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human life needs stress to a certain degree to survive well and productive. Its
your reactions to the daily stresses of life that and your body reactions to it
that is responsible for how long you live.
Regardless of what the stresses are, the key to longevity is to identify and to
minimize key stresses but not eliminate all stress.
Physical activity can clear your mind and keep stress under control.
Some people like to run or walk by themselves while other prefer different
team sports. Any type of exercise is good and it is even better if it is regular.
Stress is built up through a period of time and gradual reduction is the best
way to reduce stress. Next time you feel stressed out, go to the gym or
simply take a walk. This is a good first step of any stress reduction program.
Learn to relax
Relaxation is often more difficult for some people than others. Some are
born relaxed while others are tense. This is particularly true of type A
hyperactive individual, who thrives on a high degree of stress and
chaos in their life.
Here is a simple but effective way. It involves learning to tighten and relax
the body's major muscle group one at a time, being aware of each
sensation. Start at your feet and work your way up to your head. Tense
the muscle for the count of ten, concentrate on the tension and then let
the muscle go lax and breathe deeply, enjoying the sensation of each
release. Performing this simple and progressive and relaxation exercise
while you are lying down in a quiet room can work wonders!
Ga/n sufficient sleep
Many people cannot sleep with stress. A restful night is a key ingredient
to help many deal with the daily stresses of life. If you have a lot of
stress, getting a good night's sleep is an important thing to do. Some people,
however, have a tendency to escape stress by resorting to excessive
sleeping during stressful situations. If you are one of these people, then you
should not sleep more than the usual.
Meditation
Deep breathing
This is perhaps the most simple and easiest stress reduction technique.
Deep breathing, whether you are at home, at work or in a car, is convenient
as well. Breathe with your mouth closed, hold your breath for 3 seconds,
then exhale slowly through your mouth, with your tongue placed at the top of
your teeth. Do this 4-5 times, or till the tension has passed.
Create a stress-free home environment
Keep the noise level down as noise contributes to stress. Create a
meditation room where you can be in a quiet environment with water
sound on the background, without the noise of TV and cars. Use as much
natural lighting in your home as possible as unnatural florescent lighting can
be especially aggravating.
Aromatherapy
This is the art of using highly concentrated distilled herbal essence,
called essential oils. Add 10-12 drops or more of these oils to a warm
bath and relax in the tub. Or simply dab a couple of drops of oii on a
tissue or handkerchief and inhale the aroma during the day.
Professional Counseling
If you cannot handle the stress in your life, consider outside help. Professional
counselors are available to help you to enlighten your thought processes.
It is often beneficial to talk to someone who can offer an objective response and
gives us a different view of how we should look at the world.
Qigong
Qigong is a Chinese form of meditation plus yoga-type exercises requiring
years to mater. Many millions of people around the world practice this quiet
form of yoga-cum-meditation art that is originated in China. There are many
qigong clubs around the country so you may want to join some to get started.
MEDITATION
Without a doubt, meditation is a simple and effective way to reduce stresses of
our daily life. This is practiced by thousands of people throughout the world on
a daily basis. Meditation is by no means simple. It allows us to reach our fullest
"humanhood", what it means to be human. In Maslow's (one of our great
psychologists) term, it is the goal of self-actualization - actualizing what we truly
can be that brings true fulfillment to the human, and meditation is a tough
minded and hard discipline that facilitates the achievement of this goal.
Throughout history, and all over the world, human beings have been
participating in such a practice. Meditation is a process much like other
components of anti-aging exercise program such as cardiovascular training.
There is no end point where you can reach and say "now I have arrived, I can
stop meditating". As you leam more about yourself and the universe through
meditation, your thinking becomes clearer and so does your deire to continue
the meditation process in order to discover your fullest human potential.
Meditation can be viewed as another form of psychotherapy. By having
a clarity of thought, your decision-making and ability to organize your
thoughts is highly improved. Because of this, you are able to handle
more stress and the daily disruptions of the society.
MEDITATION PRESCRIPTION
For those who are interested to get started, here are two simple but effective
methods to start. Do it once a day, starting at 5 minutes each time. You can
do this as often as you wish or as long as you wish. The key is to get started
and keep it up. You may not experience immediate effect. Give yourself a
few weeks to start noticing slight benefit. You have built up stress all your
life, and it takes time to reduce it.
MEDITATION METHOD 1
Choose a central word that had good feeling associated with it, such
as words like flower, Iove, peace, light, color, grass, tree, home etc. Try
not to use words like anger, cry, sad, hurt.
