be
The fear of defining ourselves as charismatic and powerful of someone that one day we will be
The fear of not fitting in and feeling like we have to be followers.
Grasping the characteristics of those who we would be,
if there was no Islam.
What we eat, sleep, speak, act, love, breathe and live
some say its okay to be devout secretly
others make it seem like its okay to transgress bounds openly
with arrogance, pride, & haughtiness. Those theorists!
How about those in isolation, solitude, the individualists
Let us turn back to our guide, what does the Quran say?
We should take the middle path.
Not be falsely accused of being too authoritative when we have no power
Not be written down in the book of deeds as a disbeliever
But to carry on with the idea that we as the Muslim youth can be what we so desire
Unfaltering unchanging and undefeated.
In Chapter 3 Surah Al-Imran Verse 103
and hold fast all of you together, to the rope of Allah
Allah (SWT) never just says to follow Him blindly.
There is proof enough by the creations around us that there is a God
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And that we are all His servants undeniably.
What is the rope of Allah (SWT) you ask? It is the Quran, the very words of Allah (SWT).
Allah (SWT) then goes on to say and be not divided amongst yourselves
Why do we not then have the strength to complete an order so plainly written?
His words alone, His order, His revelation should engage us to hasten
We have lost ourselves somewhere along the way
Striving for perfection, faltering at the conception-or lack thereof
Kneeling with devotion, deviating with different perceptions
Its our duty to come together as a solid brick wall
Never letting others break through the barriers
Just as we stand in Salah, shoulder to shoulder, feet-to-feet
Not letting the accursed Shaitan break through the lines of the slaves of Allah (SWT)
That he once was. But now so carefully piercing through the mind and bodies
Of Allah's (SWT) followers who are trying so hard to stay on the straight path
The devil himself accepted that he would end in Hell
But promised to God that he would take down
Every man woman and mature child along with Him
A challenge that he took upon himself because he could not handle
Having to bow to someone deemed less than him, a person made of mere dust
While he was made from a blazing fire he could not take it.
The jealousy, the envy and the anger that erupted from him
Now alienates us from ourselves and allows us to disobey Allah (SWT)
When we should be humbly falling to our feet, hands on the ground, forehead to the floor
askingpraisingpleading to Allah (SWT) for His Mercy
Let us be exactly who Allah (SWT) tells us we should be
Let there arise out of you a band of people inviting to all that is good
enjoining Al-Maruf and forbidding Al-Munkar
enjoining what is good and forbidding what is falsehood
So let us take the time to show the world
With patience and moderation of what we all can be
People who can teach and follow Islam correctly like the way it should be
Like the companions of the Prophet (SAWW) without hesitation following him.
InshAllah, one day like devout Muslims that we will be, who we shall be.
Like Allah (SWT) finished the ayah by saying it is they who are successful
Why then do we not heed the very words that we claim to be following?
Others look at us and deem us as hypocrites sometimes listening
Other times disobeying the command given by the Almighty so blatantly
We must remain in consistency with the prophecy that was sent down 1400 years ago
That still remains utterlygraciouslybeautifully preserved.
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Reaching the
Messenger of
Allah (SWT)
By: Fawzia Syed
I walked faster and fast-
er, hundreds of women pushing me
forward. Women all around me cried
in love and in pain. They pushed
forth with a fervor that emanated
from their hearts and took hold of
their bodies. I continued to move
forward. My heart raced; I dont
know why. I might have been nerv-
ous. I might have been anxious. All I
knew was that my heart felt as if it
would beat right out of my body. My
tongue fervently repeated,
Allahumma salli alaa sayiddina
Muhammad This was my first
visit: I was going to be in the pres-
ence of Muhammad (SAWW) (peace
and blessings be upon him).
My eyes swelled with
tears and I was no longer able to
hold it in. I reached my destination,
only a few feet from the grave of the
Messenger of Allah (SWT). My tears
rushed from my eyes as if a waterfall,
endlessly. My eyes, unable to see,
and my body heavy with a burden I
didnt understand, stood in awe. I
prayed earnestly that a future meet-
ing with the Messenger would
have me drinking from his hands
next to his fountain. I continued to
send peace and blessings upon the
Beloved of Allah. I thanked Allah
(SWT) (glorified is He) for bringing
me here, for allowing me, in my
pathetic state, to stand before the
greatest man to ever walk upon this
earth.
Every story and every
description of the Messenger
(SAWW) raced through my mind
and heart. I imagined his feet, soak-
ing with blood, as he ran from the
insults jeered at him by the people of
Taif. I remembered the resolve and
strength of my Messenger (SAWW)
in those moments when he prayed to
Allah (SWT), O Allah (SWT)! I
complain only to You of my weak-
ness, my scarcity of resources and
my humiliation before the people. O
Most Merciful of those who are
mercifulSo long as You are not
angry with me, I do not care. Your
favor is of more abundance to me
I thought of him praying in the
middle of the night whilst crying. His
wife, Aisha (may Allah be pleased
with her) asking him, Why do you
stay up all night and pray when all
your sins have been forgivenpast
and future? His simple reply,
Should I not be a thankful serv-
ant?
I thought of the first
generation and their love for the
Messenger of Allah (saw). I won-
dered how his heart must have felt
when the companions (may Allah be
pleased with them) came to him
tortured day after day, after having
given up everything because of the
Jannah (Paradise) he promised
them. And I could hear Jaabir (may
Allah be pleased with him) describ-
ing my beloved Prophet (SAWW): I
once saw Rasulullah on the night of
a full moon. I looked first at the full
moon, and then at the face of
Rasulullah. And I swear by God
that he was more handsome,
beautiful and more radiant
than the full moon.
Allah (SWT) had allowed
my undeserving being to walk upon
the same roads the Prophet (SWT)
had walked. Can you imagine? He
had walked these streets, with rocks
around his stomach, attempting to
suppress the pangs of hunger. The
best of creation went days and nights
without food. A smile always etched
upon his noble face and his tongue
immersed in the remembrance of
His Lord. His companions attentive-
ly gathered around him, capturing
every word and action of his. This
city, Madinah, reminded me of the
Prophet (SAWW) at every turn.
I was now so close to him
inside Masjid al-Nabawi; but what if
I was actually in the presence of
Muhammad (SAWW)? I asked
myself this question as I slowly
distanced myself from his grave and
found a place to sit and gather my-
self. All I imagined was the Day of
Judgment. Often when I think of
Rasulallah (SAWW), I think of the
Last Day. This is because when I was
younger, a teacher of mine was the
first to tell me that as the Day of
Judgment played out, everyone
would leave me stranded and alone.
My friends, my family, and even my
parents would abandon me. I would
be left before Allah (SWT) with
nothing-except my deeds, which
would be lacking for a surety. She
said that mankind would go to each
Prophet that Day asking for help,
and each Prophet would reply,
Nafsi, nafsi. Myself, Myself.
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They too would be filled with fear
on that Day. Each prophet: Adam,
Ibrahim (Abraham), Musa (Moses)
and so on would reply, Nafsi,
Nafsi. And then she finally men-
tioned the Prophet (SAWW). Our
Messenger, Muhammad (SAWW)
would instead reply, Ummati,
Ummati. My Ummah, My
Ummah. As she said this, my
teacher began to cry, as did I. How
could I not love someone who loved
me so dearly?
Our faith is not com-
plete until we love the Prophet
(SAW) more than we love ourselves.
