The Freedom Paradigm

A co-creation by Lisa and Stace

Published by:
Friday Hut Productions
PO Box 598,
Bangalow NSW 2479
ABN 28771775144

info@fridayhutproductions.com


http://www.thefreedomparadigm.com

Copyright 2014 Friday Hut Productions

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ISBN: 978-0-646-91824-2

Authority is NOT truth

The truth is, that TRUTH is the authority
And that exists in the human heart
Come back to your TRUTH

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FOREWORD
This book began with the notes from my own personal
journal that recorded the journey I took to reclaim my
emotional world a journey that Stace lovingly and
patiently guided and mentored me through over the last 10
years. By consistently working this process I have
discovered that there is no limit to the freedom, intimacy
and connection I can experience in my life. As The
Freedom Paradigm unfolded, some parts were written in
the first person, taken directly from my own real life
experiences. Stace brought into each phrase, his own
personal gifts of communication, so there is no place where
his part ends and mine begins, or vice versa. Without us
both, every word on each page would not be as it is.
The Freedom Paradigm is a way of living. When studied
and put into practice it brings about miraculous results
results we have seen both in our own lives and the lives of
many others we have had the privilege to work with and get
to know over the years. It is a tool to connect the dots from
where we are now to a place of greater harmony, joy,
contentment and understanding.
Our authentic self expresses emotion (energy in motion) all
the time, yet because we predominantly attempt to address
our emotional world through our minds or our spiritual
practice, the integration and maturing of this emotional
world is hindered. The dynamics of our relationships, at a
deep foundational level, reflect this and often do not serve
any of us in a healthy way. We may experience a sense of
things not being right, but do not realize there is another
way to be in relationship. The Freedom Paradigm supports
us to flip these dynamics over, through addressing and
reclaiming our emotional world. Our reward? An expanding


sense of freedom and relief on a more permanent basis in
every area of our lives!
Section One explains the prevalent dynamics of relationship
within our internal and external worlds, shining a light on
the underlying motives that make these particular dynamics
so common. It then introduces an alternative: opening up
new paradigms, which we can experience in many of our
relationships. Using real life scenarios and comparing the
two alternatives helps us to understand how situations can
be flipped from one dynamic to another.
In Section Two are the pragmatic actions we can take to
address our emotional world and transform the dynamics of
our relationships - creating freedom in our life as a more
permanent living experience. We are not just our mental
constructions so knowing how to do something does not
necessarily mean we can put it into practice and create a
desired outcome - if it did, many of us would not be
experiencing the repetition of patterns in our relationships
that create discomfort and feelings of powerlessness.
Knowledge is knowing the fact, which is in the mind and
wisdom is knowing how to apply the fact which is in the
heart - when we connect these two we can be at peace with
ourselves and the world around us. The foundation of
addressing our emotional world works more effectively
when addressed from our heart space. When necessary we
use the other faculties of our spiritual, physical and mental
paradigms as a springboard to assist and help to process
and free up our emotional world this allows us to
continue expanding our awareness and the richness of our
experiences with others and the world around us. We
become love in action in many more areas of our lives.
In reclaiming our emotional world we come to experience
an awakening of our hearts and the total interconnection
this creates within the body, mind, spirit and soul. Our lives
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and relationships become an expanding experience that

open up increasing levels of our being.
The Freedom Paradigm is a blueprint for creating richer
and more authentic connections. If we are willing to let go
of what we think we know and take action, then a far
greater intimacy opens up and as we journey further into
our emotional world, we experience a deeper sense of
purpose and fulfillment, bringing about a more natural state
of ease and grace in our lives.