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Nearly 20 years ago, Mary Gordon created a program to bring
moms and babies into school classrooms. How empathy can
create kinder kids, better adults, and a more equitable society
by Blair Mlotek
Mary Gordon believes in the power of empathy. It
can, she says, stop patterns of abuse, draw the curtain on generational
cruelty, and create kinder, better worldsespecially if we instill its
importance at a young age. Thats why, in 1996, the former teacher,
as well as creator of the first Toronto District School Board daycare
for teen parents in Toronto, created Roots of Empathy. Her goal: To
rid communities of cruelty through teaching children empathy at a
young age. Today, volunteers run 2,477 programs in Canadaand
worldwide more than 2,000 volunteers have expanded the program to
10 countries. An independent program, Roots of Empathy is designed
to fit into any schools curriculum, and in a variety of subjects: using
graphs to facilitate math lessons, for example, or literature to work
with language arts.
The programs approach to teaching empathy is uniquely creative.
Far from what we see in traditional learning, Roots of Empathy facilitates interaction between students, a baby, and the babys parents. The
idea is to encourage children to see the perspective of other children:
what the babys needs are and how the mother responds to them. This
is the beginning of understanding empathywhat others are feeling, how to feel with them, and then how to treat them accordingly.
Gordon doesnt, in fact, like to use the term empathy teaching, and
prefers empathy reaching. Although shes fought to get her program
in schools, she maintains empathy isnt something that can be formally
taught; it must be caught.
Students, for instance, must imagine themselves making various
decisions for the baby. When faced with a problem as simple as what
diaper to buy, they are pushed to think: What does this mean for the
baby? What does this mean for the parent? What does this mean for
the environment? The idea here is to help them understand emotional literacyhow to explain what they are feeling. Once they know
how to do this, the theory goes, they can compassionately understand
22 THIS.ORG|November/December 2015