I shamefully admit I thought little
over the depth of this statement
until I visited the grave of the
Prophet (SAWW). In the days that
followedin the moments of self-
reflectionI found myself repeated-
ly asking: Do I love Muhammad
(SAWW) more than I love myself?
Several months have passed and I
still ask myself this question. In an
attempt to ease my distress and
cultivate a love for the Prophet
(SAWW), I have gathered some
ways to increase my love for him. I
pray that one day my love and your
love for him will surpass any and
every worldly love we have allowed
to take hold of our hearts. May our
love for him be a proof for us on the
Day of Judgment, when we are need
of salvation and forgiveness for our
misdeeds.
Love the Quran: The
Prophets (SAWW) miracle was the
Quran. His life changed when the
first word of the Quran was re-
vealed. As it transformed his life, it
should transform ours as well. We
do this by realizing that the Quran
is more than a book and we should
treat it as such. Let us read it every
day (seriously every day), and ask
Allah (SWT) at every moment we
can to put a sincere love for the
Quran in our hearts.
Read the seerah (life of
the Prophet (SAWW)): If we
know him, then we will love him. It
is that simple. We cannot love
someone we do not know.
Send salawaat (salutations)
upon him every day: Let us send
peace and blessings upon the
Prophet (SAWW) every day. Do not
go a day without mentioning his
name or remembering him. The
Prophet (SAWW) has said,
Whoever supplicated Allah (SWT)
to exalt my mention, Allah (SWT)
will exalt his mention ten times and
remove from him ten sins and raise
him ten degrees.
Follow the sunnah: The
way the Prophet (SAWW) went
about his day was inspired by Allah
(SWT) and is full of blessing for us.
We should take the time to learn
what he did regularly throughout
his day. Take one sunnah
(tradition)just oneand work to
implement it in our daily routine.
For example, if we do not sit when
we eat or drink, begin to sit. If we
do not pray 2 rakah sunnah (units
of prayer) after Dhuhr salah
(afternoon prayer), begin to do so.
If we begin slowly, we will not over-
whelm ourselves. For the Prophet
(SAW) has said that Allah (SWT)
loves consistency in deeds, not
grandeur.
Humble yourself: Always
remember that Allah (SWT) is
Greater than you. He is greater than
me and everyone I know. And the
Prophet (SAWW) was the best of
creation. We are merely servants of
God; let us think of ourselves as
such. The Prophets (SAWW) char-
acter was beautiful in that he was
the most humble of people. If we
learn humility first, then the rest of
the Prophets (SAWW) noble char-
acter traits will follow close behind
InshAllah.
May Allah (SWT) make us among
those who follow in the footsteps of
His noble messenger and make us
among those who love him more
than we love all else in this world.
Ameen!
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A Part- time Traveler
By: Qurat-ul-ain Gulamhussein
I am a Muslim. I follow Prophet Muham-
mad (SAW). I claim to love his loved ones. I claim to
hate his enemies. I dont just claim, but I actually im-
plement those beliefs in my day to day life, but just
when I want to. You see, I am a part-time Muslim.
Each Muharram and Safar, I travel with
Prophet Muhammad (SAW) on his journey with his
grandson, Imam Hussain (AS), and their whole house-
hold to Kerbala. I regularly attend lectures at the
mosque during these months adorned in black with just
the right amount of sadness on my face and just the
right shade of dark black nail polish on my nails. I cry
my heart out when I hear the Prophet (SAW) losing his
whole family, the six-month-old baby being shot with a
three-headed spear, the veil of the women being torn
away from them, the tents set on fire. I beat my chest in
remembrance of their suffering, the loss of the Prophet
(SAW). I promise to not let their cause go in vain.
And then, I have nyaaz, the food served at
the end of lectures. I forget the thirst of my fellow trav-
elers; you know the ones I began my journey with. I
drink and eat to my full. And then I socialize with my
friends, say goodbye, and return home to sleep on my
warm bed while the trampled bodies of the men of P.
Muhammads (SAW) family lay on the land of Kerbala.
What should I do anyway? Crying is what
society expects. Its not like I can start sleeping on the
floor, or abstain from water and food forever, right? I
went with all of them and returned with just the Proph-
et (SAW), but its not like I could have helped someone
who sacrificed his life for Islam over 13 centuries ago on
the day of Ashura. So, the best thing to do is to bid
farewell and return to them the next holy month of
Muharram.
My intention in writing this sarcastic article
was nothing but an attempt to criticize myself. Life is
like a layover because the real journey starts after death
with the final destination being Heaven (hopefully!). If
I want Prophet Muhammad (SAW) and his family to
intercede on my behalf on the Day of Judgment, a day
when neither my wealth nor my family can help me,
then I must love Prophet Muhammad (SAW) full-time.
After all, in Surah Taha, Allah (SWT) tells
us, That Day, no intercession will benefit except [that
of] one to whom the Most Merciful has given permis-
sion and has accepted his word (20:109). Who more
esteemed than Prophet Muhammad (SAW) can put in a
better word for me on that journey?
For this to happen, I need to follow Islam
completely in addition to remembering what happened
at Kerbala, all year round. If I accompany the Proph-
et (SAW) every day of my current fleeting life, Inshal-
lah, he and his family will accompany me when no one
else will.
To spread the message of Imam Hussain
(AS) and to earn the love of Prophet Muhammad
(SAW), please visit www.whoishussain.org and share
with Muslims and non-Muslims. Bring yourself and
others to live the saying: Every day is Ashura and
every land is Kerbala.
The Middle
Path
By: The Islam Awareness
Committee
Remember your impres-
sion of the MSA before you arrived
to Stony Brook? It is likely that you
thought that it was full of hijabis
and bearded individuals who did
nothing but judge (a definite state of
anomy). Some of you mightve felt
that you would be lambasted if you
didnt fold up your pants or didnt
spend enough time in the prayer
roomwhich would be a definite
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state of calamity. The MSA
mightve felt like a place you would
have to have a certain level of religi-
osity to be in. Now, there is noth-
ing wrong with thatwe should all
set goals for ourselves in regards to
our Islam. On the flipside, spending
the majority of your day in the
balcony, watching YouTube videos,
and socializing all day arent the
most beneficial ways to spend your
day. However, there is nothing
wrong in doing those things either.
What do we need? We
need moderation. Moderation, in
all that we do, is the key to success.
In Surah Baqarah, Ayah 143, Allah
(SWT) says, and thus we have
made you a just community The
word used to describe the Muslims
here is Wasat. In Arabic, Wasat
means center or middle ground.
Allah (SWT) created us to be an
Ummah of moderationan Um-
mah absent of extremism. The
Messenger (SAWW) of Allah (SWT)
said, Do good deeds properly,
sincerely and moderatelyAlways
adopt a middle, moderate, regular
course, whereby you will reach
your target (paradise) (Sahih Al-
Bukhari). We dont need to set
difficult goals for ourselves in order
to become more religious or attain
Jannahquality over quantity.
Remember, Islam is easy. It is we
who make it difficult upon our-
selves.
In our context as college
students, we need to find a balance
between our religiosity and our
social lives. Forget the uncles that
tell you that you cant have fun in
Islam. Extreme religiosity isnt
healthy, especially when there are
countless responsibilities facing us:
The Prophet Muham-
mad (peace be upon him) once
asked a companion: "(Is it true)
that you fast all day and stand in
prayer all night?" The companion
replied that the report was indeed
true. The Prophet then said: "Do
not do that! Observe the fast some-
times and also leave (it) at other
times. Stand up for prayer at night
and also sleep at night. Your body
has a right over you, your eyes
have a right over you and your
wife has a right over you." - Sahih
Al-Bukhari, Volume 7, Hadith 127
There are certain re-
sponsibilities that we all have to
fulfill and we cant use religion as
an excuse. Remember that Umar
ibn al-Khattab (second Khalifah)
actually reprimanded people who
spent too much time in the
masaajid since they were neglect-
ing their duties to their households.
