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Why I Had to Go
Through My Pain
The Boss
by Bo Sanchez
ou probably know my story.My past was bad. I got abused as a child and I fell into all
sorts of addictions.I fell into sin and couldnt get out.For many long years, I got really
broken.I was ruled by shame and insecurities.I was so messed up.
But I thank God I went through that because I understand the sinner who seeks
God.Because of what I went through, my life and my mission is completely fixated
onwelcoming every kind of sinner in this world.
Heres what I noticed: Religious leaders who have been broken accept broken people.This
is one of the reasons why we accept anyone in the Light of Jesus Family adulterers, thieves,
prostitutes, drug addicts, alcoholics, gamblers, perverts.(Theyre all sinners like me!)
Let me declare this from the rooftops: My little community is 100 percent for the
unchurched.
Heres an insight from another preacher named Steven Furtick.If you found Jesus just
last week at The Feast(thats what we call our prayer meeting), then that was the last time this
community was for you.After you found Jesus, The Feastis no longer for you.Youre no longer
my target. Youre no longer my market.Youre no longer my audience.Youre no longer my
customer.You should be my coworker now!
Let me share with you a powerful story
When I was in Sydney, I heard Joyce Meyer share the moving story of her life.
As a child, Joyce was sexually abused by her own father. Because it was a pattern and
would happen at specific days of the week, Joyce knows how many times he abused her
her father molested her for more than 200 times. And sadly, her mother let him.
Joyce grew up from that horrible past, gave her life to Jesus, and went on to preach
the Gospel.And God asked her to forgive her father which she did. Twice, she mustered
courage and told her father that she forgave him but in both times, he denied ever doing
anything wrong.
But one day, God asked her to follow the Bible when it says, If your enemy is hungry, feed
him;if he is thirsty, give him something to drink(Romans 12:20).
Her parents lived far from the city and they were growing old. That was when God
spoke to her heart, Buy a house for them in the city near you, so you can take care
of them. She couldnt believe what she heard.But she obeyed.She bought a nice
house for them and cared for them.
For 30 years, her father never said Im sorry to Joyce.One day, three years after
they moved into their new house, her mother called up and said, Can you visit your
dad?He has been crying nonstop every day for three weeks.So Joyce visited him.And
this is what her father said, For the past three years, Ive been wanting to say this to
you.Im sorry.Im sorry for what I did to you when you were a child.I didnt know it was
going to do so much harm. Joyce learned that her fathers family was incestuous.Its true
that hurting people hurt people.
The next Sunday, Joyce brought him to church and he gave his life to Jesus.Joyce said
she thought she was buying a house. Actually, she was buying a soul.
Growing up, Joyce went through horrific pain a pain that God never intended her to
have.But it was a pain that shaped her in a way that made her stronger, better and wiser.
Today, Joyce Meyer is being used by God to heal thousands of broken women who have
also been abused.
What pain have you gone through? I believe that your purpose is connected to your
pain.
Remember nothing just happens.
May your dreams come true,
Mailroom
Jen
Ilocos Sur
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Testimony
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May the Lord help us in our daily struggle, but not for
ourselves; the struggle is for the service, because you
are men and women on duty; whose duty is to render a
service to society, a service to others, a service to make
goodness grow in the world.
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New You
Tips for Personal Development
Blessed Teresa of Calcutta once said, Charity and love are the same with charity you give
love, so dont just give money but reach out your hand instead. And since its the time of
the year where heart-shaped crafts surround us once again, why dont we give some love by
volunteering to community services, outreach programs and parish activities? Here are some
benefits of volunteerism:
1) New friendships. Volunteering opens you to many friendship opportunities. You meet
people with the same passion and interest as you do. Why exhaust your energy getting
sentimental this Valentine month if you can use it to help and meet others?
2) A happier heart. As a volunteer, one cultivates an increased sense of empathy and a
positive shift of priorities. A study from the London School of Economics revealed that
such changes improve a persons happiness by seven percent. As American author Mark
Twain remarked, The best way to cheer yourself is to try to cheer someone else up.
3) A life with significance. To live a successful life is one thing; to live a significant life is
another. By reaching out to help, especially those who need your presence, skills and
time the most, you are setting an example on how to live meaningfully. The love you
share to others, in whatever way, can empower, impact and influence their lives big time.
And that goes on forever.
Gather your family and friends now and plan your volunteer activity. Its definitely one of the
best ways to celebrate the love month!
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1) Practice the 30-day rule. Its one of the most unpopular but
very essential rules in finance. When you have an urge to buy
something, hold the desire for 30 days. During the waiting
period, youll be able to weigh if such purchase is really
necessary.
2) Know the essentials. This isnt only for the shopping list and
house expenses, but more importantly in our relationships.
Instead of spending a lot of money to buy expensive stuff
for the kids or throwing big parties, remember that nothing
compares to the time you spend with the people you love.
