I absolutely love being a hotwife.

One of the best parts for me is driving my hu

sband insane with lust for me by giving him just the right blend of teasing and
reassurance. Not only do I get the freedom and variety of choosing my own sexual
partners, but I also get a husband who burns with desire for me. For the purpos
e of this entry I m going to use the term hotwife for any wife with permission to
play, cuckoldress for a hotwife who emphasizes her dominance in the sexual relat
ionship, huband for the hotwife s primary partner (could easily be a fiance or boy
friend), and lover for the other sex partner who s not the husband.
Here are some techniques I regularly use that I ve found hotwives and cuckoldresse
s can use to make their encounters extra fun for their husbands and for themselv
es.
When Husband is Watching You with Another Man
Eye Contact* - Nothing will arouse and tease your husband like strong eye contac
t with him. Eye contact says, Look at me! and makes it impossible for either of yo
u to ignore or trivialize what s going on. Eye contact can be gentle or fierce, de
pending on your style and the message you re trying to send. I prefer to lock eyes
for a long time, then wink or smile right before I look away. I like to lock ey
es with my husband while I m blowing my lover.
Smile* - Smiling is both a tease and a reassurance. It says both, Look how much f
un I m having! and Everything is OK. I love to smile at him when I m riding my lover co
wgirl-style.
Say Something* - You don t have to jabber away, but it s fun to say things now and t
hen. I love dirty talk with my lover while my husband s watching. I also like to i
nteract with him, asking, How are you liking the show? or Don t you wish you were doi
ng this? I also encourage my lover to talk about how good everything feels and ho
w much fun he s having. Moaning, screaming, crying, laughing, giggling, etc. are a
ll great things to do, too. It s also cute to call you husband by terms of endearm
ent like honey, baby, etc. when you re being fucked by another man.
Dress Up* - High heel shoes, lingerie, nicely done nails, and perfume all say, I m
putting effort into looking fucking hot for my lover! You husband will be aroused
by your appearance and jealous of the effort to look good for another guy.
When Husband is Listening from Another Room
Go Nuts* - Scream, cry, moan, laugh, beg, talk dirty, giggle, and slurp. Encoura
ge your lover to slap your butt. These sounds will float through the closed door
and to your husband s ears, driving him wild with desire and jealousy.
Emerge, then Vanish* - Take a break from fucking. Go out into the room where you
r husband is: hair a mess, makeup smeared. Have a glass of water. Say hi to your
husband. Then, go back to the bedroom. Close the door. Lock it.
Make a Movie* - Film your bedroom romp. Hook the camera in your room to the TV i
n the room where he s sitting so he can watch live feed! He ll be scratching at the
door in no time.
When Husband is Not Around
Call Him* - It s fun to call him and put the phone on speaker phone while you re get
ting railed. Then, husband can listen! Even more fun (for you cuckoldresses) is
let your other guy call from his phone instead. It s more humiliating.
Texts* - Like above, but text dirty things. What you re doing, feeling, etc. Have
your other guy send husband dirty pics of what you re doing.
Get Caught* - I love having my husband walk in on me when he s not expecting anyth
ing. Just make sure that you know he d be OK with this, and that your lover is als
o OK with this. Some people don t like surprises.
Leave Evidence* - Your lingerie lying around the bed, sex toys on the nightstand
, or a condom in the garbage all remind your husband of what you were doing in h
is absence.
Make a Movie (pt. 2)* - Film your bedroom romp and leave the recording on the ni
ghtstand for him.