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by LJ Vanier
If you talked to your friends the way you talked to yourself sometimes, you wouldnt
have many.
Every relationship we have, can be viewed as a reflection of the relationship we have
with ourselves and setting the tone for the right relationships, lies heavily upon us. By
trusting ourselves, listening to our own thoughts, feelings and emotions, we become
more authentic and this gives us the wonderful opportunity to become comfortable in
our own skin. Yet, when we are not comfortable with who we are, we project onto
others, what we cannot accept of ourselves.
Remember that each time you lash out against someone, whether it is behind their back
or to their face, you are meeting an aspect of your own shadow. So turn those words
back around, because what you just said, is exactly what you need to heal, accept and
alchemize within you. Tongue lashing someone with crude remarks is a sure sign that
youre not comfortable in your own skin; youre too hard on yourself and you lack selfacceptance. When we judge others, not only are we bringing forward an aspect of
ourselves, we are unknowingly hurting someone else, based on ourown perception of
the world in how we see others.
8. YOURE ANGRY.
Anger is a sign that something needs to change Mark Epstein
What is anger? where does it come from? and why does it have the ability to boil our
blood so much!
A face of the ego, anger can come knocking for a variety of reasons. Anger is a sign that
you arent satisfied with your current situation, whether it be emotionally or
psychologically. To be plain, your basic needs are not being met and your ego I is
letting you know loud and clear that you need to serve yourself a little better.
keeping us from dealing directly with what is at hand. And the greatest tragedy of the
matter, is that when we chose to forget the bad, we also forgot the good.
knowing from your emotions and once you have, trust yourself. Trust your instincts and
trust in knowing that in life and in love, it always finds a way.