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By Guy Leonard
Staff Writer
Even at small, sparsely attended public
hearings on the possibility of switching to
code home rule here in St. Marys, citizens
are still questioning the need to change a
system of government that has lasted nearly
200 years.
At the third such public hearing, held
Tuesday night at the 7th District Volunteer
Fire Department, about a dozen citizens
came out to hear officials arguments that
switching to greater autonomy from the
state legislature would be a good thing.
Points such as greater responsiveness to
county citizens needs, more efficient government and greater control over the countys fiscal future, seem to make only slow
headway with potential voters.
Commissioner John OConnor used
as an example his proposed law that
must be approved by the state legislature to allow residents to drive golf
carts and gators along county roads.
With code home rule, the commissioners
could act quickly to enact such a law.
Its a feel good law but we cannot move
forward until we put forward a bill before
the legislature, OConnor said.
He said code home rule would allow state
legislators to focus on bigger issues for St.
Marys County.
But John Butterfield, of Bushwood, was
dubious.
I think a golf cart issue is a poor reason to change the structure of government,
Butterfield said.
OConnor said the golf cart legislation
was just one example and asked if Butterfield wanted to continue to leave county
purchase the last piece of property it needed to complete the connection of the entire
road.
The thoroughfare, which has been on the
county books for at least 25 years, has been
deemed essential in reducing traffic on the
already overloaded Route 235.
Erichsen said the project should be completed finally in 2019 connecting St. Andrews Church Road and Pegg Road.
Commissioner Todd Morgan said he
was ready for the project to finally see
completion.
I agree, he said. This has taken longer
than Id thought.
The commissioners looked at other projects including the renovations to the aging
detention center.
Ballistic-rated glass has already been
replaced as well as other security improvements, Erichsen said, but the problem remains of renovating the kitchen.
That will necessitate setting up a temporary kitchen on site that still meets security
requirements.
The renovations also mean that as many
as 65 inmates at a time will have to be
housed at a separate facility while the work
is completed.
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By Guy Leonard
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nerships between the criminal justice system and victim advocacy organizations, and to look beyond traditional resources by partnering with
community and faith-based organizations to respond more vigorously
to domestic violence, sexual assault,
stalking, and dating violence.
The grant funding we are announcing today is vital to Marylands
continuing efforts to combat domestic violence, sexual assault, and other
violent crimes against women, said
Christopher Shank, executive director of the Governors Office of Crime
Control & Prevention. Organizations from every region in the state
will use this funding for programs in
Maryland courts, states attorneys
offices, law enforcement agencies,
and nonprofit organizations to hold
offenders accountable, protect victims, and help families rebuild their
lives.
A table of the Violence Against
Women Act grants can be found
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By Sarah Miller
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Local Planning Commission Member
Robert Reed was named the president of the
Maryland Planning Commissioners Association (MPCA) during their annual conference Oct. 29 to 30.
Ill find out whats going on faster than
anyone, Reed said, explaining that the
MPCA educated local appeals boards and
planning commissioners on changes to regulations and statewide trends.
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Hogan said. These proposed regulations will make our roads and communities safer by ensuring that past drunk
driving offenders cannot start their car
after they have been drinking.
On average, there are 7,884 impaired
driving crashes across Maryland in any
given year. In those crashes, 170 people
die every year due to impaired driving.
All of these fatalities are preventable.
In Maryland, drivers with a BAC of .08
or higher are charged with Driving Under the Influence (DUI) and those with
a BAC of .04 are charged with Driving
While Intoxicated (DWI).
Every life lost is one too many,
said Transportation Secretary Pete
Rahn. Expanding Ignition Interlock is
a giant step forward in eliminating impaired driving fatalities on Marylands
highways!
Marylands ignition interlock program has approximately 11,000 participants and is monitored by the Maryland
Department of Transportations Motor
Vehicle Administration (MVA). The
MVA has implemented an automated
comprehensive ignition interlock program, which efficiently monitors participants and allows the MVA to take
action against program violations.
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There is plenty of free, in-person assistance for people seeking help enrolling in health coverage for 2016 through
Maryland Health Connection.
1. Consumers can get help by contacting one of the regionally located Connector Entities across the state. See a
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2. A directory of authorized insurance
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3. Beginning this Saturday, a slate of
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Szeliga, Republican
Whip, Enters U.S. Race
By Guy Leonard
Staff Writer
In a national race that has been dominated by Democrats, GOP candidate and state
house minority whip Del. Kathy Szeliga has
officially announced her bid to run for the
seat soon to be vacated by retiring Sen. Barbara Mikulski.
Szeliga, who represents Harford and
Baltimore counties, made her second announcement stop in Leonardtown Tuesday
afternoon to a small gathering of Republican supporters in the town square.