On the other hand, the road of
debauchery is also unhealthy. There
are certain religious obligations
that we must fulfill. Allah (SWT)
does not ask much from us, yet He
(SWT) promises us endless boun-
ties.
What is one step we can
take? We need to structure our
everyday activities AROUND our
daily Salahs. We should not try to
fit in our Salahs around our daily
activities. Our Deen needs to be our
primary focus, but we also need to
perform our everyday activities.
Structuring your day like this can
ensure that you perform your reli-
gious obligations and also get your
other work done.
At the end of the day,
we need to keep in mind that it isnt
our good deeds (no matter how
many) that will save us from Hell-
fireit is Allahs (SWT) Mercy:
The Prophet Muham-
mad (peace be upon him) said:
"The good deeds of any person will
not make him enter Paradise (i.e.,
no one enters paradise only
through his good deeds)." The
Prophet's companions asked: "Not
even you?" The Prophet replied:
"Not even myself, unless God be-
stows His favor and mercy on me.
So be moderate in your religious
deeds and do what is within your
ability. None of you should wish
for death, for if he is a doer of
good, he may increase his good
deeds, and if he is an evil doer, he
may repent to God." - Sahih al-
Bukhari, Volume 7, Hadith 577
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Reem Zohny Former Vice President
Finding adequate words to express how it feels
to be closing this chapter of my life has proven impossible,
but Ill do my best. Like so many others I came to Stony
Brook anxious about what to expect of college life, but eager
to experience the MSA I had heard so much about. And like
so many others, I found things here that I didnt even realize
I was looking for. It was here that I learned the meaning of
friendship. It was here that I met people who would change
my life for the better. It was here that I learned some of the
hardest but most important lessons of my life. And it was
here that I found a community that I could call my own.
Working on the board these past few years,
proved to bring with it more challenges, frustrations, and
tests of patience than I could have anticipated, but more
than anything it brought a sense of satisfaction I had not
known before. One that came through knowing that I was
taking part in something that had the ability to change lives
for the better, the way it had changed mine. Its a satisfac-
tion I honestly dont know how Ill get by without, and hope
to find again after Stony Brook, but one I will remain eter-
nally grateful for experiencing here first. I have been blessed
to work with amazing people, who have helped me realize
my own shortcomings through their character, optimism,
and fortitude. In each and every person I came across here I
recognized some quality that was lacking in myself, and for
that I am forever indebted to you.
It was narrated by Aisha (rA) that once they had
slaughtered a goat, distributing much of the meat to the
poor, after which the Prophet (saw) asked, How much of its
meat remains? She replied, Nothing remains except the
shoulder. In response the Prophet (saw) said, Everything
Zain Ali Former President
Working on the MSA E-Board is an experience
unlike any other. It has its ups and downs, its sunrises and
its sunsets but all in all, inshaAllah the struggle at the end is
all worth it. I thank Allah for allowing me to be able to work
with such an amazing group of individuals this year and pray
that next years board is able to bring this MSA to new
heights. Here are a few things Id tell myself if I were able to
go back to the beginning of last year.
1) Take it easy. I cannot tell you how profound Sister
Sanaas statement is: Dont worry- just be happy. More
often than not, the things you worry yourself sick about will
get taken care of- a reminder we hear often that sometimes
we forget to take in. The work that you do is yours- strive,
put in the work, turn tawwakul on and Allah will provide.
Keep your chin up and dont ever lose hope.
2) Assume the best of people. Someone says something
funny to you, steps on your toes the wrong way, pushes your
buttons a bit too hard- no ones saying to let them walk all
over you but (and its so much easier said than done) just
assume the best of them. Make as many excuses in their
favor as you can. Everyones fighting an internal battle that
you know nothing about. No matter what the situation, just
dont act upon your anger- you will almost always regret
what you say when you respond to someone right after
getting angry.
3) Dont generalize- See the good in people before search-
ing for their bad. First impressions are hard to erase and
even harder are second impressions. Remember that we are
all slaves of Allah striving to make it to Jannah- the playing
field is much more level than you think.
4) Use your time wisely - You will never get it back. Life
will only start getting more and more real from now. Gradu-
ate school, full time job, married life (whatever order you
find yourself following)- most of us will never have what we
have now again- cherish it.
5) Have a vision- dont just strive to copy a past board-
OH MAN THEY WENT TO SIX FLAGS- I HAVE TO SUR-
PASS OMAR! What will they think of me if I dont? It isnt a
competition in that sense of the word. Let the responsibility
of maintaining this MSA prevent you from slacking and let
the reward of succeeding, motivate you. Its an amaanah
from Allah to serve, not to beat the next guy. Let ihsan/
excellence be part of your daily routine and when evaluating
yourself, dont settle for anything less.
May Allah bless you all in your endeavors and
grant you success in seeking to serve Him. May he accept
the efforts of this board and make things easy for next
years. May He guide them to be His obedient servants and
allow for them to serve the campus community and incul-
cate the mercy of Rasulullah (S) in doing so.
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Mishal Riaz Former Treasurer
There are many struggles that come with being
on the boardevery decision seems to come with a criti-
cism, people let you down when youre depending on them,
complain that what youre doing is not enough, and you
encounter frustrations from people and places youd never
expect. Even through all that, I can easily say that being this
MSAs Treasurer and Sisters Representative were some of
the best experiences of my life. Having the privilege of
serving this community is something Im going to miss
dearly, and will always treasure.
It wouldnt be possible for me to list every
aspect that made my experience the best it could be. So, for
now, Ill highlight one thing in particular: the group of
people I was blessed to work with. I never appreciated them
quite enough a mistake I hope next years board does not
make. Each one of them brings a certain light to this MSA
that cant be replaced.What would our events and GBMs be
without Ammars creativity and charisma, or the power-
house that is Sobia Rafiuddin? - or Nagi, the fixture that has
been here since my freshmen year and has always been
there to help when asked. Also, Reem and Zain what
would this year have been without the extreme patience,
steadfastness, and drive that they had? By no means does
this MSA rest on the shoulders of two people, but without
the President and Vice President, who we were honored
with this year. I personally cant see how we would have
seen any of the success that we did. If there is anyone you
want to appreciate and make dua for, for all the memories
youve garnered in the past 8 months, it should be them.For
all their dedication, and for all the patience that this board
has shown me, Im forever grateful. May Allah (SWT) ac-
cept the efforts of this years board, grant the new board
success and ease, and allow our efforts to weigh heavily on
our scales. Ameen.
remains except the shoulder [Tirmidhi]. All we have in this
life is that which we are able to give. So I thank you, for
allowing me the opportunity to give something to this
community that has given me so much. I know it wasnt
much, especially compared to what I received in return, but
its all I have.
I ask for your forgiveness for the ways in which
I fell short, for I know better than anyone that there were
many. I also humbly request that you keep me in your dua,
as you will all be in mine inshaAllah. May Allah bless next
years board with patience and grant them success in all
that they do. May He allow this MSA to reach greater
heights and benefit more people than ever before. And May
He allow for us to meet again under His shade on the Day
when there is no shade but His throne as those who loved
each other for His sake.
