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How to Get Results with


the Law of Attraction
Frequently Asked Questions
1st Edition
by Sonia M. Miller, BBA, MSW
Published by
ALMA Publishing, Inc.
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Copyright 2007 by Sonia M. Miller.
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Disclaimer
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make no representation or warranties with respect to the accuracy,
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Therefore, if you wish to apply ideas contained in this report, you are taking
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Every effort has been made to accurately represent this product and its
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Results are entirely dependent on the person using our product, ideas and
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Contents
Disclaimer............................................................................. - 3
Contents............................................................................... - 4
Introduction .......................................................................... - 5
Visualization.......................................................................... - 7
Identifying What You Want .....................................................- 10
Financial Freedom & Money ....................................................- 14
Manifesting Dream Job or Life Purpose .....................................- 20
Family Relationships: Manifesting Cooperation & Harmony..........- 26
Resistance & Other Obstacles .................................................- 29
Raising Your Vibration ...........................................................- 33
Success Stories ....................................................................- 41
More Success Stories.............................................................- 43
Next Steps ...........................................................................- 45

Lesson Index
Lesson
Lesson
Lesson
Lesson

1 ..................................................................... 7, 9, 17, 37
2 ....................................................................... 20, 24, 29
3 .............................................................................29, 38
4 .................................................................................. 33

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Introduction
In the winter of 2007, I taught an internet class called How to Harness the
Power of Metaphysics to Create the Life You Desire! More than thirty
participants received weekly lessons, did homework, and exchanged
questions on an online group forum. The opportunity to get questions
answered during their course of study was fundamental to the success
experienced by the students.
Since then that internet course has evolved into the home study program
How to Get Results with the Law of Attraction. In the process of retooling
the curriculum for do-it-yourselfers, I sought a way to provide the same
benefit of clarification when questions arise. So, I created a special report
which would capture some of the most common inquiries. But, what started
out as a small course addendum has become an ever-expanding resource for
Law of Attraction students. Within these pages you will find questions,
answers and online forum excerpts not only from the internet class, but from
my advice column as well. As time and resources allow, I look forward to
expanding on this first edition.
The following information is organized by topic so that you can explore any
subject of interest. Some entries are in the form of extended conversations
on a particular topic. All identifying information has been changed to protect
confidentiality.
If you have received this report as part of the home study program How to
Get Results with the Law of Attraction, youll find specific lesson-related
questions and answers indexed in the table of contents. Home study
students will notice that there are fewer and fewer questions regarding the
lessons as the curriculum progresses. This is because when the internet
class participants began to practice and integrate the concepts, our online
discussions evolved from asking questions to sharing successes. Youll find

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success stories about healing a nine-year eczema affliction, increasing


business, and finding a dream job. Additional success stories can be found at
the end of the report, as well.
(If you have received this special report independent of the home study
program, you will likely find some of the lesson-related questions difficult to
understand. This is the case with only a few of the questions that reference
home study assignments. Apart from these exceptions, the rest of the report
should be self-explanatory.)
As a metaphysical life coach and counselor I have the great pleasure of
fielding a steady stream of questions -- from my clients, from my students
and from my e-zine subscribers. This is truly a pleasure because I love all
things related to energy and metaphysics. And each time I answer a
question, I activate the principles within my own consciousness and life in
deeper and more profound ways. One day I thought, How great would it be
to put these questions and answers in one easy-access place? And so it is
within this context that I offer you this resource. May you find answers to
your own questions and deepen your awareness of yourself as an infinite
creative being!
Choose Your Reality!

Sonia M. Miller, BBA, MSW


The Voice of Your Soul

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Visualization

Question (Lesson 1)
Im not exactly sure what my dream is. How do I visualize something if I
dont have clarity?
Answer
As Carole Dor, visualization expert teaches, The feeling gets the blessing.
Hence, it is more important that you identify how you want to feel than what
the dream looks like. That is why the practice assignment of repeating the
mantra "I am willing to feel good under all conditions" is so important.
Ultimately, the reason you want your dream is because of how you think it
will make you feel. Regardless of whether or not you have clarity, always
remember: Focus on the essence and the form will come.

Question (Lesson 1)
Now that Im visualizing and raising my vibration, what now? What's next?
What else should I be doing?

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Answer
When you start to practice techniques to align your intention and vibration
with your desire there are two things that could happen:
1) The Universe will send you leads.
Some of you have already experienced this an available gentleman at
the Seder dinner, an invitation to write, a dose of inspiration to act on
your desire. This is good, this is how it works! It means you're aligning
your vibration with your desire. When the Universe sends you leads,
your job is to act on them and see where they take you. The lead may
take you to another lead, or it may not pan out. No matter. Just keep
acting on the leads. The leads are always part of the process. The
leads will:

Help give you clarity about what you want or don't want,

OR help build a bridge to your ultimate goal,

OR bring to the surface any obstacles in your consciousness that


you need to move through in order to allow into your life your
ultimate goal.