Szeliga, who won re-election to her second term last year, said she wanted to run
partly because the federal delegation to
Washington D.C. was lopsided towards
Democrats.
Only U.S. Rep. Andy Harris from District
1 represents the GOP in the Maryland Congressional Delegation currently.
Also, as a newlywed 36 years ago, she and
her husband had to struggle to make a living
on minimum wage jobs before they could
finally start their own construction business.
Americans were struggling in much the
same way today, she said, and new leadership in Washington, D.C. was needed to get
the economy moving again.
The American dream seemed harder and
harder to attain, Szeliga said of when the
recession hit her familys business. There
was always some new tax or new fee.
She touted her work with Gov. Larry Hogans administration to curb spending and
reduce regulations as a blueprint for changing the situation at the national level.
She said she fully supported Hogans
move to reinvest in roads and repeal the
rain tax.
Things are finally moving in the right di-
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But with the election in 2016 a presidential one, Eberly expected Democrats to be
far more energized and ready to vote for
Hillary Clinton in the primary and general
elections.
Any senate candidate is probably going
to ride in on her coat tails, Eberly said.
Szeliga acknowledges she is in engaged
in an uphill political battle since Democrats
still enjoy a two-to-one advantage and candidates like U.S. Representatives Chris Van
Hollen and Donna Edwards have dominated
much of the conversation from the political
left.
Still Szeliga was confident in her ability
to capture the primary slot.
She has been endorsed by both Harris
and Anne Arundel County Executive Steve
Schuh.
With the support Im getting Im sure Ill
win, she said.
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Shaw, siblings, Jon Shaw and wife Chrissy of Milton, Fla.; Tim Shaw and wife
Patty of Sarasota, Fla.; Glenda Sanders
and husband Tim of Cockeysville, Md.,
and Christopher Shaw of Lexington Park,
Md. He is preceded in death by his father,
Jack Lynn Shaw; sister-in-law, Teresa
Shaw and his beloved cat Rocket. A Life
Celebration Visitation was held on Tuesday, Nov. 10, from 5 to 7 p.m. followed by
a Memorial Service at 7 p.m. at the Brinsfield Funeral Home, 22955 Hollywood
Rd., Leonardtown, Md., 20650. Interment
was private. In lieu of flowers, memorial
contributions may be made to any charity
of choice. Condolences to the family may
be made at www.brinsfieldfuneral.com.
Arrangements by the Brinsfield Funeral
Home, P.A.
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Eva M. (Stauffer)
Brubacker, 87
Eva M. (Stauffer) Brubacker, 87, of
Loveville, Md. formerly of Port Trevorton, Pa. died on Sunday, Oct. 11 at the
home of her step-daughter Thelma of
Leonardtown with whom she resided at
the time of her death.
Eva was born Nov. 3 1927 in Ephrata,
Pa., a daughter of the late David W. and
Mary A. Stauffer.
She was engaged in child caring and
teaching in St. Marys County until she
married in 1976 to Phares S. Brubacker,
Sr. who preceded her in death in 2007.
Eva was a member of Stauffers Old
Order Mennonite Church, Port Trevorton.
She is survived by stepchildren Edith
Stauffer (Sam) of Elkhorn, K.Y., Leon
Brubaker (Miriam) of Port Trevorton,
Pa., Ivan Brubacker (Trudy) of Mt. Pleas-
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By Skylar Broome
Contributing Writer
Whats an ornithologist? Children aged 5 to 12
that attended the Calvert Marine Museums Homeschooling day were quick to find out the answer: a
person dedicated to the research of birds. The Southern Maryland Audubon Society partnered with the
Calvert Marine Museum for this unique biannual
event that grants homeschooled children the ability
to attend hands-on workshops to learn special topics
of interest. This years fall day was all about the various animals that migrate through the Chesapeake
and the importance of those migrations.
Partnering up with outside organizations is what
makes it memorable, says Traci Cimini of the Calvert Marine Museum. It ties everything together
and its fun.
Ernie Willoughby, an ornithologist from the
Southern Maryland Audubon Society came down
for the day in order to go through the different patterns that birds migrating through the Chesapeake
Bay would take, using the specific birds that are
modelled in the museum itself.
It wasnt a lecture, according to Laurie Cole of the
Educator Department of the CMM, but rather a more
personal talk that described exactly what his job was
as one who studied birds exclusively.
Admission fee was the museum admission and
the event lasted from 10:30 a.m. to 2:30 p.m. Onsite
registration began at 10 a.m. in the lobby. The next
homeschooling day will take place in the spring, and
the topic will be decided closer to the date.
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Ace Hardware
Coloring
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By Crista Dockray
Staff Writer
Patience Yeh, 9, was the
winner of the Ace Hardware
coloring contest in conjunction
with the County Times.
