2009

Grievance

SUBU. SUDHEESABABU.
KUNNAMKULAM HOUSE
KAIKKARA P.O. 695307
TRIVANDRUM DISTRICT
KERALA STATE, INDIA
 Grievance

SUBU.SUDHEESABABU.
KUNNAMKULAM HOUSE
KAIKKARA P.O. 695307
TRIVANDRUM DISTRICT
KERALA, INDIA
Email: subu.sudheesababu@gmail.com

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Dear Sir,

I am Subu.Sudheesababu aged 29, and a native of Neduganda, Varkala (S/O Late.

Mr. A.Sudhhesa Babu (PA to Govt. Chief Secretary) Kunnamkulam House, Trivandrum district,
Kerala). Presently I am working as a Geotechnical Engineer with a MNC in U.A.E. I did M.Sc in
Marine Geology (2002-2004) and M.Tech in Ocean Technology (2004-2006) with First Rank
from School of Marine Sciences, Cochin University of Science and Technology, Cochin, India.
While I was working on my MTech project in Institute of Reservoir Studies,
ONGC, Ahmedabad, I came across a marriage proposal from a UAE business family through
the matrimonial advertisement. Me and Ashi Ashokan, (D/O. Mr.K.Ashokan, Ponkaruna house
Thottam, Manacaud, Trivandrum) married on 06th April 2006. Since I was a
student, Ashi's father offered me a cash cheque for meet the marriage expenses. I initially
rejected the offer but later gave up after Ashi's father successfully persuaded me to accept the
same. One week after marriage she left from my home and went to U.A.E for to rejoin her job.
In July 2006 I completed My M.Tech course and on 08th July I went to UAE. When I was in
U.A.E I had stayed with her in her home in Ras Al Khaimah. Since I was unemployed and I
depended on them. My father-in-law behaved arrogantly towards me. He doesn't know how to
behave to others. After reaching UAE he continuously tormented me, mentally and physically.
Since he is uneducated, I ignored his acts/comments. During that time I had a job interview in
Arab Center Engineering studies, Dubai. Since Ras Al Khaimah is more than 200km away from
Dubai and since I was new to the emirates, I requested her father to accompany me. Then he
behaved like a mad dog, and tried to assault me and barked at me saying "This is the first and
last time for you, never request any favor from me" and he forced me out of the home for the
whole night. Later, on my own, I attended the interview and was selected and joined Arab
Center for Engineering Studies as an Engineering Geologist. During these days my wife
(Mrs.Ashi) was working as a secretary to the marketing manager, RAK White Cement
Company in Ras Al Khaimah, UAE. After getting the job her father continuously persuaded
me, to take a big amount as bank loan for his business purpose. Things started changing
when I had a minor verbal exchange with my father in law (Ashi’s father) regarding my wife
and her well being. Everything worked fine for few months and we (me and Ashi) shifted to a
new house. While I was in office, as part of the conspiracy my wife took my permission to
leave my house on the pretext to attend a three days company business meeting at Muscat
Hotel, Trivandrum, Kerala. I granted her instant permission and also helped her in shopping
and personally dropped her at the sharjah International Airport on 10th January 2007. After
reaching Kerala she stopped contacting me and all my efforts to contact her failed. Later I
realized that all these days I have been constantly cheated. She opened my bank locker on
11th January 2007(SBT, Kadakkavour Branch, Locker No: 157) with a fake authorization letter
and took her gold. I couldn't believe my ears and to find the truth. By the advice of her mother
I resigned my job and returned to Kerala on 16 th January 2007. Once I reached Kerala I learnt
that my wife returned to UAE on the same day. Soon after she told me that she no longer
wished to live with me and requested me to divorce her under mutual consent. Since I loved
her very much and since the issue can be resolved through mutual understanding, I refused
that plea (initially). But I totally failed to settle those matters. After couple of weeks she lost
her job at RAK Cements due to some malpractice. After the fake business meeting when I try
to contact her mobile phone, then after I received a vulgar stuffed SMS message from her
number. As evidence I am still keeping that message in my mobile phone. As relating to these
incidents I tried to move more legally and filed a case (CMP No 1157 of 2007) regarding to the
bank locker operation. Then her family engaged thugs to harass me. In order to avoid
confrontations and for my personal safety I had left from Kerala. When I was in Mumbai her
father had arranged some dons for assassination, to cut the story short by the grace of God
still I am alive. Since this plan didn't work out, she again came back to Kerala on April 2007 on
the advice of her father and filed some fake cases against me, including dowry harassment /
Domestic Violence and Cyber Crime (Crime no. 166/CR/TVM/07/U/s 488(A) IPC and 67 of IT
Act.)