Ammar Morgan Former Brothers Secretary
Asalamualaykum wa rahmah tullahi wa baraktuh
Once upon a time I wrote
Inshaallah in the upcoming year, great things will
happen for the Stony Brook University MSA. With a legacy
that leaves a resonating feeling with the mention of the
previous boards, this years board has no other choice than
to answer the call of duty. Inshaallah we will see increased
participation from fellow MSA members and the entire aura
of the MSA personality will shimmer with the green hue of
acceptance and encouragement. I have, again, been given
the chance to help the Muslim Community on campus. Not
only, but I have been given a team that rivals the effective-
ness of the Justice league when it came to the protection of
pedestrian citizens. The villainous obstacles that have yet to
present themselves will be handled in the manner that an
obstacle that is to be conquered deserves. With a president,
vice-president, and treasurer in the fore-front and two-
secretaries, and brothers-representative to cover the rear,
we have all points covered, Inshaallah. All that is left to do
is to try and operate at our full potential, Make duaa, and
keep faith, and the rest shall fall into place where need be.
This is your brothers secretaryNow lets do this.
These were the feelings that I had going into last year, and
how I wish I could go back and tell my old self how on point
my feelings were. This years team has been amazing, and
this years MSA has been amazing. It would be hard to say
that these two things werent linked.
Sobia Rafiuddin Former Sisters Secretary
This year, I was the Sisters Secretary in the
MSA and there are some key things I have learned while
serving my community. For one, nobody reads the emails.
All year, Ive been seriously tempted to just saying some-
thing random in a blurb to see if people would actually
catch it. Do you guys even read this? Am I just blabbing to
myself? Anyway, that was my official rant to the general
body. On a more serious note, Ive learned how important
it is to be a community. My dad always used to tell us how
my parents, siblings and I make up the five fingers on a
hand, and when you close it into a fist, it can stand strong.
Sound familiar? Congratulations fella, he got that from an
old Amitabh Bachan film! Anyway, I learned how important
it is for the MSA to stand together.
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Mohammed Nagi Former Brothers Repre-
sentative
Being a member of the general body for three
years, I was always afraid to serve on the e-board. Especial-
ly after hearing all these talks about how much work there
was or how theyre always chasing members around to do
something. Now that Ive finally served on the e-board and
became a part of every single thread possible, I am very
confused. I sort of understand where the being chased
around idea comes from since I was part of community
service committee. I always thought that I had so much
work to do and that I was trying my best to plan and run
community service events. Thats where this idea of being
chased around by the e-board comes from. Then I started
receiving those emails from the e-board, not the extended
board. Now if people were only able to read those emails, or
even see the number of emails that are sent, then there is
no way they would say such things. The amount of work the
e-board has to do is so much more than all the committees
combined. The fact that they did that and much more was
amazing. So for those who think they have a lot to do, think
of the e-board, and make their lives and jobs easier by
doing what you have to do or trying to assist them.
Being a part of this e-board really showed me
how communication is key, and they have been an amazing
group. I have never seen such a group of people work to-
gether and get things done the way they did. I am grateful
that I was able to serve on this board and hope that I was of
assistance and did not make it harder for them. May Allah
accept it from us and may the new e-board be just as dedi-
cated and have as strong a bond and as much unity as this
board did.
What I didnt realize before being on the board was all the
hard work and dedication that goes into running every
single event, whether it is a social, a lecture, or weekly
classes. I truly understood and began to appreciate all that
the MSA and Chaplain Sanaa Nadim have done after seeing
the intricate details that they deal with everyday to make
the day run smoothly. I recommend that anyone who is
capable tries to be a more active member or possibly tries
for the extended board next year. It would be a wonderful
eye opening experience and a great opportunity to gain
leadership skills!
Jazakallah Khair everyone for giving me the
opportunity to serve this MSA! I pray that I have made an
impact somewhere and benefitted my community here at
Stony Brook and if I have done or said anything you have
disagreed with, I sincerely apologize. With all that being
said, enjoy the rest of the year and good luck on your finals!
Peace out, its been real.
AbdurRahman Majid
At last, here is the end to another chapter in the story of life; an end of an era. I remember my first days as a
freshman and in a blink of an eye, here I am, preparing to say my last goodbyes to this place that has grown to be my
second home. The time spent at Stony Brook and in particular, with the MSA, has truly changed my life. Not only because
it made my undergrad an unforgettable experience, but because of all the amazing people I have met. The great friends I
have made, lived with, and learned from have helped me grow into a better and more driven person. It all started with
suhoors at Roth and iftaars at the Union, during the blessed month of Ramadan freshman year. It grew to include so
many unforgettable moments like walking from Roth with Nagi for Fajr jamaat at H-Quad, Thursday Night Movie at
Benedict, summer at Halaibehs, and lastly life at the Grove. Life goes on and we have to move on to the next stage of our
lives, but I will always miss my days spent with the MSA. It is good to have an end to journey toward; but it is the journey
that matters, in the end. May Allah bless this MSA and all its members with success and happiness in all that lies ahead
and may He reunite us all one day, in His Jannah.
Adam Ranginwala
It's me, Adam, the annoying guy who basically harassed 3/4 of the writers in this issue to submit something
lol. But I'm glad I did because I've never seen such beautiful and moving pieces before, mashaAllah. For me, this issue of
the Minaret will serve as sort of a yearbook for the four years Ive spent here. I'm going to keep this issue forever inshaAl-
lah. Thank you my fellow writers!
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Before I make my bitter-sweet departure from Stony Brook within the month, I want to share some sincere tidbits of
advice:
Make a schedule and stick to it. Plan out your day so you know exactly where you will be and what you will be
doing at every given moment of the day. Write things down so you don't forget. Honor your commitments and
promises. Your academics come first. Despite what anyone else tells you, you are here to learn and get an educa-
tion. Your grades come first before extracurriculars. Before volunteering, internships, work, research, MSA, clubs,
friends, concerts, parties, and etc. good grades should be your focus. If you are honestly not archiving above a 3.7
each semester, then cut back on something. Your transcript is the only material thing that will remain with you
after University, so invest in it.
Trust. I have seen the very best days and worst days of my life at Stony Brook. Trust in Allah. He is always there for
you to rely on, to cry to, to turn to, to hear you and to listen to your prayers. Who else can help you in your time of
need more than your Creator, The Lord of the Universe, the all Powerful? You will see bad days here at Stony
Brook, whether it is the passing of a loved one, failing a class, heartbreak, harassment, and the list goes on but
never lose hope. I guarantee that you will never despair if you have trust in Allah.
Reflect. Reflect on the friendships you make here and value them. Reflect on the classes you take, the people you
meet, the diversity of personalities you meet here in the MSA. Most importantly reflect on the ayahs of the Qurans.
Take the time to just reflect and ponder at its beauty, eloquence and meaning. Take the time to think about each
verse recited and how you can apply it practically and efficiently. Make the Quran a part of your daily routine. I
cant stress how important that is.
When I reflect on my past four years here, three letters come to my mind right away. These three letters that
became more to me than I could have ever imagined. These three letters influenced how I am in my character today as
a Muslim, as a human being. These three letters are "M-S-A." I can go on for pages talking about how the MSA has
shaped me. Every single person I have met here in the MSA has a place in my heart and in my duaas. The brothers, the
seniors of 2013- wallah I love you guys more than anything here at Stony. Make us proud and do great things in life!