Yeh colored the picture of a
Halloween scene for the 9 to
12 age group. Her talent was
recognized by Kasey Russell,
a graphic designer.
Yeh found the contest while
she was reading the newspaper
at her local library. She said
she saw one of the past winners in an article and she wanted to try it out for herself, so
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she went home and colored the
picture in her kitchen.
Yeh said she loves to color and draw and she even won first
place at the county fair for her drawing of a horse. She also
loves playing the violin.
Yeh won a bean bag toss, a set of snowmen window gel
clings, and a snowman sunny jiggler. She said she felt really
excited to win.
Her mother Debbie Yeh and her siblings Bethany, Judah,
and Nahum came along to help congratulate her. Her other
siblings Ben, Simon, Jonah, and Mikah and her father Bill
Yeh all were proud of her as well.
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By Ellen Lewis
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This is the week we celebrate Veterans
Day. For St. Marys County that means a
huge parade in Leonardtown with politicians from the County and the State, and
local organizations large and small. There
will be high school marching bands, military units, scout troops, bagpipers, dancers,
horses, and more.
I think its significant that the Veterans
Day parade is in Leonardtown. Leonardtown is our traditional commercial shopping
district and the source of much of our cultural identity. When we come together as a
community to honor our Veterans, we come
to Leonardtown. When we gather to ring in
the holiday season and light the Christmas
tree, we gather in Leonardtown. Next year
when we reaffirm the importance of caring
for our planet, we do so at Leonardtowns
Earth Day.
As the County Seat, Leonardtown is the
historic core of the community. The build-
Congratulations,
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The couple will be married
in August 2016 and will
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increased number of suicides. Nationally, as many as 22 veterans commit suicide every day, according to the Department of Veterans Affairs.
For returning vets who may be unable to cope, dealing with a termination
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straw, said Austin J. Slater, Jr., SMECO president and CEO. If we can help
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the playoffs but a single time, played
in five Super Bowls and won two
championships during the decade of
polyester, disco and Watergate.
But the story wasnt just the winning. The Cowboys carried themselves with professional elegance.
Tom Landry, Dallass stoic, classy
and fedora-adorned head coach,
roamed the sideline with palatable regality. In Roger Staubach,
a squeaky-clean Naval Academy
graduate and Heisman Trophy winner, Dallas essentially had Captain
America playing quarterback. They
had the sleekest uniforms, most famous cheerleaders and the coolest
nicknames Doomsday Defense
and Ed Too Tall Jones. The iconic
single blue star on side of their helmets came to symbolize the teams
fame as much as the state of Texas.
The franchise even transcended
sports: The television show Dallas
included a flyover of Texas Stadium.
By the late 70s, all of it the
threads, the logo, the characters, the
panache and the winning earned
Dallas the moniker Americas
Team, an outrageously grandiose
handle that was impossible to dispute, even by Dallass staunchest
detractors.
Everything had changed by the
late 1980s. After several losing campaigns, the Cowboys were sold to
Jerry Jones, Landry was fired and
a new business model was implemented, one that has proven to be
less dignified. For the last 26 years,
Dallas has been an extension of
Joness prodigious, Trump-like ego.
It worked early on, to the tune of
three Super Bowl championships,
but the last two decades have mostly
fallen victim to Joness failure to arrest his confidence in himself as supreme football pooh-bah and his lust
for victory, a primal urge that has
birthed many dubious decisions.
The Jones Way led to the hiring
of Jimmy Johnson and the acquisition of players like Troy Aikman,
Emmitt Smith, Larry Allen and Darren Woodson. Thats good Jerry. Bad
Jerry, the one of more recent vintage, jettisoned Johnson after a fatal
ego-struggle, foolishly traded for
wide receivers Joey Galloway and
Roy Williams, recklessly acquired
malcontent Ryan Leaf and willfully
gambled on Terrell
Owens and Dez
Bryant, two emotional volcanoes.
Win at all cost. Talent trumps
character. Social responsibility is
a minority aspect of decision making. Thats Jerrys style. In the ultra-competitive, testosterone fueled
world of professional football, its a
widely accepted approach. However,
in signing DE Greg Hardy, Jones
crossed an admittedly gray line.
In July 2014, Hardy was convicted
of assaulting Nicole Holder, a former
girlfriend. Court testimony revealed
the incidents brutality. Hardy tossed
Holder on a bed full of guns, threw
her into a bathtub, dragged her
around by her hair, slammed a toilet seat on her arm and threatened
to kill her. The post-assault photos
of Holder are extremely disturbing
and consistent with an unconscionable beating. Hardys sentence was
overturned on appeal after Holder
failed to show in court. There is
strong indication a civil settlement
was reached.
Hardy spent all but one game last
season on the commissioners nonexempt (suspended) list. After the
court findings, Hardy was initially
suspended for 10 games this year;
the suspension was reduced to four
games on appeal.
