The way of the superior man

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Stop hoping for a completion of anything in life

Every moment waited is a moment wasted, and each wate moment degrades yours clar
ity of purpose.
Live with an open heart even if it hurts
Know your real edge and don't fake it
Always hold to your deepest realisation
Live into your depth
Never change your mind just to please a woman
Lean just beyond your edge
Your fear is the sharpest definition of your self. Fear needs to become your fri
end so that you are no longer uncomfortable with it. Own your fear, and lean jus
t beyond it, in every aspect of your life.
Enjoy your friends' criticisms
Find your purpose - make your talents gifts to the world
Don't get lost in tasks and duties
Raise yours eyes, see to the horizon
Stop hoping for your woman to get easier
She cannot move you because you already are what you are with or without her.
A woman's word is her true expression in the moment.
Praise your woman freely
It's always better to focus on the half full part
Tolerating her leads to resenting her
A superior man sees his woman's moods not as a curse, but as a challenge and an
amusement.
Don't analyze your woman
90% of women's problems are that they feel unloved
If you try to fix her problems it will make it worse
On of the deepest feminine desires in intimacy is to be able to surrender and re
lax.
Stand unshaken by the chaos
Don't force the feminine to make decision
Let yourself be attracted to women, feel the vibrations, learn to magnify and su
stain your desire, receive her vision as a blessing

Embrace her whole feminine power, dark and light.

Sexual passion involves a clear polarity between your masculine core and your wo
man's feminine energy.
Stop wanting everything from her(as in reason or discipline or trustworth)
Remember your priority and decide what you want to do.
Chose a woman who chooses you, but first determine whether she plays hard to get
What she wants is not what she says
She will test you to see if you're strong enough to bypass her wish and do what'
s right
Her complaint is content free
She doesn't really want to be number one priority
Your excellent track record (in the relationship) is meaningless to her
She wants to relax in the demonstration of your direction
You are always searching for freedom
A woman is turned on by your capacity to "kill"
Receive the feminine energy from everywhere around you, feel its rejuvenating to
uch upon you
The purpose of sexual desire is creation. Feel the creativity, the art of enjoyi
ng a fine woman
Never allow your desire to become suppresed or depolarized
43 Use her attractiveness as a sligshot through appearance
Ejaculation should be converted or consciously chosen
Breathe down the front
Breathe through your whole body, remove all blocks
Pay particular attention when u do this randomly during the day what parts are t
ightened
DO that to others, see if it works see if u can untense them
Pervade through women with your breath
46 Ejaculate up your spine
Instead of tensing ur muscles as you become sexually stimulated learn to relax t
hem
When you notice your breething getting faster and shallow, show it down and deep
en it
When you notice your belly tight and your chest hard, open your belly and soften
the area around your heart
Then learn to feel your partner more than your sensations during sex; feel throu
gh your partner as if your partner was a doorway into a vast open space of energ
y, light and awareness
Generally, during the day, your inhales should feel like they are drawing energy
down the front of your body, filling your belly and genital region, up from you
r pelvic region, up you spine into your head

Exercise contracting the regio between the anus and the genitals
Intimacy is the primary arbiter in a woman's life and a secondary purpose for me
n
A woman can be your most thorough judge
You are responsible for the growth in intimacy, for its direction; the woman is
responsible with its energy
Woman get lost in their moods, you are their wake up call
A superior man slices through the bullshit and demands authenticity and humor, g
rowth and practice in the intimacy
"You could meditate until you're blue in the face, but it won't work, if, when i
t conies down to it, you'd rather masturbate, read the newspaper, or watch TV th
an cut through your addictions, discipline your daily life, and give your gift f
rom your deepest, most blissful source. The quality of your intent and the consi
stency and depth of your application determine the results of your direction in
gifting - as well as your capacity to guide your woman's life into greater happi
ness and bodily surrender into love"
Restore your purpose in solitude and with other men