Relationship 101

No Man Is an Island indeed. Thus man needs someone which he can relate to and shared
with common desires and necessities to drive lifes survival.
Likewise with any other process man engages in a relationship. A step by step way of engaging
with other people, this is always unnoticeable since it is emotional in nature.
Relationship 101 talks about how the basic relationship undergoes a process likewise in any
other lifes happenings including individual behavior in relationships.
Most of the relationship that I learned that had worked started with a small thing that has a big
impacta smile. A smile this is the start of a simple connection. It sparks our latent psyche. I
dont know what the reason is why. When we met someone in opposite sex we tend to give
them a smile. Perhaps its our unconsciousness that tells us to do so. With this It is now the
beginning of the journey to someones heart. Of course you cannot omit the word love in the
scene because it is the major spice in a relationship.
All of us operate from the same relationship hierarchy both personally and professionally. But
we will talk more on personal aspect.

As you move up the relationship hierarchy you will first notice that you have more information
and insights on an acquaintance than a stranger, on a good friend than a friend and ultimately
(and hopefully) on a spouse than a good friend. You should then notice that what you actually
"do" with that information and insight is materially different (both qualitatively and quantitatively)
as you move up the pyramid.
In most relationships men have the big role in since they are the ones who take the first step.
But in our generation (either a man or a woman) to win someones heart is a matter of
knowledge and courage. Though there are still women out there who are Maria Clara type,
well I respect them. But for those who want to know more about their crushes and how to win
their affection the better. For everything we want to know is much available with the internet.
However, there are some characteristically male traits that are often misinterpreted or simply
misunderstood by women. So, girls dont worry about your crushes here are some bits of info
that will help you understand men.
1. Men cannot be friends with women they find attractive. Straight men find no appeal in being
friends with a woman they find attractive. They feel awkward of having feelings to their friends.
Although in some cases men really develop thier feelings to someone close to him.
Nevertheless jeopardizing his feelings in which he has to choose from prioritizing his feelings or
value their friendship.
2. Men are constantly thinking about sex. Generally, they are but not all. Men are biologically
programmed to procreate and physiologically stimulated to do so. It starts from puberty on into
adulthood and never seems to diminish. But actually men in serious relationship tend to set
aside this thinking since they have a great respect to women. In fact, women unconsciously
have this thinking when they enter into serious relationship especially in marriage. According to
marriage counselors women prioritizes sex more than men do. As a matter of fact, most of
women choose sex in top 4 to top 6 in their priorities while men in the top 10.
3. Men determine whether or not theyre interested in a woman rather quickly. Men arent prone
to carrying around a checklist of requirements for what they find desirable in a woman.
However, they are naturally adept at quickly assessing who theyd like to pursue. Unlike some
women, men dont tend to make up reasons why they should like someone or how they could
grow to like someone. They simply like you or they dont.
4. Men enjoy the thrill of the hunt. As much as men enjoy being pursued, they actually enjoy
being the pursuer more. A mans ability to win over a woman is a testament to his skills and his
manliness. Theres no glory in a woman throwing herself at a man, even if hed been interested
otherwise. A subtle invitation, however, makes a man more confident in his approach, but still
gives him the opportunity to lead the pursuit.
5. Men who are sincere are consistent. Men are generally creatures of habit, pretty straight
forward and very communicative by way of their actions. A man who is consistent in how he
treats you is being honest about who he is and how he conducts himself.
6. Most men will never forget their first love, and some will never get over it. This is a topic that
can evoke some of the most heartfelt emotions in a man. Some men remain haunted by a
former heartbreak. Still others look at their first love with a genuine fondness. Either way, these
experiences can affect their future relationships with women.
7. Men are visual. Men get turned on by what they see (sexy women, sports cars, big power
tools) while women get turned on more by what they experience through communication and
interaction. Thats why a guys head is always going to turn when a beautiful woman or hot car
passes by while a woman feels more excited by a man telling her how much he cares for her.
8. Men learn to be contented with their partners. Women are more verbal about what bothers
them, what they want to change or correct in their mate, etc. Guys, for the most part, are more
laid-back. They accept many more flaws in their partners than women do and arent prone to
initiate talks to change behaviors or attitudes.
9. Guys dont want to talk about the relationship and their feelings. They want to experience
them. And for the most part, they feel if they are spending time with women its because they
want toand things will evolve naturally.
The writer of this article based his opinions on his own experience supported by the following
blogs: Insightful and Entertaining Articles on Relationships - Seven Traits of Male Behavior By
Lesli Calloway and Understanding Men's Behavior Y Speak - A Woman's Guide To Decoding
Male Behavior