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No matter how hard we try to ignore or deny it, eventually the lies fall away, whether we like it or not.
But here's the truth about the truth: it hurts. So we lie.
At the end of the day, when it comes down to it, all we really want is to be close to somebody. So this
thing where we all keep our distance and pretend not to care about each other, it's usually a load of
crap. So we pick and choose who we want to remain close to, and once we've chosen those people,
we tend to stick close by. No matter how much we hurt them. The people that are still with you at the
end of the day, those are the ones worth keeping. And sure, sometimes close can be too close. But
sometimes, that invasion of personal space, it can be exactly what you need.
People have scars. In all sorts of unexpected places. Like secret road maps of their personal histories.
Diagrams of all their old wounds. Most of our wounds heal, leaving nothing behind but a scar. But
some of them don't. Some wounds we carry with us everywhere and though the cut's long gone, the
pain still lingers.
Changewe dont like it, we fear it, but we can't stop it from coming. We either adapt to change, or we
get left behind. And it hurts to grow; anybody who tells you it doesnt, is lying. But here's the truth: The
more things change, the more they stay the same. And sometimes, change is good. Sometimes
change is everything.
The truth is painful. Deep down nobody wants to hear it, especially when it hits close to home.
Sometimes we tell the truth because the truth is all we have to give. Sometimes we tell the truth
because we need to say it out loud to hear it for ourselves. And sometimes we tell the truth because
we just can't help ourselves. Sometimes we tell it because we owe to the others at least that much.
Forgive and forget. That's what they say. It's good advice, but it's not very practical. When someone
hurts us, we want to hurt them back. When someone wrongs us, we want to be right. Without
forgiveness, old scores never settle, old wounds never heal, and the most we can hope for is that
someday we'll be lucky enough to forget.
Doesnt matter how tough we are, trauma always leaves a scar. It follows us home, it changes our
lifes, trauma messes everybody up, but maybe thats the point. All the pain and the fear and the crap,
maybe going through all of that is what keeps us moving forward. Its what pushes us. Maybe we have
to get a little messed up, before we can step up.
We spend our whole lives worrying about the future, planning for the future, trying to predict the future,
as if figuring it out will cushion the blow. But the future is always changing. The future is the home of
our deepest fears and wildest hopes. But one thing is certain when it finally reveals itself. The future is
never the way we imagined it.
According to Elisabeth Kbler-Ross, when we're dying or have suffered a catastrophic loss, we all
move through five distinct stages of grief. We go into denial because the loss is so unthinkable we
cant imagine its true. We become angry with everyone, angry with survivors, angry with ourselves.
Then we bargain. We beg. We plead. We offer everything we have, we offer our souls in exchange for
just one more day. When the bargaining has failed and the anger is too hard to maintain, we fall into
depression, despair, until finally we have to accept that weve done everything we can. We let go. We
let go and move into acceptance.
No matter how many plans we make or steps we follow, we never know how our day is going to end
up. Wed prefer to know, of course, what curveballs will be thrown our way. Its the accidents that
always turn out to be the most interesting parts of our day, the people we never expected to show up,
a turn of events we never would have chose for ourselves. All of a sudden you find yourself
somewhere you never expected to be and its nice, or it takes some getting used to. Still, maybe youll
find yourself appreciating it somewhere down the line. So you go to sleep each night thinking about
tomorrow, going over your plans, preparing for them, and hoping that whatever accidents come your
way will be happy ones.