2) The other thing that might happen once you begin activating
the vibration of your desire is that resistance may surface.
Resistance can be obvious and it can be hidden. It can be emotional,
mental, spiritual, or psychological. Just keep noticing your thoughts
and feelings. Practice being awake to the emotional and mental
reactions that arise in relationship to your dream.

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Question (Lesson 1)
When I identify what I want, how specific should I get?
Answer
Theres a subtle but important balance to be struck between having a
vision and becoming attached. Ive noticed that several people have
phrased their goals like this: Id like to be, have and do this, so that I can
feel, have and be that. Be careful about the conditions you place on your
dreams. Your job is to focus on the what (the end result), the Universe takes
care of the how (how it happens). It is very common to get caught up in the
details (how it is going to happen). This pulls your creative energy off track.

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Identifying What You Want

Question
I feel a bit odd about my dream because I love my family/friends and home
and feel like I am really in touch with my purpose. Where my dream comes
in is with my body. My second child is now 13 months and I have yet to
release 10 pounds. It has been since June that I have been exercising on
average 2 times per week and eating healthy. My holistic practitioner has
shared with me that she understands this to be "mental" for me. Despite all
the knowledge and training that I have, I am challenged to see what is
possible really for me. I feel like I need a breakthrough here and would love
any insights.
My dream is to honor my biological hunger and love my body so that I feel
free and joyous in my own skin! My intention is to lose 10 pounds. Im
embarrassed that this is such a big deal for me, but it is. My friend says that
Im a powerful, beautiful woman and that I should look deeper get to the
real issues. What does this mean?
Answer
From a metaphysical standpoint, I would encourage you to write down all the
things that you think you will feel when/if you lose the 10lbs. That list is
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that end result, then the shifts in consciousness that are necessary will reveal
themselves. The weight thing is a symptom of a deeper disempowering
consciousness. Dont worry too much about this now.

Question
Sonia - I was hoping to get your coaching on my latest breakthrough. I
spoke with Alice today and she helped me to see this pattern I have of being
very hard on myself. The words I used to describe myself today was that I
am so (*&%$-ing) irresponsible. Alice helped me see that no one views me
as that except for myself. Then she helped me see that I feel like I do not
deserve the life I have because.... drum roll.... I am not perfect. It is that
perfectionism that gets me. I am so "in it" right now that I am not in touch
with what to do. Can you please help?
Answer
Perfectionism is an interesting animal. It makes for incredible success,
beauty, skill and performance (look at Tiger Woods), but at the same time
can really be a joy-killer if misused. There is a big difference between
perfectionism that is driven by passion for a subject matter, and
perfectionism that is driven by criticism, judgment or loveless-ness.
Perfectionism is not necessarily a bad thing. (You can be sure that if youre
going in for brain surgery, youd rather have the brain surgeon who is a
perfectionist working on you, rather than the one who is not.) If you strive
to your best because it gives you great pleasure, then you can enjoy the
process of seeking the highest standards.

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However, when you beat yourself up, when you cant find the love in a
situation, then perfection becomes punishment. At this point you may want
to go deeper.
There are many ways to explore this. Many questions you can ask to know
more

When you are being self-critical, whose voice is that really?

You may discover that needing to be perfect takes up a lot of your


psychic energy. If so, what is the payoff in that? What do you get to
avoid? What is the cost of that? The whole perfectionism thing can
really be a smoke screen, a distraction mechanism that takes your
attention off of something deeper that is more difficult to face.

If I finally knew I was perfect right here and now then what would
become of my life? Then what would I focus on?

If I finally realized that I will never be perfect, how would I live my life
so that when Im old, I looked back on my life content and with no
regrets.

The above gives you lots of fuel for self-inquiry; a very important part of
expanding your consciousness to allow more and more good into your life.
Beyond that, here are a few affirmations to try on:

Im willing to learn to love myself exactly as I am.

Im willing to see the perfection in my human imperfection.

Im willing to see my perfection as an unconditionally loving parent


would.

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Source is whole, perfect love and I am one with the Source. I am


whole, perfect love!

P.S. By the way, remember: Our children learn to love themselves by the
example we provide of self-love. Learning to love yourself exactly as you are
is one of the greatest gifts you can give your children.