Its good to give gifts and hang out once in a while, but keep in
mind that we cannot base the quality of our relationships on
the amount of money we dish out to offset whats really asked
of us our presence.
3) Go for water. While most people opt to have soda and coffee
when eating out, water is still the best resource to combat
dehydration and to cleanse our body. You will not only save
your body from illnesses, youll also cut back your meal
expense.
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Real Stuff
Three
Political
Hopefuls
You Should
Not Vote
While commercial
centers primp their
places with Valentine
decorations, the entire
archipelago is teeming
with election posters,
color-coded banners, and
big tarpaulins. Campaign
season, as always,
proves to be a rowdy and
dramatic period.
With all the charges
and counter-charges, debates and public appearances, suggested
accusations and implied emotional appeals that bombard us
every day, here are some helpful guides in discerning whom to
entrust your vote.
Lets simplify our decision-making with this list and be
vigilant enough not to let anyone with the following traits take a
seat in public office:
1. Someone who is biased and gets swayed easily. A leader
should know how to keep an open mind and listen to what
reliable sources have to say. His or her decisions should not
be driven by personal views and interest but by impartial
causes. Further, he or she must be able to stand firm for the
publics welfare and not move as dictated by political allies.
2. Someone who loves to play the blame game. Our nation deserves
accountable leaders. With the power that comes in our vote, its time
to stop hearing the endless attacks that traditional politicians throw
against each other. We can and should put people who will use their
time in solving the problems, not on highlighting the ineffectiveness of
their opponents without actually doing something to help.
3. Someone who gives more value to politics than morals. While the
nation calls out for competent, results-oriented, and charismatic leaders,
may we not forget that honesty, respect for others and for human
life, and integrity should have more value. If someone running for a
government post can set aside his or her morals for political ambitions,
be warned. We need more people of character. Its alarming to entrust
Saints-at-a-Glance
St. Barbatus of Benevento
Born and Died: 610, Italy 682, Benevento, Italy
Feast Day: February 19
Barbatus was born in Italy and was ordained as priest in Marcona. He drew people
in by his zealous preaching. When he was sent to Benevento, he converted many
pagan worshipers to Catholicism. In 663, the city was besieged by Byzantine Emperor
Constans. Barbatus prophesied and assured the people that the violence would stop.
It happened just as he declared, and soon he was conferred as bishop of the city. He
died on February 29 and is now known as the patron saint of Benevento.
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Dear Jessa,
Im glad that youre seeking help regarding your struggle. Youre so young
and you have so many things to look forward to especially in the area of
relationships.
My advice for you wont be easy, but I assure you that if you follow it, you
will be set free from this sin. Jesus said in Matthew 5:29-30, So if your eye even
your good eye causes you to lust, gouge it out and throw it away. It is better for
you to lose one part of your body than for your whole body to be thrown into
hell. And if your hand even your stronger hand causes you to sin, cut it off
and throw it away. It is better for you to lose one part of your body than for your
whole body to be thrown into hell.
The only sure way you can break away from this sin is to break up with
your boyfriend and cut your ties with him. I give you this advice because youre
still young and have many more things you should be busy about than being
in a relationship especially a sexual one. Pour your energies into loving the
Lord, studying well, making lots of friends, learning new skills, having hobbies
and volunteering for worthy causes. This will expand your world and make you
a better person so that when the time is ripe and God brings the right man into
your life, you would be the right woman for him too.
Praying for you,
Rissa
Jessa
Rissa Singson Kawpeng has been proclaiming Gods Word
through radio, TV and print media for over two decades.
She has served extensively in youth and singles ministries
and is an inspiration to many in living godly lives.
Rissa has written five books, the latest of which is
Audience of One. Visit www.kerygmabooks.com for orders.
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Dear K
1. Why do we have images? God prohibited in the first of the Ten Commandments
to worship them. In other words, He prohibits idolatry, replacing Him with idols.
But He did not prohibit making images in general. In Exodus 25, God told Moses to
fashion the images of two cherubims and place them on the Ark of the Covenant.
In Numbers 21, God told Moses to make a bronze serpent to be looked at for
healing. So, it is very much OK with God to have images.
Also, we keep photos of our loved ones to remind us of them and feel close to
them. Who could be closer to us and more loved than the Mother of Jesus and the
saints who are in heaven?
2. Why does God allow pain and suffering? This is a great mystery. Even St. John
Paul II struggled with this problem in his 1984 Apostolic Letter Salvifici Dolores
(On the Christian Meaning of Human Suffering). That why question goes back to
thousands of years ago. It was asked in the Old Testament by Job and the writers
of the Psalms. Why do bad things happen to good people? Even the innocent
Son of God asked this question when He was hanging on the Cross, My God, My
God, why have You forsaken me? If you ask me or any other person the question
why? the only answer I can honestly give consists of four words I do not
know. I dont have Gods mind. First Corinthians 13:12 says, Now we see things
imperfectly, like puzzling reflections in a mirror, but then we will see everything
with perfect clarity. All that I know now is partial and incomplete, but then I will
know everything completely, just as God now knows me completely.
