Size Matters by MiMi Paris.

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 Size Matters
For men onl y:
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How to k
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Why do you want to keep the woman in your life happy?
Selfishly, if you keep her happy, she will keep you happy.

Let’s take this concept a step further because you love

sex and may want to enjoy more in your relationship.
Here’s the formula:

Keep the woman in your life happy out

of bed, and she’ll keep you happy in bed.

It’s that simple.

If you don’t know how to do that, you’ve got to get to

know what makes your partner happy out of bed. Here
are some ways you can find out.

Tell her she’s important and that you love it when she is
happy. Then ask her what you can do right now or today
to give her pleasure. It might be doing the grocery shop-
ping or taking the kids for an hour after work. It might be
giving her time to herself. It might be making sure there
is gas in her car. It might be a five-minute talk or a 30-
minute walk. It might mean making her some hot tea or
bringing her a glass of wine.

Men, you sometimes get a bad rap. But most of you

really want to please the woman in your life. If you only
knew how, you’d please her every chance you get.

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And 21 other truths you should know to enjoy a lifetime of Effortless Success
Women have not been taught to ask for what they want.
They’ve been told that asking is selfish and therefore bad,
so they leave you guessing. The problem with guessing
is that you have lots of opportunity to guess wrong...
And that’s no fun. You stop guessing because it feels like
you are always wrong. No one wants to be wrong.

Tell her that you don’t want to guess how to please her.
Teach the woman in your life to coach you. Tell her that
you want to know more of what she wants than what she
doesn’t want. Ask her to make one request of you each
day for one month.

You won’t have to guess.

You will please her... And that pleases you.

30 MiMi Paris
 Size Matters
Notes to Self

What three things can you do to please the woman in

your life?

1.

2.

3.

How can you show her that she is important to you?

How do you know that?

How will you coach her to tell you what pleases her?

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 About the Author
MiMi P ar
Par is
aris
MiMi Paris, Ph.D., CSP, MCC, is an internationally recognized com-
munications professional. Her unique perspective and style help
others discover how effortless success can be. She has an amazing
ability to get to core issues quickly and efficiently. Her clients often
say, “Wow, that was easy!”

Life was not always “effortless” for this author. Ms. Paris was born
severely deformed in Springfield, IL, and spent much of her early
years in foster homes. Then, when she was five years old, she was
sent to live with her biological father. She has never met her mother.

In her father’s home, Ms. Paris suffered emotional, physical, and

sexual abuse, which included systematic torture. She left when
she was 16 by reporting to the police. From then on, she lived in a
halfway house, a group home, and a foster home.

Ms. Paris came by these 22 truths authentically—the hard way.

Surprisingly, she shows a spirit that few do. Unlike many who turn
to bitterness and all that it brings, Ms. Paris demonstrates a positive
excitement about life.

Her educational experience includes a B.A. in English, an M.A. in

Speech Communication, and a Ph.D. in Counseling Psychology. She
earned several academic honors and international awards in com-
munication education. She also holds several professional titles,
including Certified Speaking Professional and Master Certified Coach.

In business for herself since 1987, Ms. Paris enjoys partnering with
high-achievers in progressive organizations that believe in devel-
oping people. MiMi Paris is available for speak-
ing engagements from high school events to cor-
porate retreats.
Contact Information
Email paris.mimi@worldnet.att.net
Internet www.mimiparis.com