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Financial Freedom & Money

Question
Here is a question and a stumbling block with financial freedom. From The
Secret and Abraham-Hicks I've read that Im supposed to put forth my
intention, believe that it is already there and then behave as if I already have
it.
In regards to money, this seems highly risky business. If I just start
spending as if it is there and it doesn't come, I've created a huge financial
risk for myself and my family. I've always believed that I should spend
within my means and although I make a good living, I'm locked into being
fiscally responsible. Perhaps, therein lays the problem.
Can you offer suggestions and further clarification?
Answer
This is a great question and I'm glad you asked it. Theoretically, you are
correct. The way it works is that you should act as if, taking steps forward,
trusting that there will be ground beneath your feet, and the ground will
appear. At first, when you are expanding your consciousness and developing
your understanding of these principles, it will always feel risky. However, as
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that is not blind, but is steeped in deep understanding.


It is absolutely possible to walk forward with nothing concrete in hand,
maintaining a vibration of abundance and trust, and the Universe will
provide. Some people are able to take huge leaps, not only in action, but in
consciousness. Others need to work their way up the vibrational ladder
steadily. My suggestion is to act in faith, stretching a bit beyond your comfort
zone. But act from wisdom. If your inner guidance tells you that your
consciousness is not at a place to act in total trust, heed that. If you leap out
further than your consciousness is ready for, then, if things do not
materialize as you would wish, your energy might contract in fear. Once the
fear snowball gets rolling it takes more effort to let go and trust. It is
completely doable, but may be unnecessarily stressful.
In order to take big leaps and big risks you must be at a place of total trust
and non-attachment. If you're not there yet, take smaller risks that will allow
you to develop these consciousness muscles. Only you can know how much
"adventure" you can take. You must be willing to risk, no question about
that. But you get to decide how fast you move. When you leap off of the cliff,
the stress level can be high for some. For others, it is easy to move into
trust, because they know they have no choice.
Listen to your intuition. It will guide you!

Question
What comes first, the behavior that money is there or the arrival of the
money?

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Answer
The thoughts, emotions and actions (i.e. behavior) that the money is there
comes first.
You must first radiate the vibration of I have money. I am prosperous.
before the money will appear. This is why the following behaviors are so
powerful:

Expressing gratitude no matter what your financial situation.

Consistently focusing on what you do have versus focusing on lack.

Tithing or donating on a regular basis. (This is the vibration of having


more than enough.)

Now it is important to understand that the actions must be accompanied by


the correct consciousness. If you give out of obligation, then your vibration is
not one of abundance. If you give thanks for what you have now, but swiftly
move into fear about the future, you are putting out a mixed vibration.
This being said, when you engage in any behavior around money, always
check in to see where your consciousness is. For example, it is possible to
use credit cards from a vibration of abundance, trust and prosperity and
attract more prosperity. Conversely, it is possible to focus on your debt and
lack and attract only more of that. It is also possible to live within your
means and manifest greater abundance or feel limited and tight financially,
attracting more limitation.
Prosperity is certainly a hot topic for many people. I've studied it intensely
for the last seven years. Just as an FYI, in the future I will be offering a
prosperity e-class so as to go more in-depth into these very questions. For
those who'd like more insight right now, a few resources I highly recommend
include:

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The Abundance Book, by John Randolph Price (includes the 40 day


prosperity program).

Carole Dor's Emergency Handbook for Getting Money Fast and the
Intensified Prosperity Workshop Audio Package.
(www.caroledore.com)

Question (Lesson 1)
How can I connect with the feeling of prosperity when Im the one paying
the bills and looking at our debt on a regular basis?
Answer
Heres the thing with money. Like body issues, money can be one of the
more challenging topics, especially if you are the one paying the bills. This is
because you need to focus on the freedom of prosperity, but when you are
looking at bills or debts, your consciousness is brought right back to the
experience of not enough-ness. A few things to do include: get a blank
checkbook register and list a bunch of deposits and the balance you wish to
see. Or white-out a bank statement and put the numbers in there you wish
to see. Look at these regularly, pretend with feeling, and celebrate!
Also, know this: If you want to experience prosperity, you must open up to
Source giving you money through infinite channels. When we think that
money must come from this pay check, or that person who owes me, or that
alimony check, we create resistance. If you make prosperity contingent
upon your business being successful, then you are limiting all the ways the
Universe can offer you prosperity.

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Additional Comments on Money


It has come to my attention that some people are still stuck on declaring
their goal. And I'd like to inject an important metaphysical concept that I
think can help.
The first step in the Mystic's Formula

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is to identify what you want. However,

many of us can't even do that because of fears and limiting beliefs. We get
so caught up in the question, "How will I do this?" that we kill the want
before it sees the light of day.
Know this: You do not have to have a clue about how to make your dream
come true! All you need to know is what you want. Wherever you are on this
journey, decide right now that you are going to let go of how your goal will
happen. Focus only on what your goal is. This is your job. The Universe's job
is to line up the details.
So, for those of you working on prosperity, and I know there are quite a few
out there, notice each time you have a thought about how money is
supposed to come to you.

I have to earn it.

It must come from my paycheck.

It must come from child support.