Once you have chosen your central word, get comfortable, concentrate and
wait. Let the central word comes to you. If you have the tendency to drift
away, then return to the center word and let further thoughts come to
you. For example, use the word "Iove" as the center. Your first association
may be "family". Focus on the two, Iove and family, as a mental image with a
path between them. Focus on this relationship for 3 or 4 seconds. Try to
understand the association and the connection between the two words. After
3-4 seconds, return to Iove. The next association that comes with the word
Iove may be "forest". Focus on the relationship between Iove and forest for 3
or 4 seconds as before. Continue. At the end, you will run into cluster
association. For example, in the series above, you may end up with a cluster
of words such as forest, beach, family, warmth, hug together with the word
Iove. This is normal and good. Continue this process for 5-10 minutes a day
in the beginning, leading to 15-20 minutes a day. This meditation often leads
to surprising insights about your life if you are consistent with it. These
insights are generally good and useful when they happen but may not be
regarded as the main purpose of this discipline. You will be surprised after
you have done this practice for 10-15 times, how when you face certain
situations and face certain stresses of life that the insights will come to you on
how to resolve. Start with 5 minute sessions once a day for 2-3 weeks then
go to 10 minutes or even half an hour a day for the next 3 weeks to 1 month.
How long you do meditation really depends on you. Some people spend
hours doing this and feel rejuvenated at the end of each session.
MEDITATION METHOD 2
The key in type of meditation is to ask yourself "who am I" during the
meditation process. This is an exceptionally vigorous and difficult meditation
to perform. This is an advance technique that should only be recommended
after several months of daily practice with structured meditation such as the
word-oriented meditation you have done earlier. When you start the meditation,
you begin by asking, "who am I?" And in the response to each question, you will
find a highly structured answer that the society has taught us for many years.
For example, you would say "my name is John." Ponder on this answer and
follow up with another answer to ask the question "who gave you this name or
why are you John and not somebody else? " Alternatively, you can ask yourself
also, "who has the interpretation to who am I?" After each response, there is an
active and dynamic search for the next answer. There is no rest. This
meditation must be done with a kind of continued fierceness and constantly
review and rejection of the previous answer and search for the next answer in
order to go to a deeper level of insight.
The Buddhist version has different variations of this meditation. In essence, this
is a direct search for the real essence of human and the real essence of
who you really are. Sometimes, you may not find an answer for a long time
but other time, with consistency and discipline, the answer will come.
Tips of Meditation
Be realistic. Most of us are not trained to meditate. Begin slowly with just
3-5 minutes a day for the first few days and weeks. Do not start with a 30
minutes session as a beginner. Do not feel sorry and rejected if your mind
keeps drifting away. This is normal. Take into account the kind of person you
are and the complexity of your life. If you are a very hyperactive person, 1 or
2 minutes of your time can be equivalent to 5-10 minutes of a much more
relaxed person.
Rome is not built in one day and meditation does not work overnight. Set a
realistic goal of 4-8 weeks to start your meditation program. Do not expect
dramatic and immediate results because this will sure lead to disappointment.
The inner part of you is striving for evolution, not
revolution. Enlightenment takes time and slowly it will come but whatever
comes will stay with you.
You re-evaluate your program on an ongoing basis. After 4-8 weeks of
meditation, ask yourself if you have improved. Ask yourself if you have
been enlightened about yourself and if you know more about yourself than
before. If you have, be happy, be joyful and continue. If you have not had
any benefit, then ask yourself what you have been doing wrong that has
caused a disruption in your meditation process and try to find ways to
achieve in harmony, peace and joy.
By now you should see that no one of us can escape stress 100%. Stress is a
necessary part of any successful life and is beneficial if you know how to handle
it Stress reduction by various forms of meditation and deep breathing may not
be sufficient. A successful stress reduction program needs to include
cardiovascular exercises as well as nutritional supplements. Vitamin A, C, E,
Selenium, zinc and the family of B-complex vitamins have been shown to have
significant effect in stress reduction. A proper diet composes of 50-75% raw
food is also recommended. Fresh fruits and vegetables not only supply valuable
vitamins and minerals, they also contain compounds called flavonoids, many of
which scavenge and neutralize free radicals. Limit your intake of caffeine.
Caffeine as found in coffee and tea exacerbate the "fight or flight" response and
disrupt sleep patterns due to its stimulatory effect. While some of these
substances may temporary relief from stress and allow us the energy to deal
with certain stresses, they do nothing to
address the real underlying problem and they are harmful to your
health. Incorporaing a 5-10 minutes program of deep breathing or
meditation into your daily routine is perhaps the safest and most
effective way to reduce stress.
STICK TO IT
Anybody who meditates for a long time will tell you that sometimes, like
anything else, you reach a plateau and no longer getting the insights from
time to time. This is totally normal. Things will get harder before you make a
break through. It's like a marathon runner "hitting the wall" at the 18-20 mile
mark. The key is to have the persistence and the discipline to continue
on and break the wall. Anything good takes time to achieve. Growth and
changes are not easy. Working hard feels hard and the reason is because it
is. Easy tasks that will come with easy results are not long lasting, generally
speaking.
Remember that all your actions and decisions in your life reflect who you
really are. Until you know whom you really are, all your directions and actions
are just reflective of the constraints and conditions that the society places
upon you. By knowing whom you are, you are then able to express yourself
in a way that fully maximizes your internai strength, degree of creativity and
actualizing yourself to be the best you can as a human being. Meditation is a
road to enlightenment and path to a stress- free life.