It's a common belief that positive thinking leads to a happier healthier life. As children we are told to
smile, be cheerful, and put on a happy face. As adults we are told to look on the bright side, to make
lemonade, and see glasses as half full. Sometimes reality can get in the way of our ability to act the
happy part though. Your health can fail, boyfriends can cheat, friends can disappoint. It's in these
moments, when you just want to get real, drop the act, and be your true scared unhappy self.
For every good reason there is to lie, there is a better reason to tell the truth.
It was once said that love is giving someone the ability to destroy you, but trusting them not to.
We've all heard the warnings and we've ignored them. We push our luck. We roll the dice. We play
with fire. It's human nature. When we're told not to touch something, we usually do, even if we know
better. Maybe because deep down, we're just asking for trouble.
You did a terrible thing. It doesn't mean you're a terrible person.
It's one of those things that people say, you can't move on until you let go of the past. Letting go is the
easy part, it's the moving on that's painful. So sometimes we fight it, try and keep things the same.
Things can't stay the same though. At some point, you just have to let go. Move on. Because no
matter how painful it is, it's the only way we grow.
Carpe diem! How annoying is Carpe diem! How are you supposed to plan a life, a career, a family, if
youre always carpeing the diem? If we all seize every moment of every day, there wouldnt be
doctors. Who would sit through med school? Wed be all too busy to live in the NOW. Whatever that
means
Ill admit that romance has a point. You got to live life. And living is that every morning when you wake
up, you have to choose: between seizing what life gives you in the moment and forging ahead, no
matter the weather, or closing the curtains and shutting out the day.
There are no secrets in life, just hidden truths that lay beneath the surface.
Everyone hides who they are, at least some of the time. Sometimes you burry that part of yourself so
deeply that you have to be reminded its there at all. And sometimes you just want to forget who you
are all together.
We all have something to hide. Some dark place inside us we dont want the world to see. So we
pretend everythings ok, wraping ourselves in rainbows. And maybe thats all for the best, because
some of this places are darker than others.
Most people think that we have free will, that we all choose our path. Sometimes the path is clear
sometimes not so much. Every twist, every turn, can challenge our sense of direction. But its the
choices we make when we reach a fork in the road that define who we are.
A man is known by the silence he keeps. Oliver Herford
As I grow older, I pay less attention to what man say. I just watch what they do. Andrew Carnegie
Behavior is the mirror in which everyone shows their true image. Goethe
One of the deep secrets of life: all that is really worth doing is what we do for others. - Lewis Carroll
When a doctor does go wrong, hes the first of criminals. He has the nerve, and he has the knowledge.
- Sir Arthur Conan Doyle
I became insane, with long intervals of horrible sannity. Edgar Allan Poe
You never fiind yourself until you face the truth. Pearl Bailey

Love is our true destiny. We do not fiind the meaning of life by ourselves alone we fiind it with
another. Thomas Merton
Love never dies of natural death. It dies of blindness, and errors, and betrayals. Anais Nin
"Sometimes the hardest part isn't letting go but rather learning to start over." -Nicole Sobon
"Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage."
- Lao Tzu
There is a widely read book that tells us everyone is a sinner. Of course, not everyone feels guilt over
the bad things they do. In contrast, there are those who assume more than their share of the blame.
There are others who soothe their consciences with small acts of kindness, or by telling themselves
their sins were justified. Finally, there are the ones who simply vow to do better next time, and pray for
forgiveness. And sometimes, their prayers are listened.
"Death is not the greatest loss in life. The greatest loss is what dies inside of us while we live."
"Beware the fury of a patient man."
"Forgiveness does not change the past, but it does enlarge the future."
"True friendship multiplies the good in life and divides its evils."
"When truth is buried, it grows. It chokes. It gathers such an explosive force that on the day it bursts
out, it blows up everything with it."
"As I grow older, I pay less attention to what men say. I just watch what they do."
"A man is known by the silence he keeps."
"Behavior is the mirror in which everyone shows their true image."
"One of the deep secrets of life is that all that is really worth the doing is what we do for others."
"I became insane, with long intervals of horrible sanity".
"The mystery of human existence lies not in just staying alive, but in finding something to live for."
"Love is our true destiny. We do not find the meaning of life by ourselves alone. We find it with
another."
"Love looks not with the eyes but with the mind."
"Being deeply loved by someone gives you strength, while loving someone deeply gives you courage.
"Sometimes the hardest part isn't letting go but rather learning to start over."
Love never dies a natural death. It dies of blindness and errors and betrayals. It dies of weariness, of
witherings, of tarnishings.
"Children are educated by what the grown-up is and not by his talk."
"We are not the same persons this year as we are last, nor are those we love. It is a happy
chance if we, changing, continue to love a changed person."
"Affliction comes to us, not to make us sad but sober; not to make us sorry but wise."
"Men are not prisoners of fate, but only prisoners of their own minds."

