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7 March 2012
To Spank or Not to Spank, That is the Question
When my oldest son was 5 years old, he started hitting other kids and
his siblings when he was frustrated or mad. Nothing we tried seemed to get
him to stop. One day, after the third time he had hit his sister, out of
frustration, I snatched him up and spanked him. After I calmed down, I
questioned my decision to spank him. It seemed illogical to me that I had hit
him in order to teach him not to hit and I felt guilty for doing it. On top of
that, it had no affect whatsoever on the bad behavior, as he hit his sister
again that very same day. I had always been in favor of spanking but now I
was questioning its validity as a form of discipline, so I decided to do some
reading and found that there have been numerous discussions on spanking.
There is little gray area on the subject people are either for or against
spanking and each side is adamant about their position. Part of the problem
with spanking is that each group defines spanking differently. Some believe
spanking is a form of abuse, while others consider it a form of discipline
with most of the pro spankers citing the bible as their justification for
spanking. Spanking is engrained in our culture and many people were
themselves spanked as children. Consequently, this form of punishment has,
to some extent, become a cultural habit. People often say well, it was good
enough for me. Therefore, it seems that ignorance contributes to the
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