Dont lose faith. Congrats to each and every one of you. We made it, together alhamduliAllah!
Give back. Help the MSA in whatever capacity you can. Don't wait for someone to approach you. Take the initia-
tive to make a change in your community. Hoover the prayer room without being asked, go to an event an hour
early to help for set up, put up an MSA event flyer outside your class. These seemingly small things really make a
huge difference. Be the change you wish to see and May Allah reward you for that.
Be welcoming and open. There were multiple times throughout the last four years where some people upset me to
such a point that I promised myself I would never come to the MSA ever again. Those promises failed usually
within a day or two, and alhamduliAllah that they failed. But it opened my eyes to how we really need to be broth-
ers and sisters to one another. Love everyone, not just your friends. Don't judge people, for all you know they will
live the next day to be better than you in the eyes of Allah. End the cliques and be a community. Be one. Be united.
And finally everything you do should be for Allah alone. This is honestly the best and most important piece of
advice I can offer. Your friendships, academics, everything you do in Stony and in life need to be for Allahs sake
alone. Forget doing stuff for other people. Youre never going to impress everyone so forget trying. Chase after the
thing that really matters and lasts, the pleasure of Allah.
May Allah bless this community and the wider Muslim ummah. May Allah have Rahmah upon its mem-
bers and make us all dwell together in the everlasting abode, paradise. May He forgive us for our shortcomings and
guide us to His path. Yaa Allah, give us intellect and change our heart so they are attached to you, so they love you and
rely on you always. Let us be a community united in bringing the message of Islam to our peers. Ameen!
Please stay in contact. If you really considered me as a brother during my time here then e- mail me
(aranginwala@gmail.com) and stay in touch ^_^! Please forgive me if I hurt you in any way, shape or form these past
years. I truly am sorry .
Bilal Raja
Well, the ambivalence Ive been feeling in these past few weeks has been offthe charts. During freshman
year, I thought itd take forever to get outta college. But here we are. On the one hand, I really want to get out into the
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real world and be even more independent. On the other hand, its excruciatingly difficult to think of life without college
and this MSA. I kind of began liking the routine of collegeknowing what youre going to do each and every day. The
uncertainty of the real world is frightening. Something Ive realized however, even though its hard to stomach, is that
youre going to HAVE to let go at one point. Heck, I even considered going Super Senior at one point, but you cant spend
the rest of your life in college (thatd just be awkward). A piece of advice for those that will still be here: enjoy your ti me at
Stony Brook and take advantage of everything this great MSA has to offerthe community and most importantly, Sister
Sanaa...But dont lose sight of one thing: the future. Life goes on, InshaAllah. You dont want to hit senior year not know-
ing what youre going to do for the rest of your life. Lastly, I just want to thank Sister Sanaa and the MSA community for
four AMAZING years! You cant put a price on a community that has been there with you every step of the wayBearlal
signing out!!!
Mohammed Naeem
Apple. Martin Luther Link Jr. The Wright Brothers.
They all communicated and acted the exact same way. Each of them became leaders, not due to profit margins
or significance of their respective time periods. Rather, they lead because of the sincerely exploring the depths of their self-
understanding. You see, there are leaders and then there are those who lead. Leaders per se have power and manipu-
late influence. However, those who lead represent a selective few who through innovation, integrity, and loyalty amass
devoted followings. By looking back at their humble beginnings, we understand how it was possible. One notices that the
foundations of each organization initiated with just one simple question: why is it that they do what they do? It poses a
very difficult question. Regardless, they supplanted old ideas with new ones only because they understood WHY they
were building computers, marching on streets, or flying aircrafts. Hence, you see Apple, Dr. King and the Wright brothers
succeeded because they designed their actions around foundational principles not over short-term lofty expectancies.
During these past four years, I was on a journey to discover the WHY. Happily, I found mine. I urge you to
find yours I can assure you that it will unlock a destiny embellished with both intellectual and personal fortunes.
Congratulation, Class of 2013. Lets Change the World!
Mohammed Nagi
Asalamu alakum
Alhamdullilah I am now a senior and ready to graduate and continue on with my life. I really dont want to
leave because of the amazing people I have met here and the great times weve had. But we all have to face reality and we
need to move on. I am so happy and grateful that I was in this school and that I was a part of this organization, a part of
this community. I feel like Allah has blessed me from day one; I walked into that prayer room with one brother and now I
walk out with fifty. When I was surrounded by those who would always pull me away from misguidance, when I built
relationships that have never been broken, when I became a part of a community that serves its member and does every-
thing that it can for them, from day one I knew I was blessed.
I remember being a freshman and being so confused but having those seniors and upperclassmen there to
clear things up for me. I remember the great times we had and the many lessons I learned from them. Here I am, a senior
now, and I wonder: was I able to have the same impact, was I able to help my fellow classmates the way I had been helped
as a freshman? Then there were the other freshmen who were always hand in hand. The number of changes we all went
through were many and despite that, there we were, side by side, loving and protecting each other. Oh boy, was that love
strong; I can never forget it.
There was so much good but there was plenty of bad. We cant complain about that because thats just how life
is. And without the bad who knows if the good would have actually been that good. So alhamdullilah I do not regret any-
thing and I am thankful for all the good that has happened. As for all the bad experiences, I hope I have learned an im-
portant lesson from them, and I will use them to become a better person. There are so many great stories and memories I
have here at this brook, but I will leave those for another time. I will never forget this place or community and I hope that
people can find what I found and be a part of something great. Take advantage of what you have here, because you will be
happy you did when this day comes and you are also ready to graduate.
Roman Patwary
In August 2009, I found myself alone and away from home for the first time in my life. I left my dorm at
Roosevelt Quad and started to walk in a general direction figuring that I would come across the Union soon enough. Being
the hard-headed freshman I was, I asked no one for directions, and kept walking until I came across a map and a sign that
read South P Lot. Infuriated, I got on the bus at South P, went to the LIRR, and took the train straight back to Queens,
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sure that I was transferring to Queens College. That weekend while I was skipping orientation, my mom convinced me to
give it one more shot. Four years and twenty pounds later, I cant imagine having gone anywhere else.
I cant overstate how much Allah (SWT) has blessed me over the past four years to meet the people that Ive
met and learn the things that Ive learned. I definitely cant put everything into writing, and Im sure the other seniors will
have far more eloquently written pieces, but I just wanted to share three things that may be of benefit.
The first thing is to always keep an open mind when interacting with the people you come across. We all
come from different homes, backgrounds, and experiences. Everyone is going through his or her own trials that you
probably couldnt deal with. People acting differently, dressing differently, or praying differently, should never stop us
from greeting them with a smile and a hug. Everyone you come across here has something he or she can teach you. The
second we assume were better than people, or certain people are a certain way, we do nothing but deprive ourselves of the
valuable things we couldve learned from them.
Secondly, I would like us to consider this: Whenever the Prophet (SAWW) met a person, the person left much
happier than what he or she was before the encounter. If we all take this to heart and try to implement it, we will have a
flourishing community. There will be no more petty arguments, backbiting, people looking down on one another, and so
forth. All we have to do is go out of our way to make sure that every person we talk to leaves that conversation with a smile
on their face. Its something so simple, but the implications are endless.
The third and perhaps most important thing is to always be mindful of your relationship with Allah (SWT).