Dallas, with its typical disregard
for anything but talent, inked Hardy
to a one-year deal in March. His
brief, but predictably eventful Cowboys career, has included a sideline
shouting match with Bryant, insensitive comments about Tom Bradys
wife and no evidence of remorse for
assaulting Holder. Jones has defended his employment of Hardy, stumping it as a deserved second chance.
He even spun Hardys passion as evidence of his leadership.
To expect anything different from
the myopic, self-serving Jones would
be foolish. But what about the rest
of us, those who pad his capitalistic
pockets? What say you, sponsors of
the Cowboys? And you, Cowboys
fans? Are you comfortable supporting the star and, indirectly, Hardy?
Its a personal choice, I suppose.
But lets be clear: Dallas is no longer Americas Team. Not this Greg
Hardy-version. Domestic violence
is too important and the NFL carries too much social weight for this
Dallas team to represent America in
any way.
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63 Years In Business
By Crista Dockray
Staff Writer
he did.
Four years ago, Daniel tried to create
an IBA, an independent business association, for St. Marys County. He said he
noticed that the independent businesses
werent getting assistance from the county government at that time and he wanted
to help.
The idea was to help the independents getting the local people in the
community that had businesses to come
together and support the same goal, said
Daniel.
According to Daniel, independents
keep money and good relationships with
the surrounding community and give the
county culture.
He was also a board member of the
Chamber of Commerce and the Center
of Family Advocacy and won Business
Person of the Year from the Chamber of
Commerce.
Daniel has also lent a helping hand to
the community over the years. He has
made donations to several individuals,
organizations and causes. He also has
attended events like the Sotterley WineFest and over the summer he worked as
Chef Dan every Saturday at the Sotterley
farmers market, showing people how to
Business
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Thursday, Nov. 12
Fall World Cinema Series
Higher Education Center (44219 Airport Rd., California)- 6:30 p.m.
From Russian Writer and Director:
Andrey Zvyagintsev. This film gives a
look into an individuals rights being
taken away by a corrupt local politician and a larger indictment of the
soviet system. (Strong Language - R
Rating.) Introduction by Jim Bershon.
FREE ADMISSION.
Friday, Nov. 13
Hypnotist and Michael Jackson Impersonator Show
Leonardtown High School (23995
Point Lookout Rd., Leonardtown)7:30 p.m.
An auditorium show features award
winning comedy hypnotist Johnny
Peyton, and a Michael Jackson Impersonator. Tickets are on sale at
www.redbrickroadevents.com
for
$10. Prices are $15 at the door. For
more information, call 301-997-0474
or 240-925-2514.
Saturday, Nov. 14
Veterans and Dependents Information Seminar
Lexington Park Volunteer Rescue
Squad (21685 FDR Blvd., Lexington
Park)- 10 a.m. to 5 p.m.
Do you know what benefits you are
due as a veteran of the Armed Forces
of the United States? Do you know
what assistance might be available to
you in your community? Do you just
need help filling out forms for the VA?
National Service Officers will be on
hand to answer your personal questions and assist you with forms. Please
visit the various local community service representative booths. Best of
all this service is free. For further information, please call Miriam Boles at
1-240-298-1744 or 301-994-0848.
Dinner At United Methodist Church
Bethesda United Methodist Church
(St. Georges Church Road, Valley
Lee) - 11 a.m. to 2 p.m.
Pigsfeet, chitterlings and fried chicken dinners will be sold. The menu will
include candied yams, collard greens,
potato salad, corn bread, dessert and
soda. Cost is $18 per dinner, $22 for
two entrees. Eat in or take out.
For more information or to place orders call William Greene at 301-4818264 or 410-610-6130.
United States Colored Troops Memorial Monument Interpretive Center Open House
John G. Lancaster Park (21550 Willows Rd., Lexington Park)- 11 a.m. to
1 p.m.
M
embers of the United States Colored Troops Memorial Monument
will provide a tour of the newly erected Memorial Monument to United
States Colored Troops and all Union
soldiers and sailors from St. Marys
County who served during the Civil
War. Among those honored are three
Medal of Honor recipients, James
Sunday, Nov. 15
American
Legion
Bluegrass
Concerts
American Legion Post #238 (6265
Brandywine Rd, Hughesville)- 2 p.m.
Doors open at noon.
Kick off the season of the American
Legion Bluegrass series presented
by Jay Armsworthy & the Sons of The
American Legion with the upcoming
act Adkins & Loudermilk along with
The James King Band. Admission will
be $20 per person, under 12 admitted
free with a paying adult. Food will be
available for sale before the shows.
For more information, tickets, and directions, go to www.americanlegionbluegrass.com or call 301-737-3004.
Chesapeake Community Chorus
Practice
North Beach Union Church (8912
Chesapeake Ave., North Beach)- 4 to
6 p.m.