I can't get into debt.

I have to make a plan.

Release judgment about where or how the money comes.


With the old-fashioned motivational approach to success you have to have a
plan and execute it. With metaphysics you need only know your end result,

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become a vibrational match to it, and follow the leads the Universe sends
your way.

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Manifesting Dream Job or Life Purpose

Question (Lesson 2)
Regarding the Mental Purge exercise, I am having trouble identifying a
positive truth to be used as an antidote to my items on the list. Since the list
consists of "negative" reasons that are true to me, I can't find a positive
truth. It would be easier to write the opposite, but this is not what you are
asking. Below are some of the items from my list that Im struggling with:
Reasons I Don't Have my Dream of Finding and Having my Ideal Work /
Purpose in the Field of Healing and Service to Human Kind:
1.

I don't know what it is exactly

2.

I don't have an education for it

3.

I'm not ready yet

4.

I don't have any experience

5.

Nobody will trust me

6.

I can't be successful

7.

I'm not that powerful

8.

I'm still waiting for direction

9.

I'm small

10.

I don't know where to start

11.

Great success is not for me

Do you have any suggestions?

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Answer
Yes! In addition to identifying some positive truths, here are some things to
consider and some actions steps that will directly address your limiting
beliefs.
The most important thing is to put yourself on the path. If you are not at a
place to identify, create or find your dream job/work now, then simply start
moving in that direction. There are many in-between steps you can take that
will lead you to your ultimate dream.
THINGS TO CONSIDER AND POSSIBLE ACTION STEPS TO TAKE:

Make a list of establishments/organizations that interest you,


even if you have no idea how you would connect with them. Here are
some ideas just to start that may be healing/service oriented: healing
centers, spas, service organizations (like the Red Cross, United Way,
Make A Wish Foundation), churches, hospitals, etc. Go through the
phone directory and mark the ones that strike your curiosity.

Look for work that matches your current skill set in an


environment you like (a healing center/spa/service organization).
You'll be exposed to the energy and people you want to work with.
One thing always leads to another. The Universe will support you.

Find a transitional job while you take classes or volunteer. You


will build relationships with people who will teach, help, guide and
support you.

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You may be able to find work in an educational institution


where the institution pays for some education (i.e. schools for
naturopathic medicine, colleges with east/west training, etc.)

RE: THE MENTAL PURGE EXERCISE


Here are some "potential positive truths" (PPT) for you to consider and
questions that will help you to gain more clarity.
Reasons I don't have my dream of finding and having my ideal work/purpose
in the field of healing and service to human kind:
1. I don't know what it is exactly.
Find a role model then create positive truths.
PPT

Jane Doe had no idea what she was going to do when she changed
careers and look at her now!

If its possible for her, its possible for me.

I'm willing to find out.

2. I don't have an education for it.


PPT

I am willing to discover ways to start doing what I love right now.

3. I'm not ready yet.


PPT

I am willing to discover ways to start doing what I love right now.

I am open to receiving money through infinite channels.

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4. I don't have any experience.


PPT

I could start volunteering right now to begin gaining experience.

5. Nobody will trust me.


Do you have people who trust you in your life now? Build an affirmation
around that.
PPT

Lots of people trust me in my personal life.

I'm ready to have that trust expand into my professional life.

6. I can't be successful.
Go deeper with this. What is the fear? What is the belief that has you say
this?
7. I'm not that powerful.
What successes have you already experienced in your life? You were
powerful enough to create those
PPT

If I was powerful enough to create x, I'm powerful enough to create y.

If I can create x, I can create Y.

8. I'm still waiting for direction.

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PPT

I'm taking this class. I guess I'm not waiting anymore.

9. I'm small.
PPT

I must not be so small if I'm willing to dream this big.

I must not be so small if I'm willing to share my dreams with 33


strangers online!

10.

I don't know where to start.


PPT

11.

Sonia's going to tell me where to start! : )


Great success is not for me.
Who said? Really, I'd like you to go deeper here and find out whose
voice this is. It is not yours. These kinds of statements usually come
from a parent, a teacher, an important person in our lives or a defining
moment of difficulty. When you identify the source of this statement,
you'll be able to change it.

Question (Lesson 2)
Ive done pretty well with the Mental Purge exercise. I was able to come up
with a thorough list of Reasons I don't have my dream of a successful, fun,
creative, healing career. However, Im struggling with finding some of the
positive truths. Can you help with this?

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Answer
Good job on the positive truths. Ive made some suggestions for the ones
you struggled with. Ive suggested potential positive truths (PPT) below.
See how they feel.
Reasons I don't have my dream of a successful, fun, creative, healing career.
1.

I'm afraid of success.