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It should be noted that Ashi stayed in my home in Varkala for only one week after marriage.
Soon after that we moved to Ras Al Khaimah, where we lived in Ashi's father's house. Under
these circumstances, how can I or my parents harass her? Her submitted medical certificate
has been issued by her cousin’s husband Dr Salim Babu, who is practicing in Ajman, UAE.
Moreover, Ashi was living in Ras Al Khaimah which is at least 150 km away from Ajman. Why
did she purposefully go to Ajman in spite of available hospital facilities in Ras Al Khaimah?
Why not compliant to the UAE Police instantaneously? This confirms that all the allegations
are fabricated and hence false. She already knew my email password she create that fake
orkut profile in order to get divorce and compensation and latter filed a fake cyber case
against me. In order to avoid my entry/exit of India they sought help from some ministers in
the present government and filed reports at all the international airports in India. They have
money and political influence, so they have the means to do anything. They had asked a big
amount of money, as a compensation for settlement of these cases. I am unable to believe
how these unexpected tragedies happened to me! These tragic incidents totally uprooted my
future and career. Moreover, these incidents deteriorated my father’s health and last year he
was under medication for acute case of Hyper Tension (Parkinson’s disease). Really I wished
to meet my father in person but, who can fight against the fate! Last 08th February 2008 my
father had passed away and I couldn’t even participate in his last rituals, because they even
tried to engage antisocial elements to eliminate me. He is all my beyond words, who made me
what I am. In the meantime they had proceeded after much struggle I had lived as an
expatriate. I even didn’t inform my relatives about my whereabouts. Really I am fed up with my
life and still my life exists as a question mark! Latter they preceded the case before The
Honorable Family Court, Trivandrum (No.289/2008). In my absence and secured the court
order to attach my family properties, as a torment they had proceeded the same case in two
different courts! (Hon. Judicial First Class Magistrate Court, Trivandrum and Hon. Family
Court, Trivandrum). Moreover, by secretly she got the ex parte divorce from The Hon. Family
Court, Trivandrum (Case No.410/2007). It should be noted that I did not receive any court
notice even though I have a permanent resident address in Kerala. Moreover, the dowry
harassment / domestic violence case (MC 27/2007) was raised for hearing in the Honorable
Court on a day when there was lawyers strike going on, regarding to the High Court bench
issue. As a result my party couldn't enter the court on that day. So, in my party’s absence, the
judgment was delivered with a compensation of INR 3763860/- ! After going through these
bitter experiences, I had filed an appeal for getting a fair judgment from the Honorable Indian
Judiciary. As a citizen of India, I respect the law of the nation. But I am denied justice in this
case. With the help of dons and police, they harassed me in whatever ways they could and in
order to escape from the impending danger I have to immigrate to another country where I am
living as an expatriate these days. Once they came to know about this, they utilized their
money and political influence and filed report in Embassy of India, and tried to impound my
passport. I gave my explanation to the show case notice from The Embassy of India Abu
Dhabi, and after I came to kerala and surrendered before the Hon. Judiciary. I would like to
emphasis that I am innocent and please refer the following evidences to understand what
really happened. I hereby declare that the above mentioned information are true and correct
up to the best of my knowledge and I bear the responsibility for the correctness of the above
mentioned particulars. Thanking you.
Yours truly,
--
Subu Sudheesababu

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 Marriage Invitation Card:

Please Note the Date of Marriage.

(06th APRIL 2006)

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Marriage Photo:

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 Experience Certificate from ONGC:

Please Note the Date of Completion of Project.

(19th MAY 2006)

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 M.Tech Degree Mark List:

Please Note the Date of Examination.

(MAY 2006)

This proves that I was still a student when we married.

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 Passport Details:

Please Note the Date of Departure From

Trivandrum to U.A.E

(08th JULY 2006)

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 Experience Certificate:

From Dubai Arab Center

For Engineering Studies

Please Note the Date of Resignation

(15th JANUARY 2007)

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 Passport Details:

Please Note the Date of Arrival

From U.A.E to Trivandrum

(16th JANUARY 2007)

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 Certificate from SBT Branch Manager:

Please Note the Date on which the Locker has been operated.