The Chesapeake Community Chorus, an all-volunteer chorus that raises
funds for local charities, is looking to
add singers to the chorus. No auditions required. Contact Larry Brown,
Director, at 301-855-7477 or email him
at lbrown9601@verizon.net.
Monday, Nov. 16
Monday Morning Movies and More
Calvert Library Prince Frederick (850
Costley Way, Prince Frederick)- 10 to
11 a.m.
Bring the little ones for a movie and
a story! For more information, call 410535-0291 or 301-855-1862.
Tuesday, Nov. 17
A Website for Deciding Actions in
St. Marys County that Keeps Increasing Our Having a Countywide
BALL (A Better and Longer Life)
Ye Old Town Cafe (22865 Washington
St., Leonardtown) - 11:30 a.m. to 2:30
p.m.
C
ome to the monthly third-Tuesday
luncheon meetings of two 501(c)(3)
non-profits (first the meeting of the
Potomac River Association and then
the meeting of Community Television in St. Marys.) Help the Community-Television non-profit start its own
website plus another website used
only for ongoing dialogues by text
messages (which can contain video
URLs to click on to see videos, such
as YouTube videos.) Help attendees
create their own YouTube videos to
cite. Each dialogue must be on a topic
for deciding actions to keep increasing
the quality of life throughout St.Marys
County during an ever-increasing life
span. Besides the dialogues, an index
of topics also must be maintained on
the website. Contact David Triantos
for Community Television in St. Marys
information mtriantos@erols.com and
contact Dudley Lindsley for PRA information dlindsley@verizon.net.
Wednesday, Nov. 18
Story Time Yoga
Waldorf West Library (10405 ODonnell
Pl., Waldorf)- 10:30 to 11 a.m.
For Ages 3 to 9. Story Book Yoga
brings together two fun activities for
young children: reading and yoga!
Join us for a great stretch workout
and enjoy listening to several animalthemed stories. Children will learn
basic animal-themed yoga poses and
will switch poses as new animals are
discovered during the course of reading the story. For more information,
call 301-645-1395.
Thursday, Nov. 19
Laser Therapy Open House
Southern Maryland Anne Penman Laser Therapy (22530 Washington St.,
Leonardtown)- 4:30 to 7:30 p.m.
Southern Maryland Anne Penman Laser Therapy is holding an
Open House on Thursday, to support the Great American Smokeout
Day. Events include: laser demo and
information on Smoking Cessation,
Weight Loss and Stress Management; mini-education sessions with
Sergina Rodriguez, of Sergina Skin
Care, of Barefoot Wellness; Stacy
Green Holistic, a Certified Nutrition
Consultant, also of Barefoot Wellness;
Carol Boehm, MSN, FNP-BC, Family
Practice, Young Living Essential Oils;
Friday, Nov. 20
Auction
Immaculate Conception Church Hall
(28297 Old Village Ave., Mechanicsville)- 6 p.m.
L
ive auction, Country Store, bake
table, raffles, food table, basket table,
and Christmas table, and lots of fun
and excitement. Quilts, furniture, antiques, picnic tables, gift sets, dinners,
sports memorabilia, collectibles, Afghans, rockers, and many other items
made and donated by the parish community. Auctioneer will be A.J. Bussler.
Food (stuffed ham sandwiches, fried
chicken, hot dogs, potato salad, and
vegetable crab soup) and drinks available. See donated items on www.auctionzip.com. Click on 20659, Search,
click on Nov. 20, then IC Auction. View
Photo Gallery for pictures, which will
be constantly updated. Visa and M/C
accepted. For information, contact
Evelyn Arnold 301-884-4567, Rectory
301-884-3123.
Saturday, Nov. 21
Contra Dance
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C
hrist Episcopal Church Parish Hall
(37497 Zach Fowler Rd., Chaptico)7:30 p.m. Doors open at 7 p.m.
Contra is a traditional American style
of social dance and is a huge amount
of fun (and exercise) for the whole family! If youve ever danced a Virginia Reel
or been to a Square Dance, you have
a good idea how much fun it can be.
If you havent, its about time you tried
it! Beginners are encouraged to arrive
at 7 to get some instruction in the various dances. Admission is $10 for nonSMTMD members; $6 for members
(band members are free.) No special
clothing is required! You need to be
comfortable, to move freely. There will
be an ice cream social following the
dance. For more information and directions go to www.smtmd.org.
Make Bird Feeders to Take Home
Guild Craft Shop (26005 Point Lookout
Rd., Leonardtown)- 11 a.m. to 12:30
p.m.
Chip Whipkey, from Wild Birds Unlimited, will be doing a presentation
about local wildlife in Southern Maryland at the Craft Guild Shop on Saturday, November 21, from 11:00 a.m.