With this one it is always good to go deeper because it is not
necessarily success that we fear, but what we think will happen when
we are successful (i.e. I'll never get to be irresponsible again. I'll
never get to rest. I'll have to be perfect. I don't get to be human and
make mistakes if I'm successful and everyone is watching. People will
want things from me. I'll lose my freedom...)
Go deeper and see what you're really afraid of and/or what you really
believe success will do to you and/or your life. Then work on the
positive truth.

2.

I don't deserve to be happy and successful.


PPT

I'm willing to discover my self-worth.

I'm willing to learn to love myself.

I'm willing to heal.

I'm willing to discover my wholeness.

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Family Relationships: Manifesting


Cooperation & Harmony

Question
What I really need is to give and receive support and cooperation from my
family right now. At home with my children, I yearn to have music practice
and homework go smoothly. I want my children to not complain, to pick up
their dirty laundry, to help out more. I wish for my husband to be home
more nights with me/us (he travels for work pretty much four days a week).
And I wish to have my parents support my decisions without micro-managing
everything I do. We live on the same property, and it is wonderful yet
difficult to live so close and work with them too.
Answer
When it comes to relationships, all of our power lies in our relationship with
ourselves. Everything begins and ends there. As much as we might wish the
people around us to be different, the only power we have is in changing
ourselves how we see things and how we react/respond to others. In the
words of Wayne Dyer, When you change the way you look at things, the
things you look at change.

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From a metaphysical stand point, one of the clearest teachings Ive heard on
the subject comes from Abraham-Hicks (www.abraham-hicks.com). They
teach over and over again that true power and freedom comes from tapping
into your source of well-being and discovering how to have your well-being
not be contingent upon anyone or anything else other peoples moods,
personalities, schedules, behavior, etc.
This offers us the opportunity to move toward a huge paradigm shift. Most
of us think that we have to change outer circumstances in order to feel good.
But the truth is that you must learn to feel good first then and only then
can outer circumstances change. And if they dont, it doesnt matter,
because you feel good. But they must change because what youre putting
out into the Universe is more and more positive energy.
The place to begin with this goal is you. Try affirmations like:

I intend to feel good under all conditions.

I intend to feel good with my kids under all conditions.

I intend to feel good in my marriage and with the time I have with my
husband under all conditions.

I intend to feel good no matter what my parents do or dont do.

Keep looking for ways to tap into your well being. Make this your #1
priority, and as you do, and you begin to raise your vibration, you will begin
to attract the insights, support, and know-how to make any changes
necessary to manage your relationships with hubby, kids, home management
and parents with greater ease and grace.
P.S. I know your goal personally! I have worked at creating harmony on our
farm with some challenging relationships in the last 5 years. (And Im
talking challenging!!!) When I finally let go of wishing certain people would
change and focused on feeling good under all conditions with discipline,

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things started to shift. Today, several years later, Im experiencing nothing


less than sheer miracles. These people really have changed. But it would
never have happened if I was not willing to change first. I had to surrender
to the idea that they did not have the problem. I did. I had to let go of
being right about them. I had to be willing to accept them. I had to be
willing to find the source of my peace and freedom if they never changed.
When you finally let go, it opens the door for the Universe to work miracles.

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Resistance & Other Obstacles

Question (Lesson 3)
I am feeling a little overwhelmed with all of the reading that Ive missed from
the other online class members and all the school work that I need to grade,
(my students' papers, that is!). I'm planning on getting caught up by the
weekend. In the meantime, one of my mantras is "What I want, I deserve!"
and my affirmation is, "I am one with the relationship of my dreams. I
release resistance and remain open to infinite blessings.
Answer
Great affirmations. Here is one of my favorite affirmations for when Im
overwhelmed. I discovered it when I had twins and use it often. (This is also
because I tend to be a perfectionist, so its good for those who have this
affliction. )
I do what I can and that is truly enough.

Question (Lesson 2)
After I wrote all the reasons why I don't have my dream, I got depressed. I
couldn't think of any positive things to counter balance the negatives. But I
realized my block comes from this empty space Ive felt inside my whole life.

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I get tears in my eyes just writing the words. I don't know how to release
something I can't remember. How do I change it for good things?? Its like
I'm missing a foundation. I built this house, but there is nothing for it to
stand on. Deep inside me there is this empty spot. I try to give it to Light,
God, Spirit... someone please take it.... but it doesn't really go. Anyone
have any ideas. I need to get to Lesson 3...
Answer
If you feel that Lesson 2 is where you need to be, then it is where you need
to be. Just because you decided earlier to proceed with the lessons at a
weekly pace, it doesn't mean that your consciousness is ready to expand at
that rate. Honor your process.
When you make your declaration to the Universe, you are guided toward
your next step. Sometimes your next step does not feel good. Often times, if
there is healing that needs to be done, obstacles that need to be cleared, or
limiting beliefs that need to be dismantled - whatever the issues are - they
will come to the surface to be transformed and released. The Universe is
helping you to become the you that you are within your goal or dream.
To share a personal example back in the year 2000, I declared to the
Universe that I wanted Chris and I to be financially free. I set goals for 2005
and 2010. I was very inspired and clear about this intention. Well! No
sooner had I made the declaration when it seemed that everything fell apart!
I had stopped working full-time to raise two babies. Chris' business was
going through times of challenge. We had just bought a new house. The
money was not flowing! I was faced with my greatest fear. We were paying
groceries and the mortgage with a credit card. I never felt more vulnerable.
And yet, I discovered (in retrospect) that this was exactly perfect.