(11th JANUARY 2007)

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 E-Mail Password:

She already knew my email password. By using my e-mail

password she created an Orkut Profile in order to get divorce
and compensation. After publishing the fake profile in the
Internet, she changed my login details. This email is the reply
(‘I don’t need your password or anything’) that she sent after she
changed the login information. Please refer the e-mail from Ashi
dated 14th February 2007.

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Mail from Hi Tech Crime Cell

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Mail from Google

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 Submitted Fake Medical Certificate:

It should be noted that this certificate has been issued by her

cousin's husband Dr. Salim Babu, who is practicing in Ajman,
U.A.E. Moreover, Ashi was living in Ras Al Khaimah which is at
least 150 km away from Ajman. Why did she purposefully go to
Ajman in spite of available hospital facilities in Ras Al Khaimah?
Why not compliant to the U.A.E Police instantaneously?

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Orkut Profile from Internet:

Ashmee (Ashi's younger sister)

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 Orkut Profile from Internet:

This is the orkut profile belonging to Dr. Salim Babu,

(Her cousin's husband). In the friends list, you can identify
Ashmee, (Ashi's younger sister) along with her cousins Aanu
and Devi. This confirms that Dr. Saleem Babu is related to Ashi
and the fake certificate was generated by him under the
influence of Ashi

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 Evidence for My Expatriate Life in Qatar and U.A.E

In My Absence, How She Got the Divorce? It should be noted

that I don’t receive any court notice even though I have a
permanent resident address in kerala.

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Submitted Power of Attorney
for the Case Proceedings

Dated: 11/07/2008

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Show Cause Notice From Embassy of India
Abu Dhabi, UAE

Dated: 27/01/2009

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 Please Note the date of Arrival to India

After giving my explanation to the Embassy of India,

I came to kerala in order to clarify the details.

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 News From Malayala Manorama

Dated 12th February 2009 (Thursday)

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 Bail Order

From The Hon. Judicial First Class Magistrate II

Trivandrum, Dated 17/02/09

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Order from the Hon. Judicial First Class Magistrate II
Trivandrum, Dated 17/02/09

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 Domestic Violence and Dowry harassment:

It should be noted that Ashi stayed in my home in varkala for only one week after marriage.
Soon after that we moved to Ras Al Khaimah, where we lived in Ashi's father’s house. The
evidence can be seen on Ashi's passport. Under these circumstances, how can I or my
parents harass her? Even if we assume that these incidents took place, why didn't Ashi and
her family report this to the police instantaneously? This confirms that all the allegations are
fabricated and hence false. She confessed before the court that she left Ras Al Khaimah to
India after she broke up with me. It should be noted that during this period, all her family
members (her father, mother, sisters) were living in Ras Al khaimah. (For proof please check
their respective passports) Her first point of refuge should have been her family house in Ras
Al Khaimah. Why did she come to India even though her family was in Ras al khaimah?After
that fake business meeting when I tried to contact her mobile phone, then I received a vulgar
stuffed SMS message from her mobile phone number. As evidence I am still keeping the
message in my phone, soon I will produce the same in front of the Judiciary.

Message Details

“Gonna fuck your mom tell this to your asshole father you bitch you cannot do nothing to as
nothing cannot fly beyond the Money. You asshole you don’t have that. ”

Sender:
00971502778642
(Ashi Ashokan)

Receiver
00919447584676
(Subu.Sudheesbabu)
22-03-2007, 10:25:08 PM

This SMS message clearly indicates that she broke up with me because I am not an affluent.
Also, this message indicates that they are trying to influence everyone dealing with this case
with money so that they can get a favorable judgment.

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THE TRUE FACTORS WITH
REFERENCE TO HER
FAKE SUBMITALS BEFORE
THE HONOURABLE COURT

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1. We are legally married, but it should be noted that during the time of marriage I
was a Student (in CUSAT) and that time I was doing my MTech Project at ONCG
Ahmedabad. I completed my course after marriage. (Please refer the marriage
invitation card, ONGC exp. certificate and my MTech Mark list (which clearly
mentions the examination date). And it was an arranged marriage, through
keralakaumudi matrimonial advertisement. In that advertisement they mentioned
that they are from U.A.E based business family they need a well educated groom.
They even promised me with an offer for a good job in U.A.E after this marriage.