- 12:30 p.m. He will also show children
how to make bird feeders and how to
care for birds in the winter time. The
children can take their feeders home
for their own birds. These feeders are
made out of items available at home,
so they can continue to feed the birds
all winter. For more information, please
call the Craft Guild Shop at 301-9971644. This is a free event.
Sunday, Nov. 22
Chesapeake Community Chorus
Practice
North Beach Union Church (8912
Chesapeake Ave., North Beach)- 4 to
6 p.m.
T
he Chesapeake Community Chorus, an all-volunteer chorus that raises
funds for local charities, is looking to
add singers to the chorus. No auditions required. Contact Larry Brown,
Director, at 301-855-7477 or email him
at lbrown9601@verizon.net.
Monday, Nov. 23
Monday Morning Movies & More
C
alvert Library Prince Frederick (850
Costley Way, Prince Frederick)- 10 to
11 a.m.
Bring the little ones for a movie and
a story! For more information, call 410535-0291 or 301-855-1862.
Writing Talk
Leonardtown Library Meeting Room
(23250 Hollywood Rd, Leonardtown)- 7
p.m.
The St. Marys County Chapter of
The Maryland Writers Association is
sponsoring a talk entitled A Recipe for
Writing Success by cookbook author
Ellynne B. Davis. Join us and you will
learn how to write a recipe for a cookbook, your memoir, or to add spice to
your fiction and nonfiction titles.
301-373-2500
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Thursday, Nov. 12
Press Release
Small Works
Holiday Art Show
p.m. So come on out and peruse the
distinctive works of the Gallerys creative and talented local artists you
might just find that something special
for friends, family, or even for yourself!
Artworks@7th is located at 9100 Bay
Avenue, North Beach, Md. Gallery
Hours are Thursday thru Sunday, 11
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Ruddy Duck (13200 Dowell Rd.,
Dowell) - 8 p.m.
Special Needs Family Fun Night
Calvert Marine Museum (14200
Solomons Island Rd., Solomons)
5 p.m.
Saturday, Nov. 14
Vintage Flea and Farm Market
13215 Edelen Rd., Bryantown 8
a.m.
Craft Fair
Mt. Zion United Methodist Church
(27108 Mt. Zion Church Rd., Mechanicsville) 9 a.m.
Veteran and Military Appreciation Day
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ville) 5 p.m.
Sunday, Nov. 15
American Legion Bluegrass
American Legion (Rt. 231 & Rt.
381) 2 p.m.
Wine and Design
District Volunteer Fire Dept. and
Rescue Squad (45245 Drayden
Rd., Valley Lee) 3 p.m.
Monday, Nov. 16
Pizza and Pint Night
Ruddy Duck (13200 Dowell Rd.,
Dowell) - 4 p.m.
Team Trivia
Ruddy Duck (13200 Dowell Rd.,
Dowell) - 7 p.m.
Tuesday, Nov. 17
Burger and Pint
Ruddy Duck (13200 Dowell Rd.,
Dowell) - 4 p.m.
Team Feud
Ruddy Duck (13200 Dowell Rd.,
Dowell) 6:30 p.m.
Wednesday, Nov. 18
Open Mic Night with Stephen
Nelson
Ruddy Duck (13200 Dowell Rd.,
Dowell) - 6 p.m.
Pizza Night
American Legion Post 206 (Rt.
260, 3330 Chesapeake Ave.,
Chesapeake Beach) 5:30 p.m.
Thursday, Nov. 19
George Dunn
Ruddy Duck (13200 Dowell Rd.,
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By Linda Reno
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Philip Tippett III, grandson of the
immigrant Philip Tippett* and his wife
Mary Suttle, was born about 1730.
About 1757 he married Jane Lee, daughter of John Lee and wife, Mary. On Aug.
1, 1760 Jane gave birth to twin boys, one
they named Erasmus Lee Tippett and the
other Erastus Lee Tippett. In addition
to the twins they also had two daughters, Chloe Lee Tippett and Mary Lee
Tippett.
Prior to 1772 the family packed up
their belongings and moved to Halifax
County, North Carolina where Philip
Tippett III died in 1772. Shortly after
Philips death, Jane married second,
Matthew Cartwright who was also from
St. Marys County and who had moved
to Halifax County about 1760. Matthew
Maryland about 1681 by Rev. John Turling who married Sarah, the widow of
Matthew Cartwright and so the association of the Cartwrights with the Tippetts
began in 1681 and lasted for well over a
100 years. Philip Tippett was one of the
witnesses to the will of Matthew Cartwright in 1689 and Peter Cartwright,
son of Matthew and Sarah (his wife was
Judith Slye) were the grandparents of
Matthew Cartwright who married Jane
(Lee) Tippett.