I hope these answers help you to answer your Jehovas
Witnesses friends. You can call me through Shepherds
Voice if you want some more help.
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Conception Parish in Cubao. It was where he came in contact with the still young Light of Jesus Family.
In 1990, he moved to Christ the King Mission Seminary, where he now serves as head spiritual director
of the seminarians and teaches Religious Education. He also teaches Holy Scriptures at the Maryhill
School of Theology and the Divine Word School of Theology in Tagaytay.
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It Happened
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True Love Heals
By Geraldine Samson
as told to Marjorie Duterte
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Glass Half-Empty
I was born to a prominent couple in
Baguio. My dad was a dentist and my
mom, a professor. Baguio was just a
small town. Everyone knew everybody.
Growing up, I imbibed other peoples fear,
Ano na lang ang sasabihin ng mga tao?
(What would people say?)
My parents were already having
trouble in their marriage even before
my four other siblings were born. There
were times when my mom would ask me
where my dad and I went. At six years old,
I didnt know that it was the place where
the girlfriend of my dad was. Next thing
I knew was that they would be fighting
behind closed doors. My dad would yell
and my mom would cry. I figured it was
something I said. I ended up blaming
myself and consequently watching
what I had to say. I didnt know that I was
touching on issues that werent mine.
We were brought up with a lot of
criticisms. There was always something
missing in us. My mom and other aunts
were also raised that way. Although they
were coming from good intentions, the
distorted thinking was that if you were
praised, your head might swell. We
werent taught to appreciate ourselves.
Geraldine believes that life is beautiful, that everything is a gift, and that nature reflects
Gods goodness and beauty.
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Burning Inside
I had psoriasis due to a lot of stress
in the marriage. My immune system
went down. In 2011, I had StevensJohnson syndrome, a rare lifethreatening skin condition. Only two
to six people out of a million get it. I
was taking supplements and I didnt
know I was allergic to some of its
ingredients.
Photo below: Geraldine with fellow Filipino metacoaches. Meta-coaching helped Geraldine break free
from her negative mental programming adapted
from her childhood. As a licensed meta-coach, she
now helps others overcome their limiting beliefs too.
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Introduction
In Lolo
Kikos
Words
Marvel AT
Pope Francis
Teachings:
the joy of the gospel
care for the
environment
communicatE
AND RELATE
By Bo Sanchez
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TO CHRIST
WITH A LONG FACE
Pope Francis
Evangelii Gaudium
(Joy of the Gospel)
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Testimonial
a kiss from
heaven
By Elinore Malibiran
n November 2014, my 14-year-old daughter a child with special needs and multiple
disabilities was diagnosed to have hyponatremia. It is a life-threatening condition
which may lead to coma if left untreated. This is in addition to her battle against
progressive leukemia.
With fear and sadness that I might lose her, I went down on my knees and prayed
like I never prayed before. I was in deep sorrow just like when I lost my husband to an
accident 12 years ago.
I held on to faith as my only hope. Through all the years that Ive been a widow
and single parent to my two children, my faith never wavered. Instead, the trials and
tribulations made me stronger. I believe that God is my partner and He will never fail and
leave me.
It is for this reason that I looked forward to Pope Francis visit to the country in
January 2015. I promised myself that I would bring my children along his route because
just the sight of him would already be a blessing.
Silver Lining
On the day of his arrival in Manila, my friends and I waited on a roadside for several
hours. It paid off when Pope Francis passed us by and waved at us directly. It was enough
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If Not
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Wisdom from Pope
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Will We
Ever
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Pope Francis
Principles
That Will
Make You
Unfollow Him
(If Not Admire Him More)
By Maymay R. Salvosa
1. Media as a Bridge
When I was still working in a company in the Makati Central
Business District, Id always take the train from north to south.
From afar, one could already see the high-rise condominiums
and state-of-the-art buildings towering over the entire metro. But
as the train drew closer, the picture around the proud structures
became clearer: beggars lay asleep on the streets, roughly built
huts were scattered behind the great walls, barefooted children
roamed and played within the vicinity. Suddenly, the grand
business district lost its splendor. The truth revealed itself in the
face of our poverty-stricken citizens. Sad to say, many people
refuse to see, show and even acknowledge it.
Pope Francis noted in his message for World
Communications Day 2014: On the global level we see a
scandalous gap between the opulence of the wealthy and
the utter destitution of the poor. Often we need only walk the
streets of a city to see the contrast between people living on
the street and the brilliant lights of the store windows. We have
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My Heart for
Teaching
y interest in entrepreneurial
education is beyond professional
its intensely personal. Its a
passion. An effective teacher
always teaches from the overflow
of life.