We often get so caught up with classes, hanging out with our friends, and helping out at the MSA, that our personal rela-
tionship with Allah (SWT) often takes a hit. Set some time aside every day where its just you and Allah (SWT). During
that time, pray some nafl, read Quran, or even simply sit and reflect, but make sure that that time is there every day. A lot
of us are busy but life will only get busier. If we dont build these habits now, it will be very difficult to establish them once
you have a family and a career. When you can establish a strong connection with Allah (SWT), everything else falls into
place. Your decisions are better calculated, your interactions with people improve, and you see everything in the right
perspective to ensure success in this life and the next.
The experiences Ive had here are ones that Ill probably never again come close to. The friends Ive met here
are the ones that will be there for life. I can never thank my mom enough for convincing me to give Stony Brook one more
shot; it was a decision that changed the course of my life for the better. During my time here, Ive definitely done and said
more than my share of stupid things. If I ever hurt or offended anyone in any way, I sincerely ask for your forgiveness. If I
can do anything to make it up, let me know. JazakAllah Khair for a great 4 years, Stony Brook MSA!
Saad Khamisa
Attend class. Do your homework. Study well. Ace your exams. Meet your professors. Dive into other subjects.
Read for leisure. Get involved. Try new things. Make friends. Spend time with them. Go to the beach with them. Sit at the
Staller steps. Drive to Montauk with them. Have a snowball fight. Go to the movies and then the diner at 3am. Go to the
REC center. Play intramural sports. Run Circle Road. Take care of your body. Stand in line for concert tickets. Go to the
concert. Dress up for events. Stay for the food. Go do something else. Take pictures. Lots of pictures. Put them on Face-
book. Tag everyone and Instagram everything. Become a Starbucks fiend. But never fit the stereotype. Find your potential.
Become it. Go to sleep. Wake up. Do it all over again.
Shahanaz Khalique
I would like to just take this opportunity to thank everyone who has made these past four years of my life
unforgettable. Sister Sanaa has made the MSA our second home, a place we could all spend time with our brothers and
sisters and follow our religion without having to compromise anything. One of the biggest things I am grateful for is
having a prayer room where I could comfortably pray on campus without having to run back to my room. I cant forget to
mention all the halal food options we have on campus. Especially being a dormer, Ive had my fair share of cheese and it
was nice to be able to eat meat once in awhile. Lastly, I would like to thank all the people who were a part of the board for
the past couple of years. You guys did an amazing job organizing events and holding this MSA together, and letting the
MSA be the best thing to happen to any student coming here for their undergrad. Your dedication and efforts are truly
appreciated and may the upcoming board members follow in your footsteps. Granted there were ups and downs during
my four years here, but I could confidently say that I wouldnt have it any other way.
Congratulations Class of 2013! May Allah (swt) make the journey ahead a good one and may He help us be
successful in our future endeavors, InshaAllah!
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Sayed Bhuiyan
Relief the one word I would use to describe my stay at Stony Brook. However, it isnt relief in the sense that
Im glad its all over. Its relief because of the unexpected growth that occurred during my tour here. Im grateful for how
much I progressed as a person over the past two years. The journey that brought me to Stony Brook was much different
than others, but it allowed me to meet some of the most impactful people in my life. I attribute the MSA community for
allowing me to develop as a person. The MSA is also the source of those Ive grown to love and be thankful for.
Here are a few tips for those who are still here:
Work hard/study hard the fruits of your labor will taste sweeter when you know you did your best.
Enjoy your time here I work now and only come on campus twice a week. Just being there part time already
makes me miss not being around more often. Once you leave, it will be tough to find a similar community.
Appreciate those around you I cant stress this enough, there may be instances in which two people may not see
eye to eye and go their separate paths. However, dont allow petty grievances to come in between a healthy friend-
ship. Tension in a relationship doesnt need to be added along with the rigors of schoolwork.
If you ever need someone to talk to, Sister Sanaa is a great person to go to. She is patient and listens to her
students whenever they have any concerns. Shes approachable and does so much to ensure that we have the tools neces-
sary to succeed. I hope and pray for nothing but the best for those of you who will still be at Stony Brook in the coming
years. May Allah allow you all to succeed and grant whats good in this life as well as the next. Ameen.
Zain Ali
So its just about that time of year when the next batch of OGs are getting ready to fly the coop. After 4 of
arguably the happiest, craziest, most trying times of many of our lives to date, many have emerged older, stronger and
hopefully a little wiser. Summing up all the advice Id want to give to myself 4 years ago into a few paragraphs isnt easy
but Ill give it a shot.
1) Get your head out of the clouds. MashaAllah a lot of kids coming to Stony, whether or not theyre in the Honors
College, WISE or University Scholars, are pretty bright. Some have gotten into much better schools which would proba-
bly have their parents in debt up to their eyeballs, and possibly suffer from a mild to severe case of poison ivy. Under-
stand that college is the next step in a long line of learning- which is a lot more nuanced than any of us would like to think.
Dwelling on past achievements, no matter how great they may have been, will not benefit you, and can very possibly run
the risk of corrupting your heart very easily. The playing field is a lot more level now-dont expect your past successes or
failures to dictate your future. If you put in the work and trust in Allah (SWT), you will see results- its really as simple as
that. Dont ever get caught up in the internal debate of oh, well that person studied/did this much, so I only have to
study/do this much. Study to learn. Study to do exceptionally well on any exam despite the curve. Every single class
has the ability to shape the way you think- dont pass up the opportunity of self-refinement by being preoccupied with
numbers and letters.
2) Be proactive about your education. Plan your 4 years out if you havent already. Dont graduate without having
taken a linguistics, sociology, psychology and philosophy class- youd be surprised how much you can learn in the most
basic of circles. Meet with your professors and advisors often and seek out the plethora of opportunities this school offers
all of its students (from internships, to projects, to scholarships to study abroad trips- the sky isnt even the limit)- youd
be surprised with what you can accomplish. Use your summers and winters wisely gaining valuable experience in the
fields you think youre interested in. Dont think about how much youre doing and never pat yourself on the back- always
think about how to improve, move forward and do more. Learn about the lives of the Sahabah and the Prophets (may
Allah (SWT) be pleased with all of them) and remind yourself of how each of them, as different as they were, used their
strengths to serve Allah (SWT) - use your strengths to help you pursue what you love and be the best at it. Allah (SWT)
deemed us the best nation raised for mankind for a reason- lets rise to the occasion.
3) Welcome Change. If you were to have a conversation with your freshman self, you very well may not even recognize
him or her. Be careful of ever thinking that you have all the answers. The world changes, our bodies change, perspectives
change, life changes. Welcome diversity of thought, practice and understanding- you will learn more about yourself than
you ever thought you could.
4) Cherish your time. Allah Taaala will question you about your time. Keep your intentions pure and make memories
that will benefit you on that Day. Keep company of those that will bring you up and dont ever reject someone when their
hand is extended, asking for help. Cherish the good company you find and never let these companions go- they may very
well be your friends for eternity.
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The Freshman
Experience
By: Muhammad Khalid
The MSA is more than just a club or a group.
