Every Sunday, it has been our family custom to go to church together. And the church is the place where I chose to conduct my research. By relation to our topics, I have used the research method of direct observation specifically, in Filipino psychology, pagmamasid and pakapa-kapa. Now, you would be assuming that I didnt listen to the priests sermon because I was so preoccupied with my probing. I was multitasking. So far, this is how my observation went. The family that piqued my interest was sitting three benches in front of us. It was composed only of a mother and a little boy and after some time they were joined by a father. The little boy was the one that had captured my attention. He was about 8 years old. He was fat and wore a naughty smirk on his face. He actually reminded me of Dennis the Menace that I actually nicknamed him that. Anyway as I stared at him longer, I could see that he was bored and he was moving around a lot that it was actually bothering the lady sitting beside them because the lady kept glancing his way. His mom seemed to be oblivious of his behaviors. It was as if she could not see her sons annoying rackets. Here, somehow her mom tried to use extinction towards his behavior by ignoring it. The boy seemed to notice that her mom was ignoring him so he shifted into another activity. There was also a little boy sitting across their bench. The boy behaved well and pleasant but he kept glancing at Dennis. After a while, Dennis noticed the boy looking at him too. Dennis looked at the boy and raised his fist into a fighting stance. He was then antagonizing the boy. He would make silly faces at him and even stuck his tongue out while the religious ceremonies were being held. The boy would just stare at as if amused and not annoyed or angry. This made Dennis more aggressive. He started to really get the attention of the people around him because he was now making loud noises that her mother finally paid him some attention. Her mother used operant conditioning to control her sons behavior. Now, the use of reinforcers is what differs. She used negative and positive reinforcers.
But At first, I also detected a little of classical
conditioning too because the boy showed a stimulus generalization. Every time her mother would look at him pointedly or poke his arm or even kick his shoes lightly just to get his attention, he would produce the same response. He would wince and stay still for awhile. Eventually when his mothers attention would shift again to the mass, Dennis would again start his naughty rackets. This time his mother used another method which the operant conditioning. Her mother wanted him to behave well as a response so she gave him candies which are positive reinforcements. This actually worked because for some time Dennis was behaving quite well so he can get more candies. Eventually though he got tired of them and started to get all hyperactive again. This time his mother didnt use any reinforce anymore instead she used punishment to decrease Dennis naughty behaviors. She actually pinched him hard in the arm that his face distorted painfully. This seemed to be the most effective solution because Dennis didnt do anything mischievous for a long time. Even if he tried again to act rude, his mother would again pinch him hard. After that his father came shortly. This actually put the boy in more agony as if another parent means another punishment. It was amazing when I recognized their behaviors and relate it with psychology. It was as if I was a shrink. I dont actually agree with punishments because it could cause more aggressive behaviors but in the boys case it was what was most effective. He actually shut up and put his head down. I guess, in their case that is how you handle a Dennis the Menace.
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