2. On the above basis, the marriage was solemnized on 06th April 2006 in a hurry
at Revathy Auditorium.

3. Her father successfully persuaded my family to accept a cash cheque of INR

Three lakhs to meet the marriage expenses. Please notice that even a peon/
Sweeper usually get more than this amount as a dowry (if asked for). We weren't
interested in dowry. I spent that amount to meet their marriage expenses. They
were in uae during that time.

4. She mentioned that she was employed as a secretary to General Manager,

RAK White Cements. However the truth is that she worked as secretary to
the Marketing Manager. (Please directly clarify with her company RAK white
Cement POB1492 RAK UAE, Tel. 0097172668888 email: gm@rakwhitecement.ae).
Moreover, after marriage we lived in my home as a couple not in her home.

5. She mentioned in her statement that she was shocked to see me assault my
mother. I have absolutely no idea about this incident. She is making up things.

6. She mentioned that I stayed in her home to secure money. I never asked
money to anybody, I am not that kind of person. And she also mentioned that I
used to deliberately beat her during nights. Then why didn't she instantaneously
lodge a complaint with the police/women's commission then.

7. She mentioned that her drawing salary is AED 6200/- which was subsequently
enhanced to AED 7600/- . Her actual salary was AED 3200/- (Please directly contact
the company where she worked, RAK white Cements POB.1492 RAK UAE,
Tel. 0097172668888 email: gm@rakwhitecement.ae) / Please suggest her to
produce her salary certificate in front of the Court)

8. Before moving to UAE myself and ashi opened a locker account with SBT
Kadakavur Branch. Locker was in my name and could be operated only when both
are present. My mother has no involvement. (Please directly check the Bank
Registers)

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9. I never demanded her or in-laws to take me to Dubai. In succession to her
repeated requests, after finishing my studies I went to Dubai spending my own
money. Her company issued a visit visa for me of three months duration. During
that time she wasn't eligible for family status. In order to get family status, the
minimum basic salary requirement should be AED 4000 or more (Please Refer UAE
Visa Rules), her basic salary was well below AED 2000/-, her total salary was
AED3200/-. Moreover, in 2006 period the total expenditure for the visit visa was
only AED 200/- now a day the visit visa cost has been increased to AED500/-
(Please refer to concerned departments in uae)

10. When I was in uae I had stayed with her in her home in uae. I was unemployed
and I depended on them. My father-in-law behaved arrogantly towards me. He
doesn't know how to behave to others. After reaching uae he continuously
tormented me, mentally and physically. Since he is uneducated, I ignored his
acts/comments. During that time I had a job interview in Dubai Arab center, Dubai.
Since Ras Al Khaimah is more than 200km away from Dubai and since I was new
to the emirates, I requested her father to accompany me. Then he behaved like a
mad dog, and tried to assault me and barked at me saying "This is the first and last
time for you, never request any favor from me". Later, on my own, I attended the
interview and was selected and joined Arab Center for Engineering Studies as an
Engineering Geologist.

11. Ashi was born and brought up in uae. She lived in an entirely different culture.
Her parents put no restrictions on her. She has uae driving license. She never
used to cook at home, every time depending on restaurants. Moreover she
followed a deviated lifestyle entirely different from Kerala culture

One a particular Friday my friend Mr. Deepu visited us. We went to a restaurant to
eat. While we were on our way to drop him to his place Ashi's father rang me and
shouted saying that he needs that car and even suggested me to leave him in the
lonely desert at night. I knew driving but I don't have a UAE licence. Since she had
the licence, I requested her to accompany. When we returned home her father
assaulted me and he forced me out of the home for the whole night. After this
incident I decided to shift to a new home. According to her petition she mentioned
that was not safe to drive the car at odd hours of night. The roads are safe in UAE
and high mast street lights are there over the entire stretch. The chances of crime
are very rare. I remember one incident, she went RAK Hilton hotel at 9.00 in the
night to meet her Egyptian boss, Mr.Tarique (tareq.samaha@rakwhitecement.ae) and
afterwards she assisted him to Sharja for shopping at Sahara Mall. After shopping
she went to a restaurant with him and reached home at after 2.30am. Please note
that she was alone with a stranger and she drove the car and she was "secure".