It transcends just one meeting every Wednesday while its
vicinity far surpasses the Union balconies and even Stony
Brook. The MSA is a state of mind, an environment. It is a
badge of pride and humility, affluence and charity, mis-
takes and corrections, of the past and of the future. It lies
not in a prayer room, but in the hearts and minds of all
those who stand by it. MSA is a fist bump between two
brothers, a hug exchanged between sisters. It lies in the
grip of a handshake and the sincerity behind an orgo
review. MSA is a timeless tradition in the heart of moder-
nity. It is every race, yet no race. It is every faith, yet no
faith. It is all colors and ethnicities, points of view and
genders, melted together to express the sheer face of
humanity. MSA is indeed a test, a standard if you will. A
community where membership never expires as time goes
by. Where affiliation only strengthens and does not dete-
riorate or diminish in any way, shape or form. MSA is a
place for reflection, a challenge to enjoin in what is good,
and to forbid what is evil. It is a brotherhood and sister-
hood not reliant on a beard or hijab, but solely upon
tolerance and acceptance. A brother and sisterhood that
is spread far and vast, yet unites at the call of justice. MSA
is not just a Chaplaincy and presidency teaching a body of
people, it is the collective effort of everybody teaching
everybody, so that all may learn and grow. Its found in
commuters at the tracks of a train, and in residents in the
halls of their dorms. It exists surreptitiously in our ac-
tions, yet is viral in the publicity of our Facebook statuses.
MSA is an experience with no start time and no end time.
So, from the bottom of my heart I thank each and every
person for letting me be part of this experience.
Our Mothers
By: Lena Abdallah
As the semester comes to an end, many of us
make our ways back to our families for the summer. We
should ponder the importance of family in Islam, but we
should consider one person above the rest. Our mothers.
The Rasuallah (SAW) said himself, Paradise lies at the
feet of your mother." The simplicity of the statement, in
regards to such a complex idea as heaven, is one that still
boggles me. Not until I grew up and left home did I
realize and learn to appreciate the virtues of my mother.
Five years ago my mother had surgery. While
she was in the hospital I stayed with my grandmother
and aunt. I had developed a virus and was very sick that
week. My grandmother took me to the hospital to visit
my mother. When we got there she was still unconscious.
I lied next to her and in her comfort I fell asleep.
All of a sudden, I woke up to a cold hand
touching my forehead. My mother had just woken up.
The very first thing she did after her intrusive surgery
was feel my head to check for a fever and ask my grand-
mother how I was. She did so while barely being able to
speak. Subhanallah, it was such a small gesture, but it is
something that will remain with me forever. Would I
have done that if the roles were switched? I probably
would have been selfish and forgetful. Mothers have
extraordinary extinct, yet often times they go unappreci-
ated. We as Muslims have a responsibility to appreciate
them and give our parents their rights.
"Worship God and join not any partners with Him; and
be kind to your parents..." [Noble Quran 4:36]
Service to our parents is mentioned immedi-
ately after the worship of God in the Quran. The place-
ment of the two is very important and stresses the re-
spect due to our parents. Allah repeats this multiple
times throughout the Quran. Allah (SWT) emphasizes
the struggle mothers go through for their children. Alt-
hough, both parents are very important in Islam our
mothers have more rights than our fathers because of
their selflessness.
If I were to list all of the things my mother
did for me, there will be no end to writing. Let this be a
reminder to myself first and foremost and to everyone
reading that we must show our mothers how much we
love and care for them. To my mother: even if I carry you
on my back for nine straight months, I cannot repay you
for all youve done.
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Qadr of Allah
By: Mauree Akhi
The following ayah defines the past sever-
al years of my life on this campus, as Im sure it would
define someone elses as well: Be sure we shall test
you with something of fear and hunger, some loss in
goods or lives or the fruits (of your toil), but give glad
tidings to those who patiently persevere, who say,
when afflicted with calamity: "To Allah We belong,
and to Him is our return" (Surah Baqarah, 155-156).
Its not a joke when I say this ayah, the first half,
basically evaluates the challenges Allah gave me these
past years. Thereve been several family deaths.
Thereve been losses in time and energy into a career
that no longer will be my future. Thereve been losses
in toil in extracurricular activities I hoped and ex-
pected to be successful in, but failed. Finally, there
has certainly been fear and hunger (figuratively and
literally) on many occasions among those challenges.
Actually, I want to highlight the second
half of the ayah. Its the part that keeps us hopeful;
those of us who hope and pray that Allah will eventu-
ally deliver us from the seemingly insurmountable
difficulties that fly our way. I also hoped that the One
Who created me would not let go of my hand, lest I
become forever lost in the trials. He promises that
whoever rejects evil and believes in Allah has grasped
the most trustworthy hand-hold that never breaks.
And Allah hears and knows all things (Baqarah,
256). Where else would I find a promise like that?
such a reliable Friend. Such a trustworthy Confidant
and Adviser, such a Gracious and Merciful Lord Who
pardons when asked, Who never fails to fulfill promis-
es. The reason promises, difficulties and tests are
brought together is because theyre parallels to the
Qadr (divine decree/ fate) and blessings of Allah.
Subhanallah, its difficult to appreciate the challenges
without appreciating the manifolds of blessings which
have already been promised to us by Him, who never
breaks them. Allah (azza wa jal) promises that Hed
answer our duas, He promises ease, and He promises
reward for our efforts and intentions.
Challenges come in many forms. Mine
seem to manifest in the type of people I meet and the
situations I think I get myself into its actually Allah
that really orchestrates everything. As an akhi (haha, I
know cracked me up too) reminded me today, It is
the Qadr of Allah (azza wa jal). My parents rarely, if
ever, consent to any of my planned adventures be-
cause they think Ill somehow get in trouble or lost.
Mashallah theyre always there whenever I do get in
trouble or do something dumb, thank Allah for par-
ents. Alhamdulillah cant really complain but I guess
history warns them to be cautious with anything I
plan or suggest. Due to this, I have a hard time mak-
ing major life decisions, planning trips (even over to
Connecticut), visiting friends overnight, you name it.
Whenever Allah plans, somehow the craziest things
work out. I want to share a couple of things that left
me awestruck and still amazed at Allahs Generosity
and Wisdom.
Two years ago when I changed majors, I
experienced a huge dip in my iman and for some
reason, I thought meeting a scholar and taking his/
her counsel would solve things. Mustve been listen-
ing to a lot of Suhaib Webb lectures or reading his
articles because I made dua to go see him in Boston
and experience the ISBCC. Even before that, when I
was having a war in my head of whether to stick with
software development or do something else, I made
dua when all the uncertainties of whether to become a
career software developer or to do something else
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started a war in my heart, I made dua. I made dua for
a career that wouldnt make me feel claustrophobic,
enslaved, or purposeless. We always believe we make
things work out, we want to believe we make changes
but theres little we do other than putting effort in
how things are done the sincerity of our efforts
reflect what we receive from Allah. Likewise, while I
imagined ten different things to write about, Im
inking to the last second about the Blessings He
granted me.
It was in the middle of a lecture by Br.
Wissam Sharieff at the winter 2013 ISBCC retreat
(yup! I made it), did I remember the duas I made
more than a year ago to be in Boston. I even had the
chance to speak to Br. Wissam! By some miracle my
parents relented (I actually spent a couple of weeks
sulking before they let me go). This was an amazing
experience and being in the presence of scholars and
talented, intellectual speakers meant so much. It was
nothing short of a blessing. Actually my dua for a
better career field was answered more swiftly and
with a tremendously liberating experience than I
couldve imagined. The irony is that I didnt realize
what was happening until another year later, this
semester!