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I had to have all of my fearful scarcity thinking come to the surface so that I
could heal my survival issues and develop a deeper, stronger relationship
with Source Energy. I learned that Source was my only source.
When you set your intention, sometimes the Universe sends you "happy"
leads to follow. Other times the Universe sends you "challenging" leads. But
know that the power of intention is all it takes to set things in motion. Keep
taking the next step for you. Trust the process. Youll know when it is time to
move on to Lesson 3.
More on Resistance & Other Obstacles
Regarding that empty space inside and wanting to heal things of which you
have no memory, I think your experience provides a good opportunity to
address an issue that occurs for many who seek to use the Law of Attraction
in their lives.
The Law of Attraction is about intentionally directing your consciousness
toward what you want. What we put out to the Universe we get back.
However, there is much that we put out into the Universe that is
unconscious. There are many things we can do to bring the unconscious to
the conscious level (i.e. exercises, journaling, willingness affirmations, etc.).
Yet, there are many times that we need help. If/when you feel very blocked
about a certain area of life, it is time to seek out a teacher, counselor or
healer. There a many wonderful modalities, traditional and alternative, that
can help bring to light and heal that which is unconscious.
I use both traditional an alternative methods in my counseling practice. And
as many of you know, Im a big believer in energy work. Energy work can be
very effective at getting to the root of our greatest challenges, which
sometimes can not be reached through talk therapy. So this may be

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something to consider if you continue to feel stuck regarding healing that


empty space you spoke of.
Beyond that, here is a suggestion as you continue to work through this on
your own. What I hear in your post is that you want the empty space to be
taken away. The common human, knee-jerk reaction to all pain and
discomfort is to push it away, or make it go away. However, what you resist
persists. The healing opportunity comes from accepting it, embracing it
and/or going into it.
You said, How do I release something I can't remember? How do I change
it for good things? The idea that you must remember something to release
it is a limiting belief. And as for change, all you need to change is the empty
space. You dont need to know what or why the empty space is about.
Rather than getting rid of it by giving it to Light, Spirit, God, create some
affirmations around embracing it.

I now allow Gods love and light to fill me completely.

I now allow Source to illuminate my emptiness with wisdom and


peace.

Im willing to know wholeness.

So much of harnessing the power of metaphysics is about recognizing and


releasing resistance. You have been resisting your empty space. As you
release resistance and embrace the empty space with love, it can transform.

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Raising Your Vibration

Question (Lesson 4)
Here is my feel good, cuddly list. What do you think of it?

Seeing my new kittens play with one another

Holding my soft and cuddly kittens

Noticing that the kitten has stopped hissing when he sees me

Receiving a compliment

Helping someone

Spending time with a friend

Talking to my sister

Seeing the new grass that I planted grow

Smelling my roses

Remembering my mother's hugs

Cooking a delicious dinner

Talking with Jenny

Laughing with my sister

Saturday morning

Sunday morning

Friday night

When someone takes a risk to be vulnerable with me and we connect

Watching parents play with their kids

Being at the ocean

Still getting my period

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Going out to eat with friends

Being taken out on a date

Being called an angel

Filling in for my boss

Driving around the wine country

Being treated kindly

Treating others kindly

The scenery during my drive to work in the morning

Having clean clothes

The satisfaction of cleaning off my counters

Having a man flirt with me

Seeing my boss sincerely smile

Relating to my brother

Connecting with any of my family

Watching the ocean

Taking a walk

Sitting in the hot tub at the gym

Being around people at the gym in the hot tub

Taking swim classes

Listening to my goofy swim instructor

When people at work ask me for help and I can do what they need

Receiving help from others

Being invited to anything with friends

Having my car clean

Holding a little baby

Listening to little kids talk

Connecting to my young nephews

Relaxing with girlfriends

Watching movies with Mary

Funny jokes

Listening to my co-workers talk

Finishing a project at work

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Good coffee

Eating yummy food

Looking good

Wearing comfortable clothes

Getting a pedicure

Receiving a massage

Cuddling

Receiving letters from my aunt

Having more money than I need

That my car is so reliable and dependable

When it rains and I have the day off

Cool breezes

Peace and quiet in my home

My hairdresser's sense of humor

Having a clean house

Having visitors

Spending the night with girlfriends

Companionship

Watching dogs on the beach

Seeing whales and dolphins

A good book

Intimacy in my relationships

Forgiveness

The peace in meditation

A visit to the chiropractor

Open space

Green hills

The shade of a tree

The coolness of grass

Ice cold water

Ice cream

Chocolate

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Watching kids eat ice cream cones