There are two principles I live by: (1) I
aspire to inspire before I expire. (Students
must be engrossed in the lessons and enjoy
it rather than endure it); and (2) The teacher
appears when the student is ready. (Im a
tormentor before I become the mentor.)
Teaching is not talking; its learning.
Learning is not taking an exam but
taking the applications.
I need to continue growing to be able to see
the lives of my students prosper as God
intends. Growth requires a certain attitude
the attitude that I have not yet arrived.
To put it in another way, As long as I live, I
learn, and as long as I learn, I live.
Effective teaching comes only through
a changed journey. The more you change,
the more you become an instrument of
change in the lives of others. Some of the
most exciting and fulfilled people Ive met
are the older people who have decided not
to stop learning.
It is because of this inner desire to
become an instrument of change to others
that I formed the Leadmore mentors.
I envision a group of Angelpreneurs
(entrepreneurs with an angels heart to
teach/share), mostly from Asian Institute of
Management (AIM), to design, develop and
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Heart
went on an eating frenzy: lechon, dinuguan, kare-kare, crispy pata, etc. Name
anything Filipino and unhealthy, it was there. I had the time of my life watching her
eat. I just cherished the moment of being with her. I thought to myself, Im definitely
in love. Until we got home.
She started complaining of severe headache. Then she vomited. Everything
she ate literally went out, including the most recent red ibuprofen pill she took.
After checking on her and seeing she was OK, I looked at the mess. I had two
choices: either to clean it up or ask our ever-faithful house helper to do it. After
much thought, I decided to do the first. Honestly, my initial reaction was, Eewww!
But on my second scoop, I came to realize that love, indeed, isnt magic at all. Love
means dirty hands.
By Boggs Burbos
Beyond Emotions
Love is a decision. You decide every moment to love. You dont give up
just because the magic isnt there anymore. You decide to love despite the
imperfections that you see. You decide to love even if you start to notice that other
women (or men) are younger, leaner, more good-looking, more romantic than
your chosen partner. You decide to stick it out through thick and thin, through
abundance or measly incomes, through restful or sleepless nights. You say I love
you even if you know its become corny. You do crazy things no ordinary people
do (like saying sorry or admitting mistakes even if you were not caught, or
volunteering to take care of the baby even if its not your turn).
Consider this quote from Dr. Scott M. Peck, author of The Road Less Travelled:
Love is not a feeling. Love is an action, an activity.... Genuine love implies
commitment and the exercise of wisdom... Love is the will to extend oneself for the
purpose of nurturing ones own or anothers spiritual growth. True love is an act of
will that often transcends ephemeral feelings of love or cathexis. It is correct to say,
Love is as love does.
Because love is a decision, love is not just based on the heart. Love is based on
the mind. You grind out love every day. You decide on love every day.
And heres the most wonderful mystery of all: As you choose to love every day,
the magic returns and remains. Every touch, every embrace, every kiss becomes
more meaningful, more kilig because you have decided to love.
I should know. Just yesterday, I decided to love. Again.
Ariel Boggs Burbos is the builder of Feast Dasmarias in Cavite. Email him at boggsburbos@
yahoo.com.
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A GIFT
WORTH
THE
WAIT
Positive!
Sometime in 2005, we sent a letter to Our Lady of Lourdes in
France via snail mail through the suggestion of Fr. Reuter. Our
Gods Gift
My pregnancy was high-risk. I
had to see my OB every week
for monitoring. I was diagnosed
with APAS (Antiphospholipid
Antibody Syndrome) so I had to
inject heparin (a blood thinner)
under the skin of my abdomen.
I was also diagnosed
with placenta previa totalis, a
condition wherein the placenta
blocks the cervix. If I went into
labor and my baby would push,
I could experience profuse
bleeding. Because of this, I couldnt risk carrying our child to fullterm. We scheduled the C-section on September 8, Mama Marys
birthday.
A week before the schedule, I experienced bleeding. My OB
instructed me to check myself into the hospital. The C-section was
booked on the following day.
And our most-awaited child finally came out.
But our joy was short-lived. Our baby had difficulty breathing
when he was born, so he was sent straight to the Neonatal ICU.
Since he was premature, his lungs had not yet fully developed. He
stayed in the NICU for 10 days.
Our son, Matthew, whose name means gift from God, was
born on September 2, the first Saturday of September, 10 years
and a day after our 10th wedding anniversary.
He is now nine years old and is in fourth grade at the Ateneo.
He gives us happiness beyond our imagination and is growing up
to be a kindhearted and prayerful person.
In our journey to parenthood, there were many tears,
frustrations and hurts but they paled in comparison to what we
received in the end a precious gift worth the wait.
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