Ultimately, I just want to convey the ad-
vice of trusting in Allah especially when all doors
seem to be closed, all friends seem to be gone, and all
paths seem to be purposeless. Trust in Allah because
as Mawlana Rumi eloquently puts it, He has afflicted
you from every direction in order to pull you back to
the Directionless. Even though I forget on many
occasions of His Blessings and of His Mercy, He has
blessed me with the beautiful people who surround
me this little Ummah- who remind me without fail
of all the good in Islam and every creation. Know that
if Allah has created you, then there must be at least an
atoms worth of good in you so strive for it! Strive so
that the goodness takes over your soul and takes over
your character and spills into the hearts of your loved
ones. Let the goodness in you brush off on non-
believers, the passerby, the trees, the animals, and the
air around you. Striving for this goodness, to want
good for others, and doing good for others is the Qadr
of Allah, for those struggling to reach Him just try
and reach for the good, because definitely Allah will
do the rest Inshallah.
Jazakumallahu Khairan Kathiran to the
brother who reminded me about the Qadr of Allah.
Please forgive me for a deficient article. Thank you to
the amazing brothers and sisters I am fortunate
enough to meet from this MSA, you inspire me and
support my spiritual growth. If weve spent a discus-
sion or an email exchange on something mutually
important, know you hold a special place in my heart.
Please forgive me if Ive said or done anything to
upset anyone. I love you all for the sake of Allah and
pray for your success in this life and the next Inshal-
lah.
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Bismillah, In
the Name of
Allah: Part 2
By: Fawzia Syed
When we acti vel y
choose to sit in front of a computer
screen and watch shows portraying
the immorality and shamelessness
we so deeply oppose in the open.
When we sit with our friends for
hours discussing people and events
we have no business discussing.
When we find ourselves with people
we shouldn't be with. When we go
to places we shouldn't be found in.
We do so much, because we can and
because it's easy. But how much of it
would we do if we just remembered
Allah (SWT) in the beginning, with
the words Bismillah. I think we
would find much of our sinning and
our bad habits slowly, but surely,
beginning to disappear from our
lives.
For even if you say
Bismillah, and you still engage in an
action that is not good for you, at
least you've taken a great step in
acknowledging Allah (SWT)'s pres-
ence in your life. And Allah (SWT) is
surely aware of this change. Nothing
His servants do for His sake escapes
His Vision or Knowledge. In a Had-
ith Qudsi, Allah (SWT) says, When
he [my servant] comes towards Me
walking, I go towards him run-
ning." When you say Bismillah, you
are walking towards Allah (SWT).
Sometimes you might even find
yourself avoiding saying Bismillah
before an action, because you know
what follows is something Bismillah
shouldn't be said before. Even in
such a situation Alhamdulilah at
least your level of consciousness has
been raised. You have slowly begun
to see what is good for you and what
is not. This is what Bismillah does,
it transforms the mind, and thereby
the actions of the believer.
Lastly, what I find to be
the most profound and powerful
aspect of Bismillah is what my
young students story always re-
minds me of. Bismillah has the
ability to attract the presence, beau-
ty and multifold power of Allah
(SWT). Bismillah calls the attention
of Allah (SWT) to every action when
it is uttered. It makes normal ac-
tions extraordinary. Getting grocer-
ies, sitting on the bus, waiting on a
line- all the non-extraordinary
aspects of our life can be made
beautiful just by uttering the name
of Allah (SWT). Bismillah equals
the barakah of Allah (SWT).
What i s bar akah?
Barakah is the establishment of
Allah (SWT)s overwhelming pres-
ence in a matter. Barakah is my
small effort, multiplied by Allah
(SWT)s unsurpassed ability and
will. It is my one hour of studying
being equivalent to another stu-
dents five hours of studying. It is
the few spoons of food I eat being
equivalent to another persons full
plate of food. It is the few hours of
sleep I get being equivalent to an-
other persons 12 hours of sleep.
The examples go and on. So it isnt
that I study longer, eat more, and
sleep more. But it is that I derive
more benefit and greater results
from the small amounts that are
present, and this becomes sufficient
for me. This is what Allah (SWT)
blesses the believer with. Thus
barakah is something I wish I had,
and am in dire need of from Allah
(SWT). It is something we are all in
dire need of from Him. And it truly
starts with something as simple as
Bismillah to attract this barakah.
We see the power of
barakah when we hear awe inspir-
ing stories from the lives of our
pious predecessors. The stories of
the Prophet (saw) and the Sahabah
(may Allah (swt) be pleased with
them) going hungry for days, yet
having more energy to work and
worship than we do well-fed with
the best of foods and the greatest of
luxuries. The stories of scholars who
slept only for a few hours, yet were
able to easily pray Tahajjud (the
night prayer), as if they had slept
the equivalent of a full day. They
awoke without the aid of alarm
clocks and the modern technology,
which we have at our disposal. The
stories of scholars who at the young-
est of ages had already written
books upon books equaling thou-
sands of pages. They didnt have
computers and editors to type and
edit their works. They put in all the
work themselves- thousands of
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Alumni Dinner
Reflections
By: Shahanaz Khalique
The Alumni Dinner is one of the biggest
events that the Muslim Students Association holds
every year. It is a night filled with memories, laugh-
ter, and of course appreciation. Not to mention amaz-
ing food! Ive been able to attend this event every year
of my undergrad and I enjoyed every single one. This
years Alumni Dinner was great, but it was a complete-
ly different experience for me. Being a senior this year,
I realized this would be my last Alumni Dinner I
would ever attend as a Stony Brook student. The
feeling is really indescribable. A night that I thought
would be like any other ordinary MSA event became
an emotional experience for me. Its hard to believe
how fast these four years of college have passed, and
now many of us are moving on to a new chapter in our
lives. Graduating sounds amazing, but Im scared as
much as I am excited. For the first time I wont be
going to class in Javits, for the first time I wont be
printing out my schedule in the Sinc Site, and for the
first time I wont be going to the Commons to grab
some lame tasting food. Next year, it will be my first
time attending the Alumni dinner as an alumni.
pages handwritten, hours of teach-
ing classes, and then sleepless nights
of worship, along with worldly obli-
gations. So many were successful in
matters of this world as well in
business, in teaching, in medicine, in
philosophy the list goes on and on.
How did they manage to be the best
in both their worldly and religious
affairs? It is easy to see that their
successes were not due to their
efforts alone, but were clearly the
result of Allah (SWT)s presence in
their affairs. A presence we too can
bring if we start our actions with
Bismillah.
Still, worldly success
isnt the real goal, right? Allah is.
What happens after 70, 60, 50, 40,
30, maybe even 20 years of life in
this world? When eternal life
begins. Success in this world can be
easy, but what about the hereafter?
We will live an eternal life beyond
this world, and this is why we begin
everything with Bismillah. That is
when we will be thankful for the
Bismillah that saved us from the
displeasure of Allah (SWT). We will
be thankful for the Bismillah that
saved us from backbiting against our
fellow brother/sister. We will be
thankful for the Bismillah that
transformed mundane actions like
studying or walking through campus
into worship. We will be thankful for
the Barakah Allah (SWT) placed in
our time, which allowed us to wake
up for Tahajjud, read more Quran,
and ask for more forgiveness. We
will be thankful for the Bismillah
that reminded us that our Lord is
always present, that He is always
watching, and that every action we
take good or bad we will find it
with Allah (SWT) in the hereafter. In
the next life, the phrase Bismillah
might make all the difference.
May Allah (SWT) allow us to live
our lives in constant remembrance
of Him and in complete submission
to what is pleasing to Him. May He
make it easy for us to practice the
Sunnah in our lives and make its
implementation a means of attain-
ing the Barakah of Allah (SWT).
May He grant us, and all our loved
ones success and acceptance in this
world and the next. Ameen!