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12. As a result, we planned to shift to a new house. That time I worked with Arab
Center for Engineering Studies. Rent of that single bedroom villa at (Ras Al
Khaima) was only AED 800/- I spent my salary on household equipments and
everyday items. We lived for six months in that home. Her father didn't visit us
during these six months. Since I joined Arab Center for Engineering Studies as a
geologist, I changed my visa to the company sponsorship. (Please refer the uae
labor law). Then how dare can she claim as to spend AED 1500/- for my visa
renewal.

13. She mentioned that I was exploiting mentally, physically, economically and
emotionally. In uae there have a sound law and order, why didn't she complain to
either uae police or uae court? She mentioned that I have 24 criminal cases this
proves that she is mentally abnormal. Please clarify with the nearest police station.
Moreover, without police verification how did I get the Passport?

14. She mentioned that when assaulting and manhandling become intolerable,
she decided not to renew my visa. Please understand her lies, that time I was an
employee from Arab Center for Engineering Studies. After getting the job I had
changed my visa under the company sponsorship (Please refer the UAE visa rules,
a person can possible to work under the sponsor only). Moreover she doesn't have
family status (her salary was only AED3200/-) then how she can sponsor. (Please
ask to produce her salary certificate from RAK white cements / Ask to produce her
visa sponsorship documents during January2007).

It should be noted that as part of the conspiracy she took my permission to leave
my house on the pretext to attend a three days company meeting at Muscat Hotel,
Trivandrum, Kerala. I granted her instant permission and also helped her in
shopping and personally dropped her at the Airport on 10th January 2007. After
reaching Kerala she stopped contacting me and all my efforts to contact her failed.
Later I realized that all these days I have been constantly cheated. She opened my
bank locker on 11th January 2007(SBT, Kadakkavour Branch, Locker No: 157) with
a fake authorization letter and took the gold. I couldn't believe my ears and to find
the truth. By the advice of her mother I resigned my job and returned to kerala on
16 th January 2007. Once I reached Kerala I learnt that she returned to UAE on the
same day.

15. She already knew my email password she create that fake orkut profile in
order to get divorce and compensation and latter filed a fake cyber case against
me. She lost her job at RAK Cements Company due to some malpractice. (Please
clarify with the company) After that fake company business meeting when I tried to
contact her mobile phone, then after I received a shameful SMS message from her
number. As evidence I am still keeping the message in my phone, soon I will
produce the same in front of the judiciary.

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16. As relating to the Bank locker incident I tried to move more legally and filed a
case regarding to the bank locker operation (CMP No 1157 of 2007). As for the
counter case she created the fake cyber case and proceeded.

17. We are not affluent, we are from middle class family, my father was a Rtd Govt.
Servant, he found the money for my studies by stopping his treatment. (He
suffered from Parkinson Disease). After my own effort I got a job in uae, I sent a
little amount of money to my parents. I didn't send any of her money. (If I spend
any, please produce the evidence)

18. I didn't understand what cruelty I had done with her.

19. She took her whole gold ornaments including that gold loan pledged
ornaments also (Please verify with SBT Kadakkavur Br. Locker no. 157 and Gold
loan no.67012856755)

20. She mentioned that she came to kerala for an official trip. (She came for
vacation, please clarify with her company) And she took the gold loan for paying
the money for her car loan.

21. We have no liability to her gold ornaments. She took her whole gold
ornaments including that gold loan pledged ornaments also (Please
verify with SBT Kadakkavur Br. Locker no. 157 and Gold loan no.67012856755)

22. After these incidents her family engaged thugs to harass me. In order to avoid
confrontations and for my personal safety I had to left Kerala. When I was in
Mumbai her father had arranged some dons for assassination, to cut the story
short by the grace of God still I am alive. They have money and political influence,
so they have the means to do anything. With the help of dons and police, they
harassed me in whatever ways they could and in order to escape from the
impending danger I have to immigrate to another country.

23. It should be noted that Ashi stayed in my home in varkala for only one week
after marriage. Soon after that we moved to Ras Al Khaimah, where we lived in
Ashi's father's house. The evidence can be seen on Ashi's passport. Under these
circumstances, how can I or my parents harass her? Even if we assume that these
incidents took place, why didn't Ashi and her family report this to the police
instantaneously? This confirms that all the allegations are fabricated for getting
divorce and hence false.

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