Being caressed by a man I love and trust

Being able to cry with a woman I love and trust

Being not afraid of someone else's fear - fearless

The feel of a nice rug under my feet

Comfortable footwear

Time off from work

Seeing people I haven't seen in a long time

Receiving gifts

Answer
Fabulous list! Very inspiring. Your list reminded me of another tool that Id
like to offer you. I saw that your list was a beautiful blend of things you
have control over (i.e. things that you can initiate or do yourself) and things
that simply bless your life (that someone else does for you).
When we seek to keep our vibration high, sometimes we need to take the
initiative and put our attention on things we have the power to do ourselves.
For example, if you were feeling low, you couldnt make a guy flirt with you
to raise your vibration. You might however, think about a time that a guy
flirted with you and how that made you smile. Or you might very
intentionally stop what youre doing and go play with your kittens.
However, your list reminds us that the Universe is always sending us
opportunities to raise our vibration, if we just notice

Receiving a compliment

Being treated kindly

Receiving help

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If you want to consistently keep your vibration high, notice the blessings
when they come and give thanks! Milk the high vibrational opportunity for
all it is worth!
P.S. Ive been doing this a lot with creating ease in my life. Every time
something happens that was easy, I say out loud Wow! That was easy!
Thank you Universe. Im allowing more and more ease all the time! (A
much better way to live life, Id say!)

Question (Lesson 1)
Regarding Lesson 1, I can't figure out if I should focus on marriage goals or
financial goals. Right now both seem equally important. I've actually written
three different intentions (marriage, financial abundance, family).
Key points for my three intentions are:

Marriage - committed, solid, fun, loving, trusting, respectful

Financial abundance which flows generously into our home through


infinite resources (I tend to get stuck on the how)

Family healthy, happy, fun, loving, easy parenting, open


communication, respectful, peaceful

That's were I sit at the moment. I have ordered the Abraham-Hicks CDs (a
positive action for me) and realized while writing to a friend that one of my
belief systems is, Everything you get you have to earn and it's not easy, it
comes by hard work. Please feel free to give me a new statement to
refocus my energy. Letting go of the how seems to be the biggest challenge
for me. This probably ties into my trust issues.

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Answer
Sounds like you've got some great clarity, both regarding your intentions and
some limiting beliefs. The Abraham-Hicks CDs are always a great way to
support your expansion process and an instantaneous way to raise your
vibration.
The only reason I have people focus on one intention rather than all of their
intentions is that it is an easier way to learn and practice the metaphysical
principles. It is true that as you raise your vibration in relationship to one
area of life, all areas will benefit. This is because when you raise your
vibration, you raise your vibration period. As more Source Energy flows
through you, you are letting more magnetic energy through all of the desires
you hold within your energy field.
The limiting belief about earning and hard work is a common one. Keep
finding ways to affirm ease and grace. The more recent Abraham-Hicks
recordings talk about paddling up stream vs. stopping the struggle to let your
boat turn around and easily carry you down stream. Abraham says,
"Everything you want is down stream. Nothing you want is upstream."
Im willing to allow ease and grace in all areas of my life!

Question (Lesson 3)
Regarding Lesson 3, on my list of things I am waiting to do would be travel
to far off places like Africa, New Zealand, Australia, Israel, etc.? In the
Lesson 3 assignment does (b) mean that "I am right now on a safari in Africa
with my soul mate"? Another item on my list is around not working full-time.
Does (b) then mean that "I am filling my days with all the things I would
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my man. So does that mean that I am right now walking my dog with my
husband? (By the way that is the one I picked. I have not done it every day,
but I've done it more.)
Answer
You can focus on as many topics as you like. As long as you are raising your
vibration in your life, all of your life benefits. The only reason Ive asked
everyone to pick one intention is for learning purposes. It can be
overwhelming to have your attention dispersed in different directions. But
the truth is that Source knows what you want all of it. And as you allow
more Source Energy to flow through you, the energy flows through all of the
desires you hold within.
As for part (a) and part (b) of the Lesson 3 assignment, the reason for this
exercise is to help you activate the vibration of having in your life. When you
radiate the energy of having you attract more having. It is simply another
way to catch the feeling of the wish fulfilled. There is really no difference
between (a) and (b). They are simply different ways of helping you bridge
your reality now to your perceived reality when your dream is realized.
Here's a sample answer for a woman who intends to lose weight and feel
beautiful:
a) I am waiting to do the following until I lose weight:

Buy new clothes

Make eye contact and smile with men

Walk down the street feeling confident

b) If I were already thin and feeling beautiful I would currently be doing the
following:

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Looking for a new job

Going out dancing

Getting facials every month

By asking the question in slightly different ways, the woman becomes more
aware of how she is holding a separation consciousness by choosing to do
today what she is putting off until She begins to act as if she has already
manifested her dream and cultivates the consciousness of oneness.
As for your answers to the homework assignment, it sounds like you might
be using your answers as opportunities for visualization. This is great.
Additionally, the opportunity with the exercise is to act as if. So, pick things
that you can do right now with or without your soul mate. Take those daily
walks with your dog. Pick at least one thing you would be doing (that you are
not now) if you were working part-time. Can you start planning a trip to a far
off place now? Do you have to wait until Prince Charming comes? This
exercise is not just about visualization. It is about doing and being the
woman you envision being in the relationship of your dreams.

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Success Stories

Clearing Eczema with Visualization


I wanted everyone to know, that I have healed the eczema on my hands.
This has been a condition that has been getting ever worse since the birth of
our first son (9 years ago). I have been dependant on heavy cortisone
creams to relieve the itching and suppress the ugly water blisters, etc. (I will
save you all from the details.) I tried everything from the traditional
dermatologist to my wonderful acupuncturist and Chinese medicine.
When this class started I thought, What can this hurt? Every morning when
I go walking, when I drive, and when I fall asleep, I have been visualizing
how wonderful it is to have these beautiful healed hands, and how everyone
in my family compliments me on them. I threw away my prescription
cortisone cream a couple of weeks ago, and even started wearing extra
rings. I did all this before my hands were healed. And now they are! It is
awesome.
Applying the Law of Attraction to Business
Well I have had some trouble myself but I feel I have worked one thing out.
I am no longer working on a weekly dollar goal for my business. Some place
down the line I forgot why I do the work I do. So my new affirmation is, "I
am one with Source. I have an unlimited number of clients to help. This

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way the people I can best help will come. For some reason this shift in
thinking has put me in a much happier mind set and I'm no longer focused
on the almighty dollar. Oh, and it works too... business has picked up!

Allowing the Job You Desire


After spending ten hours grading yesterday (which is not high on my "raising
my vibration" list) I now have space open to create. I have been practicing
the exercise of allowing and I got the job I wanted for next year, teaching
3rd grade!

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More Success Stories


"I began working with Sonia 1 - 1/2 years ago, and within the
first 6 months I was able to attract enough money to take 8
months off of work and travel around the world. With her
guidance and encouragement, I left my day job behind and I am
now working on the project of my dreams - a documentary film
about a group of mothers, each grieving the loss of a child, who
travel to South Africa to volunteer with impoverished children. My
relationships have never been better, and every day my life becomes a
clearer reflection of who I really am and who I want to be. Sonia is a truly
gifted, intuitive spiritual coach.
Jennifer Steinman
www.jenfilm.com
www.motherland-thefilm.org

I just wanted you to know how grateful and happy I am to


have stumbled upon and taken your class. It has helped me be
aware of all the GOOD in my life, and helped me to actually
bring it into and allow it into my life. That is huge! I am much
more at peace with who I am, and have adopted your phrase of
I do what I can, and that is truly enough. I have learned to
give up my seat in the control tower. (Sometimes I think its been more of an
adjustment for others in my life!) This alone has helped me to see what other
possibilities lay out there.
Tara McKnight
Wife, mother, sister, daughter, friend
Second generation St Josefs Winery
www.stjosefswinery.com

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"After pretty much sabotaging yet another relationship with a


great man, I went to Sonia for her unique brand of wisdom. I
began a powerful journey, healing emotional and childhood
wounds that had manifested into female health problems. I
really came to understand the body-mind connection. The more
I healed, the more I let go of control (or vice versa)! The gift of my work
with Sonia is that it has allowed me to have an incredibly loving and
emotionally healthy relationship with the same great man! Lucky for me, he
never left! It also, has given me the tools to attract greatness and abundance
into my life!"
Martha Sanchez
Mother and Nursing Student

"As my coach and energy healer, Sonia has always been the
voice of, Anything you want is possible! By the time I had
reached my 50s I had two divorces behind me and had left a
career in corporate America which clearly did not realize my
purpose. I also found myself recovering from a stroke that
had shattered my sense of well-being. Sonias powerful and
clear guidance encouraged me to keep reaching for my dreams. Today, I feel
stronger and healthier than I have in a long time, am happily married to my
soul mate, and have a fulfilling career being of service to women. It doesnt
get much better than this!
MaryAnn Parrish
Director
www.familyofwomen.info

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