"Hope is faith holding out its hand in the dark."

"All the art of living lies in a fine mingling of letting go and holding on."
"Where there's anger, there is always pain underneath."
"Love is giving someone the ability to destroy you, but trusting them not to."
"Nothing fixes a thing so intensely in the memory as the wish to forget it."
Love feels no burden, thinks nothing of its trouble, attempts what is above its strength, pleads no
excuse for impossibility, for it thinks all things are lawful for itself and all things are possible.
"The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched - they must be felt
with the heart."
"There is no witness so dreadful, no accuser so terrible as the conscience that dwells in the heart of
every man."
"Men are more ready to repay an injury than a benefit, because gratitude is a burden and
revenge a pleasure."
"There is a sacredness in tears. They are not the mark of weakness but of power. They are
messengers of overwhelming grief and of unspeakable love."
"When a father gives to his son, both laugh; when his son gives to his father, both cry."
"I have found the paradox, that if you love until it hurts, there can be no more hurt, only more love."
"Light thinks it travels faster than anything but it is wrong. No matter how fast light travels, it finds the
darkness has always got there first, and is waiting for it."
"No matter how dark the moment, love and hope are always possible."
"Sometimes there are no words. No clever quotes to neatly sum up what's happened that day...
sometimes the day... just... ends."
"You gain strength, courage, and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear
in the face. You must do the thing which you think you cannot do."
"Love all. Trust a few. Do wrong to none."
"The most authentic thing about us is our capacity to create, to overcome, to endure, to transform, to
love and to be greater than our suffering."
"We cross our bridges when we come to them and burn them behind us, with nothing to show for our
progress except a memory of the smell of smoke, and a presumption that once our eyes watered."
"All changes, even the most longed for, have their melancholy; for what we leave behind us is a part of
ourselves. We must die to one life before we can enter another."
"The defects and faults of the mind are like wounds in the body. After all imaginable care has been
taken to heal them up, still there will be a scar left behind."
"It has been said that time heals all wounds. But it is not true. The wounds remain. In time, the mind,
protecting its sanity, covers them with scar tissue, and the pain lessens, but it is never gone."
"Of all the animals, man is the only one that is cruel. He is the only one who inflicts pain for the
pleasure of doing it."

"Man is least himself when he talks in his own person. Give him a mask, and he will tell you the truth."
"The basis of shame is not some personal mistake of ours, but that this humiliation is seen by
everyone."
"Some of the best lessons are learned from past mistakes. The error of the past is the wisdom of the
future."
"In order to learn the most important lessons of life, one must each day surmount a fear."
"From the deepest desires often come the deadliest hate."
"The life of the dead is placed in the memory of the living."
"The torture of a bad conscience is the hell of a living soul."
"The bitterest tears shed over graves are for words left unsaid and deeds left undone."
"In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years."
"A photograph is a secret about a secret. The more it tells you, the less you know."
"The house does not rest on the ground, but upon a woman."
"We are so accustomed to disguise ourselves to others, that in the end, we become disguised to
ourselves."
"In a time of universal deceit, telling the truth is a revolutionary act."
"No man needs a vacation so much as the man who has just had one."
Theres nothing like colliding with your past to help you face the present.
There is no refuge from memory and remorse in the world. The spirits of our foolish deed haunts us,
with or without repentance.

"I remained too much inside my head and ended up losing my mind." Edgar Allen Poe
"It doesn't take a lot of strength to hang on. It takes a lot of strength to let go."
"There is nothing funny about Halloween. This sarcastic festival reflects, rather, an infernal
demand for revenge by children on the adult world."
"How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours."
"Our moral responsibility is not to stop the future, but to shape it, to channel our destiny in
humane directions and to ease the trauma of transition."
"Change is the law of life. And those who look only to the past or present are certain to miss the
future."