**Solomon Asbell was a very interesting character. In 1791 he was ordered
into court for profane swearing (he
cursed a neighbors dog). He was fined
five shillings. Solomons mother was
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Warm Weather
By Shelby Opperman
Contributing Writer
It looks like we have a carpet of
leaves in the front yard, and it smells
wonderful; quite a contrast from being in Ocala, Florida this past weekend for a family wedding. All the
trees are green of course in Florida.
And I cant seem to get my body temperature regulated. The temperature
over the weekend ranged from the 80s
to the 90s, and it was soooo humid.
We came home to 50s if not colder at
1 a.m. Tuesday morning.
My husbands nephew married a
beautiful young woman outside of an
American Legion Hall in the middle
of a beautiful park. Oak trees with
Spanish Moss dangled above our
heads and a large pond with fountains was off to our left. The 90 degree heat had really built up by the
time of the afternoon wedding, but
everything went off without a hitch.
Well, at least until our flight home.
I ordered the tickets for my husband
and I with thrift in mind, so I chose
an early morning flight for last Friday
which meant we left the house here at
3 a.m. to leave BWI at 6:25 a.m., and
chose a flight leaving Tampa Bay airport at 7:25 p.m. on Monday. I saved
my husband hundreds of dollars by
doing this. But I was a little worried
how things would go before the Friday flight. You know my husband is
not a morning person, and we were
both a little worried that when we
got to Ocala (an hour and a half from
Tampa) that we would not be able to
get in our hotel room that early. I was
envisioning a grumpy husband, but he
was sweet and laid back. He did keep
asking me, Arent I being good?
We ended up going to a mall near
the hotel so my husband could find
a comfortable pair of shoes. I was
worn out from walking on hard floors
at the airport, so I tried a $5 for 15
minutes massage chair, and then had
my eyebrows threaded. I have a lot of
trouble seeing to pluck now. The massage chair was wonderful and it even
had the compression for my legs. The
threading was great too and only $11.
It is the first time I have had that done.
I felt it hurt a lot less than waxing, and
there was no redness. I might continue with this a few times a year.
The rehearsal night was lots of fun.
My husband has three sisters and the
middle sister made the entire rehearsal dinner of lasagna, spaghetti, ziti,
and salad. Oh my gosh it was good.
Then we hit downtown Ocala for the
immediate family and wedding party
to have fun and get to know each other. The wedding on Saturday was perfect. The bride and her friends did so
many creative things with tea lights to
give the whole evening a warm glow.
Sunday was more family gathering
during the day and later that evening
opening of the presents. If you dont
end up laughing around my husbands
family, you just dont know how to
have fun. We did all get to watch the
Redskins play at a bar predominately
filled with fans for other teams. By
chance, the couple at the next table to
our crazy group was from Waldorf.
They came prepared with Redskins
shirts. Obviously none of that helped,
but we cheered them on to the bitter
end.
Monday was a pouring rain day in
Florida, all day. I kind of wanted to
see gators again like we did quite a
few years ago, but then I remembered
having to take a quick potty break in
some bushes that time in a park full
of lakes, and hearing the growl of a
gator somewhere very close. I am sure
that is the fastest I have ever moved
in my life. We headed off to the airport early in the afternoon figuring
we would eat there. Shulas Bar and
Grille is where we ended up, and the
food was excellent. The Key Lime pie
was amazing. I knew there was a good
chance of walking off calories in both
Tampa and at BWI. Boy, was I right.
Our plane was on time in Tampa, but
had to circle BWI for quite a while,
maybe because of the weather or the
security issues. The baggage was late
and there was some confusion for all
of us where it was coming out. We
knew at that point that getting home
by 11:30 p.m. was not going to happen. When we finally picked up our
car and headed to the exit to pay, there
was a slight problem at the automated
checkout. The machine took my husbands credit card, ate it and wouldnt
give it back, so we had to wait for
help. All was resolved and we drove
home in Marylands pouring rain to
see our Tidbit.
I am sure that traveling is supposed
to be fun, but it always seems stressful to me. I think I should have ordered a second Key Lime pie to go.
just for medicinal purposes of course.
To each new days adventure,
Shelby
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to:
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Yes
Means Yes
By Laura Joyce
Contributing Writer
A week or two ago, in a courtroom in
Concord, New Hampshire, Owen Labrie
was sentenced to a year in jail, five years
probation, and up to the rest of his life on the
registered sex offenders list. You may have
read about this case: 18-year-old Labrie, a
graduating senior at the exclusive St. Pauls
prep school in New England, engaged in a
sexual encounter with a 15-year-old freshman at the school.
While Labrie was acquitted of the most
serious charges, including 3 counts of rape,
he was convicted of several misdemeanor
charges and one felonyusing a computer
to lure a minor. Some find the felony conviction troubling, as the law was intended to
punish adult predators who troll Internet chat
rooms, looking for child and adolescent victims to groom and molest. What Labrie did
was what virtually every other teen was
and still isdoing, conducting much of his
life via text messages, Snapchat, Instagram
and the rest.
As the mother of young adults, I followed
this case closely: by all outward appearances, Labrie was a son any parent would be
proud of: smart, athletic, gifted with leadership abilities, and committed to his education. He even received a full-ride scholarship
to Harvard to study religion. At first glance,
you couldnt ask for a better defendant.
Some of the details made it easier to believe that this was a case of morning-after
regret: the girl told a nurse that the sex was
consensual, and she exchanged flirtatious
and affectionate emails and text messages
with Labrie the day after the encounter. He
was, she said, Quite an angel. It wasnt
until the girls parents were involved, once
the story spread on campuswith the girls
reputation presumably and unfortunately in
tatters, while Labries reputation, of course,
was only enhanced, at least initially, before
more facts emergedthat the victim began
to tell others that she said No. She began
to publicly define was took place as a sexual
assault.
It seems so understandable on the surface
of things: her parents got involved, her peers
began judging her and calling her hurtful
and hateful names, and she found herself
backed into a corner, one from which she has
been unable to escape.
And yet. And yetshe had abrasions that
suggested some degree of force. And shortly
after the encounter, the girl told a friend that
she thought she might have been raped.
Its not uncommon for a teen to be more honest and open with a peer than with an adult,
especially if that adult is part of an authority
system that might punish her in some way.
She has had recurring nightmares and flashbacks, and describes the time after the encounter with Labrie as so dark and so scary,
so emotionally overwhelming, that she
wished she was dead. Anyone hearing her
testimony would be hard-pressed to discount
her genuine emotion and the impact of this
event on her. Admittedly, that could be about
the social impact, the personal consequences, of engaging in poorly-considered sex and
then regretting itbut it could also be about
being forced into sex she didnt wantrape,
in other words.
Setting aside what may have changed or
clarified the young womans perception of
what took place, there is Labrie himself
that perfect defendantto consider. He
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repeatedly referred to himself as the Slaymaker (a campus term indicating not only
his affinity for romantic encounters, but
his attitude toward those conquests). His approach to girls, he wrote, was to feign intimacy and then stab them in the back and
THROW THEM IN THE DUMPSTER.
(his emphasis)
I lie in bed with them, he continued,
Pretending Im in love.
Theres plenty more, but its just plenty
more of the same: derision toward, disregard
for, dismissal of the girls he hooked up
with. Example: he reportedly bit and spit on
the victim. I cant see the point in going on
and enumerating Labries romantic habits;
its just too depressing, too heartbreaking, to
waste words on.
Juries often take a preliminary vote when
they begin deliberations, just to see where
everyone stands. I can imagine this jury
agreeing that the he said-she said aspects of
this case were going to require long and careful consideration. I can also imagine them
unanimously concluding that whether Labrie
was a rapist or not (they decided he wasnt),
hes a jerk of the worst sort, and a young man
with zero regard for women.
Testifying against Labrie, one of his
friends acknowledged that all of the boys
talked the way Labrie did; it was just the
culture, he said. As disgusting as this culture
is, I dont think an 18-year-old boy should
be penalized for life for being a jerk. On the
other hand, an 18-year-old man bears significant responsibility for the choices he makes,
including the choice to be a jerk. When the
larger culture around that young man encourages this, rewarding men for degrading
women, the result is a perfect storm, from
which no one emerges unscathed.
I dont know what happened that night.
Only two people truly know, and their stories are vastly different. Its not only possible,
but likely, that both Labrie and the victim are
telling the truth about their experience
and that is the place where an opportunity
for change exists. She says she told Labrie
No. He says she didnt. I believe that she
felt no and meant no, and I believe he
didnt take it seriously, however she communicated it. Perception is tricky. For some
time now, young men and women have been
urged to consider consent through a lens of
No Means Noand certainly, if someone
says no, that should be the end of the matter.
However, there is much to be misinterpreted,
much room for perceptual differences, in a
muttered or whispered or merely felt No
from one person to another.
With a Yes Means Yes approach
where only a clear affirmative means consentit is possible that this sad, even tragic
encounter would have gone in a very different direction. Perhaps this seems to take all
the romance out of things (Would you like
me to do this? he asks. Yes, she responds)
but let me tell you a few other things that
take all the romance out of things: a rape, a
rape accusation, a lifetime of flashbacks and
nightmares, a lifetime on the sex offenders
registry. Neither of these young people came
out of this perfect storm intact: whatever
happened, whatever the objective truth, if
a Yes might have avoided this, surely its
worth that one awkward moment of question
asked, question answered.
I love hearing from you; feel free to email
me at thewordtech@md.metrocast.net
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